Centaur12
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I am trying to take space from her yet she texts me a different shed for sale because she is now feeling guilty about it and trying to help out what do I do reply saying thanks or just ignor it.
Ignore it, not your problem. Let her sort out her own issues even with your mother. You’re on a break and enjoying your time without her.
Sometimes we wish/ask for things we don’t really want. Give her hers.
Sometimes we wish/ask for things we don’t really want. Give her hers.
Posted by sweethearts
Ignore it, not your problem. Let her sort out her own issues even with your mother. You’re on a break and enjoying your time without her.
Sometimes we wish/ask for things we don’t really want. Give her hers.
All I replied was thanks, that's it im off out with my mates that I am luckie enough to reconnect with after putting so much effort and time into my relationship and losing my self .
Posted by Centaur12Posted by sweethearts
Ignore it, not your problem. Let her sort out her own issues even with your mother. You’re on a break and enjoying your time without her.
Sometimes we wish/ask for things we don’t really want. Give her hers.
All I replied was thanks, that's it im off out with my mates that I am luckie enough to reconnect with after putting so much effort and time into my relationship and losing my self .click to expand
Did you tell her this part?
"I am luckie enough to reconnect with after putting so much effort and time into my relationship and losing my self"
Posted by Centaur12Posted by sweethearts
Ignore it, not your problem. Let her sort out her own issues even with your mother. You’re on a break and enjoying your time without her.
Sometimes we wish/ask for things we don’t really want. Give her hers.
All I replied was thanks, that's it im off out with my mates that I am luckie enough to reconnect with after putting so much effort and time into my relationship and losing my self .click to expand
that's all you needed to say. you love this woman. there is no need to be antagonistic.
Posted by SagoxaPosted by Centaur12Posted by Sagoxa
Didnt i tell u to be a puzzle? 😪
What do you mean let her figure me out ?
Yes..
Flip the table. Mirror her. And hold your ground.
Distract your attention else where. Change your routine... exclude her from your routine.. start doing things for yourself... first 2 days is going to be hard for you, after that itll be easy.. i mean youre a sag 🤷♀️...
🙄click to expand
You're a Sag with a major Scorp placement. It's almost like a different Zodiac sign when it comes to what you're instructing him to do. I'm sure you could do it as easy as breathing....
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by SagoxaPosted by Centaur12Posted by Sagoxa
Didnt i tell u to be a puzzle? 😪
What do you mean let her figure me out ?
Yes..
Flip the table. Mirror her. And hold your ground.
Distract your attention else where. Change your routine... exclude her from your routine.. start doing things for yourself... first 2 days is going to be hard for you, after that itll be easy.. i mean youre a sag 🤷♀️...
🙄
You're a Sag with a major Scorp placement. It's almost like a different Zodiac sign when it comes to what you're instructing him to do. I'm sure you could do it as easy as breathing....click to expand
what do you mean do what so easy ?
Posted by TxOgalPosted by Centaur12Posted by sweethearts
Ignore it, not your problem. Let her sort out her own issues even with your mother. You’re on a break and enjoying your time without her.
Sometimes we wish/ask for things we don’t really want. Give her hers.
All I replied was thanks, that's it im off out with my mates that I am luckie enough to reconnect with after putting so much effort and time into my relationship and losing my self .
Did you tell her this part?
"I am luckie enough to reconnect with after putting so much effort and time into my relationship and losing my self"click to expand
No I didn't text her that bit I just said thanks that was it.
I was just telling you guy's that I am off out taking some of your advice on things .
Need to get out today, I am struggling because I want to make things right but I know its not the right time yet so I am holding back.
I see my partner online on Facebook and WhatsApp and that is hurting me and not being able to talk to her.
I need to restrict myself from it all knowing we aren't talking right now.
I see my partner online on Facebook and WhatsApp and that is hurting me and not being able to talk to her.
I need to restrict myself from it all knowing we aren't talking right now.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Centaur12Posted by saggurl88Posted by Centaur12
Thing is I told her what has made me feel insecure and its the fact that at Christmas time she said she wants out of the relationship because she doesn't want my ex to see my family even tho we have children together anyway.
She wanted out of the relationship and said to me that we are going to go our separate ways in the new years.
