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Posted by FUCKTHISLIFEPosted by nanochipPosted by FUCKTHISLIFEPosted by nanochipu def empty and im not interessed fr, but it's ok tho lolPosted by FUCKTHISLIFEâdoing a thread antimale while u earn good money..âPosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by nanochipPosted by FUCKTHISLIFE
yo nano, i be honest u need to change location and get back to the city or near nature, money doesnt make u happy plus as a dev myself, i think coding is garbage because u becoming an angry femcell who hates man for wtv reason,
Speak for yourself. Money does buy happiness to a certain extent. Personally I am a lot happier with money than I am without money. Buying things make me happy. Travel makes me happy. Not having to check my bank account to make sure there is enough money makes me happy. And I donât even code đ
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Money makes me happy too. I think I'll take money over women anyday to be honest with you. Not that I'm a woman hater I just love my money more. Money and women come hand in hand. Women don't want no broke man. Dude must be don't like money or something. A username with a catchphrase like "FUCKTHISLIFE" might be pretty obvious he feel that way about money too..."FUCKTHISMONEY".
Of course I'm just saying. I'm not trying to instigate anything.
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I'm a middle class and i earn good money, but peace of mind is real happiness. doing a thread antimale while u earn good money, it's just pretty cringe and a cry for help, but its just my opinion. like u said i shouldnt instigate anything
What do those two things have to do with each other exactly?
Youâre defaulting to the predicable âfemcelâ argument and saying I need dating coaching and calling me empty and this and that. But. You are wrong. You are way off with your assumptions. Iâm quite literally in the best relationship Iâve been in for a long time so all of these things you are saying about me is not my reality
Read the post and read the thread. You said you didnât read the thread, it was too long. Maybe do take the time to read it so you can know what youâre talking about.
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You are interested because youâre still here, youâve been in this thread more than almost anyone else.
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i'm not interessed by you and your life, its the other people i'm interessed. thats why my answer are short with u xd ?click to expand
For someone whoâs supposedly not interested in my life, you sure made a lot of assumptions about it. Which were wrong.
Only goofs weigh in on threads they donât bother reading
Posted by Walk_on_byPosted by nanochip
@Yunker @walk_on_by
Marriage for citizenship is valid
Get some hobbies.click to expand
What if I said dxp was my hobby
Posted by nanochipPosted by UndinePosted by nanochipPosted by Undine
For men, marriage has clear HEALTH BENEFITS, since married men live in average LONGER than unmarried ones! This is not the case for women.
For women, marriage may have financial benefits when there are children to raise, but only with men that are stable and responsible (aka have skills that guarantee a good income and future promotions, save money without being stingy, spend little on clothes and gadgets for themself, and have no costly hobbies or addictions).
For both, living together saves costs (bills and possibly taxes). Like Saturn, marriage may bring stability to those with impulsive tendencies, keeping them in place when they would otherwise run for the hills at the first hurdle.
Yea I didnât even get into lifespan of married couples vs not, good point.
The financials of having a child(ren) makes total sense, and splitting cost within the marriage too. But what about when it ends? Marriage makes sense from a family perspective, but people desire children less now, and statistically itâs still going to likely end in divorce regardless.
I am a childless woman who is financially independent and doesn't care about traditions, religion, what other people think, etc. Yet I married twice (first time a few days after my college degree; second time, a few days ago).
Apart from finding love and a compatible man, I believe there has to be at least another good reason for a woman like me to get hitched!
First time, I wouldn't have gained permission to live and work in his country, if we just "lived together". When I eventually got a job, I earned more than him. Second time around, I married a man who earns more than me, has accumulated wealth and is now buying an expensive home (of my choice) mortgage-free. I couldn't have afforded such a home on my own, and being married makes gives me 50% ownership, without having spent a penny.
May I ask how marriage determines you get 50% ownership no matter what? Is it a law in the country? And if so, what country? Was there a prenup involved?click to expand
No prenup. We are in the UK.
I checked and it says that "if you have been living in the property since the inception of your marriage, the property is legally yours even if your name is not on the title register. If you purchased the property after you were married, that property is generally considered to belong to both of you by law."
Posted by dragonh0rsecvckPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by dragonh0rsecvckPosted by nanochipPosted by dragonh0rsecvckPosted by nanochipwhat I see happening among local young moms (usually unmarried to the dad) is that they'd rather beg on GoFundMe than dare inconvenience the dad with a child support summons. that's why I'm glad to see anytime women take that risk of displeasing him and take him to court- I don't wanna pay for that kid, I have no sperm. my Pisces ex was never taken to court by his Taurus bm but he willingly gave her a $ 2.5k/month allowance in efforts to buy her love (not that much all the time, but a lot). then he'd complain to me about it and I figured he should just go through the court because they'd ask for less of him, but he likes being a martyr so win-win. their son is 20 now but she still gets that allowance. she's also 2 years older than him, unfaithful, a 6 and has Leo moon. I mean its maddening but slay
If the system does ever work out in the women's favor (very rare), who is to stop men from threatening and bullying behind the scenes to get their way?
I think the Pisces ex was wildly generous. Itâs basically unheard of that a man would support a woman this way consistently of his own volition outside of a legal system, even if she had his kids. How was he otherwise?
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Sexy, extreme conspiracy theorist, flat earther, anti-vaxxer, emotionally/sexually abusive tendencies (fairly mild on the physical end). He forced that Taurus to have 2 abortions when they were in their teens causing serious reproductive issues for her. Great worker and friend, but im sure many would call him a âbad guyâ. Horrible temper but mines similar. Functioning substance abuser except his livers shot, along with his kidneys and prostate lol. I love his ass. But to further illustrate his abusive tendenciesâ his son wonât talk to him and hasnât for 2+ years. He admitted to using physical force on his son as punishment. This Pisces has Pisces Mercury, Aqua Venus and Scorpio Mars. He hooks up with barely legals and besides me, the only other girl besides his bm who he was exclusive with was a disadvantaged Gemini 14 years younger than him
I really do love his ass but heâs a complex person
Wow
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Whereâs his moon?
Either Aries or Pisces. I lean toward Aries. He doesnât have his birth time nor would he tell me a general idea lolclick to expand
I found out my double Pisces might actually be a Pisces/Aries moon đ© they donât give birth times in Australia. And on the Aries cusp too. So youâre still involved with him??
Marriage is pretty good financially if you're on a median wage. Two people put their wage together and save some money + both have some inheritance they can get a mortgage faster and get into their own home, then they're both not paying rent they are paying mortgage. The value of their property is also increasing. Ofc you don't have to get married to do that, but this is what young married couples have done and some of them even own two houses now which is pretty slick. There's no way ether of those couples would own even one house by themselves. The advantage is getting onto the property ladder sooner and then you're golden and can easily get a mortgage on a second house.
This is a pretty normal thing. Its a financial advantage for both sides. It sucks the economy is rigged and an average wage can't do that on their own when they should be able to, but that's just reality.
This is a pretty normal thing. Its a financial advantage for both sides. It sucks the economy is rigged and an average wage can't do that on their own when they should be able to, but that's just reality.
Posted by nanochipPosted by Walk_on_byPosted by nanochipGet some hobbies.
@Yunker @walk_on_by
Marriage for citizenship is valid
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What if I said dxp was my hobbyclick to expand
You and me both
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Marriage is pretty good financially if you're on a median wage. Two people put their wage together and save some money + both have some inheritance they can get a mortgage faster and get into their own home, then they're both not paying rent they are paying mortgage. The value of their property is also increasing. Ofc you don't have to get married to do that, but this is what young married couples have done and some of them even own two houses now which is pretty slick. There's no way ether of those couples would own even one house by themselves. The advantage is getting onto the property ladder sooner and then you're golden and can easily get a mortgage on a second house.
This is a pretty normal thing. Its a financial advantage for both sides. It sucks the economy is rigged and an average wage can't do that on their own when they should be able to, but that's just reality.
Since I live in the poors country
Iâve never seen a woman in my building that didnât live there with a man as the actual owner
Oh wait our last libra miss universe is here on her own and another Taurus former sexy actress so pretty much just Venusian ladies and a bunch of old men in my building
Posted by BasicPosted by Walk_on_by
Marriage is pretty good financially if you're on a median wage. Two people put their wage together and save some money + both have some inheritance they can get a mortgage faster and get into their own home, then they're both not paying rent they are paying mortgage. The value of their property is also increasing. Ofc you don't have to get married to do that, but this is what young married couples have done and some of them even own two houses now which is pretty slick. There's no way ether of those couples would own even one house by themselves. The advantage is getting onto the property ladder sooner and then you're golden and can easily get a mortgage on a second house.
This is a pretty normal thing. Its a financial advantage for both sides. It sucks the economy is rigged and an average wage can't do that on their own when they should be able to, but that's just reality.
Since I live in the poors country
Iâve never seen a woman in my building that didnât live there with a man as the actual owner
Oh wait our last libra miss universe is here on her own and another Taurus former sexy actress so pretty much just Venusian ladies and a bunch of old men in my buildingclick to expand
Does the sexy Taurus woman want a passport bro to do her dishes?
