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Why are some girls hook up material and some wifey (Page 2)
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Posted by EarthgoddessUsually the serial accuser is the one whose actually cheating.
I want to marry a man that is comfortable with my confidence
And doesn’t feel threaten becuz I’m attractive.
Like why does being attractive and confident instantly mean ur a suspect for cheating
The only difference between the wifee and the ho is that wifee settled. These labels from the patriarchy don’t define us as women. Laugh in the faces of those who think it does.
Posted by SpaceBirdAnd what’s the difference in shape
The hoes have the hoe shaped vaginas and the wives have the wives shaped vaginas
Posted by Lala1393Me too
I like being a hoe.
I'm gonna be a hoe FOR EVAAA.
Posted by SpaceBirdI have Dxp and you! I don’t need no fucking books! Plus...I am not a reader! I am a writer...lolPosted by GemitatiGo buy that book.Posted by SpaceBirdEveryone knows that! 🤣🤣❤️Posted by GemitatiPosted by SpaceBirdHave you taken your meds?Posted by GemitatiOr aliens ....and most fuck bois are aliens.Posted by SpaceBirdYou said hoes are getting married to a good guys. So they settle down. Get married! And later looking for fuck boys?Posted by GemitatiHoes are just looking to pass the time ....they are not ready to settle down.Posted by SpaceBirdThen after hoe finds a good man she looks for a fuck boy...so why not to do it right from the beginning?Posted by GemitatiHoes are looking for good men.
So fuck boy and a hoe is match made in Heaven!
I can relate...🤣
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Well, I guess the wifey is hookup material too, no? Unless peeps be getting married without hooking up, which is just crazy to me.
But I know what you mean, OP. Some girls are only seen as hookup material because the interest never goes beyond sexual. I suppose what determines this depends on the guy, but for the most part, women with little value other than what's on the outside are typically only seen as hookup material. Sleeping with a guy before/on the first date also seems to swing the pendelum in that direction as well for a lot of dudes.
Placing value on yourself is a REALLY good way to get guys to do it too. Not guaranteed, but a lot better than toating around a big bag insecurity.
But I know what you mean, OP. Some girls are only seen as hookup material because the interest never goes beyond sexual. I suppose what determines this depends on the guy, but for the most part, women with little value other than what's on the outside are typically only seen as hookup material. Sleeping with a guy before/on the first date also seems to swing the pendelum in that direction as well for a lot of dudes.
Placing value on yourself is a REALLY good way to get guys to do it too. Not guaranteed, but a lot better than toating around a big bag insecurity.
Posted by ArkansassyHe’s the cook. I just show up with an appetite.Posted by LadyNeptuneMust be a hoe 🤔😂Posted by ArkansassyThis is so not the case let me tell you 😎
The ability to cook an actual meal.
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Posted by _ggTell me Jon snowPosted by HaruukaYou know nothing
Fk boy is looking for wify
A good man is looking for a hoe
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Well you see, some women are slutz, while some are hores. Some can also be nyphos, or hoz, but there is a difference between all of them which I will explain in great detail. Or till I get board and want to do something else.
Slutz aren't necessary bad. Back in the day they were regarded as negative, but in today's time they are fully accepted as normal women in society. Slutz can be, but aren't necessarily hoars, nymphos or hoz. Normally slutz are just women who do dumb things more times then not. Like dress skimpy because they think its a reasonable thing to do. Or put a nice dent in the car because they were distracted by other things rather then the situation at hand. Slutz tend to be greatly influenced by other people in their life. Slutz aren't necessary stupid, but have a tendency to make bad choice. They also tend to be extreamly social. A hoar on the other hand can be slutz or nymphos, but the thing about them is they are willing to use things like their body or sex for money. A hoar can never be hoz. Hoars tend to be pretty intelligent, and the most deceiving of women. They are 100% guaranteed to cheat. They know how to use their body as a weapon, which needs to be constantly watched out for. Nymphos can be slutz, hoars, or hoz. Or they can be completely normal, or even anti social. A nympho is simply a woman who loves sex, and wont necessarily cheat. But they easily can if the have the hoar or hoz trait to them. Hoz are like hoars, but the difference is they have the intelligence of slutz. That means they are likely to be manipulated by men or women, and honestly think thats ok. All pimps own a handful of hoz, because where the hoar works for themselves the hoz work for a boss. Mostly males or females who control the redlight district find true self sufficient hoars as a bad competition for business.
Which is why majority of women aren't wife material. To sum this all up most tend to be slutz, hoars, nymphos, or hoz, and very few tend to be actual strong women. I'm sure there are many of you out there, but those of you who are actually good encounter fucked up men make you think twice before trying the dating game again. Because of that good men and women cant find each other anymore.
With that being said, I need a drink..
