Why are some girls hook up material and some wifey (Page 2)

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That’s why hoe is life

Unemotional hoes win at life. They get what they want

Good girls get the shitty men. I have this good looking friend. She isn’t a prude, but she is still a good girl. She attracts a lot of fuck boys who use her. I tell her every Monday (after class) to start to have fun and duck men. Don’t give them 100 percent

That’s because it’s all about the cat and mouse. The longer you keep em at bay the more they want you. Unemotional bitches are usually withdrawn due to a lack of interest since they probably have a hidden agenda. A true queen holds out until she gets that ring, if that’s really what she’s after. Rather, that's one way to have better chances of getting a 💍 I should say before offering up the goods. Not a gold digger but I would like someone who can spoil me. Seems like it’s hard to find that all-in-one. To some living a life of luxury is more important than ❤️Not my shit. But kudos to them. Hoes do be winning sometimes.

What kind of hidden agenda

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Whatever I’m tickled by at the moment.. oops did I just tell on myself 😂

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I want to marry a man that is comfortable with my confidence

And doesn’t feel threaten becuz I’m attractive.

Like why does being attractive and confident instantly mean ur a suspect for cheating

Usually the serial accuser is the one whose actually cheating.

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The only difference between the wifee and the ho is that wifee settled. These labels from the patriarchy don’t define us as women. Laugh in the faces of those who think it does.

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So fuck boy and a hoe is match made in Heaven!

Hoes are looking for good men.

Then after hoe finds a good man she looks for a fuck boy...so why not to do it right from the beginning?

Hoes are just looking to pass the time ....they are not ready to settle down.

You said hoes are getting married to a good guys. So they settle down. Get married! And later looking for fuck boys?

I can relate...🤣

Or aliens ....and most fuck bois are aliens.

Have you taken your meds?

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Everyone knows that! 🤣🤣❤️

Go buy that book.

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I have Dxp and you! I don’t need no fucking books! Plus...I am not a reader! I am a writer...lol

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Well, I guess the wifey is hookup material too, no? Unless peeps be getting married without hooking up, which is just crazy to me.

But I know what you mean, OP. Some girls are only seen as hookup material because the interest never goes beyond sexual. I suppose what determines this depends on the guy, but for the most part, women with little value other than what's on the outside are typically only seen as hookup material. Sleeping with a guy before/on the first date also seems to swing the pendelum in that direction as well for a lot of dudes.

Placing value on yourself is a REALLY good way to get guys to do it too. Not guaranteed, but a lot better than toating around a big bag insecurity.

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Well you see, some women are slutz, while some are hores. Some can also be nyphos, or hoz, but there is a difference between all of them which I will explain in great detail. Or till I get board and want to do something else.

Slutz aren't necessary bad. Back in the day they were regarded as negative, but in today's time they are fully accepted as normal women in society. Slutz can be, but aren't necessarily hoars, nymphos or hoz. Normally slutz are just women who do dumb things more times then not. Like dress skimpy because they think its a reasonable thing to do. Or put a nice dent in the car because they were distracted by other things rather then the situation at hand. Slutz tend to be greatly influenced by other people in their life. Slutz aren't necessary stupid, but have a tendency to make bad choice. They also tend to be extreamly social. A hoar on the other hand can be slutz or nymphos, but the thing about them is they are willing to use things like their body or sex for money. A hoar can never be hoz. Hoars tend to be pretty intelligent, and the most deceiving of women. They are 100% guaranteed to cheat. They know how to use their body as a weapon, which needs to be constantly watched out for. Nymphos can be slutz, hoars, or hoz. Or they can be completely normal, or even anti social. A nympho is simply a woman who loves sex, and wont necessarily cheat. But they easily can if the have the hoar or hoz trait to them. Hoz are like hoars, but the difference is they have the intelligence of slutz. That means they are likely to be manipulated by men or women, and honestly think thats ok. All pimps own a handful of hoz, because where the hoar works for themselves the hoz work for a boss. Mostly males or females who control the redlight district find true self sufficient hoars as a bad competition for business.

