How would you feel if you were stood up? (Page 3)

Bye pluto! Going to dinner in a few as well...

bye Pluto!

hi HP... one thing i learned when i got stood up and i gave him a hard time was that i wish i hadn't done it that way.

i asked myself, what would i have done if a friend stood me up? i probably would've called them to see if he/she was still coming over and if they couldn't make it, no big deal. no hard feelings, we'll do it another time.

that doesn't excuse the fact that they still didn't intend to call. but if it were a friend i may either make a joke about being stood up, or gently chide them by saying "oh too bad we didn't get together the other night, i ended up staying at home, with a nice bottle of wine ( 🙂 ). by the way, can you call me next time you don't think you're going to make it? that way i can make other plans"

it lets them know that their inconsideration did have an impact and they're more likely to remember next time. trust me, all my friends know to give me a courtesy call, even the flaky ones 🙂

i don't know why we make it big deal when it's someone we're interested in...when we find it so easy to be more understanding with friends?

oh and ya, the bull's definitely trying to get with you, lol. smart move to meet at the theatre.....

one thing's for sure tho, ever since i blasted him the bull's been good about calling if he even thinks he's running late, haha

The Scorp called me tonight to apologize for not getting back with me last night. Things are good again. 🙂

2 thumbs up! WAY up. 😛

he must've been scared of the stompin, hahahahaha

that's awesome, HP 🙂

Yeah, he's back to his sweet little romantic self.

Oh wait, he said there's nothing little about him. heeheehee

I'm happy for you, hp! *Thumbs way up*

Status check:

I hung out with my Taurus ex last night. He tried advances at me and few times, I let him. I feel so bad. But me and the Scorpio haven't talked about exclusive just yet.

The even worse part is I remember how jealous my Taurus ex was when we were together. He knows about the Scorpio and I told him how I wanted to see where it goes with the Scorpio and he said he understood. But after we left the parking lot of the theater (at 1 am...ugh), I started recalling how he was jealous and almost possessive.

The Scorp doesn't need to know I saw the Taurus last night, but what I need to do before I get myself dug so deep is find out from the Scorp where we stand so I know to let the Taurus ex go and stay in my life.

*or stay in my life

Please correct me if I'm wrong, hp...but doesn't your Taurus ex have a girlfriend? What is he doing trying to put the moves on you, and better yet why are you letting him? He should not have any reason to be jealous about the Scorp because he has a girlfriend, so it negates his feelings in all of this.
I would not waste my self-respect on this guy; its plainly obvious he's shady. If Scorp gets any wind of this and if you like him at all, you will lose him. You can take that to the bank. I would just tread carefully if I were you.

There's a reason an ex is an ex!

Hey Shorty. They broke up about 2 weeks ago. One thing I told him last night was I was not going to get involved with him because of his girlfriend since they had a lot of time invested and he and I have good and bad history. Yes, there's a reason why he's my ex. When I say I let him made a few advances, they were really more of him "stealing kisses" from me when my guard was done.

Yes, I like this Scorpio and I told the Taurus guy that. He kept saying he understood and I hope he does...otherwise I really have noone to blame for this but myself.

Don't let yourself be a rebound. Are there still feelings between you & the Taurus or just an air of familiarity so its "safe?"
This is just my opinion, but I would suggest resolving whatever issues you & the ex have before moving on with the Scorp.

I told him exactly that, that the reason why he wanted to see me was not because he missed me, but because he couldn't be alone. I told him that he needs to take a break from dating and just be by himself for a while to reflect rather than rebounding to another woman or trying to get back with an ex.

Grrr....by seeing the Taurus guy last night, I've opened up a can of worms. The Taurus guy has emailed me 5 times this morning! I've only responded to one of those emails.

I'm treading lightly right now. I really like the Scorpio guy and now the Taurus guy is toying with me...

an ex is an ex for a reason
an ex is an ex for a reason
an ex is an ex for a reason
an ex is an ex for a reason
an ex is an ex for a reason
an ex is an ex for a reason
an ex is an ex for a reason

I won't get to see the Scorp this weekend. He's moving and I am going to the Nickelback concert tonight and then going out of town tomorrow for the rest of the weekend.

boohooooooo