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Posted by whatisthisallabout
"There is no other way to say this: Please stop texting me. I cannot maintain this level of commnication. Take care of yourself dot dot dot"
I don't think it's mean. But I don't think it'll work because returning message would be 'do you really meant it? Why? What have I done wrong? You said you liked me...'

And so forth...
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"There is no other way to say this: Please stop texting me. I cannot maintain this level of commnication. Take care of yourself dot dot dot"
I don't think it's mean. But I don't think it'll work because returning message would be 'do you really meant it? Why? What have I done wrong? You said you liked me...'

And so forth...

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It was a shock ๐Ÿ˜‰
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"There is no other way to say this: Please stop texting me. I cannot maintain this level of commnication. Take care of yourself dot dot dot"
I don't think it's mean. But I don't think it'll work because returning message would be 'do you really meant it? Why? What have I done wrong? You said you liked me...'

And so forth...


It was a shock ๐Ÿ˜‰
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Except it! And trust me! โ€”
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I think it's clear. No I don't think it's mean.
Thanks for chiming in ๐Ÿ™‚
That's ok. Do you feel ok about it all ? You're ok I mean?
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I feel better reading people's comments. I am not gonna lie, originally, I thought I got a mean text message that was uncalled for LOL But now I realized that to most people, it was just a direct message ๐Ÿ™‚
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I think it's clear. No I don't think it's mean.
Thanks for chiming in ๐Ÿ™‚
That's ok. Do you feel ok about it all ? You're ok I mean?
I feel better reading people's comments. I am not gonna lie, originally, I thought I got a mean text message that was uncalled for LOL But now I realized that to most people, it was just a direct message ๐Ÿ™‚
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I am glad reading the comments made you feel better that is all that matters ๐Ÿ™‚
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I think it's clear. No I don't think it's mean.
Thanks for chiming in ๐Ÿ™‚
That's ok. Do you feel ok about it all ? You're ok I mean?
I feel better reading people's comments. I am not gonna lie, originally, I thought I got a mean text message that was uncalled for LOL But now I realized that to most people, it was just a direct message ๐Ÿ™‚
Mean would be something like

'Listen up you dumb c*nt. I guess I have to go out of my way send this since you're too f*cking stupid to take a hint. Stop blowing my sh*t up! Nobody cares what the f*ck you have to say because you don't matter! Now, I've got actual important things to do so I hope we're done.

Yeah. That's a good example I think.
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I think it's clear. No I don't think it's mean.
Thanks for chiming in ๐Ÿ™‚
That's ok. Do you feel ok about it all ? You're ok I mean?
I feel better reading people's comments. I am not gonna lie, originally, I thought I got a mean text message that was uncalled for LOL But now I realized that to most people, it was just a direct message ๐Ÿ™‚
Mean would be something like

'Listen up you dumb c*nt. I guess I have to go out of my way send this since you're too f*cking stupid to take a hint. Stop blowing my sh*t up! Nobody cares what the f*ck you have to say because you don't matter! Now, I've got actual important things to do so I hope we're done.

Yeah. That's a good example I think.
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hahaha. thanks for the vivid example. ๐Ÿ˜†
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Posted by LivenLuv
I think it just feels like what he said was mean to you since it upset you. If someone said that to me I cared about, I'd probably feel like they were being mean initially. But it'd be more about my own feelings and not what they really said.

On the outside looking in, he wasn't trying to be mean to you or hurt you, he was straight forward and didn't give you any false hope. Honesty and closure is a good thing. I don't think he was trying to hurt you, so chin up, tomorrow is a new day ??
Thank you. That's why I am glad I posted it on here. I know sometimes I make a mountain out of a molehill ๐Ÿ™‚

(I mean, when my feelings are hurt, it is not always easy to tell if it is because of how the person said it, or it is because rejection sucks)
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"There is no other way to say this: Please stop texting me. I cannot maintain this level of commnication. Take care of yourself dot dot dot"
Yes this text is mean.

