
Gemitati
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Posted by Gemitati
So you do shit together and kiss...no sex.
Is this rship or what?

Posted by Gemitati
So you do shit together and kiss...no sex.
Is this rship or what?

Posted by _DazedPosted by Gemitati
So you do shit together and kiss...no sex.
Is this rship or what?
Not all people in romantic relationships have sex. Asexual people can still love.click to expand

Posted by GemitatiPosted by _DazedPosted by Gemitati
So you do shit together and kiss...no sex.
Is this rship or what?
Not all people in romantic relationships have sex. Asexual people can still love.
As friends?click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Gemitati
So you do shit together and kiss...no sex.
Is this rship or what?
Why do you ask Gem?click to expand

Posted by Foxy777Posted by Gobby
Duh... Of course it's a relationship, just not one of the sexual variety...
its not a romantic relationship thoughclick to expand

Posted by ClassyAquarius
Psychology says that if two people don't have sex at least once in a two weeks then they start to loose bound. (It's said by one of most famous polish sexuologist - Zbigniew Lew-Starowicz)

Posted by _DazedPosted by GemitatiPosted by _DazedPosted by Gemitati
So you do shit together and kiss...no sex.
Is this rship or what?
Not all people in romantic relationships have sex. Asexual people can still love.
As friends?
How the fuck do you get "friends" from "ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP?click to expand

Posted by GemitatiPosted by _DazedPosted by GemitatiPosted by _DazedPosted by Gemitati
So you do shit together and kiss...no sex.
Is this rship or what?
Not all people in romantic relationships have sex. Asexual people can still love.
As friends?
How the fuck do you get "friends" from "ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP?
I’ve just asked. I don’t know what makes romantic if there is no sex. Coffee and flowers?click to expand

Posted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Gemitati
So you do shit together and kiss...no sex.
Is this rship or what?
Why do you ask Gem?
Don’t worry...I just had Brazilian. Wax that is...going to learn Aries kinks. I have a plan and directions! Lmao
Seeing his ass in an hour...mmmmm🙄click to expand


Posted by MareInfamePosted by Mactavish_R
It's a brother x sister relationship.
Or friendship, roommate...
But definitely not one of couples.click to expand

Posted by _DazedPosted by Gemitati
So you do shit together and kiss...no sex.
Is this rship or what?
Not all people in romantic relationships have sex. Asexual people can still love.click to expand

Posted by Undine
I'm in this type of relationship.
Just not in the mood to talk about it right now....

Posted by saggurl88Posted by _DazedPosted by Gemitati
So you do shit together and kiss...no sex.
Is this rship or what?
Not all people in romantic relationships have sex. Asexual people can still love.
I don't completely understand Asexual. So if they are Asexual but romantic, what exactly does that mean?
Is it more of a roommate situation? Dinner, dancing, night out on the town, and then coming home to their respective rooms and ending the night?click to expand

Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by saggurl88Posted by _DazedPosted by Gemitati
So you do shit together and kiss...no sex.
Is this rship or what?
Not all people in romantic relationships have sex. Asexual people can still love.
I don't completely understand Asexual. So if they are Asexual but romantic, what exactly does that mean?
Is it more of a roommate situation? Dinner, dancing, night out on the town, and then coming home to their respective rooms and ending the night?
Perhaps they go to sleep in the same bed, talking and cuddling, but don't have sex.click to expand

Posted by _DazedPosted by saggurl88Posted by _DazedPosted by Gemitati
So you do shit together and kiss...no sex.
Is this rship or what?
Not all people in romantic relationships have sex. Asexual people can still love.
I don't completely understand Asexual. So if they are Asexual but romantic, what exactly does that mean?
Is it more of a roommate situation? Dinner, dancing, night out on the town, and then coming home to their respective rooms and ending the night?
wut? No.
Asexual folks still sleep in the same bed, cuddle, kiss, love each other..
Some actually have sex, but not because they enjoy it.. but to please their partners.
Some do have sex, but rarely.. either from the lack of urge, or like me.. I think about sex but I don't particularly care for the physical act itself.
And then there are those that are absolutely repulsed by sex.
It's a spectrum. Just because a couple doesn't have sex, doesn't mean they can't be romantic.click to expand


