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How to suspect infidelity 'correct' way?
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioI would. But society frawn upon that!Posted by GemitatiInstall a tracking device on phone or car.
I've been fighting this batal forever.
If you suspect your partner is cheating but you could be wrong - how do you get peace of mind established?
Checking phones -Nono!
Emails - Nono!
Pockets - god forbid!
So people sometimes hear stories that triggering jealousy and suspicion.
At some times they just think it might be that partner is cheating but they tired or worries and acting strange.
And of course question 'so you have someone else' will never produce answer 'yes' in both cases!
So what is suspicious partner correct tactic should be?
I don't think snooping is the relationship breaker. You've got your answer - life goes on!
You still suspicious - continue investigation until you get that peace of mind! How else?click to expand
This is why I am asking 'correct' way?
Everyone basically suggesting suspicion is the end of everything! I disagree!
You find out you wrong - cry with happiness and suspect no more! Lol
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioIt's wrong by everyone I've ever read from.Posted by GemitatiLol you a tracker and stay calm and act stupid lolPosted by EvoxxxscorpioI would. But society frawn upon that!Posted by GemitatiInstall a tracking device on phone or car.
I've been fighting this batal forever.
If you suspect your partner is cheating but you could be wrong - how do you get peace of mind established?
Checking phones -Nono!
Emails - Nono!
Pockets - god forbid!
So people sometimes hear stories that triggering jealousy and suspicion.
At some times they just think it might be that partner is cheating but they tired or worries and acting strange.
And of course question 'so you have someone else' will never produce answer 'yes' in both cases!
So what is suspicious partner correct tactic should be?
I don't think snooping is the relationship breaker. You've got your answer - life goes on!
You still suspicious - continue investigation until you get that peace of mind! How else?
This is why I am asking 'correct' way?
Everyone basically suggesting suspicion is the end of everything! I disagree!
You find out you wrong - cry with happiness and suspect no more! Lolclick to expand
You must do nothing they say and keep trusting even if he moves out! Lol
If you follow him to see where he went - it's breaking of trust and you shouldn't have! Maybe his friends mother sick and he is sitting for her...lol
Or laying on her warming her up...lol
Posted by julietteNot nessesarily. Everywhere people saying the same thing. You mustn't suspect your partner or divorce!Posted by GemitatiPosted by EvoxxxscorpioI would. But society frawn upon that!Posted by GemitatiInstall a tracking device on phone or car.
I've been fighting this batal forever.
If you suspect your partner is cheating but you could be wrong - how do you get peace of mind established?
Checking phones -Nono!
Emails - Nono!
Pockets - god forbid!
So people sometimes hear stories that triggering jealousy and suspicion.
At some times they just think it might be that partner is cheating but they tired or worries and acting strange.
And of course question 'so you have someone else' will never produce answer 'yes' in both cases!
So what is suspicious partner correct tactic should be?
I don't think snooping is the relationship breaker. You've got your answer - life goes on!
You still suspicious - continue investigation until you get that peace of mind! How else?
This is why I am asking 'correct' way?
Everyone basically suggesting suspicion is the end of everything! I disagree!
You find out you wrong - cry with happiness and suspect no more! Lol
society— you mean dxp LOL
click to expand
What—
Posted by julietteAnd break the trust? Nooooo
hire a private investigator.
Don't you all read what I wrote?
Posted by oknoobsSo you were trolling?
and fuck his dad
Posted by julietteDepends if she is pretty? Or anyway? LolPosted by oknoobs
and fuck his dad
and mom
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I don't understand this thread, aren't you the one who's cheating?
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioAgree. However not nessesarily cheating but might just lost it for you and bored.
Lol if you are with your partner for a very long time and you start suspecting infidelity trust your instincts I guaranty you it's 10000000% correct.
Not everyone who would like to cheat - able to.
My friends husband offered himself to a whole bunch of women but he is so butt ugly and has such slimy and disquisting personality - she is so lucky or he would be somewhere else a long time ago!
It's the first time I've seen man who wants to get laid so badly and can't! We are laughing for years!
He even started to get manicure and ladies telling how he brings candy and flowers and hitting on them! And he rips well too! And everyone tells another one when he is asking for a date!
Also at stores. He is a big shopper! Lol
The cheater is trying to get tips on how to be less obvious. Lawl
Posted by hydorahI don't have to post about me all the time have I?
I don't understand this thread, aren't you the one who's cheating?
Can't I just talk about things in general—
About you for an example...
If I post thread Hello Hydorah! Would you ask me if I am cheating? What ta strange brain work!!!