Posted by dragonh0rsecvckPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by dragonh0rsecvckPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by dragonh0rsecvckPosted by nanochipPosted by dragonh0rsecvckPosted by nanochipwhat I see happening among local young moms (usually unmarried to the dad) is that they'd rather beg on GoFundMe than dare inconvenience the dad with a child support summons. that's why I'm glad to see anytime women take that risk of displeasing him and take him to court- I don't wanna pay for that kid, I have no sperm. my Pisces ex was never taken to court by his Taurus bm but he willingly gave her a $ 2.5k/month allowance in efforts to buy her love (not that much all the time, but a lot). then he'd complain to me about it and I figured he should just go through the court because they'd ask for less of him, but he likes being a martyr so win-win. their son is 20 now but she still gets that allowance. she's also 2 years older than him, unfaithful, a 6 and has Leo moon. I mean its maddening but slay
If the system does ever work out in the women's favor (very rare), who is to stop men from threatening and bullying behind the scenes to get their way?
I think the Pisces ex was wildly generous. Itâs basically unheard of that a man would support a woman this way consistently of his own volition outside of a legal system, even if she had his kids. How was he otherwise?
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Sexy, extreme conspiracy theorist, flat earther, anti-vaxxer, emotionally/sexually abusive tendencies (fairly mild on the physical end). He forced that Taurus to have 2 abortions when they were in their teens causing serious reproductive issues for her. Great worker and friend, but im sure many would call him a âbad guyâ. Horrible temper but mines similar. Functioning substance abuser except his livers shot, along with his kidneys and prostate lol. I love his ass. But to further illustrate his abusive tendenciesâ his son wonât talk to him and hasnât for 2+ years. He admitted to using physical force on his son as punishment. This Pisces has Pisces Mercury, Aqua Venus and Scorpio Mars. He hooks up with barely legals and besides me, the only other girl besides his bm who he was exclusive with was a disadvantaged Gemini 14 years younger than him
I really do love his ass but heâs a complex person
Wow
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Whereâs his moon?
Either Aries or Pisces. I lean toward Aries. He doesnât have his birth time nor would he tell me a general idea lol
How long were you with him?
He only officially âclaimsâ me for a few days at a time before getting mad about something. But safe to say we would mutually count the year between June 2021-22 as being together, then 6 months in 2016. We almost bought a house together but itâs hard to answer that question since Iâm his doormat and whether he loves me and wants a future with me or not depends on the dayclick to expand
Youâre not still with him?
Posted by EggrollPosted by Walk_on_by
Marriage is pretty good financially if you're on a median wage. Two people put their wage together and save some money + both have some inheritance they can get a mortgage faster and get into their own home, then they're both not paying rent they are paying mortgage. The value of their property is also increasing. Ofc you don't have to get married to do that, but this is what young married couples have done and some of them even own two houses now which is pretty slick. There's no way ether of those couples would own even one house by themselves. The advantage is getting onto the property ladder sooner and then you're golden and can easily get a mortgage on a second house.
This is a pretty normal thing. Its a financial advantage for both sides. It sucks the economy is rigged and an average wage can't do that on their own when they should be able to, but that's just reality.
You can split bills with a roommate/housemate too. Entering into a legally binding contract just so I can have a better deal on the internet bill seems outrageous lol.click to expand
I've heard that sometimes people like each other so much that they get feelings and want to be with them all the time. Idk though seems sus to me.
Posted by Walk_on_byPosted by BasicPosted by Walk_on_by
Marriage is pretty good financially if you're on a median wage. Two people put their wage together and save some money + both have some inheritance they can get a mortgage faster and get into their own home, then they're both not paying rent they are paying mortgage. The value of their property is also increasing. Ofc you don't have to get married to do that, but this is what young married couples have done and some of them even own two houses now which is pretty slick. There's no way ether of those couples would own even one house by themselves. The advantage is getting onto the property ladder sooner and then you're golden and can easily get a mortgage on a second house.
This is a pretty normal thing. Its a financial advantage for both sides. It sucks the economy is rigged and an average wage can't do that on their own when they should be able to, but that's just reality.
Since I live in the poors country
Iâve never seen a woman in my building that didnât live there with a man as the actual owner
Oh wait our last libra miss universe is here on her own and another Taurus former sexy actress so pretty much just Venusian ladies and a bunch of old men in my building
Does the sexy Taurus woman want a passport bro to do her dishes?click to expand
Sheâs old now at 43 nasolabial folds and chunky but I saw her a decade ago when we were both sitting front side at King of the Cage fights and she was smoking in person
Also she goes to Dubai to get shit in by sheiks⊠đ€
Posted by dragonh0rsecvckPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by dragonh0rsecvckPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by dragonh0rsecvckPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by dragonh0rsecvckPosted by nanochipPosted by dragonh0rsecvckPosted by nanochipwhat I see happening among local young moms (usually unmarried to the dad) is that they'd rather beg on GoFundMe than dare inconvenience the dad with a child support summons. that's why I'm glad to see anytime women take that risk of displeasing him and take him to court- I don't wanna pay for that kid, I have no sperm. my Pisces ex was never taken to court by his Taurus bm but he willingly gave her a $ 2.5k/month allowance in efforts to buy her love (not that much all the time, but a lot). then he'd complain to me about it and I figured he should just go through the court because they'd ask for less of him, but he likes being a martyr so win-win. their son is 20 now but she still gets that allowance. she's also 2 years older than him, unfaithful, a 6 and has Leo moon. I mean its maddening but slay
If the system does ever work out in the women's favor (very rare), who is to stop men from threatening and bullying behind the scenes to get their way?
I think the Pisces ex was wildly generous. Itâs basically unheard of that a man would support a woman this way consistently of his own volition outside of a legal system, even if she had his kids. How was he otherwise?
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Sexy, extreme conspiracy theorist, flat earther, anti-vaxxer, emotionally/sexually abusive tendencies (fairly mild on the physical end). He forced that Taurus to have 2 abortions when they were in their teens causing serious reproductive issues for her. Great worker and friend, but im sure many would call him a âbad guyâ. Horrible temper but mines similar. Functioning substance abuser except his livers shot, along with his kidneys and prostate lol. I love his ass. But to further illustrate his abusive tendenciesâ his son wonât talk to him and hasnât for 2+ years. He admitted to using physical force on his son as punishment. This Pisces has Pisces Mercury, Aqua Venus and Scorpio Mars. He hooks up with barely legals and besides me, the only other girl besides his bm who he was exclusive with was a disadvantaged Gemini 14 years younger than him
I really do love his ass but heâs a complex person
Wow
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Whereâs his moon?
Either Aries or Pisces. I lean toward Aries. He doesnât have his birth time nor would he tell me a general idea lol
How long were you with him?
He only officially âclaimsâ me for a few days at a time before getting mad about something. But safe to say we would mutually count the year between June 2021-22 as being together, then 6 months in 2016. We almost bought a house together but itâs hard to answer that question since Iâm his doormat and whether he loves me and wants a future with me or not depends on the day
Youâre not still with him?
I answered this a bit more in a response to nano. Havenât seen him in a year- I dated Cap in that time while he reconciled with Taurus, now caps left me and Taurus cheated on him and he has stated intentions to see me, but I think both of us are also trying to make those other failed relationships work. Iâm just here waiting lol. But as long as Iâm single if Pisces is too drunk to make it home and needs my house as a safe crash spot thatâs always open to himclick to expand
Wow youâre a Saint đ
Are you a water sign too?
Posted by BasicPosted by Walk_on_byPosted by BasicPosted by Walk_on_by
Marriage is pretty good financially if you're on a median wage. Two people put their wage together and save some money + both have some inheritance they can get a mortgage faster and get into their own home, then they're both not paying rent they are paying mortgage. The value of their property is also increasing. Ofc you don't have to get married to do that, but this is what young married couples have done and some of them even own two houses now which is pretty slick. There's no way ether of those couples would own even one house by themselves. The advantage is getting onto the property ladder sooner and then you're golden and can easily get a mortgage on a second house.
This is a pretty normal thing. Its a financial advantage for both sides. It sucks the economy is rigged and an average wage can't do that on their own when they should be able to, but that's just reality.
Since I live in the poors country
Iâve never seen a woman in my building that didnât live there with a man as the actual owner
Oh wait our last libra miss universe is here on her own and another Taurus former sexy actress so pretty much just Venusian ladies and a bunch of old men in my building
Does the sexy Taurus woman want a passport bro to do her dishes?
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Sheâs old now at 43 nasolabial folds and chunky but I saw her a decade ago when we were both sitting front side at King of the Cage fights and she was smoking in person
Also she goes to Dubai to get shit in by sheiks⊠đ€click to expand
Always check a womans passport for Dubai
Posted by Walk_on_by
Marriage is pretty good financially if you're on a median wage. Two people put their wage together and save some money + both have some inheritance they can get a mortgage faster and get into their own home, then they're both not paying rent they are paying mortgage. The value of their property is also increasing. Ofc you don't have to get married to do that, but this is what young married couples have done and some of them even own two houses now which is pretty slick. There's no way ether of those couples would own even one house by themselves. The advantage is getting onto the property ladder sooner and then you're golden and can easily get a mortgage on a second house.
This is a pretty normal thing. Its a financial advantage for both sides. It sucks the economy is rigged and an average wage can't do that on their own when they should be able to, but that's just reality.
