MoonOfMyLife
@MoonOfMyLife
9 YearsScorpio
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Do you make the men you just started dating wait for sex?
No. Make him work for it.
It's not about making a man wait, it's about waiting until your ready.
However long you need to qualify him.
However long you need to qualify him.
Posted by MoonOfMyLifeWhat's his chart look like
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I have been seeing someone for a couple of weeks now and the flirtation and sexual tension is super heavy between us. You can say I have been teasing him very cruelly but withholding anything beyond second base. How long do you think I should keep this on before he decides it's not so fun anymore and gets bored. Should I just give up the pussy?
And yours?
How old are you— Or should I say how young??
At least 2 months or 3 dates. Or 2 years even better.
Posted by MoonOfMyLifeIf you want him to wait then why tease? Just be a lady. Teasing is not needed. Doing that there, you are just a typical female.
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I have been seeing someone for a couple of weeks now and the flirtation and sexual tension is super heavy between us. You can say I have been teasing him very cruelly but withholding anything beyond second base. How long do you think I should keep this on before he decides it's not so fun anymore and gets bored. Should I just give up the pussy?
What is the norm now?
with thinking this is the one I want to befriend and hope to have something meaningful with and That takes time to.
Unless you don't want to and jump right in becoming one night stands or fwb til you meet the right one.
with thinking this is the one I want to befriend and hope to have something meaningful with and That takes time to.
Unless you don't want to and jump right in becoming one night stands or fwb til you meet the right one.
Posted by GeminariescharmerWhy is why you will eternally remain a fuck boy and miss the train on a quality woman, settling for transient pussy.
LOl @ this tactic, good to see what you guys think. If i am investing my time and energy unto you, 3 dates no sex i am out lol
That the guy I'm dating is ready to go at a drop of a hat is a given. Sex will happen when I am damn good and ready and if a guy thinks he can hurry the process up, he's just making it more difficult. My scorpie thinks like me. Instead of complaining of blueballs, he decided what was good for the gander, was good for the goose. Let's just say, that hurried it up o my end.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428I don't know when exactly his birthday is. I just know it's sometime in November. So he's either a Scorpio or a Saggitarius. But I believe he is a a Saggitarius coz he does not have that depressed demeanor that guys Scorpios have.Posted by MoonOfMyLifeWhat's his chart look like
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I have been seeing someone for a couple of weeks now and the flirtation and sexual tension is super heavy between us. You can say I have been teasing him very cruelly but withholding anything beyond second base. How long do you think I should keep this on before he decides it's not so fun anymore and gets bored. Should I just give up the pussy?click to expand
But here is mine.
Posted by fastphoenixBut he loves the teasing or he wouldnt encourage it by stuff like "omg you turn me on so much."Posted by MoonOfMyLifeIf you want him to wait then why tease? Just be a lady. Teasing is not needed. Doing that there, you are just a typical female.
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I have been seeing someone for a couple of weeks now and the flirtation and sexual tension is super heavy between us. You can say I have been teasing him very cruelly but withholding anything beyond second base. How long do you think I should keep this on before he decides it's not so fun anymore and gets bored. Should I just give up the pussy?click to expand
Posted by GeminariescharmerNo one wants to fuck you or your possum looking mug anyway, fuckboy.
LOl @ this tactic, good to see what you guys think. If i am investing my time and energy unto you, 3 dates no sex i am out lol
Posted by GeminariescharmerIf that's you in your pic, women would know to just steer clear of you. Nobody likes a tacky dudebro.
LOl @ this tactic, good to see what you guys think. If i am investing my time and energy unto you, 3 dates no sex i am out lol
Posted by MoonOfMyLife😆Posted by GeminariescharmerNo one wants to fuck you or your possum looking mug anyway, fuckboy.
LOl @ this tactic, good to see what you guys think. If i am investing my time and energy unto you, 3 dates no sex i am out lolclick to expand
OP, stop asking about how to further be a cock tease.
If you have to come here and ask, YOU aren't ready. It's all on you and what you're comfortable with. If you're worried about him bailing after sex, then you probably shouldn't put out with this dude right now.
