Just a Libra trying to solve Scorpio’s mind games and failing miserably on my ass.. PLEASE help!

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That was ridiculously long.

Sounds like it would be best to leave this alone. What does all the love and connection mean if nothing changes and you remain the side piece? Don't accept that. Walk away, disconnect, move ON. You're both living a fantasy and you have nothing to show for it, and he has a wife and likely children in the future. In other words, a life. And you have...what? Nothing.

Better luck next life.
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Posted by Reincarnation
He likes you, but he is married.

Sounds like he shouldn't have gotten married. He does not sound committed to his wife.
Meh, if he liked her enough, he wouldn't have moved forward with the wedding (he wasn't married when they met). Even if he felt like it was a mistake later, he hasn't done anything to rectify his situation. He may in fact feel completely connected to this woman but it means nothing but feels and probably won't ever be more than coulda woulda shoulda.

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Posted by sultrykitty
Posted by Reincarnation
He likes you, but he is married.

Sounds like he shouldn't have gotten married. He does not sound committed to his wife.
Meh, if he liked her enough, he wouldn't have moved forward with the wedding (he wasn't married when they met). Even if he felt like it was a mistake later, he hasn't done anything to rectify his situation. He may in fact feel completely connected to this woman but it means nothing but feels and probably won't ever be more than coulda woulda shoulda.

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lol@gobb above. Just read the comments for short version.



@sultry, sounds like a story from Jane Austen's true love story. it was super sad.

or from the pages of real life story of Ian Fleming too.



i mean what are his future plans? a man without a plan is a scary one.

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Posted by libraconfusedaf
I was aware that a month before we met he got engaged.

We sleep together again. And that goes on for about a year... until he decides and he decided to stay with his fiancée.

A month after his wedding we spend a weekend together

If you saw us together you’d think we were a couple, and completely forget he was married.

He even starts talking to a girl he was writing to sexually after our last “breakup”! Now I’m furious. I feel used and lied to...

But he seems interested with someone else now. How could that be?


Are you for real rn? How could he be interested in someone else...Really??

We are talking about a man who fucks around on his fiancé and then wife. Your the side chick. If he doesn’t have loyalty to the woman he chose to marry what makes you think he would give loyalty to you?

You’ve played yourself.
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I was aware that a month before we met he got engaged.

Few months forward, we sleep together. We fall in love. We sleep together again. And that goes on for about a year... until he decides and he decided to stay with his fiancée.


no one should have sympathy for you, wtf

y'alls fire moons wreaking havoc, smh
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This has nothing to do with being a fire moon and everything to do with being a moral-less ho.
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Posted by libraconfusedaf
He tells me we’ve been together in our past lives, that he knows we’re meant to be together and that I’m the one, but he can’t hurt her again, because she doesn’t deserve it.


What a steaming pile of shit.

You know what she doesn’t deserve?

A fiancé that cheats on her.

A husband that cheats on her.

Having her health put at risk to whatever diseases he brings back to the marriage bed.

Living a lie wasting her youth on a man who is scum.

Smh that’s the real hurt. Knowing the truth and having the chance to decide her fate is a right he is denying her. Why? Not because he doesn’t want to ‘hurt her’. But because it doesn’t suit HIS needs.

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I was aware that a month before we met he got engaged.

Few months forward, we sleep together. We fall in love. We sleep together again. And that goes on for about a year... until he decides and he decided to stay with his fiancée.


no one should have sympathy for you, wtf

y'alls fire moons wreaking havoc, smh
I... I agree 😂


i am mildly annoyed you think this is funny. you participated in a really shitty situation & now you are expecting us to give you advice on how to win the situation?

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Only mildly? I have to restrain myself from being savage.

I don't feel sorry for her at all!!!

Karma is a BITCH!

Smdfh!
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Sorry for you having friends with Karmas who are...well...bitches! I’ve never met one. THANKS GOD!
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He likes you, but he is married.

Sounds like he shouldn't have gotten married. He does not sound committed to his wife.
Meh, if he liked her enough, he wouldn't have moved forward with the wedding (he wasn't married when they met). Even if he felt like it was a mistake later, he hasn't done anything to rectify his situation. He may in fact feel completely connected to this woman but it means nothing but feels and probably won't ever be more than coulda woulda shoulda.


lol@gobb above. Just read the comments for short version.



@sultry, sounds like a story from Jane Austen's true love story. it was super sad.

or from the pages of real life story of Ian Fleming too.



i mean what are his future plans? a man without a plan is a scary one.

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He is just a man with a reason not to follow his dream. He will grow up and realize what’s what. Scorpio men do what they want and IF he will decide he wants out of this marriage - he will but apparently he isn’t there yet. Will he ever be? God knows.

Moving away and out with same brains and having ALL these media possibilities won’t help. For now on - there is no solution except new man!!!!!
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I was aware that a month before we met he got engaged.

Few months forward, we sleep together. We fall in love. We sleep together again. And that goes on for about a year... until he decides and he decided to stay with his fiancée.


no one should have sympathy for you, wtf

y'alls fire moons wreaking havoc, smh
I... I agree 😂


i am mildly annoyed you think this is funny. you participated in a really shitty situation & now you are expecting us to give you advice on how to win the situation?

aries placements, my goddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddd


Only mildly? I have to restrain myself from being savage.

