My boyfriend is a bad texter when he goes on family trips

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Right now he’s in the US and apart from the holiday pics, he barely texts or even often leaves me on read when I ask him questions. Wtf is that all about?



Is this normal behavior?

He tried to call me only once since he’s been gone. (For about a week now)



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Money isn’t an issue for his family so that can’t be a valid excuse. Especially as he’s sending pictures and videos.



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Plus a simple hello how are things doesn’t hurt. He reads my messages so he could answer quickly or in short answers but he says absolutely nothing.

I honestly think it’s pretty normal to not text a lot while traveling.

Are u looking to accuse him of something?

Because that would piss off someone on vacation.

Time zones? Is he with meddling family?
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Oh no. I just like communicating ☺️ I miss him.



I love his family. They’re pretty much like my family as our parents have known each other since childhood.
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Money isn’t an issue for his family so that can’t be a valid excuse. Especially as he’s sending pictures and videos.



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Plus a simple hello how are things doesn’t hurt. He reads my messages so he could answer quickly or in short answers but he says absolutely nothing.

I honestly think it’s pretty normal to not text a lot while traveling.

Are u looking to accuse him of something?

Because that would piss off someone on vacation.

Time zones? Is he with meddling family?

Oh no. I just like communicating ☺️ I miss him.



I love his family. They’re pretty much like my family as our parents have known each other since childhood.

I wouldn’t worry. Keep busy
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He's on vacation with his family in a different time zone and country. He's probably busy having a good time and seeing the sites and probably doesnt have a lot of alone time. Be happy that he sends the occasional text and sending pictures. That's probably all I would do. I'm leaving the country next month on a cruise and will have zero internet (cause I refuse to pay for it) so I won't even have my phone on for a week.
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He's on vacation with his family in a different time zone and country. He's probably busy having a good time and seeing the sites and probably doesnt have a lot of alone time. Be happy that he sends the occasional text and sending pictures. That's probably all I would do. I'm leaving the country next month on a cruise and will have zero internet (cause I refuse to pay for it) so I won't even have my phone on for a week.


Yeah he’s on a motorcycle 🏍 road trip 😍😍😍 he has internet though. But yeah you’re right. I’m busy myself haha dunno why I’m being so needy. Maybe it’s because we see each other every single day.

Damn. So your so will be like single for a month? 😂



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He's on vacation with his family in a different time zone and country. He's probably busy having a good time and seeing the sites and probably doesnt have a lot of alone time. Be happy that he sends the occasional text and sending pictures. That's probably all I would do. I'm leaving the country next month on a cruise and will have zero internet (cause I refuse to pay for it) so I won't even have my phone on for a week.

Yeah he’s on a motorcycle 🏍 road trip 😍😍😍 he has internet though. But yeah you’re right. I’m busy myself haha dunno why I’m being so needy. Maybe it’s because we see each other every single day.

Damn. So your so will be like single for a month? 😂
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I'll only be gone a week. It wont be that long. If it was a month then I'd probably have internet here and there at some point but I can't imagine going on vacation for that long. I wouldn't want to return to work after that lmao.
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Right now he’s in the US and apart from the holiday pics, he barely texts or even often leaves me on read when I ask him questions. Wtf is that all about?



Is this normal behavior?

He tried to call me only once since he’s been gone. (For about a week now)



Positions(updated after his mother gave me his accurate birth time):

Gemini sun

Cancer moon

Aqua rising

Venus in Cancer

Mars in Cancer

Mercury Taurus

Pluto in Scorpio

Midheaven in Sag

I've got Gem Sun with Cancer Mars & Venus and Scorpio Pluto.. doesn't sound like something I would do. I tend to keep contact very well, especially when away.
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Yeah he used to pretty much harass me. But that was before he went to the mental instit and was put on meds.



So... yeah he’s changed since. The love is still there but his personality has changed.
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He's on vacation with his family in a different time zone and country. He's probably busy having a good time and seeing the sites and probably doesnt have a lot of alone time. Be happy that he sends the occasional text and sending pictures. That's probably all I would do. I'm leaving the country next month on a cruise and will have zero internet (cause I refuse to pay for it) so I won't even have my phone on for a week.

Yeah he’s on a motorcycle 🏍 road trip 😍😍😍 he has internet though. But yeah you’re right. I’m busy myself haha dunno why I’m being so needy. Maybe it’s because we see each other every single day.

Damn. So your so will be like single for a month? 😂

I'll only be gone a week. It wont be that long. If it was a month then I'd probably have internet here and there at some point but I can't imagine going on vacation for that long. I wouldn't want to return to work after that lmao.
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Ahaha I feel ya. Oh that sounds nice.



My boo will be back in about a week
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🙄 Can't you just call to ASK?

Everyone isn't a natural at texting.

Haha I haven’t tried to call yet that’s true. He did but I was out partying it was like 3am here.

He asked me what I was doing and if I Was awake.

I’ll try and call him later.



Let’s hope he answers.

You’re out partying but wondering about what he’s doing?

Seems a little misplaced
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Oh no I just want to k,ow how he’s doing etc 😊 not suspicious or anything
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Posted by blvckphvse
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Right now he’s in the US and apart from the holiday pics, he barely texts or even often leaves me on read when I ask him questions. Wtf is that all about?



Is this normal behavior?