I mean I didn't know if she was coming or going because after telling me thay what the fuck do I feel like cab you understand how I have been feeling it has driven me to act this way is it the right way no it isn't but what am I supposed to do and feel .
You two both have some control issues. She doesn’t want your kids seeing their own parent 😳
You can’t tell when she’s pushing your buttons for her own amusement?
If you want to take a break then do it. You will see how she acts. Then you will know she’s not going anywhere.
Maybe this will turn things around for you.
You need to see this side of her anyways.
It will probably surprise and relieve you. Geminis don’t give up easily.
She told me she is done and yet continues to message me about giving money back to my mum but then ignores me trying to say I want to sort us out.
So I get that I just step away now as she has done and see where it goes.
What is the best thing for me to do.
I need advise on what could work really I know I have done wrong as well but underneath it all there is something worth working on.
I thought you were going to take space? That’s not messaging her back and saying you want to “sort us out”.
Cut all that talk out for right now. You’re doing the same thing in a different way. You could’ve just said “ok, you can give it back this way.” It’s not ignoring but it’s answering her question.
You could try by approaching it in that way.
Taking space but answering her messages with just answers and not whatever is on your mind and you’re insecure about.
Stop doing the same thing she’s doing. Going back and forth on your word.
You said you were taking space to work on yourself, without her, so do that.
She’s saying she’s done. I can bet you 90% she’s not. You just don’t see it.
You’re too much I’m your head that you will lose her. She knows that.
Pull back and do you.
I’m not sure what you’re so afraid of. Space is not a bad thing. It’s to get a grip on your bearings.
What you should be working on is how to stop begging for her. Stop making requests of her, treat her as you would a friend, with no emotional demands.
Anytime you have urges of insecurity, distract yourself. And DONT reach out. She hasn’t cut out contact right? Try to be more reserved with your emotions and just wait for the magic to happen.
This is what you have to work on anyways, correct?
You need to build yourself back up and try to not worry so much about an outcome you aren’t in control of. It’s hard but it will get easier the more you practice the art of being nonchalant, but friendly.
You have to erase the fear you have.
Maybe try therapy for abandonment issues while you’re taking space.
If you say it, you need to actually do it.click to expand
Thanks, for explaining it that way makes sense.
I just struggle and I need something to take my mind off of it otherwise I will run back texting her etc because I love her.
Not sure what I can do for me to relax alittle so I don't worry so much about us.
I duno what is going to happen but I need to hold back.
I have literally just received a message from her and it was a picture of her youngest child with a football top on smiling.
She asked me if I want it for my child.
Is this her way of breaking the ice or wanting to keep contact going.
I have literally just received a message from her and it was a picture of her youngest child with a football top on smiling.
She asked me if I want it for my child.
Is this her way of breaking the ice or wanting to keep contact going.
Posted by xiongmaoPosted by Centaur12
I duno what is going to happen but I need to hold back.
I have literally just received a message from her and it was a picture of her youngest child with a football top on smiling.
She asked me if I want it for my child.
Is this her way of breaking the ice or wanting to keep contact going.
Just give her your answer to the question...click to expand
I have done now I just said no thank you I was polite about it.
Posted by xiongmaoPosted by Centaur12
I duno what is going to happen but I need to hold back.
I have literally just received a message from her and it was a picture of her youngest child with a football top on smiling.
She asked me if I want it for my child.
Is this her way of breaking the ice or wanting to keep contact going.
Just give her your answer to the question...click to expand
She has started to message me but not about us just different stuff saying she seen the guy neighbour next door to my place holding hands with a different woman.
I guess I just act like we are friends I am not going to mention us or any feeling.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Centaur12
Thing is I told her what has made me feel insecure and its the fact that at Christmas time she said she wants out of the relationship because she doesn't want my ex to see my family even tho we have children together anyway.
She wanted out of the relationship and said to me that we are going to go our separate ways in the new years.
I mean I didn't know if she was coming or going because after telling me thay what the fuck do I feel like cab you understand how I have been feeling it has driven me to act this way is it the right way no it isn't but what am I supposed to do and feel .
You two both have some control issues. She doesn’t want your kids seeing their own parent 😳
You can’t tell when she’s pushing your buttons for her own amusement?
If you want to take a break then do it. You will see how she acts. Then you will know she’s not going anywhere.
Maybe this will turn things around for you.
