Women don't need men, in fact we can take care of our selves in every way sooo GOOD luck with that fellas! ?
Relationships are POINTLESS Ladies...Do yourselves a favor and JUST DO YOURSELVES Instead?
Posted by littlenanobyteTheir cycles synced up and their all pms-ing together.
Are many men in their feelings this cuffing season or something? 😆
It's true. Women can now reproduce, fuck themselves, AND bring home the bacon.
Posted by LadyNeptuneAre you gonna introduce your parents to your future Mr. Dildo Neptune? ^^
It's true. Women can now reproduce, fuck themselves, AND bring home the bacon.
Posted by TheSagMom, Dad, I'd like you to meet someone really special to me. This is Mr. Rabbit.Posted by LadyNeptuneAre you gonna introduce your parents to your future Mr. Dildo Neptune? ^^
It's true. Women can now reproduce, fuck themselves, AND bring home the bacon.
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"I don't need you, I want you."
This is what I sometimes say to potential clients. It applies nicely to my feelings towards men as well.
This is what I sometimes say to potential clients. It applies nicely to my feelings towards men as well.
Posted by MagicMonaWell you can do both ?
...do i really have to do myself? can't i do other women like i've been doing? 😢
Posted by MagicMonaMe too ?Posted by Harukkai HATE pink!
We need a new planet to live in...just us
A pink one 😛click to expand
Christ, I am so relieved to have had a family and not to have to be on the search for a bloke
The dating scene is so fecked
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The dating scene is so fecked
😐
That's what I was thinking "cuffing season" rejects. But, then I thought "cuffing season" can get expensive. I don’t know.
Posted by MagicMonaPosted by MyStarsShinewe all cant be so lucky, i guess. but it is very good to count your blessings.
Christ, I am so relieved to have had a family and not to have to be on the search for a bloke
The dating scene is so fecked
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Yes it is Mona and I count mine every day 🙂
Posted by MagicMonaHoney, you can do whatever you want ?Posted by MoonbutterPosted by MagicMonaWell you can do both ?
...do i really have to do myself? can't i do other women like i've been doing? 😢
😢 both? but that's too much work. can't she just return the favor? or do i have a pillow princess? 😢 LOLclick to expand
Posted by PlaguedOh... it depends on the man to be sure.
There is nothing wrong with wanting one though, I like to keep a man. As messy as they can be, the ownership of handling a man is both enriching and rewarding.
I love men.
But when I think of allowing one in my Home,
for more than 24, I can feel my heart begin to
thump (see: messy and add ungrateful).
And NOT in a good way. 😐
*so jaded* 😭
+1
Posted by MagicMonaOooh yessss... Seems a fair trade for no men hahaPosted by Moonbutterthank you. women get angry when they are hungry, so i will work on supplying limitless wine and cooking tasty dinners for all the ladies.Posted by MagicMonaHoney, you can do whatever you want ?Posted by MoonbutterPosted by MagicMonaWell you can do both ?
...do i really have to do myself? can't i do other women like i've been doing? 😢
😢 both? but that's too much work. can't she just return the favor? or do i have a pillow princess? 😢 LOLclick to expand
It's true, we don't need men but I want em anyways ??
lol ... meanwhile, all of these women come in dxp and whine, and carry on to high heaven that men aren't paying enough attention to them, and they're left completely confused over the simple shit.
Take the OP, for example .... that's all she does on the Gemini board, is wallow in insecurities because a man isn't paying attention to her.
:::: shakes head ::::
hypocrites and apparently proud as fuck about it
Posted by MoonbutterI still believe in LOVE! (I LOVE LOVE!) 🤗 cyber hugs!
Women don't need men, in fact we can take care of our selves in every way sooo GOOD luck with that fellas! ?