I generally "wait" a month because that's usually the time frame in which I'm comfortable enough to go there with the dude. They didn't bail afterward, either. All is good. You shouldn't be asking strangers when you should step outside your comfort zone when it comes to your lady bits. We aren't in charge of them, you are.
If you have to come here and ask, YOU aren't ready. It's all on you and what you're comfortable with. If you're worried about him bailing after sex, then you probably shouldn't put out with this dude right now.
I generally "wait" a month because that's usually the time frame in which I'm comfortable enough to go there with the dude. They didn't bail afterward, either. All is good. You shouldn't be asking strangers when you should step outside your comfort zone when it comes to your lady bits. We aren't in charge of them, you are.
I don't make them wait. It's not about that for me, it is about when I am ready, and I can be ready sooner if I feel like there is no pressure and if I am the one making the moves first. I prefer it that way; I tried to be the passive one and let them chase me and make moves on me but it just made me nervous.
i like the wait, make the tension sexual bigger ! and bigger !
but take two or three day off because this wait, will have to be paid
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but take two or three day off because this wait, will have to be paid
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Honestly I don't put my the control of my vagina in someone else's hands. If you're holding out or thinking if you want to hold out more, just because of him.... idk it's a little confusing to me. If you want to have sex, then do it.
You held out for a nice while. If you feel comfortable, I don't see a problem.
If you give him sex just bc you don't want him to run off, then that's a problem.
You should have sex when YOU want to. If he can't respect it then... deuces.
You held out for a nice while. If you feel comfortable, I don't see a problem.
If you give him sex just bc you don't want him to run off, then that's a problem.
You should have sex when YOU want to. If he can't respect it then... deuces.
Though I'm a male, I normally don't start wanting sex or anything sexual for a few months or so. I kind of want to develop a friendship and trust with the woman first.
Does that make me super weird?
Does that make me super weird?
Posted by SoulNo, it makes you decent.
Though I'm a male, I normally don't start wanting sex or anything sexual for a few months or so. I kind of want to develop a friendship and trust with the woman first.
Does that make me super weird?
Posted by SoulNo, it makes you beautiful!
Though I'm a male, I normally don't start wanting sex or anything sexual for a few months or so. I kind of want to develop a friendship and trust with the woman first.
Does that make me super weird?
Posted by GuardianAnuOMG you people are so mean LoLPosted by MoonOfMyLife😆Posted by GeminariescharmerNo one wants to fuck you or your possum looking mug anyway, fuckboy.
LOl @ this tactic, good to see what you guys think. If i am investing my time and energy unto you, 3 dates no sex i am out lolclick to expand
Posted by SoulMany different phenomenons may explain this: past experiences, age, maturity, Mars-Venus aspects, current goals, or just cautious.
Though I'm a male, I normally don't start wanting sex or anything sexual for a few months or so. I kind of want to develop a friendship and trust with the woman first.
Does that make me super weird?
I tend to make them wait if i'm hoping for it to be more serious-can be a guide to how serious he is, as youve read some say 3 dates and their out-thats when id go "phew" (not the type id wanna attract) BUT if I end up in the situation, right place right time and im super into him and it feels right-oh well! The thing is getting me in that situation early on is unlikely...
Posted by MoonOfMyLifeDon't tease. That's cruel.
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I have been seeing someone for a couple of weeks now and the flirtation and sexual tension is super heavy between us. You can say I have been teasing him very cruelly but withholding anything beyond second base. How long do you think I should keep this on before he decides it's not so fun anymore and gets bored. Should I just give up the pussy?
Date as long as you want, as long as it takes to measure his intentions, then give it up when you're ready.
My first husband waited three months. My fiance got it after about 12-15 dates.
Posted by AriesLoveAnd selfish tooPosted by Geminariescharmer3 dates is time and energy??!?
LOl @ this tactic, good to see what you guys think. If i am investing my time and energy unto you, 3 dates no sex i am out lol
You are probably horrible in bed. Lazy quickieclick to expand
Posted by truecapThe entitlement generation at its finest. Boys his age mimick that of a 1950s entitled male mindset, viewing women as objects and their own personal prostitute... in 2016. It's concerning.Posted by AriesLoveAnd selfish tooPosted by Geminariescharmer3 dates is time and energy??!?
