Posted by TaurusinTexasI forgot have you ever told me why is it such a pain for you?Posted by GemitatiProbably because no one that has ever been cheated on, has ever "asked for it" and you know this, so stop. A grown ass woman, would either leave or live in misery or, and here is a novel thought, go to counseling and get some help. You have choices, you choose to do this to your family.Posted by Mystical111It bothers everybody who was cheated on by somebody buy no one who is a 'victim' ever thinks that they maybe asked for it!Posted by HrodebertI guess I was being a lil' bitchy but c'mon do you not see that she's in the wrong?Posted by Mystical111Why are you being mean to her?Posted by HrodebertPosted by Mystical111Oh, shut up tiny dick.
Typical Gemini behavior. Let me guess you're a Gemini Venus too?
Your sign is really fucking pathetic when it comes to relationships.
Is it really that difficult to stay faithful to one person? Apparently for most Geminis it is. People of your sign should just stay single, stop wasting people's time.
OH wait, Dominoes?!
Ok this doesn't apply to you, You've got Scorpio Ascendant. We're ride or die as fuck. 100% loyal.
You don't put yourself in another person's shoes? Imagine what it would feel like being betrayed/cheated on by the person who means the World to you?
It wouldn't bother you if your girl was being unfaithful to you?! The fuck?
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Posted by GemitatiI have a broken leg, so I'm stuck at home, so yes, I'm playing your games but damn, quit making grown women look bad. Dear Lord have you learned nothing over the years, you continually try to blame your spouses for your bad behavior, how do you not see it? There comes a point in life, where we have to take responsibility for our actions and the roles we play in our own lives. SMHPosted by TaurusinTexasI forgot have you ever told me why is it such a pain for you?Posted by GemitatiProbably because no one that has ever been cheated on, has ever "asked for it" and you know this, so stop. A grown ass woman, would either leave or live in misery or, and here is a novel thought, go to counseling and get some help. You have choices, you choose to do this to your family.Posted by Mystical111It bothers everybody who was cheated on by somebody buy no one who is a 'victim' ever thinks that they maybe asked for it!Posted by HrodebertI guess I was being a lil' bitchy but c'mon do you not see that she's in the wrong?Posted by Mystical111Why are you being mean to her?Posted by HrodebertPosted by Mystical111Oh, shut up tiny dick.
Typical Gemini behavior. Let me guess you're a Gemini Venus too?
Your sign is really fucking pathetic when it comes to relationships.
Is it really that difficult to stay faithful to one person? Apparently for most Geminis it is. People of your sign should just stay single, stop wasting people's time.
OH wait, Dominoes?!
Ok this doesn't apply to you, You've got Scorpio Ascendant. We're ride or die as fuck. 100% loyal.
You don't put yourself in another person's shoes? Imagine what it would feel like being betrayed/cheated on by the person who means the World to you?
It wouldn't bother you if your girl was being unfaithful to you?! The fuck?
Seem like you can't get enough!
Should in you detailes? Lolclick to expand
Posted by HrodebertThat would be awesome! I'm so stir crazy, I can barely stand it and it's my right leg, so I can't even just drive around the neighborhood.Posted by TaurusinTexasWanna play scrabble?Posted by GemitatiI have a broken leg, so I'm stuck at home, so yes, I'm playing your games but damn, quit making grown women look bad. Dear Lord have you learned nothing over the years, you continually try to blame your spouses for your bad behavior, how do you not see it? There comes a point in life, where we have to take responsibility for our actions and the roles we play in our own lives. SMHPosted by TaurusinTexasI forgot have you ever told me why is it such a pain for you?Posted by GemitatiProbably because no one that has ever been cheated on, has ever "asked for it" and you know this, so stop. A grown ass woman, would either leave or live in misery or, and here is a novel thought, go to counseling and get some help. You have choices, you choose to do this to your family.Posted by Mystical111It bothers everybody who was cheated on by somebody buy no one who is a 'victim' ever thinks that they maybe asked for it!Posted by HrodebertI guess I was being a lil' bitchy but c'mon do you not see that she's in the wrong?Posted by Mystical111Why are you being mean to her?Posted by HrodebertPosted by Mystical111Oh, shut up tiny dick.
Typical Gemini behavior. Let me guess you're a Gemini Venus too?
Your sign is really fucking pathetic when it comes to relationships.
Is it really that difficult to stay faithful to one person? Apparently for most Geminis it is. People of your sign should just stay single, stop wasting people's time.
OH wait, Dominoes?!
Ok this doesn't apply to you, You've got Scorpio Ascendant. We're ride or die as fuck. 100% loyal.
