disappointed in people who have affairs

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Posted by atearth
Place i work, a married man with 2 young children in mid 30s having affair with co worker in very early 20s.

So disappointed
Please! Tell me how is it any of your business? Do you know this man life and this woman's cituation?

Why don't you just find to be something else to be dissapointed about that

concerns you for a change? Or you are the one without sin placed to monitor

others by whom?

I didn't think so.

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Posted by atearth
Place i work, a married man with 2 young children in mid 30s having affair with co worker in very early 20s.

So disappointed
Please! Tell me how is it any of your business? Do you know this man life and this woman's cituation?

Why don't you just find to be something else to be dissapointed about that

concerns you for a change? Or you are the one without sin placed to monitor

others by whom?

I didn't think so.

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When someone lacks the discretion to keep such things a secret,

they make it everyone else's business.

Like you--

You've been very open about your affair, which makes you fair

game for anyone who has an opinion on the matter.



Such is life.

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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by atearth
Place i work, a married man with 2 young children in mid 30s having affair with co worker in very early 20s.

So disappointed
Please! Tell me how is it any of your business? Do you know this man life and this woman's cituation?

Why don't you just find to be something else to be dissapointed about that

concerns you for a change? Or you are the one without sin placed to monitor

others by whom?

I didn't think so.


When someone lacks the discretion to keep such things a secret,

they make it everyone else's business.

Like you--

You've been very open about your affair, which makes you fair

game for anyone who has an opinion on the matter.



Such is life.



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I chosen to say so. Again I had never ask anyone's permission. And opinion.

You want to give it - go ahead but do you ever think it will change anything?

So why bother to use up servers space?
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Posted by Gemitati
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by atearth
Place i work, a married man with 2 young children in mid 30s having affair with co worker in very early 20s.

So disappointed
Please! Tell me how is it any of your business? Do you know this man life and this woman's cituation?

Why don't you just find to be something else to be dissapointed about that

concerns you for a change? Or you are the one without sin placed to monitor

others by whom?

I didn't think so.


When someone lacks the discretion to keep such things a secret,

they make it everyone else's business.

Like you--

You've been very open about your affair, which makes you fair

game for anyone who has an opinion on the matter.



Such is life.




I chosen to say so. Again I had never ask anyone's permission. And opinion.

You want to give it - go ahead but do you ever think it will change anything?

So why bother to use up servers space?

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If I wanted to offer any more of my opinion, I would have.

Promise.



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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Montgomery
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by atearth
Place i work, a married man with 2 young children in mid 30s having affair with co worker in very early 20s.

So disappointed
Please! Tell me how is it any of your business? Do you know this man life and this woman's cituation?

Why don't you just find to be something else to be dissapointed about that

concerns you for a change? Or you are the one without sin placed to monitor

others by whom?

I didn't think so.


When someone lacks the discretion to keep such things a secret,

they make it everyone else's business.

Like you--

You've been very open about your affair, which makes you fair

game for anyone who has an opinion on the matter.



Such is life.






I chosen to say so. Again I had never ask anyone's permission. And opinion.

You want to give it - go ahead but do you ever think it will change anything?

So why bother to use up servers space?


If I wanted to offer any more of my opinion, I would have.

Promise.



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If you want to waste your time be my guest.

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Posted by atearth
Place i work, a married man with 2 young children in mid 30s having affair with co worker in very early 20s.

So disappointed

Why are you disappointed exactly, you're not a kid so you don't know people cheat, steal, kill. Did you liked and respected the guy?

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Imagine how dissapointed he would be if he knew people still and kill?

I am glad this side of life passes him by...lol
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Man if y'all took a look at the Reddit adultery site, they high five each other for cheating.
lol wtf
Lol. Take a look. Shit is crazy. I wish I knew about that site before saying my nuptials.


oh gosh im reading them right now.. they're even giving advice on how to not get caught lol


How silly. No matter how good they are at covering their tracks, they WILL get caught. I always feel it when I'm being cheated on. I always trust my intuition.
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Bull! Friend was in affair for 13 years!

Still happily married to her man and raising her own grandkids.

So is another one still in affair for decades. I don't think she is ever getting caught.

So child...live a little. And learn more.
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Posted by Gemitati
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Posted by atearth
Place i work, a married man with 2 young children in mid 30s having affair with co worker in very early 20s.

So disappointed

Why are you disappointed exactly, you're not a kid so you don't know people cheat, steal, kill. Did you liked and respected the guy?



Imagine how dissapointed he would be if he knew people still and kill?