Posted by julietteHydorah just loves my cheating threads and missing it! LolPosted by hydorah
I don't understand this thread, aren't you the one who's cheating?
now you are really nitpicking.
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Posted by julietteI know 🙂Posted by GemitatiPosted by julietteHydorah just loves my cheating threads and missing it! LolPosted by hydorah
I don't understand this thread, aren't you the one who's cheating?
now you are really nitpicking.
i was actually being sarcastic.
click to expand
Posted by Gemitatiwell i would assume you're talking about hydorah, and not saying hello to everybody in general.Posted by hydorahI don't have to post about me all the time have I?
I don't understand this thread, aren't you the one who's cheating?
Can't I just talk about things in general—
About you for an example...
If I post thread Hello Hydorah! Would you ask me if I am cheating? What ta strange brain work!!!click to expand
In your first post, it looks like you were asking for yourself, why do you need to know the details?
this is cold war secrets, you won't get intel that easy
Posted by hydorahIt seemed I was asking for myself?Posted by Gemitatiwell i would assume you're talking about hydorah, and not saying hello to everybody in general.Posted by hydorahI don't have to post about me all the time have I?
I don't understand this thread, aren't you the one who's cheating?
Can't I just talk about things in general—
About you for an example...
If I post thread Hello Hydorah! Would you ask me if I am cheating? What ta strange brain work!!!
In your first post, it looks like you were asking for yourself, why do you need to know the details?
this is cold war secrets, you won't get intel that easyclick to expand
Stop assuming and just go with a flow...
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioWhat's creepy? Tracking device to catch someone cheating? Why creepy?Posted by sagsagsagPosted by EvoxxxscorpioPosted by GemitatiInstall a tracking device on phone or car.
I've been fighting this batal forever.
If you suspect your partner is cheating but you could be wrong - how do you get peace of mind established?
Checking phones -Nono!
Emails - Nono!
Pockets - god forbid!
So people sometimes hear stories that triggering jealousy and suspicion.
At some times they just think it might be that partner is cheating but they tired or worries and acting strange.
And of course question 'so you have someone else' will never produce answer 'yes' in both cases!
So what is suspicious partner correct tactic should be?
I don't think snooping is the relationship breaker. You've got your answer - life goes on!
You still suspicious - continue investigation until you get that peace of mind! How else?
That's real creepy ?
lol it's a special advise tailored for gemitati
click to expand
What's your suggestion? Probably none...
And advice tailored for me - shove it!
I don't have time for devices.
I am hardly on time for my stuff! I am not 25 anymore...it's not that easy! Lol
Posted by GemitatiThis is Irony.
I've been fighting this batal forever.
If you suspect your partner is cheating but you could be wrong - how do you get peace of mind established?
Ok I'll throw you a bone. Burner phones are your friend.
Posted by julietteI wasn't asking an advise!!!Posted by GemitatiPosted by hydorahIt seemed I was asking for myself?Posted by Gemitatiwell i would assume you're talking about hydorah, and not saying hello to everybody in general.Posted by hydorahI don't have to post about me all the time have I?
I don't understand this thread, aren't you the one who's cheating?
Can't I just talk about things in general—
About you for an example...
If I post thread Hello Hydorah! Would you ask me if I am cheating? What ta strange brain work!!!
In your first post, it looks like you were asking for yourself, why do you need to know the details?
this is cold war secrets, you won't get intel that easy
Stop assuming and just go with a flow...
you're doing it for years, if anything you should give tips, not asking for one lol
about decent way, well maybe ask the so about it. but in a very calm way. if the truth is only you need. offer a solution, divorce, separation and make room that you are just being paranoid. if you are still suspecting, then private investigator it is.
idk, i haven't been actually in a situation.
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I read another thread and it popped in my head as a long time question no one ever answered!
So you always post about you only?
It's really posing me off...
I said private investigator by popular opinion is not 'cool'...
Posted by LadyNeptuneIt's snooping!!! And it's no no by popular opinion.
Ok I'll throw you a bone. Burner phones are your friend.
Posted by julietteSo you just copy/pasting?Posted by GemitatiPosted by julietteI wasn't asking an advise!!!Posted by GemitatiPosted by hydorahIt seemed I was asking for myself?Posted by Gemitatiwell i would assume you're talking about hydorah, and not saying hello to everybody in general.Posted by hydorahI don't have to post about me all the time have I?
I don't understand this thread, aren't you the one who's cheating?
Can't I just talk about things in general—
About you for an example...
If I post thread Hello Hydorah! Would you ask me if I am cheating? What ta strange brain work!!!
