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Posted by nikkistar
Now the OP is just starting to annoy me. All the Scorpios hate her, all the Scorpios aren't giving the answer that the OP wants exactly. Because all the Scorpios point out the issues that need to be addressed, but aren't what the OP wants to hear, it is mocking.

I find the OP exasperating to deal with just in the context of her posts, so I can't imagine how much more prominent these issues are with her in her real life.

She just wants a plan how to get him back can't you see 😄

She doesn't want to work out her issues, she's dying to get him back! Cause well she's so attractive how dares he deny her!

Lol

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I realize that working out the issues is the key to getting him back.

And yes you guys are very mocking.

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Either you can get him or you can't. If you don't know how ...you never will. That much i have learnt in life.
I like you Little Fairy. I mean I have a really good idea of how to get him back. Really the answer is just be competent. That's really it. But I would still only give that 90% I leave room for margin of error.

What is a fireword?
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Dark swallows will doubtless come back killing

the injudicious nightflies with a clack of the beak;

but these that stopped full flight to see your beauty

and my good fortune... as if they knew our names—

they’ll not come back. The thick lemony honeysuckle,

climbing from earthroot to your window,

will open more beautiful blossoms to the evening;

but these... like dewdrops, trembling, shining, falling,

the tears of day—they’ll not come back...

Some other love will sound his fireword for you

and wake your heart, perhaps, from its cool sleep;

but silent, absorbed, and on his knees,

as men adore God at the altar, as I love you—

don’t blind yourself, you’ll not be loved like that.
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I am aware that I am the most physically attractive person in our portion university

Who does that bitch think she is ?

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The cookie monster is great. And the thing is if you came to my university you may think the same too. Me bringing that up was because I know Scorpios value looks a lot. Us Pisces don't really make looks a priority.
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They do ..they value what they are looking at. And what they are not looking at ..doesn't compare ...to the girl they want to look at forever.
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I am aware that I am the most physically attractive person in our portion university

Who does that bitch think she is ?

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The cookie monster is great. And the thing is if you came to my university you may think the same too. Me bringing that up was because I know Scorpios value looks a lot. Us Pisces don't really make looks a priority.
No thanks, I have high standards regarding friends, I don't take trash.
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No resulting to personal insults...*sigh*
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I like him, I hurt when I am not around him, he added so much vitality to my life, our connection was wonderful. I think it would hurt me too much to remain friends at this point.

I guess I am confused on why he insists on staying friends and why he continues to call me pet names while saying he doesn't think he wants a relationship but he wants to see where it goes.


Tell him this ..in those exact words.
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I am aware that I am the most physically attractive person in our portion university

Who does that bitch think she is ?

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The cookie monster is great. And the thing is if you came to my university you may think the same too. Me bringing that up was because I know Scorpios value looks a lot. Us Pisces don't really make looks a priority.
No thanks, I have high standards regarding friends, I don't take trash.
You obviously have a hatred for mutable signs. So I mean I shouldn't have really had high hopes

No resulting to personal insults...*sigh*


Oh sorry did I offend you, sweetie ?

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I don't think peach09 is adding to the conversation. I never knew how strongly Scorpios felt about Pisces. Because if you are really caught up in zodiac signs you would know that Pisces are the most spiritual and intuitive of the signs. I hope a Pisces doesn't doodoo the voodoo on anyone in here.

No I don't think I am too good for him but I don't think he is too good for me either--I know my worth.
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Sorry but I think you are out of your mind. Why do you want him back if you have no feelings in the first place. I'm sure there are tons of guys you like, go ahead and start something from a blank page. Why do you crave for all that drama? You both sound like teens, I'm outta here. Can't stand teenagers gosh
I grew to have feelings. Yes I do like him. Yes we need space.

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I don't think peach09 is adding to the conversation. I never knew how strongly Scorpios felt about Pisces. Because if you are really caught up in zodiac signs you would know that Pisces are the most spiritual and intuitive of the signs. I hope a Pisces doesn't doodoo the voodoo on anyone in here.

No I don't think I am too good for him but I don't think he is too good for me either--I know my worth.
And Aries are the strongest.

And Taurus are the most powerful.

And Geminis are the smartest.

And Cancers the most intuitive.

And Leos the most charismatic.

And Virgos the sharpest.

And Libras the fairest.

