my libra husband always yelling and raising his voice at me

we have been married for almost 4 years and this year my husband started to yell/raise his voice at me, and it gets more frequent lately.

recently he raised his voice at me in public at the mall because I complaint to him about gettin a parking spot at our apartment ASAP before it is all taken out.

whenever I try to make he do things which is his responsibilities as husband, he will get irritated and we will start fighting.he was born with silver spoon in wealthy family with maid and all. and he never live a hard life. unlike me, I was born in a broken family where I have to provide my earnings to my parents. ive been independent since I was young, I live on my own until I married to him.

he gets easily irritated by everything that I said lately. I know I nag him alot because thats the only way to get him to do things and be more responsible. I just cant be doin everything. I need his help too.

he gets easily moody almost everyday. it seems like the smallest tiniest reason can trigger the moodiness in him.

he finds responsibilities and chores as a burden and expecting me to do it all. but he never sees all my sacrifices to keep the house tidy, to make sure everyone in the house eat, pleasing his parents and family, attending to his family events and demands and etc. im a working mom and my office is way further than his. he can come home in the noon everyday to nap but still he is more tired than I am. he would play games late at night when i cant even keep my eyes open anymore after 11.

when it comes to money, he always being very calculative and end up, i'll fork out my own money to do the house repairs, buy the necessities, and everything, every single time. whenever I ask him to pay for certain things, he will be defensive and reluctant and we will start to have a fight.

he never call or contact my parents. as if they are never important to him. I have to remind him when its their birthday and etc. when it comes to his family, id sacrifice everything.money, my annual leave, I mean everything. but he couldnt do the same for my family.

idk but it gets lonelier in this marriage and I dont feel as happy anymore.

I try to understand whats happening to our marriage and if astrology one of the way, id give it a try too.

husband chart:

my chart:

Can't see the charts

sorry, this is mine

Zodiac : Tropical

Sun Aquarius 22°06'

Moon Sagittarius 0°02'

Mercury Aquarius 21°08' R

Venus Aries 2°28'

Mars Sagittarius 22°44'

Jupiter Aries 25°05'

Saturn Sagittarius 29°48'

Uranus Sagittarius 29°52'

Neptune Capricorn 9°15'

Pluto Scorpio 12°35'

Lilith Leo 19°39'

N Node Pisces 23°33'



Placidus

I ASC Libra 24°06'

II Scorpio 24°34'

III Sagittarius 22°58'

IV Capricorn 20°52'

V Aquarius 20°18'

VI Pisces 21°58'

VII Aries 24°06'

VIII Taurus 24°34'

IX Gemini 22°58'

X MC Cancer 20°52'

XI Leo 20°18'

XII Virgo 21°58'

this is my husband's:

Zodiac : Tropical

Sun Libra 14°41'

Moon Taurus 1°44'

Mercury Scorpio 9°45'

Venus Libra 27°04'

Mars Virgo 29°49'

Jupiter Aries 26°01' R

Saturn Sagittarius 16°30'

Uranus Sagittarius 23°18'

Neptune Capricorn 5°22'

Pluto Scorpio 8°55'

Lilith Leo 5°36'

N Node Aries 2°24'



Placidus

I ASC Taurus 1°04'

II Gemini 1°11'

III Gemini 28°50'

IV Cancer 26°16'

V Leo 25°46'

VI Virgo 28°05'

VII Scorpio 1°04'

VIII Sagittarius 1°11'

IX Sagittarius 28°50'

X MC Capricorn 26°16'

XI Aquarius 25°46'

XII Pisces 28°05'

Are you sure you are married?

Posted by pisceanloves

Are you sure you are married?

yes, married on 5sep2015

that sounds awful. have you seen these traits before the four years? has something major happened to you and him? it might be good to have a talk with him about how you feel

Posted by floriecherie

Posted by pisceanloves

Are you sure you are married?

yes, married on 5sep2015

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Sorry, that was sarcasm. It looks bad girl, he might have fallen out, or have realized you are not the one, or met someone else. It sounds to me like he gets irritated just by you being around, can it get any worse? I'd take a vacation somewhere away from him, for 2 weeks or so, see how it goes without you, then if nothing changes proceed accordingly

Posted by floriecherie

we have been married for almost 4 years and this year my husband started to yell/raise his voice at me, and it gets more frequent lately.

recently he raised his voice at me in public at the mall because I complaint to him about gettin a parking spot at our apartment ASAP before it is all taken out.