You don't put yourself in another person's shoes? Imagine what it would feel like being betrayed/cheated on by the person who means the World to you?
It wouldn't bother you if your girl was being unfaithful to you?! The fuck?
Seem like you can't get enough!
Should in you detailes? Lolclick to expand
Posted by TaurusinTexasI am sorry for your trauma but i am still thinking you are too involved in my life.Posted by GemitatiI have a broken leg, so I'm stuck at home, so yes, I'm playing your games but damn, quit making grown women look bad. Dear Lord have you learned nothing over the years, you continually try to blame your spouses for your bad behavior, how do you not see it? There comes a point in life, where we have to take responsibility for our actions and the roles we play in our own lives. SMHPosted by TaurusinTexasI forgot have you ever told me why is it such a pain for you?Posted by GemitatiProbably because no one that has ever been cheated on, has ever "asked for it" and you know this, so stop. A grown ass woman, would either leave or live in misery or, and here is a novel thought, go to counseling and get some help. You have choices, you choose to do this to your family.Posted by Mystical111It bothers everybody who was cheated on by somebody buy no one who is a 'victim' ever thinks that they maybe asked for it!Posted by HrodebertI guess I was being a lil' bitchy but c'mon do you not see that she's in the wrong?Posted by Mystical111Why are you being mean to her?Posted by HrodebertPosted by Mystical111Oh, shut up tiny dick.
Typical Gemini behavior. Let me guess you're a Gemini Venus too?
Your sign is really fucking pathetic when it comes to relationships.
Is it really that difficult to stay faithful to one person? Apparently for most Geminis it is. People of your sign should just stay single, stop wasting people's time.
OH wait, Dominoes?!
Ok this doesn't apply to you, You've got Scorpio Ascendant. We're ride or die as fuck. 100% loyal.
You don't put yourself in another person's shoes? Imagine what it would feel like being betrayed/cheated on by the person who means the World to you?
It wouldn't bother you if your girl was being unfaithful to you?! The fuck?
Seem like you can't get enough!
Should in you detailes? Lolclick to expand
Posted by Gem_from_VenusYou had made a great post about how difficult is this to turn life around and leave!Posted by GemitatiOh, girl, don't get back on that. The cheater is the cheater. If he did something bad enough to be punished you know the right thing to do is leave. Leaving is hard, which is why I took up for you, but turning your bad behavior around and pointing at him is childish.Posted by Mystical111It bothers everybody who was cheated on by somebody buy no one who is a 'victim' ever thinks that they maybe asked for it!Posted by HrodebertI guess I was being a lil' bitchy but c'mon do you not see that she's in the wrong?Posted by Mystical111Why are you being mean to her?Posted by HrodebertPosted by Mystical111Oh, shut up tiny dick.
Typical Gemini behavior. Let me guess you're a Gemini Venus too?
Your sign is really fucking pathetic when it comes to relationships.
Is it really that difficult to stay faithful to one person? Apparently for most Geminis it is. People of your sign should just stay single, stop wasting people's time.
OH wait, Dominoes?!
Ok this doesn't apply to you, You've got Scorpio Ascendant. We're ride or die as fuck. 100% loyal.
You don't put yourself in another person's shoes? Imagine what it would feel like being betrayed/cheated on by the person who means the World to you?
It wouldn't bother you if your girl was being unfaithful to you?! The fuck?click to expand
Posted by HrodebertThat's marriage certificate.Posted by GemitatiAsk your husband.Posted by HrodebertI don't remember asking permission!Posted by starwarsShe's all yours for the taking.Posted by Hrodebertum, excuse you sir I'm Gemitati personal knight so back offPosted by Mystical111Why are you being mean to her?Posted by HrodebertPosted by Mystical111Oh, shut up tiny dick.
Typical Gemini behavior. Let me guess you're a Gemini Venus too?
Your sign is really fucking pathetic when it comes to relationships.
Is it really that difficult to stay faithful to one person? Apparently for most Geminis it is. People of your sign should just stay single, stop wasting people's time.
OH wait, Dominoes?!
Ok this doesn't apply to you, You've got Scorpio Ascendant. We're ride or die as fuck. 100% loyal.
Also I didn't know you hold certificate of ME possession and if you do where is my NYear payment?click to expand
Posted by GemitatiFired up? I've already made it quite clear how disgusting I find your cavalier attitude towards your cheating is.Posted by LadyNeptuneIt doesn't mean it will change anything!Posted by GemitatiThe last 'suggestion' as you call it was in actuality a question to determine how serious you are about this side dick of yours.Posted by LadyNeptuneHow does it in sync with your last 'suggestion'?Posted by GemitatiHe's been giving you crumbs for so long that this slight increase of communication, texting and calls, is making you loose your head. Truth is your expectations superceede his own.Posted by LadyNeptuneI've been told that by every person I've talk to about it!Posted by GemitatiHave you ever considered that he's awaiting you leaving your husband before he'll leave his wife?Posted by LadyNeptuneYes!
