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Posted by Ess
Hi all,
I really need some honest advice on what to do on the below please.
I have known a Scorpio for about 6 years now.
We have always been in touch and text now and then. Throughout our friendship, I always reassured him that I will always be there for him. He had feelings for me but we didn’t go any further.
Anyway, recently he asked me to sign some residential papers for him.
I said I will have to check if I can do this as currently the job I’m in, isn’t permanent. I checked and got back to him saying I can’t do this , my work isn’t permanent. Within less than a minute he BLOCKED me. Bearing in mind, this guy is mature - over 43 years of age. Throughout our friendship, anytime I refused on things, he’s always blocked. Which I have always found so childish, hurtful.
I’m a bit disappointed at myself as im feeling hurt and want him to unblock me.
I have invested so much energy and genuine care for this guy over the years and can’t come to terms why he’s like this and why he did this
I attempted to message him on a different app he uses, and I said life is so short and that I’m sorry I had to say said no. I made it clear that if my job was permanent it would have been different.
I’m still blocked and he’s made it out like he’s not even read my message.
What shall I do guys? You would think out of maturity he would have given me a chance to ask more about the form but within a second he blocked me.
Not sure what to do.
I have lost my peace since he’s done this. I can’t seem to move on from this and enjoy my days.
😢
Cut your losses.
You have outlived your worth to him.
1) "He had feelings for me but we didn’t go any further." - he can't fuck you
2) "Anyway, recently he asked me to sign some residential papers for him.
I said I will have to check if I can do this as currently the job I’m in, isn’t permanent. I checked and got back to him saying I can’t do this , my work isn’t permanent." - you weren't of any use to him
You're done. And you should invite him to go fuck himself. Oh, right - you're blocked.
1) "He had feelings for me but we didn’t go any further." - he can't fuck you
2) "Anyway, recently he asked me to sign some residential papers for him.
I said I will have to check if I can do this as currently the job I’m in, isn’t permanent. I checked and got back to him saying I can’t do this , my work isn’t permanent." - you weren't of any use to him
You're done. And you should invite him to go fuck himself. Oh, right - you're blocked.
Stick to your boundaries.
If you aren't in a position to help a grown man out who is down on his luck- without any guarantees to it being trustworthy and not coming back to bite you in the ass, then cut your losses.
Your friendship and loyalty shouldn't be based on your credit score or financial status. He's not a friend.
If you aren't in a position to help a grown man out who is down on his luck- without any guarantees to it being trustworthy and not coming back to bite you in the ass, then cut your losses.
Your friendship and loyalty shouldn't be based on your credit score or financial status. He's not a friend.
Posted by saggurl88
Stick to your boundaries.
If you aren't in a position to help a grown man out who is down on his luck- without any guarantees to it being trustworthy and not coming back to bite you in the ass, then cut your losses.
Your friendship and loyalty shouldn't be based on your credit score or financial status. He's not a friend.
Exactly my thoughts 💭! I was wondering if he was trying to get her to do something shady. I was a little confused as to what OP is talking about, but felt it sounded sketchy 😬.
This scorp guy that was an acquaintance yrs ago, found out I worked at a bank at the time, and had the nerve to ask me if he could cash fake checks with me 😂. I cut him off immediately! If you let some people, they will put you in all types of crazy predicaments if you’re naive enough to fall for it. 🤦🏽♀️ I actually know a friend of a friend who went to jail for that same reason. Smh
A real friend is not going to block/ get mad at you because you can’t do something for them.
OP, are you a cancer ♋️ ?
I'm trying to figure out for the life of me why you have kept this disrespectful person in your life all of these years? Why did you promise him you would always be there? What do you owe him? My dad is a Scorpio and he told me he hates weak women. I think this guy views you as weak and feels like he can treat you anyway he wants to and you'll come right back for more. Show him he's wrong.
What kind of residential papers? Do you mean he asked you to cosign on a lease when you are temporarily employed and he is unemployed??