Slutz aren't necessary bad. Back in the day they were regarded as negative, but in today's time they are fully accepted as normal women in society. Slutz can be, but aren't necessarily hoars, nymphos or hoz. Normally slutz are just women who do dumb things more times then not. Like dress skimpy because they think its a reasonable thing to do. Or put a nice dent in the car because they were distracted by other things rather then the situation at hand. Slutz tend to be greatly influenced by other people in their life. Slutz aren't necessary stupid, but have a tendency to make bad choice. They also tend to be extreamly social. A hoar on the other hand can be slutz or nymphos, but the thing about them is they are willing to use things like their body or sex for money. A hoar can never be hoz. Hoars tend to be pretty intelligent, and the most deceiving of women. They are 100% guaranteed to cheat. They know how to use their body as a weapon, which needs to be constantly watched out for. Nymphos can be slutz, hoars, or hoz. Or they can be completely normal, or even anti social. A nympho is simply a woman who loves sex, and wont necessarily cheat. But they easily can if the have the hoar or hoz trait to them. Hoz are like hoars, but the difference is they have the intelligence of slutz. That means they are likely to be manipulated by men or women, and honestly think thats ok. All pimps own a handful of hoz, because where the hoar works for themselves the hoz work for a boss. Mostly males or females who control the redlight district find true self sufficient hoars as a bad competition for business.
Which is why majority of women aren't wife material. To sum this all up most tend to be slutz, hoars, nymphos, or hoz, and very few tend to be actual strong women. I'm sure there are many of you out there, but those of you who are actually good encounter fucked up men make you think twice before trying the dating game again. Because of that good men and women cant find each other anymore.
With that being said, I need a drink..
Posted by SoulCool story
Well you see, some women are slutz, while some are hores. Some can also be nyphos, or hoz, but there is a difference between all of them which I will explain in great detail. Or till I get board and want to do something else.
Slutz aren't necessary bad. Back in the day they were regarded as negative, but in today's time they are fully accepted as normal women in society. Slutz can be, but aren't necessarily hoars, nymphos or hoz. Normally slutz are just women who do dumb things more times then not. Like dress skimpy because they think its a reasonable thing to do. Or put a nice dent in the car because they were distracted by other things rather then the situation at hand. Slutz tend to be greatly influenced by other people in their life. Slutz aren't necessary stupid, but have a tendency to make bad choice. They also tend to be extreamly social. A hoar on the other hand can be slutz or nymphos, but the thing about them is they are willing to use things like their body or sex for money. A hoar can never be hoz. Hoars tend to be pretty intelligent, and the most deceiving of women. They are 100% guaranteed to cheat. They know how to use their body as a weapon, which needs to be constantly watched out for. Nymphos can be slutz, hoars, or hoz. Or they can be completely normal, or even anti social. A nympho is simply a woman who loves sex, and wont necessarily cheat. But they easily can if the have the hoar or hoz trait to them. Hoz are like hoars, but the difference is they have the intelligence of slutz. That means they are likely to be manipulated by men or women, and honestly think thats ok. All pimps own a handful of hoz, because where the hoar works for themselves the hoz work for a boss. Mostly males or females who control the redlight district find true self sufficient hoars as a bad competition for business.
Which is why majority of women aren't wife material. To sum this all up most tend to be slutz, hoars, nymphos, or hoz, and very few tend to be actual strong women. I'm sure there are many of you out there, but those of you who are actually good encounter fucked up men make you think twice before trying the dating game again. Because of that good men and women cant find each other anymore.
With that being said, I need a drink..
Posted by Queenaries2Ty! It took me like 11 minutes to write that. Im glad you liked itPosted by SoulCool story
Well you see, some women are slutz, while some are hores. Some can also be nyphos, or hoz, but there is a difference between all of them which I will explain in great detail. Or till I get board and want to do something else.
Slutz aren't necessary bad. Back in the day they were regarded as negative, but in today's time they are fully accepted as normal women in society. Slutz can be, but aren't necessarily hoars, nymphos or hoz. Normally slutz are just women who do dumb things more times then not. Like dress skimpy because they think its a reasonable thing to do. Or put a nice dent in the car because they were distracted by other things rather then the situation at hand. Slutz tend to be greatly influenced by other people in their life. Slutz aren't necessary stupid, but have a tendency to make bad choice. They also tend to be extreamly social. A hoar on the other hand can be slutz or nymphos, but the thing about them is they are willing to use things like their body or sex for money. A hoar can never be hoz. Hoars tend to be pretty intelligent, and the most deceiving of women. They are 100% guaranteed to cheat. They know how to use their body as a weapon, which needs to be constantly watched out for. Nymphos can be slutz, hoars, or hoz. Or they can be completely normal, or even anti social. A nympho is simply a woman who loves sex, and wont necessarily cheat. But they easily can if the have the hoar or hoz trait to them. Hoz are like hoars, but the difference is they have the intelligence of slutz. That means they are likely to be manipulated by men or women, and honestly think thats ok. All pimps own a handful of hoz, because where the hoar works for themselves the hoz work for a boss. Mostly males or females who control the redlight district find true self sufficient hoars as a bad competition for business.