Is that what you want to hear/read?
I thought it was mean, but I am curious about what others think because I have a tendency of overreacting ๐Ÿ˜„

I didn't text anything mean back, but my usual self would. So far, based on people's comments, if I had texted anything mean back, this could have been another incidence of me overracting :p
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I was being facetious...but ok.
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I think its epic
In what waysโ€”โ€”
Its harsh. Its to the point. Its raw. Its honest. Its not to be contested. Its final. Its like a tragic silent movie.

Take care of yourself...

He said- as she crumpled to the floor in a tragic heap of despair.



Epic.

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Well said.

Btw, are you a screenwriter? ๐Ÿ˜ฑ
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"There is no other way to say this: Please stop texting me. I cannot maintain this level of commnication. Take care of yourself dot dot dot"
Yes this text is mean.

Is that what you want to hear/read?
I thought it was mean, but I am curious about what others think because I have a tendency of overreacting ๐Ÿ˜„

I didn't text anything mean back, but my usual self would. So far, based on people's comments, if I had texted anything mean back, this could have been another incidence of me overracting :p
I was being facetious...but ok.
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okay... ๐Ÿ˜†
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Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
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Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
I think its epic
In what waysโ€”โ€”
Its harsh. Its to the point. Its raw. Its honest. Its not to be contested. Its final. Its like a tragic silent movie.

Take care of yourself...

He said- as she crumpled to the floor in a tragic heap of despair.



Epic.


Well said.

Btw, are you a screenwriter? ๐Ÿ˜ฑ


I am a Cancer...That is all.
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Makes sense haha. You are good. I dig it.
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"There is no other way to say this: Please stop texting me. I cannot maintain this level of commnication. Take care of yourself dot dot dot"
Yes this text is mean.

Is that what you want to hear/read?
I thought it was mean, but I am curious about what others think because I have a tendency of overreacting ๐Ÿ˜„

I didn't text anything mean back, but my usual self would. So far, based on people's comments, if I had texted anything mean back, this could have been another incidence of me overracting :p
I was being facetious...but ok.
@Ram416

You seem, to me, a bit more forward (for lack of better word) today than I usually notice you to be. You good mang?

I mean... if I'm totally wrong I accept that, but I thought I'd take the risk and ask.
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don't take me so seriously. cos 95% of the time I'm not.
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"There is no other way to say this: Please stop texting me. I cannot maintain this level of commnication. Take care of yourself dot dot dot"
He thinks you're a psycho.
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If so, why doesn't he just ghost me? I think I agree with some of the people on here who said they'd rather be ghosted ๐Ÿ˜„
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Rejection never sounds polite to the rejected.
That is true. I am wondering what the most polite way to ask someone to get lost would be? ๐Ÿ˜•
i don't think there is one

you can dress it up nicely as much as you want

but the negative undercurrent is still there

i've gotten a rejection similar to this one before that goes:

"I don't want to have to block you."
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Damn. That is very direct.

I personally would choose to be blocked directly without having to hear it ๐Ÿ˜„
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"There is no other way to say this: Please stop texting me. I cannot maintain this level of commnication. Take care of yourself dot dot dot"
He thinks you're a psycho.
If so, why doesn't he just ghost me? I think I agree with some of the people on here who said they'd rather be ghosted ๐Ÿ˜„
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'cause you begged him for a sound rejection. He gave it to you hence.
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Oh gosh. 8 pages of discussing how someone told someone else to sod off, in a nice way.

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Must be Wednesday on DXP.
Do you have a nice way to ask people to x off? ๐Ÿ˜„

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I am pretty direct with what I want to say and mean. The wording would pretty much have been what I would say. Though I would have left off the ellipsis.