Why is blocking a thing? Is it some invisible force field or something?
I got TextNow for numbers and Mail.com for emails.
You ain't going to cut me off that quick.
I got TextNow for numbers and Mail.com for emails.
You ain't going to cut me off that quick.
this is EXACTLY the same problem i have with scorpio guys!
once upon not too long ago, i had this non-thing with a scorpio and i thought he was a chill dude. they'd ask for favors and expect you to be 300% on it. the first favor was over a money transfer that he needed help with and would need some ID from me and just coz i didn't jump on this for less than a minute, he was already getting angry. i just expressed some hesitation but okay whatever so petty damn. the next favor came when i was already with my capricorn ex (crazy, volatile on-off relationship) and he tells me he needs to be at the embassy to fix some stuff (conveniently near me) and wants to be our guest. caused a HUGE fight between me and the capricorn. and the most recent favor was helping him scout for places just so he can live near me coz he wants to be nearby (now i just placed everything on ignore coz i find him stressful and too aggressive) coz back then, i really needed some more semblance of stabilty from him and i never really felt like he could give me that. i've learned not to voice out things anymore coz people are what they are. nobody gonna change for nobody. so now i just ghost people instead of trying to communicate what i want or the change that i want.
they expect you to be ride or die when they've done so little and you don't really know each other too deeply. anger and resentment over favors you don't jump on a heartbeat.
once upon not too long ago, i had this non-thing with a scorpio and i thought he was a chill dude. they'd ask for favors and expect you to be 300% on it. the first favor was over a money transfer that he needed help with and would need some ID from me and just coz i didn't jump on this for less than a minute, he was already getting angry. i just expressed some hesitation but okay whatever so petty damn. the next favor came when i was already with my capricorn ex (crazy, volatile on-off relationship) and he tells me he needs to be at the embassy to fix some stuff (conveniently near me) and wants to be our guest. caused a HUGE fight between me and the capricorn. and the most recent favor was helping him scout for places just so he can live near me coz he wants to be nearby (now i just placed everything on ignore coz i find him stressful and too aggressive) coz back then, i really needed some more semblance of stabilty from him and i never really felt like he could give me that. i've learned not to voice out things anymore coz people are what they are. nobody gonna change for nobody. so now i just ghost people instead of trying to communicate what i want or the change that i want.
they expect you to be ride or die when they've done so little and you don't really know each other too deeply. anger and resentment over favors you don't jump on a heartbeat.
Posted by Weeds
Why is blocking a thing? Is it some invisible force field or something?
I got TextNow for numbers and Mail.com for emails.
You ain't going to cut me off that quick.
Your dedication is sexy!!! 😍
*****BLOCKED****** 😈😝
Posted by ImperfectStormPosted by virgoOPPP
this is EXACTLY the same problem i have with scorpio guys!
once upon not too long ago, i had this non-thing with a scorpio and i thought was a chill dude. they'd ask for favors and expect you to be 300% on it. the first favor was over a money transfer that he needed help with and would need some ID from me and just coz i didn't jump on this for less than a minute and he was already getting angry. i just expressed some hesitation but okay whatever so petty damn. the next favor came when i was already with mh capricorn (crazy, volatile on-off relationship) and he tells me he needs to be at the embassy to fix some stuff (conveniently near me) and wants to be our guest. caused a HUGE fight between me and the capricorn. and the most recent favor was helping him scout for places just so he can live near me coz he wants to be nearby (now i just placed everything on ignore coz i find him stressful and too aggressive) coz back then, i really needed some more semblance of stabilty from him and i never really felt like he could give me that. i've learned not to voice out things anymore coz people are what they are. nobody gonna change for nobody. so now i just ghost people instead of trying to communicate what i want or the change that i want.
they expect you to be ride or die when they've done so little and don't really know each other too deeply. anger and resentmen over favors you don't jump on a heartbeat.