Which is why majority of women aren't wife material. To sum this all up most tend to be slutz, hoars, nymphos, or hoz, and very few tend to be actual strong women. I'm sure there are many of you out there, but those of you who are actually good encounter fucked up men make you think twice before trying the dating game again. Because of that good men and women cant find each other anymore.
With that being said, I need a drink..
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Posted by HearttofTopazI like the way you think. I was thinking the same.
Burrito
2 dudes both trying to wife up this basic thot. Men's minds are goofy af.
Posted by LadyNeptuneYou mean both are in love with her
2 dudes both trying to wife up this basic thot. Men's minds are goofy af.
Posted by Arielle83Posted by HaruukaThat's a fake exception.Posted by LadyNeptuneYou mean both are in love with her
2 dudes both trying to wife up this basic thot. Men's minds are goofy af.
The rule is = not happening.
Unless she can swallow a thunder c0ck and a tsunami of sperm.click to expand
Lol
The whole thing is funny 😆
I'm sure this is different for everyone....
random hookups -
can't speak to it much as its not really my thing. If I allow it to go all the way physical w/someone I'm not that compatible with, I can def get overly attached or just feel committed to them out of mere obligation (don't want them to feel used/dropped)....Just being in their physical presence too often can even do that to me. I do stay in touch with my exes for many reasons, one of which is something a Sag friend convinced me of a while back - if you're in overlapping dry spells, you already have that connection, know the level of sexual compatibility, and don't have to go looking for randoms....definitely can be tricky but much less effort and risk than FWB IMO...
wifey material -
- can we communicate? can we be real/honest with each other when it counts? can we sit down, eye to eye, and have rational, open/vulnerable convos around emotional issues, see and admit our own fault, apologize and forgive sincerely, compromise/find solutions, etc.? can we get past our pride and be constructive - or is the dynamic unyielding and overly competitive? Stuffing emotions around perceived injuries has proven disastrous to my past relationships....I really do believe communication is almost everything....
- big one for me...if kids are involved, or will be, is this a person I can imagine raising a child with? Do we have similar/overlapping values to where we can agree on how to raise a child? Does this person embody what I would want to see mirrored in our child? I imagine, especially with a daughter, she'll be the most significant role model for her. Is she hard working, optimistic, progressive? Does she respect and value herself, have class, dignity, discretion? And do the people around her treat her with the same? All things I consider from a parental angle....
- does she have hobbies, interests, passions, creative outlets? If their life revolves around us, and doing stuff together all the time, they'll feel neglected bc I can be highly introverted and have my own constant rotation of things i'm into. Or I'll just cave to their feelings and wind up neglecting who I actually am, getting bored etc....If they have such hobbies/pursuits though, I like to be supportive of them however I can, find ways to help promote them, and even get into their hobbies w/them - learn what they do, and do it along side of them if possible....That's really attractive to me, when I can learn something new from a partner....
random hookups -
can't speak to it much as its not really my thing. If I allow it to go all the way physical w/someone I'm not that compatible with, I can def get overly attached or just feel committed to them out of mere obligation (don't want them to feel used/dropped)....Just being in their physical presence too often can even do that to me. I do stay in touch with my exes for many reasons, one of which is something a Sag friend convinced me of a while back - if you're in overlapping dry spells, you already have that connection, know the level of sexual compatibility, and don't have to go looking for randoms....definitely can be tricky but much less effort and risk than FWB IMO...
wifey material -
- can we communicate? can we be real/honest with each other when it counts? can we sit down, eye to eye, and have rational, open/vulnerable convos around emotional issues, see and admit our own fault, apologize and forgive sincerely, compromise/find solutions, etc.? can we get past our pride and be constructive - or is the dynamic unyielding and overly competitive? Stuffing emotions around perceived injuries has proven disastrous to my past relationships....I really do believe communication is almost everything....
- big one for me...if kids are involved, or will be, is this a person I can imagine raising a child with? Do we have similar/overlapping values to where we can agree on how to raise a child? Does this person embody what I would want to see mirrored in our child? I imagine, especially with a daughter, she'll be the most significant role model for her. Is she hard working, optimistic, progressive? Does she respect and value herself, have class, dignity, discretion? And do the people around her treat her with the same? All things I consider from a parental angle....
