Onimusha01
@Onimusha01
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Should I follow my Head or My heart, Give me your opinion Before I make something stupid. lmao!
he's your ex - and you aqua moon is all up in the drama
don't drink the koolaid, walk away
don't drink the koolaid, walk away
Posted by tctaap
he's your ex - and you aqua moon is all up in the drama
don't drink the koolaid, walk away
Im Aquarius sun / Moon in Cancer. sorry I didnt put it right!
Posted by Onimusha01Posted by tctaap
he's your ex - and you aqua moon is all up in the drama
don't drink the koolaid, walk away
Im Aquarius sun / Moon in Cancer. sorry I didnt put it right!click to expand
lol ok then, your Aqua Sun is up in the drama
do you think you have said enough ? why say more - smile and just let him say something or nothing and turn around and switch your stuff when you walk away - head held high - you deserve better
Talk with him directly, it works 99% with sags.
If he wants you he will show that by his actions, if he doesn’t he will ignore you, and that’s how we show the person that we are not interested.
It sounds like you want closure of some sort for yourself. Whether that's a reason for the break up, or to find out if he has moved on. No matter the information you think you want to get from him, you have to be okay with the fact that he may not give you what you want.
Closure is something everyone wants, but not everyone gets. You need to be okay with that, and walk away.
Closure is something everyone wants, but not everyone gets. You need to be okay with that, and walk away.
@Onimusha01
sorry, I dont know the backstory, I missed it
when was the break-up? what was the reason? how long have you been together?
who suggested to take your stuff? what stuff it is? do you think he would want to get back together?
he is not answering your text messegas, you say.... what kind of text messages?
Edit: okey, I remember the back story, I didnt know you are aqua sun/cancer moon/ cap mercury..... 3 of my placements
I just know that I wouldnt ask for my stuff back..... its always seems as an excuse, to meet to get back stuff....
sorry, I dont know the backstory, I missed it
when was the break-up? what was the reason? how long have you been together?
who suggested to take your stuff? what stuff it is? do you think he would want to get back together?
he is not answering your text messegas, you say.... what kind of text messages?
Edit: okey, I remember the back story, I didnt know you are aqua sun/cancer moon/ cap mercury..... 3 of my placements
I just know that I wouldnt ask for my stuff back..... its always seems as an excuse, to meet to get back stuff....
Posted by tctaapPosted by Onimusha01Posted by tctaap
he's your ex - and you aqua moon is all up in the drama
don't drink the koolaid, walk away
Im Aquarius sun / Moon in Cancer. sorry I didnt put it right!
lol ok then, your Aqua Sun is up in the drama
do you think you have said enough ? why say more - smile and just let him say something or nothing and turn around and switch your stuff when you walk away - head held high - you deserve betterclick to expand
LOL. What happened is that I think I was the one who messed up with my big mouth I guess I was in my feels.. I told him I was sorry, but it was too late by the time he told me he'd like to b friends. I told him I didnt know how to do that And then I disappeared for a whole week. (to cope w my drama by myself) We haven't really seen each other since then.
Don't stay over.
Cause your gonna end up fucking and thats not the closure you need or the possible std exposure you want.
Stop by, look AMAZING, grab your stuff, be upbeat and say peace out.
Let him marinate over that image of you looking fine and feeling good.
Cause your gonna end up fucking and thats not the closure you need or the possible std exposure you want.
Stop by, look AMAZING, grab your stuff, be upbeat and say peace out.
Let him marinate over that image of you looking fine and feeling good.
@pandora101
I have tried to text him like we normally used to do, Normal casual convo. whats up? sleep well etc etc. and he never replies.
Posted by Pandora101
@Onimusha01
sorry, I dont know the backstory, I missed it
when was the break-up? what was the reason? how long have you been together?