whenever I try to make he do things which is his responsibilities as husband, he will get irritated and we will start fighting.he was born with silver spoon in wealthy family with maid and all. and he never live a hard life. unlike me, I was born in a broken family where I have to provide my earnings to my parents. ive been independent since I was young, I live on my own until I married to him.

he gets easily irritated by everything that I said lately. I know I nag him alot because thats the only way to get him to do things and be more responsible. I just cant be doin everything. I need his help too.

he gets easily moody almost everyday. it seems like the smallest tiniest reason can trigger the moodiness in him.

he finds responsibilities and chores as a burden and expecting me to do it all. but he never sees all my sacrifices to keep the house tidy, to make sure everyone in the house eat, pleasing his parents and family, attending to his family events and demands and etc. im a working mom and my office is way further than his. he can come home in the noon everyday to nap but still he is more tired than I am. he would play games late at night when i cant even keep my eyes open anymore after 11.

when it comes to money, he always being very calculative and end up, i'll fork out my own money to do the house repairs, buy the necessities, and everything, every single time. whenever I ask him to pay for certain things, he will be defensive and reluctant and we will start to have a fight.

he never call or contact my parents. as if they are never important to him. I have to remind him when its their birthday and etc. when it comes to his family, id sacrifice everything.money, my annual leave, I mean everything. but he couldnt do the same for my family.

idk but it gets lonelier in this marriage and I dont feel as happy anymore.

I try to understand whats happening to our marriage and if astrology one of the way, id give it a try too.

husband chart:

my chart:

Divorce. [Periodt]

Posted by floriecherie

we have been married for almost 4 years and this year my husband started to yell/raise his voice at me, and it gets more frequent lately.

recently he raised his voice at me in public at the mall because I complaint to him about gettin a parking spot at our apartment ASAP before it is all taken out.

whenever I try to make he do things which is his responsibilities as husband, he will get irritated and we will start fighting.he was born with silver spoon in wealthy family with maid and all. and he never live a hard life. unlike me, I was born in a broken family where I have to provide my earnings to my parents. ive been independent since I was young, I live on my own until I married to him.

he gets easily irritated by everything that I said lately. I know I nag him alot because thats the only way to get him to do things and be more responsible. I just cant be doin everything. I need his help too.

he gets easily moody almost everyday. it seems like the smallest tiniest reason can trigger the moodiness in him.

he finds responsibilities and chores as a burden and expecting me to do it all. but he never sees all my sacrifices to keep the house tidy, to make sure everyone in the house eat, pleasing his parents and family, attending to his family events and demands and etc. im a working mom and my office is way further than his. he can come home in the noon everyday to nap but still he is more tired than I am. he would play games late at night when i cant even keep my eyes open anymore after 11.

when it comes to money, he always being very calculative and end up, i'll fork out my own money to do the house repairs, buy the necessities, and everything, every single time. whenever I ask him to pay for certain things, he will be defensive and reluctant and we will start to have a fight.

he never call or contact my parents. as if they are never important to him. I have to remind him when its their birthday and etc. when it comes to his family, id sacrifice everything.money, my annual leave, I mean everything. but he couldnt do the same for my family.

idk but it gets lonelier in this marriage and I dont feel as happy anymore.

I try to understand whats happening to our marriage and if astrology one of the way, id give it a try too.

husband chart:

my chart:

Divorce. [Periodt]

He maybe passive aggressively trying to push you away without looking like the evil doer.

I wish the best for you and your family and it can get even worse.

Libra will never leave you but he will make you miserable enough to leave him and then pretend to be heartbroken.

Posted by Deedee75

Libra will never leave you but he will make you miserable enough to leave him and then pretend to be heartbroken.

Bingo, we will just put you lower on the totem pole until because someone has to shine our shoes.

I am wondering how was marriage going BEFORE this year? Was it good ever? What happened THIS year?

Posted by Erinelda

I can't give advice on something as large as breaking up a marriage. But you need to sit down and think about if this is really what you want to be doing with this one life you got.

Certain things override astrology.. Like personality disorders and being an asshole.

You mean you can’t tell someone you don’t personally know ‘get divorce’?

Are you sure you are a Dxp member? 🤔

😂😂😂😂😂

Straight bum bum, tisk tisk. A joke. Watch out for that punch line, probably what's coming next from such a low liver.

