Choose a man that is a bit dumb / shallow over an intelligent man because the 1st man has a bigger ego?
Ladies, would you...
Ego is just sense of self. I don’t mind a bit of ego.
Posted by Jade_Alexander
I wouldn’t want either
Humility is an attractive quality
The intelligent one has the humility but the dumber one has that animalistic, exciting side.
Posted by Noaddic
Choose a man that is a bit dumb / shallow over an intelligent man because the 1st man has a bigger ego?
No. Big ego is as equally unattractive as being "a bit dumb" and shallow. Lol, not sure how the bigger ego would be seen as a plus.
Perhaps you meant confidence?
Posted by NoaddicPosted by Jade_Alexander
I wouldn’t want either
Humility is an attractive quality
The intelligent one has the humility but the dumber one has that animalistic, exciting side.click to expand
Animalistic? This just keeps getting better and better.
Hard pass.
I like big egos.
I do not like shallow.
I do not like shallow.
Idgaf.. as long as he loves and treats me and my family right.. then.. it's us against the world.
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by Noaddic
Choose a man that is a bit dumb / shallow over an intelligent man because the 1st man has a bigger ego?
No. Big ego is as equally unattractive as being "a bit dumb" and shallow. Lol, not sure how the bigger ego would be seen as a plus.
Perhaps you meant confidence?click to expand
Nah, not even confidence really. I asked because I am confident as a selfless and humble person, but I see that girls my age, no matter how intelligent, seem to feel better with the guys who I believe have 'big egos'. Thing is that big egos and confidence go together naturally though. That's why I asked too.
Also it depends on what you mean by dumb and shallow. My definition and yours might be different..
Posted by Yodi
Idgaf.. as long as he loves and treats me and my family right.. then.. it's us against the world.
Shallow will not work in my clan.
But, he will need a big ego or be eaten alive.
Posted by NoaddicPosted by PhoenixRisingPosted by Noaddic
Choose a man that is a bit dumb / shallow over an intelligent man because the 1st man has a bigger ego?
No. Big ego is as equally unattractive as being "a bit dumb" and shallow. Lol, not sure how the bigger ego would be seen as a plus.
Perhaps you meant confidence?
Nah, not even confidence really. I asked because I am confident as a selfless and humble person, but I see that girls my age, no matter how intelligent, seem to feel better with the guys who I believe have 'big egos'. Thing is that big egos and confidence go together fundamatally though.click to expand
Feel better? As in being taken care of? Protected? Or fun and exciting? Just trying to better understand.
If it's the fun and exciting piece, trust soon that will get old if the guy borderlines on arrogant and selfish. As well, as you get older the "world" and your option of woman that appreciates selfless and humble men expands tremendously and that's without the internet.
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by Yodi
Idgaf.. as long as he loves and treats me and my family right.. then.. it's us against the world.
Shallow will not work in my clan.
But, he will need a big ego or be eaten alive.click to expand
Fair enough lol..
But i don't mind it to be honest.. I guess it depends on the person.
For example.. my ex is a label whore. He will not wear anything without a label on it unless it's for work. To me that makes him shallow but he doesn't treat ppl differently or look down at them.
Meh.
Posted by Noaddic
Choose a man that is a bit dumb / shallow over an intelligent man because the 1st man has a bigger ego?
Nope be too boring 😄
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