Healing From a broken heart

Idk what to do guys... When you in love with someone and it comes to a end, and they're not hurting... When they put you through the BS and leave you for sticking up for yourself... Tell you they don't have time for what you want... After almost three years together, and hoping they'd change...

I'm angry, hurt, upset, frustrated, disappointed... Wth. It's not fair

I just called her to hear her voice ... She moves on so easily. I'm not a relationship jumper... She was my first relationship and everything ... You're right, I needed to hear her voice... I just hate this feeling. I can think my business through, I can build a dream home, but I can't get over the fact I'm hurting. I am not trying to lead anyone else on.. Decided to heal by myself ... But, I'm so hurt lol. I can't even get her out my mind ... I let her go, she deserves the best. But what about me?? What do I do— Who's going to be there for me—? It's really coming to a end... I hate myself for letting myself fall in love. I always kept it safe, I let my guard down.. I FEEL SO STUPID. I'm so hurt..


Like my heart beats fast when I think about it ya know— I'm about to go site seeing and stuff and order these items for my brand and just relax... And just calm down. But I'm hurting, I'm ready for it to stop hurting so much... I swore me and her was together forever. I always knew I could count on her..




It's just I'm a girl. She deserves a husband...

slash their tires

I know. I know... I know... Just taking it super hard.
We were best friends, and fell in love... Everything was perfect. We both did young stuff, but idk... We letting go because I feel we might hold each other back and she needs a husband and she's afraid of being with a girl for life and truthfully I am also...

So complicated dating girls, because we really be in love with each other .... But feel we need a dude because it's how love should be ... And don't ever get that same feeling..




Thank you though, I'm doing everything not to feel sad right now. I gave myself two weeks max... I'm mad that I'm still hurt. If this was my company of have it done

Posted by HouseCleaning
slash their tires

Thought about it lol. Might be the only thing that helps me...


It's like we trying to stop the love, so we act spiteful towards each other but know we supposed to be together ... STUPID.

Posted by Gobshite

Posted by arose32

After almost three years together, and hoping they'd change...

And that was your biggest mistake. Why should anyone feel sorry for you?

You made your own bed of misery...

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Just letting the emotions run over... And trust me, sometimes the ride is so worth it ... Idk why I was so in love with this person... Idk. But you right..


But please keep the NEGATIVE VIBES away from me right now.. We're all human...

Lol figured you was a Capricorn... Y'all so negative... Can't help it... But it's all good Fam... Get off my thread with the vibes you putting out... For Real... I'm just playing music, Vibing.. Expressing, and you judging.... Go back to y'all thread with that one sided point of view y'all have...

I'm so sorry about your breakup honey. It's going to be a tough journey, but you CAN and WILL make it 🙂

Posted by arose32
But what about me?? What do I do— Who's going to be there for me—?

Posted by Chelsey07
I'm so sorry about your breakup honey. It's going to be a tough journey, but you CAN and WILL make it 🙂

Thanks man... Maybe two more weeks it'll be back to normal... Ya know— I'll be just fine!! Just trying to get over it...

Posted by ShadowAbsorber
I'm so sorry. 😢(

Someone will make you happier, someone who cares and who you're attracted to. There's many people in the world, right?

Yes you're right.. Just upset at the fact I thought this one was truly different ya know... I was so down to ride for me and her totally... Like, prepared for the good and bad days... That stuff didn't scare me. I guess I'm kind of old schooled. Don't believe in just throwing stuff away, and yes I'm aware I have options. A lot of them... I'm def not ugly and I'm I can attract whatever.. It's just I figured she was here for a reason.

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Posted by Chelsey07
I'm so sorry about your breakup honey. It's going to be a tough journey, but you CAN and WILL make it 🙂

Thanks man... Maybe two more weeks it'll be back to normal... Ya know— I'll be just fine!! Just trying to get over it...

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It takes time, but you'll be fine.

Posted by Gobshite
LMAO!!!

So, you're a Sag with a Leo moon. Now, it all fucking makes sense...

*smh*

Lol.. What that mean man?? 🤔🤔

Posted by Chelsey07

Posted by arose32

Posted by Chelsey07
I'm so sorry about your breakup honey. It's going to be a tough journey, but you CAN and WILL make it 🙂

Thanks man... Maybe two more weeks it'll be back to normal... Ya know— I'll be just fine!! Just trying to get over it...

It takes time, but you'll be fine.

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Thank you... I'll try and get some rest and let it go ya know?? Seriously ... I have big things coming up for my company, so maybe that'll be the way to make it easier... Just ready to be over it... Lol. Hard when you choose to move on by yourself and not anyone else ... UGH I HATE FEELING SAD. Life is too short for this man... I know better than this lol.

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Posted by Chelsey07
I'm so sorry about your breakup honey. It's going to be a tough journey, but you CAN and WILL make it 🙂

Thanks man... Maybe two more weeks it'll be back to normal... Ya know— I'll be just fine!! Just trying to get over it...

It takes time, but you'll be fine.

Thank you... I'll try and get some rest and let it go ya know?? Seriously ... I have big things coming up for my company, so maybe that'll be the way to make it easier... Just ready to be over it... Lol. Hard when you choose to move on by yourself and not anyone else ... UGH I HATE FEELING SAD. Life is too short for this man... I know better than this lol.

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But remember to give yourself time to grieve. There is no set time to get over a breakup. You won’t just wake up two weeks or a month from now and say "Yep, today's the day that I'm over this person." It just happens. Good luck with your company.

Posted by starlover
OP

Tis all part of growing up

Learn by our mistakes and all that.....I was there once

Give it time

How long until you didn't hurt anymore??
I'm for real sad lol.. Well, sometimes it's easy and sometimes it's difficult ... Did you find love again?

Geesh. I never knew love could be this intense... It's crazy. But you're right ... Thank y'all. Thank you. I gotta stop this. I was doing great... For real. I'll talk myself out of it.

Posted by starlover
...it took me over a year from each relationship to become balanced again, but my chart is very very fixed, so it depends on the person and how they process grief. I also got some help around the endings...i dont believe we can do the healing all alone

I'm just so confused... I've never been hurt before... We always talked... Best friends ... Stupid... But, she'll be great. I'm going to keep with my movement and make it happen... Get rich and focus. But, yeah man... I'll be fine... Just not used to this...

True... No doubt...

It doesn't mean she can't feel hurt now.

When you love you dream and take risks. Most of the times we fail and fall without a net to catch you. But that's life. It sucks. But nobody dies bc of heartbreak. It will make you stronger

Oh man! Please tell me that bitch is a sag too! I've been trough 2 sag "break ups" (in a row) in the past 4 years, I am a sag and gosh sags are so complicated lol