He tried to call me only once since he’s been gone. (For about a week now)



Positions(updated after his mother gave me his accurate birth time):

Gemini sun

Cancer moon

Aqua rising

Venus in Cancer

Mars in Cancer

Mercury Taurus

Pluto in Scorpio

Midheaven in Sag

I've got Gem Sun with Cancer Mars & Venus and Scorpio Pluto.. doesn't sound like something I would do. I tend to keep contact very well, especially when away.
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He's a Cancer moon though. Plus Mercury Taurus.

If you're a Mercury Gemini then that would explain why you keep contact well.

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Posted by LalasReturn
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🙄 Can't you just call to ASK?

Everyone isn't a natural at texting.

Haha I haven’t tried to call yet that’s true. He did but I was out partying it was like 3am here.

He asked me what I was doing and if I Was awake.

I’ll try and call him later.



Let’s hope he answers.
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You didn’t know to call him but you know running up here birching about shit! Man probably resting from you...
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🙄 Can't you just call to ASK?

Everyone isn't a natural at texting.

Haha I haven’t tried to call yet that’s true. He did but I was out partying it was like 3am here.

He asked me what I was doing and if I Was awake.

I’ll try and call him later.



Let’s hope he answers.

You’re out partying but wondering about what he’s doing?

Seems a little misplaced
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Hi honey...I just chased Bloody Mary with double shot of vodka and made out with someone in a unisex bathroom...hope your trip going well. Don’t forget to take your meds...oops...guys just ordered tequila for everyone...got to go...tootles! 🖕
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🙄 Can't you just call to ASK?

Everyone isn't a natural at texting.

Haha I haven’t tried to call yet that’s true. He did but I was out partying it was like 3am here.

He asked me what I was doing and if I Was awake.

I’ll try and call him later.



Let’s hope he answers.

You’re out partying but wondering about what he’s doing?

Seems a little misplaced

Hi honey...I just chased Bloody Mary with double shot of vodka and made out with someone in a unisex bathroom...hope your trip going well. Don’t forget to take your meds...oops...guys just ordered tequila for everyone...got to go...tootles! 🖕
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Haha no I was with colleagues. Why do you always have to be so extra 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
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🙄 Can't you just call to ASK?

Everyone isn't a natural at texting.

Haha I haven’t tried to call yet that’s true. He did but I was out partying it was like 3am here.

He asked me what I was doing and if I Was awake.

I’ll try and call him later.



Let’s hope he answers.

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Hahaha



Aww come on. Be nice hahah
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Love doesn’t always equal attention. Everyone needs space to experience life a little and share when you come back together. Especially a Gemini. Especially someone cancer dominant during cancer season, which is a time when we lend to introspection more, digging through our mental structures.

While he’s doing that, you do the same for you. You won’t be able to keep track of time if you’re just experiencing life. Then you two will have dope stories to talk about when you come back together.


That’s true.

I’ll take it as him having a dope as.s time 😊😊

Tbh I’ve been having my fair share of good time too. It’s amazing how much less I’d been seeing my friends and colleagues.
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Love doesn’t always equal attention. Everyone needs space to experience life a little and share when you come back together. Especially a Gemini. Especially someone cancer dominant during cancer season, which is a time when we lend to introspection more, digging through our mental structures.

While he’s doing that, you do the same for you. You won’t be able to keep track of time if you’re just experiencing life. Then you two will have dope stories to talk about when you come back together.

That’s true.

I’ll take it as him having a dope as.s time 😊😊

Tbh I’ve been having my fair share of good time too. It’s amazing how much less I’d been seeing my friends and colleagues.

I feel ya. Double water things. Sometimes you get so excited by one connection you forget there’s so many more exciting things in the world.
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It's true.

Plus I left for about a week a few weeks ago and i didn't give much news either. Just pics and vids. Some in which i said hi.
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He's with family. In a different country. In a different time zone.

Let him have his time with his family on vacation.

I would be pissed if I wasn’t on family vacation with him...considering family friendship and shit...🤔
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Yeah but it had been planned for ages and I have to work here these 2-3 weeks. Can't travel. Haha i guess I've been feeling needy and emotional.
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He's with family. In a different country. In a different time zone.

Let him have his time with his family on vacation.

I would be pissed if I wasn’t on family vacation with him...considering family friendship and shit...🤔

Yeah but it had been planned for ages and I have to work here these 2-3 weeks. Can't travel. Haha i guess I've been feeling needy and emotional.
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Was it planned before you started dating? Was it impossible to buy one more ticket even if it’s not the same flight? Couldn’t you arrange off if you knew you were going? Did he ever asked if you wanted to go?
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He's with family. In a different country. In a different time zone.

Let him have his time with his family on vacation.

I would be pissed if I wasn’t on family vacation with him...considering family friendship and shit...🤔

Yeah but it had been planned for ages and I have to work here these 2-3 weeks. Can't travel. Haha i guess I've been feeling needy and emotional.

Was it planned before you started dating? Was it impossible to buy one more ticket even if it’s not the same flight? Couldn’t you arrange off if you knew you were going? Did he ever asked if you wanted to go?
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Yes it was planned before we started dating again.

2. he asked. Then his mum asked. If i could go (evem though his mum isn't even over there).

3. I'm not a motorbike fanatic like he and his dad are

4. Nope can't arrange an off at all, my work atm is primordial for the company especially at the moment.

5. I didn't really wanna go either.

6. I've been on vaca with him plenty of times this year anyway