I don't feel sorry for her at all!!!

Karma is a BITCH!

Smdfh!
Sorry for you having friends with Karmas who are...well...bitches! I’ve never met one. THANKS GOD!
You've never met one? Easy...look in the mirror!
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My mirror doesn’t show anything but myself. Does yours show Karma?
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I was aware that a month before we met he got engaged.

Few months forward, we sleep together. We fall in love. We sleep together again. And that goes on for about a year... until he decides and he decided to stay with his fiancée.


no one should have sympathy for you, wtf

y'alls fire moons wreaking havoc, smh
I... I agree 😂


i am mildly annoyed you think this is funny. you participated in a really shitty situation & now you are expecting us to give you advice on how to win the situation?

aries placements, my goddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddd


Only mildly? I have to restrain myself from being savage.

I don't feel sorry for her at all!!!

Karma is a BITCH!

Smdfh!
Sorry for you having friends with Karmas who are...well...bitches! I’ve never met one. THANKS GOD!
You've never met one? Easy...look in the mirror!
My mirror doesn’t show anything but myself. Does yours show Karma?
YES. Mine shows decent karma.
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You’ve must got your form Karmazon.
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He likes you, but he is married.

Sounds like he shouldn't have gotten married. He does not sound committed to his wife.
Meh, if he liked her enough, he wouldn't have moved forward with the wedding (he wasn't married when they met). Even if he felt like it was a mistake later, he hasn't done anything to rectify his situation. He may in fact feel completely connected to this woman but it means nothing but feels and probably won't ever be more than coulda woulda shoulda.


lol@gobb above. Just read the comments for short version.



@sultry, sounds like a story from Jane Austen's true love story. it was super sad.

or from the pages of real life story of Ian Fleming too.



i mean what are his future plans? a man without a plan is a scary one.


He is just a man with a reason not to follow his dream. He will grow up and realize what’s what. Scorpio men do what they want and IF he will decide he wants out of this marriage - he will but apparently he isn’t there yet. Will he ever be? God knows.

Moving away and out with same brains and having ALL these media possibilities won’t help. For now on - there is no solution except new man!!!!!

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If only you would follow your own advice.
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I was aware that a month before we met he got engaged.

Few months forward, we sleep together. We fall in love. We sleep together again. And that goes on for about a year... until he decides and he decided to stay with his fiancée.


no one should have sympathy for you, wtf

y'alls fire moons wreaking havoc, smh
I... I agree 😂


i am mildly annoyed you think this is funny. you participated in a really shitty situation & now you are expecting us to give you advice on how to win the situation?

aries placements, my goddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddd


Only mildly? I have to restrain myself from being savage.

I don't feel sorry for her at all!!!

Karma is a BITCH!

Smdfh!
Sorry for you having friends with Karmas who are...well...bitches! I’ve never met one. THANKS GOD!
You've never met one? Easy...look in the mirror!
My mirror doesn’t show anything but myself. Does yours show Karma?
YES. Mine shows decent karma.
You’ve must got your form Karmazon.
It's built/attracted and reflected when looking in the mirror: )

But imagine if you could just buy it right?

I can almost see all these deplorable, fantasy-chasings cheaters and home wreckers (par example) running, tripling and stumbling over their feet to purchase it.
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And you apparently happy virgin! Good luck with that! How many cats do you have? What Karma said? Up to 40? Lol
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I was aware that a month before we met he got engaged.

Few months forward, we sleep together. We fall in love. We sleep together again. And that goes on for about a year... until he decides and he decided to stay with his fiancée.


no one should have sympathy for you, wtf

y'alls fire moons wreaking havoc, smh
I... I agree 😂


i am mildly annoyed you think this is funny. you participated in a really shitty situation & now you are expecting us to give you advice on how to win the situation?

aries placements, my goddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddd


Only mildly? I have to restrain myself from being savage.

I don't feel sorry for her at all!!!

Karma is a BITCH!

Smdfh!
Sorry for you having friends with Karmas who are...well...bitches! I’ve never met one. THANKS GOD!
You've never met one? Easy...look in the mirror!
My mirror doesn’t show anything but myself. Does yours show Karma?
YES. Mine shows decent karma.
You’ve must got your form Karmazon.
It's built/attracted and reflected when looking in the mirror: )

But imagine if you could just buy it right?

I can almost see all these deplorable, fantasy-chasings cheaters and home wreckers (par example) running, tripling and stumbling over their feet to purchase it.
And you apparently happy virgin! Good luck with that! How many cats do you have? What Karma said? Up to 40? Lol
Happy? Yes! Cats? No! Karma brought me a good decent man and yes he is single!
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And you are so happy that you WASTE your time here why? Because he isn’t anywhere near you?
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I was aware that a month before we met he got engaged.

