"Window shopping" in relationships

When I mean window shopping I mean looking at other attractive people either in front of your partner or in private whether it be online or in public. The question is, what do you guys think about it? Do you publicly announce it that you do window shop when you are with your partner or keep it secret? What are your limits on it? Do you just look and admire or mentally wish you were with them instead? This goes for any sign, what are your opinions on it and how do you know when too much window shopping is enough?

I want a partner who will look at girls as well as boys WITH ME, I'll show him girls too... I love watching people in general, man, boy, girl, woman, elderly, kiddos... i could sit all day and keep watching people, so I need one person who will understand this, and that even if I may admire a man's physical appearance, it's more related to admiring the human beauty.... okay, even if I do look at other men in sensual way, it's natural right? I wouldn't object my husband either... whats there to object anyway, everyone looks at opposite gender, I won't have problem if he fantasizes either, I'll join him in his fantasy.

Human are beautiful species.. how can I not look at or admire a beautiful looking man?

Posted by cancer_wyrm
When I mean window shopping I mean looking at other attractive people either in front of your partner or in private whether it be online or in public. The question is, what do you guys think about it? Do you publicly announce it that you do window shop when you are with your partner or keep it secret? What are your limits on it? Do you just look and admire or mentally wish you were with them instead? This goes for any sign, what are your opinions on it and how do you know when too much window shopping is enough?

when me and my husband watch a movie, he will tell me someone looks beautiful. (a woman actress) so right away i will go online and find her starsign and placements. lol 😆

it's like what Alyssa sharpe in this video says about her Scorpio sun/Cancer moon husband, who is Aries rising......

she was noticing how he LOVES all the Libra ladies....due to this Aries rising, pointing out all the beautiful actresses he was attracted to, and she said he dated Libras!! before her and him married.

Posted by yupvirgoo
lol it's not wise for me to admire women around my wife

we don't like going to crowded places so there's very little opportunity to people-watch anyway

she will go look up their starsigns. lol

Do any of you think its a strain on the relationship? My bf said I can window shop but I feel like its wrong. I don't look at people anyway, I try to look past them and focus on my surroundings when I'm in crowds. It's probably because of my insecurity but I still don't look and window shop a lot.

Lol he does the same thing about the people in movies and shows 😆 I do the same thing only because I know that we don't have much of a shot with the actors because they are older and in a completely different place!

Posted by everlynn
I do people watching. Does that count?

What do you think about when you people watch or is more of a taking it in and not really processing anything?

Posted by HeartofTopaz

Posted by cancer_wyrm
Do any of you think its a strain on the relationship? My bf said I can window shop but I feel like its wrong. I don't look at people anyway, I try to look past them and focus on my surroundings when I'm in crowds. It's probably because of my insecurity but I still don't look and window shop a lot.

Lol he does the same thing about the people in movies and shows 😆 I do the same thing only because I know that we don't have much of a shot with the actors because they are older and in a completely different place!

For me, It would only start to cause a strain if it was constantly done in public, and/or always in a disrespectful manner.

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Most of the time its a simple "I like their outfit" sort of deal and he won't point out actual body parts on a person unless I say something. The one thing we could agree on was one person's butt at the fair. Both of us were blown away by how big it was but other than that he has always complimented on another girl's outfit whether it be shoes or shirt. I still have to remember he is a Virgo and shows love and attention different than me who's a Cancer and wears her heart on her sleeve 😛

Posted by cancer_wyrm
Do any of you think its a strain on the relationship? My bf said I can window shop but I feel like its wrong. I don't look at people anyway, I try to look past them and focus on my surroundings when I'm in crowds. It's probably because of my insecurity but I still don't look and window shop a lot.

Lol he does the same thing about the people in movies and shows 😆 I do the same thing only because I know that we don't have much of a shot with the actors because they are older and in a completely different place!

it's weird because IF I say something about an actor (Keanu reeves) like one time, we were watching some of Reeve's films, and I said, I think he's attractive. Cause shit, he is so easy to say an actress is attractive too. lol

and he was stunned a bit...like he couldn't believe it. He goes, huh? Really? hm why..

Like he was expecting me to like a big bulky muscly guy or the othr extreme , the pretty boy baby type. ewww.

I'm like HELLO....did you see me choose a hulk Hogan?? or a pretty model?? ew. 😆

although a lot of women may find this physique and personality really attractive!!!

or women find this pretty boy zac efron really darling....

Posted by HeartofTopaz

Posted by lisabethur8
or women find this pretty boy zac efron really darling....

His body in neighbors 2 was simply DAWLING! Although He's got too much of a baby face for my liking.

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ooooh you like pretty boys with baby faces??



give some celebrity examples!!

Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
My bull has never done that.. When he is with me is eyes are only on me and even then he finds it hard to take them off me 😄 😉. I am the same. I only have eyes for him.

But I do people watch and spend more time looking at women's clothing and how they are dressed than looking at other men...

Wouldn't it just be easier if we only had eyes for our S.O.? We wouldn't have to worry about the other's eyes wandering because we know they are only looking at us 😆 But perfect worlds and perfect people don't exist, at least not perfect people exist in everyone's eyes.

As for Zach Effron or Hulk Hogan I have to say I would go for the older version of Zach, the big muscular guys aren't my style but I do enjoy some muscle and nice figures!

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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
My bull has never done that.. When he is with me is eyes are only on me and even then he finds it hard to take them off me 😄 😉. I am the same. I only have eyes for him.

But I do people watch and spend more time looking at women's clothing and how they are dressed than looking at other men...

Wouldn't it just be easier if we only had eyes for our S.O.? We wouldn't have to worry about the other's eyes wandering because we know they are only looking at us 😆 But perfect worlds and perfect people don't exist, at least not perfect people exist in everyone's eyes.

As for Zach Effron or Hulk Hogan I have to say I would go for the older version of Zach, the big muscular guys aren't my style but I do enjoy some muscle and nice figures!

Sure. If only the world was perfect. But with me he only has eyes for me and vice versa. Sometimes his eyes stare so deeply for a few minutes without even blinking ... Can't be helped!!! it is what it is.....

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you got a good one 🙂

There is a distinct difference between an admiring glance, a brief comment, only to then keep it moving.

However, if either party, decides to glance, linger, turn back, glance again, and to even follow the 'goods' in question. All this, whilst completely oblivious to the SO, the previous conversation now dropped. Only, when the trail is lost, do they turn back to the SO, and the new conversation is now all about the 'good's, he or she lost sight of. This with be a complete lack of respect for the SO.

Well, then that would be nothing short of a bastard lacking all sense of empathy and respect.

For a SO, to stalk people that they know of a different gender, to make comments on their looks, despite them being taken, making them uncomfortable. That also speaks of a mentality of a creep, to prey on others like so.

Admiration of others, is a common human trait, and a healthy one. To hunt, stalk, make lewd comments and gaze with an open jaw, oblivious to anything else. That is a predator, not a man or a woman, but a beast, a feral one at that.

This applies both online and offline, public and private.

Ass

Shoes

Smile

Eyes

Hi

Posted by TheLadyScorpio
There is a distinct difference between an admiring glance, a brief comment, only to then keep it moving.

However, if either party, decides to glance, linger, turn back, glance again, and to even follow the 'goods' in question. All this, whilst completely oblivious to the SO, the previous conversation now dropped. Only, when the trail is lost, do they turn back to the SO, and the new conversation all about the 'good's, he or she lost sight of. This with a complete lack of respect for the SO.

Well, then that would be nothing short of a bastard lacking all sense of empathy and respect.

For a SO, to stalk people that they know of a different gender, to make comments on their looks, despite them being taken, making them uncomfortable. That also speaks of a mentality of a creep, to prey on others like this.

Admiration of others, is a common human trait, and a healthy one. To hunt, stalk, make lewd comments and gaze with an open jaw, oblivious to anything else. That is a predator, not a man or a woman, but a beast, a feral one at that.

This applies both online and offline, public and private.

All this completely true. I do agree. We were discussing minor looks and no real connection with others when with your partner but to comment or follow behind someone else and make your SO and that stalked person uncomfortable is wrong.

Posted by cancer_wyrm

Posted by TheLadyScorpio
There is a distinct difference between an admiring glance, a brief comment, only to then keep it moving.

However, if either party, decides to glance, linger, turn back, glance again, and to even follow the 'goods' in question. All this, whilst completely oblivious to the SO, the previous conversation now dropped. Only, when the trail is lost, do they turn back to the SO, and the new conversation all about the 'good's, he or she lost sight of. This with a complete lack of respect for the SO.

Well, then that would be nothing short of a bastard lacking all sense of empathy and respect.

For a SO, to stalk people that they know of a different gender, to make comments on their looks, despite them being taken, making them uncomfortable. That also speaks of a mentality of a creep, to prey on others like this.

Admiration of others, is a common human trait, and a healthy one. To hunt, stalk, make lewd comments and gaze with an open jaw, oblivious to anything else. That is a predator, not a man or a woman, but a beast, a feral one at that.

This applies both online and offline, public and private.

All this completely true. I do agree. We were discussing minor looks and no real connection with others when with your partner but to comment or follow behind someone else and make your SO and that stalked person uncomfortable is wrong.