In the US, assets are not split 50/50 but split âequitablyâ, as decided by the court. Well weâve all seen both sides how that can go. I see financial benefit during, but after is a wild card. And usually favors men because they like to put everything in their name, which becomes a determinant it seems. In all my dads marriages, itâs the one common factor. Houses, cars, all in his name. He ended up spending all his retirement on women, itâs gone. But in the divorces, heâs always in a much better spot. One of them ended up with no place to live and not even a car to drive to workâŠâŠâŠ
Posted by UndinePosted by nanochipPosted by UndinePosted by nanochipPosted by UndineYea I didnât even get into lifespan of married couples vs not, good point.
For men, marriage has clear HEALTH BENEFITS, since married men live in average LONGER than unmarried ones! This is not the case for women.
For women, marriage may have financial benefits when there are children to raise, but only with men that are stable and responsible (aka have skills that guarantee a good income and future promotions, save money without being stingy, spend little on clothes and gadgets for themself, and have no costly hobbies or addictions).
For both, living together saves costs (bills and possibly taxes). Like Saturn, marriage may bring stability to those with impulsive tendencies, keeping them in place when they would otherwise run for the hills at the first hurdle.
The financials of having a child(ren) makes total sense, and splitting cost within the marriage too. But what about when it ends? Marriage makes sense from a family perspective, but people desire children less now, and statistically itâs still going to likely end in divorce regardless.
I am a childless woman who is financially independent and doesn't care about traditions, religion, what other people think, etc. Yet I married twice (first time a few days after my college degree; second time, a few days ago).
Apart from finding love and a compatible man, I believe there has to be at least another good reason for a woman like me to get hitched!
First time, I wouldn't have gained permission to live and work in his country, if we just "lived together". When I eventually got a job, I earned more than him. Second time around, I married a man who earns more than me, has accumulated wealth and is now buying an expensive home (of my choice) mortgage-free. I couldn't have afforded such a home on my own, and being married makes gives me 50% ownership, without having spent a penny.
May I ask how marriage determines you get 50% ownership no matter what? Is it a law in the country? And if so, what country? Was there a prenup involved?
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No prenup. We are in the UK.
I checked and it says that "if you have been living in the property since the inception of your marriage, the property is legally yours even if your name is not on the title register. If you purchased the property after you were married, that property is generally considered to belong to both of you by law."click to expand
I hope the UK is less biased than courts in the US in determining âequitableâ ownership. Not that I am saying youâre getting divorced! The loopholes for these kinds of things is just insane and usually boils down to who has the better lawyer to manipulate words and semantics of the laws.
Posted by dragonh0rsecvckPosted by nanochipPosted by dragonh0rsecvckPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by dragonh0rsecvckWowPosted by nanochipSexy, extreme conspiracy theorist, flat earther, anti-vaxxer, emotionally/sexually abusive tendencies (fairly mild on the physical end). He forced that Taurus to have 2 abortions when they were in their teens causing serious reproductive issues for her. Great worker and friend, but im sure many would call him a âbad guyâ. Horrible temper but mines similar. Functioning substance abuser except his livers shot, along with his kidneys and prostate lol. I love his ass. But to further illustrate his abusive tendenciesâ his son wonât talk to him and hasnât for 2+ years. He admitted to using physical force on his son as punishment. This Pisces has Pisces Mercury, Aqua Venus and Scorpio Mars. He hooks up with barely legals and besides me, the only other girl besides his bm who he was exclusive with was a disadvantaged Gemini 14 years younger than himPosted by dragonh0rsecvckI think the Pisces ex was wildly generous. Itâs basically unheard of that a man would support a woman this way consistently of his own volition outside of a legal system, even if she had his kids. How was he otherwise?Posted by nanochip
If the system does ever work out in the women's favor (very rare), who is to stop men from threatening and bullying behind the scenes to get their way?
what I see happening among local young moms (usually unmarried to the dad) is that they'd rather beg on GoFundMe than dare inconvenience the dad with a child support summons. that's why I'm glad to see anytime women take that risk of displeasing him and take him to court- I don't wanna pay for that kid, I have no sperm. my Pisces ex was never taken to court by his Taurus bm but he willingly gave her a $ 2.5k/month allowance in efforts to buy her love (not that much all the time, but a lot). then he'd complain to me about it and I figured he should just go through the court because they'd ask for less of him, but he likes being a martyr so win-win. their son is 20 now but she still gets that allowance. she's also 2 years older than him, unfaithful, a 6 and has Leo moon. I mean its maddening but slay
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I really do love his ass but heâs a complex person
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Whereâs his moon?
Either Aries or Pisces. I lean toward Aries. He doesnât have his birth time nor would he tell me a general idea lol
I found out my double Pisces might actually be a Pisces/Aries moon đ© they donât give birth times in Australia. And on the Aries cusp too. So youâre still involved with him??
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Havenât been for a year and havenât even seen him in that much time. He says he wants to meet up but I probably have to wait for the Taurus woman to get on worse terms with him -.- it sucks being left on standby anyway bc then I try to develop connections with others, always a process man. As has been said in this thread, moneys better than partners. If it makes you feel better Iâm sure we donât attract the same type of people (x you are openly strong and confident to the degree that I imagine some similar impression is made in person. I give off âshy victimâ and thatâs why I get these specific fellas. Your Pisces is probably cool if you havenât seen red flags yetclick to expand
Yea I think youâre wasting time with this one. Thereâs too many red flags, but I get the appeal of complicated. I had one of those around for a couple years and itâs hard to let go of them. He didnât treat me so well either.
You might be surprised to hear my guy is more traditional when it comes to these types of views. Like how did we ever manage to make this work? Lmao. I donât think itâs even confidence so much as those rigid boundaries I described in your thread a few days ago. I took the opposite end of that trauma spectrum which has a lot of downsides itself
Posted by nanochipPosted by UndinePosted by nanochipI am a childless woman who is financially independent and doesn't care about traditions, religion, what other people think, etc. Yet I married twice (first time a few days after my college degree; second time, a few days ago).Posted by UndineYea I didnât even get into lifespan of married couples vs not, good point.
For men, marriage has clear HEALTH BENEFITS, since married men live in average LONGER than unmarried ones! This is not the case for women.
For women, marriage may have financial benefits when there are children to raise, but only with men that are stable and responsible (aka have skills that guarantee a good income and future promotions, save money without being stingy, spend little on clothes and gadgets for themself, and have no costly hobbies or addictions).
For both, living together saves costs (bills and possibly taxes). Like Saturn, marriage may bring stability to those with impulsive tendencies, keeping them in place when they would otherwise run for the hills at the first hurdle.
The financials of having a child(ren) makes total sense, and splitting cost within the marriage too. But what about when it ends? Marriage makes sense from a family perspective, but people desire children less now, and statistically itâs still going to likely end in divorce regardless.
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Apart from finding love and a compatible man, I believe there has to be at least another good reason for a woman like me to get hitched!
First time, I wouldn't have gained permission to live and work in his country, if we just "lived together". When I eventually got a job, I earned more than him. Second time around, I married a man who earns more than me, has accumulated wealth and is now buying an expensive home (of my choice) mortgage-free. I couldn't have afforded such a home on my own, and being married makes gives me 50% ownership, without having spent a penny.
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Well I have thought about it too, how getting married makes it easier for some things, such as citizenship. Living and working in another country. From what I can tell though, many countries have visas for âhigh skilled workersâ (Iâm talking about Australia specifically) which would eliminate the need for marriage for those reasons. I donât fully understand it or have researched it yet because Iâm not ready for that right now. As a person who wants to move abroad and does date abroad as well, I have done my due diligence to see it as a possibility. It feels bad to marry for the citizenship but for many it is nearly impossible to obtain otherwiseclick to expand
That country made it difficult for Auslanders to come and work there. Even married to a local, there were plenty of hoops to jumps through! I eventually left for the UK.
Now that you mentioned Australia, I am a high skilled worker, unlike my ex husband. His dream was to live in Australia, and I could have easily got us there. He tried, but couldn't persuade me.
Perhaps he married me for a visa, lol?
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Marriage is pretty good financially if you're on a median wage. Two people put their wage together and save some money + both have some inheritance they can get a mortgage faster and get into their own home, then they're both not paying rent they are paying mortgage. The value of their property is also increasing. Ofc you don't have to get married to do that, but this is what young married couples have done and some of them even own two houses now which is pretty slick. There's no way ether of those couples would own even one house by themselves. The advantage is getting onto the property ladder sooner and then you're golden and can easily get a mortgage on a second house.
This is a pretty normal thing. Its a financial advantage for both sides. It sucks the economy is rigged and an average wage can't do that on their own when they should be able to, but that's just reality.
Since I live in the poors country
Iâve never seen a woman in my building that didnât live there with a man as the actual owner
Oh wait our last libra miss universe is here on her own and another Taurus former sexy actress so pretty much just Venusian ladies and a bunch of old men in my building
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Does the sexy Taurus woman want a passport bro to do her dishes?click to expand
You can come do my dishes. Itâs my least favorite chore. I have a spare bedroom. Just donât speak in the morning, it annoys me đ€đ» But since you have the Aussie type accent probably, who knows, it might be ok.
Posted by FUCKTHISLIFEPosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by nanochipMoney makes me happy too. I think I'll take money over women anyday to be honest with you. Not that I'm a woman hater I just love my money more. Money and women come hand in hand. Women don't want no broke man. Dude must be don't like money or something. A username with a catchphrase like "FUCKTHISLIFE" might be pretty obvious he feel that way about money too..."FUCKTHISMONEY".Posted by FUCKTHISLIFE
yo nano, i be honest u need to change location and get back to the city or near nature, money doesnt make u happy plus as a dev myself, i think coding is garbage because u becoming an angry femcell who hates man for wtv reason,
Speak for yourself. Money does buy happiness to a certain extent. Personally I am a lot happier with money than I am without money. Buying things make me happy. Travel makes me happy. Not having to check my bank account to make sure there is enough money makes me happy. And I donât even code đ
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Of course I'm just saying. I'm not trying to instigate anything.