You need to see this side of her anyways.
It will probably surprise and relieve you. Geminis don’t give up easily.click to expand
That last part was very interesting. "Geminis dont give up easily". Shit struck a chord with me
Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by saggurl88Posted by Centaur12
Thing is I told her what has made me feel insecure and its the fact that at Christmas time she said she wants out of the relationship because she doesn't want my ex to see my family even tho we have children together anyway.
She wanted out of the relationship and said to me that we are going to go our separate ways in the new years.
I mean I didn't know if she was coming or going because after telling me thay what the fuck do I feel like cab you understand how I have been feeling it has driven me to act this way is it the right way no it isn't but what am I supposed to do and feel .
You two both have some control issues. She doesn’t want your kids seeing their own parent 😳
You can’t tell when she’s pushing your buttons for her own amusement?
If you want to take a break then do it. You will see how she acts. Then you will know she’s not going anywhere.
Maybe this will turn things around for you.
You need to see this side of her anyways.
It will probably surprise and relieve you. Geminis don’t give up easily.
That last part was very interesting. "Geminis dont give up easily". Shit struck a chord with meclick to expand
Take it you had a different experience
Posted by Centaur12Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by saggurl88Posted by Centaur12
Thing is I told her what has made me feel insecure and its the fact that at Christmas time she said she wants out of the relationship because she doesn't want my ex to see my family even tho we have children together anyway.
She wanted out of the relationship and said to me that we are going to go our separate ways in the new years.
I mean I didn't know if she was coming or going because after telling me thay what the fuck do I feel like cab you understand how I have been feeling it has driven me to act this way is it the right way no it isn't but what am I supposed to do and feel .
You two both have some control issues. She doesn’t want your kids seeing their own parent 😳
You can’t tell when she’s pushing your buttons for her own amusement?
If you want to take a break then do it. You will see how she acts. Then you will know she’s not going anywhere.
Maybe this will turn things around for you.
You need to see this side of her anyways.
It will probably surprise and relieve you. Geminis don’t give up easily.
That last part was very interesting. "Geminis dont give up easily". Shit struck a chord with me
Take it you had a different experienceclick to expand
Kinda but Ive only known a handful of Gemini women. Never really been invovled with em romantically to know much about em. This stuck out to me because I had a crush on a Gemini woman and it slipped thru my hands. So seeing that last line was odd
You need to ignore her trivial texts, she’s telling you to leave her alone and then making sure you’re still hooked... no wonder you’re confused! Talk about 2 personalities :/
Also, go off socials yourself, the last thing you need is to be stalking and that’s what will happen. It’ll be hard at first but plan a whole week and make sure you don’t return her attempts at contact for at least 7 days. Give her exactly what she asked for!
Also, go off socials yourself, the last thing you need is to be stalking and that’s what will happen. It’ll be hard at first but plan a whole week and make sure you don’t return her attempts at contact for at least 7 days. Give her exactly what she asked for!
Posted by sweethearts
You need to ignore her trivial texts, she’s telling you to leave her alone and then making sure you’re still hooked... no wonder you’re confused! Talk about 2 personalities :/
Also, go off socials yourself, the last thing you need is to be stalking and that’s what will happen. It’ll be hard at first but plan a whole week and make sure you don’t return her attempts at contact for at least 7 days. Give her exactly what she asked for!
I am just replying short and sweet,
We are supposed to be going on two camping trips one in June and one in July.
She just text me again randomly saying I have just picked up a folding pick nick table so got one now.
I know this is why I just dont know where I stand what would some of you guys do in the situation I am in.
Or how to approach this she's saying she wants me to change and not nag her or be clingy and be insecure about things but I duno how I am supposed to feel.
I want to make it work but I know I need to back off so thays properly good advice thanks.
Posted by bmoon8Posted by sweethearts
You need to ignore her trivial texts, she’s telling you to leave her alone and then making sure you’re still hooked... no wonder you’re confused! Talk about 2 personalities :/
Also, go off socials yourself, the last thing you need is to be stalking and that’s what will happen. It’ll be hard at first but plan a whole week and make sure you don’t return her attempts at contact for at least 7 days. Give her exactly what she asked for!
