Flowers - when do you give them & what’s the reason?

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When I'm the delivery man and it's my shift.

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So never from you?

Yes.

I even hate the whole flower industry thing. No one needs that stuff and it's a waste of ressources.

Just buy them living plants.

ya know, i used to consider flowers a bourgeois indulgence but these days, i see why ppl enjoy them.

i’d rather pick flowers from a field then buy them from a store.
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Agreed. I think it’s sweet if it’s from the heart not expected. But I question the intent... hmmm first date is that weird or sweet or trying to make a good impression? If you did something wrong, are they apologizing or are you trying to win them over? Now when my 19 yo gives me flowers on Valentine’s Day it’s ❤️❤️ I got twice this week lol haven’t for years from a guy. So am like 🤔 why—? 😂
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I've never been a flower person. If you wanna be all romanticles with me, give me a cute little note or something, or bring me to do something fun and spontaneous 🥰

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Yep!!! 😁 I question it ever since my first husband would bring them home when he was in trouble but never just because.. I was young then so 🤷‍♀️ Take me motorcycle riding or hiking and exploring .. 😍 but it’s really sweet when it’s from the heart.
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When I'm the delivery man and it's my shift.

Aqua sun

Cap rxVenus

So never from you?

Yes.

I even hate the whole flower industry thing. No one needs that stuff and it's a waste of ressources.

Just buy them living plants.

Haha just like my ex. But do you? Buy them living plants?

No. Well outside of a couple of really arre cases, because I'm growing my own Aloe Vera plants.
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Thought so. It’s not about buying them from a store. You could pick some wildflowers. Thinking about someone else. But interesting same mindset as my ex.
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Sporadically and rarely on Valentine's.

Libra sun / scorp mars

My ex husband only gave me flowers on Valentine’s if they were on a living plant 😂 not a flowers type of guy.
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Was his placements ditto to my sun and mars.

I'm not a big fan of artificial love holidays and think my friends and mates deserve flowers when going through a rough patch or a significant milestone.
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Sporadically and rarely on Valentine's.

Libra sun / scorp mars

My ex husband only gave me flowers on Valentine’s if they were on a living plant 😂 not a flowers type of guy.

Was his placements ditto to my sun and mars.

I'm not a big fan of artificial love holidays and think my friends and mates deserve flowers when going through a rough patch or a significant milestone.
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Lol no he’s Aries sun/Aries mars. I think it’s rebellious nature more lol not wanting to do what someone says you should. I never did btw. It was about the so-called expectation of valentine’s day. But he wasn’t the type to give flowers period. First ex only when he was in trouble. Which is like really? That is not going to fix it! So a Pisces gave me flowers on a first date & a Cap is sending me flowers today at my work & im not sure the intent.. lol intent is important to me. I don’t want them unless it was done because you wanted to, desired to, not cuz you were expected to or cuz you are sorry. How about you change behavior for what you’re sorry for?
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Never. I hate flowers and think they are a waste. I’d rather give a tree or plant that can be repotted or replanted.

I also never think to apologize with a gift. I’d rather it be very straightforward with no distractions to make it be accepted in a better way. I want the other person to accept it because I’m saying it, and my intentions are true. Not because they like what I’m holding in my hand for them.

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Sporadically and rarely on Valentine's.

Libra sun / scorp mars

My ex husband only gave me flowers on Valentine’s if they were on a living plant 😂 not a flowers type of guy.

Was his placements ditto to my sun and mars.

I'm not a big fan of artificial love holidays and think my friends and mates deserve flowers when going through a rough patch or a significant milestone.

Lol no he’s Aries sun/Aries mars. I think it’s rebellious nature more lol not wanting to do what someone says you should. I never did btw. It was about the so-called expectation of valentine’s day. But he wasn’t the type to give flowers period. First ex only when he was in trouble. Which is like really? That is not going to fix it! So a Pisces gave me flowers on a first date & a Cap is sending me flowers today at my work & im not sure the intent.. lol intent is important to me. I don’t want them unless it was done because you wanted to, desired to, not cuz you were expected to or cuz you are sorry. How about you change behavior for what you’re sorry for?
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LMFAO about the first ex sending them when in trouble. Well I hope the Cap flowers are part of him recognizing his errors and growing better with you as a union. If the apology isn't up to your standards bust his balls and tell him to do better. He's a Cap so he may need a little wake up call here and there.
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Sporadically and rarely on Valentine's.