Question, if he divorced his wife will you divorce your husband.
But that wasn't a question!!!
I just don't see why. His divorce is going to be very complicated. Mine is not.
So he needs to talk to me.
Because I am about to! He is acting so different - it scares shit out of me!
And now you said it and it's like...again—
Must be something to it!
Next time he calls you should ask him when he plans to leave his wife for you. Let us know how it goes.
If I left first...what's your last post has to do with previous?
Asking him how serious he is about you is my suggestion. I anticipate you'll get a lot of lip service and empty promises from him with zero follow through. Things like, "the timing isn't right", and "I don't want to hurt anyone", etc. etc. And judging from your excitement over what little crumbs he's given you thus far it'll likely be enough to tide you over for another 3 years.
While we still looking good enough to do it - it's all good!
We had agreed for non-demanding relashionship a while ago!
Why are you so fired up? If I can live with it so you should be able to.click to expand
Posted by Gem_from_VenusI don't really understand why is it setting anyone off. After all this time when it's clear to everybody that I don't care who thinks what about my life!Posted by GemitatiPeople do pack and leave. Or they stop messing around and stay. Or they decide to stay in the middle. At some point you have to realize that you're doing the third, if you're not doing one of the first two. I can't say when that is. I do understand the complexity of your situation. And it bugs me that you were happy when you started this thread and people shit all over it.Posted by Gem_from_VenusYou had made a great post about how difficult is this to turn life around and leave!Posted by GemitatiOh, girl, don't get back on that. The cheater is the cheater. If he did something bad enough to be punished you know the right thing to do is leave. Leaving is hard, which is why I took up for you, but turning your bad behavior around and pointing at him is childish.Posted by Mystical111It bothers everybody who was cheated on by somebody buy no one who is a 'victim' ever thinks that they maybe asked for it!Posted by HrodebertI guess I was being a lil' bitchy but c'mon do you not see that she's in the wrong?Posted by Mystical111Why are you being mean to her?Posted by HrodebertPosted by Mystical111Oh, shut up tiny dick.
Typical Gemini behavior. Let me guess you're a Gemini Venus too?
Your sign is really fucking pathetic when it comes to relationships.
Is it really that difficult to stay faithful to one person? Apparently for most Geminis it is. People of your sign should just stay single, stop wasting people's time.
OH wait, Dominoes?!
Ok this doesn't apply to you, You've got Scorpio Ascendant. We're ride or die as fuck. 100% loyal.
You don't put yourself in another person's shoes? Imagine what it would feel like being betrayed/cheated on by the person who means the World to you?
It wouldn't bother you if your girl was being unfaithful to you?! The fuck?
At this point my family depends on me.
I am a breadwinner. It's been for so long and like you said we are all great roommates and having life.
I am figuring out my future.
Nobody packs and leaves! It's silly.
Like you said it it's not like I am 22 and decided I need to go back to parents house. I am thinking...
BUT, I've been cheated on before! It sucks! It's not okay, and it is never the fault of the one who is cheated on. To me it is not a healthy way to be, and it is something one should be trying to get out of sooner rather than later. Most of us think cheating is morally wrong and are a bit repulsed by it. And feel shame if we do it. Your lack of shame is what's setting everyone off. LOL 😆click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneOFCOURSE I want more!Posted by GemitatiFired up? I've already made it quite clear how disgusting I find your cavalier attitude towards your cheating is.Posted by LadyNeptuneIt doesn't mean it will change anything!Posted by GemitatiThe last 'suggestion' as you call it was in actuality a question to determine how serious you are about this side dick of yours.Posted by LadyNeptuneHow does it in sync with your last 'suggestion'?Posted by GemitatiHe's been giving you crumbs for so long that this slight increase of communication, texting and calls, is making you loose your head. Truth is your expectations superceede his own.Posted by LadyNeptuneI've been told that by every person I've talk to about it!Posted by GemitatiHave you ever considered that he's awaiting you leaving your husband before he'll leave his wife?Posted by LadyNeptuneYes!
Question, if he divorced his wife will you divorce your husband.
But that wasn't a question!!!
I just don't see why. His divorce is going to be very complicated. Mine is not.
So he needs to talk to me.
Because I am about to! He is acting so different - it scares shit out of me!
And now you said it and it's like...again—
Must be something to it!
Next time he calls you should ask him when he plans to leave his wife for you. Let us know how it goes.