This. ☝️
I wish I could take your ass off the grid somewhere. Get the fuck away from this chick and clear your head out.click to expand
Wish I could as well its hard when you love someone and I can see the good in her but she has a split personality at times it really let's her down.
Posted by Centaur12Posted by bmoon8Posted by sweethearts
You need to ignore her trivial texts, she’s telling you to leave her alone and then making sure you’re still hooked... no wonder you’re confused! Talk about 2 personalities :/
Also, go off socials yourself, the last thing you need is to be stalking and that’s what will happen. It’ll be hard at first but plan a whole week and make sure you don’t return her attempts at contact for at least 7 days. Give her exactly what she asked for!
This. ☝️
I wish I could take your ass off the grid somewhere. Get the fuck away from this chick and clear your head out.
Wish I could as well its hard when you love someone and I can see the good in her but she has a split personality at times it really let's her down.click to expand
Answering her will not break the cycle which is what you need to do.
It feels like everyone here speaks plain English except you.. or do you have compression issues?
Posted by Centaur12Posted by sweethearts
You need to ignore her trivial texts, she’s telling you to leave her alone and then making sure you’re still hooked... no wonder you’re confused! Talk about 2 personalities :/
Also, go off socials yourself, the last thing you need is to be stalking and that’s what will happen. It’ll be hard at first but plan a whole week and make sure you don’t return her attempts at contact for at least 7 days. Give her exactly what she asked for!
I am just replying short and sweet,
We are supposed to be going on two camping trips one in June and one in July.
She just text me again randomly saying I have just picked up a folding pick nick table so got one now.
I know this is why I just dont know where I stand what would some of you guys do in the situation I am in.
Or how to approach this she's saying she wants me to change and not nag her or be clingy and be insecure about things but I duno how I am supposed to feel.
I want to make it work but I know I need to back off so thays properly good advice thanks.click to expand
just tell her that you are finding remaining in contact difficult given everything that has happened. she might feel that given the relationship between your kids that it is better to stay friends.
if you can't do that - and there is no shame in that if you can't - tell her that you'd prefer for the immediate future to make a clean break of things.
Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by saggurl88Posted by Centaur12
Thing is I told her what has made me feel insecure and its the fact that at Christmas time she said she wants out of the relationship because she doesn't want my ex to see my family even tho we have children together anyway.
She wanted out of the relationship and said to me that we are going to go our separate ways in the new years.
I mean I didn't know if she was coming or going because after telling me thay what the fuck do I feel like cab you understand how I have been feeling it has driven me to act this way is it the right way no it isn't but what am I supposed to do and feel .
You two both have some control issues. She doesn’t want your kids seeing their own parent 😳
You can’t tell when she’s pushing your buttons for her own amusement?
If you want to take a break then do it. You will see how she acts. Then you will know she’s not going anywhere.
Maybe this will turn things around for you.
You need to see this side of her anyways.
It will probably surprise and relieve you. Geminis don’t give up easily.
That last part was very interesting. "Geminis dont give up easily". Shit struck a chord with meclick to expand
They don’t give up easily when they love you.
When they’re bored or uninterested, that’s a different story.
Posted by Centaur12Posted by saggurl88Posted by Centaur12Posted by saggurl88Posted by Centaur12
Thing is I told her what has made me feel insecure and its the fact that at Christmas time she said she wants out of the relationship because she doesn't want my ex to see my family even tho we have children together anyway.
She wanted out of the relationship and said to me that we are going to go our separate ways in the new years.
I mean I didn't know if she was coming or going because after telling me thay what the fuck do I feel like cab you understand how I have been feeling it has driven me to act this way is it the right way no it isn't but what am I supposed to do and feel .
You two both have some control issues. She doesn’t want your kids seeing their own parent 😳
You can’t tell when she’s pushing your buttons for her own amusement?
If you want to take a break then do it. You will see how she acts. Then you will know she’s not going anywhere.
Maybe this will turn things around for you.
You need to see this side of her anyways.
It will probably surprise and relieve you. Geminis don’t give up easily.
She told me she is done and yet continues to message me about giving money back to my mum but then ignores me trying to say I want to sort us out.
So I get that I just step away now as she has done and see where it goes.
What is the best thing for me to do.
I need advise on what could work really I know I have done wrong as well but underneath it all there is something worth working on.
I thought you were going to take space? That’s not messaging her back and saying you want to “sort us out”.
