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Ladies..Is this (emotional) Abuse?
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Yes that’s emotional abuse
I see some gaslighting in there too
Posted by pooface222
I'm talking about in a relationship.
What is it, when you are in a relationship with someone who wants everything their own way, and when you won't give them what they want, they appear to punish you with silence, ignoring your calls and texts, and won't call and text you.
And..is it abuse when you call them out on their bullshit, they play the victim by saying "you don't like me."
Then try to run away and then ignore you for days and days after.
Asking for a friend who told me this today ..
Sounds like gaslighting or like they have another relationship somewhere else.
It’s very immature and they will keep doing this because you accept the behavior and keep trying. Even if you call them out.
But the same can be said for them being upset that you aren’t giving them what they want and they are choosing not to accept contact from you.
It’s because they are upset and it seems like you don’t like them because you don’t want to make them happy, so why should they talk to you and make you happy if they are angry.
It’s incompatibility.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by pooface222
I'm talking about in a relationship.
What is it, when you are in a relationship with someone who wants everything their own way, and when you won't give them what they want, they appear to punish you with silence, ignoring your calls and texts, and won't call and text you.
And..is it abuse when you call them out on their bullshit, they play the victim by saying "you don't like me."
Then try to run away and then ignore you for days and days after.
Asking for a friend who told me this today ..
Sounds like gaslighting or like they have another relationship somewhere else.
It’s very immature and they will keep doing this because you accept the behavior and keep trying. Even if you call them out.
But the same can be said for them being upset that you aren’t giving them what they want and they are choosing not to accept contact from you.
It’s because they are upset and it seems like you don’t like them because you don’t want to make them happy, so why should they talk to you and make you happy if they are angry.
It’s incompatibility.click to expand
I understand but my friend has been trying to make him happy for a,while and she really loves him.
He just wants their rship on his terms or he won't speak to her.
He makes excuses as to why things can't be the way she suggests Yet she suggests things that benefit Both of them.
She practically begs him to speak to her.
The other day she SHOUTED at him because he blocked her. She had been upset with his behaviour but he couldn't see that he was hurting her emotionally.
He would always twist it round to it being him being hurt when its him hurting her. She is just reacting by telling him he can't treat her like this.
Posted by pooface222Posted by saggurl88Posted by pooface222
I'm talking about in a relationship.
What is it, when you are in a relationship with someone who wants everything their own way, and when you won't give them what they want, they appear to punish you with silence, ignoring your calls and texts, and won't call and text you.
And..is it abuse when you call them out on their bullshit, they play the victim by saying "you don't like me."
Then try to run away and then ignore you for days and days after.
Asking for a friend who told me this today ..
Sounds like gaslighting or like they have another relationship somewhere else.
It’s very immature and they will keep doing this because you accept the behavior and keep trying. Even if you call them out.
But the same can be said for them being upset that you aren’t giving them what they want and they are choosing not to accept contact from you.
It’s because they are upset and it seems like you don’t like them because you don’t want to make them happy, so why should they talk to you and make you happy if they are angry.
It’s incompatibility.
I understand but my friend has been trying to make him happy for a,while and she really loves him.
He just wants their rship on his terms or he won't speak to her.
He makes excuses as to why things can't be the way she suggests Yet she suggests things that benefit Both of them.
She practically begs him to speak to her.
The other day she SHOUTED at him because he blocked her. She had been upset with his behaviour but he couldn't see that he was hurting her emotionally.
He would always twist it round to it being him being hurt when its him hurting her. She is just reacting by telling him he can't treat her like this.click to expand
Well he's being controlling and manipulating. He is justifiable in his own right, he thinks she's hurting him too. She's not doing what he wants and he is not open to compromise.
Why does is matter if she reacts to what he's doing if she keeps on accepting it? He's not afraid of losing her at all. He most likely knows she will keep trying.
For women like this, who try too hard, the best solution is to not reach out for a little bit. Sit on your hands and let him get worried about where you went. He knows this girl will accept what he's doing and isn't going anywhere. She needs to surprise him and vanish for a little bit.
But do not ignore him if he comes back to make amends. Then they can talk it out and try to compromise with clear heads.
Posted by Sagoxa
Yes it is.
Why the Silent Treatment Is a Tactic of Abuse and Control
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/invisible-chains/202009/why-the-silent-treatment-is-tactic-abuse-and-control
And that victim playing is also a sign of gaslighting.
I suspect your friend was trying to have her boundaries, the abuser didnt like it.. hence the silent treatment.
Expected outcome? So your friend feels bad and over extend herself and let him violate her boundaries.
Advice: when someone give you a silent treatment.. take it as a closure and vanish
I agree. When someone gives me the silent treatment that is my cue to stop all contact because I assume that is what they want. I wouldn't beg anyone to talk to me.
Yes. And I'd also say incompatibility in communication style s as well.
It looks like nobody wants to compromise (on what?) and he uses emotional abusive tactics.
People like him need to be left at their own devices. They are not relationship material.
People like him need to be left at their own devices. They are not relationship material.
One more thing: people like him are pulling this shit because there are people who tolerate it!
A woman with self-respect, who knows from personal experience what a good relationship should be like, would not chase after someone like him.
A woman with self-respect, who knows from personal experience what a good relationship should be like, would not chase after someone like him.
Posted by pooface222
I'm talking about in a relationship.
What is it, when you are in a relationship with someone who wants everything their own way, and when you won't give them what they want, they appear to punish you with silence, ignoring your calls and texts, and won't call and text you.
And..is it abuse when you call them out on their bullshit, they play the victim by saying "you don't like me."
Then try to run away and then ignore you for days and days after.
Asking for a friend who told me this today ..
Yes this is flat out emotional abuse. I'd drop it
Posted by leolovestau
when someone says they’re asking for a friend they’re friend is usually themselves
You know it’s abusive or you wouldn’t have added playing the victim to the context
Obviously one person is more invested (emotionally) in this relationship and it’s not the guy. He’s toying with you and you go back for more rounds. It’s not his fault at this point. You’re easy pickings.
Err No!
I was in town today talking to my friend who was crying over her confusion with a guy she loves!
Don't try and be smart with what you dont actually know!
I'm simply repeating what she told me and she said she felt he was "playing the victim" but wasn't sure if its abusive or not and really, nor was I.
🤦♀️
Posted by pooface222Posted by saggurl88Posted by pooface222
I'm talking about in a relationship.
What is it, when you are in a relationship with someone who wants everything their own way, and when you won't give them what they want, they appear to punish you with silence, ignoring your calls and texts, and won't call and text you.
And..is it abuse when you call them out on their bullshit, they play the victim by saying "you don't like me."
Then try to run away and then ignore you for days and days after.
Asking for a friend who told me this today ..
Sounds like gaslighting or like they have another relationship somewhere else.
It’s very immature and they will keep doing this because you accept the behavior and keep trying. Even if you call them out.
But the same can be said for them being upset that you aren’t giving them what they want and they are choosing not to accept contact from you.
It’s because they are upset and it seems like you don’t like them because you don’t want to make them happy, so why should they talk to you and make you happy if they are angry.
It’s incompatibility.
I understand but my friend has been trying to make him happy for a,while and she really loves him.
He just wants their rship on his terms or he won't speak to her.
He makes excuses as to why things can't be the way she suggests Yet she suggests things that benefit Both of them.
She practically begs him to speak to her.
The other day she SHOUTED at him because he blocked her. She had been upset with his behaviour but he couldn't see that he was hurting her emotionally.
He would always twist it round to it being him being hurt when its him hurting her. She is just reacting by telling him he can't treat her like this.click to expand
This is you and the Pisces right??
“Asking for a friend.”
Posted by pooface222Posted by leolovestau
when someone says they’re asking for a friend they’re friend is usually themselves
You know it’s abusive or you wouldn’t have added playing the victim to the context
Obviously one person is more invested (emotionally) in this relationship and it’s not the guy. He’s toying with you and you go back for more rounds. It’s not his fault at this point. You’re easy pickings.
Err No!
I was in town today talking to my friend who was crying over her confusion with a guy she loves!
Don't try and be smart with what you dont actually know!
I'm simply repeating what she told me and she said she felt he was "playing the victim" but wasn't sure if its abusive or not and really, nor was I.
🤦♀️click to expand
What are their signs? And what did she want from him?
i would ask her if she has seen this escalate over time.
it is incredibly childish and but i guess for me (and i'm no expert) part of judging if it is "abuse" is if he has the ability to control it. does he do it with everyone else or just her? if he does it with everyone then it might be communication style but if he does it just with her, then it's a choice.
if it has gotten worse then he choose that behaviour because it works and he is seeing how far he can manipulate her.
it is incredibly childish and but i guess for me (and i'm no expert) part of judging if it is "abuse" is if he has the ability to control it. does he do it with everyone else or just her? if he does it with everyone then it might be communication style but if he does it just with her, then it's a choice.
if it has gotten worse then he choose that behaviour because it works and he is seeing how far he can manipulate her.
Emotional abuse is someone telling or making you feel crazy or stupid and not letting them go out or do things without permission. They make you feel scared or threatened or worthless. All relationships go through a power struggle early on. It's just one of the stages, if you can't find balance at that stage, it's not going to work. Means you're not compatible but I don't think being unable to compromise is necessary emotional abuse, particularly if they're not living together. If you live with someone, what that person does impacts your entire being, if you don't live together, you're independent and don't really need to prioritise the person in your decision making as much. There's 2 people in a relationship and they're likely to clash but putting abuse on the label just because you don't get your way seems harsh.
