Why does my boss stare out my hips and crotch area?

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Unless you go to work in a swimsuit I don’t see what the appeal is.

Lose work slacks or pencil skirts don’t do much to show off vag. Now if he constantly stares at your mouth then you might have something..

That's purely sexual tho. If I look at a chick's ass, then that says nothing about how I feel about her except that I want to fuck her. Which, trust me following that logic, I wanna fuck a lot of bitches.

But what makes me look at a specific chick out of a crowd has nothing to do with any of that. It's usually cancer women that draw my eye the most because they have this positivity that doesn't seem cheap or fake like Sag, and they are just so nice and sweet. In general I am drawn to their walk and talk. Plus if she is in some kinda important position, cause I gotta respect the independent success, accomplishment, and authority that she has achieved.
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Thread is not about looking at ass.



Looking at vag.
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You mean like @OCJack, who feels the need to tell us he can "lift two hundred." Why he cares what we think is beyond me. I know you have no idea what I am talking about. I am just taking this opportunity to troll him.

That's definitely got nothing to do with proving anything. It's called Flaunting. Something confident people do because we're awesome and we know it. So you can suck my balls.
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Don’t you have anyone real to suck them?

Apparently not...
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Thread is not about looking at ass.

Looking at vag.

Right but I was using the example of what body part I tend to look at. It's either the ass or titties. In fact OP's boss sounds like a weirdo honestly. My response to you was to address the fact that you emphasize a man looking elsewhere. As if looking at your face means anything special and like he doesn't just want to bang you.

The real way to know is if he oogles pretty much all of you, and more so seems to just look at you "vaguely". In no particular way. He just seems to observe your overall beauty, almost as if he isn't even looking at your physical beauty.
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🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ I’m not saying it means anything special. Neither is the Op. She thinks he wants to fuck her...desperately.

I think staring at a woman’s mouth is more indicative of that then staring at a crotch covered in loose fabric.

Unless Op is a stripper or escort, in which case it makes sense her boss aka club owner/pimp is examining his money maker.
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Posted by OCJack
You don't HAVE to do anything, but if you don't prove something to me. Regardless of whether I'm a stranger to you and vice versa or not. Then I'm liable to get the impression that you're a liar.
And what you don't seem to be able to grasp is the distinct possibility that plenty of people have zero fucks to give about what everyone else thinks of them and what they say.

Imagine that!!! Then again you got "butthurt" written all over you, so I guess you really can't grasp it.
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Thread is not about looking at ass.

Looking at vag.

Right but I was using the example of what body part I tend to look at. It's either the ass or titties. In fact OP's boss sounds like a weirdo honestly. My response to you was to address the fact that you emphasize a man looking elsewhere. As if looking at your face means anything special and like he doesn't just want to bang you.

The real way to know is if he oogles pretty much all of you, and more so seems to just look at you "vaguely". In no particular way. He just seems to observe your overall beauty, almost as if he isn't even looking at your physical beauty.
🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ I’m not saying it means anything special. Neither is the Op. She thinks he wants to fuck her...desperately.

I think staring at a woman’s mouth is more indicative of that then staring at a crotch covered in loose fabric.

Unless Op is a stripper or escort, in which case it makes sense her boss aka club owner/pimp is examining his money maker.
I always stare at peoples mouths and their eyes when they talk. I go back and forth to those two areas only. Thats cause of my adhd i learned that if i watch peoples mouths i can better absorb and hear what they are saying instead of getting distracted by looking around.

So great...everyone everywhere thinks i wanna screw their brains out 😂😂😂
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If they are like the op...then yes 😂
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And what you don't seem to be able to grasp is the distinct possibility that plenty of people have zero fucks to give about what everyone else thinks of them and what they say.

This is exactly the issue. People these days have this mentality like they just should never care about what other people think. It has nothing to do with being right. To the contrary, those who espouse these sorts of views. Have no regard for whether what the other person thinks, is right or not. Listen to yourself. You didn't say, specifically. That you give zero fucks about what someone else thinks, when those thoughts are wrong. Instead, you don't give a fuck about other people's thoughts. Regardless of whether they are true or not.

So what we have, is a generation of people that never listen to other people. They believe THEY ARE RIGHT NO MATTER WHAT, and can never possibly be wrong. They do not value other minds beyond their own. Which is wrong, because everyone deserves to be heard and considered, and anyone can be right or wrong about something. So really while it sounds like some profound philosophical statement to say "Who gives a fuck what other people think?"

It's actually really dumb as shit. Because it means you're not CONSIDERATE of others' thoughts, feelings, and above all: The fact that they are conscious entities equally capable of knowing something as much as you or even more so.