I'll make it short. We were together for 2 months, it was all great, we saw each other Eeeeeveryday. we had a very good communication, one day I start to notice we are not intimating as we started. one day watching a show where everybody was having sex, he said "they all having sex there" I said "lucky them" lol. suddenly, His hand goes straight to my cuchi. but there was no kissing, and It just felt weird to me. But I kept it going till we both finished. Then I Asked him what just happened, that it was the weirdest sex time and that compared with all the other times, this time was Blah! ... The next day, he didnt text me at all like he used to do everyday, so I assumed he was mad. So I texted him and I told him I was sorry If I was mean with the sex comment, But I just liked and missed his kisses. so then his answer was : I'd like to be friends. I asked him why he said he didnt know.. then I told him I didnt know how to do that and then I disappeared for a week. then I called him he didnt picked up - He texted me back that he was going to call me back- he did called me after 4 hours. told him I wanted to check up on him to know if he was okay. I spoke as normal as I could keep the convo.
who suggested to take your stuff? what stuff it is? do you think he would want to get back together?
some personal items. When he called me he told me to drop them off. But it was to late for him by the time I was gong to be home. Then we agreed I would come to pick it off at his house on my day off.. Which he said, "much better." I asked him If he wanted to hangout when I come, and he kinda agreed. saying " I guess"
No, I dont think he wants to go back together as he is ignoring my msgs.
he is not answering your text messegas, you say.... what kind of text messages?
I have tried to text him like we normally used to do, Normal casual convo. whats up? sleep well etc etc. and he never replies.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Don't stay over.
Cause your gonna end up fucking and thats not the closure you need or the possible std exposure you want.
Stop by, look AMAZING, grab your stuff, be upbeat and say peace out.
Let him marinate over that image of you looking fine and feeling good.
@Ladyneptune
Bought a dress just for the ocassion !! lmao!
Posted by nikkistar
It sounds like you want closure of some sort for yourself. Whether that's a reason for the break up, or to find out if he has moved on. No matter the information you think you want to get from him, you have to be okay with the fact that he may not give you what you want.
Closure is something everyone wants, but not everyone gets. You need to be okay with that, and walk away.
I guess We had very good times and there's nothing that I value more than the time I spend with a person, we had a great thing going on. I just think its stupid why it ended. doesnt really make sense to me.
Posted by Haruuka
Talk with him directly, it works 99% with sags.
If he wants you he will show that by his actions, if he doesn’t he will ignore you, and that’s how we show the person that we are not interested.
Im very straightforward person thats why I got myself in this situation by spitting the bean exactly the way it was in my head. He is more laid back and avoids confrontational conversations.. So im not sure how to bring this up.
I agree with others...don’t ask him to hang out...just get your things and don’t look back...because he will take you up on the offer if he has nothing better to do and you will get the wrong idea like he’s made you a priority when you were just a convenience.
He doesn’t even have the courtesy to text you back ! He’s done, he’s moved on
He doesn’t even have the courtesy to text you back ! He’s done, he’s moved on
Ahhh... he’s a me!
If you come over i think you want to have sex.
Which I’m cool with if we have a history and I’m not serious with anyone.
Definitely be direct in conversation. I hate when people make me have to figure out what they are saying
If I friend you I still kind of like you but not for a relationship definitely at this moment. If I say we are friends and we don’t talk anymore. I didn’t want to hurt your feelings and I’m done with you.
If you come over i think you want to have sex.
Which I’m cool with if we have a history and I’m not serious with anyone.
Definitely be direct in conversation. I hate when people make me have to figure out what they are saying
If I friend you I still kind of like you but not for a relationship definitely at this moment. If I say we are friends and we don’t talk anymore. I didn’t want to hurt your feelings and I’m done with you.
Posted by bae
your moon is too much for him. clingy.
...and he's too chickenshit to tell u.
don't ask anymore questions, you won't get your answer. get your stuff and leave. don't say shit else.
by you asking him if he wants to hang out, to him translates to "you are still down to mess around"... and that my dear means that you are willing to settle and are no longer a challenge. you'll have a higher chance at regaining his interest if you let go.