Doesn’t sound like a relationship.
Posted by pooface222
I'm talking about in a relationship.
What is it, when you are in a relationship with someone who wants everything their own way, and when you won't give them what they want, they appear to punish you with silence, ignoring your calls and texts, and won't call and text you.
And..is it abuse when you call them out on their bullshit, they play the victim by saying "you don't like me."
Then try to run away and then ignore you for days and days after.
Asking for a friend who told me this today ..
No it’s not abusive. It’s entitlement
So many people feel they are entitled to phone calls, texts, attention.
No one has to do anything.
One you realize that, life becomes easier
The only person you can control is yourself
Posted by sweetheartsPosted by pooface222Posted by saggurl88Posted by pooface222
I'm talking about in a relationship.
What is it, when you are in a relationship with someone who wants everything their own way, and when you won't give them what they want, they appear to punish you with silence, ignoring your calls and texts, and won't call and text you.
And..is it abuse when you call them out on their bullshit, they play the victim by saying "you don't like me."
Then try to run away and then ignore you for days and days after.
Asking for a friend who told me this today ..
Sounds like gaslighting or like they have another relationship somewhere else.
It’s very immature and they will keep doing this because you accept the behavior and keep trying. Even if you call them out.
But the same can be said for them being upset that you aren’t giving them what they want and they are choosing not to accept contact from you.
It’s because they are upset and it seems like you don’t like them because you don’t want to make them happy, so why should they talk to you and make you happy if they are angry.
It’s incompatibility.
I understand but my friend has been trying to make him happy for a,while and she really loves him.
He just wants their rship on his terms or he won't speak to her.
He makes excuses as to why things can't be the way she suggests Yet she suggests things that benefit Both of them.
She practically begs him to speak to her.
The other day she SHOUTED at him because he blocked her. She had been upset with his behaviour but he couldn't see that he was hurting her emotionally.
He would always twist it round to it being him being hurt when its him hurting her. She is just reacting by telling him he can't treat her like this.
This is you and the Pisces right??
“Asking for a friend.”click to expand
🤦♀️ I don't need two of you saying the same thing!
Posted by UndinePosted by pooface222Posted by leolovestau
when someone says they’re asking for a friend they’re friend is usually themselves
You know it’s abusive or you wouldn’t have added playing the victim to the context
Obviously one person is more invested (emotionally) in this relationship and it’s not the guy. He’s toying with you and you go back for more rounds. It’s not his fault at this point. You’re easy pickings.
Err No!
I was in town today talking to my friend who was crying over her confusion with a guy she loves!
Don't try and be smart with what you dont actually know!
I'm simply repeating what she told me and she said she felt he was "playing the victim" but wasn't sure if its abusive or not and really, nor was I.
🤦♀️
What are their signs? And what did she want from him?click to expand
She just wanted him to understand when he has said or done something to upset her, instead of turning it around on her.
She's virgo and he's scorpio.
Posted by bmoon8Posted by pooface222Posted by leolovestau
when someone says they’re asking for a friend they’re friend is usually themselves
You know it’s abusive or you wouldn’t have added playing the victim to the context
Obviously one person is more invested (emotionally) in this relationship and it’s not the guy. He’s toying with you and you go back for more rounds. It’s not his fault at this point. You’re easy pickings.
Err No!
I was in town today talking to my friend who was crying over her confusion with a guy she loves!
Don't try and be smart with what you dont actually know!
I'm simply repeating what she told me and she said she felt he was "playing the victim" but wasn't sure if its abusive or not and really, nor was I.
🤦♀️
Are you sure this is not about you and the Pisces?
https://www.dxpnet.com/forums/astrology/what-is-the-most-and-least-dangerous-zodiac-sign-to-love--14460537/?p=7<div class="bqfade">click to expand
Why did you post that link??!?
It has nothing to do with what I'm talking about!
Or about my rship with the pisces.
I don't think I ever said he played the victim with me back then in my posts.
I was more confused by his disappear/reappear behaviour. He later confessed he does this.
Anyway..No this is not about That rship.!
Posted by pooface222Posted by sweetheartsPosted by pooface222Posted by saggurl88Posted by pooface222
I'm talking about in a relationship.
What is it, when you are in a relationship with someone who wants everything their own way, and when you won't give them what they want, they appear to punish you with silence, ignoring your calls and texts, and won't call and text you.
And..is it abuse when you call them out on their bullshit, they play the victim by saying "you don't like me."
Then try to run away and then ignore you for days and days after.
Asking for a friend who told me this today ..
Sounds like gaslighting or like they have another relationship somewhere else.
It’s very immature and they will keep doing this because you accept the behavior and keep trying. Even if you call them out.
But the same can be said for them being upset that you aren’t giving them what they want and they are choosing not to accept contact from you.
It’s because they are upset and it seems like you don’t like them because you don’t want to make them happy, so why should they talk to you and make you happy if they are angry.
It’s incompatibility.
I understand but my friend has been trying to make him happy for a,while and she really loves him.
He just wants their rship on his terms or he won't speak to her.
He makes excuses as to why things can't be the way she suggests Yet she suggests things that benefit Both of them.
She practically begs him to speak to her.
The other day she SHOUTED at him because he blocked her. She had been upset with his behaviour but he couldn't see that he was hurting her emotionally.
He would always twist it round to it being him being hurt when its him hurting her. She is just reacting by telling him he can't treat her like this.
This is you and the Pisces right??
“Asking for a friend.”
🤦♀️ I don't need two of you saying the same thing!click to expand
Oh common pooface, we know it’s you and that slippery fish. You’ve even made previous posts about it.
Posted by sweetheartsPosted by pooface222Posted by sweetheartsPosted by pooface222Posted by saggurl88Posted by pooface222
I'm talking about in a relationship.
What is it, when you are in a relationship with someone who wants everything their own way, and when you won't give them what they want, they appear to punish you with silence, ignoring your calls and texts, and won't call and text you.
And..is it abuse when you call them out on their bullshit, they play the victim by saying "you don't like me."
Then try to run away and then ignore you for days and days after.
Asking for a friend who told me this today ..
Sounds like gaslighting or like they have another relationship somewhere else.
It’s very immature and they will keep doing this because you accept the behavior and keep trying. Even if you call them out.
But the same can be said for them being upset that you aren’t giving them what they want and they are choosing not to accept contact from you.
It’s because they are upset and it seems like you don’t like them because you don’t want to make them happy, so why should they talk to you and make you happy if they are angry.
It’s incompatibility.
I understand but my friend has been trying to make him happy for a,while and she really loves him.
He just wants their rship on his terms or he won't speak to her.
He makes excuses as to why things can't be the way she suggests Yet she suggests things that benefit Both of them.
She practically begs him to speak to her.
The other day she SHOUTED at him because he blocked her. She had been upset with his behaviour but he couldn't see that he was hurting her emotionally.
He would always twist it round to it being him being hurt when its him hurting her. She is just reacting by telling him he can't treat her like this.
This is you and the Pisces right??
“Asking for a friend.”
🤦♀️ I don't need two of you saying the same thing!
Oh common pooface, we know it’s you and that slippery fish. You’ve even made previous posts about it.click to expand
Oh look just stop it ok. If I wanted to talk about Pisces I would! That's me. But you wouldn't know that..
I would start another post about him and talk about it there. Openly. Like I always do! But then you would probably say something rude there too!
Posted by leolovestauPosted by bmoon8Posted by pooface222Posted by leolovestau
when someone says they’re asking for a friend they’re friend is usually themselves
You know it’s abusive or you wouldn’t have added playing the victim to the context
Obviously one person is more invested (emotionally) in this relationship and it’s not the guy. He’s toying with you and you go back for more rounds. It’s not his fault at this point. You’re easy pickings.
Err No!
I was in town today talking to my friend who was crying over her confusion with a guy she loves!
Don't try and be smart with what you dont actually know!
I'm simply repeating what she told me and she said she felt he was "playing the victim" but wasn't sure if its abusive or not and really, nor was I.
🤦♀️
Are you sure this is not about you and the Pisces?
https://www.dxpnet.com/forums/astrology/what-is-the-most-and-least-dangerous-zodiac-sign-to-love--14460537/?p=7
thankkk uuu 🙂
the way she got all defensive if I wasn’t convinced I am now.
oh welp
Her muted ass missed the advice part of the paragraph . “Quit going back for more rounds” .click to expand
If you are just going to be rude, then don't bother talking. Its not helpful.
But hey thanks for wasting your own time.
Posted by Sagoxa
Yes it is.
Why the Silent Treatment Is a Tactic of Abuse and Control
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/invisible-chains/202009/why-the-silent-treatment-is-tactic-abuse-and-control
And that victim playing is also a sign of gaslighting.
I suspect your friend was trying to have her boundaries, the abuser didnt like it.. hence the silent treatment.
Expected outcome? So your friend feels bad and over extend herself and let him violate her boundaries.
Advice: when someone give you a silent treatment.. take it as a closure and vanish
Exactly.