And Scorpios the deepest.

And Sagittarius the most wise.

And Capricorn the savviest.

And Aquarius the most unique.

Every sign has some trope they can try and lord over others.

At the end of the day everyone is still fucked up or flawed in some way, therefore, not some invincible hero. We live in reality, not a Hollywood blockbuster full of cheap one dimensional archetypes.
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okay I get it. I only came on here for solid advice on how to get my Scorpio male back.

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Shit the front door y’all are still talking about me?! Hahahhshshshshahahjajajajah



I’m the former pisces4scorpio and I came back on like an hour ago for the first time in 11 months to give an update about how I got my scorpio man (together since May) and I find y’all still talking about me? HaHA! Nice.

OP I can probably help

Dm me if you’d like. Some of the people around here just like to be mean for reasons I’ll never understand.
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So I am a Pisces Sun, Libra Moon, Aries Venus. Most people will mistake me for a Scorpio but I am far too empathetic and sensitive to others pain. I'm a real softie but a badass at the same time. At first I was resisting his advances. He asked me out three times before one day I decided to go out with him. After one week he said he loved me. I was in pain about something that happened last year he kept telling me to let it go. But I couldn't. And it would bother him and he got bored of it.

Sometimes I felt trapped by him because if I wasn't exactly what he wanted and if we got in any little fight he would threaten that our relationship wasn't sustainable and then I would go fight or flight and convince him to come back and he liked this but every fight he would threaten and I ended up taking it out subconsciously by being standoffish to his friends. He is a very impatient man when it comes to dealing with other people's feelings. None of my friends like him which is what I think heavily influenced me, but I do understand him. He likes to retreat and one time he said he couldn't really sleep after hurting me.

I broke up with him a week ago and he retaliated by saying hurtful things during the breakup. I was dumb and I kept flip-flopping a few days after first saying I was upset then saying I loved him telling him I couldn't sleep. I apologized to his friends for being standoffish they were really understanding. My feelings weren't stable. I told him "I think now I like you more than you like me now" He says he wants to be friends but doesn't think he wants a relationship and would rather see how things go. He says he doesn't want someone to need him. I took offense to this because I said I think you know I am very independent. He said I know. I said regardless of what you think I believe in myself. He said I believe in you more than you believe in yourself. While he was saying this he was calling me babe kitten and claiming he wanted to kiss me but it would be a bad idea. He then invited me out for an event I said it's best to talk to him after break. (Note this is finals time) Next semester we have no classes. He was flip-flopping as well and sent me a picture of him with a bear I gave him at 3AM.

I don't love him but I do like him and I understand he doesn't want to be hurt again. He really tried hard to pursue me but actually it was me who did push him away to an extent because I was hurt and didn't know what I wanted. However, I do want him. Not now but maybe in a few months when I truly am ready. And maybe I will only want him as a friend I have a crush on....who knows....

I need a plan. I know he was attracted to me because he thought I was kind, confident and an alpha female. I am kind and an alpha female but I am not as confident as I once was (in certain things).

We had really great times that were marred by petty arguments. I hope in time he will see the great times.



You're not stable.

Scorpio needs a stable woman.
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So they can be unstable??cuz thats what it seems like..no fun.
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I recently am dealing with the death of my father and my physics professor sexually assaulting me.


Then a relationship is the last fucking thing you should be focusing on.

Typical unevolved Pisces BS.

"I was sexually assaulted!! Waaa - please pity me!" Instant turn off.
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Wow that is fucking cold.you actually get laid—are all scorpios as insensitive as you?? Gross.
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Seriously...youve been through a lot..and are probably in a cloud of grief shock etc..and now youre regretting how things went with dude..but honestly...if you were in a better place i have a feeling you wouldnt want him anymore..he sounds super wishy washy..anyone that says i love you after a week...ehhhh...not to be trusted.i think you attracted an unhealthy person bc right now, thats who you are..not bad..just you need to really focus on your grief and assault..youre not in a good place. The thing is if this guy REALLY cared about you,after knowing what youve been through, he'd stand by you. Hed want to help you...hed love you actively cuz he said he did..but he doesnt..wrong place wrong time wrong guy....focus on healing and loving you...and then see how you feel about him. I dont think itll be the same...good luck hon..thats a lot to deal with.
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Omg this guys is a mindfucker.....first he loves you then he doesnt wanna be needed then he pulls the rug out from.under you....hes unstable af hon.and you sound a lot like me.you gotta put your big girl panties on and get the fuck away from him....ick!!
Like I was quite offended when he said he doens't want someone who needs him. I was thinking. I don't "need" you I chose you. I don't have vitriol against any zodiac sign but peachy09 and others don't have a high opinion of Pisces are are projecting.