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"There is no other way to say this: Please stop texting me. I cannot maintain this level of commnication. Take care of yourself dot dot dot"
He thinks you're a psycho.
If so, why doesn't he just ghost me? I think I agree with some of the people on here who said they'd rather be ghosted ๐Ÿ˜„
'cause you begged him for a sound rejection. He gave it to you hence.
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Well, that is not logical at all. Cuz the last thing I texted him was the day before to just say good night and I did Not text him ANYTHING the next day, but then in the afternoon I got that text. I do not see why he has to text me back AT ALL after 14 hours. If it were you, then why would you even feel the need to text someone back the next afternoon who had ALREADY stopped texting you 14 hours ago just to tell the person to stop texting you? I think it is totally not logical. So why would you choose to text the person back At All instead of just keeping your silence? Wouldn't it be EASIER that way? (I mean, after 14 hours of silence, the other person should aready be expecting to not get a response anyways. Why bogther?)
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Rejection never sounds polite to the rejected.
That is true. I am wondering what the most polite way to ask someone to get lost would be? ๐Ÿ˜•
i don't think there is one

you can dress it up nicely as much as you want

but the negative undercurrent is still there

i've gotten a rejection similar to this one before that goes:

"I don't want to have to block you."
Damn. That is very direct.

I personally would choose to be blocked directly without having to hear it ๐Ÿ˜„
Me too.

That would at least spare me the embarrassment of someone giving me some "benevolent words."

I honestly think that people who word it in a "nice way" are being very passive-aggressive and insincere.

Either say it like you mean it or just block me.
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Stop texting him.



Wtf how can that not be clear to you?

Lmao
I was not asking what the meaning of the message is.

I was asking if it sounds mean. Do you think it is mean? ๐Ÿ˜„

Hahahaha stupid me.

Not really mean.

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No prob. I think it is hard for people to resist telling me what it means instead of assessing if the language was mean ๐Ÿ˜†
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Oh gosh. 8 pages of discussing how someone told someone else to sod off, in a nice way.

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Must be Wednesday on DXP.
Do you have a nice way to ask people to x off? ๐Ÿ˜„


I am pretty direct with what I want to say and mean. The wording would pretty much have been what I would say. Though I would have left off the ellipsis.

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Cool. That's good to know ๐Ÿ˜„

I think I have only asked people to stop texting me when we are in the middle of a fight.

I usually just ghost people if I am not interested :p
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i don't think it is mean. i mean, it even had a "please" in it.
And a Take care of yourself.
Do you think in this context, "take care of yourself" really means "take care of yourself", or it actually means "mind your own business"โ€” ๐Ÿ˜•
Omg really?

You are just going to over analyze this to death eh?



I'm Out lol
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Too early! It carried on and on and on for at least another 8-10 pages ๐Ÿ˜„. To get an answer that was crystal clear from the square 1.

No wonder the guy became exasperated with her!!!!