Rather, if you have a regard for what actually matters. Which is the Truth, above all else. Then you do not say "I do not care what other people think" like a fucking PSYCHOPATH. Instead you say "I only have a regard for thought and opinion, to whatever extent it adheres to the truth. To logic, rationality, and proof." So that, people are not taken for granted and one does not unto theirself hold onto ideas, thoughts, beliefs, and sentiments that are toxic and wrong.

For example. It's exactly this bullshit, that leads 99% of all Christians to believe that Homosexuality is wrong and that it is something God would condemn. Because instead of listening to all logic, reason, rationality, and evidence. They simply believe what they WISH to believe, regardless of the truth. Which leads to them putting in effort towards blocking the rights and quality of life of others. This is the reason Atheists view them the way they do. Because the vast majority of Christians are at best total morons, and at worst a menace to humanity, for a fact.

You're not speaking some profound and meaningful shit. What you preach is toxic. Of COURSE you should care what others think.
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I didn't post it for validation. Just never had someone stare at my crotch while I'm talking. Like wtf mane. I thought my fly was down too and checked when o walked off lmao. Shit is weird. And I think he doesn't have a gf and works a lot and I Amy he the only girl in his everyday life. It's an oilfield office. I think he literally just hasn't been laid in a while and it's showing lmao
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And all the women posting about how they think I'm full of myself you just sound jealous lol y'all some bitter keyboard warriors all I gotta say peace im out biatches
Why would anyone be jealous of your boss staring at your crotch? That's all you gave us in this thread so what is there to be jealous of ??
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You just sound like a Whiney bitter girl. It's obvious.
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@Stensco21 - Just a reminder.. Literally every one of these threads is asking a question with a stupidly obvious answer..

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships/why-would-a-guy-text-you-hows-your-day-and-then-when-you-write-back-he-ignores-you--9493237/

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/why-does-my-ex-keep-texting-me-and-saying-we-need-to-talk-he-wanted-to-be-single-and-party-9390380/

But why does it make you angry? It's what the the site is for.. how do you have time to care what stupid questions ppl ask?

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/why-would-a-guy-stare-at-you-and-not-look-away-all-the-time-or-look-at-you-and-constantly-raise-his-9463197/

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/how-would-a-guy-feel-if-you-told-him-he-sucked-in-bed--9394682/

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/what-are-the-signs-a-guy-likes-you-but-hes-hiding-it--9413580/

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/what-does-it-mean-when-a-guy-calls-you-cute--9374743/

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/why-did-my-ex-bf-text-me-and-say-he-wants-to-talk-after-two-weeks-of-no-contact--9307333/

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/do-men-regret-break-ups--9297366/

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships/will-going-no-contact-with-an-ex-make-them-miss-you--9297220/

And these ones are just to shit on other people or flaunt.. But I am whiny and bitter?

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/libra/libra-men-suck-in-bed--9387750/

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/as-a-scorpio-woman-i-am-not-attracted-to-scorpio-men-and-find-them-boring--9375013/

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/so-im-pretty-sure-my-boss-has-a-crush-on-me--9340786/

Sad part is that ALL of these are just from the past month.. ONE MONTH!!!! Look at them all... Like HELLO!? And this wasn't even all of your threads..
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@Stensco21 - Just a reminder.. Literally every one of these threads is asking a question with a stupidly obvious answer..

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships/why-would-a-guy-text-you-hows-your-day-and-then-when-you-write-back-he-ignores-you--9493237/

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/why-does-my-ex-keep-texting-me-and-saying-we-need-to-talk-he-wanted-to-be-single-and-party-9390380/

But why does it make you angry? It's what the the site is for.. how do you have time to care what stupid questions ppl ask?

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/why-would-a-guy-stare-at-you-and-not-look-away-all-the-time-or-look-at-you-and-constantly-raise-his-9463197/

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/how-would-a-guy-feel-if-you-told-him-he-sucked-in-bed--9394682/

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/what-are-the-signs-a-guy-likes-you-but-hes-hiding-it--9413580/

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/what-does-it-mean-when-a-guy-calls-you-cute--9374743/

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/why-did-my-ex-bf-text-me-and-say-he-wants-to-talk-after-two-weeks-of-no-contact--9307333/

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/do-men-regret-break-ups--9297366/

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships/will-going-no-contact-with-an-ex-make-them-miss-you--9297220/

And these ones are just to shit on other people or flaunt.. But I am whiny and bitter?

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/libra/libra-men-suck-in-bed--9387750/

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/as-a-scorpio-woman-i-am-not-attracted-to-scorpio-men-and-find-them-boring--9375013/

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/so-im-pretty-sure-my-boss-has-a-crush-on-me--9340786/

Sad part is that ALL of these are just from the past month.. ONE MONTH!!!! Look at them all... Like HELLO!? And this wasn't even all of your threads..
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Why are you so angry