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Picking a fight
No. There's usually something going on.
My friend picks fights to keep things interested. She said she gets bored if things are too peaceful yet would raise hell and get a headache if she fights.
I'm not talking about keeping things interesting or just being a bitch/asshole.
Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxXSMH the things you do sometimes. I still like her though. We good.Posted by Lilianni
My friend picks fights to keep things interested. She said she gets bored if things are too peaceful yet would raise hell and get a headache if she fights.
Your friend is an idiot.
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Posted by SsupermanThen what are you talking about?
I'm not talking about keeping things interesting or just being a bitch/asshole.
Posted by LilianniJust to see their reactionPosted by SsupermanThen what are you talking about?
I'm not talking about keeping things interesting or just being a bitch/asshole.click to expand
Posted by TheLibraMudraI mean, I did it for a specific reason. Gotta know just how mean someone can get before ya marry them, right?
Stop that winding her up. You leos!
Posted by ImpulsvLol. How come?
I not sure ur ready to marry with that mentality
We literally couldn't fight with each other. It was actually kinda funny afterwards. We both laughed
Posted by LilianniVenus in Scorp?
My friend picks fights to keep things interested. She said she gets bored if things are too peaceful yet would raise hell and get a headache if she fights.
Only if it's a sag. .... gotta keep the drama going it sustains the wild beast.
Posted by LePetitFiskLol. You act like I picked something as a deal breaker.
I avoid confrontation, if I could possibly help it.
Now if he wants to sabotage the relationship for mere curiosity? Sure. I'll help him out, and he can go back to that dating cesspool should he choose to.
Posted by brianafay8th house Venus actually.Posted by LilianniVenus in Scorp?
My friend picks fights to keep things interested. She said she gets bored if things are too peaceful yet would raise hell and get a headache if she fights.click to expand
And Scorpio venus in Verdic
I wouldn't say I pick a fight on purpose but sometimes I know what I'm going to say is going to start some shit but I can't help myself
Last week I did this in front of my sister
I was like "you're going to get mad at me for saying this but..." and my sister yells "then don't!! Don't say it then! " ?? I have to tho
Last week I did this in front of my sister
I was like "you're going to get mad at me for saying this but..." and my sister yells "then don't!! Don't say it then! " ?? I have to tho
Posted by KoniuchaaI insulted her bestie. Trust me, it got a little heated. Good thing is that she never bashed me or called me names. It was heated but respectful. That's what I wanted to see
If this wasn't a real fight, then I'm afraid you still don't know
Posted by WonderlesswaveSome of you people act like I did something soooo horrible. Damn.
......wow lol
If you're not fighting that's probably a good thing . But if you're going to start a fight and play with someone's emotions just for the fuck of it ..you might not be ready for a wife buddy.
Marriage is for thick and thin all of the ugly sounds like you're not ready for that
Like you've never razzed someone before.
Posted by DistilledEh, I'm not viscous when I'm arguing with a loved one. The only time I get mean is when I need to be protective of a loved one. Then I can get downright pissed. Yea, she's seen that side of me already.
I can understand wanting to know someone's true self before marrying...
Does she know yours?
Also agreeing on everything- just asking but do you feel like it's too good to be true?
It's not too good to be true. We don't agree on everything, we compromise.
Posted by TheLibraMudra————
Razzed someone!!! This is a freaking leo thing. He loves to see me riled up. Until the raging fire within overflowith and he wishes he could take the shenannigans back haha
Posted by starwarsLol. It probably pisses them off more because you don't react
nope
I hate these type of mind games, I don't give a reaction either so it never works
Posted by DistilledI saw what I needed to seePosted by SsupermanThat reaction though could take a long time to see in someone.Posted by starwarsLol. It probably pisses them off more because you don't react
nope
I hate these type of mind games, I don't give a reaction either so it never works
Takes more than one time.
Especially with a marriage at hand.
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Posted by SsupermanY u do this?Posted by KoniuchaaI insulted her bestie. Trust me, it got a little heated. Good thing is that she never bashed me or called me names. It was heated but respectful. That's what I wanted to see
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Posted by ImpulsvMaybe adoption of an animal for starters...