If I left first...what's your last post has to do with previous?
Asking him how serious he is about you is my suggestion. I anticipate you'll get a lot of lip service and empty promises from him with zero follow through. Things like, "the timing isn't right", and "I don't want to hurt anyone", etc. etc. And judging from your excitement over what little crumbs he's given you thus far it'll likely be enough to tide you over for another 3 years.
While we still looking good enough to do it - it's all good!
We had agreed for non-demanding relashionship a while ago!
Why are you so fired up? If I can live with it so you should be able to.
I'm actually trying to offer you some advice on how to progress forward and get what you want from him. Whether or not you originally agreed to a non demanding relationship it's obvious from this thread that you want more.
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Posted by yupvirgooToo late!
Why are you Geminis so hopeful?
I swear, you're just like my aunt.
You're just gonna end up in hurtsville.
Posted by yupvirgooExactly! Comfort the word we are looking for. That's what we can't get over!Posted by Gem_from_Venuslol yeah but it's probably coz it's been so many years and she's just sort of finally accepted that's how she is and just fvck it and what everyone else thinksPosted by GemitatiPeople do pack and leave. Or they stop messing around and stay. Or they decide to stay in the middle. At some point you have to realize that you're doing the third, if you're not doing one of the first two. I can't say when that is. I do understand the complexity of your situation. And it bugs me that you were happy when you started this thread and people shit all over it.Posted by Gem_from_VenusYou had made a great post about how difficult is this to turn life around and leave!Posted by GemitatiOh, girl, don't get back on that. The cheater is the cheater. If he did something bad enough to be punished you know the right thing to do is leave. Leaving is hard, which is why I took up for you, but turning your bad behavior around and pointing at him is childish.Posted by Mystical111It bothers everybody who was cheated on by somebody buy no one who is a 'victim' ever thinks that they maybe asked for it!Posted by HrodebertI guess I was being a lil' bitchy but c'mon do you not see that she's in the wrong?Posted by Mystical111Why are you being mean to her?Posted by HrodebertPosted by Mystical111Oh, shut up tiny dick.
Typical Gemini behavior. Let me guess you're a Gemini Venus too?
Your sign is really fucking pathetic when it comes to relationships.
Is it really that difficult to stay faithful to one person? Apparently for most Geminis it is. People of your sign should just stay single, stop wasting people's time.
OH wait, Dominoes?!
Ok this doesn't apply to you, You've got Scorpio Ascendant. We're ride or die as fuck. 100% loyal.
You don't put yourself in another person's shoes? Imagine what it would feel like being betrayed/cheated on by the person who means the World to you?
It wouldn't bother you if your girl was being unfaithful to you?! The fuck?
At this point my family depends on me.
I am a breadwinner. It's been for so long and like you said we are all great roommates and having life.
I am figuring out my future.
Nobody packs and leaves! It's silly.
Like you said it it's not like I am 22 and decided I need to go back to parents house. I am thinking...
BUT, I've been cheated on before! It sucks! It's not okay, and it is never the fault of the one who is cheated on. To me it is not a healthy way to be, and it is something one should be trying to get out of sooner rather than later. Most of us think cheating is morally wrong and are a bit repulsed by it. And feel shame if we do it. Your lack of shame is what's setting everyone off. LOL 😆
but I really don't trust that a married man would just up and leave his wife... but that's probably coz im just thinking about myself... i just can't imagine myself doing it... ive placed things together in life and have fallen into not just love but comfort with everythingclick to expand
Posted by yupvirgooOh no! Never in my life! She had suffered enough! He wasn't there when he was supposed to be.Posted by GemitatiYeah but when I find out that they're attached or committed to someone else, my interest just drops or I force myself not to think of them because:Posted by yupvirgooToo late!
Why are you Geminis so hopeful?
I swear, you're just like my aunt.
You're just gonna end up in hurtsville.
I am a resident for years! Lol
Don't you understand loving someone to the point you can't function? When he calls I can be performing open heart surgery - o will stop and take a call!
Haven't you ever loved? And it's not 3 weeks! So it'll not pass. It's soon almost decade! But if he wasn't fighting the urge for 5 years - we probably would be together for now!
a.) I wouldn't wanna get into that mess.
b.) My Taurus moon doesn't like the activity called "sharing."
Sometimes, I think Gems just want to compete.
Besides the love part, is there a part of you that feels like you want to compete with his wife?