I'm a middle class and i earn good money, but peace of mind is real happiness. doing a thread antimale while u earn good money, it's just pretty cringe and a cry for help, but its just my opinion. like u said i shouldnt instigate anything
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Middle class and earn big money? Well damn. Let me hold something. You sound big time.
Posted by UndinePosted by nanochipPosted by UndinePosted by nanochipI am a childless woman who is financially independent and doesn't care about traditions, religion, what other people think, etc. Yet I married twice (first time a few days after my college degree; second time, a few days ago).Posted by UndineYea I didnât even get into lifespan of married couples vs not, good point.
For men, marriage has clear HEALTH BENEFITS, since married men live in average LONGER than unmarried ones! This is not the case for women.
For women, marriage may have financial benefits when there are children to raise, but only with men that are stable and responsible (aka have skills that guarantee a good income and future promotions, save money without being stingy, spend little on clothes and gadgets for themself, and have no costly hobbies or addictions).
For both, living together saves costs (bills and possibly taxes). Like Saturn, marriage may bring stability to those with impulsive tendencies, keeping them in place when they would otherwise run for the hills at the first hurdle.
The financials of having a child(ren) makes total sense, and splitting cost within the marriage too. But what about when it ends? Marriage makes sense from a family perspective, but people desire children less now, and statistically itâs still going to likely end in divorce regardless.
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Apart from finding love and a compatible man, I believe there has to be at least another good reason for a woman like me to get hitched!
First time, I wouldn't have gained permission to live and work in his country, if we just "lived together". When I eventually got a job, I earned more than him. Second time around, I married a man who earns more than me, has accumulated wealth and is now buying an expensive home (of my choice) mortgage-free. I couldn't have afforded such a home on my own, and being married makes gives me 50% ownership, without having spent a penny.
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Well I have thought about it too, how getting married makes it easier for some things, such as citizenship. Living and working in another country. From what I can tell though, many countries have visas for âhigh skilled workersâ (Iâm talking about Australia specifically) which would eliminate the need for marriage for those reasons. I donât fully understand it or have researched it yet because Iâm not ready for that right now. As a person who wants to move abroad and does date abroad as well, I have done my due diligence to see it as a possibility. It feels bad to marry for the citizenship but for many it is nearly impossible to obtain otherwise
That country made it difficult for Auslanders to come and work there. Even married to a local, there were plenty of hoops to jumps through! I eventually left for the UK.
Now that you mentioned Australia, I am a high skilled worker, unlike my ex husband. His dream was to live in Australia, and I could have easily got us there. He tried, but couldn't persuade me.
Perhaps he married me for a visa, lol?click to expand
I havenât seen such visas offered anywhere else before. Itâs just a visa you apply for rather than a job sponsorship which I found interesting.
Marriage is still probably easier, quicker, less expensive
What was it about Australia that didnât appeal to you?
Posted by nanochipPosted by Walk_on_by
Marriage is pretty good financially if you're on a median wage. Two people put their wage together and save some money + both have some inheritance they can get a mortgage faster and get into their own home, then they're both not paying rent they are paying mortgage. The value of their property is also increasing. Ofc you don't have to get married to do that, but this is what young married couples have done and some of them even own two houses now which is pretty slick. There's no way ether of those couples would own even one house by themselves. The advantage is getting onto the property ladder sooner and then you're golden and can easily get a mortgage on a second house.
This is a pretty normal thing. Its a financial advantage for both sides. It sucks the economy is rigged and an average wage can't do that on their own when they should be able to, but that's just reality.
In the US, assets are not split 50/50 but split âequitablyâ, as decided by the court. Well weâve all seen both sides how that can go. I see financial benefit during, but after is a wild card. And usually favors men because they like to put everything in their name, which becomes a determinant it seems. In all my dads marriages, itâs the one common factor. Houses, cars, all in his name. He ended up spending all his retirement on women, itâs gone. But in the divorces, heâs always in a much better spot. One of them ended up with no place to live and not even a car to drive to workâŠâŠâŠclick to expand
I don't care about your dad.
Say you live in NZs biggest city, and got married in 2012 and bought a house that year with some small down payment like $ 45,000, you're a brick layer and a nurse both 22 years old and your house costs 450k. You get divorced 10 years later and its a clean split because pre nups. House sells for 1.3 million. You've already paid a 3rd of your mortgage off and you both get 650k, you pay the remaining mortgage off and move to another city to buy a cheaper house or buy a baller house and another mortgage. Or even better, you stay together because you've got a family and you still love each other and life's good you made it through your Saturn return, buy a 2 nice houses in another city, have tenants in one passive income, live in your own house. You could even get another mortgage and buy another house, maybe a batch and entirely pay it off with its own rent and it's rent from number 2. You have a bunch of time to raise the kids and mum quits nursing and focus's on the business side of the brick laying business while dad is running 3 crews of brick layers and you're turning over millions of dollars a year in that business now. This is what people do, all over the world. Brickys and nurses making bank together.
Posted by nanochipPosted by Walk_on_byPosted by BasicDoes the sexy Taurus woman want a passport bro to do her dishes?Posted by Walk_on_bySince I live in the poors country
Marriage is pretty good financially if you're on a median wage. Two people put their wage together and save some money + both have some inheritance they can get a mortgage faster and get into their own home, then they're both not paying rent they are paying mortgage. The value of their property is also increasing. Ofc you don't have to get married to do that, but this is what young married couples have done and some of them even own two houses now which is pretty slick. There's no way ether of those couples would own even one house by themselves. The advantage is getting onto the property ladder sooner and then you're golden and can easily get a mortgage on a second house.
This is a pretty normal thing. Its a financial advantage for both sides. It sucks the economy is rigged and an average wage can't do that on their own when they should be able to, but that's just reality.
Iâve never seen a woman in my building that didnât live there with a man as the actual owner
Oh wait our last libra miss universe is here on her own and another Taurus former sexy actress so pretty much just Venusian ladies and a bunch of old men in my building
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You can come do my dishes. Itâs my least favorite chore. I have a spare bedroom. Just donât speak in the morning, it annoys me đ€đ» But since you have the Aussie type accent probably, who knows, it might be ok.click to expand
You're dreamin
Posted by Walk_on_byPosted by nanochipPosted by Walk_on_by
Marriage is pretty good financially if you're on a median wage. Two people put their wage together and save some money + both have some inheritance they can get a mortgage faster and get into their own home, then they're both not paying rent they are paying mortgage. The value of their property is also increasing. Ofc you don't have to get married to do that, but this is what young married couples have done and some of them even own two houses now which is pretty slick. There's no way ether of those couples would own even one house by themselves. The advantage is getting onto the property ladder sooner and then you're golden and can easily get a mortgage on a second house.
This is a pretty normal thing. Its a financial advantage for both sides. It sucks the economy is rigged and an average wage can't do that on their own when they should be able to, but that's just reality.
In the US, assets are not split 50/50 but split âequitablyâ, as decided by the court. Well weâve all seen both sides how that can go. I see financial benefit during, but after is a wild card. And usually favors men because they like to put everything in their name, which becomes a determinant it seems. In all my dads marriages, itâs the one common factor. Houses, cars, all in his name. He ended up spending all his retirement on women, itâs gone. But in the divorces, heâs always in a much better spot. One of them ended up with no place to live and not even a car to drive to workâŠâŠâŠ
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I don't care about your dad.
Say you live in NZs biggest city, and got married in 2012 and bought a house that year with some small down payment like $ 45,000, you're a brick layer and a nurse both 22 years old and your house costs 450k. You get divorced 10 years later and its a clean split because pre nups. House sells for 1.3 million. You've already paid a 3rd of your mortgage off and you both get 650k, you pay the remaining mortgage off and move to another city to buy a cheaper house or buy a baller house and another mortgage. Or even better, you stay together because you've got a family and you still love each other and life's good you made it through your Saturn return, buy a 2 nice houses in another city, have tenants in one passive income, live in your own house. You could even get another mortgage and buy another house, maybe a batch and entirely pay it off with its own rent and it's rent from number 2. You have a bunch of time to raise the kids and mum quits nursing and focus's on the business side of the brick laying business while dad is running 3 crews of brick layers and you're turning over millions of dollars a year in that business now. This is what people do, all over the world. Brickys and nurses making bank together.click to expand
Sounds like youâve thought about this a lot. Are you a brick layer?
Posted by nanochipPosted by UndinePosted by nanochipPosted by UndinePosted by nanochipI am a childless woman who is financially independent and doesn't care about traditions, religion, what other people think, etc. Yet I married twice (first time a few days after my college degree; second time, a few days ago).Posted by UndineYea I didnât even get into lifespan of married couples vs not, good point.
For men, marriage has clear HEALTH BENEFITS, since married men live in average LONGER than unmarried ones! This is not the case for women.
For women, marriage may have financial benefits when there are children to raise, but only with men that are stable and responsible (aka have skills that guarantee a good income and future promotions, save money without being stingy, spend little on clothes and gadgets for themself, and have no costly hobbies or addictions).
