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The degrees of these aspects would help a bit more.
Posted by BlondeAmbitionI'm an ass because I didn't think she was interested in me? Ok.Posted by dannmann1992YOU ARE AN ASSPosted by WateryGemHaha. Unfortunately this is partly true. I set this stuff up for vday, then the whole sex mishap, and when I dropped her off I expected her to say something like "Hey had a good time", "Thanks again for last night" because any time I've had a date and I'm dropping a girl off or walking her to her car I usually get that or even after we've left I'll get that text saying these things. This time nothing. Not a peep. Pecked and left.Posted by BlondeAmbitionIf you read his post it doesn't sound like he has contacted her but actually thought he was supposed to get a "thumbs up" or a stamp of approval for his sexual deed. When really HE should do that, b/c what if she was feeling unsure of the entire situation b/c it might have been awkward. Most females want a guy to lead. I don't know if I have sex with someone for the 1st time if I'm going to tell them, "hey good job putting your penis inside of me". LOL I'm just not sure if I would.Posted by WateryGemWait what I presumed he had tried to contact her first??DUDE!
Please tell me you haven't waited a week to contact her?click to expand
Posted by dannmann1992Me:
Mercury uote>Posted by WateryGem
I just saw she is a Leo Sun, Mars Taurus, what's her Moon and Venus, Mercury?
Sun: Taurus
Moon: Gemini
Venus: Pisces
Mars: Pisces
Her:
Sun: Leo
Moon: Scorpio
Venus: Cancer
Mars: Taurus
Mercury: Virgo
I knew she was going to have my Moon and Venus. LOL So have you called her, yet? I would jump on that, she is probably now offended that she hasn't heard a peep from you.
Posted by dannmann1992You treated her badly. You are solely focused on sex. You are a dirtbag of the highest order. This will forever be a mystery to you and it will never dawn on you. You don't care about her feelings. You are arrogant and vain.Posted by BlondeAmbitionI'm an ass because I didn't think she was interested in me? Ok.Posted by dannmann1992YOU ARE AN ASSPosted by WateryGemHaha. Unfortunately this is partly true. I set this stuff up for vday, then the whole sex mishap, and when I dropped her off I expected her to say something like "Hey had a good time", "Thanks again for last night" because any time I've had a date and I'm dropping a girl off or walking her to her car I usually get that or even after we've left I'll get that text saying these things. This time nothing. Not a peep. Pecked and left.Posted by BlondeAmbitionIf you read his post it doesn't sound like he has contacted her but actually thought he was supposed to get a "thumbs up" or a stamp of approval for his sexual deed. When really HE should do that, b/c what if she was feeling unsure of the entire situation b/c it might have been awkward. Most females want a guy to lead. I don't know if I have sex with someone for the 1st time if I'm going to tell them, "hey good job putting your penis inside of me". LOL I'm just not sure if I would.Posted by WateryGemWait what I presumed he had tried to contact her first??DUDE!
Please tell me you haven't waited a week to contact her?click to expand
Goodbye.
Posted by AriesIntrovert16Me:
The degrees of these aspects would help a bit more.
Sun: Taurus 7°08
Moon: Gemini 12°23'
Venus: Pisces 22°47'
Mars: Pisces 5°03'
Mercury: Taurus 16°40'
Her:
Sun: Leo 7°14
Moon: Scorpio 19°05
Venus: Cancer 12°41
Mars: Taurus 11°49
Mercury: Virgo 1°43'
Posted by WateryGemI knew she was going to have my Moon and Venus. LOL So have you called her, yet? I would jump on that, she is probably now offended that she hasn't heard a peep from you.Posted by dannmann1992Me:
Mercury uote>Posted by WateryGem
I just saw she is a Leo Sun, Mars Taurus, what's her Moon and Venus, Mercury?
Sun: Taurus
Moon: Gemini
Venus: Pisces
Mars: Pisces
Her:
Sun: Leo
Moon: Scorpio
Venus: Cancer
Mars: Taurus
Mercury: Virgo
click to expand
I just did. It went to voice mail. I'll wait and see.