In your first post, it looks like you were asking for yourself, why do you need to know the details?
this is cold war secrets, you won't get intel that easy
Stop assuming and just go with a flow...
you're doing it for years, if anything you should give tips, not asking for one lol
about decent way, well maybe ask the so about it. but in a very calm way. if the truth is only you need. offer a solution, divorce, separation and make room that you are just being paranoid. if you are still suspecting, then private investigator it is.
idk, i haven't been actually in a situation.
I read another thread and it popped in my head as a long time question no one ever answered!
So you always post about you only?
It's really posing me off...
I said private investigator by popular opinion is not 'cool'...
i was telling exactly the same thing 😄 you were inspired with mobile cell phones thread.
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Posted by leowwwAsk my husband what?
Ask your husband?
I love this 'just feeling urge to type' posts...
Posted by Gemitatiwhat do you mean snooping. burner phones don't leave a trace.Posted by LadyNeptuneIt's snooping!!! And it's no no by popular opinion.
Ok I'll throw you a bone. Burner phones are your friend.click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneIt's still considered snoopingPosted by Gemitatiwhat do you mean snooping. burner phones don't leave a trace.Posted by LadyNeptuneIt's snooping!!! And it's no no by popular opinion.
Ok I'll throw you a bone. Burner phones are your friend.click to expand
Posted by leowwwPosted by GemitatiIf he suspects infidelity?Posted by leowwwAsk my husband what?
Ask your husband?
I love this 'just feeling urge to type' posts...
Your husband could know.... No?
What urge, you started a thread on infidelity and you can't stop talking about cheating on your husband, Wtf do you expect?
click to expand
That's what you want to see!
And yes he suspecting...so?
Posted by Gemitatiwho is snooping? what are you babbling about?Posted by LadyNeptuneIt's still considered snoopingPosted by Gemitatiwhat do you mean snooping. burner phones don't leave a trace.Posted by LadyNeptuneIt's snooping!!! And it's no no by popular opinion.
Ok I'll throw you a bone. Burner phones are your friend.click to expand
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Where would I have time for that—Posted by GemitatiAre these answers for you?
I've been fighting this batal forever.
If you suspect your partner is cheating but you could be wrong - how do you get peace of mind established?
Checking phones -Nono!
Emails - Nono!
Pockets - god forbid!
So people sometimes hear stories that triggering jealousy and suspicion.
At some times they just think it might be that partner is cheating but they tired or worries and acting strange.
And of course question 'so you have someone else' will never produce answer 'yes' in both cases!
So what is suspicious partner correct tactic should be?
I don't think snooping is the relationship breaker. You've got your answer - life goes on!
You still suspicious - continue investigation until you get that peace of mind! How else?click to expand
And I am not suspecting.
And if I was I would hire investigator and go trough the phone and pockets and ask daily! You know - I don't follow rules.
I think if you suspect - you allowed to take every measure to find out.
Others have an opinion that you can't!
So my question - do you just keep quiet and wait and suffer in silence? No way!
Posted by leowwwI know the answer! And you just got it and you keep saying same crap!Posted by GemitatiSo ask him 🙂Posted by leowwwPosted by GemitatiIf he suspects infidelity?Posted by leowwwAsk my husband what?
Ask your husband?
I love this 'just feeling urge to type' posts...
Your husband could know.... No?
What urge, you started a thread on infidelity and you can't stop talking about cheating on your husband, Wtf do you expect?
That's what you want to see!
And yes he suspecting...so?
click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneI just have no idea about those phones!Posted by Gemitatiwho is snooping? what are you babbling about?Posted by LadyNeptuneIt's still considered snoopingPosted by Gemitatiwhat do you mean snooping. burner phones don't leave a trace.Posted by LadyNeptuneIt's snooping!!! And it's no no by popular opinion.
Ok I'll throw you a bone. Burner phones are your friend.click to expand
I am just thinking you somehow get him that kind of phone so you can see his every call? No?
Posted by yupvirgooThank you!
It's stupid, isn't it?
People say that checking SO's phone, emails or social media means you don't trust your partner and therefore why even be in a relationship with them?
BUT
When they're apparently cheating, people blame you for "not seeing the signs?"
I've been married for 17 years now and we have known each other 3 years longer than that but I still look through her phone and she has access to mine as well. If there's nothing to hide, why the fvck should this be an issue? We're more curious rather than suspicious of each other, really. Plus, it satisfies our moon in the 8th house.
Exactly!
And you are the only one came up with a thing I am thinking but people are just don't get it!
Posted by Gemitati"Aflow"?Posted by hydorahIt seemed I was asking for myself?Posted by Gemitatiwell i would assume you're talking about hydorah, and not saying hello to everybody in general.Posted by hydorahI don't have to post about me all the time have I?
I don't understand this thread, aren't you the one who's cheating?