@bae
I have never act clingy with him I never needed to, he was the one looking forward to see me every single day and I liked that, there was not time for me to be clingy at all.... I never bothered him with nothing, at all... And He was always very giving and attentive, he used to tell me every step he was taking. all without me asking... I never had to question him or ask him anything cuz he will tell me everything he was doing. And thats why im so confused now.
I guess im just looking for some clarity with him about what went wrong... cuz I told him something that might of bruised his man ego. Im very honest and sometimes my honesty comes out as " MEAN" which he also told me once, overall we always had a very good communication and I think thats what im looking to get back. I havent asked him anything YET. but I would like him to be honest with me.
Posted by hellosaggy
Ahhh... he’s a me!
If you come over i think you want to have sex.
Which I’m cool with if we have a history and I’m not serious with anyone.
Definitely be direct in conversation. I hate when people make me have to figure out what they are saying
If I friend you I still kind of like you but not for a relationship definitely at this moment. If I say we are friends and we don’t talk anymore. I didn’t want to hurt your feelings and I’m done with you.
@hellosaggy
He has always admitted that he likes me, even till the last day before he changed after I told him sex that night was blah. (for you to have an idea of what happened) thats why I think I messed up.
And im the one looking forward to be direct, Cuz The day after I apologized for what I said was that he stop talking to me and said he'd like to be friends, which I answered by telling him I didnt know how to do that and disappearing for 1 week w no contact. when I texted him after that week he responds at his own pace, and sometimes he just ignore me
@bae
Yes, that was after I declined his "to be friends" offer and disappeared for one week with 0 contact with him. I needed to to that to clear my mind and think what could of go wrong.
I reached out to him cuz I was the one who walked away. And I was in a better mood to hear his butter.
Yes, that was after I declined his "to be friends" offer and disappeared for one week with 0 contact with him. I needed to to that to clear my mind and think what could of go wrong.
I reached out to him cuz I was the one who walked away. And I was in a better mood to hear his butter.
Posted by Onimusha01
@bae
All That was after I declined his "to be friends" offer and disappeared for one week with 0 contact with him.
I reached out to him cuz I was the one who walked away. And I was in a better mood to hear his butter.
Posted by nikkistar
It sounds like you want closure of some sort for yourself. Whether that's a reason for the break up, or to find out if he has moved on. No matter the information you think you want to get from him, you have to be okay with the fact that he may not give you what you want.
Closure is something everyone wants, but not everyone gets. You need to be okay with that, and walk away.
You mean everybody wants closure like ‘yes I am seeing someone else and she is smarter prettier younger sexier’ then he hugs you and say ‘it’s ok baby, you might find someone who want need all that and he will be fine with you’...
No thank you. Unless you like those sorts of things...
Posted by baePosted by Onimusha01
@bae
Yes, that was after I declined his "to be friends" offer and disappeared for one week with 0 contact with him.
I reached out to him cuz I was the one to walked away.
exactly. he doesn't want a relationship, hell he barely wants to hang out.
and one week of no communication is nothing for a sag.
you want more than he's willing to give. your actions are screaming desperation and that you're willing to settle. he's probably already lost respect for u... and it'll only get worse from here.
you declined being his friend, so why on earth are you trying to hang out?click to expand
I guess you missed the part where I said that He asked me to be friends After I apologized for telling him :" sex with him that night was BLAH" I know for fact he got upset that night bc he never said a word that night after that and the next day was when he stopped texting me.
I asked him to hang out so that I can get a moment with him and be direct with him about what could of go wrong and Apologize to him in person, Cuz I feel like I was the one who messed up. Everything was going great before I open my mouth and said sex was blah....
Posted by baePosted by Onimusha01Posted by Onimusha01
@bae
All That was after I declined his "to be friends" offer and disappeared for one week with 0 contact with him.
