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I'm with Bella on the cougar thing...I personally dont find older men attractive and never have, but moreso now as most my age and older have really let themselves go...I've dated younger but found they were immature. And what originally attrached me to them was the fact that they seemed so mature in the beginning. I'm exploring the possibility of someone a year younger...so far so good. If there's a strong connection then there's nothing wrong with it, in relationships people have roles. With gays there's always the male and female, with some hetro's some like to play the motherly or fatherly figures. Most girls mother their partners anyway no matter what their ages...Why do you think the women always have problems with the mother-in-law—



The 50 year olds...

Yep they look too hot the most of them but I can honestly say that it's not all surgery, those ladies are workedout and they are eating healthy. Boobs, well every other person has them in the Gold Coast and who cares that people want to make themselves feel better. I have no problem with people going under the knife for their own confidence and reasons. After all it's what counts inside that matters. You can be the most gorgeous looking person on the outside but if your a nasty horrid person on the in...it'll show up.

So if someone was to spend a couple of grand with bo-tox...is that much different to someone spending a couple grand on a Gucci accessory—
If so why? Isn't all just an image thing?


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Is that where you have your eyes widened? My mother had that being full asian, wanted to have more eyelid. I didnt really see much difference but she did and was happy with it and thats all that really matters.

Most of the surgeries I've seen of late...esp boobs are of mothers that have had their kids...I work within the gym industry and they are working hard out but you cant change nature and they do flop and fall or after children end up like the old ladies from There's something about Mary. Some go very large and it can look a little silly and def false but it's their money and they have to wear them so what the heck...

I also had a friend that went to Thailand to have a nose job, he was so conscious of his nose and felt he wasnt attractive becasue of it. He booked his flight and he was a different person when he came back. Not only did it look great but all of a sudden this guy was a God to women...previously he couldn't score for the life of him! Now it didnt alter his looks that much but it certainly altered his confidence in himself and so therefore he was more out there and it showed.

So yeah if you dont want to that's your choice but dont knock others if they chose to do so...even the scary cat women has to live with her own choice!
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Im with Bella on the cougar term. I dont much like it myself either. I do go out and the places I go range in ages of 22 - 45 so I do see my share of young men and get approached by them.... but I dont consider myself a cougar and dont seek out young men. I would much rather have a man my age provided that he takes good care of himself. Health and fitness is a HUGE part of who I am so I look for a partner with similar interests. Most times I find myself with men of about the 31-35 age group and that works just fine for me provided they are mature and have the crap together!
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I guess Cougars are a term given...we take it as a negative but really it's like the kids these days that call us MILFS...I dont appreciate that either but to them we are hot older women so really it should be a compliment...Still doesnt feel like it though huh?



Yes, I know we really should take it as a compliment, but for some reason it just irritates me! I guess its because I dont prey on young men like the term really suggests. I dont have any desire to coddle a youngster, pay his way or take care of him like a child. I want a MAN that wants to stand beside me in life and has the tools and resources to offer me the same that I will offer him. I dont need someone to take care of me financially but I would love someone who understands my emotional needs and can make me feel secure as well as needed. The cougar term suggests that you are taking care of someone.... like a sugar momma.... I dont like that either! LOL!
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LOL Bella, on MILF. Agreed... leave out the mom part! I dont have kids of my own (had step-kids) so Im technically not a mom but I have a sister that is 15 years younger and one day I was dropping her off at her Homecoming parade and all the football players were in the Firetruck getting ready to start the parade. They suddenly starting chanting MILF and I was like IM NOT A MOM!!! LMAO!!!! My sister wasnt too happy about it either!!!!
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Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
LOL Bella, on MILF. Agreed... leave out the mom part! I dont have kids of my own (had step-kids) so Im technically not a mom but I have a sister that is 15 years younger and one day I was dropping her off at her Homecoming parade and all the football players were in the Firetruck getting ready to start the parade. They suddenly starting chanting MILF and I was like IM NOT A MOM!!! LMAO!!!! My sister wasnt too happy about it either!!!!



Hahahahaha
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Okay... young guy story. This weekend I was out at a bar with a married couple that I am very close to. We were having a few drinks and dancing and having fun, etc. Okay, mind you as I have mentioned before, I live in a town that is primarily known as a "Party Town"... a huge spring break attraction and a lot of young people flock to the area. So, it's getting pretty crowded and I'm just doing my thing when I notice this young guy checking me out and he begins to migrate toward where I am. Eventually he ends up leaning against the wall directly behind our table.