People on here got upset at me for claiming this Scorpio only liked me because of my looks and the fact that I am the President of two clubs. He liked my exterior. He even said I am the only girl he finds that physically attractive in our school. And the look in his eyes told me he wasn't joking. Keep in mind he is physically less attractive than me (he is average and I am well above average) and my friends don't like him--whereas even though i was standoffish to his friends they really want to know me. I still like him but I don't think it's fair that Scorpios are so callous and shallow and I can't be emotional sometimes.

Do you know how much it hurt to know he only liked my exterior? I mean his biggest thing with me was "you're so beautiful, your face is so beautiful kitten, your body is so hot". Even guys who were more obvious about getting in my pants would add something else. He only liked how I looked and what I presented? but then when I opened up he was so callous. Maybe I should stop thinking any man really cares or wants to listen to my feelings. Just because I like listening doesn't mean others do.
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Your professor sexually assaulted you?

😲😲😲😲😲

Have you taken the rape kit and told the police?
I attract sociopaths and other people I am not supposed to attract. This professor would always stare at me and my chest during class and pushed me up against a wall and claimed he remembers he saw me looking at him when I was with my friends. I reported it the physics chair completely overlooked it. He went for one semester but then came back the next.
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Your professor sexually assaulted you?

😲😲😲😲😲

Have you taken the rape kit and told the police?
I attract sociopaths and other people I am not supposed to attract. This professor would always stare at me and my chest during class and pushed me up against a wall and claimed he remembers he saw me looking at him when I was with my friends. I reported it the physics chair completely overlooked it. He went for one semester but then came back the next.
Next time report it to the police
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I have come to blame myself because I am so used to being abused by men. And if you complain then you get the Scorpio on here claiming I am unevolved. I have a really huge chest but I am tall and thin and even though I hate my face I know from others that is perceived as beautiful and more attractive than most. That alone is enough to attract attention. Scorpios think this is me boosting up my ego. But no. So I don't think I blame anyone. I just want someone who likes me for me. The Scorpio didn't I don't think he liked my body not my mind and spirit.

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Posted by pinkbird03
This Scorpio isn’t going anywhere. He’s just being stubborn. Text him, hang out with him - he’ll go back to normal. I say this because he’s already attached to you. They don’t move on quickly once this happens.

Just try not to argue too much because your relationship will start to feel like a roller coaster ride.
Thanks we always got in arguments (well 3 in one month) but actually I don't want to argue with him anymore. He saw me today and stared at me and was confused when I wasn't eager to see him. I was on this forum when this happened.
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Your professor sexually assaulted you?

😲😲😲😲😲

Have you taken the rape kit and told the police?
I attract sociopaths and other people I am not supposed to attract. This professor would always stare at me and my chest during class and pushed me up against a wall and claimed he remembers he saw me looking at him when I was with my friends. I reported it the physics chair completely overlooked it. He went for one semester but then came back the next.
Next time report it to the police
I have come to blame myself because I am so used to being abused by men. And if you complain then you get the Scorpio on here claiming I am unevolved. I have a really huge chest but I am tall and thin and even though I hate my face I know from others that is perceived as beautiful and more attractive than most. That alone is enough to attract attention. Scorpios think this is me boosting up my ego. But no. So I don't think I blame anyone. I just want someone who likes me for me. The Scorpio didn't I don't think he liked my body not my mind and spirit.


Don't worry about lunatic scorp's. They're as bad as virgos with taking criticism

They're just jealous they're all ugly and look like men.

They can't bear to read the word beautiful Bexcuse most are ugly as sin
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Most of my closest friends are "pretty" girls and none of are Scorpios: Aries, Libras, Pisces, Aquarius, andn Leos.

Scorpio men are attractive--but not 'handsome'. There's a difference. I don't find Scarlett Johansson pretty at all in the face...I already have big boobs so I am not impressed but yeah she's sexy (not to me as a straight woman)---just found out minutes ago she's a Scorpio. Same with Katy Perry...not really pretty.