Which is why majority of women aren't wife material. To sum this all up most tend to be slutz, hoars, nymphos, or hoz, and very few tend to be actual strong women. I'm sure there are many of you out there, but those of you who are actually good encounter fucked up men make you think twice before trying the dating game again. Because of that good men and women cant find each other anymore.

With that being said, I need a drink..

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Posted by Soul
Well you see, some women are slutz, while some are hores. Some can also be nyphos, or hoz, but there is a difference between all of them which I will explain in great detail. Or till I get board and want to do something else.

Slutz aren't necessary bad. Back in the day they were regarded as negative, but in today's time they are fully accepted as normal women in society. Slutz can be, but aren't necessarily hoars, nymphos or hoz. Normally slutz are just women who do dumb things more times then not. Like dress skimpy because they think its a reasonable thing to do. Or put a nice dent in the car because they were distracted by other things rather then the situation at hand. Slutz tend to be greatly influenced by other people in their life. Slutz aren't necessary stupid, but have a tendency to make bad choice. They also tend to be extreamly social. A hoar on the other hand can be slutz or nymphos, but the thing about them is they are willing to use things like their body or sex for money. A hoar can never be hoz. Hoars tend to be pretty intelligent, and the most deceiving of women. They are 100% guaranteed to cheat. They know how to use their body as a weapon, which needs to be constantly watched out for. Nymphos can be slutz, hoars, or hoz. Or they can be completely normal, or even anti social. A nympho is simply a woman who loves sex, and wont necessarily cheat. But they easily can if the have the hoar or hoz trait to them. Hoz are like hoars, but the difference is they have the intelligence of slutz. That means they are likely to be manipulated by men or women, and honestly think thats ok. All pimps own a handful of hoz, because where the hoar works for themselves the hoz work for a boss. Mostly males or females who control the redlight district find true self sufficient hoars as a bad competition for business.

Which is why majority of women aren't wife material. To sum this all up most tend to be slutz, hoars, nymphos, or hoz, and very few tend to be actual strong women. I'm sure there are many of you out there, but those of you who are actually good encounter fucked up men make you think twice before trying the dating game again. Because of that good men and women cant find each other anymore.

With that being said, I need a drink..

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Well you see, some women are slutz, while some are hores. Some can also be nyphos, or hoz, but there is a difference between all of them which I will explain in great detail. Or till I get board and want to do something else.

Slutz aren't necessary bad. Back in the day they were regarded as negative, but in today's time they are fully accepted as normal women in society. Slutz can be, but aren't necessarily hoars, nymphos or hoz. Normally slutz are just women who do dumb things more times then not. Like dress skimpy because they think its a reasonable thing to do. Or put a nice dent in the car because they were distracted by other things rather then the situation at hand. Slutz tend to be greatly influenced by other people in their life. Slutz aren't necessary stupid, but have a tendency to make bad choice. They also tend to be extreamly social. A hoar on the other hand can be slutz or nymphos, but the thing about them is they are willing to use things like their body or sex for money. A hoar can never be hoz. Hoars tend to be pretty intelligent, and the most deceiving of women. They are 100% guaranteed to cheat. They know how to use their body as a weapon, which needs to be constantly watched out for. Nymphos can be slutz, hoars, or hoz. Or they can be completely normal, or even anti social. A nympho is simply a woman who loves sex, and wont necessarily cheat. But they easily can if the have the hoar or hoz trait to them. Hoz are like hoars, but the difference is they have the intelligence of slutz. That means they are likely to be manipulated by men or women, and honestly think thats ok. All pimps own a handful of hoz, because where the hoar works for themselves the hoz work for a boss. Mostly males or females who control the redlight district find true self sufficient hoars as a bad competition for business.

Which is why majority of women aren't wife material. To sum this all up most tend to be slutz, hoars, nymphos, or hoz, and very few tend to be actual strong women. I'm sure there are many of you out there, but those of you who are actually good encounter fucked up men make you think twice before trying the dating game again. Because of that good men and women cant find each other anymore.

With that being said, I need a drink..

