Sag males are you good at feeling emotion? (Page 2)

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He texted me right before he had to go into work. It's nice to know he isn't ignoring me or that he actually has time for me with his schedule. Glad I texted him or I'd probably still feel like crap for the rest of the day >.

Ya good! New Scorp txted me " If I missed him yet?" I said " Yea " like a two days ago.

Than today txted me " Hello " I said " Hey " he never said anything back lol


FREAK!

Haha I had a scorp that would just say "hey" or "hi" sometimes and when I said hey back sometimes he wouldn't say anything back. Come to think of it I had two scorps that did that to me. What is their deal? lol Their weird, but I guess they keep things interesting.

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It is! I don't get it? What are they trying to do?

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He texted me right before he had to go into work. It's nice to know he isn't ignoring me or that he actually has time for me with his schedule. Glad I texted him or I'd probably still feel like crap for the rest of the day >.

Ya good! New Scorp txted me " If I missed him yet?" I said " Yea " like a two days ago.

Than today txted me " Hello " I said " Hey " he never said anything back lol


FREAK!

Haha I had a scorp that would just say "hey" or "hi" sometimes and when I said hey back sometimes he wouldn't say anything back. Come to think of it I had two scorps that did that to me. What is their deal? lol Their weird, but I guess they keep things interesting.

It is! I don't get it? What are they trying to do?

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Confused you? Keep you interested? Sometimes I think they don't even realize what they're doing. They can be so self sabotaging sometimes

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He texted me right before he had to go into work. It's nice to know he isn't ignoring me or that he actually has time for me with his schedule. Glad I texted him or I'd probably still feel like crap for the rest of the day >.

Ya good! New Scorp txted me " If I missed him yet?" I said " Yea " like a two days ago.

Than today txted me " Hello " I said " Hey " he never said anything back lol


FREAK!

Haha I had a scorp that would just say "hey" or "hi" sometimes and when I said hey back sometimes he wouldn't say anything back. Come to think of it I had two scorps that did that to me. What is their deal? lol Their weird, but I guess they keep things interesting.

It is! I don't get it? What are they trying to do?

Confused you? Keep you interested? Sometimes I think they don't even realize what they're doing. They can be so self sabotaging sometimes

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Ya they can! I don't like it

Posted by happykitsune
Blaaah.. Idk how long I should not text my sag...for this whole week? I'm wondering if I should just ask if something else is up, and it'll just save me heart ache if I find out anything that's going on and possibly end it :/

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Posted by happykitsune
Blaaah.. Idk how long I should not text my sag...for this whole week? I'm wondering if I should just ask if something else is up, and it'll just save me heart ache if I find out anything that's going on and possibly end it :/

Well it has only been a couple of days I believe, he text you back yesterday and if you haven't talked to him today via txt maybe you should wait till tomorrow and tell him to have a good day or something like that by text. If he remains distant after this week maybe it is more to it but Sagg don't like a lot of pressure in a relationship so I would just not make a big deal about it and go with the flow. I know sometimes its hard to go with the flow espically if you have developed feelings so if you feel strongly about how he is acting you should bring it up to resolve the issue and you both can be on the same page.

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Posted by Sagittarius89
Hows it goin kits?

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Wow that is alot! Sucks that happens right when you two start to get familiar. I hope he gets that worked out. Ya that is great your being there for him. I know what you mean though, whenever someone tells me what they are going though I'm like " Why didn't you call me—?" lol but I think sometimes people feel like they have to go it alone and it just becomes a unconscious doing. Like do you ever tuck into yourself when you get really stressed you know? Sometimes it just happens lol

Yeah I texted him "good morning" just so he knows im still thinking of him.

I don't always have tht much stress in my life, but if i do, and its usually concerning a boy. I won't talk to people as much, sometimes even ignoring people if I just don't feel like talking. I guess I just haven't experienced a lot of stress while i was dating someone so idk how I'd act.

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Posted by happykitsune
He texted me right before he had to go into work. It's nice to know he isn't ignoring me or that he actually has time for me with his schedule. Glad I texted him or I'd probably still feel like crap for the rest of the day >.

im the same way

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He texted me right before he had to go into work. It's nice to know he isn't ignoring me or that he actually has time for me with his schedule. Glad I texted him or I'd probably still feel like crap for the rest of the day >.

Ya good! New Scorp txted me " If I missed him yet?" I said " Yea " like a two days ago.

Than today txted me " Hello " I said " Hey " he never said anything back lol


FREAK!

Haha I had a scorp that would just say "hey" or "hi" sometimes and when I said hey back sometimes he wouldn't say anything back. Come to think of it I had two scorps that did that to me. What is their deal? lol Their weird, but I guess they keep things interesting.

It is! I don't get it? What are they trying to do?

Confused you? Keep you interested? Sometimes I think they don't even realize what they're doing. They can be so self sabotaging sometimes

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her scorp may not be trying to "over do" it....

u see the connection?? to text or not to text? to text, but how much?

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her scorp may not be trying to "over do" it....

u see the connection?? to text or not to text? to text, but how much?

Posted by enni
Sweetie, it's not always good to channel all of your energy to this matter. I understand you worry alot about it because you care about your Sag. I hope you can channel it to somewhere else so you don't get too much anxiety or worrying....something that would help you take the matter off your head for a while... Too much worry or overthinking is not fun draining your energy, physically, emotionally and mental energy. You may not gain something positive from that......(I'm getting sleepopyy ) sexy kistune take it easy there's a reason "happy" is prepended to your nickname. 😉 good night!

Posted by happykitsune
I just think there is just too much miscommunication. With this sag...with her scorpio. There are so many things left unsaid and some many things that could be avoided if we would just be honest and say what we were feeling. Most of us are so afraid to get our feelings hurt tho.