Cut all that talk out for right now. You’re doing the same thing in a different way. You could’ve just said “ok, you can give it back this way.” It’s not ignoring but it’s answering her question.
You could try by approaching it in that way.
Taking space but answering her messages with just answers and not whatever is on your mind and you’re insecure about.
Stop doing the same thing she’s doing. Going back and forth on your word.
You said you were taking space to work on yourself, without her, so do that.
She’s saying she’s done. I can bet you 90% she’s not. You just don’t see it.
You’re too much I’m your head that you will lose her. She knows that.
Pull back and do you.
I’m not sure what you’re so afraid of. Space is not a bad thing. It’s to get a grip on your bearings.
What you should be working on is how to stop begging for her. Stop making requests of her, treat her as you would a friend, with no emotional demands.
Anytime you have urges of insecurity, distract yourself. And DONT reach out. She hasn’t cut out contact right? Try to be more reserved with your emotions and just wait for the magic to happen.
This is what you have to work on anyways, correct?
You need to build yourself back up and try to not worry so much about an outcome you aren’t in control of. It’s hard but it will get easier the more you practice the art of being nonchalant, but friendly.
You have to erase the fear you have.
Maybe try therapy for abandonment issues while you’re taking space.
If you say it, you need to actually do it.
Thanks, for explaining it that way makes sense.
I just struggle and I need something to take my mind off of it otherwise I will run back texting her etc because I love her.
Not sure what I can do for me to relax alittle so I don't worry so much about us.click to expand
It seems like you’re a natural worrier, which some people are. But you just have to switch it up and be uncomfortable. You are too comfortable acting on all your insecurities.
So switch it up and condition yourself not to act. Make yourself uncomfortable, so you can get past the insecure feelings while not doing damage with being needy.
It takes practice.
You’ve already started to see she isn’t going anywhere.
Distraction is the only thing you can do honestly. Overthinking doesn’t help with dealing with insecurities. It makes it worse
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by saggurl88Posted by Centaur12
Thing is I told her what has made me feel insecure and its the fact that at Christmas time she said she wants out of the relationship because she doesn't want my ex to see my family even tho we have children together anyway.
She wanted out of the relationship and said to me that we are going to go our separate ways in the new years.
I mean I didn't know if she was coming or going because after telling me thay what the fuck do I feel like cab you understand how I have been feeling it has driven me to act this way is it the right way no it isn't but what am I supposed to do and feel .
You two both have some control issues. She doesn’t want your kids seeing their own parent 😳
You can’t tell when she’s pushing your buttons for her own amusement?
If you want to take a break then do it. You will see how she acts. Then you will know she’s not going anywhere.
Maybe this will turn things around for you.
You need to see this side of her anyways.
It will probably surprise and relieve you. Geminis don’t give up easily.
That last part was very interesting. "Geminis dont give up easily". Shit struck a chord with me
They don’t give up easily when they love you.
When they’re bored or uninterested, that’s a different story.click to expand
Oh Im sure lol I just never really met one that I clicked with on that level. There was one that I had a real big work crush on but she doesnt work here anymore. Thats about as close as Ive ever got
It sucks that it’s come to this and she’s being so confusing.
First she wanted space, now you want it, she says you two are done but is still confirming plans you made for the summer.
Too bad you can’t be blunt with her, like she is with you and tell her you’re taking a mental health vacation from her ass because she plays with your emotions too much.
But I don’t think you would be able to say something like this and leave it at that with no explanation. You seem like the type that would want to explain and then get pulled back into the bullshit of her not hearing you. Which would still defeat the purpose of taking space.
First she wanted space, now you want it, she says you two are done but is still confirming plans you made for the summer.
Too bad you can’t be blunt with her, like she is with you and tell her you’re taking a mental health vacation from her ass because she plays with your emotions too much.
But I don’t think you would be able to say something like this and leave it at that with no explanation. You seem like the type that would want to explain and then get pulled back into the bullshit of her not hearing you. Which would still defeat the purpose of taking space.
Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by saggurl88Posted by Centaur12
Thing is I told her what has made me feel insecure and its the fact that at Christmas time she said she wants out of the relationship because she doesn't want my ex to see my family even tho we have children together anyway.
She wanted out of the relationship and said to me that we are going to go our separate ways in the new years.