I am glad this side of life passes him by...lol



No I wasn't trying to put him down. I was disappointed as well with some men I knew and it would never crossed my mind that they are capable of it. One guy even has the perfect marriage, come off as madly in love with each other.

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Tells you how much we know what's going on in couples real life.

Too many perfect couples are living a lie.

Putting on faces. Keeping it cool. Just until hell freezes over and they can't no more.
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by atearth
Place i work, a married man with 2 young children in mid 30s having affair with co worker in very early 20s.

So disappointed
Please! Tell me how is it any of your business? Do you know this man life and this woman's cituation?

Why don't you just find to be something else to be dissapointed about that

concerns you for a change? Or you are the one without sin placed to monitor

others by whom?

I didn't think so.


When someone lacks the discretion to keep such things a secret,

they make it everyone else's business.

Like you--

You've been very open about your affair, which makes you fair

game for anyone who has an opinion on the matter.



Such is life.




I chosen to say so. Again I had never ask anyone's permission. And opinion.

You want to give it - go ahead but do you ever think it will change anything?

So why bother to use up servers space?


In turn we can all ask you the same question.



Why bother sharing about your disgusting affair?
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Maybe I wouldn't if you weren't so responsive and wild about it!

Ever thought of it?

And trust me there is nothing disgusting

about it. 😉
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Posted by yupvirgo
Posted by mzmee
Posted by yupvirgo
Posted by mzmee
Man if y'all took a look at the Reddit adultery site, they high five each other for cheating.
lol wtf
Lol. Take a look. Shit is crazy. I wish I knew about that site before saying my nuptials.


oh gosh im reading them right now.. they're even giving advice on how to not get caught lol


How silly. No matter how good they are at covering their tracks, they WILL get caught. I always feel it when I'm being cheated on. I always trust my intuition.
Bull! Friend was in affair for 13 years!

Still happily married to her man and raising her own grandkids.

So is another one still in affair for decades. I don't think she is ever getting caught.

So child...live a little. And learn more.
Oh stop quoting me old slut. Seriously you're disgusting.
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What disgusting is that you pulling info out of your ass and it stinks!
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Posted by yupvirgo
Posted by mzmee
Posted by yupvirgo
Posted by mzmee
Man if y'all took a look at the Reddit adultery site, they high five each other for cheating.
lol wtf
Lol. Take a look. Shit is crazy. I wish I knew about that site before saying my nuptials.


oh gosh im reading them right now.. they're even giving advice on how to not get caught lol


How silly. No matter how good they are at covering their tracks, they WILL get caught. I always feel it when I'm being cheated on. I always trust my intuition.
Bull! Friend was in affair for 13 years!

Still happily married to her man and raising her own grandkids.

So is another one still in affair for decades. I don't think she is ever getting caught.

So child...live a little. And learn more.
Oh stop quoting me old slut. Seriously you're disgusting.
What disgusting is that you pulling info out of your ass and it stinks!


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That will make a whole lot of difference I am sure!

What a little dork you are. It's cute to see you that upset.

Relax. Get some lolly pop or something.

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Posted by atearth
Place i work, a married man with 2 young children in mid 30s having affair with co worker in very early 20s.

So disappointed
Please! Tell me how is it any of your business? Do you know this man life and this woman's cituation?

Why don't you just find to be something else to be dissapointed about that

concerns you for a change? Or you are the one without sin placed to monitor

others by whom?

I didn't think so.


When someone lacks the discretion to keep such things a secret,

they make it everyone else's business.

Like you--

You've been very open about your affair, which makes you fair

game for anyone who has an opinion on the matter.



Such is life.




I chosen to say so. Again I had never ask anyone's permission. And opinion.

You want to give it - go ahead but do you ever think it will change anything?

So why bother to use up servers space?


In turn we can all ask you the same question.



Why bother sharing about your disgusting affair?
Maybe I wouldn't if you weren't so responsive and wild about it!

Ever thought of it?

And trust me there is nothing disgusting

about it. 😉
This is literally my first time ever responding to you about your disgusting affair.

I think you get off on the negative attention though.

The reaction you accuse me of having is the one that you were hoping for.

People who get off on negative attention, are people who are fucked up in the head.



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All you need to do is just to ignore me.

Can you do that? Try.
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Posted by atearth
Place i work, a married man with 2 young children in mid 30s having affair with co worker in very early 20s.

So disappointed
i've had a few married woman come at me at work, i'm over here thinking "Miss, do I need your hubby to pick you up from school today?"

My thought is, eventually, people stop focusing on making their relationships and themselves better, and would rather just do things to make them "feel" better about themselves.