Posted by BlondeAmbitionI don't think he was trying to treat her bad, I actually feel he is insecure about this performance which is very normal. However, what triggered him to feel he was inadequate was his thoughts, and then when she didn't give him the reassurance of a good time, he felt he failed, then she didn't text, so he felt she wasn't into him. So now he needs to just reach out and really see what the other party might actually be feeling vs his own feelings and ego. 🙂Posted by dannmann1992You treated her badly. You are solely focused on sex. You are a dirtbag of the highest order. This will forever be a mystery to you and it will never dawn on you. You don't care about her feelings. You are arrogant and vain.Posted by BlondeAmbitionI'm an ass because I didn't think she was interested in me? Ok.Posted by dannmann1992YOU ARE AN ASSPosted by WateryGemHaha. Unfortunately this is partly true. I set this stuff up for vday, then the whole sex mishap, and when I dropped her off I expected her to say something like "Hey had a good time", "Thanks again for last night" because any time I've had a date and I'm dropping a girl off or walking her to her car I usually get that or even after we've left I'll get that text saying these things. This time nothing. Not a peep. Pecked and left.Posted by BlondeAmbitionIf you read his post it doesn't sound like he has contacted her but actually thought he was supposed to get a "thumbs up" or a stamp of approval for his sexual deed. When really HE should do that, b/c what if she was feeling unsure of the entire situation b/c it might have been awkward. Most females want a guy to lead. I don't know if I have sex with someone for the 1st time if I'm going to tell them, "hey good job putting your penis inside of me". LOL I'm just not sure if I would.Posted by WateryGemWait what I presumed he had tried to contact her first??DUDE!
Please tell me you haven't waited a week to contact her?
Goodbye.click to expand
Posted by dannmann1992I just did. It went to voice mail. I'll wait and see.Posted by WateryGemI knew she was going to have my Moon and Venus. LOL So have you called her, yet? I would jump on that, she is probably now offended that she hasn't heard a peep from you.Posted by dannmann1992Me:
Mercury uote>Posted by WateryGem
I just saw she is a Leo Sun, Mars Taurus, what's her Moon and Venus, Mercury?
Sun: Taurus
Moon: Gemini
Venus: Pisces
Mars: Pisces
Her:
Sun: Leo
Moon: Scorpio
Venus: Cancer
Mars: Taurus
Mercury: Virgo
click to expand
If she doesn't call you back, try again... I've found with Leos you have to push just a little bit if they are in their feelings.
Good luck to you!!
Posted by WateryGemTook the words right out of my mouth. Thank you haha.Posted by BlondeAmbitionI don't think he was trying to treat her bad, I actually feel he is insecure about this performance which is very normal. However, what triggered him to feel he was inadequate was his thoughts, and then when she didn't give him the reassurance of a good time, he felt he failed, then she didn't text, so he felt she wasn't into him. So now he needs to just reach out and really see what the other party might actually be feeling vs his own feelings and ego. 🙂Posted by dannmann1992You treated her badly. You are solely focused on sex. You are a dirtbag of the highest order. This will forever be a mystery to you and it will never dawn on you. You don't care about her feelings. You are arrogant and vain.Posted by BlondeAmbitionI'm an ass because I didn't think she was interested in me? Ok.Posted by dannmann1992YOU ARE AN ASSPosted by WateryGemHaha. Unfortunately this is partly true. I set this stuff up for vday, then the whole sex mishap, and when I dropped her off I expected her to say something like "Hey had a good time", "Thanks again for last night" because any time I've had a date and I'm dropping a girl off or walking her to her car I usually get that or even after we've left I'll get that text saying these things. This time nothing. Not a peep. Pecked and left.Posted by BlondeAmbitionIf you read his post it doesn't sound like he has contacted her but actually thought he was supposed to get a "thumbs up" or a stamp of approval for his sexual deed. When really HE should do that, b/c what if she was feeling unsure of the entire situation b/c it might have been awkward. Most females want a guy to lead. I don't know if I have sex with someone for the 1st time if I'm going to tell them, "hey good job putting your penis inside of me". LOL I'm just not sure if I would.Posted by WateryGemWait what I presumed he had tried to contact her first??DUDE!
Please tell me you haven't waited a week to contact her?
Goodbye.click to expand
Plus this is a girl I used to date in HS so given we had history I just thought...idk what I thought hah
Posted by WateryGemThanks!
Good luck to you!!
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