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Ty! It took me like 11 minutes to write that. Im glad you liked it

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I'm sure this is different for everyone....

random hookups -

can't speak to it much as its not really my thing. If I allow it to go all the way physical w/someone I'm not that compatible with, I can def get overly attached or just feel committed to them out of mere obligation (don't want them to feel used/dropped)....Just being in their physical presence too often can even do that to me. I do stay in touch with my exes for many reasons, one of which is something a Sag friend convinced me of a while back - if you're in overlapping dry spells, you already have that connection, know the level of sexual compatibility, and don't have to go looking for randoms....definitely can be tricky but much less effort and risk than FWB IMO...

wifey material -

- can we communicate? can we be real/honest with each other when it counts? can we sit down, eye to eye, and have rational, open/vulnerable convos around emotional issues, see and admit our own fault, apologize and forgive sincerely, compromise/find solutions, etc.? can we get past our pride and be constructive - or is the dynamic unyielding and overly competitive? Stuffing emotions around perceived injuries has proven disastrous to my past relationships....I really do believe communication is almost everything....

- big one for me...if kids are involved, or will be, is this a person I can imagine raising a child with? Do we have similar/overlapping values to where we can agree on how to raise a child? Does this person embody what I would want to see mirrored in our child? I imagine, especially with a daughter, she'll be the most significant role model for her. Is she hard working, optimistic, progressive? Does she respect and value herself, have class, dignity, discretion? And do the people around her treat her with the same? All things I consider from a parental angle....

- does she have hobbies, interests, passions, creative outlets? If their life revolves around us, and doing stuff together all the time, they'll feel neglected bc I can be highly introverted and have my own constant rotation of things i'm into. Or I'll just cave to their feelings and wind up neglecting who I actually am, getting bored etc....If they have such hobbies/pursuits though, I like to be supportive of them however I can, find ways to help promote them, and even get into their hobbies w/them - learn what they do, and do it along side of them if possible....That's really attractive to me, when I can learn something new from a partner....

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it depends on your placements and upbringing and your way of life, for example, i would never be wifey material for alot of men.

and i dont want to be wifey material for them. lol

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2 dudes both trying to wife up this basic thot. Men's minds are goofy af.

lool

it's staged, isn't it? but I guess this happens for real on a daily basis

Btw, Jerry is sooo wise in the end of the clip!

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WHAT ON EARTH DID I JUST READ? WHAT IF A HOE ASK A GUY TO MOVE IN WITH HER? IS HE NUMBER ONE ON THE SIDE-DUDE LIST? HAHAHA

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So lets say I am a very adventurous kind of gal like can do bungee jumping, skydiving, scuba diving etc. and lets say I am smart, has a career, funny, good in bed, listens and supports you BUT i cannot cook for the love of god — would you consider me as wife material?

for me? definitely....the idea that the woman should do all the cooking is pretty ridiculous...I've been in those relationships where its one-sided like that and of course I took advantage of it and took the whole situation for granted w/o a thought....she's looking up recipes and planning the night before, making lists of ingredients, running to the store after work and prepping/cooking it all....I'm chilling on the couch reading or gaming, completely oblivious, getting served, even slacking on the cleanup/dishes occasionally....extremely unfair....

I like the idea of cooking together and really would like to get into it more myself and take classes with a partner, alternate nights or cook each meal together....plus there are all sorts of food services that deliver super healthy gourmet meals now...when I did paleo with an ex, we used one of them and the food was excellent.....

all the things you mention are very cool...my friend at work trains people to dive and I've actually been wanting to take lessons forever...definitely something I'd like to get into...I love watching shows on anything related to the ocean....seems to be the closest you can get to visiting an alien world...

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Some women just have a foundation / personality of a wife or mother .

Tendency to nurture , care, and think of others .

Some single women have this , some married and with children don’t .

I think people can sense this . I have a mother tendency as told by my peers . I always let other people eat first , I naturally play well with kids, I’m a homebody . Wifey doesn’t necessarily mean cook and clean .