Thank you 😊
I just read the link and found it very useful. Her partner likes to make her feel bad when she tells him how HE treats her instead of acknowledging how She feels so this is why I asked the original question.
Ok so basically 90% of women are emotionally abusing and gaslighting men on the regular, gotcha 👍
Posted by Sagoxa
Yes it is.
Why the Silent Treatment Is a Tactic of Abuse and Control
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/invisible-chains/202009/why-the-silent-treatment-is-tactic-abuse-and-control
And that victim playing is also a sign of gaslighting.
I suspect your friend was trying to have her boundaries, the abuser didnt like it.. hence the silent treatment.
Expected outcome? So your friend feels bad and over extend herself and let him violate her boundaries.
Advice: when someone give you a silent treatment.. take it as a closure and vanish
So considering most women do the silent treatment and victim playing, what would u say about that? Or is it only abusive when men do it? When women do it it's "coping/survival mechanism passed down from generation to generation" lol
Posted by bmoon8Posted by pooface222Posted by bmoon8Posted by pooface222Posted by leolovestau
when someone says they’re asking for a friend they’re friend is usually themselves
You know it’s abusive or you wouldn’t have added playing the victim to the context
Obviously one person is more invested (emotionally) in this relationship and it’s not the guy. He’s toying with you and you go back for more rounds. It’s not his fault at this point. You’re easy pickings.
Err No!
I was in town today talking to my friend who was crying over her confusion with a guy she loves!
Don't try and be smart with what you dont actually know!
I'm simply repeating what she told me and she said she felt he was "playing the victim" but wasn't sure if its abusive or not and really, nor was I.
🤦♀️
Are you sure this is not about you and the Pisces?
https://www.dxpnet.com/forums/astrology/what-is-the-most-and-least-dangerous-zodiac-sign-to-love--14460537/?p=7
Why did you post that link??!?
It has nothing to do with what I'm talking about!
Or about my rship with the pisces.
I don't think I ever said he played the victim with me back then in my posts.
I was more confused by his disappear/reappear behaviour. He later confessed he does this.
Anyway..No this is not about That rship.!
You had a lot to say about the Pisces in that post:Pisces (male) is dangerous (from my personal experience of 2 of them), because of their inconsistency, lies, playing the victimthe moment you try and tell them why your not happy with them, changing their stories to suit the situation (therefore you here several different stories about the same situation, leaving you wondering what to believe).
They want to be chased, but when you chase them, they run away. But..if you ignore them and run away, they chase You!?
And the whole cycle starts again.
Hot Cold Hot Cold
Chase Run Chase Run
Push Pull Push Pull
Disappear Reappear Disappear Reappear
Its Unnerving as F**K!
And makes them hard to trust!
Ok..I get it, they're a contradiction! Look at the symbol for Pisces.
2 Fish, swimming in opposite directions, connected by a cord!
So both fish are stuck and can't go in either direction.click to expand
it is possible, though i know, crazy, that there might be more than one man that likes to play victim.
Posted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by pooface222Posted by bmoon8Posted by pooface222Posted by leolovestau
when someone says they’re asking for a friend they’re friend is usually themselves
You know it’s abusive or you wouldn’t have added playing the victim to the context
Obviously one person is more invested (emotionally) in this relationship and it’s not the guy. He’s toying with you and you go back for more rounds. It’s not his fault at this point. You’re easy pickings.
Err No!
I was in town today talking to my friend who was crying over her confusion with a guy she loves!
Don't try and be smart with what you dont actually know!
I'm simply repeating what she told me and she said she felt he was "playing the victim" but wasn't sure if its abusive or not and really, nor was I.
🤦♀️
Are you sure this is not about you and the Pisces?
https://www.dxpnet.com/forums/astrology/what-is-the-most-and-least-dangerous-zodiac-sign-to-love--14460537/?p=7
Why did you post that link??!?
It has nothing to do with what I'm talking about!
Or about my rship with the pisces.
I don't think I ever said he played the victim with me back then in my posts.
I was more confused by his disappear/reappear behaviour. He later confessed he does this.
Anyway..No this is not about That rship.!
You had a lot to say about the Pisces in that post:Pisces (male) is dangerous (from my personal experience of 2 of them), because of their inconsistency, lies, playing the victimthe moment you try and tell them why your not happy with them, changing their stories to suit the situation (therefore you here several different stories about the same situation, leaving you wondering what to believe).
They want to be chased, but when you chase them, they run away. But..if you ignore them and run away, they chase You!?
And the whole cycle starts again.
Hot Cold Hot Cold
Chase Run Chase Run
Push Pull Push Pull
Disappear Reappear Disappear Reappear
Its Unnerving as F**K!
And makes them hard to trust!
Ok..I get it, they're a contradiction! Look at the symbol for Pisces.
2 Fish, swimming in opposite directions, connected by a cord!
So both fish are stuck and can't go in either direction.
it is possible, though i know, crazy, that there might be more than one man that likes to play victim.
So far I think she’s lying. Want to fight about it? 😉click to expand
Deflecting.. when you come back and ask for advice on the same person time and time again to get a lot of the same advice and still don’t do anything about your situation...
You come back and “ask for a friend”...
Posted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by pooface222Posted by bmoon8Posted by pooface222Posted by leolovestau
when someone says they’re asking for a friend they’re friend is usually themselves
You know it’s abusive or you wouldn’t have added playing the victim to the context
Obviously one person is more invested (emotionally) in this relationship and it’s not the guy. He’s toying with you and you go back for more rounds. It’s not his fault at this point. You’re easy pickings.
Err No!
I was in town today talking to my friend who was crying over her confusion with a guy she loves!
Don't try and be smart with what you dont actually know!
I'm simply repeating what she told me and she said she felt he was "playing the victim" but wasn't sure if its abusive or not and really, nor was I.
🤦♀️
Are you sure this is not about you and the Pisces?
https://www.dxpnet.com/forums/astrology/what-is-the-most-and-least-dangerous-zodiac-sign-to-love--14460537/?p=7
Why did you post that link??!?
It has nothing to do with what I'm talking about!
Or about my rship with the pisces.
I don't think I ever said he played the victim with me back then in my posts.
I was more confused by his disappear/reappear behaviour. He later confessed he does this.
Anyway..No this is not about That rship.!
You had a lot to say about the Pisces in that post:Pisces (male) is dangerous (from my personal experience of 2 of them), because of their inconsistency, lies, playing the victimthe moment you try and tell them why your not happy with them, changing their stories to suit the situation (therefore you here several different stories about the same situation, leaving you wondering what to believe).
They want to be chased, but when you chase them, they run away. But..if you ignore them and run away, they chase You!?
And the whole cycle starts again.
Hot Cold Hot Cold
Chase Run Chase Run
Push Pull Push Pull
Disappear Reappear Disappear Reappear
Its Unnerving as F**K!
And makes them hard to trust!
Ok..I get it, they're a contradiction! Look at the symbol for Pisces.
2 Fish, swimming in opposite directions, connected by a cord!
So both fish are stuck and can't go in either direction.
it is possible, though i know, crazy, that there might be more than one man that likes to play victim.
So far I think she’s lying. Want to fight about it? 😉click to expand
i just don't see how it matters beyond nit picking.
Posted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by pooface222Posted by bmoon8Posted by pooface222Posted by leolovestau
when someone says they’re asking for a friend they’re friend is usually themselves
You know it’s abusive or you wouldn’t have added playing the victim to the context
Obviously one person is more invested (emotionally) in this relationship and it’s not the guy. He’s toying with you and you go back for more rounds. It’s not his fault at this point. You’re easy pickings.
Err No!
I was in town today talking to my friend who was crying over her confusion with a guy she loves!
Don't try and be smart with what you dont actually know!
I'm simply repeating what she told me and she said she felt he was "playing the victim" but wasn't sure if its abusive or not and really, nor was I.
🤦♀️
Are you sure this is not about you and the Pisces?
https://www.dxpnet.com/forums/astrology/what-is-the-most-and-least-dangerous-zodiac-sign-to-love--14460537/?p=7
Why did you post that link??!?
It has nothing to do with what I'm talking about!
Or about my rship with the pisces.
I don't think I ever said he played the victim with me back then in my posts.
I was more confused by his disappear/reappear behaviour. He later confessed he does this.
Anyway..No this is not about That rship.!
You had a lot to say about the Pisces in that post:Pisces (male) is dangerous (from my personal experience of 2 of them), because of their inconsistency, lies, playing the victimthe moment you try and tell them why your not happy with them, changing their stories to suit the situation (therefore you here several different stories about the same situation, leaving you wondering what to believe).
They want to be chased, but when you chase them, they run away. But..if you ignore them and run away, they chase You!?
And the whole cycle starts again.
Hot Cold Hot Cold
Chase Run Chase Run
Push Pull Push Pull
Disappear Reappear Disappear Reappear
Its Unnerving as F**K!
And makes them hard to trust!
Ok..I get it, they're a contradiction! Look at the symbol for Pisces.
2 Fish, swimming in opposite directions, connected by a cord!
So both fish are stuck and can't go in either direction.
it is possible, though i know, crazy, that there might be more than one man that likes to play victim.
So far I think she’s lying. Want to fight about it? 😉
i just don't see how it matters beyond nit picking.