I reached out to him cuz I was the one who walked away. And I was in a better mood to hear his butter.
a better mood to hear his bullshit? 🤨 it doesn't make any sense. 🤔
it sounds like an excuse.
it sounds like you missed him, wanted to hear his voice and are willing to settle for the breadcrumbs he throws at you.
as a sag, i know the traits. he's lost interest and smells desperation... which is a major turn off.
for christs sake you're asking him why he doesn't touch you anymore and you aren't even in a relationship.
let it go boo. there are better dudes out there.
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@bae
He was always very touchy feely.... After I told him that he never touches me was bc we have just had sex and it was weird... cuz he always touches me and this time it was like he was doing it without wanting it.. and I told him what I felt. I told him sex was Blah ! And thats when things went down hill...
You told him sex was blah!?
Aw poor guy.
Aw poor guy.
Posted by baePosted by Onimusha01Posted by baePosted by Onimusha01
@bae
Yes, that was after I declined his "to be friends" offer and disappeared for one week with 0 contact with him.
I reached out to him cuz I was the one to walked away.
exactly. he doesn't want a relationship, hell he barely wants to hang out.
and one week of no communication is nothing for a sag.
you want more than he's willing to give. your actions are screaming desperation and that you're willing to settle. he's probably already lost respect for u... and it'll only get worse from here.
you declined being his friend, so why on earth are you trying to hang out?
I guess you missed the part where I said that He asked me to be friends After I apologized for telling him :" sex with him that night was BLAH" I know for fact he got upset that night bc he never said a word that night after that and the next day was when he stopped texting me.
I asked him to hang out so that I can get a moment with him and be direct with him about what could of go wrong and Apologize to him in person, Cuz I feel like I was the one who messed up. Everything was going great before I open my mouth and said sex was blah....
ok, so you tell him that and expect what? a relationship? for him to still want to have sex with you?
what was the purpose of that statement? what were you trying to accomplish exactly?
yup. he's definitely not fuckin' wit' you.
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okay, that night we were watching a show, he said " eveybody is having sex in this show" I said "lucky them " (cuz i was always down for sex w him) so, he pulled me back and straight put his hand under my undies and started giving me pleasure. but that was not the way we tipically had sex before, with no fourplay, no kissing or anything, so, I told him how I felt about it. I was just being honest. ( i guess it just didnt come out right ) right?
But things were completely Awesome, till that moment he decided to give me cheap sex and I decided to open my mouth. lol
So now that you finally understand what made things go downhill.....
I would like to tell him how sorry i am for making such a inappropriate and disgusting statement. And I wish we can both be honest with each other... like if he didnt like the way i talked to him or he felt i was mean, just fucking say it. if he has to tell me im a asshole for telling him sex was blan... then say it.. I take it...
As he asked me he'd like to be friends after I was completely a jerk...I want to know if theres a way I can mend it...if his decision was made out of anger and disappointment.
If he doesnt want to mend it.... I walk away... but I really wish if I can find the way to get back what we had.
And of course, I reached out to him bc i do miss him, he didnt do shit to me... he didnt even send me to hell when I told him sex was blah. he waited calmly until i left, we still said good bye w a kiss on the lips like usual. And the next day he didnt text me in the morning... so I know something was up. when I texted him, I apologized, and then he said. id like to be friends. And that was it.
@bae
So do you think I should just be honest and apologize to him and see if he really wants to keep things the way they are or mend it ? or should I just say nothing and leave?
Did you go over there? What happened? I think you should give it another shot if you really like him.
He's not gonna show he's hurting at all and will be super non chalant. And just ask him flat out if he's dating. You can be pretty straight forward with a Sag. Just don't ask anything that you don't really want to know, cause you will get the answer.
He's not gonna show he's hurting at all and will be super non chalant. And just ask him flat out if he's dating. You can be pretty straight forward with a Sag. Just don't ask anything that you don't really want to know, cause you will get the answer.
@sagggurl88
No, he just called me now to let me know he was home,
but i dont know how to ask him if he wants to work things out again...just like that? I dont wana sound needy. lol
And should i bring out that Im sorry for being an asshole last time i saw him?