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Posted by yupvirgooOf course o love my husband! Like a brother! I had been attending to him for 23 years. I just didn't wiped his butt!Posted by GemitatiDon't you feel bad for your husband just a little bit though?Posted by yupvirgooExactly! Comfort the word we are looking for. That's what we can't get over!Posted by Gem_from_Venuslol yeah but it's probably coz it's been so many years and she's just sort of finally accepted that's how she is and just fvck it and what everyone else thinksPosted by GemitatiPeople do pack and leave. Or they stop messing around and stay. Or they decide to stay in the middle. At some point you have to realize that you're doing the third, if you're not doing one of the first two. I can't say when that is. I do understand the complexity of your situation. And it bugs me that you were happy when you started this thread and people shit all over it.Posted by Gem_from_VenusYou had made a great post about how difficult is this to turn life around and leave!Posted by GemitatiOh, girl, don't get back on that. The cheater is the cheater. If he did something bad enough to be punished you know the right thing to do is leave. Leaving is hard, which is why I took up for you, but turning your bad behavior around and pointing at him is childish.Posted by Mystical111It bothers everybody who was cheated on by somebody buy no one who is a 'victim' ever thinks that they maybe asked for it!Posted by HrodebertI guess I was being a lil' bitchy but c'mon do you not see that she's in the wrong?Posted by Mystical111Why are you being mean to her?Posted by HrodebertPosted by Mystical111Oh, shut up tiny dick.
Typical Gemini behavior. Let me guess you're a Gemini Venus too?
Your sign is really fucking pathetic when it comes to relationships.
Is it really that difficult to stay faithful to one person? Apparently for most Geminis it is. People of your sign should just stay single, stop wasting people's time.
OH wait, Dominoes?!
Ok this doesn't apply to you, You've got Scorpio Ascendant. We're ride or die as fuck. 100% loyal.
You don't put yourself in another person's shoes? Imagine what it would feel like being betrayed/cheated on by the person who means the World to you?
It wouldn't bother you if your girl was being unfaithful to you?! The fuck?
At this point my family depends on me.
I am a breadwinner. It's been for so long and like you said we are all great roommates and having life.
I am figuring out my future.
Nobody packs and leaves! It's silly.
Like you said it it's not like I am 22 and decided I need to go back to parents house. I am thinking...
BUT, I've been cheated on before! It sucks! It's not okay, and it is never the fault of the one who is cheated on. To me it is not a healthy way to be, and it is something one should be trying to get out of sooner rather than later. Most of us think cheating is morally wrong and are a bit repulsed by it. And feel shame if we do it. Your lack of shame is what's setting everyone off. LOL 😆
but I really don't trust that a married man would just up and leave his wife... but that's probably coz im just thinking about myself... i just can't imagine myself doing it... ive placed things together in life and have fallen into not just love but comfort with everything
Unless at some point shit hits the fan and there we go!
Another thing is we had talked about living a lies that is bearable but it's not what we want.
He started to call me more often and talk about more serious things.
I mean... I'm sure at some point you tried to work on your marriage, right?
What if... he's the one who has been sneaking around all these years and keeping shyte from you and he's actually with some other woman?
For old time's sake... don't you kinda feel like you owe him some form of honesty?click to expand
Posted by HrodebertHas been done!Posted by GemitatiI think, Gem, it would be in your best interest to take these matters to your husband and talk to him about your feelings and what you are experiencing. He has every right to know and you should ask him for help because you are having emotional difficulties. You should also suggest to your husband that you are willing to discuss and understand this in marriage counselling.Posted by HrodebertThat's marriage certificate.Posted by GemitatiAsk your husband.Posted by HrodebertI don't remember asking permission!Posted by starwarsShe's all yours for the taking.Posted by Hrodebertum, excuse you sir I'm Gemitati personal knight so back offPosted by Mystical111Why are you being mean to her?Posted by HrodebertPosted by Mystical111Oh, shut up tiny dick.
Typical Gemini behavior. Let me guess you're a Gemini Venus too?
Your sign is really fucking pathetic when it comes to relationships.
Is it really that difficult to stay faithful to one person? Apparently for most Geminis it is. People of your sign should just stay single, stop wasting people's time.
OH wait, Dominoes?!
Ok this doesn't apply to you, You've got Scorpio Ascendant. We're ride or die as fuck. 100% loyal.
Also I didn't know you hold certificate of ME possession and if you do where is my NYear payment?
Read my question.
This is in your best interest. I'm saying this to you as a fellow Gemini. Talk to your husband. You NEED to talk to your husband.click to expand
Posted by yupvirgooNo lolPosted by GemitatiIf he can do that to her, didn't you ever think that's how it's going to be for you too?Posted by yupvirgooOh no! Never in my life! She had suffered enough! He wasn't there when he was supposed to be.Posted by GemitatiYeah but when I find out that they're attached or committed to someone else, my interest just drops or I force myself not to think of them because:Posted by yupvirgooToo late!