Can't I just talk about things in general—
About you for an example...
If I post thread Hello Hydorah! Would you ask me if I am cheating? What ta strange brain work!!!
In your first post, it looks like you were asking for yourself, why do you need to know the details?
this is cold war secrets, you won't get intel that easy
Stop assuming and just go with a flow...click to expand
Miroslav aflow, the bulgarian spy?
I thought he had been killed in 1979?
Posted by hydorahSo you don't see spaces huh? I am sorry!Posted by Gemitati"Aflow"?Posted by hydorahIt seemed I was asking for myself?Posted by Gemitatiwell i would assume you're talking about hydorah, and not saying hello to everybody in general.Posted by hydorahI don't have to post about me all the time have I?
I don't understand this thread, aren't you the one who's cheating?
Can't I just talk about things in general—
About you for an example...
If I post thread Hello Hydorah! Would you ask me if I am cheating? What ta strange brain work!!!
In your first post, it looks like you were asking for yourself, why do you need to know the details?
this is cold war secrets, you won't get intel that easy
Stop assuming and just go with a flow...
Miroslav aflow, the bulgarian spy?
I thought he had been killed in 1979?click to expand
I am against looking through people's phones. People need to have their private life , and if they want to cheat they'll just use another phone anyway.
Posted by GemitatiSzory?Posted by hydorahSo you don't see spaces huh? I am sorry!Posted by Gemitati"Aflow"?Posted by hydorahIt seemed I was asking for myself?Posted by Gemitatiwell i would assume you're talking about hydorah, and not saying hello to everybody in general.Posted by hydorahI don't have to post about me all the time have I?
I don't understand this thread, aren't you the one who's cheating?
Can't I just talk about things in general—
About you for an example...
If I post thread Hello Hydorah! Would you ask me if I am cheating? What ta strange brain work!!!
In your first post, it looks like you were asking for yourself, why do you need to know the details?
this is cold war secrets, you won't get intel that easy
Stop assuming and just go with a flow...
Miroslav aflow, the bulgarian spy?
I thought he had been killed in 1979?click to expand
You are Tatiana Szory ?
Posted by hydorahI seriously thought you are smart(ER)!Posted by GemitatiSzory?Posted by hydorahSo you don't see spaces huh? I am sorry!Posted by Gemitati"Aflow"?Posted by hydorahIt seemed I was asking for myself?Posted by Gemitatiwell i would assume you're talking about hydorah, and not saying hello to everybody in general.Posted by hydorahI don't have to post about me all the time have I?
I don't understand this thread, aren't you the one who's cheating?
Can't I just talk about things in general—
About you for an example...
If I post thread Hello Hydorah! Would you ask me if I am cheating? What ta strange brain work!!!
In your first post, it looks like you were asking for yourself, why do you need to know the details?
this is cold war secrets, you won't get intel that easy
Stop assuming and just go with a flow...
Miroslav aflow, the bulgarian spy?
I thought he had been killed in 1979?
You are Tatiana Szory ?
click to expand
What a disappointment! Well...
Recent Tosh.0 episode showed a guy catching his cheating wh0re wife with a drone. Was equally sad and hilarious, and admittedly pretty damn brilliant.
Thing is if you have to go to such extremes and/or mistrust so much, there is no point staying in the relationship regardless if they are cheating or not.
Thing is if you have to go to such extremes and/or mistrust so much, there is no point staying in the relationship regardless if they are cheating or not.
Posted by CrabraWhat's drone?
Recent Tosh.0 episode showed a guy catching his cheating wh0re wife with a drone. Was equally sad and hilarious, and admittedly pretty damn brilliant.
Thing is if you have to go to such extremes and/or mistrust so much, there is no point staying in the relationship regardless if they are cheating or not.
Posted by GemitatiPosted by CrabraWhat's drone?
Recent Tosh.0 episode showed a guy catching his cheating wh0re wife with a drone. Was equally sad and hilarious, and admittedly pretty damn brilliant.
Thing is if you have to go to such extremes and/or mistrust so much, there is no point staying in the relationship regardless if they are cheating or not.click to expand
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If you suspect your partner is cheating but you could be wrong - how do you get peace of mind established?
Checking phones -Nono!
Emails - Nono!
Pockets - god forbid!
So people sometimes hear stories that triggering jealousy and suspicion.
At some times they just think it might be that partner is cheating but they tired or worries and acting strange.
And of course question 'so you have someone else' will never produce answer 'yes' in both cases!
So what is suspicious partner correct tactic should be?
I don't think snooping is the relationship breaker. You've got your answer - life goes on!
You still suspicious - continue investigation until you get that peace of mind! How else?