Few months forward, we sleep together. We fall in love. We sleep together again. And that goes on for about a year... until he decides and he decided to stay with his fiancée.


no one should have sympathy for you, wtf

y'alls fire moons wreaking havoc, smh
I... I agree 😂


i am mildly annoyed you think this is funny. you participated in a really shitty situation & now you are expecting us to give you advice on how to win the situation?

aries placements, my goddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddd


Only mildly? I have to restrain myself from being savage.

I don't feel sorry for her at all!!!

Karma is a BITCH!

Smdfh!
Sorry for you having friends with Karmas who are...well...bitches! I’ve never met one. THANKS GOD!
You've never met one? Easy...look in the mirror!
My mirror doesn’t show anything but myself. Does yours show Karma?
YES. Mine shows decent karma.
You’ve must got your form Karmazon.
It's built/attracted and reflected when looking in the mirror: )

But imagine if you could just buy it right?

I can almost see all these deplorable, fantasy-chasings cheaters and home wreckers (par example) running, tripling and stumbling over their feet to purchase it.
And you apparently happy virgin! Good luck with that! How many cats do you have? What Karma said? Up to 40? Lol
Happy? Yes! Cats? No! Karma brought me a good decent man and yes he is single!
And you are so happy that you WASTE your time here why? Because he isn’t anywhere near you?


You're a Gemini and suppose to be intelligent. Don't ask me stupid questions for the sake of asking. Don't waste my time.

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...like if you MUST answer my posts?

You could just IGNORE but for some reason you can’t...I know I have this affect on people but...just try and DO NOT RESPOND!

Hard huh? Moron...
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I was aware that a month before we met he got engaged.

Few months forward, we sleep together. We fall in love. We sleep together again. And that goes on for about a year... until he decides and he decided to stay with his fiancée.


no one should have sympathy for you, wtf

y'alls fire moons wreaking havoc, smh
I... I agree 😂


i am mildly annoyed you think this is funny. you participated in a really shitty situation & now you are expecting us to give you advice on how to win the situation?

aries placements, my goddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddd


Only mildly? I have to restrain myself from being savage.

I don't feel sorry for her at all!!!

Karma is a BITCH!

Smdfh!
Sorry for you having friends with Karmas who are...well...bitches! I’ve never met one. THANKS GOD!
You've never met one? Easy...look in the mirror!
My mirror doesn’t show anything but myself. Does yours show Karma?
YES. Mine shows decent karma.
You’ve must got your form Karmazon.
It's built/attracted and reflected when looking in the mirror: )

But imagine if you could just buy it right?

I can almost see all these deplorable, fantasy-chasings cheaters and home wreckers (par example) running, tripling and stumbling over their feet to purchase it.
And you apparently happy virgin! Good luck with that! How many cats do you have? What Karma said? Up to 40? Lol
Happy? Yes! Cats? No! Karma brought me a good decent man and yes he is single!
And you are so happy that you WASTE your time here why? Because he isn’t anywhere near you?


You're a Gemini and suppose to be intelligent. Don't ask me stupid questions for the sake of asking. Don't waste my time.



...like if you MUST answer my posts?

You could just IGNORE but for some reason you can’t...I know I have this affect on people but...just try and DO NOT RESPOND!

Hard huh? Moron...


Like i said...you are supposed to be intelligent...you keep disappointing.

I respond because i keep hoping that maybe once you can respond like a mature woman ...?

If you cant..then i guess i have to ignore you indeed. Peace out!



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...and you keep responding like if your life depends on it! What ya fk is wrong with you? Smoke some joint, drink or get laid...

Oh! Not the options? Lol
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Why are you trying to be some dumb trifling hoe?

Libra women, head up asses on a permanent basis, living in lala land. Grow up.
well excuse the fuck out of me for falling in love with a wrong person when I was 19 you little bitch
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The only little bitch here is you. You're fucked in the head if you think you have any excuse to fuck around with a taken man. What the hell is wrong with you? Do you need medication? Because it sounds like you do. Only psychotic assholes think they're justified for doing something so wrong.

You knew he was taken yet you continued to pursue it because you're a self absorbed sack of shit. That's all there is to it. Gtfo and stop wasting our time with your silly bitch logic.
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Why are you trying to be some dumb trifling hoe?

Libra women, head up asses on a permanent basis, living in lala land. Grow up.
well excuse the fuck out of me for falling in love with a wrong person when I was 19 you little bitch
The only little bitch here is you. You're fucked in the head if you think you have any excuse to fuck around with a taken man. What the hell is wrong with you? Do you need medication? Because it sounds like you do. Only psychotic assholes think they're justified for doing something so wrong.

You knew he was taken yet you continued to pursue it because you're a self absorbed sack of shit. That's all there is to it. Gtfo and stop wasting our time with your silly bitch logic.
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Other people are not my responsibility though? Stop being a whiny bitch. Welcome to the real life.
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Married men rarely leave their wives....most of them don't have the courage and will use every excuse under the sun, even money....