Why are you Geminis so hopeful?
I swear, you're just like my aunt.
You're just gonna end up in hurtsville.
I am a resident for years! Lol
Don't you understand loving someone to the point you can't function? When he calls I can be performing open heart surgery - o will stop and take a call!
Haven't you ever loved? And it's not 3 weeks! So it'll not pass. It's soon almost decade! But if he wasn't fighting the urge for 5 years - we probably would be together for now!
a.) I wouldn't wanna get into that mess.
b.) My Taurus moon doesn't like the activity called "sharing."
Sometimes, I think Gems just want to compete.
Besides the love part, is there a part of you that feels like you want to compete with his wife?
She became sad, mad and hostile.
I don't blame her except I would never take shit he was giving her for so long!
Now when he shaped up and became the best man on fave of Earth - she can't see it! She is blinded by past hurt. And no it wasn't cheating - neglect mostly.
So she is preserving her status and I am actually wish she fell for someone who never hurt her and could relax and let her self be!
Don't you ever have that dark thought in your head that goes:
"What if he ends up treating me the same way he did her?"
Plus do you really trust a man who had apparently driven his wife to sadness, madness and hostility?
That's a man who don't work on things.
This is a woman that he is still apparently sleeping with, has known for many years, mother of his children and had at one point been the reason for him to gleefully jump into a commitment with, what if you're just convenient to him simply coz you're there?
Ugh.
I'm going to take my Gem aunt out to distract her from this Taurus man she keeps on chasing.
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Posted by yupvirgooHe told me once if I was smart I would find someone for him not to know!Posted by GemitatiYou know... sometimes I kinda want you tell him that you're cheating on him.Posted by yupvirgooOf course o love my husband! Like a brother! I had been attending to him for 23 years. I just didn't wiped his butt!Posted by GemitatiDon't you feel bad for your husband just a little bit though?Posted by yupvirgooExactly! Comfort the word we are looking for. That's what we can't get over!Posted by Gem_from_Venuslol yeah but it's probably coz it's been so many years and she's just sort of finally accepted that's how she is and just fvck it and what everyone else thinksPosted by GemitatiPeople do pack and leave. Or they stop messing around and stay. Or they decide to stay in the middle. At some point you have to realize that you're doing the third, if you're not doing one of the first two. I can't say when that is. I do understand the complexity of your situation. And it bugs me that you were happy when you started this thread and people shit all over it.Posted by Gem_from_VenusYou had made a great post about how difficult is this to turn life around and leave!Posted by GemitatiOh, girl, don't get back on that. The cheater is the cheater. If he did something bad enough to be punished you know the right thing to do is leave. Leaving is hard, which is why I took up for you, but turning your bad behavior around and pointing at him is childish.Posted by Mystical111It bothers everybody who was cheated on by somebody buy no one who is a 'victim' ever thinks that they maybe asked for it!Posted by HrodebertI guess I was being a lil' bitchy but c'mon do you not see that she's in the wrong?Posted by Mystical111Why are you being mean to her?Posted by HrodebertPosted by Mystical111Oh, shut up tiny dick.
Typical Gemini behavior. Let me guess you're a Gemini Venus too?
Your sign is really fucking pathetic when it comes to relationships.
Is it really that difficult to stay faithful to one person? Apparently for most Geminis it is. People of your sign should just stay single, stop wasting people's time.
OH wait, Dominoes?!
Ok this doesn't apply to you, You've got Scorpio Ascendant. We're ride or die as fuck. 100% loyal.
You don't put yourself in another person's shoes? Imagine what it would feel like being betrayed/cheated on by the person who means the World to you?
It wouldn't bother you if your girl was being unfaithful to you?! The fuck?
At this point my family depends on me.
I am a breadwinner. It's been for so long and like you said we are all great roommates and having life.
I am figuring out my future.
Nobody packs and leaves! It's silly.
Like you said it it's not like I am 22 and decided I need to go back to parents house. I am thinking...
BUT, I've been cheated on before! It sucks! It's not okay, and it is never the fault of the one who is cheated on. To me it is not a healthy way to be, and it is something one should be trying to get out of sooner rather than later. Most of us think cheating is morally wrong and are a bit repulsed by it. And feel shame if we do it. Your lack of shame is what's setting everyone off. LOL 😆
but I really don't trust that a married man would just up and leave his wife... but that's probably coz im just thinking about myself... i just can't imagine myself doing it... ive placed things together in life and have fallen into not just love but comfort with everything
Unless at some point shit hits the fan and there we go!