Libra sun / scorp mars

My ex husband only gave me flowers on Valentine’s if they were on a living plant 😂 not a flowers type of guy.

Was his placements ditto to my sun and mars.

I'm not a big fan of artificial love holidays and think my friends and mates deserve flowers when going through a rough patch or a significant milestone.

Lol no he’s Aries sun/Aries mars. I think it’s rebellious nature more lol not wanting to do what someone says you should. I never did btw. It was about the so-called expectation of valentine’s day. But he wasn’t the type to give flowers period. First ex only when he was in trouble. Which is like really? That is not going to fix it! So a Pisces gave me flowers on a first date & a Cap is sending me flowers today at my work & im not sure the intent.. lol intent is important to me. I don’t want them unless it was done because you wanted to, desired to, not cuz you were expected to or cuz you are sorry. How about you change behavior for what you’re sorry for?
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Send him an article on mercury retrograde and why it’s not a good time to get stuff started right now! 😝

I actually did this to a Virgo and he waited it out 😂😂😂😂 # FunTimes -We are still dating though, so who really won.

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Sporadically and rarely on Valentine's.

Libra sun / scorp mars

My ex husband only gave me flowers on Valentine’s if they were on a living plant 😂 not a flowers type of guy.

Was his placements ditto to my sun and mars.

I'm not a big fan of artificial love holidays and think my friends and mates deserve flowers when going through a rough patch or a significant milestone.

Lol no he’s Aries sun/Aries mars. I think it’s rebellious nature more lol not wanting to do what someone says you should. I never did btw. It was about the so-called expectation of valentine’s day. But he wasn’t the type to give flowers period. First ex only when he was in trouble. Which is like really? That is not going to fix it! So a Pisces gave me flowers on a first date & a Cap is sending me flowers today at my work & im not sure the intent.. lol intent is important to me. I don’t want them unless it was done because you wanted to, desired to, not cuz you were expected to or cuz you are sorry. How about you change behavior for what you’re sorry for?

Send him an article on mercury retrograde and why it’s not a good time to get stuff started right now! 😝

I actually did this to a Virgo and he waited it out 😂😂😂😂 # FunTimes -We are still dating though, so who really won.
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Sags can play the mental Virgs like a fiddle. You won that arrangement checkmate.
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I used to get flowers for people I was interested in spontaneously but that pretty much ended on a Valentines Day when I brought flowers to who I thought was my boyfriend only to be turned away at the door by his grandmother who he lived with. He was getting busy with his ex come to find out so it hasn’t been something I do since then. Just haven’t thought about it I guess after that. All the better though bc it’s better to know someone’s true self before getting too involved. I’d consider it again now if I had a love interest.

I do gift living plants more now to friends and customers. And one of my fav baby shower gifts ever was a little succulent and gemstone to remember them by!

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Sporadically and rarely on Valentine's.

Libra sun / scorp mars

My ex husband only gave me flowers on Valentine’s if they were on a living plant 😂 not a flowers type of guy.

Was his placements ditto to my sun and mars.

I'm not a big fan of artificial love holidays and think my friends and mates deserve flowers when going through a rough patch or a significant milestone.

Lol no he’s Aries sun/Aries mars. I think it’s rebellious nature more lol not wanting to do what someone says you should. I never did btw. It was about the so-called expectation of valentine’s day. But he wasn’t the type to give flowers period. First ex only when he was in trouble. Which is like really? That is not going to fix it! So a Pisces gave me flowers on a first date & a Cap is sending me flowers today at my work & im not sure the intent.. lol intent is important to me. I don’t want them unless it was done because you wanted to, desired to, not cuz you were expected to or cuz you are sorry. How about you change behavior for what you’re sorry for?