More fool the woman who gets involved with another woman's man

Slippery slope
only wealthy men who are under ALL control can leave.

they have no need for women. they can get plenty.

the ones who have no control over seeing their children, and think they're gonna lose money are afraid. lol



that's why smart men need to be IN control of all assets. and kick the woman out who they hate.

why make the woman suffer if they despise her. i hate those type of men who keep women around while fucking other wo(man) cause they can't leave the wife due to fear of losing their wealth.



edit -- haha men/women whatever.
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I most likely is keeping you on a leash i am a sagg moon and i used to do that when younger giving hope to guys a sagg moon is an open book so no secrets at all what he tells you he may tell someone else too just to make it sound more convincing.He will do anything to make you believe what you want to believe so their's no way out. We love for people to fall for us hard and deep we love people to chase us and the other way around we like to chase just for the thrill and adventure even because of indecisiveness but will never leave our partner simply because we know things are temporarily.

Unless things are too much we will run away from the situation but as i said temporarily because a Scorpio combined with sagg moon can be very contradicting Scorpio feels alot is revengeful is a fixed sign where as Sagittarius is a mutable sign will forgive and forget in an instant often can't make up his/her mind so he most likely has to learn to control his impulses it's for sure a passionate combo but dangerous.

His Scorpio sun says i want one partner for life his sagg moon shakes things up and tells him but i want freedom too i want adventure. In the end it will hurt you both. it will hurt him because he will probably realize you were a mistake and it was maybe fun but that was all don't believe promises.

I've seen my Pisces friend caught in a web of lies for 8 years believing he would divorce with his wife and they would be together she is still waiting for him.

Also you are just convenience i don't wanna hate on you but i will tell you this he will not respect you if ever it were to come out he will destroy you is will wife will always be his number one.

And yes he's and asshole for cheating but some men never learn they always need more of what they have until they get caught and lose everything they will realize.

Just keep in mind if he cheats with you he will probably cheat on you too so don't break a sweat

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Hey there, I'm Jelle.

Here's what you need to keep in mind regarding DXP. This place is majorily frequented by sexless spinsters who have no and can't get no man/woman, so they absorb themselves into whatever situation they can find to fill their pathetic, empty lives. They like to attack people involved with infidelity because that's all they can do.

Because the fact is they WISH they had someone to mess around with. Those who can, do. Those who can't, preach. When you strip away all the tinsel it's really all about the hormones, isn't it? That basic human itch that always needs scratching. Unfortunately too many people here haven't scratched it in a bloody long time, and when that happens you get dumb thirsty bitches like Rockyroad up there who rage 24/7 at everyone and everything because they got nothing better to do. What they should really do is get down on their knees and suck your toes as a way of saying THANK YOU SO SO SO SO SO MUCH for giving them something to fixate on.

They're everywhere. Easiest thing you can do is laugh at them and ignore because they feed off the attention you give them. Some particularly tragic ones also have the tendency to become fixated on your boyfriend lol. That's when true hilarity ensues.
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Hey there, I'm Jelle.

Here's what you need to keep in mind regarding DXP. This place is majorily frequented by sexless spinsters who have no and can't get no man/woman, so they absorb themselves into whatever situation they can find to fill their pathetic, empty lives. They like to attack people involved with infidelity because that's all they can do.

Because the fact is they WISH they had someone to mess around with. Those who can, do. Those who can't, preach. When you strip away all the tinsel it's really all about the hormones, isn't it? That basic human itch that always needs scratching. Unfortunately too many people here haven't scratched it in a bloody long time, and when that happens you get dumb thirsty bitches like Rockyroad up there who rage 24/7 at everyone and everything because they got nothing better to do. What they should really do is get down on their knees and suck your toes as a way of saying THANK YOU SO SO SO SO SO MUCH for giving them something to fixate on.

They're everywhere. Easiest thing you can do is laugh at them and ignore because they feed off the attention you give them. Some particularly tragic ones also have the tendency to become fixated on your boyfriend lol. That's when true hilarity ensues.
Hi! Wow, thank you for the support!

Ive only discovered this website yesterday so I truly had no idea how viscous and judgemental some people could be on here.. It's crazy! Seems like they truly don't understand the complexity of life and relationships.

Again, thank you for commenting!
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I read most of the post. So you were fuccing him before he got married and then it was just emotional cheating after, right? Him telling you sweet stuff but not making any moves?

He's married now and made his choice, if he was really as unhappy as he says he is, then he would leave. He's not chained to her.

Fact is, he doesn't want to leave and enjoys seeing that you love him. Maybe he doesn't get that type of attention from his wife, she could be a bitch that fuccs him really good and has his balls in her purse and then you come around with all your sweetness and emotions and he has the best of both worlds lol

Cut his ass off. I bet he's gonna take the promotion too. He's worked in this field, is newly married, and you think he's not gonna move ahead?? Really—?

Stop wastinging your time with him please. He made his choice and it wasn't and still isn't you.
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I read most of the post. So you were fuccing him before he got married and then it was just emotional cheating after, right? Him telling you sweet stuff but not making any moves?

He's married now and made his choice, if he was really as unhappy as he says he is, then he would leave. He's not chained to her.