Another thing is we had talked about living a lies that is bearable but it's not what we want.
He started to call me more often and talk about more serious things.
I mean... I'm sure at some point you tried to work on your marriage, right?
What if... he's the one who has been sneaking around all these years and keeping shyte from you and he's actually with some other woman?
For old time's sake... don't you kinda feel like you owe him some form of honesty?
However him getting lazier and lazier got me hard. I became a real macho man!
Load on me. I will deliver...
When my Scorp told me imagine coming home tonight and telling your husband (whom he knows as a customer for 5 years) - you want divorce!
And I came home and at dinner table I started to talk about me being unhappy.
He couldn't wait for me to shut up and watch the show he watching every day!
And it's on frogging YouTube!!!
Should I be sorry— I stil am but...
His apparent neglect of you and his dismissive crap when you're trying to talk to him pisses me off.
And I somehow want to get a reaction out of him... I find Caps to have this sort of coldness in them.
It hurts even a Virgo like me.
And if all else fails, just get divorced... you might feel a little happier.
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Posted by HrodebertAre you saying I was a Virgin?Posted by GemitatiThat's not what I asked you to say to him. Also, I don't think that is how it works. You marriage was not based on a blowjob. I don't think you sucked his dick and then proceeded to sign a paper claiming you're married.Posted by HrodebertHas been done!Posted by GemitatiI think, Gem, it would be in your best interest to take these matters to your husband and talk to him about your feelings and what you are experiencing. He has every right to know and you should ask him for help because you are having emotional difficulties. You should also suggest to your husband that you are willing to discuss and understand this in marriage counselling.Posted by HrodebertThat's marriage certificate.Posted by GemitatiAsk your husband.Posted by HrodebertI don't remember asking permission!Posted by starwarsShe's all yours for the taking.Posted by Hrodebertum, excuse you sir I'm Gemitati personal knight so back offPosted by Mystical111Why are you being mean to her?Posted by HrodebertPosted by Mystical111Oh, shut up tiny dick.
Typical Gemini behavior. Let me guess you're a Gemini Venus too?
Your sign is really fucking pathetic when it comes to relationships.
Is it really that difficult to stay faithful to one person? Apparently for most Geminis it is. People of your sign should just stay single, stop wasting people's time.
OH wait, Dominoes?!
Ok this doesn't apply to you, You've got Scorpio Ascendant. We're ride or die as fuck. 100% loyal.
Also I didn't know you hold certificate of ME possession and if you do where is my NYear payment?
Read my question.
This is in your best interest. I'm saying this to you as a fellow Gemini. Talk to your husband. You NEED to talk to your husband.
Ok...before I actually broke the marriage law - we had agreed on him trying to get back his manpower!
I was sorry and once I came to the room and offered him a bj - he said let's wait until end of the show!
That did it! I set myself free of guilt!!!
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Posted by HrodebertI said was...like if you were implying I was a Virgin before marriage...Posted by GemitatiYou know what.Posted by HrodebertAre you saying I was a Virgin?Posted by GemitatiThat's not what I asked you to say to him. Also, I don't think that is how it works. You marriage was not based on a blowjob. I don't think you sucked his dick and then proceeded to sign a paper claiming you're married.Posted by HrodebertHas been done!Posted by GemitatiI think, Gem, it would be in your best interest to take these matters to your husband and talk to him about your feelings and what you are experiencing. He has every right to know and you should ask him for help because you are having emotional difficulties. You should also suggest to your husband that you are willing to discuss and understand this in marriage counselling.Posted by HrodebertThat's marriage certificate.Posted by GemitatiAsk your husband.Posted by HrodebertI don't remember asking permission!Posted by starwarsShe's all yours for the taking.Posted by Hrodebertum, excuse you sir I'm Gemitati personal knight so back offPosted by Mystical111Why are you being mean to her?Posted by HrodebertPosted by Mystical111Oh, shut up tiny dick.
Typical Gemini behavior. Let me guess you're a Gemini Venus too?
Your sign is really fucking pathetic when it comes to relationships.
Is it really that difficult to stay faithful to one person? Apparently for most Geminis it is. People of your sign should just stay single, stop wasting people's time.
OH wait, Dominoes?!
Ok this doesn't apply to you, You've got Scorpio Ascendant. We're ride or die as fuck. 100% loyal.
Also I didn't know you hold certificate of ME possession and if you do where is my NYear payment?
Read my question.
This is in your best interest. I'm saying this to you as a fellow Gemini. Talk to your husband. You NEED to talk to your husband.
Ok...before I actually broke the marriage law - we had agreed on him trying to get back his manpower!
I was sorry and once I came to the room and offered him a bj - he said let's wait until end of the show!