Love,
Eva
Posted by P-AngelYou don't even know what you are talking about... Take the stick out of your ass and wack yourself out of your "Debbie downer" syndrome. thank you ? Now u can go back to crosswords and cats.
lol ... meanwhile, all of these women come in dxp and whine, and carry on to high heaven that men aren't paying enough attention to them, and they're left completely confused over the simple shit.
Take the OP, for example .... that's all she does on the Gemini board, is wallow in insecurities because a man isn't paying attention to her.
:::: shakes head ::::
hypocrites and apparently proud as fuck about it
Posted by aphrodite3This is all meant to be a joke. You know nothing of respect calling women hoes and thots. STFU.
Y'all might not need men, but you might need to be nicer as people - you girls are too disrespectful and inconsiderate of men's feelings and well being while most dudes don't even want to do any of you dirty but be nice to y'all and cherish y'all but hey.. what do I know
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollThank you for explaining the obvious to these negative nancies. My god, I don't even know how these people function in society. ?Posted by P-Angel
lol ... meanwhile, all of these women come in dxp and whine, and carry on to high heaven that men aren't paying enough attention to them, and they're left completely confused over the simple shit.
Take the OP, for example .... that's all she does on the Gemini board, is wallow in insecurities because a man isn't paying attention to her.
:::: shakes head ::::
hypocrites and apparently proud as fuck about it
——?
This is just a satire thread as a response to another thread.
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships/relationships-are-pointless-men-dont-get-married--7279160/
Catch up!click to expand
Need leads women into neediness and desperation so no we women don't need that unattractive energy.
Many women want a man but we don't always get what we want.
Many women must emotionally evolve beyond her feelings and learn how to DATE more than one man (having multiple sex partners is optional) b/c no one man can fulfill, carry, heal nor fix or mend all of a woman's emotional needs.
No one man wants to be super connected and close constantly/daily b/c its draining for a man and it feels like WORK, men date b/c its fun, they don't need another job that requires him to be fully engaged and present 99% of the time.
But what I observe women doing Is putting ALL her emotional needs and emotional trauma and her emotional baggage onto ONE man, he feels the pressure building up to not hurt nor disappoint the woman he's dating and eventually he BOLTS take flight out and away from her which creates more pain and disappointment for women b/c she carries the scar of rejection into the next relationship and the next.
The challenge for a lot of women Is how to get rid of the needy feeling she carries around on a daily basis which causes her to subconsciously cling onto the first man that appears interested.
Many women want a man but we don't always get what we want.
Many women must emotionally evolve beyond her feelings and learn how to DATE more than one man (having multiple sex partners is optional) b/c no one man can fulfill, carry, heal nor fix or mend all of a woman's emotional needs.
No one man wants to be super connected and close constantly/daily b/c its draining for a man and it feels like WORK, men date b/c its fun, they don't need another job that requires him to be fully engaged and present 99% of the time.
But what I observe women doing Is putting ALL her emotional needs and emotional trauma and her emotional baggage onto ONE man, he feels the pressure building up to not hurt nor disappoint the woman he's dating and eventually he BOLTS take flight out and away from her which creates more pain and disappointment for women b/c she carries the scar of rejection into the next relationship and the next.
The challenge for a lot of women Is how to get rid of the needy feeling she carries around on a daily basis which causes her to subconsciously cling onto the first man that appears interested.
Posted by aphrodite3I'm just tired of your pointless rants?Posted by MoonbutterI call thots thots and hoes hoes - I call women women - So do that math - Not every woman is a woman and you should be old enough to know this by now like seriously? Are you that stupid or are you just being a shill for women or something?Posted by aphrodite3This is all meant to be a joke. You know nothing of respect calling women hoes and thots. STFU.
Y'all might not need men, but you might need to be nicer as people - you girls are too disrespectful and inconsiderate of men's feelings and well being while most dudes don't even want to do any of you dirty but be nice to y'all and cherish y'all but hey.. what do I knowclick to expand
Posted by LadyNeptune"Oh dear, Mr. Rabbit comes up a little bit short and stiff".Posted by TheSagMom, Dad, I'd like you to meet someone really special to me. This is Mr. Rabbit.Posted by LadyNeptuneAre you gonna introduce your parents to your future Mr. Dildo Neptune? ^^
It's true. Women can now reproduce, fuck themselves, AND bring home the bacon.