I not sure ur ready to marry with that mentality
If it'll survive...nah...who am I kidding?
Posted by SsupermanMiddle finger?Posted by DistilledI saw what I needed to seePosted by SsupermanThat reaction though could take a long time to see in someone.Posted by starwarsLol. It probably pisses them off more because you don't react
nope
I hate these type of mind games, I don't give a reaction either so it never works
Takes more than one time.
Especially with a marriage at hand.
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Posted by Ram416Well, I called her bestie a hoe (which she is and she's called her that to her face). I knew if I said something she'd get pissed. I wouldn't dare insult her personally as she's done nothing worthy of insult. Anyway, it wasn't something horrible.Posted by SsupermanY u do this?Posted by KoniuchaaI insulted her bestie. Trust me, it got a little heated. Good thing is that she never bashed me or called me names. It was heated but respectful. That's what I wanted to see
If this wasn't a real fight, then I'm afraid you still don't knowclick to expand
Posted by Astrology101Nah, we laughed about it afterward about how she got pissy about something that was the truth. Poured another glass of wine and snuggled up watching GOT.
She will keep this in her heart.. for forever. You insulted her bestie... I'm sure it will come up one day. Just you wait and see.
Posted by Astrology101Your scary eyes don't scare me! 🙂Posted by SsupermanJust you wait and see... *makes scary eyes*Posted by Astrology101Nah, we laughed about it afterward about how she got pissy about something that was the truth. Poured another glass of wine and snuggled up watching GOT.
She will keep this in her heart.. for forever. You insulted her bestie... I'm sure it will come up one day. Just you wait and see.
LOL
I'm serious tho.
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Posted by KoniuchaaLol. Yep. That's why we laughed afterwards. She just got defensive for a hot min.
Well if she has called her friend a hoe to her face and then you called her friend a hoe, that actually sounds like you two are in agreement here.
Posted by KoniuchaaShe owns it. No need to feel sorry for her.
I sort of feel sorry for the best friend
Posted by SsupermanYou know she is entitled to a free shot at you one day, right? lmaoPosted by Ram416Well, I called her bestie a hoe (which she is and she's called her that to her face). I knew if I said something she'd get pissed. I wouldn't dare insult her personally as she's done nothing worthy of insult. Anyway, it wasn't something horrible.Posted by SsupermanY u do this?Posted by KoniuchaaI insulted her bestie. Trust me, it got a little heated. Good thing is that she never bashed me or called me names. It was heated but respectful. That's what I wanted to see
If this wasn't a real fight, then I'm afraid you still don't knowclick to expand
Posted by Astrology101LMAOPosted by SsupermanPosted by Astrology101Your scary eyes don't scare me! 🙂Posted by SsupermanJust you wait and see... *makes scary eyes*Posted by Astrology101Nah, we laughed about it afterward about how she got pissy about something that was the truth. Poured another glass of wine and snuggled up watching GOT.
She will keep this in her heart.. for forever. You insulted her bestie... I'm sure it will come up one day. Just you wait and see.
LOL
I'm serious tho.
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You should post the needle in the eye gif!
Posted by Ram416Of course! Shots fired!Posted by SsupermanYou know she is entitled to a free shot at you one day, right? lmaoPosted by Ram416Well, I called her bestie a hoe (which she is and she's called her that to her face). I knew if I said something she'd get pissed. I wouldn't dare insult her personally as she's done nothing worthy of insult. Anyway, it wasn't something horrible.Posted by SsupermanY u do this?Posted by KoniuchaaI insulted her bestie. Trust me, it got a little heated. Good thing is that she never bashed me or called me names. It was heated but respectful. That's what I wanted to see
If this wasn't a real fight, then I'm afraid you still don't knowclick to expand
Posted by SsupermanPosted by TheLibraMudraI mean, I did it for a specific reason. Gotta know just how mean someone can get before ya marry them, right?
Stop that winding her up. You leos!click to expand
You can't fake anger.
You didn't get her riled up because you weren't. so, what you did was just a little game that amounted to nothing, regardless of how much you think you accomplished.
If you're not mad, then your behavior isn't going to represent that.