I mean I didn't know if she was coming or going because after telling me thay what the fuck do I feel like cab you understand how I have been feeling it has driven me to act this way is it the right way no it isn't but what am I supposed to do and feel .
You two both have some control issues. She doesn’t want your kids seeing their own parent 😳
You can’t tell when she’s pushing your buttons for her own amusement?
If you want to take a break then do it. You will see how she acts. Then you will know she’s not going anywhere.
Maybe this will turn things around for you.
You need to see this side of her anyways.
It will probably surprise and relieve you. Geminis don’t give up easily.
That last part was very interesting. "Geminis dont give up easily". Shit struck a chord with me
They don’t give up easily when they love you.
When they’re bored or uninterested, that’s a different story.
Oh Im sure lol I just never really met one that I clicked with on that level. There was one that I had a real big work crush on but she doesnt work here anymore. Thats about as close as Ive ever gotclick to expand
I like this about them. But you have to know when to call their bluffs. Otherwise they will run over you lol.
They are the one sign where I can clearly see their actions mean way more than their words. So I barely listen to their words unless they are complaining or nagging me.
It works well when you treat them how they treat you.
True she has since not texted me and left me alone so guess she's doing her own thing I am just way confused and my emotions are all over the fucking place.
There's a bit of me that wants to chase her but I am not going to.
There's a part where I just want to break down inside but I am holding it back.
So I am just keeping myself busy as much as I can because otherwise I will slip back into the shit.
I will try link up with my mate later to get my mind off of it however we are on different levels my Gem mate told me to ignore her texts not once but three times and then reply and he said leave her to it and he's chatting to alot of woman and I am sat there thinking Im not all about that I just want to sort it with her I was sat there thinking of her the whole time when he was saying it.
There's one bit of me thinking is she coming back.or isn't she, she wants me to stop nagging her and stop keeping onto her about stuff all the time and now I am starting to I wonder if she gives a dam still or wants to come back is she texting me because she's bord or is it because she's still interested.
There's a bit of me that wants to chase her but I am not going to.
There's a part where I just want to break down inside but I am holding it back.
So I am just keeping myself busy as much as I can because otherwise I will slip back into the shit.
I will try link up with my mate later to get my mind off of it however we are on different levels my Gem mate told me to ignore her texts not once but three times and then reply and he said leave her to it and he's chatting to alot of woman and I am sat there thinking Im not all about that I just want to sort it with her I was sat there thinking of her the whole time when he was saying it.
There's one bit of me thinking is she coming back.or isn't she, she wants me to stop nagging her and stop keeping onto her about stuff all the time and now I am starting to I wonder if she gives a dam still or wants to come back is she texting me because she's bord or is it because she's still interested.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by saggurl88Posted by Centaur12
Thing is I told her what has made me feel insecure and its the fact that at Christmas time she said she wants out of the relationship because she doesn't want my ex to see my family even tho we have children together anyway.
She wanted out of the relationship and said to me that we are going to go our separate ways in the new years.
I mean I didn't know if she was coming or going because after telling me thay what the fuck do I feel like cab you understand how I have been feeling it has driven me to act this way is it the right way no it isn't but what am I supposed to do and feel .
You two both have some control issues. She doesn’t want your kids seeing their own parent 😳
You can’t tell when she’s pushing your buttons for her own amusement?
If you want to take a break then do it. You will see how she acts. Then you will know she’s not going anywhere.
Maybe this will turn things around for you.
You need to see this side of her anyways.
It will probably surprise and relieve you. Geminis don’t give up easily.
That last part was very interesting. "Geminis dont give up easily". Shit struck a chord with me
They don’t give up easily when they love you.
When they’re bored or uninterested, that’s a different story.
Oh Im sure lol I just never really met one that I clicked with on that level. There was one that I had a real big work crush on but she doesnt work here anymore. Thats about as close as Ive ever got
I like this about them. But you have to know when to call their bluffs. Otherwise they will run over you lol.
They are the one sign where I can clearly see their actions mean way more than their words. So I barely listen to their words unless they are complaining or nagging me.
It works well when you treat them how they treat you.click to expand
Noted lol but I dont think Ill run into a gemini woman any time soon lol
I am missing her 😔
Posted by bmoon8Posted by Centaur12
I am missing her 😔
Hoping you get to this point...
https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMePoK14e/<div class="bqfade">click to expand
She has contacted me again since sent me a photo of the folding table for the camping.