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"There is no other way to say this: Please stop texting me. I cannot maintain this level of commnication. Take care of yourself dot dot dot"
He thinks you're a psycho.
If so, why doesn't he just ghost me? I think I agree with some of the people on here who said they'd rather be ghosted ๐Ÿ˜„
'cause you begged him for a sound rejection. He gave it to you hence.
Well, that is not logical at all. Cuz the last thing I texted him was the day before to just say good night and I did Not text him ANYTHING the next day, but then in the afternoon I got that text. I do not see why he has to text me back AT ALL after 14 hours. If it were you, then why would you even feel the need to text someone back the next afternoon who had ALREADY stopped texting you 14 hours ago just to tell the person to stop texting you? I think it is totally not logical. So why would you choose to text the person back At All instead of just keeping your silence? Wouldn't it be EASIER that way? (I mean, after 14 hours of silence, the other person should aready be expecting to not get a response anyways. Why bogther?)
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You wouldn't have gotten the message "I don't ever want to hear from you again" had he not plainly texted you so.
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The take care of yourself is unnecessary but the rest is ok.
Nope it's necessary. It says "I'm out completely, now and forever".
That's what I thought too. I think without this sentence, there'd be room left for the recipient to ask why (e.g. "Why can't you maintain the communication? What's wrong?"). But anyways, when I saw it, it meant "good bye", signaling the end of the conversation.
Is he an air sign? He sounds annoyed that he has to spell it out and maybe even annoyed the expectations were high? Maybe you text regularly and he wanted something on and off...
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No, he's a water sign. Anyways, when I got the message at the moment I thought that was mean, but I guess he was just blunt.
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"There is no other way to say this: Please stop texting me. I cannot maintain this level of commnication. Take care of yourself dot dot dot"
He thinks you're a psycho.
If so, why doesn't he just ghost me? I think I agree with some of the people on here who said they'd rather be ghosted ๐Ÿ˜„
'cause you begged him for a sound rejection. He gave it to you hence.
Well, that is not logical at all. Cuz the last thing I texted him was the day before to just say good night and I did Not text him ANYTHING the next day, but then in the afternoon I got that text. I do not see why he has to text me back AT ALL after 14 hours. If it were you, then why would you even feel the need to text someone back the next afternoon who had ALREADY stopped texting you 14 hours ago just to tell the person to stop texting you? I think it is totally not logical. So why would you choose to text the person back At All instead of just keeping your silence? Wouldn't it be EASIER that way? (I mean, after 14 hours of silence, the other person should aready be expecting to not get a response anyways. Why bogther?)
You wouldn't have gotten the message "I don't ever want to hear from you again" had he not plainly texted you so.
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Hmmm, ok. I guess people do things differently. I personally just block people when I am done. I just think it is redundant to have to say it.
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i don't think it is mean. i mean, it even had a "please" in it.
And a Take care of yourself.
Do you think in this context, "take care of yourself" really means "take care of yourself", or it actually means "mind your own business"โ€” ๐Ÿ˜•
Omg really?

You are just going to over analyze this to death eh?



I'm Out lol
Too early! It carried on and on and on for at least another 8-10 pages ๐Ÿ˜„. To get an answer that was crystal clear from the square 1.

No wonder the guy became exasperated with her!!!!

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Obviously you are among one of those who didn't read the title. I was asking people to assess the language of the message (is it mean), not the meaning of the message.

I just ask clarifying questions when people cannot resist to *interpret* the message.
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"There is no other way to say this: Please stop texting me. I cannot maintain this level of commnication. Take care of yourself dot dot dot"
He thinks you're a psycho.
If so, why doesn't he just ghost me? I think I agree with some of the people on here who said they'd rather be ghosted ๐Ÿ˜„
'cause you begged him for a sound rejection. He gave it to you hence.
Well, that is not logical at all. Cuz the last thing I texted him was the day before to just say good night and I did Not text him ANYTHING the next day, but then in the afternoon I got that text. I do not see why he has to text me back AT ALL after 14 hours. If it were you, then why would you even feel the need to text someone back the next afternoon who had ALREADY stopped texting you 14 hours ago just to tell the person to stop texting you? I think it is totally not logical. So why would you choose to text the person back At All instead of just keeping your silence? Wouldn't it be EASIER that way? (I mean, after 14 hours of silence, the other person should aready be expecting to not get a response anyways. Why bogther?)
You wouldn't have gotten the message "I don't ever want to hear from you again" had he not plainly texted you so.
Hmmm, ok. I guess people do things differently. I personally just block people when I am done. I just think it is redundant to have to say it.
I think people doing things differently should be a given. In every aspect of life
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I know. What is interesting on here, though, is that I was Not asking a *why* question (e.g. why did he say this?), but a yes/no question (Is it mean?), but many people's replies are about why I got the message instead of whether the message was mean. Don't you think it is very irontic that people try to say it is ridiculous that I didn't get the message (which I did, so I am Not asking what it means) while they are the ones who did not even get what I was asking on here in the first place?
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"There is no other way to say this: Please stop texting me. I cannot maintain this level of commnication. Take care of yourself dot dot dot"
what level of communication is this person talking about?
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Could be the frequecy, could be the topic, or both. I have no idea. I did not ask him. I didn't think it's worth it to even ask for clarifications when someone asked me to stop texthing him.
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Posted by justagirl
Stop texting him.