Posted by saggurl88Posted by _DazedPosted by saggurl88Posted by _DazedPosted by Gemitati
So you do shit together and kiss...no sex.
Is this rship or what?
Not all people in romantic relationships have sex. Asexual people can still love.
I don't completely understand Asexual. So if they are Asexual but romantic, what exactly does that mean?
Is it more of a roommate situation? Dinner, dancing, night out on the town, and then coming home to their respective rooms and ending the night?
wut? No.
Asexual folks still sleep in the same bed, cuddle, kiss, love each other..
Some actually have sex, but not because they enjoy it.. but to please their partners.
Some do have sex, but rarely.. either from the lack of urge, or like me.. I think about sex but I don't particularly care for the physical act itself.
And then there are those that are absolutely repulsed by sex.
It's a spectrum. Just because a couple doesn't have sex, doesn't mean they can't be romantic.
Oh ok, Thanks for explaining. I guess I could've googled it but I'm glad you explained it, especially since you are asexual.
Unrelated-
Is your Leo Moon retrograde too? You don't see to give a shit about compliments, I've noticed.click to expand

Posted by _DazedPosted by saggurl88Posted by _DazedPosted by saggurl88Posted by _DazedPosted by Gemitati
So you do shit together and kiss...no sex.
Is this rship or what?
Not all people in romantic relationships have sex. Asexual people can still love.
I don't completely understand Asexual. So if they are Asexual but romantic, what exactly does that mean?
Is it more of a roommate situation? Dinner, dancing, night out on the town, and then coming home to their respective rooms and ending the night?
wut? No.
Asexual folks still sleep in the same bed, cuddle, kiss, love each other..
Some actually have sex, but not because they enjoy it.. but to please their partners.
Some do have sex, but rarely.. either from the lack of urge, or like me.. I think about sex but I don't particularly care for the physical act itself.
And then there are those that are absolutely repulsed by sex.
It's a spectrum. Just because a couple doesn't have sex, doesn't mean they can't be romantic.
Oh ok, Thanks for explaining. I guess I could've googled it but I'm glad you explained it, especially since you are asexual.
Unrelated-
Is your Leo Moon retrograde too? You don't see to give a shit about compliments, I've noticed.
It's direct.click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Gemitati
So you do shit together and kiss...no sex.
Is this rship or what?
Why do you ask Gem?
Don’t worry...I just had Brazilian. Wax that is...going to learn Aries kinks. I have a plan and directions! Lmao
Seeing his ass in an hour...mmmmm🙄
So whose not having sex but doing shit together......you?click to expand

Posted by saggurl88Posted by _DazedPosted by Gemitati
So you do shit together and kiss...no sex.
Is this rship or what?
Not all people in romantic relationships have sex. Asexual people can still love.
I don't completely understand Asexual. So if they are Asexual but romantic, what exactly does that mean?
Is it more of a roommate situation? Dinner, dancing, night out on the town, and then coming home to their respective rooms and ending the night?click to expand

Posted by saggurl88Posted by _DazedPosted by Gemitati
So you do shit together and kiss...no sex.
Is this rship or what?
Not all people in romantic relationships have sex. Asexual people can still love.
I don't completely understand Asexual. So if they are Asexual but romantic, what exactly does that mean?
Is it more of a roommate situation? Dinner, dancing, night out on the town, and then coming home to their respective rooms and ending the night?click to expand

Posted by Undine
I'm in this type of relationship.
Just not in the mood to talk about it right now....

Posted by _DazedPosted by saggurl88Posted by _DazedPosted by saggurl88Posted by _DazedPosted by Gemitati
So you do shit together and kiss...no sex.
Is this rship or what?
Not all people in romantic relationships have sex. Asexual people can still love.
I don't completely understand Asexual. So if they are Asexual but romantic, what exactly does that mean?
Is it more of a roommate situation? Dinner, dancing, night out on the town, and then coming home to their respective rooms and ending the night?
wut? No.
Asexual folks still sleep in the same bed, cuddle, kiss, love each other..
Some actually have sex, but not because they enjoy it.. but to please their partners.
Some do have sex, but rarely.. either from the lack of urge, or like me.. I think about sex but I don't particularly care for the physical act itself.
And then there are those that are absolutely repulsed by sex.
It's a spectrum. Just because a couple doesn't have sex, doesn't mean they can't be romantic.
Oh ok, Thanks for explaining. I guess I could've googled it but I'm glad you explained it, especially since you are asexual.
Unrelated-
Is your Leo Moon retrograde too? You don't see to give a shit about compliments, I've noticed.
It's direct.click to expand

Posted by GemitatiPosted by saggurl88Posted by _DazedPosted by Gemitati
So you do shit together and kiss...no sex.
Is this rship or what?
Not all people in romantic relationships have sex. Asexual people can still love.
I don't completely understand Asexual. So if they are Asexual but romantic, what exactly does that mean?
Is it more of a roommate situation? Dinner, dancing, night out on the town, and then coming home to their respective rooms and ending the night?
We had threads about this before.
They can sleep together. They just have no desire for any kind of penetration...
I’ve been there with my ex. So I get it.click to expand