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Posted by TheSagI call him fluffy under the sheets 😉Posted by LadyNeptune"Oh dear, Mr. Rabbit comes up a little bit short and stiff".Posted by TheSagMom, Dad, I'd like you to meet someone really special to me. This is Mr. Rabbit.Posted by LadyNeptuneAre you gonna introduce your parents to your future Mr. Dildo Neptune? ^^
It's true. Women can now reproduce, fuck themselves, AND bring home the bacon.
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Male ants and bees are sperm slaves in the bug world.
Posted by ChoXtsyA lot of women are afraid to DATE more than one man in fear of others opinion and thus a lot of women go without and the more she does that the bigger the need b/c she's not addressing her needs in a fulfilling way so the need just grows bigger and bigger.Posted by tiki33Very good point!
Need leads women into neediness and desperation so no we women don't need that unattractive energy.
Many women want a man but we don't always get what we want.
Many women must emotionally evolve beyond her feelings and learn how to DATE more than one man (having multiple sex partners is optional) b/c no one man can fulfill, carry, heal nor fix or mend all of a woman's emotional needs.
No one man wants to be super connected and close constantly/daily b/c its draining for a man and it feels like WORK, men date b/c its fun, they don't need another job that requires him to be fully engaged and present 99% of the time.
But what I observe women doing Is putting ALL her emotional needs and emotional trauma and her emotional baggage onto ONE man, he feels the pressure building up to not hurt nor disappoint the woman he's dating and eventually he BOLTS take flight out and away from her which creates more pain and disappointment for women b/c she carries the scar of rejection into the next relationship and the next.
The challenge for a lot of women Is how to get rid of the needy feeling she carries around on a daily basis which causes her to subconsciously cling onto the first man that appears interested.
I wonder what it's like to have around multiple boyfriends. I think I would need three of them.click to expand
The good guy has the burden to not hurt her, not reject her, pay attention to her with little down time for himself without panicking her emotionally, it's just way too much for a good guy to carry which is why it's so important for women to be happy and emotionally who!e with a man or without one.
As long as we date responsibly and be honest then dating becomes fun and fun energy can easily attract a great guy that could lead into exclusivity.
Just to be clear dating is just that, it's dating, an occasional date does not mean sex ie having sex with more than one man, that is optional depending on the woman. I know this topic of dating more than one guy makes a lot of women feel uneasy.
Notice the men that date more than one woman never appear desperate to couple up because their needs are being met daily so they never give off that I need a woman vibe.
Posted by aphrodite3You are a male unicorn. Many women will be throwed off mentally and emotionally by that ONE man who isn't afraid b/c the last 3 guys rejected her horribly you will be met with suspicion and disbelief.Posted by tiki33it doesn't sound draining to me but I think women mistake me being able to handle their emotional needs as me being needy - it's retarded but hey - its wahtever
Need leads women into neediness and desperation so no we women don't need that unattractive energy.
Many women want a man but we don't always get what we want.
Many women must emotionally evolve beyond her feelings and learn how to DATE more than one man (having multiple sex partners is optional) b/c no one man can fulfill, carry, heal nor fix or mend all of a woman's emotional needs.
No one man wants to be super connected and close constantly/daily b/c its draining for a man and it feels like WORK, men date b/c its fun, they don't need another job that requires him to be fully engaged and present 99% of the time.
But what I observe women doing Is putting ALL her emotional needs and emotional trauma and her emotional baggage onto ONE man, he feels the pressure building up to not hurt nor disappoint the woman he's dating and eventually he BOLTS take flight out and away from her which creates more pain and disappointment for women b/c she carries the scar of rejection into the next relationship and the next.