If someone is a liar, I like to know about it. Obviously, they cannot be trusted.click to expand
i don't think she is asking for you to trust her. she is seeking an opinion. her motivations or your trust in her is irrelevant.
you know this is the internet right? everyone lies here.
Posted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by pooface222Posted by bmoon8Posted by pooface222Posted by leolovestau
when someone says they’re asking for a friend they’re friend is usually themselves
You know it’s abusive or you wouldn’t have added playing the victim to the context
Obviously one person is more invested (emotionally) in this relationship and it’s not the guy. He’s toying with you and you go back for more rounds. It’s not his fault at this point. You’re easy pickings.
Err No!
I was in town today talking to my friend who was crying over her confusion with a guy she loves!
Don't try and be smart with what you dont actually know!
I'm simply repeating what she told me and she said she felt he was "playing the victim" but wasn't sure if its abusive or not and really, nor was I.
🤦♀️
Are you sure this is not about you and the Pisces?
https://www.dxpnet.com/forums/astrology/what-is-the-most-and-least-dangerous-zodiac-sign-to-love--14460537/?p=7
Why did you post that link??!?
It has nothing to do with what I'm talking about!
Or about my rship with the pisces.
I don't think I ever said he played the victim with me back then in my posts.
I was more confused by his disappear/reappear behaviour. He later confessed he does this.
Anyway..No this is not about That rship.!
You had a lot to say about the Pisces in that post:Pisces (male) is dangerous (from my personal experience of 2 of them), because of their inconsistency, lies, playing the victimthe moment you try and tell them why your not happy with them, changing their stories to suit the situation (therefore you here several different stories about the same situation, leaving you wondering what to believe).
They want to be chased, but when you chase them, they run away. But..if you ignore them and run away, they chase You!?
And the whole cycle starts again.
Hot Cold Hot Cold
Chase Run Chase Run
Push Pull Push Pull
Disappear Reappear Disappear Reappear
Its Unnerving as F**K!
And makes them hard to trust!
Ok..I get it, they're a contradiction! Look at the symbol for Pisces.
2 Fish, swimming in opposite directions, connected by a cord!
So both fish are stuck and can't go in either direction.
it is possible, though i know, crazy, that there might be more than one man that likes to play victim.
So far I think she’s lying. Want to fight about it? 😉
i just don't see how it matters beyond nit picking.
If someone is a liar, I like to know about it. Obviously, they cannot be trusted.
i don't think she is asking for you to trust her. she is seeking an opinion. her motivations or your trust in her is irrelevant.you know this is the internet right? everyone lies here.
Not true. I talk to open and honest people on the net. Hey, I have a question: do you think people are different online? More uninhibited? More themselves? Or?click to expand
really? tell us the story of how your parents decided to name you bmoon8? was that tough at school? did kids tease you about your name?
Posted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by pooface222Posted by bmoon8Posted by pooface222Posted by leolovestau
when someone says they’re asking for a friend they’re friend is usually themselves
You know it’s abusive or you wouldn’t have added playing the victim to the context
Obviously one person is more invested (emotionally) in this relationship and it’s not the guy. He’s toying with you and you go back for more rounds. It’s not his fault at this point. You’re easy pickings.
Err No!
I was in town today talking to my friend who was crying over her confusion with a guy she loves!
Don't try and be smart with what you dont actually know!
I'm simply repeating what she told me and she said she felt he was "playing the victim" but wasn't sure if its abusive or not and really, nor was I.
🤦♀️
Are you sure this is not about you and the Pisces?
https://www.dxpnet.com/forums/astrology/what-is-the-most-and-least-dangerous-zodiac-sign-to-love--14460537/?p=7
Why did you post that link??!?
It has nothing to do with what I'm talking about!
Or about my rship with the pisces.
I don't think I ever said he played the victim with me back then in my posts.
I was more confused by his disappear/reappear behaviour. He later confessed he does this.
Anyway..No this is not about That rship.!
You had a lot to say about the Pisces in that post:Pisces (male) is dangerous (from my personal experience of 2 of them), because of their inconsistency, lies, playing the victimthe moment you try and tell them why your not happy with them, changing their stories to suit the situation (therefore you here several different stories about the same situation, leaving you wondering what to believe).
They want to be chased, but when you chase them, they run away. But..if you ignore them and run away, they chase You!?
And the whole cycle starts again.
Hot Cold Hot Cold
Chase Run Chase Run
Push Pull Push Pull
Disappear Reappear Disappear Reappear
Its Unnerving as F**K!
And makes them hard to trust!
Ok..I get it, they're a contradiction! Look at the symbol for Pisces.
2 Fish, swimming in opposite directions, connected by a cord!
So both fish are stuck and can't go in either direction.
it is possible, though i know, crazy, that there might be more than one man that likes to play victim.
So far I think she’s lying. Want to fight about it? 😉
i just don't see how it matters beyond nit picking.
If someone is a liar, I like to know about it. Obviously, they cannot be trusted.
i don't think she is asking for you to trust her. she is seeking an opinion. her motivations or your trust in her is irrelevant.you know this is the internet right? everyone lies here.
Not true. I talk to open and honest people on the net. Hey, I have a question: do you think people are different online? More uninhibited? More themselves? Or?
really? tell us the story of how your parents decided to name you bmoon8? was that tough at school? did kids tease you about your name?
It’s a username. My real name is on Facebook.click to expand
but here on dxpnet your name is a lie (ie a non-truth) isn't it? people lie on the internet. if your starting position is i have to know when people are lying so i know who to trust then write off 99% of the internet and only communicate with those you know on facebook.
back to, if the story is about her or about her friend, it doesn't affect the validity of her question.
Posted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by pooface222Posted by bmoon8Posted by pooface222Posted by leolovestau
when someone says they’re asking for a friend they’re friend is usually themselves
You know it’s abusive or you wouldn’t have added playing the victim to the context
Obviously one person is more invested (emotionally) in this relationship and it’s not the guy. He’s toying with you and you go back for more rounds. It’s not his fault at this point. You’re easy pickings.
Err No!
I was in town today talking to my friend who was crying over her confusion with a guy she loves!
Don't try and be smart with what you dont actually know!
I'm simply repeating what she told me and she said she felt he was "playing the victim" but wasn't sure if its abusive or not and really, nor was I.
🤦♀️
Are you sure this is not about you and the Pisces?
https://www.dxpnet.com/forums/astrology/what-is-the-most-and-least-dangerous-zodiac-sign-to-love--14460537/?p=7
Why did you post that link??!?
It has nothing to do with what I'm talking about!
Or about my rship with the pisces.
I don't think I ever said he played the victim with me back then in my posts.
I was more confused by his disappear/reappear behaviour. He later confessed he does this.
Anyway..No this is not about That rship.!
You had a lot to say about the Pisces in that post:Pisces (male) is dangerous (from my personal experience of 2 of them), because of their inconsistency, lies, playing the victimthe moment you try and tell them why your not happy with them, changing their stories to suit the situation (therefore you here several different stories about the same situation, leaving you wondering what to believe).
They want to be chased, but when you chase them, they run away. But..if you ignore them and run away, they chase You!?
And the whole cycle starts again.
Hot Cold Hot Cold
Chase Run Chase Run
Push Pull Push Pull
Disappear Reappear Disappear Reappear
Its Unnerving as F**K!
And makes them hard to trust!
Ok..I get it, they're a contradiction! Look at the symbol for Pisces.
2 Fish, swimming in opposite directions, connected by a cord!
So both fish are stuck and can't go in either direction.
it is possible, though i know, crazy, that there might be more than one man that likes to play victim.
So far I think she’s lying. Want to fight about it? 😉
i just don't see how it matters beyond nit picking.
If someone is a liar, I like to know about it. Obviously, they cannot be trusted.
i don't think she is asking for you to trust her. she is seeking an opinion. her motivations or your trust in her is irrelevant.you know this is the internet right? everyone lies here.
Not true. I talk to open and honest people on the net. Hey, I have a question: do you think people are different online? More uninhibited? More themselves? Or?
really? tell us the story of how your parents decided to name you bmoon8? was that tough at school? did kids tease you about your name?
It’s a username. My real name is on Facebook.
but here on dxpnet your name is a lie (ie a non-truth) isn't it? people lie on the internet. if your starting position is i have to know when people are lying so i know who to trust then write off 99% of the internet and only communicate with those you know on facebook.
back to, if the story or about her or about her friend, it doesn't affect the validity of her question.
It’s not a lie to have a generic username on Dxpnet. There are “crazy” people on the internet just like offline and it is a self-protection measure to not broadcast your real name as your username on this site.
We know she is probably not asking for a friend. 😂click to expand
so you determine what information to share and with who. that's your right. it's also her right to make that decision for herself. besides i believe her that she is talking about a friend.
you just want to "catch her out" for what purpose i don't know. either way, it adds nothing to conversation.
(neither does this by the way)
Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by pooface222Posted by bmoon8Posted by pooface222Posted by leolovestau
when someone says they’re asking for a friend they’re friend is usually themselves
You know it’s abusive or you wouldn’t have added playing the victim to the context
Obviously one person is more invested (emotionally) in this relationship and it’s not the guy. He’s toying with you and you go back for more rounds. It’s not his fault at this point. You’re easy pickings.
Err No!
I was in town today talking to my friend who was crying over her confusion with a guy she loves!
