
I think it's clear. No I don't think it's mean.



Posted by whatisthisallaboutI don't think it's mean. But I don't think it'll work because returning message would be 'do you really meant it? Why? What have I done wrong? You said you liked me...'
"There is no other way to say this: Please stop texting me. I cannot maintain this level of commnication. Take care of yourself dot dot dot"

Posted by whatisthisallaboutI don't think it's mean. But I don't think it'll work because returning message would be 'do you really meant it? Why? What have I done wrong? You said you liked me...'
"There is no other way to say this: Please stop texting me. I cannot maintain this level of commnication. Take care of yourself dot dot dot"

Posted by LittleFairyThanks for chiming in ๐
I think it's clear. No I don't think it's mean.

Posted by whatisthisallaboutThat's ok. Do you feel ok about it all ? You're ok I mean?Posted by LittleFairyThanks for chiming in ๐
I think it's clear. No I don't think it's mean.click to expand

Posted by GemitatiIt was a shock ๐Posted by whatisthisallaboutI don't think it's mean. But I don't think it'll work because returning message would be 'do you really meant it? Why? What have I done wrong? You said you liked me...'
"There is no other way to say this: Please stop texting me. I cannot maintain this level of commnication. Take care of yourself dot dot dot"
And so forth...
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Posted by whatisthisallaboutExcept it! And trust me! โPosted by GemitatiIt was a shock ๐Posted by whatisthisallaboutI don't think it's mean. But I don't think it'll work because returning message would be 'do you really meant it? Why? What have I done wrong? You said you liked me...'
"There is no other way to say this: Please stop texting me. I cannot maintain this level of commnication. Take care of yourself dot dot dot"
And so forth...
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Posted by LittleFairyI feel better reading people's comments. I am not gonna lie, originally, I thought I got a mean text message that was uncalled for LOL But now I realized that to most people, it was just a direct message ๐Posted by whatisthisallaboutThat's ok. Do you feel ok about it all ? You're ok I mean?Posted by LittleFairyThanks for chiming in ๐
I think it's clear. No I don't think it's mean.click to expand

Posted by whatisthisallaboutI am glad reading the comments made you feel better that is all that matters ๐Posted by LittleFairyI feel better reading people's comments. I am not gonna lie, originally, I thought I got a mean text message that was uncalled for LOL But now I realized that to most people, it was just a direct message ๐Posted by whatisthisallaboutThat's ok. Do you feel ok about it all ? You're ok I mean?Posted by LittleFairyThanks for chiming in ๐
I think it's clear. No I don't think it's mean.click to expand

Posted by m200991Posted by whatisthisallaboutMean would be something likePosted by LittleFairyI feel better reading people's comments. I am not gonna lie, originally, I thought I got a mean text message that was uncalled for LOL But now I realized that to most people, it was just a direct message ๐Posted by whatisthisallaboutThat's ok. Do you feel ok about it all ? You're ok I mean?Posted by LittleFairyThanks for chiming in ๐
I think it's clear. No I don't think it's mean.
'Listen up you dumb c*nt. I guess I have to go out of my way send this since you're too f*cking stupid to take a hint. Stop blowing my sh*t up! Nobody cares what the f*ck you have to say because you don't matter! Now, I've got actual important things to do so I hope we're done.
Yeah. That's a good example I think.click to expand


Posted by m200991hahaha. thanks for the vivid example. ๐Posted by whatisthisallaboutMean would be something likePosted by LittleFairyI feel better reading people's comments. I am not gonna lie, originally, I thought I got a mean text message that was uncalled for LOL But now I realized that to most people, it was just a direct message ๐Posted by whatisthisallaboutThat's ok. Do you feel ok about it all ? You're ok I mean?Posted by LittleFairyThanks for chiming in ๐
I think it's clear. No I don't think it's mean.
'Listen up you dumb c*nt. I guess I have to go out of my way send this since you're too f*cking stupid to take a hint. Stop blowing my sh*t up! Nobody cares what the f*ck you have to say because you don't matter! Now, I've got actual important things to do so I hope we're done.
Yeah. That's a good example I think.click to expand

Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesIn what waysโโ
I think its epic

Posted by LivenLuvThank you. That's why I am glad I posted it on here. I know sometimes I make a mountain out of a molehill ๐
I think it just feels like what he said was mean to you since it upset you. If someone said that to me I cared about, I'd probably feel like they were being mean initially. But it'd be more about my own feelings and not what they really said.
On the outside looking in, he wasn't trying to be mean to you or hurt you, he was straight forward and didn't give you any false hope. Honesty and closure is a good thing. I don't think he was trying to hurt you, so chin up, tomorrow is a new day ??

Posted by SofiaV87Thanks for sharing your opinion ๐
No not mean, very blunt - yes.. it's way better than getting ghosted

Posted by KoniuchaaFrom my observations of OP, I'm not so sure but she definitely thinks too much.
Or was it notsosure

Posted by whatisthisallaboutI was being facetious...but ok.Posted by Ram416I thought it was mean, but I am curious about what others think because I have a tendency of overreacting ๐Posted by whatisthisallaboutYes this text is mean.
"There is no other way to say this: Please stop texting me. I cannot maintain this level of commnication. Take care of yourself dot dot dot"
Is that what you want to hear/read?
I didn't text anything mean back, but my usual self would. So far, based on people's comments, if I had texted anything mean back, this could have been another incidence of me overracting :pclick to expand

Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesWell said.Posted by whatisthisallaboutIts harsh. Its to the point. Its raw. Its honest. Its not to be contested. Its final. Its like a tragic silent movie.Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesIn what waysโโ
I think its epic
Take care of yourself...
He said- as she crumpled to the floor in a tragic heap of despair.
Epic.
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Posted by Ram416okay... ๐Posted by whatisthisallaboutI was being facetious...but ok.Posted by Ram416I thought it was mean, but I am curious about what others think because I have a tendency of overreacting ๐Posted by whatisthisallaboutYes this text is mean.
"There is no other way to say this: Please stop texting me. I cannot maintain this level of commnication. Take care of yourself dot dot dot"
Is that what you want to hear/read?
I didn't text anything mean back, but my usual self would. So far, based on people's comments, if I had texted anything mean back, this could have been another incidence of me overracting :pclick to expand

Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesMakes sense haha. You are good. I dig it.Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by Cancervirgo15degreesWell said.Posted by whatisthisallaboutIts harsh. Its to the point. Its raw. Its honest. Its not to be contested. Its final. Its like a tragic silent movie.Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesIn what waysโโ
I think its epic
Take care of yourself...
He said- as she crumpled to the floor in a tragic heap of despair.
Epic.
Btw, are you a screenwriter? ๐ฑ
I am a Cancer...That is all.click to expand

Posted by m200991don't take me so seriously. cos 95% of the time I'm not.Posted by Ram416@Ram416Posted by whatisthisallaboutI was being facetious...but ok.Posted by Ram416I thought it was mean, but I am curious about what others think because I have a tendency of overreacting ๐Posted by whatisthisallaboutYes this text is mean.
"There is no other way to say this: Please stop texting me. I cannot maintain this level of commnication. Take care of yourself dot dot dot"
Is that what you want to hear/read?
I didn't text anything mean back, but my usual self would. So far, based on people's comments, if I had texted anything mean back, this could have been another incidence of me overracting :p
You seem, to me, a bit more forward (for lack of better word) today than I usually notice you to be. You good mang?
I mean... if I'm totally wrong I accept that, but I thought I'd take the risk and ask.click to expand

Posted by whatisthisallaboutHe thinks you're a psycho.
"There is no other way to say this: Please stop texting me. I cannot maintain this level of commnication. Take care of yourself dot dot dot"

Posted by LibraLovesHimHaha, yea, I probably will think I deserve it in another week lol
Lol yes kind of, but if I receive this kind of response from someone I know i've probably deserved it so I wouldn't be offended. I tend not to annoy people-unintentionally, quite the opposite prob.