- does she have hobbies, interests, passions, creative outlets? If their life revolves around us, and doing stuff together all the time, they'll feel neglected bc I can be highly introverted and have my own constant rotation of things i'm into. Or I'll just cave to their feelings and wind up neglecting who I actually am, getting bored etc....If they have such hobbies/pursuits though, I like to be supportive of them however I can, find ways to help promote them, and even get into their hobbies w/them - learn what they do, and do it along side of them if possible....That's really attractive to me, when I can learn something new from a partner....
it depends on your placements and upbringing and your way of life, for example, i would never be wifey material for alot of men.
and i dont want to be wifey material for them. lol
and i dont want to be wifey material for them. lol
Posted by LadyNeptunekind of feel sorry for them though.
2 dudes both trying to wife up this basic thot. Men's minds are goofy af.
the guys.
should we feel sorry for those guys?
Posted by lisabethur8I bet the first guy is Pisces something @lisabethur8....Mars or Venus...?Posted by LadyNeptunekind of feel sorry for them though.
2 dudes both trying to wife up this basic thot. Men's minds are goofy af.
the guys.
should we feel sorry for those guys?click to expand
....and I was laughing at the girl calling him boring, she has the charisma of a turnip lol
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Posted by LadyNeptunelool
2 dudes both trying to wife up this basic thot. Men's minds are goofy af.
it's staged, isn't it? but I guess this happens for real on a daily basis
Btw, Jerry is sooo wise in the end of the clip!
WHAT ON EARTH DID I JUST READ? WHAT IF A HOE ASK A GUY TO MOVE IN WITH HER? IS HE NUMBER ONE ON THE SIDE-DUDE LIST? HAHAHA
Posted by WittyGem88for me? definitely....the idea that the woman should do all the cooking is pretty ridiculous...I've been in those relationships where its one-sided like that and of course I took advantage of it and took the whole situation for granted w/o a thought....she's looking up recipes and planning the night before, making lists of ingredients, running to the store after work and prepping/cooking it all....I'm chilling on the couch reading or gaming, completely oblivious, getting served, even slacking on the cleanup/dishes occasionally....extremely unfair....
So lets say I am a very adventurous kind of gal like can do bungee jumping, skydiving, scuba diving etc. and lets say I am smart, has a career, funny, good in bed, listens and supports you BUT i cannot cook for the love of god — would you consider me as wife material?
I like the idea of cooking together and really would like to get into it more myself and take classes with a partner, alternate nights or cook each meal together....plus there are all sorts of food services that deliver super healthy gourmet meals now...when I did paleo with an ex, we used one of them and the food was excellent.....
all the things you mention are very cool...my friend at work trains people to dive and I've actually been wanting to take lessons forever...definitely something I'd like to get into...I love watching shows on anything related to the ocean....seems to be the closest you can get to visiting an alien world...
Some women just have a foundation / personality of a wife or mother .
Tendency to nurture , care, and think of others .
Some single women have this , some married and with children don’t .
I think people can sense this . I have a mother tendency as told by my peers . I always let other people eat first , I naturally play well with kids, I’m a homebody . Wifey doesn’t necessarily mean cook and clean .
But then again wifey and ho are terms thrown around these days without much meaning
Tendency to nurture , care, and think of others .
Some single women have this , some married and with children don’t .
I think people can sense this . I have a mother tendency as told by my peers . I always let other people eat first , I naturally play well with kids, I’m a homebody . Wifey doesn’t necessarily mean cook and clean .
But then again wifey and ho are terms thrown around these days without much meaning
Posted by Metatronwow that IS completely not right especially if she's working full time, coming home and going to the grocery store, and planning ect.Posted by WittyGem88for me? definitely....the idea that the woman should do all the cooking is pretty ridiculous...I've been in those relationships where its one-sided like that and of course I took advantage of it and took the whole situation for granted w/o a thought....she's looking up recipes and planning the night before, making lists of ingredients, running to the store after work and prepping/cooking it all....I'm chilling on the couch reading or gaming, completely oblivious, getting served, even slacking on the cleanup/dishes occasionally....extremely unfair....
So lets say I am a very adventurous kind of gal like can do bungee jumping, skydiving, scuba diving etc. and lets say I am smart, has a career, funny, good in bed, listens and supports you BUT i cannot cook for the love of god — would you consider me as wife material?