Personally. I don't care. Do you. Do who ever. There's morally adept and the morally inept. Just the way the world works, just pick a side and rock it.
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Did you know infidelity is linked to genetics.
I am sure you are referring to serial infidelity. When people just can't be monogamous. Right?

Not the type when people have one other person and if it wasn't that one - there would be no one.

Let's separate those from one another.
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Well serial infidelity is included, I don't understand the other type you're referring to. I consider infidelity someone who becomes unfaithful to their spouse/significant other by being with another person or more.
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The thing that these disgusting individuals who pride themselves on their deceptive and vile ways seem to forget, is that they are destroying other people in the process.

These whores always make the same argument: "You don't know my life! I'm just living my life how I want!"

We don't need to know your life to know that when you're cheating on someone, you are purposely deceiving another human being. These people literally pride themselves on being unable to keep their legs closed and their dicks in their pants while in a relationship.

They pride themselves on stepping out on their husband/wives, and their children (if there are any involved).

They pride themselves on making another person question their own worth and on emotionally destroying another human being for their own selfish gain.



I'll never understand as long as live how anyone can lead such a selfish, disgusting, and deceitful life style and on top of that, BRAG about it. People who are capable of doing this sort of thing are people who can never really be trusted. They are like the scum that's stuck to the bottom of the dumpster. The lowest of the low.


All for the sake of a "connection" or "chemistry"
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I was in the Air Force and infidelity is alive and well within the ranks of the military. Especially during deployments.
Yup.



I'm ex army and it was the same. Infidelity runs rampant in the military.

That's why "Jody" is a thing.
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Ive heard that as well from people who used to be in the army. Everybody sleeps with everyone.

Idk how women do it. Get married and homeboy is always deployed.
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Theres alot to be said about infidelity. You never know whats going on behind closed doors and reasons why people choose to "cheat" or accept cheating! Not all scenarios are just a plain case of woman doing everything right, man chooses to cheat and betray the whole family. Or vice versa.


All scenarios cause heartache and deception.

Cheaters dont leave their marriage cause they're big time cowards. All the potential reasons for staying and cheating aren't reasons enough.

And the other woman/man lack something called self love.

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I choose not to believe all scenarios cause heartache and deception-transparency is required. Its not for everyone but I have seen and heard of people that it works somehow because needs are being met by both parties. I suppose then this cannot be described as cheating but an arrangement of some sort.

I don't condone cheating btw. I despise it also.
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I work at Hooters and it brings in a certain crowd of men. Mostly, just harmless flirting but I just let it go. Other times men come in attempt to get a phone number while married. My mom cheated on my dad and it pretty much destroyed my childhood and future. I understand it from a family's perspective.

Idk. Being cheated on is the worst feeling ever but it happens in just about every relationship at some point. Maybe not to the extent of sex but other grey areas.

I personally haven't and wouldn't but I'm demisexual(I use this term lightly) so it's not likely for me to.



I just don't trust others.
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I was in the Air Force and infidelity is alive and well within the ranks of the military. Especially during deployments.


It always saddens me to hear stories of such infidelity and affairs happening to those within the ranks of the military, especially when some of those men and women are so very deserving of loyalty and love after their experiences.
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I'm in my mid-30s, married with 2 kids too. And I'm an all or nothing kind of guy. The very thought of cheating (on my side or my wife's) is making my heart ache. I don't think that cheating is "something you work on." It's enough reason for me to not want to be with someone because that is just purely disrespectful. Coz it's not like cheating's some sort of freak accident you know. For me, marriage is a choice that you make every single day. And for me to choose every day to be married, to stay married and exert all these efforts to make my wife happy is an every day thing- and for her to do crap like that behind my back just breaks my heart. It's like when you're trying to help people but then they're actually sabotaging you every step of the way. It's a constant exertion of effort, like a plant you have to water for it not to wither. And the look on her face should I do that crap... She's my bestfriend. Why would I do that to her? When she's upset I get upset too. It baffles me what drives others to it. I chose to build a life with this person. And perhaps I even built my life around her. I have basically centered my life around her and our children. And messing that up would mean nothing would be left for me. My Taurus Moon can't handle the loss. And my Leo Venus can't handle not being married lol. (but srsly bruh)
Is that really what all or nothing is though? It sounds more like you're a very measured kind of character if you can take responsibility everyday for making that decision and recognise that, whereas "all or nothing" types don't come off as accountable for their decisions.


I only meant that when I've chosen that whole life (marriage). That's fixed to me. Basically written in stone. I had often told my wife when she asks silly questions of what my life would've been if we didn't get married. If she married someone else. And I said then I'd be a monk. And I meant it too. That I'm often in either extremes with my choices. Either choice I'd be content. That's what I meant by the term.