He taps me on the shoulder and says "So, am I too young?"

WTF? Too young for what? To drive? To drink? To be out this late? To have a job? To live alone? To masturbate?

"Too young for you?.... You are a very sexy woman and I dont see a wedding band on your finger.... what's up with that?" *smh*

So I ask him how old he is.... 21!!! "Yes, sweetheart... you are too young!" LMAO!!!!

Anyway, I find it amusing that most young men think that if you are an attractive older woman that you HAVE to be married or something is wrong. Actually I find it amusing that it was even a topic of conversation in a conversation that was less than about 5 sentences long. I mean, just because Im old as dirt doesnt mean I have to be miserable does it??!!! LMAO!!!

Just an observation!

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Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved

I mean, just because Im old as dirt doesnt mean I have to be miserable does it??!!! LMAO!!!

Just an observation!


LMAO!!! Ok, you AREN'T old as dirt! But, I agree with you 100% . I need nobody's pity because I am in my 30's and not married. Who gives a shit? I mean really. I have a pretty darn good life, and I wouldn't trade it any second of any day for any of my friends who are married. I love them to death, and a couple of them do have relatively good home lives, but again, it's not for me. I tell people that give me crap about getting married, "You chose to get married, I choose not too. Neither one of us is right or wrong, we are DIFFERENT people with different wants/needs/desires. Have fun in your life and leave me alone!" Curiously, most of my married friends wish to be single (not all of the time, but sometimes); whereas most of my single friends (barring a couple) never really freak out about getting married, and we are all in the 27-37 age group.
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Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
...I mean, just because Im old as dirt doesnt mean I have to be miserable does it??!!! LMAO!!!




Old as dirt?!?! Hell no! I love being my 30's. Old enough to look behind me. Young enough to feel my soul.


Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved

Anyway, I find it amusing that most young men think that if you are an attractive older woman that you HAVE to be married or something is wrong. Actually I find it amusing that it was even a topic of conversation in a conversation that was less than about 5 sentences long.

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Well speaking for myself...
When I meet a female, I automatically check her fingers WITHOUT QUESTION for a band or a tan line of said band. It sets the tone for everything

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Old as dirt?!?! Hell no! I love being my 30's. Old enough to look behind me. Young enough to feel my soul.






Hmm.... with my sick twisted sense of humor..... I probly shouldnt even comment on this one!!! 😄




Well speaking for myself...
When I meet a female, I automatically check her fingers WITHOUT QUESTION for a band or a tan line of said band. It sets the tone for everything

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I never wore my wedding band to the beach.... so there ya have it SUCKAS!!!!!

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Not much in the way of tan lines here, but yah,I'm totally in agreement with you on this one...not only does it set the tone,but you don't have to waste the 'good stuff' on them 🙂
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Well the tone for this particular conversation was more on the level of "why arent you married at your age..... your hot...... so whats the malfunction?"

Nothing wrong with asking, but in this particular situation.... I clearly didnt have a ring on and he was more focused on age... hence the "am I too young?" question.

And what do you mean by good stuff? huh huh? 😉
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Posted by VirgoHero
Well keep in mind, its fairly common that ladies out there that go out on the pretense of "looking single" just for the sake of the ego stroke. They have no intentions of infidelity but still like being hit on as if they were still single.

While cute, that game isn't worth my time.


It's called "Catch & Release!"

@ VH - I put a 🙂 because I could see you peeping out the hand in a discreet way.
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Ah ha!!! Thats exactly what it is..... A BIG BAG OF TRICKS!!!!



You ladies can certainly understand the concept of not wasting time....energy...resources...on a fruitless endeavor? *grins*
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Oh absolutely! I think we have all had our share of *coughs* fruitless endeavors!!! 😉

BUT.... that's not exactly where I was going with that whole comment!!!!!

Besides, we can all stroke our own "egos"!
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One thing I've noticed here Bella is the younger guys flirting with all the older ladies on here...You all seem to be in the same mind (so to speak) and can laugh and joke around with each other. I wonder if it would be like that if we all had a dxp party, who would actually be able to talk with whom. Not many of the young girls chat with the older guys unless they are getting fatherly/man advice.

So in my opinion, older woman younger guys quite a possibility...