Don't try and be smart with what you dont actually know!
I'm simply repeating what she told me and she said she felt he was "playing the victim" but wasn't sure if its abusive or not and really, nor was I.
🤦♀️
Are you sure this is not about you and the Pisces?
https://www.dxpnet.com/forums/astrology/what-is-the-most-and-least-dangerous-zodiac-sign-to-love--14460537/?p=7
Why did you post that link??!?
It has nothing to do with what I'm talking about!
Or about my rship with the pisces.
I don't think I ever said he played the victim with me back then in my posts.
I was more confused by his disappear/reappear behaviour. He later confessed he does this.
Anyway..No this is not about That rship.!
You had a lot to say about the Pisces in that post:Pisces (male) is dangerous (from my personal experience of 2 of them), because of their inconsistency, lies, playing the victimthe moment you try and tell them why your not happy with them, changing their stories to suit the situation (therefore you here several different stories about the same situation, leaving you wondering what to believe).
They want to be chased, but when you chase them, they run away. But..if you ignore them and run away, they chase You!?
And the whole cycle starts again.
Hot Cold Hot Cold
Chase Run Chase Run
Push Pull Push Pull
Disappear Reappear Disappear Reappear
Its Unnerving as F**K!
And makes them hard to trust!
Ok..I get it, they're a contradiction! Look at the symbol for Pisces.
2 Fish, swimming in opposite directions, connected by a cord!
So both fish are stuck and can't go in either direction.
it is possible, though i know, crazy, that there might be more than one man that likes to play victim.
So far I think she’s lying. Want to fight about it? 😉
i just don't see how it matters beyond nit picking.
If someone is a liar, I like to know about it. Obviously, they cannot be trusted.
i don't think she is asking for you to trust her. she is seeking an opinion. her motivations or your trust in her is irrelevant.you know this is the internet right? everyone lies here.
Not true. I talk to open and honest people on the net. Hey, I have a question: do you think people are different online? More uninhibited? More themselves? Or?
really? tell us the story of how your parents decided to name you bmoon8? was that tough at school? did kids tease you about your name?
It’s a username. My real name is on Facebook.
but here on dxpnet your name is a lie (ie a non-truth) isn't it? people lie on the internet. if your starting position is i have to know when people are lying so i know who to trust then write off 99% of the internet and only communicate with those you know on facebook.
back to, if the story or about her or about her friend, it doesn't affect the validity of her question.
It’s not a lie to have a generic username on Dxpnet. There are “crazy” people on the internet just like offline and it is a self-protection measure to not broadcast your real name as your username on this site.
We know she is probably not asking for a friend. 😂
so you determine what information to share and with who. that's your right. it's also her right to make that decision for herself. besides i believe her that she is talking about a friend.
you just want to "catch her out" for what purpose i don't know. either way, it adds nothing to conversation.
(neither does this by the way)click to expand
I'm going to jump in and say read all her replies to the posters whose answers she didnt like then, got upset about....then decide if this is about a friend, or about herself 🙂.
Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by pooface222Posted by bmoon8Posted by pooface222Posted by leolovestau
when someone says they’re asking for a friend they’re friend is usually themselves
You know it’s abusive or you wouldn’t have added playing the victim to the context
Obviously one person is more invested (emotionally) in this relationship and it’s not the guy. He’s toying with you and you go back for more rounds. It’s not his fault at this point. You’re easy pickings.
Err No!
I was in town today talking to my friend who was crying over her confusion with a guy she loves!
Don't try and be smart with what you dont actually know!
I'm simply repeating what she told me and she said she felt he was "playing the victim" but wasn't sure if its abusive or not and really, nor was I.
🤦♀️
Are you sure this is not about you and the Pisces?
https://www.dxpnet.com/forums/astrology/what-is-the-most-and-least-dangerous-zodiac-sign-to-love--14460537/?p=7
Why did you post that link??!?
It has nothing to do with what I'm talking about!
Or about my rship with the pisces.
I don't think I ever said he played the victim with me back then in my posts.
I was more confused by his disappear/reappear behaviour. He later confessed he does this.
Anyway..No this is not about That rship.!
You had a lot to say about the Pisces in that post:Pisces (male) is dangerous (from my personal experience of 2 of them), because of their inconsistency, lies, playing the victimthe moment you try and tell them why your not happy with them, changing their stories to suit the situation (therefore you here several different stories about the same situation, leaving you wondering what to believe).
They want to be chased, but when you chase them, they run away. But..if you ignore them and run away, they chase You!?
And the whole cycle starts again.
Hot Cold Hot Cold
Chase Run Chase Run
Push Pull Push Pull
Disappear Reappear Disappear Reappear
Its Unnerving as F**K!
And makes them hard to trust!
Ok..I get it, they're a contradiction! Look at the symbol for Pisces.
2 Fish, swimming in opposite directions, connected by a cord!
So both fish are stuck and can't go in either direction.
it is possible, though i know, crazy, that there might be more than one man that likes to play victim.
So far I think she’s lying. Want to fight about it? 😉
i just don't see how it matters beyond nit picking.
If someone is a liar, I like to know about it. Obviously, they cannot be trusted.
i don't think she is asking for you to trust her. she is seeking an opinion. her motivations or your trust in her is irrelevant.you know this is the internet right? everyone lies here.
Not true. I talk to open and honest people on the net. Hey, I have a question: do you think people are different online? More uninhibited? More themselves? Or?
really? tell us the story of how your parents decided to name you bmoon8? was that tough at school? did kids tease you about your name?
It’s a username. My real name is on Facebook.
but here on dxpnet your name is a lie (ie a non-truth) isn't it? people lie on the internet. if your starting position is i have to know when people are lying so i know who to trust then write off 99% of the internet and only communicate with those you know on facebook.
back to, if the story or about her or about her friend, it doesn't affect the validity of her question.
It’s not a lie to have a generic username on Dxpnet. There are “crazy” people on the internet just like offline and it is a self-protection measure to not broadcast your real name as your username on this site.
We know she is probably not asking for a friend. 😂
so you determine what information to share and with who. that's your right. it's also her right to make that decision for herself. besides i believe her that she is talking about a friend.
you just want to "catch her out" for what purpose i don't know. either way, it adds nothing to conversation.
(neither does this by the way)
I'm going to jump in and say read all her replies to the posters whose answers she didnt like then, got upset about....then decide if this is about a friend, or about herself 🙂.click to expand
I’m with Jeane. It doesn’t matter who it’s for.
This thread proves, if it is for her, she wanted to spare herself the usual self righteous judgment of dxp.
The anonymity is because she wants the question answered without bias.
Who cares who it’s for.
Posted by pooface222
I'm talking about in a relationship.
What is it, when you are in a relationship with someone who wants everything their own way, and when you won't give them what they want, they appear to punish you with silence, ignoring your calls and texts, and won't call and text you.
And..is it abuse when you call them out on their bullshit, they play the victim by saying "you don't like me."
Then try to run away and then ignore you for days and days after.
Asking for a friend who told me this today ..
Personally for me, if this were about a friends conversation this post would have been worded differently. Also there is not enough details on the ins and outs to say definitely if this is emotional abuse or not. Saying they want everything their own way is very open ended and could mean just about anything, things some people may find unreasonable, others may not. The issue here is lack of compromise and communication in a relationship it certainly does not imply abuse.
Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by pooface222Posted by bmoon8Posted by pooface222Posted by leolovestau
when someone says they’re asking for a friend they’re friend is usually themselves
You know it’s abusive or you wouldn’t have added playing the victim to the context
Obviously one person is more invested (emotionally) in this relationship and it’s not the guy. He’s toying with you and you go back for more rounds. It’s not his fault at this point. You’re easy pickings.
Err No!
I was in town today talking to my friend who was crying over her confusion with a guy she loves!
Don't try and be smart with what you dont actually know!
I'm simply repeating what she told me and she said she felt he was "playing the victim" but wasn't sure if its abusive or not and really, nor was I.
🤦♀️
Are you sure this is not about you and the Pisces?
https://www.dxpnet.com/forums/astrology/what-is-the-most-and-least-dangerous-zodiac-sign-to-love--14460537/?p=7
Why did you post that link??!?
It has nothing to do with what I'm talking about!
Or about my rship with the pisces.
I don't think I ever said he played the victim with me back then in my posts.
I was more confused by his disappear/reappear behaviour. He later confessed he does this.
Anyway..No this is not about That rship.!
You had a lot to say about the Pisces in that post:Pisces (male) is dangerous (from my personal experience of 2 of them), because of their inconsistency, lies, playing the victimthe moment you try and tell them why your not happy with them, changing their stories to suit the situation (therefore you here several different stories about the same situation, leaving you wondering what to believe).
They want to be chased, but when you chase them, they run away. But..if you ignore them and run away, they chase You!?
And the whole cycle starts again.
Hot Cold Hot Cold
Chase Run Chase Run
Push Pull Push Pull
Disappear Reappear Disappear Reappear
Its Unnerving as F**K!
And makes them hard to trust!
Ok..I get it, they're a contradiction! Look at the symbol for Pisces.
2 Fish, swimming in opposite directions, connected by a cord!
So both fish are stuck and can't go in either direction.
it is possible, though i know, crazy, that there might be more than one man that likes to play victim.