The challenge for a lot of women Is how to get rid of the needy feeling she carries around on a daily basis which causes her to subconsciously cling onto the first man that appears interested.
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A lot of women are so used to chasing a man to get a certain level of love out of him and force feeding him her needs that by the time you come into the picture she's completely skeptical, bad men and poor relationships can cause a woman to stop believing in men.
Posted by tiki33They are not dating, they are fucking around. 😉Posted by ChoXtsyPosted by tiki33Very good point!
Need leads women into neediness and desperation so no we women don't need that unattractive energy.
Many women want a man but we don't always get what we want.
Many women must emotionally evolve beyond her feelings and learn how to DATE more than one man (having multiple sex partners is optional) b/c no one man can fulfill, carry, heal nor fix or mend all of a woman's emotional needs.
No one man wants to be super connected and close constantly/daily b/c its draining for a man and it feels like WORK, men date b/c its fun, they don't need another job that requires him to be fully engaged and present 99% of the time.
But what I observe women doing Is putting ALL her emotional needs and emotional trauma and her emotional baggage onto ONE man, he feels the pressure building up to not hurt nor disappoint the woman he's dating and eventually he BOLTS take flight out and away from her which creates more pain and disappointment for women b/c she carries the scar of rejection into the next relationship and the next.
The challenge for a lot of women Is how to get rid of the needy feeling she carries around on a daily basis which causes her to subconsciously cling onto the first man that appears interested.
I wonder what it's like to have around multiple boyfriends. I think I would need three of them.
Notice the men that date more than one woman never appear desperate to couple up because their needs are being met daily so they never give off that I need a woman vibe.
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Posted by TheSagAlbeit solely physical they are meeting their individual needs.Posted by tiki33They are not dating, they are fucking around. 😉Posted by ChoXtsyPosted by tiki33Very good point!
Need leads women into neediness and desperation so no we women don't need that unattractive energy.
Many women want a man but we don't always get what we want.
Many women must emotionally evolve beyond her feelings and learn how to DATE more than one man (having multiple sex partners is optional) b/c no one man can fulfill, carry, heal nor fix or mend all of a woman's emotional needs.
No one man wants to be super connected and close constantly/daily b/c its draining for a man and it feels like WORK, men date b/c its fun, they don't need another job that requires him to be fully engaged and present 99% of the time.
But what I observe women doing Is putting ALL her emotional needs and emotional trauma and her emotional baggage onto ONE man, he feels the pressure building up to not hurt nor disappoint the woman he's dating and eventually he BOLTS take flight out and away from her which creates more pain and disappointment for women b/c she carries the scar of rejection into the next relationship and the next.
The challenge for a lot of women Is how to get rid of the needy feeling she carries around on a daily basis which causes her to subconsciously cling onto the first man that appears interested.
I wonder what it's like to have around multiple boyfriends. I think I would need three of them.
Notice the men that date more than one woman never appear desperate to couple up because their needs are being met daily so they never give off that I need a woman vibe.
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Men that take care of themselves do not beg for love, they are sexually satisfied therefore they are not holding any one woman accountable for their needs being met, they also rarely come across relationship needy.
Some women get stuck in a rut because they haven't quite figured out how to give themselves the love, intimacy and affection they want and need without judgement or guilt and without feeling bad about themselves.
We (a lot of us) have tunnel vision with the idea that ONE man will show up and be everything for her and although there are exceptions to the rules alot of women are not the exception.
Posted by tiki33I am not sure what your point is though.Posted by TheSagAlbeit solely physical they are meeting their individual needs.Posted by tiki33They are not dating, they are fucking around. 😉Posted by ChoXtsyPosted by tiki33Very good point!
Need leads women into neediness and desperation so no we women don't need that unattractive energy.
Many women want a man but we don't always get what we want.
