My boyfriend whom I was going to marry in 2 weeks told me that up until 2010 he had around 400 sexual partners or even more than that. He said that he had a list that he kept writing their names down & their birthdays. He is 41 now & told me that he was like that until 2010 and that back in the days he even had up to 3 different women a day & he even told me that him & his friend would grab 2 women into their room into one bedroom & they would f** them at the same time (those chicks not themselves lol). Im not a virgin & far from it having 15 sexual partners myself at the age of 35, BUT I felt disturbed at his own # & felt grossed out & I cant get myself go to bed with him now. It's like something in me got turned off & we were planning to vacay in Europe & marry there by ourselves & I just called things off today and he is very upset. Was I right to feel disturbed with his fun days with that amount? I would think that women & men should have some self-respect when getting laid...some people just do it as a sport or to prove themselves something. Like he told me that once he woke up near such an ugly chick after a club that he ran into the kitchen & asked his bro to get rid of her saying that he left the house. He told me that he lost his virginity when he was 24 & his friends who had lost it at 16, would brag about their own sexual escapades and would laugh at him over his virginity, so he developed insecurity over the years & then when he was active at the age of 24, he decided he would get laid as many times as he can and he did until 2010. Am I right to feel this way? Looks like I will be vacay-ing in Europe alone now. I prefer men who do not run after each skirt and have some self-respect when dealing with women as it's the same as a woman sleeping around with every man she sees...no difference to me...both are gross. It looked like his sexual past was just a sport to him. I don't doubt him now, but something in me broke and I don't see myself going into bed with him now and I'm the type of woman who finds it hard to forget when shit happens 🙂 It's hard for me to get over things sometimes. The idea of me being a #450 (for example) makes me seem like another chick for him despite his words of love etc. I'm starting to doubt men nowadays.
