virgo29
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Sagittarius guys
get bored?? oh man, what does that mean??
Posted by DiamondAce
Their happiness is #1 priority but you won't see this in the beginning...maybe 2 years in. If they are not happy anymore for whatever reason even if it comes and goes, they will find a way to leave. They are great at romanticizing in the early stages. They drive on optimism and negativity or normal bad mood behavior will make them want to leave.
I second this. Enjoy it while it lasts because lord knows it won't last long long.
Just remember that every woman when talking about their failing relationship describes their man as being "great/wonderful/perfect in the beginning."
As far as him getting bored with you...don't go all in, retain your mystique.
As far as him getting bored with you...don't go all in, retain your mystique.
ok well in that case should i back off and let him lead?
Well the background here is that I went on vacation to Cuba and I met him there. We practically spent the entire week together.
We exchanged info and when he got back he messaged me so he could pick me up from the airport because I left Cuba a day after than him.
So while its still super new, we see talk and text every day. He goes out and buys flowers, and I could go on and on.
Long story short, our chemistry is great, the conversation comes easy and we laugh all the time together. He's a hard worker and a family guy. Seems to have great values and is open when we talk about things.
I let him tell me things instead of ask too much. His friends are great and we've all gone out together.
I think while this all seems so dreamy I might just pull back a bit to protect myself but keep everything honest with him and just enjoy being with him with zero expectations.
We exchanged info and when he got back he messaged me so he could pick me up from the airport because I left Cuba a day after than him.
So while its still super new, we see talk and text every day. He goes out and buys flowers, and I could go on and on.
Long story short, our chemistry is great, the conversation comes easy and we laugh all the time together. He's a hard worker and a family guy. Seems to have great values and is open when we talk about things.
I let him tell me things instead of ask too much. His friends are great and we've all gone out together.
I think while this all seems so dreamy I might just pull back a bit to protect myself but keep everything honest with him and just enjoy being with him with zero expectations.
Have sex with him and then come back to us.
OP,
Older Sag male here and I'll be back a little later to give you an inside view and opinion of us that's actually fair and non biased...as in people never say what it is they did to make the Sag do x,y, and z. We don't do 180s because we're "bored."
Older Sag male here and I'll be back a little later to give you an inside view and opinion of us that's actually fair and non biased...as in people never say what it is they did to make the Sag do x,y, and z. We don't do 180s because we're "bored."
Posted by virgo29Don't do this! Why change up something that's working? This is what kills early relationships. Men look for consistency. A woman changing isn't a good thing.
Well the background here is that I went on vacation to Cuba and I met him there. We practically spent the entire week together.
We exchanged info and when he got back he messaged me so he could pick me up from the airport because I left Cuba a day after than him.
So while its still super new, we see talk and text every day. He goes out and buys flowers, and I could go on and on.
Long story short, our chemistry is great, the conversation comes easy and we laugh all the time together. He's a hard worker and a family guy. Seems to have great values and is open when we talk about things.
I let him tell me things instead of ask too much. His friends are great and we've all gone out together.
I think while this all seems so dreamy I might just pull back a bit to protect myself but keep everything honest with him and just enjoy being with him with zero expectations.
My advice is just be yourself! Looks like it's working good so far
Posted by beautifulsoul74eagerly awaits insights :-)
OP,
Older Sag male here and I'll be back a little later to give you an inside view and opinion of us that's actually fair and non biased...as in people never say what it is they did to make the Sag do x,y, and z. We don't do 180s because we're "bored."
Okay so i'll just remain on the same page since its all going well. He's going to help me paint my place this weekend and we're going to the mall to do some shopping he needs to get done.
He's actually 9 years younger than me and I have my reservations on age since I want something serious but I'm also never going to pressure him.
I'm not much of a critical person to others I just do things the way I like and I've learned to but open/ patient with guys since i lived with my brother for 3 years and learned a lot from it.
This guy seems like he's not afraid to invest in time with me so I'll give him the same with zero expectations.
He's actually 9 years younger than me and I have my reservations on age since I want something serious but I'm also never going to pressure him.
I'm not much of a critical person to others I just do things the way I like and I've learned to but open/ patient with guys since i lived with my brother for 3 years and learned a lot from it.
This guy seems like he's not afraid to invest in time with me so I'll give him the same with zero expectations.
Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesSorry for the wait. I really don't have much to say though 🙂Posted by beautifulsoul74eagerly awaits insights :-)
OP,
Older Sag male here and I'll be back a little later to give you an inside view and opinion of us that's actually fair and non biased...as in people never say what it is they did to make the Sag do x,y, and z. We don't do 180s because we're "bored."
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lol you're virgo and he is sag? Doomed. No, but honestly I've hardly seen these signs work out. Ever. Too many differences. IJS. But anything could happen. Maybe lol
Posted by virgo29OP, you said one word that says it all...invest. To be honest, I think you knew that early on but you allowed your fear to creep in. While it's understandable to be prudent, one shouldn't back off in the absence of any wrong doing and for several reasons. I'm not trying to get on you on anything, but usually when I hear someone, male or female say "something is too good to be true," they're usually not looking for anything serious anyway. So they go into sabotage mode and then use the other person's reactions to justify their choice because they want to remain in a certain confort zone. It's always best to be upfront and honest. If you're not feeling this, say so. He'll appreciate that. Always be genuine(I'm not saying you're not). That leads me to this...
Okay so i'll just remain on the same page since its all going well. He's going to help me paint my place this weekend and we're going to the mall to do some shopping he needs to get done.
He's actually 9 years younger than me and I have my reservations on age since I want something serious but I'm also never going to pressure him.
I'm not much of a critical person to others I just do things the way I like and I've learned to but open/ patient with guys since i lived with my brother for 3 years and learned a lot from it.
This guy seems like he's not afraid to invest in time with me so I'll give him the same with zero expectations.
Our approach to love is simple and straight forward. No corny pick up lines or acting like a jerk to get attention. Our philosophy is this...we show who we are and what you're going to get from day one...genuine. We expect for someone not to trust us so we show them through our actions that they can. We feel it's a waste of time to return suspicion with suspicion. We take a calm and rational approach and build a foundation for something long term by being open. We give a lot of ourselves and look to see what someone does with it...the gift we give(not that we think we're God's gift). If we're taken for granted or games are played, we'll buck and we won't say a word. We'll start to back off. The reason is we see people as adults and adults are fully conscious of the choices they make. We won't allow ourselves to be mistreated. Also, we like to be with people who know what they want and want to build something. We will work and pursue someone but they still have to treat us right.
So, go with the flow with him. He's given you no reason to be afraid. He even includes you. Introduced you to family and friends and it appears he's not afraid to commit...but be aware we only commit to someone who's right for us. Good luck 🙂
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