Fact is, he doesn't want to leave and enjoys seeing that you love him. Maybe he doesn't get that type of attention from his wife, she could be a bitch that fuccs him really good and has his balls in her purse and then you come around with all your sweetness and emotions and he has the best of both worlds lol

Cut his ass off. I bet he's gonna take the promotion too. He's worked in this field, is newly married, and you think he's not gonna move ahead?? Really—?

Stop wastinging your time with him please. He made his choice and it wasn't and still isn't you.
Makes sense. Thanks for reading

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Hey there, I'm Jelle.

Here's what you need to keep in mind regarding DXP. This place is majorily frequented by sexless spinsters who have no and can't get no man/woman, so they absorb themselves into whatever situation they can find to fill their pathetic, empty lives. They like to attack people involved with infidelity because that's all they can do.

Because the fact is they WISH they had someone to mess around with. Those who can, do. Those who can't, preach. When you strip away all the tinsel it's really all about the hormones, isn't it? That basic human itch that always needs scratching. Unfortunately too many people here haven't scratched it in a bloody long time, and when that happens you get dumb thirsty bitches like Rockyroad up there who rage 24/7 at everyone and everything because they got nothing better to do. What they should really do is get down on their knees and suck your toes as a way of saying THANK YOU SO SO SO SO SO MUCH for giving them something to fixate on.

They're everywhere. Easiest thing you can do is laugh at them and ignore because they feed off the attention you give them. Some particularly tragic ones also have the tendency to become fixated on your boyfriend lol. That's when true hilarity ensues.
Hi! Wow, thank you for the support!

Ive only discovered this website yesterday so I truly had no idea how viscous and judgemental some people could be on here.. It's crazy! Seems like they truly don't understand the complexity of life and relationships.

Again, thank you for commenting!

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You should've been here a couple months ago when 1 longtime member was accused of cheating on her man with another longtime member. It was a riot, and those can last well over 2 days. First thread gets way out of hand and is deleted by mods, another one is made within an hour.

There's two main types of thirsty spinsters on DXP:

1) those who have been dumped/cheated on and they choose to instead harbor endless bitterness at life.

2) those who can't get any to begin with and resent those who have an eventful personal life.

They are usually between the ages of 30-60. Both types react to DXP situations in pretty much the same way. God forbid if you come in and say you're making a solid effort on being as happy as you can with your current man/woman. Happiness is kryptonite to them, and they will riot. They hate content/happy people with a passion because it reminds them what is lacking in their own lives.
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Hey there, I'm Jelle.

Here's what you need to keep in mind regarding DXP. This place is majorily frequented by sexless spinsters who have no and can't get no man/woman, so they absorb themselves into whatever situation they can find to fill their pathetic, empty lives. They like to attack people involved with infidelity because that's all they can do.

Because the fact is they WISH they had someone to mess around with. Those who can, do. Those who can't, preach. When you strip away all the tinsel it's really all about the hormones, isn't it? That basic human itch that always needs scratching. Unfortunately too many people here haven't scratched it in a bloody long time, and when that happens you get dumb thirsty bitches like Rockyroad up there who rage 24/7 at everyone and everything because they got nothing better to do. What they should really do is get down on their knees and suck your toes as a way of saying THANK YOU SO SO SO SO SO MUCH for giving them something to fixate on.

They're everywhere. Easiest thing you can do is laugh at them and ignore because they feed off the attention you give them. Some particularly tragic ones also have the tendency to become fixated on your boyfriend lol. That's when true hilarity ensues.
Hi! Wow, thank you for the support!

Ive only discovered this website yesterday so I truly had no idea how viscous and judgemental some people could be on here.. It's crazy! Seems like they truly don't understand the complexity of life and relationships.

Again, thank you for commenting!


You should've been here a couple months ago when 1 longtime member was accused of cheating on her man with another longtime member. It was a riot, and those can last well over 2 days. First thread gets way out of hand and is deleted by mods, another one is made within an hour.

There's two main types of thirsty spinsters on DXP:

1) those who have been dumped/cheated on and they choose to instead harbor endless bitterness at life.

2) those who can't get any to begin with and resent those who have an eventful personal life.

They are usually between the ages of 30-60. Both types react to DXP situations in pretty much the same way. God forbid if you come in and say you're making a solid effort on being as happy as you can with your current man/woman. Happiness is kryptonite to them, and they will riot. They hate content/happy people with a passion because it reminds them what is lacking in their own lives.
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Yeah I mean, a couple of pages back in my thread there was two members arguing and insulting each other very personally? It's a fucking shit show 😂
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So he ran now regrets in and tries to rebound at work in front of you. Maddly in love with each other. This is beyond fitst level placements. After this long and going this deep you should look at other placements. I would love to see were the intensity comes from.

What you are really asking is should you stop pretending to be just friends and confess. Like he is trying to ask you to. If you want him to take action and break up with his wife then do it. He should anyway. The longer this goes on the more pain that this will cause.

If you are serious about this then you need to tell him what you truely want like he is asking. Since he as told you. Then you need to tell him to show you by making room for you. End the marriage before a child comes or things will get much harder.