Posted by Ocelot009Posted by saggurl88Posted by _DazedPosted by Gemitati
So you do shit together and kiss...no sex.
Is this rship or what?
Not all people in romantic relationships have sex. Asexual people can still love.
I don't completely understand Asexual. So if they are Asexual but romantic, what exactly does that mean?
Is it more of a roommate situation? Dinner, dancing, night out on the town, and then coming home to their respective rooms and ending the night?
Okay so it pretty much means that you may lack or have faint absence of sexual attraction, sexual interest or will to partake in sexual activity- but it can vary on a broad spectrum.
Romantic gestures are not inextricably linked to sexual activity, they could be what you usually expect; kissing, touching, cuddling and whatnot. Anything to spend time with significant other involving the emotions, feelings with their significant other. It's not like celibacy or abstinence in any margin, for people who might confuse it for these too.
However, asexuality can fall into a broad spectrum; i.e. grey sexuality, demisexual, grey ace, i.e. It's all how they define themselves and the relationship. But to keep it general;
Can you have a romantic relationship without sex? - yes
Does romance involve sex? - no
Can asexual people be romantic? - yes
Is sex important in a relationship - depends on what see as importantclick to expand

Posted by Gemitati
So you do shit together and kiss...no sex.
Is this rship or what?


Posted by GemitatiPosted by Undine
I'm in this type of relationship.
Just not in the mood to talk about it right now....
Too bad. When you in a mood do tell...click to expand

Posted by UndinePosted by GemitatiPosted by Undine
I'm in this type of relationship.
Just not in the mood to talk about it right now....
Too bad. When you in a mood do tell...
That's not much to say that you don't know yourself.
You've been married for 25 yrs. In my case, I've been his work wifey for 20 yrs. My office is next to his. We started as supervisor and his married student. After my divorce, I had other relationships, and so did he. We are not used to see each other in a sexual way. It would feel like sleeping with your sibling.
Why are we living together? Practically, I invited myself into his house three years ago and never left. I was fed up with men and dating. Am I selfish? I don't think so. My house it's far prettier than his. We are similar in many ways, so it's easy to get along. Am I happy? Happy is my middle name.... little to do with men. What does the future holds? No sex with each other, that's a given. Otherwise who knows... he's a triple mutable, I'm a double 😄
That's all.click to expand

Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by UndinePosted by GemitatiPosted by Undine
I'm in this type of relationship.
Just not in the mood to talk about it right now....
Too bad. When you in a mood do tell...
That's not much to say that you don't know yourself.
You've been married for 25 yrs. In my case, I've been his work wifey for 20 yrs. My office is next to his. We started as supervisor and his married student. After my divorce, I had other relationships, and so did he. We are not used to see each other in a sexual way. It would feel like sleeping with your sibling.
Why are we living together? Practically, I invited myself into his house three years ago and never left. I was fed up with men and dating. Am I selfish? I don't think so. My house it's far prettier than his. We are similar in many ways, so it's easy to get along. Am I happy? Happy is my middle name.... little to do with men. What does the future holds? No sex with each other, that's a given. Otherwise who knows... he's a triple mutable, I'm a double 😄
That's all.
Awwwwwwwwww...
Y'all exclusive... or, you're totally free... and love each other?
No discussion either... it just flows with some affection? Like mental affection?click to expand

Posted by UndinePosted by VenusAquariusPosted by UndinePosted by GemitatiPosted by Undine
I'm in this type of relationship.
Just not in the mood to talk about it right now....
Too bad. When you in a mood do tell...
That's not much to say that you don't know yourself.
You've been married for 25 yrs. In my case, I've been his work wifey for 20 yrs. My office is next to his. We started as supervisor and his married student. After my divorce, I had other relationships, and so did he. We are not used to see each other in a sexual way. It would feel like sleeping with your sibling.
Why are we living together? Practically, I invited myself into his house three years ago and never left. I was fed up with men and dating. Am I selfish? I don't think so. My house it's far prettier than his. We are similar in many ways, so it's easy to get along. Am I happy? Happy is my middle name.... little to do with men. What does the future holds? No sex with each other, that's a given. Otherwise who knows... he's a triple mutable, I'm a double 😄
That's all.
Awwwwwwwwww...
Y'all exclusive... or, you're totally free... and love each other?
No discussion either... it just flows with some affection? Like mental affection?
We don't talk about sex, we're British!
Mental affection....? Sure. We've got the same sun and mercury.click to expand

Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by UndinePosted by VenusAquariusPosted by UndinePosted by GemitatiPosted by Undine
I'm in this type of relationship.
Just not in the mood to talk about it right now....
Too bad. When you in a mood do tell...
That's not much to say that you don't know yourself.
You've been married for 25 yrs. In my case, I've been his work wifey for 20 yrs. My office is next to his. We started as supervisor and his married student. After my divorce, I had other relationships, and so did he. We are not used to see each other in a sexual way. It would feel like sleeping with your sibling.
Why are we living together? Practically, I invited myself into his house three years ago and never left. I was fed up with men and dating. Am I selfish? I don't think so. My house it's far prettier than his. We are similar in many ways, so it's easy to get along. Am I happy? Happy is my middle name.... little to do with men. What does the future holds? No sex with each other, that's a given. Otherwise who knows... he's a triple mutable, I'm a double 😄
That's all.
Awwwwwwwwww...
Y'all exclusive... or, you're totally free... and love each other?
No discussion either... it just flows with some affection? Like mental affection?
We don't talk about sex, we're British!
Mental affection....? Sure. We've got the same sun and mercury.
You're Venus in Aqua?click to expand


Posted by UndinePosted by VenusAquariusPosted by UndinePosted by VenusAquariusPosted by UndinePosted by GemitatiPosted by Undine
I'm in this type of relationship.
Just not in the mood to talk about it right now....
Too bad. When you in a mood do tell...
That's not much to say that you don't know yourself.
You've been married for 25 yrs. In my case, I've been his work wifey for 20 yrs. My office is next to his. We started as supervisor and his married student. After my divorce, I had other relationships, and so did he. We are not used to see each other in a sexual way. It would feel like sleeping with your sibling.
Why are we living together? Practically, I invited myself into his house three years ago and never left. I was fed up with men and dating. Am I selfish? I don't think so. My house it's far prettier than his. We are similar in many ways, so it's easy to get along. Am I happy? Happy is my middle name.... little to do with men. What does the future holds? No sex with each other, that's a given. Otherwise who knows... he's a triple mutable, I'm a double 😄
That's all.
Awwwwwwwwww...
Y'all exclusive... or, you're totally free... and love each other?
No discussion either... it just flows with some affection? Like mental affection?
We don't talk about sex, we're British!
Mental affection....? Sure. We've got the same sun and mercury.
You're Venus in Aqua?
Yes, sister 🙂!click to expand

Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by UndinePosted by VenusAquariusPosted by UndinePosted by VenusAquariusPosted by UndinePosted by GemitatiPosted by Undine
I'm in this type of relationship.
Just not in the mood to talk about it right now....
Too bad. When you in a mood do tell...
That's not much to say that you don't know yourself.
You've been married for 25 yrs. In my case, I've been his work wifey for 20 yrs. My office is next to his. We started as supervisor and his married student. After my divorce, I had other relationships, and so did he. We are not used to see each other in a sexual way. It would feel like sleeping with your sibling.
Why are we living together? Practically, I invited myself into his house three years ago and never left. I was fed up with men and dating. Am I selfish? I don't think so. My house it's far prettier than his. We are similar in many ways, so it's easy to get along. Am I happy? Happy is my middle name.... little to do with men. What does the future holds? No sex with each other, that's a given. Otherwise who knows... he's a triple mutable, I'm a double 😄
That's all.
Awwwwwwwwww...
Y'all exclusive... or, you're totally free... and love each other?
No discussion either... it just flows with some affection? Like mental affection?
We don't talk about sex, we're British!
Mental affection....? Sure. We've got the same sun and mercury.
You're Venus in Aqua?
Yes, sister 🙂!
I read alot about people in history with Venus in Aqua. Really unique relationships. You never know where this placement will have you in life.
I love mental affection.click to expand


Posted by saggurl88Posted by GemitatiPosted by saggurl88Posted by _DazedPosted by Gemitati
So you do shit together and kiss...no sex.
Is this rship or what?
Not all people in romantic relationships have sex. Asexual people can still love.
I don't completely understand Asexual. So if they are Asexual but romantic, what exactly does that mean?
Is it more of a roommate situation? Dinner, dancing, night out on the town, and then coming home to their respective rooms and ending the night?
We had threads about this before.
They can sleep together. They just have no desire for any kind of penetration...
I’ve been there with my ex. So I get it.
Then why ask the question again?click to expand

Posted by GemitatiPosted by saggurl88Posted by GemitatiPosted by saggurl88Posted by _DazedPosted by Gemitati
So you do shit together and kiss...no sex.
Is this rship or what?
Not all people in romantic relationships have sex. Asexual people can still love.
I don't completely understand Asexual. So if they are Asexual but romantic, what exactly does that mean?
Is it more of a roommate situation? Dinner, dancing, night out on the town, and then coming home to their respective rooms and ending the night?
We had threads about this before.
They can sleep together. They just have no desire for any kind of penetration...
I’ve been there with my ex. So I get it.
Then why ask the question again?
Because situation I am talking about is where people aren’t as sexual.click to expand

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Is this rship or what?