LOl @ this tactic, good to see what you guys think. If i am investing my time and energy unto you, 3 dates no sex i am out lol
You are probably horrible in bed. Lazy quickieclick to expand
Any time I hear a dipshit guy bitch about how he's spent all this time and money and is OWED sex, I ask if he's dating or looking for a prostitute. He shuts up real fast because that's what that bullshit mentality is basically saying. "I spent money on you to fuck me. I'm entitled to your vagina because I spent money on you."
That IS prostitution, technically, and it's amazing how many guys are basically on board for treating women like this.
Hell no. Making them wait means making ME wait! Why do guys get to be the only ones having meaningless sex. If they want to kiss my ass after that and try to be in a relationship...ok, they can work to keep getting what they'll never forget.
Posted by Soulah no, that makes you normal - and thank god ...
Though I'm a male, I normally don't start wanting sex or anything sexual for a few months or so. I kind of want to develop a friendship and trust with the woman first.
Does that make me super weird?
Posted by starloverAgreed 😢Posted by SoulI love your answer and no not weird
Though I'm a male, I normally don't start wanting sex or anything sexual for a few months or so. I kind of want to develop a friendship and trust with the woman first.
Does that make me super weird?
Refreshing and lovely
*Deep soul*
Few and far in between, sadly with this throw away shallow society we have become
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How often does a man make a woman wait for sex?
Would the woman have the patience or end up going elsewhere?
Would the woman have the patience or end up going elsewhere?
Posted by atearthHas that been your personal experience? You have girls trying to get in your pants and having to shoo them away?
How often does a man make a woman wait for sex?
Would the woman have the patience or end up going elsewhere?
Posted by starloverYes! The guys who tell a girl they want to wait shows respectPosted by atearthI would be delighted if a man could show me he would take the time to get to know me
How often does a man make a woman wait for sex?
Would the woman have the patience or end up going elsewhere?
Yes, I would wait and enjoy his company before rushing to unzip him
Would be good to see that his brain was in is head and not in his pants
Predictability totally kills it for me
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Posted by FinbuffRiiiigght 🙄
This thread is so funny - (btw..cool pic Gemoo) 3-4 dates with me and you'd never be able to resist. LOL I'd be at "attention" and you'd be "whooaa -yaaaess".
Posted by MoonbutterThat is super weird. HahaPosted by starloverAgreed 😢Posted by SoulI love your answer and no not weird
Though I'm a male, I normally don't start wanting sex or anything sexual for a few months or so. I kind of want to develop a friendship and trust with the woman first.
Does that make me super weird?
Refreshing and lovely
*Deep soul*
Few and far in between, sadly with this throw away shallow society we have become
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Posted by atearthI'm Venus in Taurus, I wait to ask questions first about this matter. Whatever comes out your mouth could be the end.
How often does a man make a woman wait for sex?
Would the woman have the patience or end up going elsewhere?
Posted by MoonOfMyLifeAn aries moon quote: Love is like a fart, if you have to force anything - it's probably shit.
Hi-
I have been seeing someone for a couple of weeks now and the flirtation and sexual tension is super heavy between us. You can say I have been teasing him very cruelly but withholding anything beyond second base. How long do you think I should keep this on before he decides it's not so fun anymore and gets bored. Should I just give up the pussy?
Listen more to feminist advices on here, and your guy will head for the hills right away to find himself somebody who's more in touch with their inner passion, and doesn't follow society cliches when it comes to bedroom.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@Starlover B3cause
you don't hear that too often. Much appreciated but weird gasp a guy admitting can be like and sometimes people aren't like that and you want them to change to be that and they're some good guys left it seems.
I also think like that is that weird sure. But it's what I am and what I stand by.
Bravo @Soul or anyone else in this mentalitygroup
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I have been seeing someone for a couple of weeks now and the flirtation and sexual tension is super heavy between us. You can say I have been teasing him very cruelly but withholding anything beyond second base. How long do you think I should keep this on before he decides it's not so fun anymore and gets bored. Should I just give up the pussy?