“If you make a mistake and do not correct it, this is called a mistake.” -Confucius

You two need to stop dancing. He has been pretty open with his heart but has not backed it up with action. You niether. If you want him then speak up or move on. Have you had a rebound relationship after him twice now to get over this or are you trying to hold out?

Sag moon. Craves excitement. People who are emotional unhappy will act out their moons to fullfill this. Being a attractive, immature, and well off Sag moon male. His actions are no suprise. Sag females do the same. Nothing is more exciting the the start of a fling or cloud9 phase.

Because of this I want to see the rest of your charts. Going to need supporting aspects or he will continue this behavior if the passion and energy dies in the relationship with you long term. The physical passion, I expect to see venus aspects but I am more interested in lilth pluto and saturn. Date and locations please?

Can you tell me about thier relationship?

How long they were together. How long they moved in with each other?



To the rest of you that posted here. You should be ashamed of yourself. You were young once and didn't know better. Made mistakes you wish you could take back. But had some stupid imature fear and ego issues that held you back. Stop jugdeing and start actually listening and understanding. For fucks sakes stop hating.
Thank you for your comment, it's actually extremely helpful to understand my situation better. Thank you for being somewhat respectful.

I have no hate in my heart. I'm not a hateful person, but when people who don't know me go as far as to swear at me I let myself go. I would not insult a person for disagreeing with my actions. I understand why what I did wasn't right and I would not get involved with another man who was taken.. this just got too far and too deep to abandon it.

They've been in a relationship for about 8 years I believe, since they were in their teens. From what I've seen and heard, their relationship is very cold. He was honest with her about what happened between us, and she slept with other men as revenge. Id say they are as good as each other. I think they are very attached to each other but there seems to be no passion or real love. Seeing them together you could believe they were strangers.



Dates and placements:

Me: 09/10/1995 (Poland)

Him: 29/10/1992 (Portugal)


Is his wife another water sign

Sleeping with others for revenge seems very Pisces

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You guessed it!
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Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Hey there, I'm Jelle.

Here's what you need to keep in mind regarding DXP. This place is majorily frequented by sexless spinsters who have no and can't get no man/woman, so they absorb themselves into whatever situation they can find to fill their pathetic, empty lives. They like to attack people involved with infidelity because that's all they can do.

Because the fact is they WISH they had someone to mess around with. Those who can, do. Those who can't, preach. When you strip away all the tinsel it's really all about the hormones, isn't it? That basic human itch that always needs scratching. Unfortunately too many people here haven't scratched it in a bloody long time, and when that happens you get dumb thirsty bitches like Rockyroad up there who rage 24/7 at everyone and everything because they got nothing better to do. What they should really do is get down on their knees and suck your toes as a way of saying THANK YOU SO SO SO SO SO MUCH for giving them something to fixate on.

They're everywhere. Easiest thing you can do is laugh at them and ignore because they feed off the attention you give them. Some particularly tragic ones also have the tendency to become fixated on your boyfriend lol. That's when true hilarity ensues.
Hi! Wow, thank you for the support!

Ive only discovered this website yesterday so I truly had no idea how viscous and judgemental some people could be on here.. It's crazy! Seems like they truly don't understand the complexity of life and relationships.

Again, thank you for commenting!

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Yes life is complex and all we go through

But to be fair, do you expect people to cheer you on when you knowingly get involved with a man that is engaged and married to another ?

I have had chances to be with very attractive men but they were married, so I walked away

Do unto others as you would have done to yourself





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Posted by libraconfusedaf
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by libraconfusedaf
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Hey there, I'm Jelle.

Here's what you need to keep in mind regarding DXP. This place is majorily frequented by sexless spinsters who have no and can't get no man/woman, so they absorb themselves into whatever situation they can find to fill their pathetic, empty lives. They like to attack people involved with infidelity because that's all they can do.

Because the fact is they WISH they had someone to mess around with. Those who can, do. Those who can't, preach. When you strip away all the tinsel it's really all about the hormones, isn't it? That basic human itch that always needs scratching. Unfortunately too many people here haven't scratched it in a bloody long time, and when that happens you get dumb thirsty bitches like Rockyroad up there who rage 24/7 at everyone and everything because they got nothing better to do. What they should really do is get down on their knees and suck your toes as a way of saying THANK YOU SO SO SO SO SO MUCH for giving them something to fixate on.

They're everywhere. Easiest thing you can do is laugh at them and ignore because they feed off the attention you give them. Some particularly tragic ones also have the tendency to become fixated on your boyfriend lol. That's when true hilarity ensues.
Hi! Wow, thank you for the support!

Ive only discovered this website yesterday so I truly had no idea how viscous and judgemental some people could be on here.. It's crazy! Seems like they truly don't understand the complexity of life and relationships.

Again, thank you for commenting!


You should've been here a couple months ago when 1 longtime member was accused of cheating on her man with another longtime member. It was a riot, and those can last well over 2 days. First thread gets way out of hand and is deleted by mods, another one is made within an hour.

There's two main types of thirsty spinsters on DXP:

1) those who have been dumped/cheated on and they choose to instead harbor endless bitterness at life.

2) those who can't get any to begin with and resent those who have an eventful personal life.