"Maid mentality"

He's not living in the real world and was raised to be a spoilt brat....it must be like living with a small child

🙄😐

thank you for the insight everyone, im sobbing right now in my car to a shoulder to cry on song 😢 I litterally have no one to turn to. 😢 glad that I can share my problem here.

maybe if anyone can help with the birth chart reading , if our compatibility really sucks or something.

I think he has been this way when we started to have a child. before that, we had nothing much to deal with that can stress us out. we stayed with his in laws and he was still in his comfort zone. he couldnt cope with the stress and everything after we had a child and move into our own house. I couldnt cope with him not initiating to help and avoiding responsibilities.

I really wish I dont have to opt for divorce and trying to understand my husband better. I mean if I could find out why did he change and etc, maybe I could play my part as well to save this marriage.

Posted by floriecherie

thank you for the insight everyone, im sobbing right now in my car to a shoulder to cry on song 😢 I litterally have no one to turn to. 😢 glad that I can share my problem here.

maybe if anyone can help with the birth chart reading , if our compatibility really sucks or something.

I think he has been this way when we started to have a child. before that, we had nothing much to deal with that can stress us out. we stayed with his in laws and he was still in his comfort zone. he couldnt cope with the stress and everything after we had a child and move into our own house. I couldnt cope with him not initiating to help and avoiding responsibilities.

I really wish I dont have to opt for divorce and trying to understand my husband better. I mean if I could find out why did he change and etc, maybe I could play my part as well to save this marriage.

Things often change after children come along

Some men can't cope with not having all the attention on them, especially the ones who haven't learned to grow up..

Posted by floriecherie

thank you for the insight everyone, im sobbing right now in my car to a shoulder to cry on song 😢 I litterally have no one to turn to. 😢 glad that I can share my problem here.

maybe if anyone can help with the birth chart reading , if our compatibility really sucks or something.

I think he has been this way when we started to have a child. before that, we had nothing much to deal with that can stress us out. we stayed with his in laws and he was still in his comfort zone. he couldnt cope with the stress and everything after we had a child and move into our own house. I couldnt cope with him not initiating to help and avoiding responsibilities.

I really wish I dont have to opt for divorce and trying to understand my husband better. I mean if I could find out why did he change and etc, maybe I could play my part as well to save this marriage.

my in laws* with the maid and all

but his MIL didnt let the maid to help me with the chores. the maid was instructed to not help me with laundry and also cleaning/tidyng our bedroom/bathroom. so I had to endure so much as well when we were staying with his parents. he was reluctant when I begged him to move out from his parents house, because he didnt want to live a hard life.

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Posted by floriecherie

thank you for the insight everyone, im sobbing right now in my car to a shoulder to cry on song 😢 I litterally have no one to turn to. 😢 glad that I can share my problem here.

maybe if anyone can help with the birth chart reading , if our compatibility really sucks or something.

I think he has been this way when we started to have a child. before that, we had nothing much to deal with that can stress us out. we stayed with his in laws and he was still in his comfort zone. he couldnt cope with the stress and everything after we had a child and move into our own house. I couldnt cope with him not initiating to help and avoiding responsibilities.

I really wish I dont have to opt for divorce and trying to understand my husband better. I mean if I could find out why did he change and etc, maybe I could play my part as well to save this marriage.

Things often change after children come along

Some men can't cope with not having all the attention on them, especially the ones who haven't learned to grow up..

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true 😢

Posted by floriecherie

Posted by floriecherie

thank you for the insight everyone, im sobbing right now in my car to a shoulder to cry on song 😢 I litterally have no one to turn to. 😢 glad that I can share my problem here.

maybe if anyone can help with the birth chart reading , if our compatibility really sucks or something.

I think he has been this way when we started to have a child. before that, we had nothing much to deal with that can stress us out. we stayed with his in laws and he was still in his comfort zone. he couldnt cope with the stress and everything after we had a child and move into our own house. I couldnt cope with him not initiating to help and avoiding responsibilities.

I really wish I dont have to opt for divorce and trying to understand my husband better. I mean if I could find out why did he change and etc, maybe I could play my part as well to save this marriage.

my in laws* with the maid and all

but his MIL didnt let the maid to help me with the chores. the maid was instructed to not help me with laundry and also cleaning/tidyng our bedroom/bathroom. so I had to endure so much as well when we were staying with his parents. he was reluctant when I begged him to move out from his parents house, because he didnt want to live a hard life.