For both, living together saves costs (bills and possibly taxes). Like Saturn, marriage may bring stability to those with impulsive tendencies, keeping them in place when they would otherwise run for the hills at the first hurdle.
The financials of having a child(ren) makes total sense, and splitting cost within the marriage too. But what about when it ends? Marriage makes sense from a family perspective, but people desire children less now, and statistically itâs still going to likely end in divorce regardless.
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Apart from finding love and a compatible man, I believe there has to be at least another good reason for a woman like me to get hitched!
First time, I wouldn't have gained permission to live and work in his country, if we just "lived together". When I eventually got a job, I earned more than him. Second time around, I married a man who earns more than me, has accumulated wealth and is now buying an expensive home (of my choice) mortgage-free. I couldn't have afforded such a home on my own, and being married makes gives me 50% ownership, without having spent a penny.
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Well I have thought about it too, how getting married makes it easier for some things, such as citizenship. Living and working in another country. From what I can tell though, many countries have visas for âhigh skilled workersâ (Iâm talking about Australia specifically) which would eliminate the need for marriage for those reasons. I donât fully understand it or have researched it yet because Iâm not ready for that right now. As a person who wants to move abroad and does date abroad as well, I have done my due diligence to see it as a possibility. It feels bad to marry for the citizenship but for many it is nearly impossible to obtain otherwise
That country made it difficult for Auslanders to come and work there. Even married to a local, there were plenty of hoops to jumps through! I eventually left for the UK.
Now that you mentioned Australia, I am a high skilled worker, unlike my ex husband. His dream was to live in Australia, and I could have easily got us there. He tried, but couldn't persuade me.
Perhaps he married me for a visa, lol?
I havenât seen such visas offered anywhere else before. Itâs just a visa you apply for rather than a job sponsorship which I found interesting.
Marriage is still probably easier, quicker, less expensive
What was it about Australia that didnât appeal to you?click to expand
That was long time ago... My ultimate destination used to be the US, simply because I believed it offered better prospects for a career in science. UK was a close second, and I eventually moved there.
Nowadays, things have changed and several of my UK colleagues are moving to Australia! Perhaps I would have done it myself if I had little reason to remain in the UK. One last adventure for this triple mutable....sigh, I'm tempted!
Posted by GeminiJimPosted by nanochipPosted by Walk_on_byIn the US, assets are not split 50/50 but split âequitablyâ, as decided by the court. Well weâve all seen both sides how that can go. I see financial benefit during, but after is a wild card. And usually favors men because they like to put everything in their name, which becomes a determinant it seems. In all my dads marriages, itâs the one common factor. Houses, cars, all in his name. He ended up spending all his retirement on women, itâs gone. But in the divorces, heâs always in a much better spot. One of them ended up with no place to live and not even a car to drive to workâŠâŠâŠ
Marriage is pretty good financially if you're on a median wage. Two people put their wage together and save some money + both have some inheritance they can get a mortgage faster and get into their own home, then they're both not paying rent they are paying mortgage. The value of their property is also increasing. Ofc you don't have to get married to do that, but this is what young married couples have done and some of them even own two houses now which is pretty slick. There's no way ether of those couples would own even one house by themselves. The advantage is getting onto the property ladder sooner and then you're golden and can easily get a mortgage on a second house.
This is a pretty normal thing. Its a financial advantage for both sides. It sucks the economy is rigged and an average wage can't do that on their own when they should be able to, but that's just reality.
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So that's why you see marriage as this like financial decision and not about love or anything mundane like that
I mean, it's supposed to be "US" not "ME"
Your whole approach is "what is the most beneficial thing for ME?" which is basically guaranteeing you end in divorce because you need trust, sacrifice and all these "together" things to make a marriage work longterm. As long as you are stuck in thinking "ME" then inevitably that will be the breakdown of the wholeclick to expand
If you are my age and not thinking about the financial ramifications of marriage and divorce, and just thinking about it from a love and forever and lala land perspective, then youâre probably going to end up like one of the women Iâm speaking about in the OP. Marriage being only about eternal love sounds really cute and all. For about 5 years or so.
Posted by UndinePosted by nanochipPosted by UndinePosted by nanochipPosted by UndineWell I have thought about it too, how getting married makes it easier for some things, such as citizenship. Living and working in another country. From what I can tell though, many countries have visas for âhigh skilled workersâ (Iâm talking about Australia specifically) which would eliminate the need for marriage for those reasons. I donât fully understand it or have researched it yet because Iâm not ready for that right now. As a person who wants to move abroad and does date abroad as well, I have done my due diligence to see it as a possibility. It feels bad to marry for the citizenship but for many it is nearly impossible to obtain otherwisePosted by nanochipPosted by Undine
For men, marriage has clear HEALTH BENEFITS, since married men live in average LONGER than unmarried ones! This is not the case for women.
For women, marriage may have financial benefits when there are children to raise, but only with men that are stable and responsible (aka have skills that guarantee a good income and future promotions, save money without being stingy, spend little on clothes and gadgets for themself, and have no costly hobbies or addictions).
For both, living together saves costs (bills and possibly taxes). Like Saturn, marriage may bring stability to those with impulsive tendencies, keeping them in place when they would otherwise run for the hills at the first hurdle.
Yea I didnât even get into lifespan of married couples vs not, good point.
The financials of having a child(ren) makes total sense, and splitting cost within the marriage too. But what about when it ends? Marriage makes sense from a family perspective, but people desire children less now, and statistically itâs still going to likely end in divorce regardless.
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I am a childless woman who is financially independent and doesn't care about traditions, religion, what other people think, etc. Yet I married twice (first time a few days after my college degree; second time, a few days ago).
Apart from finding love and a compatible man, I believe there has to be at least another good reason for a woman like me to get hitched!
First time, I wouldn't have gained permission to live and work in his country, if we just "lived together". When I eventually got a job, I earned more than him. Second time around, I married a man who earns more than me, has accumulated wealth and is now buying an expensive home (of my choice) mortgage-free. I couldn't have afforded such a home on my own, and being married makes gives me 50% ownership, without having spent a penny.
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That country made it difficult for Auslanders to come and work there. Even married to a local, there were plenty of hoops to jumps through! I eventually left for the UK.
Now that you mentioned Australia, I am a high skilled worker, unlike my ex husband. His dream was to live in Australia, and I could have easily got us there. He tried, but couldn't persuade me.
Perhaps he married me for a visa, lol?
I havenât seen such visas offered anywhere else before. Itâs just a visa you apply for rather than a job sponsorship which I found interesting.
Marriage is still probably easier, quicker, less expensive
What was it about Australia that didnât appeal to you?
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That was long time ago... My ultimate destination used to be the US, simply because I believed it offered better prospects for a career in science. UK was a close second, and I eventually moved there.
Nowadays, things have changed and several of my UK colleagues are moving to Australia! Perhaps I would have done it myself if I had little reason to remain in the UK. One last adventure for this triple mutable....sigh, I'm tempted!click to expand
Iâm going to scope it out myself in October. The Pisces aussie is in Brisbane and thinks Iâm in for a real treat. Heâs come to the US multiple times now and he is not impressed at all đ which does not surprise me. I am really done here myself, I have seen enough of what the world has to offer outside this country.
Posted by Walk_on_byPosted by nanochipPosted by Walk_on_byYou can come do my dishes. Itâs my least favorite chore. I have a spare bedroom. Just donât speak in the morning, it annoys me đ€đ» But since you have the Aussie type accent probably, who knows, it might be ok.Posted by BasicPosted by Walk_on_by
Marriage is pretty good financially if you're on a median wage. Two people put their wage together and save some money + both have some inheritance they can get a mortgage faster and get into their own home, then they're both not paying rent they are paying mortgage. The value of their property is also increasing. Ofc you don't have to get married to do that, but this is what young married couples have done and some of them even own two houses now which is pretty slick. There's no way ether of those couples would own even one house by themselves. The advantage is getting onto the property ladder sooner and then you're golden and can easily get a mortgage on a second house.
This is a pretty normal thing. Its a financial advantage for both sides. It sucks the economy is rigged and an average wage can't do that on their own when they should be able to, but that's just reality.
Since I live in the poors country
Iâve never seen a woman in my building that didnât live there with a man as the actual owner
Oh wait our last libra miss universe is here on her own and another Taurus former sexy actress so pretty much just Venusian ladies and a bunch of old men in my building
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Does the sexy Taurus woman want a passport bro to do her dishes?
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I am
Posted by nanochipPosted by UndinePosted by nanochipThat was long time ago... My ultimate destination used to be the US, simply because I believed it offered better prospects for a career in science. UK was a close second, and I eventually moved there.Posted by UndineI havenât seen such visas offered anywhere else before. Itâs just a visa you apply for rather than a job sponsorship which I found interesting.Posted by nanochipThat country made it difficult for Auslanders to come and work there. Even married to a local, there were plenty of hoops to jumps through! I eventually left for the UK.Posted by UndinePosted by nanochipPosted by Undine
For men, marriage has clear HEALTH BENEFITS, since married men live in average LONGER than unmarried ones! This is not the case for women.
For women, marriage may have financial benefits when there are children to raise, but only with men that are stable and responsible (aka have skills that guarantee a good income and future promotions, save money without being stingy, spend little on clothes and gadgets for themself, and have no costly hobbies or addictions).