They are usually between the ages of 30-60. Both types react to DXP situations in pretty much the same way. God forbid if you come in and say you're making a solid effort on being as happy as you can with your current man/woman. Happiness is kryptonite to them, and they will riot. They hate content/happy people with a passion because it reminds them what is lacking in their own lives.
Yeah I mean, a couple of pages back in my thread there was two members arguing and insulting each other very personally? It's a fucking shit show 😂

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I got an idea. Share some kinky stories between you and the Stinger. The more descriptive, the better. Don't hesitate to use diagrams or pics of the kamasutra to make a point.

I'll get the ball rolling. Here I am polishing off some documents for homework and preparing to rip some blurays for my boyfriend's sister, when he walks upto me after a brief late-nite workout, stands right next to my head and starts playing with his nipples over his sweaty shirt lol. Then he pretends to be trying to take the shirt off but he leaves it pulled up to his neck and carries on with his nipply charade. He used to do something similar when we were just friends a few years back for the sole purpose of tormenting me. Only back then he didn't brush his semi-hard penis against my arm lol. In those days he was allegedly straight. Now not so much.

PS: I have a penis too.

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Posted by libraconfusedaf
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by libraconfusedaf
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Hey there, I'm Jelle.

Here's what you need to keep in mind regarding DXP. This place is majorily frequented by sexless spinsters who have no and can't get no man/woman, so they absorb themselves into whatever situation they can find to fill their pathetic, empty lives. They like to attack people involved with infidelity because that's all they can do.

Because the fact is they WISH they had someone to mess around with. Those who can, do. Those who can't, preach. When you strip away all the tinsel it's really all about the hormones, isn't it? That basic human itch that always needs scratching. Unfortunately too many people here haven't scratched it in a bloody long time, and when that happens you get dumb thirsty bitches like Rockyroad up there who rage 24/7 at everyone and everything because they got nothing better to do. What they should really do is get down on their knees and suck your toes as a way of saying THANK YOU SO SO SO SO SO MUCH for giving them something to fixate on.

They're everywhere. Easiest thing you can do is laugh at them and ignore because they feed off the attention you give them. Some particularly tragic ones also have the tendency to become fixated on your boyfriend lol. That's when true hilarity ensues.
Hi! Wow, thank you for the support!

Ive only discovered this website yesterday so I truly had no idea how viscous and judgemental some people could be on here.. It's crazy! Seems like they truly don't understand the complexity of life and relationships.

Again, thank you for commenting!


You should've been here a couple months ago when 1 longtime member was accused of cheating on her man with another longtime member. It was a riot, and those can last well over 2 days. First thread gets way out of hand and is deleted by mods, another one is made within an hour.

There's two main types of thirsty spinsters on DXP:

1) those who have been dumped/cheated on and they choose to instead harbor endless bitterness at life.

2) those who can't get any to begin with and resent those who have an eventful personal life.

They are usually between the ages of 30-60. Both types react to DXP situations in pretty much the same way. God forbid if you come in and say you're making a solid effort on being as happy as you can with your current man/woman. Happiness is kryptonite to them, and they will riot. They hate content/happy people with a passion because it reminds them what is lacking in their own lives.
Yeah I mean, a couple of pages back in my thread there was two members arguing and insulting each other very personally? It's a fucking shit show 😂


I got an idea. Share some kinky stories between you and the Stinger. The more descriptive, the better. Don't hesitate to use diagrams or pics of the kamasutra to make a point.

I'll get the ball rolling. Here I am polishing off some documents for homework and preparing to rip some blurays for my boyfriend's sister, when he walks upto me after a brief late-nite workout, stands right next to my head and starts playing with his nipples over his sweaty shirt lol. Then he pretends to be trying to take the shirt off but he leaves it pulled up to his neck and carries on with his nipply charade. He used to do something similar when we were just friends a few years back for the sole purpose of tormenting me. Only back then he didn't brush his semi-hard penis against my arm lol. In those days he was allegedly straight. Now not so much.

PS: I have a penis too.

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what the fuck is up with this forum 😂😂
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pre new year's trolls lol

so sorry for your pain but you need to take care of yourself and find someone else and can you move jobs to get away from him - that would help

he's not going to divorce his wife and you two are not going to live happily ever after

he's just going to continue to put you in the seat next to him on his roller-coaster forever if you don't break the cycle
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Posted by libraconfusedaf
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by libraconfusedaf
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by libraconfusedaf
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Hey there, I'm Jelle.

Here's what you need to keep in mind regarding DXP. This place is majorily frequented by sexless spinsters who have no and can't get no man/woman, so they absorb themselves into whatever situation they can find to fill their pathetic, empty lives. They like to attack people involved with infidelity because that's all they can do.

Because the fact is they WISH they had someone to mess around with. Those who can, do. Those who can't, preach. When you strip away all the tinsel it's really all about the hormones, isn't it? That basic human itch that always needs scratching. Unfortunately too many people here haven't scratched it in a bloody long time, and when that happens you get dumb thirsty bitches like Rockyroad up there who rage 24/7 at everyone and everything because they got nothing better to do. What they should really do is get down on their knees and suck your toes as a way of saying THANK YOU SO SO SO SO SO MUCH for giving them something to fixate on.