I like the idea of cooking together and really would like to get into it more myself and take classes with a partner, alternate nights or cook each meal together....plus there are all sorts of food services that deliver super healthy gourmet meals now...when I did paleo with an ex, we used one of them and the food was excellent.....
all the things you mention are very cool...my friend at work trains people to dive and I've actually been wanting to take lessons forever...definitely something I'd like to get into...I love watching shows on anything related to the ocean....seems to be the closest you can get to visiting an alien world...click to expand
me and my husband have an agreement if i work full time, more than 30 hours a week, outside and then come home, we're hiring a maid but i'm still cooking. just that i'm hiring a maid to do the cleaning.
he is like, sure whatever you want.lol
Posted by DeadInsideChose the hoe
i dont know what to choose lol
Posted by DeadInsideShe’ll give you what you wantPosted by Queenaries2whyPosted by DeadInsideChose the hoe
i dont know what to choose lolclick to expand
Posted by DeadInsidePosted by Queenaries2but i dont know what i wantPosted by DeadInsideShe’ll give you what you wantPosted by Queenaries2whyPosted by DeadInsideChose the hoe
i dont know what to choose lolclick to expand
Well that seems like your problem
Posted by lisabethur8definitely the way to go....would like to ultimately hire a live-in maid who cooks as well....the cleaning issue has always been a sore spot in relationships....am a bit of a neat freak....Posted by Metatronwow that IS completely not right especially if she's working full time, coming home and going to the grocery store, and planning ect.Posted by WittyGem88for me? definitely....the idea that the woman should do all the cooking is pretty ridiculous...I've been in those relationships where its one-sided like that and of course I took advantage of it and took the whole situation for granted w/o a thought....she's looking up recipes and planning the night before, making lists of ingredients, running to the store after work and prepping/cooking it all....I'm chilling on the couch reading or gaming, completely oblivious, getting served, even slacking on the cleanup/dishes occasionally....extremely unfair....
So lets say I am a very adventurous kind of gal like can do bungee jumping, skydiving, scuba diving etc. and lets say I am smart, has a career, funny, good in bed, listens and supports you BUT i cannot cook for the love of god — would you consider me as wife material?
I like the idea of cooking together and really would like to get into it more myself and take classes with a partner, alternate nights or cook each meal together....plus there are all sorts of food services that deliver super healthy gourmet meals now...when I did paleo with an ex, we used one of them and the food was excellent.....
all the things you mention are very cool...my friend at work trains people to dive and I've actually been wanting to take lessons forever...definitely something I'd like to get into...I love watching shows on anything related to the ocean....seems to be the closest you can get to visiting an alien world...
me and my husband have an agreement if i work full time, more than 30 hours a week, outside and then come home, we're hiring a maid but i'm still cooking. just that i'm hiring a maid to do the cleaning.
he is like, sure whatever you want.lolclick to expand
Posted by Metatronwhy dont you just do that now?😕Posted by lisabethur8definitely the way to go....would like to ultimately hire a live-in maid who cooks as well....the cleaning issue has always been a sore spot in relationships....am a bit of a neat freak....Posted by Metatronwow that IS completely not right especially if she's working full time, coming home and going to the grocery store, and planning ect.Posted by WittyGem88for me? definitely....the idea that the woman should do all the cooking is pretty ridiculous...I've been in those relationships where its one-sided like that and of course I took advantage of it and took the whole situation for granted w/o a thought....she's looking up recipes and planning the night before, making lists of ingredients, running to the store after work and prepping/cooking it all....I'm chilling on the couch reading or gaming, completely oblivious, getting served, even slacking on the cleanup/dishes occasionally....extremely unfair....
So lets say I am a very adventurous kind of gal like can do bungee jumping, skydiving, scuba diving etc. and lets say I am smart, has a career, funny, good in bed, listens and supports you BUT i cannot cook for the love of god — would you consider me as wife material?
I like the idea of cooking together and really would like to get into it more myself and take classes with a partner, alternate nights or cook each meal together....plus there are all sorts of food services that deliver super healthy gourmet meals now...when I did paleo with an ex, we used one of them and the food was excellent.....
all the things you mention are very cool...my friend at work trains people to dive and I've actually been wanting to take lessons forever...definitely something I'd like to get into...I love watching shows on anything related to the ocean....seems to be the closest you can get to visiting an alien world...
me and my husband have an agreement if i work full time, more than 30 hours a week, outside and then come home, we're hiring a maid but i'm still cooking. just that i'm hiring a maid to do the cleaning.
he is like, sure whatever you want.lolclick to expand
for us, no way, no live in maid.
there might be an Arnold Schwarzzenneger move....maid live in style having babies and find out 20 years later.
even if she's big and old and chubby, no matter. Arnold's maid wasn't model beauty queen.
Posted by lisabethur8own a condo currently that is very manageable for me, but will be house hunting in about a year....more so an issue with a partner (I attract slobs), and in a larger space....Posted by Metatronwhy dont you just do that now?😕Posted by lisabethur8definitely the way to go....would like to ultimately hire a live-in maid who cooks as well....the cleaning issue has always been a sore spot in relationships....am a bit of a neat freak....Posted by Metatronwow that IS completely not right especially if she's working full time, coming home and going to the grocery store, and planning ect.Posted by WittyGem88for me? definitely....the idea that the woman should do all the cooking is pretty ridiculous...I've been in those relationships where its one-sided like that and of course I took advantage of it and took the whole situation for granted w/o a thought....she's looking up recipes and planning the night before, making lists of ingredients, running to the store after work and prepping/cooking it all....I'm chilling on the couch reading or gaming, completely oblivious, getting served, even slacking on the cleanup/dishes occasionally....extremely unfair....