For both, living together saves costs (bills and possibly taxes). Like Saturn, marriage may bring stability to those with impulsive tendencies, keeping them in place when they would otherwise run for the hills at the first hurdle.
Yea I didnât even get into lifespan of married couples vs not, good point.
The financials of having a child(ren) makes total sense, and splitting cost within the marriage too. But what about when it ends? Marriage makes sense from a family perspective, but people desire children less now, and statistically itâs still going to likely end in divorce regardless.
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I am a childless woman who is financially independent and doesn't care about traditions, religion, what other people think, etc. Yet I married twice (first time a few days after my college degree; second time, a few days ago).
Apart from finding love and a compatible man, I believe there has to be at least another good reason for a woman like me to get hitched!
First time, I wouldn't have gained permission to live and work in his country, if we just "lived together". When I eventually got a job, I earned more than him. Second time around, I married a man who earns more than me, has accumulated wealth and is now buying an expensive home (of my choice) mortgage-free. I couldn't have afforded such a home on my own, and being married makes gives me 50% ownership, without having spent a penny.
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Well I have thought about it too, how getting married makes it easier for some things, such as citizenship. Living and working in another country. From what I can tell though, many countries have visas for âhigh skilled workersâ (Iâm talking about Australia specifically) which would eliminate the need for marriage for those reasons. I donât fully understand it or have researched it yet because Iâm not ready for that right now. As a person who wants to move abroad and does date abroad as well, I have done my due diligence to see it as a possibility. It feels bad to marry for the citizenship but for many it is nearly impossible to obtain otherwise
Now that you mentioned Australia, I am a high skilled worker, unlike my ex husband. His dream was to live in Australia, and I could have easily got us there. He tried, but couldn't persuade me.
Perhaps he married me for a visa, lol?
Marriage is still probably easier, quicker, less expensive
What was it about Australia that didnât appeal to you?
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Nowadays, things have changed and several of my UK colleagues are moving to Australia! Perhaps I would have done it myself if I had little reason to remain in the UK. One last adventure for this triple mutable....sigh, I'm tempted!
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Iâm going to scope it out myself in October. The Pisces aussie is in Brisbane and thinks Iâm in for a real treat. Heâs come to the US multiple times now and he is not impressed at all đ which does not surprise me. I am really done here myself, I have seen enough of what the world has to offer outside this country.click to expand
You go, girl!
Good luck with the double Pisces too. Gemini-Pisces relationships are easygoing.
Marriage is a much better deal for men than women. Married men live longer than single men but single women live longer than married women. Marriage and children literally kill women earlier in life.
Posted by GeminiJimPosted by nanochipPosted by GeminiJimPosted by nanochipSo that's why you see marriage as this like financial decision and not about love or anything mundane like thatPosted by Walk_on_by
Marriage is pretty good financially if you're on a median wage. Two people put their wage together and save some money + both have some inheritance they can get a mortgage faster and get into their own home, then they're both not paying rent they are paying mortgage. The value of their property is also increasing. Ofc you don't have to get married to do that, but this is what young married couples have done and some of them even own two houses now which is pretty slick. There's no way ether of those couples would own even one house by themselves. The advantage is getting onto the property ladder sooner and then you're golden and can easily get a mortgage on a second house.
This is a pretty normal thing. Its a financial advantage for both sides. It sucks the economy is rigged and an average wage can't do that on their own when they should be able to, but that's just reality.
In the US, assets are not split 50/50 but split âequitablyâ, as decided by the court. Well weâve all seen both sides how that can go. I see financial benefit during, but after is a wild card. And usually favors men because they like to put everything in their name, which becomes a determinant it seems. In all my dads marriages, itâs the one common factor. Houses, cars, all in his name. He ended up spending all his retirement on women, itâs gone. But in the divorces, heâs always in a much better spot. One of them ended up with no place to live and not even a car to drive to workâŠâŠâŠ
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I mean, it's supposed to be "US" not "ME"
Your whole approach is "what is the most beneficial thing for ME?" which is basically guaranteeing you end in divorce because you need trust, sacrifice and all these "together" things to make a marriage work longterm. As long as you are stuck in thinking "ME" then inevitably that will be the breakdown of the whole
If you are my age and not thinking about the financial ramifications of marriage and divorce, and just thinking about it from a love and forever and lala land perspective, then youâre probably going to end up like one of the women Iâm speaking about in the OP. Marriage being only about eternal love sounds really cute and all. For about 5 years or so.
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Ha but then its a self-fulfilling prophecy. Marriage can end in divorce but if you go into it with this mindset it's like you're never fully committed. In which case no, there is no point getting marriedclick to expand
Realism over idealism
I havenât decided if I will or not. I always want to have human experiences while minimizing risk
Posted by saggurl88Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by saggurl88Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by saggurl88âI laughed at marriage and the benefit of a man getting sex, isnât that the number one thing married men complain about? Not getting it once they get marriedâ?
Itâs just a more committed long term relationship.
The same reason a person wants a boyfriend/ girlfriend can be transferred to the idea of marriage.
Divorce has become pretty common now so I donât think people think itâs for a lifetime anymore. Marriages nowadays rarely last past 10 years.
I laughed at marriage and the benefit of a man getting sex, isnât that the number one thing married men complain about? Not getting it once they get married?
I think marriage benefits both parties financially, itâs just easier sharing the costs of life.
I personally like the idea of being with one person and having them as a partner and best friend. Switching people all the time and getting to know a person all over again gets old quickly for me. So marriage to me just means we are making a commitment to try and do life together.
So did I, donât get married if you want a psssionate sex life lol
Thatâs what lovers are for đ
I think thatâs the problem in marriage, cheating, so they need to be having sex instead of holding out.
For some people, having sex with the same person year after year after year doesnât hold much appealâŠ
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Iâm wondering if things change after a certain age. I heard that sex isnât that important once a man canât get it up anymore in the later years, then the relationship falls more on companionship. So I guess getting married later in life is a better fit đclick to expand
Not really, because women get hornier as they grow older. I do. So dealing with a wet noodle isn't fun.
Posted by FUCKTHISLIFEPosted by DonnaLibra
Marriage is a much better deal for men than women. Married men live longer than single men but single women live longer than married women. Marriage and children literally kill women earlier in life.
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I have a friend whose parents both died alone. They had 11 kids and were divorced at the end of life.
I visited my aunt every week in a retirement home. I made friends with a lot of the residents who had children. Most of them rarely saw their children or received visits from them. Having kids so you don't die alone is a poor excuse to bring children into this world and is very selfish.
Posted by nanochipPosted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by nanochipPosted by Enfant-Terrible-II
Lol wtf are you talking about, women these days can't take care of a home for shit.
I've seen more single men have tidier homes than single women.
Men cook elaborate meals, women can barely boil an egg or simply have "no interest in cooking".
Men take care of themselves physically even after entering a relationship, women fall apart on an average within 8 months.
Lol @ "emotional fulfillment they do not get elsewhere" . You are delusional. All men really need these days are their bros and a Saturday night hookup.
Yes, generalizations, but this has been my experience as a 21th century male with friends of both sexes. Maybe says more about my social circle than men/women, I dunno.
I donât think men get emotional fulfillment from their bros or Saturday night hookups. Social and sexual fulfillment yes, they are not the same. Men get lonely just as much or more than women do. In society where men are expected to not talk much about their feelings, they often times only do that with a S.O, or a female platonic friend. The latter I think Iâve seen you say in the past was not possible? You got all over me for saying I had a platonic male friend once.
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You are projecting a woman's definition of "emotional fullfilment". Men are told they ultimately need a woman but aside from babymaking, all the single & mingle guys I know are perfectly happy with the emotional fullfilment from their male friends and sexually hooking up with women. Usually leaving your emotional fullfilment to women is a headache in itself.
Also married life does not guarantee a healthy sex life. Another point to strike off your list.
I donât know, enfant. While I am sure some men are happy with the bachelor life style ⊠these men eventually do settle down into marriage. I know so many lonely men who seem to think romantic companionship is the solution for themclick to expand
To incels it is the solution because they go half their lives unfucked and unwanted so it becomes like the holy grail. "If someone would only fuck me that would solve all my problems!"
I'm willing to bet if you give the same man a lucky streak of 2 years with unlimited supply of attention from women they'd come to the conclusion - if they have a personality - that it's overrated and there are more important and interesting things in life than just the attention of the opposite sex.
As for your 2nd point.. absolutely, men settle down too! Men settle down harder than women. Women will announce you're the love of their life, then change their mind after a few years bc suddenly they are "unhappy" or "unfulfilled". Change is generally a female trait. Or flaw.
Men don't really have those episodes, have you noticed? If men settle down we do it exactly as advertised. We don't change our minds or hearts. Usually the wife will try to change the man she married and when he stays the man he's always been, she will announce she's "unhappy" lol.
Men however don't look for you to make us happy, that's a typically female delusion: "If only I find the right one, I will find happiness!" Failing to realize you'd have to be happy with yourself to begin with.
Granted there are those men - like you said - whose only aspiration in life is having a family and that's his only source of happiness and without it he's no one. I find them weird tbh and don't understand how their wives work up enough vaginal secrete to fuck them.
Posted by DonnaLibra
Marriage is a much better deal for men than women. Married men live longer than single men but single women live longer than married women. Marriage and children literally kill women earlier in life.
There's plenty of studies that say married women live longer. There's articles that say single women live longer...