That did it! I set myself free of guilt!!!
Whatever.
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Posted by beautifulsoul74Exactly! If it's for love - it's worth it!
Man I can't ignore this one.
I don't know what's worse...the OP is married and is messing around with another married person or some of the people on here actually giving the OP advice on how to handle this person by trying to manipulate him. Jesus Christ people are mad??
To add insult to injury is the fact that "good intentions" are once again used to masquerade selfishness and the OP bares this out with her own words a few pages ago..."it's easier for me to get a divorce than it is for him." So you basically want him to take all the risk before you will...which eseentially translates into even if he gets one...you're not leaving your husband...period. You could care less about him and he you because if it's about love...then it'd be worth it right? Smh
Posted by UndineI am glad dxpnet has some sane people.
If anything, Gemitati's threads could raise awareness to a common problem.
Yes, guys and girls in your 20ies and early 30ties....any of you could be in Gemitati's shoes at any time during your next 50-60 years. Those of you who condemn it more passionately are even more in danger...because of your emotional makeup.
Some infidelity stats:
Percent of marriages where one or both spouses admit to infidelity, either physical or emotional 41 %
Percent of men who admit to committing infidelity in any relationship they’ve had 57 %
Percentage of women who admit to committing infidelity in any relationship they’ve had 54 %
Percentage of marriages that last after an affair has been admitted to or discovered 31 %
Percentage of men who say they would have an affair if they knew they would never get caught 74 %
Percentage of women who say they would have an affair if they knew they would never get caught 68 %
Percent of children who are the product of infidelity 2.5 %
Posted by SeraphlightYou're soooo far up CC's ass I'm surprised you can read this post to comment on it.
Op is a ratched bitch ...there i said it.
Posted by nikkistarWhy?
This thread just makes me sad.
Posted by GemitatiMoral corruption.Posted by nikkistarWhy?
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Posted by Undine
If anything, Gemitati's threads could raise awareness to a common problem.
Yes, guys and girls in your 20ies and early 30ties....any of you could be in Gemitati's shoes at any time during your next 50-60 years. Those of you who condemn it more passionately are even more in danger...because of your emotional makeup.
Some infidelity stats:
Percent of marriages where one or both spouses admit to infidelity, either physical or emotional 41 %
Percent of men who admit to committing infidelity in any relationship they’ve had 57 %
Percentage of women who admit to committing infidelity in any relationship they’ve had 54 %
Percentage of marriages that last after an affair has been admitted to or discovered 31 %
Percentage of men who say they would have an affair if they knew they would never get caught 74 %
Percentage of women who say they would have an affair if they knew they would never get caught 68 %
Percent of children who are the product of infidelity 2.5 %
Posted by SassyKiwiInfidelity started when world started.Posted by Undine
If anything, Gemitati's threads could raise awareness to a common problem.
Yes, guys and girls in your 20ies and early 30ties....any of you could be in Gemitati's shoes at any time during your next 50-60 years. Those of you who condemn it more passionately are even more in danger...because of your emotional makeup.
Some infidelity stats:
Percent of marriages where one or both spouses admit to infidelity, either physical or emotional 41 %
Percent of men who admit to committing infidelity in any relationship they’ve had 57 %
Percentage of women who admit to committing infidelity in any relationship they’ve had 54 %
Percentage of marriages that last after an affair has been admitted to or discovered 31 %
Percentage of men who say they would have an affair if they knew they would never get caught 74 %
Percentage of women who say they would have an affair if they knew they would never get caught 68 %
Percent of children who are the product of infidelity 2.5 %
Ikr. People need reality checks around here often.
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Posted by GemitatiPosted by SassyKiwiInfidelity started when world started.Posted by Undine
If anything, Gemitati's threads could raise awareness to a common problem.
Yes, guys and girls in your 20ies and early 30ties....any of you could be in Gemitati's shoes at any time during your next 50-60 years. Those of you who condemn it more passionately are even more in danger...because of your emotional makeup.
Some infidelity stats:
Percent of marriages where one or both spouses admit to infidelity, either physical or emotional 41 %
Percent of men who admit to committing infidelity in any relationship they’ve had 57 %
Percentage of women who admit to committing infidelity in any relationship they’ve had 54 %
Percentage of marriages that last after an affair has been admitted to or discovered 31 %
Percentage of men who say they would have an affair if they knew they would never get caught 74 %
Percentage of women who say they would have an affair if they knew they would never get caught 68 %
Percent of children who are the product of infidelity 2.5 %
Ikr. People need reality checks around here often.
It's just how society's pathetically become. Dxpers have no immunity.
What are you talking about? Became!
My ass...
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