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typo again *my MIL

You have Mercury in squared signs...which may require some attention in the way you communicate together....

Mercury square other person’s Mercury

You approach problems and solve mental problems in very different ways, and this tends to be a source of friction in your relationship. For example, one of you may feel that the other depends too much on intuition rather than logic, or makes decisions too impulsively, or focuses too narrowly, etc. These differences tend to be very irritating to each other, so try to be very tolerant of each other. Sometimes you will simply not be able to work together on a problem; you will need to sometimes work independently of each other to “stay out of each other’s hair”.

If you choose to file for divorce, BE SURE to file for SPOUSAL and CHILD SUPPORT too!

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Are you sure you are married?

yes, married on 5sep2015

Sorry, that was sarcasm. It looks bad girl, he might have fallen out, or have realized you are not the one, or met someone else. It sounds to me like he gets irritated just by you being around, can it get any worse? I'd take a vacation somewhere away from him, for 2 weeks or so, see how it goes without you, then if nothing changes proceed accordingly

Or it could be she’s nagging the absolute shit out of this guy and he’s to the point of dreading her opening her mouth

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Maybe she feels pushed to it as he is acting like a lazy spoiled brat who probably expects her to act like his "maid"

Sounds like a man child but then nagging him to death doesn't help.

I'm not gonna tell you whether you should divorce him or not...that's not my call but I would tell him to fuck off and get off his high horse and grow the fuck up....this is probably why I'm single 😂.

Maybe a little time a part might do some good...you can get a better perspective on things and approach it in a different light. Nagging will never get a man to do shit... it'll only push him away.

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Posted by pisceanloves

Are you sure you are married?

yes, married on 5sep2015

Sorry, that was sarcasm. It looks bad girl, he might have fallen out, or have realized you are not the one, or met someone else. It sounds to me like he gets irritated just by you being around, can it get any worse? I'd take a vacation somewhere away from him, for 2 weeks or so, see how it goes without you, then if nothing changes proceed accordingly

Or it could be she’s nagging the absolute shit out of this guy and he’s to the point of dreading her opening her mouth

Maybe she feels pushed to it as he is acting like a lazy spoiled brat who probably expects her to act like his "maid"

She married this guy just the way he is. She married a “rich kid” and it eats her up that he’s not like her. They been married what, 4-5 years now? She knows who and what he is and she’s not happy with it now.

This ain’t his fault......it’s hers

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Maybe the fault lies with both of them....I doubt either are perfect?

Posted by floriecherie

Posted by floriecherie

thank you for the insight everyone, im sobbing right now in my car to a shoulder to cry on song 😢 I litterally have no one to turn to. 😢 glad that I can share my problem here.

maybe if anyone can help with the birth chart reading , if our compatibility really sucks or something.

I think he has been this way when we started to have a child. before that, we had nothing much to deal with that can stress us out. we stayed with his in laws and he was still in his comfort zone. he couldnt cope with the stress and everything after we had a child and move into our own house. I couldnt cope with him not initiating to help and avoiding responsibilities.

I really wish I dont have to opt for divorce and trying to understand my husband better. I mean if I could find out why did he change and etc, maybe I could play my part as well to save this marriage.

my in laws* with the maid and all

but his MIL didnt let the maid to help me with the chores. the maid was instructed to not help me with laundry and also cleaning/tidyng our bedroom/bathroom. so I had to endure so much as well when we were staying with his parents. he was reluctant when I begged him to move out from his parents house, because he didnt want to live a hard life.

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This guys sounds inconsiderate and childish af. But maybe he resents you for moving him out his house where he had every need catered to him? I don't blame you for wanting to move out and this guy sounds like a man baby that couldn't even see/care his parents were mistreating you. I just think it could be one of the roots of the issue.... Maybe he is just always thinking in the back of his mind "I wouldn't have to do this, if we hadn't move out!!!". I mean idk what sort of advice to give you but that's my insight.

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Posted by pisceanloves

Are you sure you are married?

yes, married on 5sep2015

Sorry, that was sarcasm. It looks bad girl, he might have fallen out, or have realized you are not the one, or met someone else. It sounds to me like he gets irritated just by you being around, can it get any worse? I'd take a vacation somewhere away from him, for 2 weeks or so, see how it goes without you, then if nothing changes proceed accordingly

Or it could be she’s nagging the absolute shit out of this guy and he’s to the point of dreading her opening her mouth

Maybe she feels pushed to it as he is acting like a lazy spoiled brat who probably expects her to act like his "maid"

She married this guy just the way he is. She married a “rich kid” and it eats her up that he’s not like her. They been married what, 4-5 years now? She knows who and what he is and she’s not happy with it now.