But then again wifey and ho are terms thrown around these days without much meaning

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So lets say I am a very adventurous kind of gal like can do bungee jumping, skydiving, scuba diving etc. and lets say I am smart, has a career, funny, good in bed, listens and supports you BUT i cannot cook for the love of god — would you consider me as wife material?

for me? definitely....the idea that the woman should do all the cooking is pretty ridiculous...I've been in those relationships where its one-sided like that and of course I took advantage of it and took the whole situation for granted w/o a thought....she's looking up recipes and planning the night before, making lists of ingredients, running to the store after work and prepping/cooking it all....I'm chilling on the couch reading or gaming, completely oblivious, getting served, even slacking on the cleanup/dishes occasionally....extremely unfair....

I like the idea of cooking together and really would like to get into it more myself and take classes with a partner, alternate nights or cook each meal together....plus there are all sorts of food services that deliver super healthy gourmet meals now...when I did paleo with an ex, we used one of them and the food was excellent.....

all the things you mention are very cool...my friend at work trains people to dive and I've actually been wanting to take lessons forever...definitely something I'd like to get into...I love watching shows on anything related to the ocean....seems to be the closest you can get to visiting an alien world...

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wow that IS completely not right especially if she's working full time, coming home and going to the grocery store, and planning ect.

me and my husband have an agreement if i work full time, more than 30 hours a week, outside and then come home, we're hiring a maid but i'm still cooking. just that i'm hiring a maid to do the cleaning.

he is like, sure whatever you want.lol

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Posted by WittyGem88

So lets say I am a very adventurous kind of gal like can do bungee jumping, skydiving, scuba diving etc. and lets say I am smart, has a career, funny, good in bed, listens and supports you BUT i cannot cook for the love of god — would you consider me as wife material?

for me? definitely....the idea that the woman should do all the cooking is pretty ridiculous...I've been in those relationships where its one-sided like that and of course I took advantage of it and took the whole situation for granted w/o a thought....she's looking up recipes and planning the night before, making lists of ingredients, running to the store after work and prepping/cooking it all....I'm chilling on the couch reading or gaming, completely oblivious, getting served, even slacking on the cleanup/dishes occasionally....extremely unfair....

I like the idea of cooking together and really would like to get into it more myself and take classes with a partner, alternate nights or cook each meal together....plus there are all sorts of food services that deliver super healthy gourmet meals now...when I did paleo with an ex, we used one of them and the food was excellent.....

all the things you mention are very cool...my friend at work trains people to dive and I've actually been wanting to take lessons forever...definitely something I'd like to get into...I love watching shows on anything related to the ocean....seems to be the closest you can get to visiting an alien world...

wow that IS completely not right especially if she's working full time, coming home and going to the grocery store, and planning ect.

me and my husband have an agreement if i work full time, more than 30 hours a week, outside and then come home, we're hiring a maid but i'm still cooking. just that i'm hiring a maid to do the cleaning.

he is like, sure whatever you want.lol

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definitely the way to go....would like to ultimately hire a live-in maid who cooks as well....the cleaning issue has always been a sore spot in relationships....am a bit of a neat freak....

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Posted by WittyGem88

So lets say I am a very adventurous kind of gal like can do bungee jumping, skydiving, scuba diving etc. and lets say I am smart, has a career, funny, good in bed, listens and supports you BUT i cannot cook for the love of god — would you consider me as wife material?

for me? definitely....the idea that the woman should do all the cooking is pretty ridiculous...I've been in those relationships where its one-sided like that and of course I took advantage of it and took the whole situation for granted w/o a thought....she's looking up recipes and planning the night before, making lists of ingredients, running to the store after work and prepping/cooking it all....I'm chilling on the couch reading or gaming, completely oblivious, getting served, even slacking on the cleanup/dishes occasionally....extremely unfair....

I like the idea of cooking together and really would like to get into it more myself and take classes with a partner, alternate nights or cook each meal together....plus there are all sorts of food services that deliver super healthy gourmet meals now...when I did paleo with an ex, we used one of them and the food was excellent.....

all the things you mention are very cool...my friend at work trains people to dive and I've actually been wanting to take lessons forever...definitely something I'd like to get into...I love watching shows on anything related to the ocean....seems to be the closest you can get to visiting an alien world...

wow that IS completely not right especially if she's working full time, coming home and going to the grocery store, and planning ect.

me and my husband have an agreement if i work full time, more than 30 hours a week, outside and then come home, we're hiring a maid but i'm still cooking. just that i'm hiring a maid to do the cleaning.

he is like, sure whatever you want.lol

definitely the way to go....would like to ultimately hire a live-in maid who cooks as well....the cleaning issue has always been a sore spot in relationships....am a bit of a neat freak....