So lets say I am a very adventurous kind of gal like can do bungee jumping, skydiving, scuba diving etc. and lets say I am smart, has a career, funny, good in bed, listens and supports you BUT i cannot cook for the love of god — would you consider me as wife material?
I like the idea of cooking together and really would like to get into it more myself and take classes with a partner, alternate nights or cook each meal together....plus there are all sorts of food services that deliver super healthy gourmet meals now...when I did paleo with an ex, we used one of them and the food was excellent.....
all the things you mention are very cool...my friend at work trains people to dive and I've actually been wanting to take lessons forever...definitely something I'd like to get into...I love watching shows on anything related to the ocean....seems to be the closest you can get to visiting an alien world...
me and my husband have an agreement if i work full time, more than 30 hours a week, outside and then come home, we're hiring a maid but i'm still cooking. just that i'm hiring a maid to do the cleaning.
he is like, sure whatever you want.lol
for us, no way, no live in maid.
there might be an Arnold Schwarzzenneger move....maid live in style having babies and find out 20 years later.
even if she's big and old and chubby, no matter. Arnold's maid wasn't model beauty queen.click to expand
Arnold was banging his maid and had kids with her? sad...
Posted by Metatronyour ex was a slob? how could she be a slob if she works all day and then comes home trying to prepare a meal and cook lolPosted by lisabethur8own a condo currently that is very manageable for me, but will be house hunting in about a year....more so an issue with a partner (I attract slobs), and in a larger space....Posted by Metatronwhy dont you just do that now?😕Posted by lisabethur8definitely the way to go....would like to ultimately hire a live-in maid who cooks as well....the cleaning issue has always been a sore spot in relationships....am a bit of a neat freak....Posted by Metatronwow that IS completely not right especially if she's working full time, coming home and going to the grocery store, and planning ect.Posted by WittyGem88for me? definitely....the idea that the woman should do all the cooking is pretty ridiculous...I've been in those relationships where its one-sided like that and of course I took advantage of it and took the whole situation for granted w/o a thought....she's looking up recipes and planning the night before, making lists of ingredients, running to the store after work and prepping/cooking it all....I'm chilling on the couch reading or gaming, completely oblivious, getting served, even slacking on the cleanup/dishes occasionally....extremely unfair....
So lets say I am a very adventurous kind of gal like can do bungee jumping, skydiving, scuba diving etc. and lets say I am smart, has a career, funny, good in bed, listens and supports you BUT i cannot cook for the love of god — would you consider me as wife material?
I like the idea of cooking together and really would like to get into it more myself and take classes with a partner, alternate nights or cook each meal together....plus there are all sorts of food services that deliver super healthy gourmet meals now...when I did paleo with an ex, we used one of them and the food was excellent.....
all the things you mention are very cool...my friend at work trains people to dive and I've actually been wanting to take lessons forever...definitely something I'd like to get into...I love watching shows on anything related to the ocean....seems to be the closest you can get to visiting an alien world...
me and my husband have an agreement if i work full time, more than 30 hours a week, outside and then come home, we're hiring a maid but i'm still cooking. just that i'm hiring a maid to do the cleaning.
he is like, sure whatever you want.lol
for us, no way, no live in maid.
there might be an Arnold Schwarzzenneger move....maid live in style having babies and find out 20 years later.
even if she's big and old and chubby, no matter. Arnold's maid wasn't model beauty queen.
Arnold was banging his maid and had kids with her? sad...click to expand
only one child (Arnold)
his pride and joy.
Posted by lisabethur8wow...they look very similar...Posted by Metatronyour ex was a slob? how could she be a slob if she works all day and then comes home trying to prepare a meal and cook lolPosted by lisabethur8own a condo currently that is very manageable for me, but will be house hunting in about a year....more so an issue with a partner (I attract slobs), and in a larger space....Posted by Metatronwhy dont you just do that now?😕Posted by lisabethur8definitely the way to go....would like to ultimately hire a live-in maid who cooks as well....the cleaning issue has always been a sore spot in relationships....am a bit of a neat freak....Posted by Metatronwow that IS completely not right especially if she's working full time, coming home and going to the grocery store, and planning ect.Posted by WittyGem88for me? definitely....the idea that the woman should do all the cooking is pretty ridiculous...I've been in those relationships where its one-sided like that and of course I took advantage of it and took the whole situation for granted w/o a thought....she's looking up recipes and planning the night before, making lists of ingredients, running to the store after work and prepping/cooking it all....I'm chilling on the couch reading or gaming, completely oblivious, getting served, even slacking on the cleanup/dishes occasionally....extremely unfair....