Posted by PalerioIf so, why doesn't he just ghost me? I think I agree with some of the people on here who said they'd rather be ghosted ๐Posted by whatisthisallaboutHe thinks you're a psycho.
"There is no other way to say this: Please stop texting me. I cannot maintain this level of commnication. Take care of yourself dot dot dot"click to expand

Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeI think I'd rather be ghosted as well ๐
i rather get ghosted than get that message.
it's beyond mean, that's just devastating.

Posted by aflyingarrowI guess it does take more balls to say it like that ๐
It's cold but very straight forward. It takes a huge balls to do this.. if he's a man.. that kinda makes him manly... ?
I'd rather have that than people going casper..

Posted by sierraleooneThat is true. I am wondering what the most polite way to ask someone to get lost would be? ๐
Rejection never sounds polite to the rejected.


Posted by sierraleooneDamn. That is very direct.Posted by whatisthisallabouti don't think there is onePosted by sierraleooneThat is true. I am wondering what the most polite way to ask someone to get lost would be? ๐
Rejection never sounds polite to the rejected.
you can dress it up nicely as much as you want
but the negative undercurrent is still there
i've gotten a rejection similar to this one before that goes:
"I don't want to have to block you."click to expand

Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesDo you have a nice way to ask people to x off? ๐
Oh gosh. 8 pages of discussing how someone told someone else to sod off, in a nice way.![]()
Must be Wednesday on DXP.
Posted by whatisthisallabout'cause you begged him for a sound rejection. He gave it to you hence.Posted by PalerioIf so, why doesn't he just ghost me? I think I agree with some of the people on here who said they'd rather be ghosted ๐Posted by whatisthisallaboutHe thinks you're a psycho.
"There is no other way to say this: Please stop texting me. I cannot maintain this level of commnication. Take care of yourself dot dot dot"click to expand

Posted by whatisthisallaboutI am pretty direct with what I want to say and mean. The wording would pretty much have been what I would say. Though I would have left off the ellipsis.Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesDo you have a nice way to ask people to x off? ๐
Oh gosh. 8 pages of discussing how someone told someone else to sod off, in a nice way.![]()
Must be Wednesday on DXP.
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Posted by PalerioWell, that is not logical at all. Cuz the last thing I texted him was the day before to just say good night and I did Not text him ANYTHING the next day, but then in the afternoon I got that text. I do not see why he has to text me back AT ALL after 14 hours. If it were you, then why would you even feel the need to text someone back the next afternoon who had ALREADY stopped texting you 14 hours ago just to tell the person to stop texting you? I think it is totally not logical. So why would you choose to text the person back At All instead of just keeping your silence? Wouldn't it be EASIER that way? (I mean, after 14 hours of silence, the other person should aready be expecting to not get a response anyways. Why bogther?)Posted by whatisthisallabout'cause you begged him for a sound rejection. He gave it to you hence.Posted by PalerioIf so, why doesn't he just ghost me? I think I agree with some of the people on here who said they'd rather be ghosted ๐Posted by whatisthisallaboutHe thinks you're a psycho.
"There is no other way to say this: Please stop texting me. I cannot maintain this level of commnication. Take care of yourself dot dot dot"click to expand

Posted by sierraleooneYup yup yup ๐คPosted by whatisthisallaboutMe too.Posted by sierraleooneDamn. That is very direct.Posted by whatisthisallabouti don't think there is onePosted by sierraleooneThat is true. I am wondering what the most polite way to ask someone to get lost would be? ๐
Rejection never sounds polite to the rejected.
you can dress it up nicely as much as you want
but the negative undercurrent is still there
i've gotten a rejection similar to this one before that goes:
"I don't want to have to block you."
I personally would choose to be blocked directly without having to hear it ๐
That would at least spare me the embarrassment of someone giving me some "benevolent words."
I honestly think that people who word it in a "nice way" are being very passive-aggressive and insincere.
Either say it like you mean it or just block me.click to expand