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why dont you just do that now?😕

for us, no way, no live in maid.

there might be an Arnold Schwarzzenneger move....maid live in style having babies and find out 20 years later.

even if she's big and old and chubby, no matter. Arnold's maid wasn't model beauty queen.

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So lets say I am a very adventurous kind of gal like can do bungee jumping, skydiving, scuba diving etc. and lets say I am smart, has a career, funny, good in bed, listens and supports you BUT i cannot cook for the love of god — would you consider me as wife material?

for me? definitely....the idea that the woman should do all the cooking is pretty ridiculous...I've been in those relationships where its one-sided like that and of course I took advantage of it and took the whole situation for granted w/o a thought....she's looking up recipes and planning the night before, making lists of ingredients, running to the store after work and prepping/cooking it all....I'm chilling on the couch reading or gaming, completely oblivious, getting served, even slacking on the cleanup/dishes occasionally....extremely unfair....

I like the idea of cooking together and really would like to get into it more myself and take classes with a partner, alternate nights or cook each meal together....plus there are all sorts of food services that deliver super healthy gourmet meals now...when I did paleo with an ex, we used one of them and the food was excellent.....

all the things you mention are very cool...my friend at work trains people to dive and I've actually been wanting to take lessons forever...definitely something I'd like to get into...I love watching shows on anything related to the ocean....seems to be the closest you can get to visiting an alien world...

wow that IS completely not right especially if she's working full time, coming home and going to the grocery store, and planning ect.

me and my husband have an agreement if i work full time, more than 30 hours a week, outside and then come home, we're hiring a maid but i'm still cooking. just that i'm hiring a maid to do the cleaning.

he is like, sure whatever you want.lol

definitely the way to go....would like to ultimately hire a live-in maid who cooks as well....the cleaning issue has always been a sore spot in relationships....am a bit of a neat freak....

why dont you just do that now?😕

for us, no way, no live in maid.

there might be an Arnold Schwarzzenneger move....maid live in style having babies and find out 20 years later.

even if she's big and old and chubby, no matter. Arnold's maid wasn't model beauty queen.

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own a condo currently that is very manageable for me, but will be house hunting in about a year....more so an issue with a partner (I attract slobs), and in a larger space....

Arnold was banging his maid and had kids with her? sad...

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Posted by WittyGem88

So lets say I am a very adventurous kind of gal like can do bungee jumping, skydiving, scuba diving etc. and lets say I am smart, has a career, funny, good in bed, listens and supports you BUT i cannot cook for the love of god — would you consider me as wife material?

for me? definitely....the idea that the woman should do all the cooking is pretty ridiculous...I've been in those relationships where its one-sided like that and of course I took advantage of it and took the whole situation for granted w/o a thought....she's looking up recipes and planning the night before, making lists of ingredients, running to the store after work and prepping/cooking it all....I'm chilling on the couch reading or gaming, completely oblivious, getting served, even slacking on the cleanup/dishes occasionally....extremely unfair....

I like the idea of cooking together and really would like to get into it more myself and take classes with a partner, alternate nights or cook each meal together....plus there are all sorts of food services that deliver super healthy gourmet meals now...when I did paleo with an ex, we used one of them and the food was excellent.....

all the things you mention are very cool...my friend at work trains people to dive and I've actually been wanting to take lessons forever...definitely something I'd like to get into...I love watching shows on anything related to the ocean....seems to be the closest you can get to visiting an alien world...

wow that IS completely not right especially if she's working full time, coming home and going to the grocery store, and planning ect.

me and my husband have an agreement if i work full time, more than 30 hours a week, outside and then come home, we're hiring a maid but i'm still cooking. just that i'm hiring a maid to do the cleaning.

he is like, sure whatever you want.lol

definitely the way to go....would like to ultimately hire a live-in maid who cooks as well....the cleaning issue has always been a sore spot in relationships....am a bit of a neat freak....

why dont you just do that now?😕

for us, no way, no live in maid.

there might be an Arnold Schwarzzenneger move....maid live in style having babies and find out 20 years later.

even if she's big and old and chubby, no matter. Arnold's maid wasn't model beauty queen.

own a condo currently that is very manageable for me, but will be house hunting in about a year....more so an issue with a partner (I attract slobs), and in a larger space....