Do you think she is done ? I duno what to feel or think I need to go out.
Posted by bmoon8Posted by Centaur12Posted by bmoon8Posted by Centaur12
I am missing her 😔
Hoping you get to this point...
https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMePoK14e/
She has contacted me again since sent me a photo of the folding table for the camping.
Do you think she is done ? I duno what to feel or think I need to go out.
Yes, go out.
No, don’t respond to her. Seriously, get a way from her and clear your head, so that you are able to think. You are an Aqua moon, right?click to expand
Yeah I am.
Posted by bmoon8Posted by Centaur12Posted by bmoon8Posted by Centaur12Posted by bmoon8Posted by Centaur12
I am missing her 😔
Hoping you get to this point...
https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMePoK14e/
She has contacted me again since sent me a photo of the folding table for the camping.
Do you think she is done ? I duno what to feel or think I need to go out.
Yes, go out.
No, don’t respond to her. Seriously, get a way from her and clear your head, so that you are able to think. You are an Aqua moon, right?
Yeah I am.
Block her. Or get rid of the phone for a few days.click to expand
I don't know if I have that in me 😣 I feel sick from worry and I don't know if she is staying or going she hasn't said a word about us just talking about other stuff she texts me and then checks out and then you don't hear a thing from her.
She's texting me now saying we can meet tomorrow
Posted by Centaur12
She's texting me now saying we can meet tomorrow
lol I told you she wasn't going no where. She's not gonna let up. Say "What's up? 🧐"
Edited to add- I thought she was asking- she's not. She's leaving it up to you. I wouldn't bite.
Posted by Centaur12
She's texting me now saying we can meet tomorrow
Hmph. Just out of the blue Sag? Because the way the text is phrased it isn't a question. It's a response....to something.
^^^To be clear, did you send her any text just before you got this text from her and what did it say?
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by Centaur12
She's texting me now saying we can meet tomorrow
Hmph. Just out of the blue Sag? Because the way the text is phrased it isn't a question. It's a response....to something.click to expand
No she's been trying to communicate with me all day and I have brushed it off.
Sending me things to go camping with trying to ask me what I am doing right now.
I just said I'm going for a drive as I want to get out and she says what at this time.
She said randomly I hope you don't think I am speaking to anyone else or got anyone else at her place.
I said I am not even going to entertain that.
And I have left it now.
Posted by cake
If she doesn't want you, holla at me
How come ?
Posted by LiterallyStalinGPosted by Centaur12Posted by bmoon8Posted by Centaur12
I am missing her 😔
Hoping you get to this point...
https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMePoK14e/
She has contacted me again since sent me a photo of the folding table for the camping.
Do you think she is done ? I duno what to feel or think I need to go out.
Do you think acting like this is gonna get her back?
You know what the answer to that is.click to expand
Acting in what way exactly?
Posted by cakePosted by Centaur12Posted by cake
If she doesn't want you, holla at me
How come ?
For some sugarclick to expand
🤣
Posted by cakePosted by Centaur12Posted by cake
If she doesn't want you, holla at me
How come ?
For some sugarclick to expand
That made me smile thanks 😊
Posted by cakePosted by Centaur12Posted by cakePosted by Centaur12Posted by cake
If she doesn't want you, holla at me
How come ?
For some sugar
That made me smile thanks 😊
What's your sign again?click to expand
Sun - Sag
Moon - Aqua
Mercury - Scorpio
Whats yours ?
Posted by cakePosted by Centaur12Posted by cakePosted by Centaur12Posted by cakePosted by Centaur12Posted by cake
If she doesn't want you, holla at me
How come ?
For some sugar
That made me smile thanks 😊
What's your sign again?
Sun - Sag
Moon - Aqua
Mercury - Scorpio
Whats yours ?
That's an interesting chart.
I'm the backstabber, detached friend and scattered brain.click to expand
😅 going to guess and say Aries ? Or possibly Leo.
Could be wrong probably am.
Posted by Centaur12Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by Centaur12
She's texting me now saying we can meet tomorrow
Hmph. Just out of the blue Sag? Because the way the text is phrased it isn't a question. It's a response....to something.