So lets say I am a very adventurous kind of gal like can do bungee jumping, skydiving, scuba diving etc. and lets say I am smart, has a career, funny, good in bed, listens and supports you BUT i cannot cook for the love of god — would you consider me as wife material?
I like the idea of cooking together and really would like to get into it more myself and take classes with a partner, alternate nights or cook each meal together....plus there are all sorts of food services that deliver super healthy gourmet meals now...when I did paleo with an ex, we used one of them and the food was excellent.....
all the things you mention are very cool...my friend at work trains people to dive and I've actually been wanting to take lessons forever...definitely something I'd like to get into...I love watching shows on anything related to the ocean....seems to be the closest you can get to visiting an alien world...
me and my husband have an agreement if i work full time, more than 30 hours a week, outside and then come home, we're hiring a maid but i'm still cooking. just that i'm hiring a maid to do the cleaning.
he is like, sure whatever you want.lol
for us, no way, no live in maid.
there might be an Arnold Schwarzzenneger move....maid live in style having babies and find out 20 years later.
even if she's big and old and chubby, no matter. Arnold's maid wasn't model beauty queen.
Arnold was banging his maid and had kids with her? sad...
only one child (Arnold)
his pride and joy.
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she worked day and night actually (her choice, Cap stellium)....always on her notebook at home....I've found that the busier a person is, typically the less they clean up after themselves....she'd make piles everywhere....come home and change, leave a pile in the corner of the room with her badge, clothes/shoes, purse, loose change, receipts....she'd get ready real fast in the morning, leave the whole counter covered in her equipment....if I didn't tend to the piles, they'd just grow....piles of shoes and clothes in the closets, piles in the pantry, piles in her car etc....she liked it...just walk on over to the pile, rummage a little and get what she needed....reminded me of little hamster nests everywhere....
Posted by Metatronlol sounds like my cappy mother in law. but older of course. she hires a maid too.Posted by lisabethur8wow...they look very similar...Posted by Metatronyour ex was a slob? how could she be a slob if she works all day and then comes home trying to prepare a meal and cook lolPosted by lisabethur8own a condo currently that is very manageable for me, but will be house hunting in about a year....more so an issue with a partner (I attract slobs), and in a larger space....Posted by Metatronwhy dont you just do that now?😕Posted by lisabethur8definitely the way to go....would like to ultimately hire a live-in maid who cooks as well....the cleaning issue has always been a sore spot in relationships....am a bit of a neat freak....Posted by Metatronwow that IS completely not right especially if she's working full time, coming home and going to the grocery store, and planning ect.Posted by WittyGem88for me? definitely....the idea that the woman should do all the cooking is pretty ridiculous...I've been in those relationships where its one-sided like that and of course I took advantage of it and took the whole situation for granted w/o a thought....she's looking up recipes and planning the night before, making lists of ingredients, running to the store after work and prepping/cooking it all....I'm chilling on the couch reading or gaming, completely oblivious, getting served, even slacking on the cleanup/dishes occasionally....extremely unfair....
So lets say I am a very adventurous kind of gal like can do bungee jumping, skydiving, scuba diving etc. and lets say I am smart, has a career, funny, good in bed, listens and supports you BUT i cannot cook for the love of god — would you consider me as wife material?
I like the idea of cooking together and really would like to get into it more myself and take classes with a partner, alternate nights or cook each meal together....plus there are all sorts of food services that deliver super healthy gourmet meals now...when I did paleo with an ex, we used one of them and the food was excellent.....
all the things you mention are very cool...my friend at work trains people to dive and I've actually been wanting to take lessons forever...definitely something I'd like to get into...I love watching shows on anything related to the ocean....seems to be the closest you can get to visiting an alien world...
me and my husband have an agreement if i work full time, more than 30 hours a week, outside and then come home, we're hiring a maid but i'm still cooking. just that i'm hiring a maid to do the cleaning.
he is like, sure whatever you want.lol
for us, no way, no live in maid.
there might be an Arnold Schwarzzenneger move....maid live in style having babies and find out 20 years later.
even if she's big and old and chubby, no matter. Arnold's maid wasn't model beauty queen.
Arnold was banging his maid and had kids with her? sad...
only one child (Arnold)
his pride and joy.
she worked day and night actually (her choice, Cap stellium)....always on her notebook at home....I've found that the busier a person is, typically the less they clean up after themselves....she'd make piles everywhere....come home and change, leave a pile in the corner of the room with her badge, clothes/shoes, purse, loose change, receipts....she'd get ready real fast in the morning, leave the whole counter covered in her equipment....if I didn't tend to the piles, they'd just grow....piles of shoes and clothes in the closets, piles in the pantry, piles in her car etc....she liked it...just walk on over to the pile, rummage a little and get what she needed....reminded me of little hamster nests everywhere....click to expand
she got stuff everywhere. i even helped her a couple times with her attic rummage to throw out and dust
I think it's a choice the woman makes.
