when is too soon for sex?

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I'm a 35yrs old Aries woman dating a 35yrs old Sagittarius man for 8 months long distance. We've never had sex, never even really talked about our feelings although he has came and house searched with me for a home for us and our kids. Next week we're going on vacation for a week and maybe I'm nervous or over thinking it, but how soon is too soon for sex when dating long distance? Also because I've heard that Sagittarius loses interest fast after getting what they want.
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I'm a 35yrs old Aries woman dating a 35yrs old Sagittarius man for 8 months long distance. We've never had sex, never even really talked about our feelings although he has came and house searched with me for a home for us and our kids. Next week we're going on vacation for a week and maybe I'm nervous or over thinking it, but how soon is too soon for sex when dating long distance? Also because I've heard that Sagittarius loses interest fast after getting what they want.
What are your other placements?
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Okay so your going to move in with him before having sex with him??

We wasn't planning in moving in together til next summer. And I would wait till we moved in together. Just like some wait til married.


How do you know if your sexually compatible though?
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It's a huge risk, I know... But so is everything else that comes with relationships

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Okay so your going to move in with him before having sex with him??

We wasn't planning in moving in together til next summer. And I would wait till we moved in together. Just like some wait til married.


How do you know if your sexually compatible though?
It's a huge risk, I know... But so is everything else that comes with relationships

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But it's a risk you don't need to take...
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I'm a 35yrs old Aries woman dating a 35yrs old Sagittarius man for 8 months long distance. We've never had sex, never even really talked about our feelings although he has came and house searched with me for a home for us and our kids. Next week we're going on vacation for a week and maybe I'm nervous or over thinking it, but how soon is too soon for sex when dating long distance? Also because I've heard that Sagittarius loses interest fast after getting what they want.
What are your other placements?
Aries/cancer/aqua

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if you are worried that he actually might lose interest as soon as you have sex with him

it sounds like you are in the wrong relationship
My main concern is it being too soon. I just brought up the lose interest part as " I heard " type of thing and was curious

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follow your heart ariesheart

never have sex unless you are ready
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I am in my 30's so Im very short on this subject. If me and someone I am seeing are having a good time and feel comfortable with each other, then I dont think trying for sex on the fourth date is going too far.

I like women who are comfortable with their sexuality. If someone has a school girlish attitude towards sex, that is a complete turn off.

Im not a young person anymore, so I expect the same mentality if someone is close to my age. That is why I usually avoid 20 something women because they're not comfortable with sex unless intoxication or getting high leads to it.