No she's been trying to communicate with me all day and I have brushed it off.
Sending me things to go camping with trying to ask me what I am doing right now.
I just said I'm going for a drive as I want to get out and she says what at this time.
She said randomly I hope you don't think I am speaking to anyone else or got anyone else at her place.
I said I am not even going to entertain that.
And I have left it now.click to expand
Okay, and that was when she sent "we can meet tomorrow"? You have been ignoring her messages so far?
Posted by Centaur12Posted by cakePosted by Centaur12Posted by cakePosted by Centaur12Posted by cake
If she doesn't want you, holla at me
How come ?
For some sugar
That made me smile thanks 😊
What's your sign again?
Sun - Sag
Moon - Aqua
Mercury - Scorpio
Whats yours ?click to expand
Wait....you have a Merc in Scorp? Hmph...where is your Venus?
Posted by Centaur12Posted by cakePosted by Centaur12Posted by cakePosted by Centaur12Posted by cakePosted by Centaur12Posted by cake
If she doesn't want you, holla at me
How come ?
For some sugar
That made me smile thanks 😊
What's your sign again?
Sun - Sag
Moon - Aqua
Mercury - Scorpio
Whats yours ?
That's an interesting chart.
I'm the backstabber, detached friend and scattered brain.
😅 going to guess and say Aries ?...click to expand
LOL. This is only funny because of a recent thread I read....
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by Centaur12Posted by cakePosted by Centaur12Posted by cakePosted by Centaur12Posted by cake
If she doesn't want you, holla at me
How come ?
For some sugar
That made me smile thanks 😊
What's your sign again?
Sun - Sag
Moon - Aqua
Mercury - Scorpio
Whats yours ?
Wait....you have a Merc in Scorp? Hmph...where is your Venus?click to expand
Sorry I was suppose to put
Sun - Sag
Moon - Aqua
Mercury - Sag Rx
Venus- Scorpio
Mars - Sag
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by Centaur12Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by Centaur12
She's texting me now saying we can meet tomorrow
Hmph. Just out of the blue Sag? Because the way the text is phrased it isn't a question. It's a response....to something.
No she's been trying to communicate with me all day and I have brushed it off.
Sending me things to go camping with trying to ask me what I am doing right now.
I just said I'm going for a drive as I want to get out and she says what at this time.
She said randomly I hope you don't think I am speaking to anyone else or got anyone else at her place.
I said I am not even going to entertain that.
And I have left it now.
Okay, and that was when she sent "we can meet tomorrow"? You have been ignoring her messages so far?click to expand
I have only replied short replys answering some of her texts like okay and that's nice etc.
Posted by bmoon8Posted by Centaur12Posted by bmoon8Posted by Centaur12Posted by bmoon8Posted by Centaur12Posted by bmoon8Posted by Centaur12
I am missing her 😔
Hoping you get to this point...
https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMePoK14e/
She has contacted me again since sent me a photo of the folding table for the camping.
Do you think she is done ? I duno what to feel or think I need to go out.
Yes, go out.
No, don’t respond to her. Seriously, get a way from her and clear your head, so that you are able to think. You are an Aqua moon, right?
Yeah I am.
Block her. Or get rid of the phone for a few days.
I don't know if I have that in me 😣 I feel sick from worry and I don't know if she is staying or going she hasn't said a word about us just talking about other stuff she texts me and then checks out and then you don't hear a thing from her.
Just do it. You will thank me later.click to expand
I went around my gemini friends house thinking that it will help it did for a few minutes until we got talking about our lives not to much depth any way he got fucked over by his ex who I also know she cheated on him a few times with different people.
He stayed loyal and bought them a house for the future the one that he is still on now he looks back and tells me he was acting like a little bitch and let her run over him really.
I explained my situation and he told me to fuck someone else it will make me feel better I said I can't do that mate it's not in me he is on a different level now to me because he's been fucked over he is a decent lad really he told me he is going to stay that way until he can find someone who will change his mind .
My question is when would a gemini become unfaithful? And how will they act.
It's interesting to know based on seeing my friend he seemed to be pretty loyal in his serious relationship yes he had big problems and she treated him like shit so he probably mad that he aloud that.
I know he misses her because he said I miss people as well etc but he didn't exactly say who .
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