Posted by FUCKTHISLIFEPosted by Walk_on_byPosted by DonnaLibra
Marriage is a much better deal for men than women. Married men live longer than single men but single women live longer than married women. Marriage and children literally kill women earlier in life.
There's plenty of studies that say married women live longer. There's articles that say single women live longer...
its make no fuckin sense since most of the time guys date younger.
so the argument is ? i want to whole life solo because there is a ramndom stat from a random website say my husband might die 5 years before i die.
ok then die alone đclick to expand
I found a study done in Japan that single women in Asia live longer. And the rest in the West say married women live longer.
Who is even married that long though. Most people aren't, so how do you get the stats.
Posted by DonnaLibraPosted by saggurl88Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by saggurl88Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by saggurl88âI laughed at marriage and the benefit of a man getting sex, isnât that the number one thing married men complain about? Not getting it once they get marriedâ?
Itâs just a more committed long term relationship.
The same reason a person wants a boyfriend/ girlfriend can be transferred to the idea of marriage.
Divorce has become pretty common now so I donât think people think itâs for a lifetime anymore. Marriages nowadays rarely last past 10 years.
I laughed at marriage and the benefit of a man getting sex, isnât that the number one thing married men complain about? Not getting it once they get married?
I think marriage benefits both parties financially, itâs just easier sharing the costs of life.
I personally like the idea of being with one person and having them as a partner and best friend. Switching people all the time and getting to know a person all over again gets old quickly for me. So marriage to me just means we are making a commitment to try and do life together.
So did I, donât get married if you want a psssionate sex life lol
Thatâs what lovers are for đ
I think thatâs the problem in marriage, cheating, so they need to be having sex instead of holding out.
For some people, having sex with the same person year after year after year doesnât hold much appealâŠ
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Iâm wondering if things change after a certain age. I heard that sex isnât that important once a man canât get it up anymore in the later years, then the relationship falls more on companionship. So I guess getting married later in life is a better fit đ
Not really, because women get hornier as they grow older. I do. So dealing with a wet noodle isn't fun.
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I was hoping that wasn't the case đ I thought I was gonna somehow grow out of it lol
Posted by poppyflowerPosted by Walk_on_byPosted by FUCKTHISLIFEI found a study done in Japan that single women in Asia live longer. And the rest in the West say married women live longer.Posted by Walk_on_byits make no fuckin sense since most of the time guys date younger.Posted by DonnaLibra
Marriage is a much better deal for men than women. Married men live longer than single men but single women live longer than married women. Marriage and children literally kill women earlier in life.
There's plenty of studies that say married women live longer. There's articles that say single women live longer...
so the argument is ? i want to whole life solo because there is a ramndom stat from a random website say my husband might die 5 years before i die.
ok then die alone
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Who is even married that long though. Most people aren't, so how do you get the stats.
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Celebrity Couples Who Have Been Together For 20+ Years:
Tom Selleck and Jillie Mack: 33 Years ...
Lisa Rinna and Harry Hamlin: 23 Years ...
Oprah Winfrey and Stedman Graham: 34 Years ...
Jerry Stiller and Anne Meara: 61 Years ...
Sting and Trudie style r: 28 Years ...
Sidney Poitier and Joanna Shimkus: 44 Years
https://www.womenshealthmag.com/relationships/g33926157/longterm-celebrity-couples/
Probably still not common though...click to expand
Whoa there lisabethur8 2.0 đ€Ł
Posted by poppyflowerPosted by BasicPosted by poppyflowerPosted by Walk_on_byPosted by FUCKTHISLIFEI found a study done in Japan that single women in Asia live longer. And the rest in the West say married women live longer.Posted by Walk_on_byits make no fuckin sense since most of the time guys date younger.Posted by DonnaLibra
Marriage is a much better deal for men than women. Married men live longer than single men but single women live longer than married women. Marriage and children literally kill women earlier in life.
There's plenty of studies that say married women live longer. There's articles that say single women live longer...
so the argument is ? i want to whole life solo because there is a ramndom stat from a random website say my husband might die 5 years before i die.
ok then die alone
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Who is even married that long though. Most people aren't, so how do you get the stats.
click to expand
Celebrity Couples Who Have Been Together For 20+ Years:
Tom Selleck and Jillie Mack: 33 Years ...
Lisa Rinna and Harry Hamlin: 23 Years ...
Oprah Winfrey and Stedman Graham: 34 Years ...
Jerry Stiller and Anne Meara: 61 Years ...
Sting and Trudie style r: 28 Years ...
Sidney Poitier and Joanna Shimkus: 44 Years
https://www.womenshealthmag.com/relationships/g33926157/longterm-celebrity-couples/
Probably still not common though...
Whoa there lisabethur8 2.0 đ€Ł
??click to expand
No one remembers her? đ€Ł dammit my references are getting old!
Posted by StonyPosted by saggurl88Posted by DonnaLibraPosted by saggurl88Posted by MyStarsShineIâm wondering if things change after a certain age. I heard that sex isnât that important once a man canât get it up anymore in the later years, then the relationship falls more on companionship. So I guess getting married later in life is a better fit đPosted by saggurl88For some people, having sex with the same person year after year after year doesnât hold much appealâŠPosted by MyStarsShineI think thatâs the problem in marriage, cheating, so they need to be having sex instead of holding out.Posted by saggurl88
Itâs just a more committed long term relationship.
The same reason a person wants a boyfriend/ girlfriend can be transferred to the idea of marriage.
Divorce has become pretty common now so I donât think people think itâs for a lifetime anymore. Marriages nowadays rarely last past 10 years.
I laughed at marriage and the benefit of a man getting sex, isnât that the number one thing married men complain about? Not getting it once they get married?
I think marriage benefits both parties financially, itâs just easier sharing the costs of life.
I personally like the idea of being with one person and having them as a partner and best friend. Switching people all the time and getting to know a person all over again gets old quickly for me. So marriage to me just means we are making a commitment to try and do life together.
âI laughed at marriage and the benefit of a man getting sex, isnât that the number one thing married men complain about? Not getting it once they get marriedâ?
So did I, donât get married if you want a psssionate sex life lol
Thatâs what lovers are for đ
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Not really, because women get hornier as they grow older. I do. So dealing with a wet noodle isn't fun.
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I was hoping that wasn't the case I thought I was gonna somehow grow out of it lol
Women only want one thing and it's disgusting..click to expand
Gotta use it before you lose it! lol Now shut up and lay back and undress!
Posted by poppyflowerPosted by BasicPosted by poppyflowerPosted by BasicPosted by poppyflowerPosted by Walk_on_byPosted by FUCKTHISLIFEI found a study done in Japan that single women in Asia live longer. And the rest in the West say married women live longer.Posted by Walk_on_byits make no fuckin sense since most of the time guys date younger.Posted by DonnaLibra
Marriage is a much better deal for men than women. Married men live longer than single men but single women live longer than married women. Marriage and children literally kill women earlier in life.
There's plenty of studies that say married women live longer. There's articles that say single women live longer...
so the argument is ? i want to whole life solo because there is a ramndom stat from a random website say my husband might die 5 years before i die.
ok then die alone
click to expand
Who is even married that long though. Most people aren't, so how do you get the stats.
click to expand
Celebrity Couples Who Have Been Together For 20+ Years:
Tom Selleck and Jillie Mack: 33 Years ...
Lisa Rinna and Harry Hamlin: 23 Years ...
Oprah Winfrey and Stedman Graham: 34 Years ...
Jerry Stiller and Anne Meara: 61 Years ...
Sting and Trudie style r: 28 Years ...
Sidney Poitier and Joanna Shimkus: 44 Years
https://www.womenshealthmag.com/relationships/g33926157/longterm-celebrity-couples/
Probably still not common though...
Whoa there lisabethur8 2.0 đ€Ł
??
No one remembers her? đ€Ł dammit my references are getting old!
I know who you were talking about. I was around when she was around. I don't know why you are referring to her here. I almost never talk about celebrities here.click to expand
âTwas a joke Iâm sorry lol
Posted by BasicPosted by poppyflowerPosted by BasicPosted by poppyflowerPosted by Walk_on_byCelebrity Couples Who Have Been Together For 20+ Years:Posted by FUCKTHISLIFEPosted by Walk_on_byPosted by DonnaLibra
Marriage is a much better deal for men than women. Married men live longer than single men but single women live longer than married women. Marriage and children literally kill women earlier in life.
There's plenty of studies that say married women live longer. There's articles that say single women live longer...
its make no fuckin sense since most of the time guys date younger.
so the argument is ? i want to whole life solo because there is a ramndom stat from a random website say my husband might die 5 years before i die.
ok then die alone
click to expand
I found a study done in Japan that single women in Asia live longer. And the rest in the West say married women live longer.
Who is even married that long though. Most people aren't, so how do you get the stats.
click to expand
Tom Selleck and Jillie Mack: 33 Years ...
Lisa Rinna and Harry Hamlin: 23 Years ...
Oprah Winfrey and Stedman Graham: 34 Years ...
Jerry Stiller and Anne Meara: 61 Years ...
Sting and Trudie style r: 28 Years ...
Sidney Poitier and Joanna Shimkus: 44 Years
https://www.womenshealthmag.com/relationships/g33926157/longterm-celebrity-couples/
Probably still not common though...
Whoa there lisabethur8 2.0 đ€Ł
??
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No one remembers her? đ€Ł dammit my references are getting old!click to expand
I do! đ
Sheâd a Scorpio/Leo moon *my husband* lol
Was she a Libra?