This ain’t his fault......it’s hers

Maybe the fault lies with both of them....I doubt either are perfect?

No doubt

This thread is about her asking him to do shit he’s never done and she’s done nothing but whine about it. The guy probably has zero clue how to wash clothes or fix a sink and she’s complaining because she married a “rich kid”

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I guess it's about time he learned rather than choosing to carry on being a child?

Boil some grits

I'm sorry, you dont deserve that shit.

Id go stay with family for a bit and cut contact. Libras do well with people putting us in our place, and shutting us out for awhile works. You'll learn quickly if he cares enough to change....and if he doesnt, youll have your answer. However taking that shit isnt going to help the situation, it'll make it worse.

I agree that we can't change anyone fundamentally, but I believe people can improve their behaviour. When you become parents you have to be an adult and step up to the plate and not expect to be looked after like you were as a child

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Why don't you stop nagging him. Maybe you're making drama out of nothing. He is not a child. You're not his mother.

If it doesn't change anything. Then ask yourself if you wanna live like that for the rest of your life. Good luck.

.....but he's acting like one and seems to still expect to be mothered..

Posted by blvckphvse

Why is it that if someone admits their faults in a situation everyone on here only focuses on that and acts like everything is their fault?? At least she admitted her part in this, most of you won't even do that.. but her nagging isn't the root of the issue. Pretty sure most of you wouldn't be too impressed having to provide for your man all the damn time. Morons

People make inane comments because they've not experienced such situations but like to make out they have....

What's with the maid thing in this day and age? That is going to ruin a kids perception of real life and having to stands on their own two feet 🤔

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Posted by Deedee75

Libra will never leave you but he will make you miserable enough to leave him and then pretend to be heartbroken.

Bingo, we will just put you lower on the totem pole until because someone has to shine our shoes.

You sound crazy

Y’all must date weak ones

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Smart Nubian Queen you are Mamba. I believe when women are treated and gifted with mostly a guy who check off most of their list they tend to do rare unusual things.

Take a break away from him and go chill with your parents or something. Maybe space will help open up his eyes to what he's been taking for granted. If it doesn't, stuff him back up his mom's vagina where he's only good for.

Also stop giving a shit about pleasing your in-laws when your husband doesn't reciprocate. It enables him to continue his behavior. Mirror to his parents how he treats yours. If he ever complains, you can logically throw back at his face, "I'm just treating your parents how you treat mine. If you have an issue with that then maybe there's something wrong with how you're treating my parents?" I find this the best way to get guys to realize the double standards they have to things.

Posted by MyStarsShine

I agree that we can't change anyone fundamentally, but I believe people can improve their behaviour. When you become parents you have to be an adult and step up to the plate and not expect to be looked after like you were as a child

Precisely!

Life itself is in a constant state of flux and as a result we as humans either grow or devolve. Should there ever be a reason for us as individuals to better ourselves one would hope it would be our offspring.

Dude is a total douchebag! Letting her bare the brunt of financial burden on top of everything else is vomit inducing. No excuse!

Ok so if I’m understanding this correctly you are annoyed he doesn’t take on more of the household chores. But he also makes more money then you. So the easy compromise is asking him to hire a cleaning service so he can continue to play video games after work and you can relax on your nagging.

Just because you have a longer commute to work doesn’t mean his job isn’t demanding and stressful. Coming home to a wife whose nagging isn’t something he’s rushing back for. Playing devils advocate here... but there is 2 sides of every story. It’s wrong he raises his voice. It’s wrong for you to nag and push his buttons. Y’all need to learn how to communicate better.

Y’all also need to address your resentment towards his parents and his resentment towards you making him move away from his family.

Open a join bank account and create a monthly budget for all the expenses/supplies needed to maintain the home and have him contribute money. He’s not the type of person to wash windows and buy tp. That’s not his upbringing. You knew this and still said I DO.

I don’t see these issues as being huge enough to consider divorce. He’s not cheating, lying, abusive, or a bum. He works. He just doesn’t clean. Big whoop.

You gonna put in the work? Or throw in the towel that easy...

Thank god for the single life.