So far I think she’s lying. Want to fight about it? 😉
i just don't see how it matters beyond nit picking.
If someone is a liar, I like to know about it. Obviously, they cannot be trusted.
i don't think she is asking for you to trust her. she is seeking an opinion. her motivations or your trust in her is irrelevant.you know this is the internet right? everyone lies here.
Not true. I talk to open and honest people on the net. Hey, I have a question: do you think people are different online? More uninhibited? More themselves? Or?
really? tell us the story of how your parents decided to name you bmoon8? was that tough at school? did kids tease you about your name?
It’s a username. My real name is on Facebook.
but here on dxpnet your name is a lie (ie a non-truth) isn't it? people lie on the internet. if your starting position is i have to know when people are lying so i know who to trust then write off 99% of the internet and only communicate with those you know on facebook.
back to, if the story or about her or about her friend, it doesn't affect the validity of her question.
It’s not a lie to have a generic username on Dxpnet. There are “crazy” people on the internet just like offline and it is a self-protection measure to not broadcast your real name as your username on this site.
We know she is probably not asking for a friend. 😂
so you determine what information to share and with who. that's your right. it's also her right to make that decision for herself. besides i believe her that she is talking about a friend.
you just want to "catch her out" for what purpose i don't know. either way, it adds nothing to conversation.
(neither does this by the way)
I'm going to jump in and say read all her replies to the posters whose answers she didnt like then, got upset about....then decide if this is about a friend, or about herself 🙂.click to expand
but i ask again what does it matter? who cares who it is about? do you know her? do you know her friend? does it have a direct impact on your life? will you earn money/prize/an accolade if you determine who this virgo is? who the scorpio is? is their crime so heinous that the public should know who they are? are they a risk to children? is their identity a public health concern?
it just comes across as petty to focus on that and not actually respond to the topic which by the way, might benefit lurkers and other people who are searching for this opinions on this topic.
Posted by jeanePosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by pooface222Posted by bmoon8Posted by pooface222Posted by leolovestau
when someone says they’re asking for a friend they’re friend is usually themselves
You know it’s abusive or you wouldn’t have added playing the victim to the context
Obviously one person is more invested (emotionally) in this relationship and it’s not the guy. He’s toying with you and you go back for more rounds. It’s not his fault at this point. You’re easy pickings.
Err No!
I was in town today talking to my friend who was crying over her confusion with a guy she loves!
Don't try and be smart with what you dont actually know!
I'm simply repeating what she told me and she said she felt he was "playing the victim" but wasn't sure if its abusive or not and really, nor was I.
🤦♀️
Are you sure this is not about you and the Pisces?
https://www.dxpnet.com/forums/astrology/what-is-the-most-and-least-dangerous-zodiac-sign-to-love--14460537/?p=7
Why did you post that link??!?
It has nothing to do with what I'm talking about!
Or about my rship with the pisces.
I don't think I ever said he played the victim with me back then in my posts.
I was more confused by his disappear/reappear behaviour. He later confessed he does this.
Anyway..No this is not about That rship.!
You had a lot to say about the Pisces in that post:Pisces (male) is dangerous (from my personal experience of 2 of them), because of their inconsistency, lies, playing the victimthe moment you try and tell them why your not happy with them, changing their stories to suit the situation (therefore you here several different stories about the same situation, leaving you wondering what to believe).
They want to be chased, but when you chase them, they run away. But..if you ignore them and run away, they chase You!?
And the whole cycle starts again.
Hot Cold Hot Cold
Chase Run Chase Run
Push Pull Push Pull
Disappear Reappear Disappear Reappear
Its Unnerving as F**K!
And makes them hard to trust!
Ok..I get it, they're a contradiction! Look at the symbol for Pisces.
2 Fish, swimming in opposite directions, connected by a cord!
So both fish are stuck and can't go in either direction.
it is possible, though i know, crazy, that there might be more than one man that likes to play victim.
So far I think she’s lying. Want to fight about it? 😉
i just don't see how it matters beyond nit picking.
If someone is a liar, I like to know about it. Obviously, they cannot be trusted.
i don't think she is asking for you to trust her. she is seeking an opinion. her motivations or your trust in her is irrelevant.you know this is the internet right? everyone lies here.
Not true. I talk to open and honest people on the net. Hey, I have a question: do you think people are different online? More uninhibited? More themselves? Or?
really? tell us the story of how your parents decided to name you bmoon8? was that tough at school? did kids tease you about your name?
It’s a username. My real name is on Facebook.
but here on dxpnet your name is a lie (ie a non-truth) isn't it? people lie on the internet. if your starting position is i have to know when people are lying so i know who to trust then write off 99% of the internet and only communicate with those you know on facebook.
back to, if the story or about her or about her friend, it doesn't affect the validity of her question.
It’s not a lie to have a generic username on Dxpnet. There are “crazy” people on the internet just like offline and it is a self-protection measure to not broadcast your real name as your username on this site.
We know she is probably not asking for a friend. 😂
so you determine what information to share and with who. that's your right. it's also her right to make that decision for herself. besides i believe her that she is talking about a friend.
you just want to "catch her out" for what purpose i don't know. either way, it adds nothing to conversation.
(neither does this by the way)
I'm going to jump in and say read all her replies to the posters whose answers she didnt like then, got upset about....then decide if this is about a friend, or about herself 🙂.
but i ask again what does it matter? who cares who it is about? do you know her? do you know her friend? does it have a direct impact on your life? will you earn money/prize/an accolade if you determine who this virgo is? who the scorpio is? is their crime so heinous that the public should know who they are? are they a risk to children? is their identity a public health concern?
it just comes across as petty to focus on that and not actually respond to the topic which by the way, might benefit lurkers and other people who are searching for this opinions on this topic.click to expand
I gave my response to the topic.
Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by jeanePosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by pooface222Posted by bmoon8Posted by pooface222Posted by leolovestau
when someone says they’re asking for a friend they’re friend is usually themselves
You know it’s abusive or you wouldn’t have added playing the victim to the context
Obviously one person is more invested (emotionally) in this relationship and it’s not the guy. He’s toying with you and you go back for more rounds. It’s not his fault at this point. You’re easy pickings.
Err No!
I was in town today talking to my friend who was crying over her confusion with a guy she loves!
Don't try and be smart with what you dont actually know!
I'm simply repeating what she told me and she said she felt he was "playing the victim" but wasn't sure if its abusive or not and really, nor was I.
🤦♀️
Are you sure this is not about you and the Pisces?
https://www.dxpnet.com/forums/astrology/what-is-the-most-and-least-dangerous-zodiac-sign-to-love--14460537/?p=7
Why did you post that link??!?
It has nothing to do with what I'm talking about!
Or about my rship with the pisces.
I don't think I ever said he played the victim with me back then in my posts.
I was more confused by his disappear/reappear behaviour. He later confessed he does this.
Anyway..No this is not about That rship.!
You had a lot to say about the Pisces in that post:Pisces (male) is dangerous (from my personal experience of 2 of them), because of their inconsistency, lies, playing the victimthe moment you try and tell them why your not happy with them, changing their stories to suit the situation (therefore you here several different stories about the same situation, leaving you wondering what to believe).
They want to be chased, but when you chase them, they run away. But..if you ignore them and run away, they chase You!?
And the whole cycle starts again.
Hot Cold Hot Cold
Chase Run Chase Run
Push Pull Push Pull
Disappear Reappear Disappear Reappear
Its Unnerving as F**K!
And makes them hard to trust!
Ok..I get it, they're a contradiction! Look at the symbol for Pisces.
2 Fish, swimming in opposite directions, connected by a cord!
So both fish are stuck and can't go in either direction.
it is possible, though i know, crazy, that there might be more than one man that likes to play victim.
So far I think she’s lying. Want to fight about it? 😉
i just don't see how it matters beyond nit picking.
If someone is a liar, I like to know about it. Obviously, they cannot be trusted.
i don't think she is asking for you to trust her. she is seeking an opinion. her motivations or your trust in her is irrelevant.you know this is the internet right? everyone lies here.
Not true. I talk to open and honest people on the net. Hey, I have a question: do you think people are different online? More uninhibited? More themselves? Or?
really? tell us the story of how your parents decided to name you bmoon8? was that tough at school? did kids tease you about your name?
It’s a username. My real name is on Facebook.
but here on dxpnet your name is a lie (ie a non-truth) isn't it? people lie on the internet. if your starting position is i have to know when people are lying so i know who to trust then write off 99% of the internet and only communicate with those you know on facebook.
back to, if the story or about her or about her friend, it doesn't affect the validity of her question.
It’s not a lie to have a generic username on Dxpnet. There are “crazy” people on the internet just like offline and it is a self-protection measure to not broadcast your real name as your username on this site.
We know she is probably not asking for a friend. 😂
so you determine what information to share and with who. that's your right. it's also her right to make that decision for herself. besides i believe her that she is talking about a friend.
you just want to "catch her out" for what purpose i don't know. either way, it adds nothing to conversation.
(neither does this by the way)
I'm going to jump in and say read all her replies to the posters whose answers she didnt like then, got upset about....then decide if this is about a friend, or about herself 🙂.
but i ask again what does it matter? who cares who it is about? do you know her? do you know her friend? does it have a direct impact on your life? will you earn money/prize/an accolade if you determine who this virgo is? who the scorpio is? is their crime so heinous that the public should know who they are? are they a risk to children? is their identity a public health concern?
it just comes across as petty to focus on that and not actually respond to the topic which by the way, might benefit lurkers and other people who are searching for this opinions on this topic.