I was literally getting sick with anxiety last night. I couldn't sleep. The only reason why I didn't text the sag today is because my sag friend and my taur sister told me not to contact him because apparently it's weak. On the other hand...I want to know whats up so I can close up lose ends if I need to and not have things hanging in the air... I can't stand when I'm so in the dark...hence why I get physically sick.

Posted by scorpdiva


I think this is the problem with a lot of relationships too many things left unsaid I did this a lot in my past so now I have to say what's on my mind when it's on my mind or it will eat me up. Men and women alike are afraid to honest thinking they will get their feelings hurt but I would rather have my feelings hurt early on and as soon as possible so I can know I tried and now I can move on.

I agree with your Sag friend and your taurus sis you don't wanna seem weak, but like you said you want to know what's going on I know when I get that vibe from my sagg I will give him days if not a week of space sometimes it's a pride thing and I prefer him to be the first to contact then sometimes I am like fuck it I have to let him know what I am feeling right now at this moment and it can either end up working for the good or bad. I have been with my sagg for 17th mths so it has been mostly for the good but it has been hard when they act distant but I guess at this point like I told him I have friends and other things to do so when he gets in the mood I keep it moving with my life but still I am waiting when he gets things together, if I just focus on him and some of the crazy things he does I would go crazy no way.......

Posted by LoveMermaid


text him if you want to! dont let it get all awkward in the beginning

trust yourself, you're the one who has to live with this guy in your life and you are seeing if hes the one for YOU not anyone else. Ya advice here and there is good..input is helpful. But if you want to text him that bad then do it. Follow your heart, and trust your gut instincts not to over do it.

Posted by happykitsune

Posted by LoveMermaid


text him if you want to! dont let it get all awkward in the beginning

trust yourself, you're the one who has to live with this guy in your life and you are seeing if hes the one for YOU not anyone else. Ya advice here and there is good..input is helpful. But if you want to text him that bad then do it. Follow your heart, and trust your gut instincts not to over do it.

Thanks for the advice. Yes it is really MY decision. I still got more input tho, before making the next move. This time, besides asking advice of my taur mom and sister, I asked my scorpio dad who didn't really give me much advice, but to not focus on it. It still bugged me tho so I talked to my sisters virgo bf who told me he would be the same way (wanting to know what was up). He helped me put together this text to send to the sag guy:

"Hey I know we haven't been talking much. Was kinda weird we just randomly stopped. Just curious if there was a reason why. I'm not mad, I just want you to be straight with me".

Here's to hoping this answers some much needed question that have been clawing at my mind >.>

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Posted by Sagittarius89
Ouch. Don't feel bad it happens to me too.


Mine is alittle reverse though. They ask me to be with them. I saw we should wait a whie, get to know eachother, don't listen. Than treat me like shit for the rest of time because
" I was mean "


I do not understand men at all. Than again we are in our early 20's. What do you think you do wrong?

Posted by happykitsune

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Ouch. Don't feel bad it happens to me too.


Mine is alittle reverse though. They ask me to be with them. I saw we should wait a whie, get to know eachother, don't listen. Than treat me like shit for the rest of time because
" I was mean "


I do not understand men at all. Than again we are in our early 20's. What do you think you do wrong?

Lol @ "they ask me to be with them" Well that's nice 😛 haha

I think I know whats wrong. It's something that happened with the other guy too. Both had said they were going to take me out to dinner, but never did because of (insert reason). What I needed to do was not hang out with them until we went on the actual date.

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It would be nice but they ask before I am ready or I feel we know eachother that well. So I can't think that it really has to do with me? Do you know what I am saying? Lol

Ya? Why not hang? You get to buddy buddy or something?

Posted by happykitsune

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It would be nice but they ask before I am ready or I feel we know eachother that well. So I can't think that it really has to do with me? Do you know what I am saying? Lol

Ya? Why not hang? You get to buddy buddy or something?

lol yeah, i see what you're saying. I think that may slightly be my problem, except I feel things too fast. I'm not one to back out once I feel like I really like someone. Once I know, which is usually very fast, I know, and while I don't necessarily ask for something more right away, I do usually want more.

Because that would be time I spent with them and show them that it's okay that they still haven't taken me on the date yet. I want them to respect me and realize that I do want to be treated like a lady and go on nice dates. I don't want to end up being in a relationship where we just sit around...blah

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Posted by Sagittarius89


I see what your saying. Like you want to be courted? That makes sense. That is always nice. Ya than maybe you have to hold back a bit and let the process happen.

See that always ends up happing to me because I am so unsure lol. Like they keep asking me I say okay and 6 months goes by and I'm still not sure if I could date them lol Even though we've been hanging out all this time. I'm just very slow ( cancer rising maybe?) I don't know. That was the longest! ( w libra) I mean it's like usually one month or two.

I believe though there is middle ground. Your like too fast maybe and I'm too slow lol

Posted by happykitsune

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I see what your saying. Like you want to be courted? That makes sense. That is always nice. Ya than maybe you have to hold back a bit and let the process happen.

See that always ends up happing to me because I am so unsure lol. Like they keep asking me I say okay and 6 months goes by and I'm still not sure if I could date them lol Even though we've been hanging out all this time. I'm just very slow ( cancer rising maybe?) I don't know. That was the longest! ( w libra) I mean it's like usually one month or two.

I believe though there is middle ground. Your like too fast maybe and I'm too slow lol

Haha yeah we need to find that middle ground. You know I always tell myself I'm going to do better next time and not rush...but then my feelings get the better of me and all logic goes out the door...then look what happens to me...time after time.

I think we could learn a thing or two from each other. 😛

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