If a woman is serious, she gets to a point where she attracts serious partners and not someone that will put her in a hookup category.
Not to say that just because shes serious she'll automatically meet mr. Right, but I think she'd be at a stage where she can spot and not entertain mr. No good.
If a woman is serious, she gets to a point where she attracts serious partners and not someone that will put her in a hookup category.
Not to say that just because shes serious she'll automatically meet mr. Right, but I think she'd be at a stage where she can spot and not entertain mr. No good.
Guys basically test their boundaries. Women who are willing to let them do whatever with no boundaries set or standards for themselves are deemed easy.
Hoe is an easy woman. A basic woman who puts out easily and has no self-worth. This woman is also an easy target for men looking for just sex. Usually a woman like this is easily persuaded to do whatever the guy wants.
Wife material is the opposite of a basic woman. She’s not easy and can not be easily convinced to do what a guy wants her to do. She respects herself and creates boundaries.
Hoe is an easy woman. A basic woman who puts out easily and has no self-worth. This woman is also an easy target for men looking for just sex. Usually a woman like this is easily persuaded to do whatever the guy wants.
Wife material is the opposite of a basic woman. She’s not easy and can not be easily convinced to do what a guy wants her to do. She respects herself and creates boundaries.
Posted by LadyNeptunePlease tell me you're not serious with this. No way, impossible that you believe this is real lol
The thing that makes a man want to wife you is the emotional connection he feels towards you. Sex is great but if you don't create a strong emotional bond you are likely to remain a FWB or girlfriend.
Posted by DMVYou should write a book
I think of a ho as a women who leaves nothing to the imagination.
Posted by DonnaLibra
The thing that makes a man want to wife you is the emotional connection he feels towards you. Sex is great but if you don't create a strong emotional bond you are likely to remain a FWB or girlfriend.
Not just emotional
Some men will love a girl, but will marry another one 🙅🏻♀️
Jesuuus Christ, No comment
Posted by Lioness18881This is the realist thing I've ever seen on the internet.
I think they wife the boring ones that have no opinions or personality. You have to be a door mat until they put a ring on it. Or be unattractive so they know you'll be loyal because no one else would want you
Posted by HaruukaAgain, TRUTH.
Fk boy is looking for wify
A good man is looking for a hoe
"Hoes"?
Really....do people still regard women this way?
We are living in the 21st century....not the 19th
Women calling other women names...Mary Whitehouse would love this
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Really....do people still regard women this way?
We are living in the 21st century....not the 19th
Women calling other women names...Mary Whitehouse would love this
👎🏻😐
Posted by Queenaries2Catfight
Because I know some “hoes” who are in relationships
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Be able to have the option to have sex with a lot of people, but they were ugly to average looking
OR
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So, I'm listening to an iHeart Radio station this evening and they brought up a question that I find interesting. Say you're in a long term, committed relationship/marriage and your partner tells you they're having a casual lunch with an ex of theirs...wh
I went through this. I would ignore it all and he would try a lot even to make me jealous.
It was pathetic
What gives
Men are shitty af
Another reason why I’m never getting married
Tell me I wanna chat :p :p
theres this Sag sun/ Taurus moon/ scorpio venus i adore.. i know Taurus sun people can be NOTORIOUSLY slow with everything, just wondering if that's the same with Taurus moon people because he is showing CLASSSSIC Taurus "i REEEEALLY like you" signs (supe
feel free to
specify gender
sexuality
chinese zodiac sign
Any observations or advises about female venus pisces and male venus scorpio couple?
I notice everytime they talk to each other they both make a lot of eye contact and sometimes when he walks into a room she'll touch or lightly fix her hair.
My best friend is a Leo.
My girlfriend is a gemini.
Am i over thinking?
i saw the other day that Kim cattral's brother was found dead :(
r.i.p. that's really horrible to have a beloved family member pass away, especially really young
so what is going on with Sex and the city's Jessica and Kim?
i saw it on CNN.
Yet we agreed to just hookup.
Weird or just me? 😂😂
We have been talking for almost 2 months now too.
The title basically says it all.. what’s the difference? Is there a difference?
Text my Libra got from Virgo:
We have to find evening to watch the show and you can spend nights anytime you want. My doors are open for you. I am all yours babe...
How sick is that?
Though he does give her an attention, invited to spend time with h
Curious if anyone has this with their SO or spouse and how it plays out?