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Omg this guys is a mindfucker.....first he loves you then he doesnt wanna be needed then he pulls the rug out from.under you....hes unstable af hon.and you sound a lot like me.you gotta put your big girl panties on and get the fuck away from him....ick!!
Like I was quite offended when he said he doens't want someone who needs him. I was thinking. I don't "need" you I chose you. I don't have vitriol against any zodiac sign but peachy09 and others don't have a high opinion of Pisces are are projecting.

People on here got upset at me for claiming this Scorpio only liked me because of my looks and the fact that I am the President of two clubs. He liked my exterior. He even said I am the only girl he finds that physically attractive in our school. And the look in his eyes told me he wasn't joking. Keep in mind he is physically less attractive than me (he is average and I am well above average) and my friends don't like him--whereas even though i was standoffish to his friends they really want to know me. I still like him but I don't think it's fair that Scorpios are so callous and shallow and I can't be emotional sometimes.

Do you know how much it hurt to know he only liked my exterior? I mean his biggest thing with me was "you're so beautiful, your face is so beautiful kitten, your body is so hot". Even guys who were more obvious about getting in my pants would add something else. He only liked how I looked and what I presented? but then when I opened up he was so callous. Maybe I should stop thinking any man really cares or wants to listen to my feelings. Just because I like listening doesn't mean others do.
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Peachy09 is an asshole i blocked her...dont worry what haters say..this board is vicious..no you dont have to be liked just for your looks...sounds like youre young no offense...but youve got time to sort through this..and hopefully find a guy who really genuinely adores you..he sounds really immature and not ready for what relationships are about..and you have a lot on your plate....a man who truly loves you will want to ride the waves of life with you..ups and downs all of it..he sounds superficial.
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Posted by pinkbird03
This Scorpio isn’t going anywhere. He’s just being stubborn. Text him, hang out with him - he’ll go back to normal. I say this because he’s already attached to you. They don’t move on quickly once this happens.

Just try not to argue too much because your relationship will start to feel like a roller coaster ride.
How/why do you think thats true?? I thought they didnt get attached that easily..
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Your professor sexually assaulted you?

😲😲😲😲😲

Have you taken the rape kit and told the police?
I attract sociopaths and other people I am not supposed to attract. This professor would always stare at me and my chest during class and pushed me up against a wall and claimed he remembers he saw me looking at him when I was with my friends. I reported it the physics chair completely overlooked it. He went for one semester but then came back the next.
Next time report it to the police
I have come to blame myself because I am so used to being abused by men. And if you complain then you get the Scorpio on here claiming I am unevolved. I have a really huge chest but I am tall and thin and even though I hate my face I know from others that is perceived as beautiful and more attractive than most. That alone is enough to attract attention. Scorpios think this is me boosting up my ego. But no. So I don't think I blame anyone. I just want someone who likes me for me. The Scorpio didn't I don't think he liked my body not my mind and spirit.

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Stay strong hon.i attract the same pieces of shit..im glad you know what you want. Dont back down and dont allow yourself to be treated poorly.
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So I am a Pisces Sun, Libra Moon, Aries Venus. Most people will mistake me for a Scorpio but I am far too empathetic and sensitive to others pain. I'm a real softie but a badass at the same time. At first I was resisting his advances. He asked me out three times before one day I decided to go out with him. After one week he said he loved me. I was in pain about something that happened last year he kept telling me to let it go. But I couldn't. And it would bother him and he got bored of it.

Sometimes I felt trapped by him because if I wasn't exactly what he wanted and if we got in any little fight he would threaten that our relationship wasn't sustainable and then I would go fight or flight and convince him to come back and he liked this but every fight he would threaten and I ended up taking it out subconsciously by being standoffish to his friends. He is a very impatient man when it comes to dealing with other people's feelings. None of my friends like him which is what I think heavily influenced me, but I do understand him. He likes to retreat and one time he said he couldn't really sleep after hurting me.