I dont know how to approach him realy
No, he just called me now to let me know he was home,
but i dont know how to ask him if he wants to work things out again...just like that? I dont wana sound needy. lol
And should i bring out that Im sorry for being an asshole last time i saw him?
I dont know how to approach him realy
Posted by Onimusha01
@sagggurl88
No, he just called me now to let me know he was home,
but i dont know how to ask him if he wants to work things out again...just like that? I dont wana sound needy. lol
And should i bring out that Im sorry for being an asshole last time i saw him?
I dont know how to approach him realy
so, how it went? did you go there? what happened?
Posted by Onimusha01
@sagggurl88
No, he just called me now to let me know he was home,
but i dont know how to ask him if he wants to work things out again...just like that? I dont wana sound needy. lol
And should i bring out that Im sorry for being an asshole last time i saw him?
I dont know how to approach him realy
I just saw this, my bad.
If he said he's home, just say ok I'm coming over. If he wants to see you, that's a good thing. Be direct. You can skip a lot of talking, if you want, if he doesn't bring it up. Just show him, be affectionate and your sweet aqua self.
Posted by Pandora101Posted by Onimusha01
@sagggurl88
No, he just called me now to let me know he was home,
but i dont know how to ask him if he wants to work things out again...just like that? I dont wana sound needy. lol
And should i bring out that Im sorry for being an asshole last time i saw him?
I dont know how to approach him realy
so, how it went? did you go there? what happened?click to expand
@pandora
I went , he was still very polite, we sat down and caught up with the days we havent seen each other, but everytime I tried to talk about us He started giving me the run around.. He also put on a tv show that we used to watch together . But we had the conversation, I told him I would like for us to work things out. I asked him if he was seeing someone else, he said NO. but He Said he'd like to be friends bc it was getting to stressful for him, but that we could be friends and see what happens. But I guess he just said that to be nice. lol. cuz he been ignoring me all this times.
I missed to mention He suffers from Anxiety and Depression and I asked him how was his depression and his answer was " Depressed" . so, I just think he is having a relapse. there was really not a reason. or so he said. just that he was getting too stressed out.
I told him I was happy that he was honest with me. And I left.... knowing he will not talk to me. But now Im cool. no regrets or hard feelings. I feel good.
Posted by Onimusha01Posted by Pandora101Posted by Onimusha01
@sagggurl88
No, he just called me now to let me know he was home,
but i dont know how to ask him if he wants to work things out again...just like that? I dont wana sound needy. lol
And should i bring out that Im sorry for being an asshole last time i saw him?
I dont know how to approach him realy
so, how it went? did you go there? what happened?
@pandora
I went , he was still very polite, we sat down and caught up with the days we havent seen each other, but everytime I tried to talk about us He started giving me the run around.. He also put on a tv show that we used to watch together . But we had the conversation, I told him I was sorry for being an A-hole the last time We were together and that I would like for us to work things out. I asked him if he was seeing someone else, he said NO. but He Said he'd like to be friends bc it was getting to stressful for him, but that we could be friends and see what happens. But I guess he just said that to be nice. lol. cuz he been ignoring me all this times.
I missed to mention He suffers from Anxiety and Depression and I asked him how was his depression and his answer was " Depressed" . so, I just think he is having a relapse. there was really not a reason. or so he said. just that he was getting too stressed out.
In the Back of my head, I think that me telling him that sex was Blah, really hurt him, specially got him into his depression mode. ( I really dont know much about depression, but Ive read people tend to feel worthless)
I told him I was happy that he was honest with me. And I left.... knowing he will not talk to me. But now Im cool. no regrets or hard feelings. I feel good.
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Yep.. bad sentence.. not astrology here.. i think any girl who says to the boy sex was a mess.. i mean.. bye! Go for a gemini 🙂
And saying that to a fire sign... no way!! Ego hurted partner killed
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