Arnold was banging his maid and had kids with her? sad...

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your ex was a slob? how could she be a slob if she works all day and then comes home trying to prepare a meal and cook lol

only one child (Arnold)

his pride and joy.

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So lets say I am a very adventurous kind of gal like can do bungee jumping, skydiving, scuba diving etc. and lets say I am smart, has a career, funny, good in bed, listens and supports you BUT i cannot cook for the love of god — would you consider me as wife material?

for me? definitely....the idea that the woman should do all the cooking is pretty ridiculous...I've been in those relationships where its one-sided like that and of course I took advantage of it and took the whole situation for granted w/o a thought....she's looking up recipes and planning the night before, making lists of ingredients, running to the store after work and prepping/cooking it all....I'm chilling on the couch reading or gaming, completely oblivious, getting served, even slacking on the cleanup/dishes occasionally....extremely unfair....

I like the idea of cooking together and really would like to get into it more myself and take classes with a partner, alternate nights or cook each meal together....plus there are all sorts of food services that deliver super healthy gourmet meals now...when I did paleo with an ex, we used one of them and the food was excellent.....

all the things you mention are very cool...my friend at work trains people to dive and I've actually been wanting to take lessons forever...definitely something I'd like to get into...I love watching shows on anything related to the ocean....seems to be the closest you can get to visiting an alien world...

wow that IS completely not right especially if she's working full time, coming home and going to the grocery store, and planning ect.

me and my husband have an agreement if i work full time, more than 30 hours a week, outside and then come home, we're hiring a maid but i'm still cooking. just that i'm hiring a maid to do the cleaning.

he is like, sure whatever you want.lol

definitely the way to go....would like to ultimately hire a live-in maid who cooks as well....the cleaning issue has always been a sore spot in relationships....am a bit of a neat freak....

why dont you just do that now?😕

for us, no way, no live in maid.

there might be an Arnold Schwarzzenneger move....maid live in style having babies and find out 20 years later.

even if she's big and old and chubby, no matter. Arnold's maid wasn't model beauty queen.

own a condo currently that is very manageable for me, but will be house hunting in about a year....more so an issue with a partner (I attract slobs), and in a larger space....

Arnold was banging his maid and had kids with her? sad...

your ex was a slob? how could she be a slob if she works all day and then comes home trying to prepare a meal and cook lol

only one child (Arnold)

his pride and joy.

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wow...they look very similar...

she worked day and night actually (her choice, Cap stellium)....always on her notebook at home....I've found that the busier a person is, typically the less they clean up after themselves....she'd make piles everywhere....come home and change, leave a pile in the corner of the room with her badge, clothes/shoes, purse, loose change, receipts....she'd get ready real fast in the morning, leave the whole counter covered in her equipment....if I didn't tend to the piles, they'd just grow....piles of shoes and clothes in the closets, piles in the pantry, piles in her car etc....she liked it...just walk on over to the pile, rummage a little and get what she needed....reminded me of little hamster nests everywhere....

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Posted by WittyGem88

So lets say I am a very adventurous kind of gal like can do bungee jumping, skydiving, scuba diving etc. and lets say I am smart, has a career, funny, good in bed, listens and supports you BUT i cannot cook for the love of god — would you consider me as wife material?

for me? definitely....the idea that the woman should do all the cooking is pretty ridiculous...I've been in those relationships where its one-sided like that and of course I took advantage of it and took the whole situation for granted w/o a thought....she's looking up recipes and planning the night before, making lists of ingredients, running to the store after work and prepping/cooking it all....I'm chilling on the couch reading or gaming, completely oblivious, getting served, even slacking on the cleanup/dishes occasionally....extremely unfair....