I gave my response to the topic.click to expand
you're not the only person i am responding to in regards to this.
Posted by jeanePosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by jeanePosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by pooface222Posted by bmoon8Posted by pooface222Posted by leolovestau
when someone says they’re asking for a friend they’re friend is usually themselves
You know it’s abusive or you wouldn’t have added playing the victim to the context
Obviously one person is more invested (emotionally) in this relationship and it’s not the guy. He’s toying with you and you go back for more rounds. It’s not his fault at this point. You’re easy pickings.
Err No!
I was in town today talking to my friend who was crying over her confusion with a guy she loves!
Don't try and be smart with what you dont actually know!
I'm simply repeating what she told me and she said she felt he was "playing the victim" but wasn't sure if its abusive or not and really, nor was I.
🤦♀️
Are you sure this is not about you and the Pisces?
https://www.dxpnet.com/forums/astrology/what-is-the-most-and-least-dangerous-zodiac-sign-to-love--14460537/?p=7
Why did you post that link??!?
It has nothing to do with what I'm talking about!
Or about my rship with the pisces.
I don't think I ever said he played the victim with me back then in my posts.
I was more confused by his disappear/reappear behaviour. He later confessed he does this.
Anyway..No this is not about That rship.!
You had a lot to say about the Pisces in that post:Pisces (male) is dangerous (from my personal experience of 2 of them), because of their inconsistency, lies, playing the victimthe moment you try and tell them why your not happy with them, changing their stories to suit the situation (therefore you here several different stories about the same situation, leaving you wondering what to believe).
They want to be chased, but when you chase them, they run away. But..if you ignore them and run away, they chase You!?
And the whole cycle starts again.
Hot Cold Hot Cold
Chase Run Chase Run
Push Pull Push Pull
Disappear Reappear Disappear Reappear
Its Unnerving as F**K!
And makes them hard to trust!
Ok..I get it, they're a contradiction! Look at the symbol for Pisces.
2 Fish, swimming in opposite directions, connected by a cord!
So both fish are stuck and can't go in either direction.
it is possible, though i know, crazy, that there might be more than one man that likes to play victim.
So far I think she’s lying. Want to fight about it? 😉
i just don't see how it matters beyond nit picking.
If someone is a liar, I like to know about it. Obviously, they cannot be trusted.
i don't think she is asking for you to trust her. she is seeking an opinion. her motivations or your trust in her is irrelevant.you know this is the internet right? everyone lies here.
Not true. I talk to open and honest people on the net. Hey, I have a question: do you think people are different online? More uninhibited? More themselves? Or?
really? tell us the story of how your parents decided to name you bmoon8? was that tough at school? did kids tease you about your name?
It’s a username. My real name is on Facebook.
but here on dxpnet your name is a lie (ie a non-truth) isn't it? people lie on the internet. if your starting position is i have to know when people are lying so i know who to trust then write off 99% of the internet and only communicate with those you know on facebook.
back to, if the story or about her or about her friend, it doesn't affect the validity of her question.
It’s not a lie to have a generic username on Dxpnet. There are “crazy” people on the internet just like offline and it is a self-protection measure to not broadcast your real name as your username on this site.
We know she is probably not asking for a friend. 😂
so you determine what information to share and with who. that's your right. it's also her right to make that decision for herself. besides i believe her that she is talking about a friend.
you just want to "catch her out" for what purpose i don't know. either way, it adds nothing to conversation.
(neither does this by the way)
I'm going to jump in and say read all her replies to the posters whose answers she didnt like then, got upset about....then decide if this is about a friend, or about herself 🙂.
but i ask again what does it matter? who cares who it is about? do you know her? do you know her friend? does it have a direct impact on your life? will you earn money/prize/an accolade if you determine who this virgo is? who the scorpio is? is their crime so heinous that the public should know who they are? are they a risk to children? is their identity a public health concern?
it just comes across as petty to focus on that and not actually respond to the topic which by the way, might benefit lurkers and other people who are searching for this opinions on this topic.
I gave my response to the topic.
you're not the only person i am responding to in regards to this.click to expand
The only reason I responded to you regarding the "issue" of who the post is about was your poor example of people using made up names on websites as "lies". Nearly all websites require a username 🙂. But yes back to the post at hand. I agree and disagree with you
Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by jeanePosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by jeanePosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by pooface222Posted by bmoon8Posted by pooface222Posted by leolovestau
when someone says they’re asking for a friend they’re friend is usually themselves
You know it’s abusive or you wouldn’t have added playing the victim to the context
Obviously one person is more invested (emotionally) in this relationship and it’s not the guy. He’s toying with you and you go back for more rounds. It’s not his fault at this point. You’re easy pickings.
Err No!
I was in town today talking to my friend who was crying over her confusion with a guy she loves!
Don't try and be smart with what you dont actually know!
I'm simply repeating what she told me and she said she felt he was "playing the victim" but wasn't sure if its abusive or not and really, nor was I.
🤦♀️
Are you sure this is not about you and the Pisces?
https://www.dxpnet.com/forums/astrology/what-is-the-most-and-least-dangerous-zodiac-sign-to-love--14460537/?p=7
Why did you post that link??!?
It has nothing to do with what I'm talking about!
Or about my rship with the pisces.
I don't think I ever said he played the victim with me back then in my posts.
I was more confused by his disappear/reappear behaviour. He later confessed he does this.
Anyway..No this is not about That rship.!
You had a lot to say about the Pisces in that post:Pisces (male) is dangerous (from my personal experience of 2 of them), because of their inconsistency, lies, playing the victimthe moment you try and tell them why your not happy with them, changing their stories to suit the situation (therefore you here several different stories about the same situation, leaving you wondering what to believe).
They want to be chased, but when you chase them, they run away. But..if you ignore them and run away, they chase You!?
And the whole cycle starts again.
Hot Cold Hot Cold
Chase Run Chase Run
Push Pull Push Pull
Disappear Reappear Disappear Reappear
Its Unnerving as F**K!
And makes them hard to trust!
Ok..I get it, they're a contradiction! Look at the symbol for Pisces.
2 Fish, swimming in opposite directions, connected by a cord!
So both fish are stuck and can't go in either direction.
it is possible, though i know, crazy, that there might be more than one man that likes to play victim.
So far I think she’s lying. Want to fight about it? 😉
i just don't see how it matters beyond nit picking.
If someone is a liar, I like to know about it. Obviously, they cannot be trusted.
i don't think she is asking for you to trust her. she is seeking an opinion. her motivations or your trust in her is irrelevant.you know this is the internet right? everyone lies here.
Not true. I talk to open and honest people on the net. Hey, I have a question: do you think people are different online? More uninhibited? More themselves? Or?
really? tell us the story of how your parents decided to name you bmoon8? was that tough at school? did kids tease you about your name?
It’s a username. My real name is on Facebook.
but here on dxpnet your name is a lie (ie a non-truth) isn't it? people lie on the internet. if your starting position is i have to know when people are lying so i know who to trust then write off 99% of the internet and only communicate with those you know on facebook.
back to, if the story or about her or about her friend, it doesn't affect the validity of her question.
It’s not a lie to have a generic username on Dxpnet. There are “crazy” people on the internet just like offline and it is a self-protection measure to not broadcast your real name as your username on this site.
We know she is probably not asking for a friend. 😂
so you determine what information to share and with who. that's your right. it's also her right to make that decision for herself. besides i believe her that she is talking about a friend.
you just want to "catch her out" for what purpose i don't know. either way, it adds nothing to conversation.
(neither does this by the way)
I'm going to jump in and say read all her replies to the posters whose answers she didnt like then, got upset about....then decide if this is about a friend, or about herself 🙂.
but i ask again what does it matter? who cares who it is about? do you know her? do you know her friend? does it have a direct impact on your life? will you earn money/prize/an accolade if you determine who this virgo is? who the scorpio is? is their crime so heinous that the public should know who they are? are they a risk to children? is their identity a public health concern?
it just comes across as petty to focus on that and not actually respond to the topic which by the way, might benefit lurkers and other people who are searching for this opinions on this topic.
I gave my response to the topic.
you're not the only person i am responding to in regards to this.
The only reason I responded to you regarding the "issue" of who the post is about was your poor example of people using made up names on websites as "lies". Nearly all websites require a username 🙂. But yes back to the post at hand. I agree and disagree with youclick to expand
it's according to the dictionary definition
lie
1
[ lahy ]
noun
1 a false statement made with deliberate intent to deceive; an intentional untruth; a falsehood.
2 something intended or serving to convey a false impression;imposture:
His flashy car was a lie that deceived no one.
3 an inaccurate or false statement; a falsehood
a username doesn't dictate that it be a fictitious name. no one is stopping people from putting their real name here.
a lie (or falsehood) doesn't stop being one just because you can find a justification for it.
Op states asking for a friend in her original post... does she realise that is a pun for asking for yourself? Probably not.
If someone isn't answering your first text or call then why bother keep sending them texts or calling them if you were met with silence the first time?