Wtf how can that not be clear to you?

Lmao
I was not asking what the meaning of the message is.

I was asking if it sounds mean. Do you think it is mean? ๐Ÿ˜„
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It's like asking, "Does it REALLY mean what I read on my Mickey D's coffee cup?" CAUTION -- HOT!

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DUH!

๐Ÿค— cyber hugs!

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"There is no other way to say this: Please stop texting me. I cannot maintain this level of commnication. Take care of yourself dot dot dot"
He thinks you're a psycho.
If so, why doesn't he just ghost me? I think I agree with some of the people on here who said they'd rather be ghosted ๐Ÿ˜„
'cause you begged him for a sound rejection. He gave it to you hence.
Well, that is not logical at all. Cuz the last thing I texted him was the day before to just say good night and I did Not text him ANYTHING the next day, but then in the afternoon I got that text. I do not see why he has to text me back AT ALL after 14 hours. If it were you, then why would you even feel the need to text someone back the next afternoon who had ALREADY stopped texting you 14 hours ago just to tell the person to stop texting you? I think it is totally not logical. So why would you choose to text the person back At All instead of just keeping your silence? Wouldn't it be EASIER that way? (I mean, after 14 hours of silence, the other person should aready be expecting to not get a response anyways. Why bogther?)
You wouldn't have gotten the message "I don't ever want to hear from you again" had he not plainly texted you so.
Hmmm, ok. I guess people do things differently. I personally just block people when I am done. I just think it is redundant to have to say it.
I think people doing things differently should be a given. In every aspect of life
I know. What is interesting on here, though, is that I was Not asking a *why* question (e.g. why did he say this?), but a yes/no question (Is it mean?), but many people's replies are about why I got the message instead of whether the message was mean. Don't you think it is very irontic that people try to say it is ridiculous that I didn't get the message (which I did, so I am Not asking what it means) while they are the ones who did not even get what I was asking on here in the first place?
Perhaps. Anyways it wasn't mean. Quite nice actually, which I believe a few people had stated

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Thanks! At the moment I thought it was mean so it bothered me. I guess it was because he asked me not to do something and I don't like it when people tell me what I can do or what I cannot do. But I guess people don't feel that way when they read it. I think it'd be much better if it was "this is not working for me. good luck".
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Posted by juliettee
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Rejection never sounds polite to the rejected.
That is true. I am wondering what the most polite way to ask someone to get lost would be? ๐Ÿ˜•
i don't think there is one

you can dress it up nicely as much as you want

but the negative undercurrent is still there

i've gotten a rejection similar to this one before that goes:

"I don't want to have to block you."
Damn. That is very direct.

I personally would choose to be blocked directly without having to hear it ๐Ÿ˜„

and then we will have a thread titled: why did he blocked me, which we NEVER saw on this forum. like 1000 of NEVER. ๐Ÿ˜„



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haha, since I block people myself so I know what it means ๐Ÿ˜‰
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Stop texting him.



Wtf how can that not be clear to you?

Lmao
I was not asking what the meaning of the message is.

I was asking if it sounds mean. Do you think it is mean? ๐Ÿ˜„
It's like asking, "Does it REALLY mean what I read on my Mickey D's coffee cup?" CAUTION -- HOT!

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DUH!

๐Ÿค— cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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It is not about what he wants me to do, but the langague. I think it is more pollite to say "This is not working for me. Good luck." if he really felt he had to say something. I thought it was mean and unncessary for him to text me back after 14 hours to just tell me to stop texting when I already stopped texting him 14 hours ago. Anyways, I thought he was being mean to text that to me.