I like the idea of cooking together and really would like to get into it more myself and take classes with a partner, alternate nights or cook each meal together....plus there are all sorts of food services that deliver super healthy gourmet meals now...when I did paleo with an ex, we used one of them and the food was excellent.....

all the things you mention are very cool...my friend at work trains people to dive and I've actually been wanting to take lessons forever...definitely something I'd like to get into...I love watching shows on anything related to the ocean....seems to be the closest you can get to visiting an alien world...

wow that IS completely not right especially if she's working full time, coming home and going to the grocery store, and planning ect.

me and my husband have an agreement if i work full time, more than 30 hours a week, outside and then come home, we're hiring a maid but i'm still cooking. just that i'm hiring a maid to do the cleaning.

he is like, sure whatever you want.lol

definitely the way to go....would like to ultimately hire a live-in maid who cooks as well....the cleaning issue has always been a sore spot in relationships....am a bit of a neat freak....

why dont you just do that now?😕

for us, no way, no live in maid.

there might be an Arnold Schwarzzenneger move....maid live in style having babies and find out 20 years later.

even if she's big and old and chubby, no matter. Arnold's maid wasn't model beauty queen.

own a condo currently that is very manageable for me, but will be house hunting in about a year....more so an issue with a partner (I attract slobs), and in a larger space....

Arnold was banging his maid and had kids with her? sad...

your ex was a slob? how could she be a slob if she works all day and then comes home trying to prepare a meal and cook lol

only one child (Arnold)

his pride and joy.

wow...they look very similar...

she worked day and night actually (her choice, Cap stellium)....always on her notebook at home....I've found that the busier a person is, typically the less they clean up after themselves....she'd make piles everywhere....come home and change, leave a pile in the corner of the room with her badge, clothes/shoes, purse, loose change, receipts....she'd get ready real fast in the morning, leave the whole counter covered in her equipment....if I didn't tend to the piles, they'd just grow....piles of shoes and clothes in the closets, piles in the pantry, piles in her car etc....she liked it...just walk on over to the pile, rummage a little and get what she needed....reminded me of little hamster nests everywhere....

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lol sounds like my cappy mother in law. but older of course. she hires a maid too.

she got stuff everywhere. i even helped her a couple times with her attic rummage to throw out and dust

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@lnana04
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I think it's a choice the woman makes.

If a woman is serious, she gets to a point where she attracts serious partners and not someone that will put her in a hookup category.

Not to say that just because shes serious she'll automatically meet mr. Right, but I think she'd be at a stage where she can spot and not entertain mr. No good.

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Guys basically test their boundaries. Women who are willing to let them do whatever with no boundaries set or standards for themselves are deemed easy.

Hoe is an easy woman. A basic woman who puts out easily and has no self-worth. This woman is also an easy target for men looking for just sex. Usually a woman like this is easily persuaded to do whatever the guy wants.

Wife material is the opposite of a basic woman. She’s not easy and can not be easily convinced to do what a guy wants her to do. She respects herself and creates boundaries.

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8 Years

Posted by LadyNeptune

Please tell me you're not serious with this. No way, impossible that you believe this is real lol

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@DonnaLibra
8 Years1,000+ Posts

The thing that makes a man want to wife you is the emotional connection he feels towards you. Sex is great but if you don't create a strong emotional bond you are likely to remain a FWB or girlfriend.

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Posted by DonnaLibra
The thing that makes a man want to wife you is the emotional connection he feels towards you. Sex is great but if you don't create a strong emotional bond you are likely to remain a FWB or girlfriend.

Not just emotional

Some men will love a girl, but will marry another one 🙅🏻‍♀️

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Posted by Lioness18881
I think they wife the boring ones that have no opinions or personality. You have to be a door mat until they put a ring on it. Or be unattractive so they know you'll be loyal because no one else would want you

This is the realist thing I've ever seen on the internet.

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@MyStarsShine
10 Years25,000+ Posts

"Hoes"?

Really....do people still regard women this way?

We are living in the 21st century....not the 19th

Women calling other women names...Mary Whitehouse would love this

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