LMFAO about the first ex sending them when in trouble. Well I hope the Cap flowers are part of him recognizing his errors and growing better with you as a union. If the apology isn't up to your standards bust his balls and tell him to do better. He's a Cap so he may need a little wake up call here and there.
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I did. I removed myself from the situation & said I don’t want to date anymore. First he offered a romantic dinner then apologized half-ass like then asked to be friends. A week later I got a real apology, and he told me I was completely right & right to take myself out of the situation. I agreed to go to dinner tomorrow night like friends. And now he’s sending flowers.. friends? Lol He’s acting like he wants to start over actually..
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Sporadically and rarely on Valentine's.

Libra sun / scorp mars

My ex husband only gave me flowers on Valentine’s if they were on a living plant 😂 not a flowers type of guy.

Was his placements ditto to my sun and mars.

I'm not a big fan of artificial love holidays and think my friends and mates deserve flowers when going through a rough patch or a significant milestone.

Lol no he’s Aries sun/Aries mars. I think it’s rebellious nature more lol not wanting to do what someone says you should. I never did btw. It was about the so-called expectation of valentine’s day. But he wasn’t the type to give flowers period. First ex only when he was in trouble. Which is like really? That is not going to fix it! So a Pisces gave me flowers on a first date & a Cap is sending me flowers today at my work & im not sure the intent.. lol intent is important to me. I don’t want them unless it was done because you wanted to, desired to, not cuz you were expected to or cuz you are sorry. How about you change behavior for what you’re sorry for?

Send him an article on mercury retrograde and why it’s not a good time to get stuff started right now! 😝

I actually did this to a Virgo and he waited it out 😂😂😂😂 # FunTimes -We are still dating though, so who really won.
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We started dating early in February so b4 mercury retrograde and it’s all blown up so hmmm might be an idea. He did ask my sign on the first date lol
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Sporadically and rarely on Valentine's.

Libra sun / scorp mars

My ex husband only gave me flowers on Valentine’s if they were on a living plant 😂 not a flowers type of guy.

Was his placements ditto to my sun and mars.

I'm not a big fan of artificial love holidays and think my friends and mates deserve flowers when going through a rough patch or a significant milestone.

Lol no he’s Aries sun/Aries mars. I think it’s rebellious nature more lol not wanting to do what someone says you should. I never did btw. It was about the so-called expectation of valentine’s day. But he wasn’t the type to give flowers period. First ex only when he was in trouble. Which is like really? That is not going to fix it! So a Pisces gave me flowers on a first date & a Cap is sending me flowers today at my work & im not sure the intent.. lol intent is important to me. I don’t want them unless it was done because you wanted to, desired to, not cuz you were expected to or cuz you are sorry. How about you change behavior for what you’re sorry for?

Send him an article on mercury retrograde and why it’s not a good time to get stuff started right now! 😝

I actually did this to a Virgo and he waited it out 😂😂😂😂 # FunTimes -We are still dating though, so who really won.

We started dating early in February so b4 mercury retrograde and it’s all blown up so hmmm might be an idea. He did ask my sign on the first date lol
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Oh! This is someone new? Then don’t do that 😅 I did that to someone who kept coming back each retrograde. It was odd and I wanted to see if he was aware of it.
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Sporadically and rarely on Valentine's.

Libra sun / scorp mars

My ex husband only gave me flowers on Valentine’s if they were on a living plant 😂 not a flowers type of guy.

Was his placements ditto to my sun and mars.

I'm not a big fan of artificial love holidays and think my friends and mates deserve flowers when going through a rough patch or a significant milestone.

Lol no he’s Aries sun/Aries mars. I think it’s rebellious nature more lol not wanting to do what someone says you should. I never did btw. It was about the so-called expectation of valentine’s day. But he wasn’t the type to give flowers period. First ex only when he was in trouble. Which is like really? That is not going to fix it! So a Pisces gave me flowers on a first date & a Cap is sending me flowers today at my work & im not sure the intent.. lol intent is important to me. I don’t want them unless it was done because you wanted to, desired to, not cuz you were expected to or cuz you are sorry. How about you change behavior for what you’re sorry for?