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You are sooo much like my Virgo husband.

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Awh ..what a shame 😢 ...

My scorpio venus will never ever forgive someone who cheated .


No shiet, scorpio venuses dont forgive shet that never hapnd.....
What did that mean?
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Like sometimes you got a scorpio bein' all mean to you, and you think back"what cud they possibly be mad at?"

And you realise theres nothing....or maybe they twisted smth around to make you look bad...but they did it on purpose, they just look for any pretext to attack a person. They love attacking.
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Posted by atearth
Place i work, a married man with 2 young children in mid 30s having affair with co worker in very early 20s.

So disappointed
Please! Tell me how is it any of your business? Do you know this man life and this woman's cituation?

Why don't you just find to be something else to be dissapointed about that

concerns you for a change? Or you are the one without sin placed to monitor

others by whom?

I didn't think so.

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Well shit...not sure if you're ok'ing the cheating or really angrily concerned with the privacy being violated ?....



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Posted by atearth
Place i work, a married man with 2 young children in mid 30s having affair with co worker in very early 20s.

So disappointed
Please! Tell me how is it any of your business? Do you know this man life and this woman's cituation?

Why don't you just find to be something else to be dissapointed about that

concerns you for a change? Or you are the one without sin placed to monitor

others by whom?

I didn't think so.




Well shit...not sure if you're ok'ing the cheating or really angrily concerned with the privacy being violated ?....



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Iam concern about people finding stuff to be upset about that concernes them not.

I rather people look under their own noses and not talking about something they have

no control over and no business in.

I am upset over people acting like everything is their business when it is not.
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Awh ..what a shame 😢 ...

My scorpio venus will never ever forgive someone who cheated .


No shiet, scorpio venuses dont forgive shet that never hapnd.....
What did that mean?
Like sometimes you got a scorpio bein' all mean to you, and you think back"what cud they possibly be mad at?"

And you realise theres nothing....or maybe they twisted smth around to make you look bad...but they did it on purpose, they just look for any pretext to attack a person. They love attacking.


No

Scorpio venus love peace and deep love

But when you betrayed them, they will makes you live in an ugly hell, yeah sometimes they are obsessed over a details no one will care about it or even think about it.

But they will fight without reason if they are not happy and think that you are not into them like they are into you.

If you are not a faithful person, don't have a venus scorpio as lover, they will always find out about almost every thing you did and u will hate it when they did .
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It's all scorpios, and it's a yes. Now we're not always aware of our reasons, or how accurate we are in evaluating faults...like a Scorpio relative of mine got jealous and mad at me for trying to reconcile with another relative, it's totally not a thing one should get mad for, even tho it seperated us for years. I had genuine reasons for doing that...but they just wanted to use that as a pretext to destroy me. It's instinct, it's not rational.
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Awh ..what a shame 😢 ...

My scorpio venus will never ever forgive someone who cheated .


No shiet, scorpio venuses dont forgive shet that never hapnd.....
What did that mean?
Like sometimes you got a scorpio bein' all mean to you, and you think back"what cud they possibly be mad at?"

And you realise theres nothing....or maybe they twisted smth around to make you look bad...but they did it on purpose, they just look for any pretext to attack a person. They love attacking.


No

Scorpio venus love peace and deep love

But when you betrayed them, they will makes you live in an ugly hell, yeah sometimes they are obsessed over a details no one will care about it or even think about it.

But they will fight without reason if they are not happy and think that you are not into them like they are into you.

If you are not a faithful person, don't have a venus scorpio as lover, they will always find out about almost every thing you did and u will hate it when they did .
It's all scorpios, and it's a yes. Now we're not always aware of our reasons, or how accurate we are in evaluating faults...like a Scorpio relative of mine got jealous and mad at me for trying to reconcile with another relative, it's totally not a thing one should get mad for, even tho it seperated us for years. I had genuine reasons for doing that...but they just wanted to use that as a pretext to destroy me. It's instinct, it's not rational.


Will I'm not scorpio, but scorpio venus and mercury.

But it seems that I destroy my lovers, I'm very kind person, I always try to make them happy

But I don't know why they always tell me I destroyed them ...maybe I love them too hard or too deep that can't let go of me.

But yes when I feel that they can't love in the same level I try to find away to leave them without hurt them, but they can't get that

That's why I decide to stay single till I find someone who is just like me.



Can I ask you what's ur sign? Are u a cap?

Since a scorpio make a cap emotionally weak.

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Dayum that's like me! I leave if l feel we're not completely fusionning...l do have some cap energy definitely, l believe that about scorpios making us weak.

And some 8th house stuff too...which explains my need for fusion.