Posted by floriecherie

we have been married for almost 4 years and this year my husband started to yell/raise his voice at me, and it gets more frequent lately.

recently he raised his voice at me in public at the mall because I complaint to him about gettin a parking spot at our apartment ASAP before it is all taken out.

whenever I try to make he do things which is his responsibilities as husband, he will get irritated and we will start fighting.he was born with silver spoon in wealthy family with maid and all. and he never live a hard life. unlike me, I was born in a broken family where I have to provide my earnings to my parents. ive been independent since I was young, I live on my own until I married to him.

he gets easily irritated by everything that I said lately. I know I nag him alot because thats the only way to get him to do things and be more responsible. I just cant be doin everything. I need his help too.

he gets easily moody almost everyday. it seems like the smallest tiniest reason can trigger the moodiness in him.

he finds responsibilities and chores as a burden and expecting me to do it all. but he never sees all my sacrifices to keep the house tidy, to make sure everyone in the house eat, pleasing his parents and family, attending to his family events and demands and etc. im a working mom and my office is way further than his. he can come home in the noon everyday to nap but still he is more tired than I am. he would play games late at night when i cant even keep my eyes open anymore after 11.

when it comes to money, he always being very calculative and end up, i'll fork out my own money to do the house repairs, buy the necessities, and everything, every single time. whenever I ask him to pay for certain things, he will be defensive and reluctant and we will start to have a fight.

he never call or contact my parents. as if they are never important to him. I have to remind him when its their birthday and etc. when it comes to his family, id sacrifice everything.money, my annual leave, I mean everything. but he couldnt do the same for my family.

idk but it gets lonelier in this marriage and I dont feel as happy anymore.

I try to understand whats happening to our marriage and if astrology one of the way, id give it a try too.

husband chart:

my chart:

what is my first thought on this post (without reading further comments yet) is: you are married 4 years.... what are the plans for children? do you 2 want them? maybe its a sensitive topic, but without knowing the arrangement about children noone can give a sensible advice, imho.... I mean 4 years... people usually get married to have a family (thats why I am asking, there are other cases as well)

now I am going to read the rest of the comments, maybe all of my comments were explained already

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Posted by floriecherie

we have been married for almost 4 years and this year my husband started to yell/raise his voice at me, and it gets more frequent lately.

recently he raised his voice at me in public at the mall because I complaint to him about gettin a parking spot at our apartment ASAP before it is all taken out.

whenever I try to make he do things which is his responsibilities as husband, he will get irritated and we will start fighting.he was born with silver spoon in wealthy family with maid and all. and he never live a hard life. unlike me, I was born in a broken family where I have to provide my earnings to my parents. ive been independent since I was young, I live on my own until I married to him.

he gets easily irritated by everything that I said lately. I know I nag him alot because thats the only way to get him to do things and be more responsible. I just cant be doin everything. I need his help too.

he gets easily moody almost everyday. it seems like the smallest tiniest reason can trigger the moodiness in him.

he finds responsibilities and chores as a burden and expecting me to do it all. but he never sees all my sacrifices to keep the house tidy, to make sure everyone in the house eat, pleasing his parents and family, attending to his family events and demands and etc. im a working mom and my office is way further than his. he can come home in the noon everyday to nap but still he is more tired than I am. he would play games late at night when i cant even keep my eyes open anymore after 11.

when it comes to money, he always being very calculative and end up, i'll fork out my own money to do the house repairs, buy the necessities, and everything, every single time. whenever I ask him to pay for certain things, he will be defensive and reluctant and we will start to have a fight.

he never call or contact my parents. as if they are never important to him. I have to remind him when its their birthday and etc. when it comes to his family, id sacrifice everything.money, my annual leave, I mean everything. but he couldnt do the same for my family.

idk but it gets lonelier in this marriage and I dont feel as happy anymore.

I try to understand whats happening to our marriage and if astrology one of the way, id give it a try too.

husband chart:

my chart:

what is my first thought on this post (without reading further comments yet) is: you are married 4 years.... what are the plans for children? do you 2 want them? maybe its a sensitive topic, but without knowing the arrangement about children noone can give a sensible advice, imho.... I mean 4 years... people usually get married to have a family (thats why I am asking, there are other cases as well)

now I am going to read the rest of the comments, maybe all of my comments were explained already

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“I'm a working mom and my office is way further than his”

You need to talk with him and tell him it's got to stop..He's taking you for granted. He's also being very selfish.