They're everywhere. Easiest thing you can do is laugh at them and ignore because they feed off the attention you give them. Some particularly tragic ones also have the tendency to become fixated on your boyfriend lol. That's when true hilarity ensues.
Hi! Wow, thank you for the support!

Ive only discovered this website yesterday so I truly had no idea how viscous and judgemental some people could be on here.. It's crazy! Seems like they truly don't understand the complexity of life and relationships.

Again, thank you for commenting!


You should've been here a couple months ago when 1 longtime member was accused of cheating on her man with another longtime member. It was a riot, and those can last well over 2 days. First thread gets way out of hand and is deleted by mods, another one is made within an hour.

There's two main types of thirsty spinsters on DXP:

1) those who have been dumped/cheated on and they choose to instead harbor endless bitterness at life.

2) those who can't get any to begin with and resent those who have an eventful personal life.

They are usually between the ages of 30-60. Both types react to DXP situations in pretty much the same way. God forbid if you come in and say you're making a solid effort on being as happy as you can with your current man/woman. Happiness is kryptonite to them, and they will riot. They hate content/happy people with a passion because it reminds them what is lacking in their own lives.
Yeah I mean, a couple of pages back in my thread there was two members arguing and insulting each other very personally? It's a fucking shit show 😂


I got an idea. Share some kinky stories between you and the Stinger. The more descriptive, the better. Don't hesitate to use diagrams or pics of the kamasutra to make a point.

I'll get the ball rolling. Here I am polishing off some documents for homework and preparing to rip some blurays for my boyfriend's sister, when he walks upto me after a brief late-nite workout, stands right next to my head and starts playing with his nipples over his sweaty shirt lol. Then he pretends to be trying to take the shirt off but he leaves it pulled up to his neck and carries on with his nipply charade. He used to do something similar when we were just friends a few years back for the sole purpose of tormenting me. Only back then he didn't brush his semi-hard penis against my arm lol. In those days he was allegedly straight. Now not so much.

PS: I have a penis too.

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what the fuck is up with this forum 😂😂

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I'm the comic relief, guaranteeing to put a smile on your face or make you snort spaghetti out of your nostrils with laughter when you need it most. It's how I got my man in the first place.

That'll be $ 12.50. I only accept straight cash. No money order, Western Union or check, I ain't no bodega.

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pre new year's trolls lol

so sorry for your pain but you need to take care of yourself and find someone else and can you move jobs to get away from him - that would help

he's not going to divorce his wife and you two are not going to live happily ever after

he's just going to continue to put you in the seat next to him on his roller-coaster forever if you don't break the cycle
Real shit right there
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Posted by tctao
pre new year's trolls lol

so sorry for your pain but you need to take care of yourself and find someone else and can you move jobs to get away from him - that would help

he's not going to divorce his wife and you two are not going to live happily ever after

he's just going to continue to put you in the seat next to him on his roller-coaster forever if you don't break the cycle
Real shit right there

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well it is but your heart is confused, not your mind - so you need to help your heart by turning that love back into yourself and do the right thing for you to be able to move forward and continue a good life

he very well may do this very same thing with another in the future - we don't know, nor should we care

it is what it is

so sorry though - it is tough

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Why are you trying to be some dumb trifling hoe?

Libra women, head up asses on a permanent basis, living in lala land. Grow up.
well excuse the fuck out of me for falling in love with a wrong person when I was 19 you little bitch
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Falling in love isn’t good enough of an excuse.

1. You knew he was engaged

2. You had a boyfriend

3. You slept with this dude anyways.

4. He still gets married and you stick with him.

You choose to fall in love when you choose to let the person have your time and space in your head.

Yeah Rocky’s delivery is always a bit harsh. But where is the lie?

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Why are you trying to be some dumb trifling hoe?

Libra women, head up asses on a permanent basis, living in lala land. Grow up.
well excuse the fuck out of me for falling in love with a wrong person when I was 19 you little bitch
Falling in love isn’t good enough of an excuse.

1. You knew he was engaged

2. You had a boyfriend

3. You slept with this dude anyways.

4. He still gets married and you stick with him.

You choose to fall in love when you choose to let the person have your time and space in your head.

Yeah Rocky’s delivery is always a bit harsh. But where is the lie?

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I didn't have a boyfriend and other peoples relationships are not my responsibility. With some life experience you'd understand x

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Posted by libraconfusedaf
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Why are you trying to be some dumb trifling hoe?

Libra women, head up asses on a permanent basis, living in lala land. Grow up.
well excuse the fuck out of me for falling in love with a wrong person when I was 19 you little bitch
Falling in love isn’t good enough of an excuse.

1. You knew he was engaged

2. You had a boyfriend

3. You slept with this dude anyways.

4. He still gets married and you stick with him.

You choose to fall in love when you choose to let the person have your time and space in your head.

Yeah Rocky’s delivery is always a bit harsh. But where is the lie?


I didn't have a boyfriend and other peoples relationships are not my responsibility. With some life experience you'd understand x

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