I broke up with him a week ago and he retaliated by saying hurtful things during the breakup. I was dumb and I kept flip-flopping a few days after first saying I was upset then saying I loved him telling him I couldn't sleep. I apologized to his friends for being standoffish they were really understanding. My feelings weren't stable. I told him "I think now I like you more than you like me now" He says he wants to be friends but doesn't think he wants a relationship and would rather see how things go. He says he doesn't want someone to need him. I took offense to this because I said I think you know I am very independent. He said I know. I said regardless of what you think I believe in myself. He said I believe in you more than you believe in yourself. While he was saying this he was calling me babe kitten and claiming he wanted to kiss me but it would be a bad idea. He then invited me out for an event I said it's best to talk to him after break. (Note this is finals time) Next semester we have no classes. He was flip-flopping as well and sent me a picture of him with a bear I gave him at 3AM.

I don't love him but I do like him and I understand he doesn't want to be hurt again. He really tried hard to pursue me but actually it was me who did push him away to an extent because I was hurt and didn't know what I wanted. However, I do want him. Not now but maybe in a few months when I truly am ready. And maybe I will only want him as a friend I have a crush on....who knows....

I need a plan. I know he was attracted to me because he thought I was kind, confident and an alpha female. I am kind and an alpha female but I am not as confident as I once was (in certain things).

We had really great times that were marred by petty arguments. I hope in time he will see the great times.



You're not stable.

Scorpio needs a stable woman.
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only because scorpios themselves are unstable

even more so than pisces

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You're not stable.

Scorpio needs a stable woman.



I mentioned I have not been stable because of what happened last year. He knows this. It's not like what happened to me were easy things to deal with. Parent dying, being outcasted, having a professor sexually assault me. H





Dude you went through all of that and he actually told you to just put it behind you?

This guy seems like the biggest douche

but this is classic for a young pisces who simply hasn't learned

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I recently am dealing with the death of my father and my physics professor sexually assaulting me.


Then a relationship is the last fucking thing you should be focusing on.

Typical unevolved Pisces BS.

"I was sexually assaulted!! Waaa - please pity me!" Instant turn off.
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Gross.

what a gross human being you are.

even if you are trolling...



dude...sexual assault..it's not a joke

asshole.

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So I am a Pisces Sun, Libra Moon, Aries Venus. Most people will mistake me for a Scorpio but I am far too empathetic and sensitive to others pain. I'm a real softie but a badass at the same time. At first I was resisting his advances. He asked me out three times before one day I decided to go out with him. After one week he said he loved me. I was in pain about something that happened last year he kept telling me to let it go. But I couldn't. And it would bother him and he got bored of it.

Sometimes I felt trapped by him because if I wasn't exactly what he wanted and if we got in any little fight he would threaten that our relationship wasn't sustainable and then I would go fight or flight and convince him to come back and he liked this but every fight he would threaten and I ended up taking it out subconsciously by being standoffish to his friends. He is a very impatient man when it comes to dealing with other people's feelings. None of my friends like him which is what I think heavily influenced me, but I do understand him. He likes to retreat and one time he said he couldn't really sleep after hurting me.

I broke up with him a week ago and he retaliated by saying hurtful things during the breakup. I was dumb and I kept flip-flopping a few days after first saying I was upset then saying I loved him telling him I couldn't sleep. I apologized to his friends for being standoffish they were really understanding. My feelings weren't stable. I told him "I think now I like you more than you like me now" He says he wants to be friends but doesn't think he wants a relationship and would rather see how things go. He says he doesn't want someone to need him. I took offense to this because I said I think you know I am very independent. He said I know. I said regardless of what you think I believe in myself. He said I believe in you more than you believe in yourself. While he was saying this he was calling me babe kitten and claiming he wanted to kiss me but it would be a bad idea. He then invited me out for an event I said it's best to talk to him after break. (Note this is finals time) Next semester we have no classes. He was flip-flopping as well and sent me a picture of him with a bear I gave him at 3AM.

I don't love him but I do like him and I understand he doesn't want to be hurt again. He really tried hard to pursue me but actually it was me who did push him away to an extent because I was hurt and didn't know what I wanted. However, I do want him. Not now but maybe in a few months when I truly am ready. And maybe I will only want him as a friend I have a crush on....who knows....

I need a plan. I know he was attracted to me because he thought I was kind, confident and an alpha female. I am kind and an alpha female but I am not as confident as I once was (in certain things).

We had really great times that were marred by petty arguments. I hope in time he will see the great times.



You're not stable.

Scorpio needs a stable woman.
only because scorpios themselves are unstable

even more so than pisces

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Exactly!!