Posted by julietteeYou cracked me up. You must be a very romantic person. No, I don't think so, but thanks ๐Posted by whatisthisallaboutMeans he loves you but is afraid...
"There is no other way to say this: Please stop texting me. I cannot maintain this level of commnication. Take care of yourself dot dot dot"click to expand

Posted by julietteeNo prob. I think it is hard for people to resist telling me what it means instead of assessing if the language was mean ๐Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by justagirlI was not asking what the meaning of the message is.
Stop texting him.
Wtf how can that not be clear to you?
Lmao
I was asking if it sounds mean. Do you think it is mean? ๐
Hahahaha stupid me.
Not really mean.
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Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesCool. That's good to know ๐Posted by whatisthisallaboutI am pretty direct with what I want to say and mean. The wording would pretty much have been what I would say. Though I would have left off the ellipsis.Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesDo you have a nice way to ask people to x off? ๐
Oh gosh. 8 pages of discussing how someone told someone else to sod off, in a nice way.![]()
Must be Wednesday on DXP.
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Posted by justagirlToo early! It carried on and on and on for at least another 8-10 pages ๐. To get an answer that was crystal clear from the square 1.Posted by whatisthisallaboutOmg really?Posted by justagirlDo you think in this context, "take care of yourself" really means "take care of yourself", or it actually means "mind your own business"โ ๐Posted by jeaneAnd a Take care of yourself.
i don't think it is mean. i mean, it even had a "please" in it.
You are just going to over analyze this to death eh?
I'm Out lolclick to expand
Posted by whatisthisallaboutYou wouldn't have gotten the message "I don't ever want to hear from you again" had he not plainly texted you so.Posted by PalerioWell, that is not logical at all. Cuz the last thing I texted him was the day before to just say good night and I did Not text him ANYTHING the next day, but then in the afternoon I got that text. I do not see why he has to text me back AT ALL after 14 hours. If it were you, then why would you even feel the need to text someone back the next afternoon who had ALREADY stopped texting you 14 hours ago just to tell the person to stop texting you? I think it is totally not logical. So why would you choose to text the person back At All instead of just keeping your silence? Wouldn't it be EASIER that way? (I mean, after 14 hours of silence, the other person should aready be expecting to not get a response anyways. Why bogther?)Posted by whatisthisallabout'cause you begged him for a sound rejection. He gave it to you hence.Posted by PalerioIf so, why doesn't he just ghost me? I think I agree with some of the people on here who said they'd rather be ghosted ๐Posted by whatisthisallaboutHe thinks you're a psycho.
"There is no other way to say this: Please stop texting me. I cannot maintain this level of commnication. Take care of yourself dot dot dot"click to expand

Posted by Blue_FroggieNo, he's a water sign. Anyways, when I got the message at the moment I thought that was mean, but I guess he was just blunt.Posted by whatisthisallaboutIs he an air sign? He sounds annoyed that he has to spell it out and maybe even annoyed the expectations were high? Maybe you text regularly and he wanted something on and off...Posted by LadyNeptuneThat's what I thought too. I think without this sentence, there'd be room left for the recipient to ask why (e.g. "Why can't you maintain the communication? What's wrong?"). But anyways, when I saw it, it meant "good bye", signaling the end of the conversation.Posted by tizianiNope it's necessary. It says "I'm out completely, now and forever".
The take care of yourself is unnecessary but the rest is ok.click to expand