Many women must emotionally evolve beyond her feelings and learn how to DATE more than one man (having multiple sex partners is optional) b/c no one man can fulfill, carry, heal nor fix or mend all of a woman's emotional needs.
No one man wants to be super connected and close constantly/daily b/c its draining for a man and it feels like WORK, men date b/c its fun, they don't need another job that requires him to be fully engaged and present 99% of the time.
But what I observe women doing Is putting ALL her emotional needs and emotional trauma and her emotional baggage onto ONE man, he feels the pressure building up to not hurt nor disappoint the woman he's dating and eventually he BOLTS take flight out and away from her which creates more pain and disappointment for women b/c she carries the scar of rejection into the next relationship and the next.
The challenge for a lot of women Is how to get rid of the needy feeling she carries around on a daily basis which causes her to subconsciously cling onto the first man that appears interested.
I wonder what it's like to have around multiple boyfriends. I think I would need three of them.
Notice the men that date more than one woman never appear desperate to couple up because their needs are being met daily so they never give off that I need a woman vibe.
Men that take care of themselves do not beg for love, they are sexually satisfied therefore they are not holding any one woman accountable for their needs being met, they also rarely come across relationship needy.
Some women get stuck in a rut because they haven't quite figured out how to give themselves the love, intimacy and affection they want and need without judgement or guilt and without feeling bad about themselves.
We (a lot of us) have tunnel vision with the idea that ONE man will show up and be everything for her and although there are exceptions to the rules alot of women are not the exception.
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What I was trying to say is that men who have multiple women don't "date" them, they just fuck them, it's 99% just sexual and there are no real feelings involved on his part. I once saw a docu about Marlon Brando, who had multiple women at the same time. His former Ex-gf were convinced that Brando needed different women for his different needs (women who were intelectual, interested in arts, sports, music etc.). Well first off those women were pretty and young, which is not a surprize at all. And to be honest, I don't think men need different women for those things at all. Brando was just huge Hollywood star who needed new pussy once in a while. He was probably a sex addict.
Men date multiple women and they have sex with multiple women therefore they never come across as relationship needy for any ONE particular woman whereas.....
Women (many of us) don't date multiple men and won't have sex with multiple men and will go months and sometimes years going without male companionship and when the very first guy that seems interested she's moving at lightening speed to couple up with him because she's been alone and lonely which has caused her to be relationship needy which will run a man who is not relationship needy out the door on her if she isn't able to stop the neediness in its tracks.
I observe a lot of women on DXP are relationship needy because they are sitting waiting for love to happen and/or are sitting around trying to get that ONE guy whose distant and resistant to being committed with her into commitment which is a total waste of time.
Women do not get the luxury of having multiple men to date and multiple male sex partners which could keep her from being needy and could serve to help her figure out what she wants but she can't do that without being judged harshly and shamed so a lot of women opt for being alone and being lonely or end up with the wrong guy who she's begging to love her.
A lot of women will sit around and just wait and wait and grow more and more desperate and needy.
The women that buck back and say uck it are the ones that eventually get the man they want. Least I did.
Women (many of us) don't date multiple men and won't have sex with multiple men and will go months and sometimes years going without male companionship and when the very first guy that seems interested she's moving at lightening speed to couple up with him because she's been alone and lonely which has caused her to be relationship needy which will run a man who is not relationship needy out the door on her if she isn't able to stop the neediness in its tracks.
I observe a lot of women on DXP are relationship needy because they are sitting waiting for love to happen and/or are sitting around trying to get that ONE guy whose distant and resistant to being committed with her into commitment which is a total waste of time.
Women do not get the luxury of having multiple men to date and multiple male sex partners which could keep her from being needy and could serve to help her figure out what she wants but she can't do that without being judged harshly and shamed so a lot of women opt for being alone and being lonely or end up with the wrong guy who she's begging to love her.
A lot of women will sit around and just wait and wait and grow more and more desperate and needy.
The women that buck back and say uck it are the ones that eventually get the man they want. Least I did.
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