Maybe have some time a part to see if you miss each other. I doubt you will if he treats you like this.

Make sure he's not lying to you because he's got abit on the side. Don't be dragged through hell because of this as I've seen it done before and all be side the man was having an affair.

It may not be the case and I hope it isn't but you need an honest discussion.

Posted by floriecherie

we have been married for almost 4 years and this year my husband started to yell/raise his voice at me, and it gets more frequent lately.

recently he raised his voice at me in public at the mall because I complaint to him about gettin a parking spot at our apartment ASAP before it is all taken out.

whenever I try to make he do things which is his responsibilities as husband, he will get irritated and we will start fighting.he was born with silver spoon in wealthy family with maid and all. and he never live a hard life. unlike me, I was born in a broken family where I have to provide my earnings to my parents. ive been independent since I was young, I live on my own until I married to him.

he gets easily irritated by everything that I said lately. I know I nag him alot because thats the only way to get him to do things and be more responsible. I just cant be doin everything. I need his help too.

he gets easily moody almost everyday. it seems like the smallest tiniest reason can trigger the moodiness in him.

he finds responsibilities and chores as a burden and expecting me to do it all. but he never sees all my sacrifices to keep the house tidy, to make sure everyone in the house eat, pleasing his parents and family, attending to his family events and demands and etc. im a working mom and my office is way further than his. he can come home in the noon everyday to nap but still he is more tired than I am. he would play games late at night when i cant even keep my eyes open anymore after 11.

when it comes to money, he always being very calculative and end up, i'll fork out my own money to do the house repairs, buy the necessities, and everything, every single time. whenever I ask him to pay for certain things, he will be defensive and reluctant and we will start to have a fight.

he never call or contact my parents. as if they are never important to him. I have to remind him when its their birthday and etc. when it comes to his family, id sacrifice everything.money, my annual leave, I mean everything. but he couldnt do the same for my family.

idk but it gets lonelier in this marriage and I dont feel as happy anymore.

I try to understand whats happening to our marriage and if astrology one of the way, id give it a try too.

husband chart:

my chart:

he's beyond a spoiled brat. sad to say that you married a princess. he's had everything handed to him and done for him. of course he's going to get pissy and bitchy when you try to make him work or do manly things like be responsible. you have a princess, not a man or husband. you are the husband.

Posted by floriecherie

we have been married for almost 4 years and this year my husband started to yell/raise his voice at me, and it gets more frequent lately.

recently he raised his voice at me in public at the mall because I complaint to him about gettin a parking spot at our apartment ASAP before it is all taken out.

whenever I try to make he do things which is his responsibilities as husband, he will get irritated and we will start fighting.he was born with silver spoon in wealthy family with maid and all. and he never live a hard life. unlike me, I was born in a broken family where I have to provide my earnings to my parents. ive been independent since I was young, I live on my own until I married to him.

he gets easily irritated by everything that I said lately. I know I nag him alot because thats the only way to get him to do things and be more responsible. I just cant be doin everything. I need his help too.

he gets easily moody almost everyday. it seems like the smallest tiniest reason can trigger the moodiness in him.

he finds responsibilities and chores as a burden and expecting me to do it all. but he never sees all my sacrifices to keep the house tidy, to make sure everyone in the house eat, pleasing his parents and family, attending to his family events and demands and etc. im a working mom and my office is way further than his. he can come home in the noon everyday to nap but still he is more tired than I am. he would play games late at night when i cant even keep my eyes open anymore after 11.

when it comes to money, he always being very calculative and end up, i'll fork out my own money to do the house repairs, buy the necessities, and everything, every single time. whenever I ask him to pay for certain things, he will be defensive and reluctant and we will start to have a fight.

he never call or contact my parents. as if they are never important to him. I have to remind him when its their birthday and etc. when it comes to his family, id sacrifice everything.money, my annual leave, I mean everything. but he couldnt do the same for my family.

idk but it gets lonelier in this marriage and I dont feel as happy anymore.

I try to understand whats happening to our marriage and if astrology one of the way, id give it a try too.

husband chart:

my chart:

he's beyond a spoiled brat. sad to say that you married a princess. he's had everything handed to him and done for him. of course he's going to get pissy and bitchy when you try to make him work or do manly things like be responsible. you have a princess, not a man or husband. you are the husband.

damn reposts. but anyway divorce and fast. there is no saving this, there is no love here. you're just another one of his servants. DIVORCE.