Posted by PalerioHmmm, ok. I guess people do things differently. I personally just block people when I am done. I just think it is redundant to have to say it.Posted by whatisthisallaboutYou wouldn't have gotten the message "I don't ever want to hear from you again" had he not plainly texted you so.Posted by PalerioWell, that is not logical at all. Cuz the last thing I texted him was the day before to just say good night and I did Not text him ANYTHING the next day, but then in the afternoon I got that text. I do not see why he has to text me back AT ALL after 14 hours. If it were you, then why would you even feel the need to text someone back the next afternoon who had ALREADY stopped texting you 14 hours ago just to tell the person to stop texting you? I think it is totally not logical. So why would you choose to text the person back At All instead of just keeping your silence? Wouldn't it be EASIER that way? (I mean, after 14 hours of silence, the other person should aready be expecting to not get a response anyways. Why bogther?)Posted by whatisthisallabout'cause you begged him for a sound rejection. He gave it to you hence.Posted by PalerioIf so, why doesn't he just ghost me? I think I agree with some of the people on here who said they'd rather be ghosted ๐Posted by whatisthisallaboutHe thinks you're a psycho.
"There is no other way to say this: Please stop texting me. I cannot maintain this level of commnication. Take care of yourself dot dot dot"click to expand

Posted by UndineObviously you are among one of those who didn't read the title. I was asking people to assess the language of the message (is it mean), not the meaning of the message.Posted by justagirlToo early! It carried on and on and on for at least another 8-10 pages ๐. To get an answer that was crystal clear from the square 1.Posted by whatisthisallaboutOmg really?Posted by justagirlDo you think in this context, "take care of yourself" really means "take care of yourself", or it actually means "mind your own business"โ ๐Posted by jeaneAnd a Take care of yourself.
i don't think it is mean. i mean, it even had a "please" in it.
You are just going to over analyze this to death eh?
I'm Out lol
No wonder the guy became exasperated with her!!!!
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Posted by KoniuchaaI know. What is interesting on here, though, is that I was Not asking a *why* question (e.g. why did he say this?), but a yes/no question (Is it mean?), but many people's replies are about why I got the message instead of whether the message was mean. Don't you think it is very irontic that people try to say it is ridiculous that I didn't get the message (which I did, so I am Not asking what it means) while they are the ones who did not even get what I was asking on here in the first place?Posted by whatisthisallaboutI think people doing things differently should be a given. In every aspect of lifePosted by PalerioHmmm, ok. I guess people do things differently. I personally just block people when I am done. I just think it is redundant to have to say it.Posted by whatisthisallaboutYou wouldn't have gotten the message "I don't ever want to hear from you again" had he not plainly texted you so.Posted by PalerioWell, that is not logical at all. Cuz the last thing I texted him was the day before to just say good night and I did Not text him ANYTHING the next day, but then in the afternoon I got that text. I do not see why he has to text me back AT ALL after 14 hours. If it were you, then why would you even feel the need to text someone back the next afternoon who had ALREADY stopped texting you 14 hours ago just to tell the person to stop texting you? I think it is totally not logical. So why would you choose to text the person back At All instead of just keeping your silence? Wouldn't it be EASIER that way? (I mean, after 14 hours of silence, the other person should aready be expecting to not get a response anyways. Why bogther?)Posted by whatisthisallabout'cause you begged him for a sound rejection. He gave it to you hence.Posted by PalerioIf so, why doesn't he just ghost me? I think I agree with some of the people on here who said they'd rather be ghosted ๐Posted by whatisthisallaboutHe thinks you're a psycho.
"There is no other way to say this: Please stop texting me. I cannot maintain this level of commnication. Take care of yourself dot dot dot"click to expand

Posted by halalbaeCould be the frequecy, could be the topic, or both. I have no idea. I did not ask him. I didn't think it's worth it to even ask for clarifications when someone asked me to stop texthing him.Posted by whatisthisallaboutwhat level of communication is this person talking about?
"There is no other way to say this: Please stop texting me. I cannot maintain this level of commnication. Take care of yourself dot dot dot"click to expand