And it likely only lasted a few minutes because she recognized you were playing a game. If anything was accomplished at all, it was probably her now sitting back and thinking .... "this dude plays head games"
Posted by SsupermanTotally know what you mean, asked the same Q last week and funnily enough im also with an Aries and things are wayyyyyy smooth. Maybe we have mental issues or used to drama in the relationship? Lol!
Have you ever just picked a fight with your partner for no reason? Just to see how they'll react or how they are when angry?
I did this last night with the Aries. We've never fought or even has a minor disagreement. It's been soooo easy and we get along perfectly. However, before I pop the question I wanted to know what she was like pissed off. So, I picked a fight. Only lasted like 5 mins.
Good to go
The bigger picture here is .....
... you aren't aware of her emotions enough to know how she will react to stimuli.
It's not that you did this ... it's that you don't know any better of her.
Which means, you don't know this woman well enough to pop a marriage question to her.
Since you had to do this, due to not knowing her well enough .... it's likely that you barely know her at all. If you have to play a game to find out how she responds ... then that means you don't have experience with her, to be able to know her.
Posted by vybz
...thing is after the marriage then ppl sho there true selfs...its all fake before
After the marriage?
In other words, you believe in closing your eyes and mind and just jumping without consideration of what you're doing
Posted by P-AngelYou will never truly know a person no matter how long you date them.
The bigger picture here is .....
... you aren't aware of her emotions enough to know how she will react to stimuli.
It's not that you did this ... it's that you don't know any better of her.
Which means, you don't know this woman well enough to pop a marriage question to her.
Since you had to do this, due to not knowing her well enough .... it's likely that you barely know her at all. If you have to play a game to find out how she responds ... then that means you don't have experience with her, to be able to know her.
There are people that divorce after 6 months to some after 25 years.
Marriage is commitment and learning along the way.
Posted by AneemA08I don't necessarily agree, but oh I appreciatePosted by tizianiSound boring tho... Maybe maintain even timing 😛
Avoid drama at all costs.click to expand
the honesty.
We've got two distinct camps here, both very
real, and that's that. :/
lol @ pgel trying to work both sides of the
fence.
Posted by AneemA08That's generous.Posted by MontgomeryHehe maybe she's just trying to find the middle ground of the polar opposites.Posted by AneemA08I don't necessarily agree, but oh I appreciatePosted by tizianiSound boring tho... Maybe maintain even timing 😛
Avoid drama at all costs.
the honesty.
We've got two distinct camps here, both very
real, and that's that. :/
lol @ pgel trying to work both sides of the
fence.
Also, I have debated my own thought process and have come to a conclusion that, the prior is wrong. Hehe
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I think she's trying to keep chaos and noise at full volume. 😄
And yes... the peacemakers and all that.
When I was younger I used to prod people to make them react. I am a very passionate woman and like to interact passionately at times...
My Aries dad loved my Capricorn mother very much but said to me that he wished she had been a bit more assertive and argued with him a little more. She was very passive and I think he found it all a bit too dull at times
My Aries dad loved my Capricorn mother very much but said to me that he wished she had been a bit more assertive and argued with him a little more. She was very passive and I think he found it all a bit too dull at times
Posted by MontgomeryThat's why I didn't bother replying to herPosted by AneemA08I don't necessarily agree, but oh I appreciatePosted by tizianiSound boring tho... Maybe maintain even timing 😛
Avoid drama at all costs.
the honesty.
We've got two distinct camps here, both very
real, and that's that. :/
lol @ pgel trying to work both sides of the
fence.
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Posted by SsupermanGood call.Posted by MontgomeryThat's why I didn't bother replying to herPosted by AneemA08I don't necessarily agree, but oh I appreciatePosted by tizianiSound boring tho... Maybe maintain even timing 😛
Avoid drama at all costs.
the honesty.
We've got two distinct camps here, both very
real, and that's that. :/
lol @ pgel trying to work both sides of the
fence.
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Just in case you didn't get the memo, she is
Posted by cheekyfaerieThanks
I've played devil's advocate before. To be able to debate and test our conflict resolution skills. Purposefully picking a fight? Crazy talk.
Happy for ya, Ssupes.
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Good to go