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by BasicPosted by poppyflowerPosted by BasicPosted by poppyflowerPosted by Walk_on_byCelebrity Couples Who Have Been Together For 20+ Years:Posted by FUCKTHISLIFEPosted by Walk_on_byPosted by DonnaLibra
Marriage is a much better deal for men than women. Married men live longer than single men but single women live longer than married women. Marriage and children literally kill women earlier in life.
There's plenty of studies that say married women live longer. There's articles that say single women live longer...
its make no fuckin sense since most of the time guys date younger.
so the argument is ? i want to whole life solo because there is a ramndom stat from a random website say my husband might die 5 years before i die.
ok then die alone
click to expand
I found a study done in Japan that single women in Asia live longer. And the rest in the West say married women live longer.
Who is even married that long though. Most people aren't, so how do you get the stats.
click to expand
Tom Selleck and Jillie Mack: 33 Years ...
Lisa Rinna and Harry Hamlin: 23 Years ...
Oprah Winfrey and Stedman Graham: 34 Years ...
Jerry Stiller and Anne Meara: 61 Years ...
Sting and Trudie style r: 28 Years ...
Sidney Poitier and Joanna Shimkus: 44 Years
https://www.womenshealthmag.com/relationships/g33926157/longterm-celebrity-couples/
Probably still not common though...
Whoa there lisabethur8 2.0 đ€Ł
??
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No one remembers her? đ€Ł dammit my references are getting old!
I do! đ
Sheâd a Scorpio/Leo moon *my husband* lol
Was she a Libra?click to expand
Aqua but idk the rest of her placements đ€Ł
Posted by BasicPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by BasicPosted by poppyflowerNo one remembers her? đ€Ł dammit my references are getting old!Posted by Basic??Posted by poppyflowerWhoa there lisabethur8 2.0 đ€ŁPosted by Walk_on_byPosted by FUCKTHISLIFEPosted by Walk_on_byPosted by DonnaLibra
Marriage is a much better deal for men than women. Married men live longer than single men but single women live longer than married women. Marriage and children literally kill women earlier in life.
There's plenty of studies that say married women live longer. There's articles that say single women live longer...
its make no fuckin sense since most of the time guys date younger.
so the argument is ? i want to whole life solo because there is a ramndom stat from a random website say my husband might die 5 years before i die.
ok then die alone
click to expand
I found a study done in Japan that single women in Asia live longer. And the rest in the West say married women live longer.
Who is even married that long though. Most people aren't, so how do you get the stats.
click to expand
Celebrity Couples Who Have Been Together For 20+ Years:
Tom Selleck and Jillie Mack: 33 Years ...
Lisa Rinna and Harry Hamlin: 23 Years ...
Oprah Winfrey and Stedman Graham: 34 Years ...
Jerry Stiller and Anne Meara: 61 Years ...
Sting and Trudie style r: 28 Years ...
Sidney Poitier and Joanna Shimkus: 44 Years
https://www.womenshealthmag.com/relationships/g33926157/longterm-celebrity-couples/
Probably still not common though...
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I do! đ
Sheâd a Scorpio/Leo moon *my husband* lol
Was she a Libra?
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Aqua but idk the rest of her placements đ€Łclick to expand
Yes Aqua!
I used to wind her up about Scorp
and Aqua being squared and not a good match
đ
Posted by GeminiJimPosted by nanochipPosted by GeminiJimRealism over idealismPosted by nanochipPosted by GeminiJimPosted by nanochipPosted by Walk_on_by
Marriage is pretty good financially if you're on a median wage. Two people put their wage together and save some money + both have some inheritance they can get a mortgage faster and get into their own home, then they're both not paying rent they are paying mortgage. The value of their property is also increasing. Ofc you don't have to get married to do that, but this is what young married couples have done and some of them even own two houses now which is pretty slick. There's no way ether of those couples would own even one house by themselves. The advantage is getting onto the property ladder sooner and then you're golden and can easily get a mortgage on a second house.
This is a pretty normal thing. Its a financial advantage for both sides. It sucks the economy is rigged and an average wage can't do that on their own when they should be able to, but that's just reality.
In the US, assets are not split 50/50 but split âequitablyâ, as decided by the court. Well weâve all seen both sides how that can go. I see financial benefit during, but after is a wild card. And usually favors men because they like to put everything in their name, which becomes a determinant it seems. In all my dads marriages, itâs the one common factor. Houses, cars, all in his name. He ended up spending all his retirement on women, itâs gone. But in the divorces, heâs always in a much better spot. One of them ended up with no place to live and not even a car to drive to workâŠâŠâŠ
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So that's why you see marriage as this like financial decision and not about love or anything mundane like that
I mean, it's supposed to be "US" not "ME"
Your whole approach is "what is the most beneficial thing for ME?" which is basically guaranteeing you end in divorce because you need trust, sacrifice and all these "together" things to make a marriage work longterm. As long as you are stuck in thinking "ME" then inevitably that will be the breakdown of the whole
If you are my age and not thinking about the financial ramifications of marriage and divorce, and just thinking about it from a love and forever and lala land perspective, then youâre probably going to end up like one of the women Iâm speaking about in the OP. Marriage being only about eternal love sounds really cute and all. For about 5 years or so.
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Ha but then its a self-fulfilling prophecy. Marriage can end in divorce but if you go into it with this mindset it's like you're never fully committed. In which case no, there is no point getting married
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I havenât decided if I will or not. I always want to have human experiences while minimizing risk
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What is your mbti?click to expand
INTP
Posted by BasicPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by BasicPosted by poppyflowerNo one remembers her? đ€Ł dammit my references are getting old!Posted by Basic??Posted by poppyflowerWhoa there lisabethur8 2.0 đ€ŁPosted by Walk_on_byPosted by FUCKTHISLIFEPosted by Walk_on_byPosted by DonnaLibra
Marriage is a much better deal for men than women. Married men live longer than single men but single women live longer than married women. Marriage and children literally kill women earlier in life.
There's plenty of studies that say married women live longer. There's articles that say single women live longer...
its make no fuckin sense since most of the time guys date younger.
so the argument is ? i want to whole life solo because there is a ramndom stat from a random website say my husband might die 5 years before i die.
ok then die alone
click to expand
I found a study done in Japan that single women in Asia live longer. And the rest in the West say married women live longer.
Who is even married that long though. Most people aren't, so how do you get the stats.
click to expand
Celebrity Couples Who Have Been Together For 20+ Years:
Tom Selleck and Jillie Mack: 33 Years ...
Lisa Rinna and Harry Hamlin: 23 Years ...
Oprah Winfrey and Stedman Graham: 34 Years ...
Jerry Stiller and Anne Meara: 61 Years ...
Sting and Trudie style r: 28 Years ...
Sidney Poitier and Joanna Shimkus: 44 Years
https://www.womenshealthmag.com/relationships/g33926157/longterm-celebrity-couples/
Probably still not common though...
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I do! đ
Sheâd a Scorpio/Leo moon *my husband* lol
Was she a Libra?
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Aqua but idk the rest of her placements đ€Łclick to expand
Is âmy husbandâŠ.â good enough reason to get marriedâ
Posted by nanochipPosted by BasicPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by BasicPosted by poppyflowerNo one remembers her? đ€Ł dammit my references are getting old!Posted by Basic??Posted by poppyflowerWhoa there lisabethur8 2.0 đ€ŁPosted by Walk_on_byPosted by FUCKTHISLIFEPosted by Walk_on_byPosted by DonnaLibra
Marriage is a much better deal for men than women. Married men live longer than single men but single women live longer than married women. Marriage and children literally kill women earlier in life.
There's plenty of studies that say married women live longer. There's articles that say single women live longer...
its make no fuckin sense since most of the time guys date younger.
so the argument is ? i want to whole life solo because there is a ramndom stat from a random website say my husband might die 5 years before i die.
ok then die alone
click to expand
I found a study done in Japan that single women in Asia live longer. And the rest in the West say married women live longer.
Who is even married that long though. Most people aren't, so how do you get the stats.
click to expand
Celebrity Couples Who Have Been Together For 20+ Years:
Tom Selleck and Jillie Mack: 33 Years ...
Lisa Rinna and Harry Hamlin: 23 Years ...
Oprah Winfrey and Stedman Graham: 34 Years ...
Jerry Stiller and Anne Meara: 61 Years ...
Sting and Trudie style r: 28 Years ...
Sidney Poitier and Joanna Shimkus: 44 Years
https://www.womenshealthmag.com/relationships/g33926157/longterm-celebrity-couples/
Probably still not common though...
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I do! đ
Sheâd a Scorpio/Leo moon *my husband* lol
Was she a Libra?
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Aqua but idk the rest of her placements đ€Ł
Is âmy husbandâŠ.â good enough reason to get marriedâclick to expand
Ok so when an Astro cat lady gets marriedâŠ
They have to leave DXP and post on Lindalinda or something no wait itâs Elsa Elsa
Then start every sentence with my husband
Seriously everyone there was married and did that when I posted there during one of my extended band from DXP đ€Ł
MY HUSBAND gave me permission to use the credit card to buy myself a lil somethin somethin~~~
Posted by nanochip
MY HUSBAND gave me permission to use the credit card to buy myself a lil somethin somethin~~~
Top reason for marriage, IMO.
It's over for men now that women can just buy a giant squid sex robot
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