Posted by whatisthisallaboutIt's like asking, "Does it REALLY mean what I read on my Mickey D's coffee cup?" CAUTION -- HOT!Posted by justagirlI was not asking what the meaning of the message is.
Stop texting him.
Wtf how can that not be clear to you?
Lmao
I was asking if it sounds mean. Do you think it is mean? ๐click to expand

Posted by KoniuchaaThanks! At the moment I thought it was mean so it bothered me. I guess it was because he asked me not to do something and I don't like it when people tell me what I can do or what I cannot do. But I guess people don't feel that way when they read it. I think it'd be much better if it was "this is not working for me. good luck".Posted by whatisthisallaboutPerhaps. Anyways it wasn't mean. Quite nice actually, which I believe a few people had statedPosted by KoniuchaaI know. What is interesting on here, though, is that I was Not asking a *why* question (e.g. why did he say this?), but a yes/no question (Is it mean?), but many people's replies are about why I got the message instead of whether the message was mean. Don't you think it is very irontic that people try to say it is ridiculous that I didn't get the message (which I did, so I am Not asking what it means) while they are the ones who did not even get what I was asking on here in the first place?Posted by whatisthisallaboutI think people doing things differently should be a given. In every aspect of lifePosted by PalerioHmmm, ok. I guess people do things differently. I personally just block people when I am done. I just think it is redundant to have to say it.Posted by whatisthisallaboutYou wouldn't have gotten the message "I don't ever want to hear from you again" had he not plainly texted you so.Posted by PalerioWell, that is not logical at all. Cuz the last thing I texted him was the day before to just say good night and I did Not text him ANYTHING the next day, but then in the afternoon I got that text. I do not see why he has to text me back AT ALL after 14 hours. If it were you, then why would you even feel the need to text someone back the next afternoon who had ALREADY stopped texting you 14 hours ago just to tell the person to stop texting you? I think it is totally not logical. So why would you choose to text the person back At All instead of just keeping your silence? Wouldn't it be EASIER that way? (I mean, after 14 hours of silence, the other person should aready be expecting to not get a response anyways. Why bogther?)Posted by whatisthisallabout'cause you begged him for a sound rejection. He gave it to you hence.Posted by PalerioIf so, why doesn't he just ghost me? I think I agree with some of the people on here who said they'd rather be ghosted ๐Posted by whatisthisallaboutHe thinks you're a psycho.
"There is no other way to say this: Please stop texting me. I cannot maintain this level of commnication. Take care of yourself dot dot dot"
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Posted by julietteehaha, since I block people myself so I know what it means ๐Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by sierraleooneDamn. That is very direct.Posted by whatisthisallabouti don't think there is onePosted by sierraleooneThat is true. I am wondering what the most polite way to ask someone to get lost would be? ๐
Rejection never sounds polite to the rejected.
you can dress it up nicely as much as you want
but the negative undercurrent is still there
i've gotten a rejection similar to this one before that goes:
"I don't want to have to block you."
I personally would choose to be blocked directly without having to hear it ๐
and then we will have a thread titled: why did he blocked me, which we NEVER saw on this forum. like 1000 of NEVER. ๐
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Posted by EvatheDivaIt is not about what he wants me to do, but the langague. I think it is more pollite to say "This is not working for me. Good luck." if he really felt he had to say something. I thought it was mean and unncessary for him to text me back after 14 hours to just tell me to stop texting when I already stopped texting him 14 hours ago. Anyways, I thought he was being mean to text that to me.Posted by whatisthisallaboutIt's like asking, "Does it REALLY mean what I read on my Mickey D's coffee cup?" CAUTION -- HOT!Posted by justagirlI was not asking what the meaning of the message is.
Stop texting him.
Wtf how can that not be clear to you?
Lmao
I was asking if it sounds mean. Do you think it is mean? ๐![]()
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