I don't find it abusive if someone ignores you per se but more being rude and childish. However I guess it could be a form of gaslighting if they try to blame you for it. But who cares really about his motive? If she doesn't want to be treated that way then she shouldn't accept it. If someone doesn't reply to your texts then stop sending them any more texts. Obviously they don't want to talk to you.
I don't find it abusive if someone ignores you per se but more being rude and childish. However I guess it could be a form of gaslighting if they try to blame you for it. But who cares really about his motive? If she doesn't want to be treated that way then she shouldn't accept it. If someone doesn't reply to your texts then stop sending them any more texts. Obviously they don't want to talk to you.
ok. comparing an internet post with selling crack. are you going to call me a nazi next?
Posted by bmoon8Posted by jeane
ok. comparing an internet post with selling crack. are you going to call me a nazi next?
What are you talking about?
This is what you said: it's also her right to make that decision for herself. besides i believe her that she is talking about a friend.click to expand
yes and? not only do you deem yourself the arbiter of "truth" in this thread, you now want to dictate what my opinion should be as well?
give it a break eh? it's sunday. find something else to do.
Posted by jeanePosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by pooface222Posted by bmoon8Posted by pooface222Posted by leolovestau
when someone says they’re asking for a friend they’re friend is usually themselves
You know it’s abusive or you wouldn’t have added playing the victim to the context
Obviously one person is more invested (emotionally) in this relationship and it’s not the guy. He’s toying with you and you go back for more rounds. It’s not his fault at this point. You’re easy pickings.
Err No!
I was in town today talking to my friend who was crying over her confusion with a guy she loves!
Don't try and be smart with what you dont actually know!
I'm simply repeating what she told me and she said she felt he was "playing the victim" but wasn't sure if its abusive or not and really, nor was I.
🤦♀️
Are you sure this is not about you and the Pisces?
https://www.dxpnet.com/forums/astrology/what-is-the-most-and-least-dangerous-zodiac-sign-to-love--14460537/?p=7
Why did you post that link??!?
It has nothing to do with what I'm talking about!
Or about my rship with the pisces.
I don't think I ever said he played the victim with me back then in my posts.
I was more confused by his disappear/reappear behaviour. He later confessed he does this.
Anyway..No this is not about That rship.!
You had a lot to say about the Pisces in that post:Pisces (male) is dangerous (from my personal experience of 2 of them), because of their inconsistency, lies, playing the victimthe moment you try and tell them why your not happy with them, changing their stories to suit the situation (therefore you here several different stories about the same situation, leaving you wondering what to believe).
They want to be chased, but when you chase them, they run away. But..if you ignore them and run away, they chase You!?
And the whole cycle starts again.
Hot Cold Hot Cold
Chase Run Chase Run
Push Pull Push Pull
Disappear Reappear Disappear Reappear
Its Unnerving as F**K!
And makes them hard to trust!
Ok..I get it, they're a contradiction! Look at the symbol for Pisces.
2 Fish, swimming in opposite directions, connected by a cord!
So both fish are stuck and can't go in either direction.
it is possible, though i know, crazy, that there might be more than one man that likes to play victim.
So far I think she’s lying. Want to fight about it? 😉
i just don't see how it matters beyond nit picking.
If someone is a liar, I like to know about it. Obviously, they cannot be trusted.
i don't think she is asking for you to trust her. she is seeking an opinion. her motivations or your trust in her is irrelevant.you know this is the internet right? everyone lies here.
Not true. I talk to open and honest people on the net. Hey, I have a question: do you think people are different online? More uninhibited? More themselves? Or?
really? tell us the story of how your parents decided to name you bmoon8? was that tough at school? did kids tease you about your name?
It’s a username. My real name is on Facebook.
but here on dxpnet your name is a lie (ie a non-truth) isn't it? people lie on the internet. if your starting position is i have to know when people are lying so i know who to trust then write off 99% of the internet and only communicate with those you know on facebook.
back to, if the story or about her or about her friend, it doesn't affect the validity of her question.
It’s not a lie to have a generic username on Dxpnet. There are “crazy” people on the internet just like offline and it is a self-protection measure to not broadcast your real name as your username on this site.
We know she is probably not asking for a friend. 😂
so you determine what information to share and with who. that's your right. it's also her right to make that decision for herself. besides i believe her that she is talking about a friend.
you just want to "catch her out" for what purpose i don't know. either way, it adds nothing to conversation.
(neither does this by the way)
I'm going to jump in and say read all her replies to the posters whose answers she didnt like then, got upset about....then decide if this is about a friend, or about herself 🙂.
but i ask again what does it matter? who cares who it is about? do you know her? do you know her friend? does it have a direct impact on your life? will you earn money/prize/an accolade if you determine who this virgo is? who the scorpio is? is their crime so heinous that the public should know who they are? are they a risk to children? is their identity a public health concern?
it just comes across as petty to focus on that and not actually respond to the topic which by the way, might benefit lurkers and other people who are searching for this opinions on this topic.click to expand
Thank you. Exactly.😊
It is very petty.
I actually just wanted a response to the topic.
Maybe I should point out that I'm a Capricorn x
Unless the others on here want to accuse me of lying about the star signs I mentioned.
I told my friend that I sometimes go on the internet about my rship issues and asked her if she minded if I posted.
She was fine about it. Has never used forums before and told me she "can't be a**ed writing it on a forum." So was grateful that I did.
Thats not normal, its 100% emotional abuse..To show some type of manipulation and control to punish someone? thats not love....tell your friend to leave while her sanity is there. Trust me Iv've lived through that and it gets worse over time.
Posted by Mochakitty4
Thats not normal, its 100% emotional abuse..To show some type of manipulation and control to punish someone? thats not love....tell your friend to leave while her sanity is there. Trust me Iv've lived through that and it gets worse over time.
Hey..
Thank you. I thought it was emotional abuse too, and seeing as my friend was upset by what he said, I thought I'd ask other people.
I felt that he was Manipulative too!
Posted by bmoon8Posted by jeanePosted by bmoon8Posted by jeane
ok. comparing an internet post with selling crack. are you going to call me a nazi next?
What are you talking about?
This is what you said: it's also her right to make that decision for herself. besides i believe her that she is talking about a friend.
yes and? not only do you deem yourself the arbiter of "truth" in this thread, you now want to dictate what my opinion should be as well?
give it a break eh? it's sunday. find something else to do.
I just wanted to see more of who you are. Btw, that was a stupid non-sequitur claiming that everyone on here is a liar because they use generic usernames rather than their real names.click to expand
fuck me you are boring.
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With these new covid strands Ive thrown up my hands on dating. Yeah we can do zoom but if it gets to the point where things are going well, scheduling covid testing for both on the same day can be tricky just to spend time together in person with no mask
Have you experienced this? Did it work or not? Tell me your stories.
I personally just dodged a bullet 😂😂 Thinking single isn’t so bad lol
A quick video on human behavior and the brain in short summaries. I know the root of most problems people post about on here can be identified in these statements made. See how many of these you can relate too🙃
https://youtu.be/VglEhRRl62o
There is a twitter post that asked this question. I thought the replies were interesting (links below).
"Most men don't marry the woman they love(d) the most. They marry the woman that is around when they are ready to marry".
I saw this shared on Insta
I'm going to sum this up into maybe a paragraph. If you have no children with your ex, aren't in the process of a divorce with your ex, or have some legal entanglements with your ex, the only reason.. ONLY REASON... Your ex would contact you is either A)
1. What role do you believe attraction and emotions play in one's ability to be monogamous?
2. Which of the following do you believe is less likely to be monogamous based on your answer to #1?
a. Straight woman
b. Straight man
c. Bisexual woman
d. Bisex
Why do non-binary individuals feel they have the right to withold information about their real gender when pursuing a person who clearly doesn't swing that way? What is the purpose? Do they assume their personality is so irresistable I will forget I'm not
How attracted are you to someone's natural scent? Have you noticed? I have only noticed this with maybe 3 guys I've been with where I can still smell them even tho I haven't seen them in days and have taken mult showers. Sometimes just thinking about them
What do you think?
Doesn't matter whether you are living together or have been in a relationship for say 3yrs etc if you are calling your partner more than they call you, is it Chasing?
Or is it just that you've been together a while and one of you is
For months now I’ve been talking to this guy and feel like we could be a solid couple. We share so many things in common and can laugh and joke around easily. Problem is he runs hot and cold often, just when things are so easy and we are finding more and
Background: Scorpio woman + Gemini man, dated almost 4yrs, LDR for the most part
He lives in another country and has been busy with moving to another city, new job, etc. and I have been supportive, been patient, then he became distant and cold: responds
Say a man who is constantly kissing and cuddling you, and holding you tight and doesn’t ever want to let his hands off of you, yet they aren’t usually an affectionate person. Would you say this is a sign of him falling in love?
I’ve been in situations be
about someone non stop? It is really frustrating. It is like an unspoken bond, and you cannot do anything about it. How do you distract yourself and stop thinking?
What is it, when you are in a relationship with someone who wants everything their own way, and when you won't give them what they want, they appear to punish you with silence, ignoring your calls and texts, and won't call and text you.
And..is it abuse when you call them out on their bullshit, they play the victim by saying "you don't like me."
Then try to run away and then ignore you for days and days after.
Asking for a friend who told me this today ..