Send him an article on mercury retrograde and why it’s not a good time to get stuff started right now! 😝

I actually did this to a Virgo and he waited it out 😂😂😂😂 # FunTimes -We are still dating though, so who really won.

We started dating early in February so b4 mercury retrograde and it’s all blown up so hmmm might be an idea. He did ask my sign on the first date lol

Oh! This is someone new? Then don’t do that 😅 I did that to someone who kept coming back each retrograde. It was odd and I wanted to see if he was aware of it.
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Yep new Cap. Old one & I are done as far as I’m concerned.
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Sporadically and rarely on Valentine's.

Libra sun / scorp mars

My ex husband only gave me flowers on Valentine’s if they were on a living plant 😂 not a flowers type of guy.

Was his placements ditto to my sun and mars.

I'm not a big fan of artificial love holidays and think my friends and mates deserve flowers when going through a rough patch or a significant milestone.

Lol no he’s Aries sun/Aries mars. I think it’s rebellious nature more lol not wanting to do what someone says you should. I never did btw. It was about the so-called expectation of valentine’s day. But he wasn’t the type to give flowers period. First ex only when he was in trouble. Which is like really? That is not going to fix it! So a Pisces gave me flowers on a first date & a Cap is sending me flowers today at my work & im not sure the intent.. lol intent is important to me. I don’t want them unless it was done because you wanted to, desired to, not cuz you were expected to or cuz you are sorry. How about you change behavior for what you’re sorry for?

LMFAO about the first ex sending them when in trouble. Well I hope the Cap flowers are part of him recognizing his errors and growing better with you as a union. If the apology isn't up to your standards bust his balls and tell him to do better. He's a Cap so he may need a little wake up call here and there.

I did. I removed myself from the situation & said I don’t want to date anymore. First he offered a romantic dinner then apologized half-ass like then asked to be friends. A week later I got a real apology, and he told me I was completely right & right to take myself out of the situation. I agreed to go to dinner tomorrow night like friends. And now he’s sending flowers.. friends? Lol He’s acting like he wants to start over actually..
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I agree that all signals do lead to him wanting a restart. Go to dinner and definitely enjoy yourself but let him know what you expect going forward.
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Sporadically and rarely on Valentine's.

Libra sun / scorp mars

My ex husband only gave me flowers on Valentine’s if they were on a living plant 😂 not a flowers type of guy.

Was his placements ditto to my sun and mars.

I'm not a big fan of artificial love holidays and think my friends and mates deserve flowers when going through a rough patch or a significant milestone.

Lol no he’s Aries sun/Aries mars. I think it’s rebellious nature more lol not wanting to do what someone says you should. I never did btw. It was about the so-called expectation of valentine’s day. But he wasn’t the type to give flowers period. First ex only when he was in trouble. Which is like really? That is not going to fix it! So a Pisces gave me flowers on a first date & a Cap is sending me flowers today at my work & im not sure the intent.. lol intent is important to me. I don’t want them unless it was done because you wanted to, desired to, not cuz you were expected to or cuz you are sorry. How about you change behavior for what you’re sorry for?

LMFAO about the first ex sending them when in trouble. Well I hope the Cap flowers are part of him recognizing his errors and growing better with you as a union. If the apology isn't up to your standards bust his balls and tell him to do better. He's a Cap so he may need a little wake up call here and there.

I did. I removed myself from the situation & said I don’t want to date anymore. First he offered a romantic dinner then apologized half-ass like then asked to be friends. A week later I got a real apology, and he told me I was completely right & right to take myself out of the situation. I agreed to go to dinner tomorrow night like friends. And now he’s sending flowers.. friends? Lol He’s acting like he wants to start over actually..

I agree that all signals do lead to him wanting a restart. Go to dinner and definitely enjoy yourself but let him know what you expect going forward.
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Yes. The flowers are pretty 😁 and he asked for a fresh start, and made a real apology today. So we shall see how tomorrow goes.