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Is It Wrong Or Shallow?
Is It Wrong to End a Relationship Over Sexual Incompatibility
Ending a relationship due to sexual incompatibility is a personal choice and can be necessary for mutual satisfaction. It is not inherently wrong or shallow if both partners prioritize their needs and boundaries. Open communication and honesty are key to understanding whether differences can be addressed or if parting ways is best.
To dump someone for sexual incompatibility? I'm talking anywhere from libido levels to kinks. What do you think?
No. Otherwise you both would be lying to each other...
This is what 60% of divorces based on. Sexual incompatibility.
To dump someone for sexual incompatibility? I'm talking anywhere from libido levels to kinks. What do you think?
no more sexual posts......
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Delete your ass so you wouldn’t suffer...
i wish that i only ever cared about sex and money
richard diamonds
like liz taylor knew best
Posted by IAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTown
If the man does the dumping, then it's Wrong, because you can train any woman to please you. So he simply did not know what he was doing, because it's fun to train a Sag. Not to mention love and other virtues.
I noticed with Sag women, they are either super horny or not horny at all.
No.........Sags are always ready to romp. Top 3 freaks in a good way.
Posted by IAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTown
If the man does the dumping, then it's Wrong, because you can train any woman to please you. So he simply did not know what he was doing, because it's fun to train a Sag. Not to mention love and other virtues.
I noticed with Sag women, they are either super horny or not horny at all.
No.........Sags are always ready to romp. Top 3 freaks in a good way.
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Apparently Sags aren’t romping those who aren’t their choice.::
Posted by IAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTown
This is what 60% of divorces based on. Sexual incompatibility.
Yeah right, if it only was that simple. You seem to be so Black and White, more than a Scorpio.
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It IS simple for those who has guts to live life!
If that is the only reason then yes.
What's going to happen when your sexual drive drops and someone dumps you for that same reason?
Not sure about kink & stuff, but I could never be with a woman who had no rythem.
Depends, how much is sex important to you?
No it isn't wrong.
If you dont work out sexually, fine... dump the person.
Sex is huge part of the relationship I feel. Not the most important part but it does take up a huge part of it.
Some people simply dont work sexually and that leads to frustrations. And thats the last thing you want.
So no, not shallow.
If that is the only reason then yes.
What's going to happen when your sexual drive drops and someone dumps you for that same reason?
That would never happen to me. I do not have mental blocks like that and never could
To dump someone for sexual incompatibility? I'm talking anywhere from libido levels to kinks. What do you think?
No. Otherwise you both would be lying to each other...
This is what 60% of divorces based on. Sexual incompatibility.
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Right. That's why I asking. I've seen it be a huge thing
If the sex continues to remain "meh" after the first few times, I am going to give it a hard pass. No one wants to have ho-hum sex for the rest of their lives. lol
If the sex continues to remain "meh" after the first few times, I am going to give it a hard pass. No one wants to have ho-hum sex for the rest of their lives. lol
That's all I'm saying lol
If the sex continues to remain "meh" after the first few times, I am going to give it a hard pass. No one wants to have ho-hum sex for the rest of their lives. lol
That's all I'm saying lol
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If they walk away and you gotta rub yourself off after every sexual encounter. Eck. lol
If I'm with a man, he has to be compatible sexually with me or else he'd just become a friend and I've enough of them. I learned that sexual chemistry isn't always easy to find, so I'd rather be single than be with a guy who wasn't in synch
I found it twice.....the the first time was pretty intense and the second was mind blowing...
Not sure how'd you'd follow that? I'm really not a believer in anything is better than nothing...it really isn't lol.
Nope. I don’t think so. Sexual compatibility is like 75% of my relationship. If we don’t have sex often or I’m not excited to sleep with you all the time, then it’s not gonna work for me. I need to be excited about the sex. I’m selfish and don’t want to compromise on this. I can compromise on other aspects of the relationship though.
To dump someone for sexual incompatibility? I'm talking anywhere from libido levels to kinks. What do you think?
No.
If the sex continues to remain "meh" after the first few times, I am going to give it a hard pass. No one wants to have ho-hum sex for the rest of their lives. lol
Apparently a lot of people do because they take anything they can vs nothing at all.
That’s why all this rships shit screwed up so much.
When men complaint that their women don’t have sex with them anymore - none of them is thinking maybe they aren’t good in bed...
It her who is cheating bitch...and why is she cheating? Because you are lousy sex partner!!!
Actually is goes for both sexes. So it’s answering the post. No it is t shallow to want to have good sex and look for it. BUT make sure you had communicated that to your partner because if you faking happiness how is he suppose to know?
So have a curtesy to tell them: honey! You are a bad lay! And you have by the next year to change!
That’s it.
Not sure about kink & stuff, but I could never be with a woman who had no rythem.
You spelled rhythm wrong. There are no vowels in the word 🙂
To dump someone for sexual incompatibility? I'm talking anywhere from libido levels to kinks. What do you think?
When young, I judged whether I could do forever or marriage based on sex and/or finances... I would say could I be happy and homeless with him? If he were impotent, could I still be happy?
For some guys the answers were yes, for other guys the answer was no.
Nope.
No. Just don't use it as the excuse.
awesome, are you an all-grown up dxp member, or do you have to ask mommy if it's ok for you to post?
edit: sorry mommy/daddy
Wrong no. Shallow yes.
Posted by IAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTown
If the man does the dumping, then it's Wrong, because you can train any woman to please you. So he simply did not know what he was doing, because it's fun to train a Sag. Not to mention love and other virtues.
I noticed with Sag women, they are either super horny or not horny at all.
No.........Sags are always ready to romp. Top 3 freaks in a good way.
Apparently Sags aren’t romping those who aren’t their choice.::
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Wrong no. Shallow yes.
Bull, SHIT.
Sex is as much a part of life as eating, sleeping, and shitting.
How many people here have been in a 10+ year marriage? Seems a lot of decisions based on fantasy in this thread.
Sexual incompatibility is responsible for 60% of divorces? Well neither of mine. There is a lot going on in marriages and sex is one of the pieces. I think it boils down to incompatibility in other ways, not sex. Willing to try & care about what your partner wants. Lack of sex is a symptom not a cause. And yes I was always ready to romp 😂
Wrong no. Shallow yes.
Bull, SHIT.
Sex is as much a part of life as eating, sleeping, and shitting.
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Haha I do agree. Just said it’s a shallow reason. I did not say it was wrong though.
Wrong no. Shallow yes.
Bull, SHIT.
Sex is as much a part of life as eating, sleeping, and shitting.
Haha I do agree. Just said it’s a shallow reason. I did not say it was wrong though.
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yeah, true, definitely wouldn't want to break up with you because you aren't sexually compatible with me though
Not sure about kink & stuff, but I could never be with a woman who had no rythem.
You spelled rhythm wrong. There are no vowels in the word 🙂
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Teach me how to spell it right
Not sure about kink & stuff, but I could never be with a woman who had no rythem.
You spelled rhythm wrong. There are no vowels in the word 🙂
Teach me how to spell it right
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You don’t pay attention, do you.
Do as I say.
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To dump someone for sexual incompatibility? I'm talking anywhere from libido levels to kinks. What do you think?