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Oh cancer_wyrm, I was referring to both individuals which they know, or know of, and strangers within the public masses.

However, in either case, it would be both very wrong and demeaning to all parties, excluding the perpetrator (they must have an ill mind indeed).

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Posted by lisabethur8
although a lot of women may find this physique and personality really attractive!!!

Whose? Hulk Hogan or the ultimate warrior?

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lol

I have no idea for women who like either of them.

The warrior, seems girly the way he walks too, his mannerisms are girly on a very muscly bulky guy.

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both not my types. lol

lemme see what type of women like them...



first wife for hulk Hogan is virgo sun.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Linda_Hogan_(TV_personality)



but they split, I heard Hogan went for another woman after the reality show.



and the warrior...

awww I read he passed away. 😢



R.I.P.



he's Gemini sun/libra moon/Leo mars.



http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Warrior_(wrestler)

Yes I look at other people. I'm human and I have eyes. Does this mean I'm window shopping? No. I am just a lover of beautiful things.

Posted by lisabethur8
although a lot of women may find this physique and personality really attractive!!!

Barf

Posted by TheLadyScorpio
There is a distinct difference between an admiring glance, a brief comment, only to then keep it moving.

However, if either party, decides to glance, linger, turn back, glance again, and to even follow the 'goods' in question. All this, whilst completely oblivious to the SO, the previous conversation now dropped. Only, when the trail is lost, do they turn back to the SO, and the new conversation is now all about the 'good's, he or she lost sight of. This with be a complete lack of respect for the SO.

Well, then that would be nothing short of a bastard lacking all sense of empathy and respect.

For a SO, to stalk people that they know of a different gender, to make comments on their looks, despite them being taken, making them uncomfortable. That also speaks of a mentality of a creep, to prey on others like so.

Admiration of others, is a common human trait, and a healthy one. To hunt, stalk, make lewd comments and gaze with an open jaw, oblivious to anything else. That is a predator, not a man or a woman, but a beast, a feral one at that.

This applies both online and offline, public and private.

the latter sounds scary.

Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
My bull has never done that.. When he is with me is eyes are only on me and even then he finds it hard to take them off me 😄 😉. I am the same. I only have eyes for him.

But I do people watch and spend more time looking at women's clothing and how they are dressed than looking at other men...

If your people watching how can you claim his eyes are only on you. You can't know that.

Posted by everlynn

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by everlynn

Posted by lisabethur8
although a lot of women may find this physique and personality really attractive!!!

Whose? Hulk Hogan or the ultimate warrior?

lol

I have no idea for women who like either of them.

The warrior, seems girly the way he walks too, his mannerisms are girly on a very muscly bulky guy.

hm 😕....... hahahaha. Now you basically talking about me when you said that about my fellow gem. The bold statement that is.

Only thing is that he aged horribly. I hope to stay looking young when I hit my elder years.

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lol I bet he was a really sweet guy though.



his wife, very lovely it seems

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Posted by TheLadyScorpio
There is a distinct difference between an admiring glance, a brief comment, only to then keep it moving.

However, if either party, decides to glance, linger, turn back, glance again, and to even follow the 'goods' in question. All this, whilst completely oblivious to the SO, the previous conversation now dropped. Only, when the trail is lost, do they turn back to the SO, and the new conversation is now all about the 'good's, he or she lost sight of. This with be a complete lack of respect for the SO.

Well, then that would be nothing short of a bastard lacking all sense of empathy and respect.

For a SO, to stalk people that they know of a different gender, to make comments on their looks, despite them being taken, making them uncomfortable. That also speaks of a mentality of a creep, to prey on others like so.

Admiration of others, is a common human trait, and a healthy one. To hunt, stalk, make lewd comments and gaze with an open jaw, oblivious to anything else. That is a predator, not a man or a woman, but a beast, a feral one at that.

This applies both online and offline, public and private.

the latter sounds scary.

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It is frightening, I had witnessed my share of those before. There is no man within those animals, when they are on a mission to stare, to prey.

Posted by JohnTheBaptist100

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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
My bull has never done that.. When he is with me is eyes are only on me and even then he finds it hard to take them off me 😄 😉. I am the same. I only have eyes for him.

But I do people watch and spend more time looking at women's clothing and how they are dressed than looking at other men...

If your people watching how can you claim his eyes are only on you. You can't know that.

Hello! When I'm on my own perhaps having a coffee or in movement I tend to generally watch how females are dressed etc. I don't tend to look at other men. I'm more into ladies fashions and stuff like that..

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You can't know that. Meaning you can't claim your Bull has never looked at another woman.

Only a delusional person would make that claim. Hello!