That is crazy!?! You would think as much pride we have you would think Scorpio men would know better than to ask a woman for some money. That is so cringe, I’m embarrassed for them 🥴🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️click to expand
no he wasn't asking me for money, never did but he was asking me for a favor to use my account to be able to move money around. i felt like this was too much for a guy who was someone i felt like i might be wasting my time with, that i haven't made up my mind about yet. the main reason i dropped him completely one day was when he talked about a future where i felt like i could not really see myself. that's when i ghosted him. i was very obssessed with working out at that time and went to a gym that was a walk away from him (that's how we met). most water sign men have traits that i like in men but i've always found him too aggressive and i get this vibe from some scorpio men like they want you to kiss their azz with no good reason. yeah listen, i'm the princess here 👸
k boi bye 👋
i'm only dumb for i lost my wallet fake sadbois but i'm strong against capable dudes with zero sob stories. feels like you don't need me anyway, i can ghost you easy.
i just wanna be single forever.
Posted by ImperfectStormPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by ImperfectStormPosted by virgoOPPP
this is EXACTLY the same problem i have with scorpio guys!
once upon not too long ago, i had this non-thing with a scorpio and i thought was a chill dude. they'd ask for favors and expect you to be 300% on it. the first favor was over a money transfer that he needed help with and would need some ID from me and just coz i didn't jump on this for less than a minute and he was already getting angry. i just expressed some hesitation but okay whatever so petty damn. the next favor came when i was already with mh capricorn (crazy, volatile on-off relationship) and he tells me he needs to be at the embassy to fix some stuff (conveniently near me) and wants to be our guest. caused a HUGE fight between me and the capricorn. and the most recent favor was helping him scout for places just so he can live near me coz he wants to be nearby (now i just placed everything on ignore coz i find him stressful and too aggressive) coz back then, i really needed some more semblance of stabilty from him and i never really felt like he could give me that. i've learned not to voice out things anymore coz people are what they are. nobody gonna change for nobody. so now i just ghost people instead of trying to communicate what i want or the change that i want.
they expect you to be ride or die when they've done so little and don't really know each other too deeply. anger and resentmen over favors you don't jump on a heartbeat.
That is crazy!?! You would think as much pride we have you would think Scorpio men would know better than to ask a woman for some money. That is so cringe, I’m embarrassed for them 🥴🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
no he wasn't asking me for money, never did but he was asking me for a favor to use my account to be able to move money around. i felt like this was too much for a guy who was someone i felt like i might be wasting my time with, that i haven't made up my mind about yet. the main reason i dropped him completely one day was when he talked about a future where i felt like i could not really see myself. that's when i ghosted him. i was very obssessed with working out at that time and went to a gym that was a walk away from him (that's how we met). most water sign men have traits that i like in men but i've always found him too aggressive and i get this vibe from some scorpio men like they want you to kiss their azz with no good reason. yeah listen, i'm the princess here
k boi bye 👋
i'm only dumb for i lost my wallet fake sadbois but i'm strong against capable dudes with zero sob stories. feels like you don't need me anyway, i can ghost you easy.
i just wanna be single forever.
One thing i don’t like about water sign men is the manipulation. And all 3 of the water signs have tried to pull that shit with me and I hate it.. being a Scorpio myself it’s easy to identify when I’m being manipulated and I will shut that shit down immediately. I hate it. If I say I can’t do something for someone, the worst thing they can do is try to make me feel bad about it lol that will just backfire in their face 🤷♀️😂click to expand
i like the dad vibes of scorpio men but only in friendship. don't really trust them and find them easy to anger. this is something i think they share with taurus, very easy to anger when they don't get what they want in a heartbeat. scorpio thinks everything is suspicious. same with scorpio moon 🥸🥸.
pisces i find very honest. in fact, too honest. not very good at lying these people. they straight up will tell you they're engaged or just got dumped by their mistress or wants you to film some kind of sexual video with them or wants you to give them the attention their gf is not giving them. they go around flirting with every pretty girl at work and whichever one claims them is the 14th/15th gf. they'll wear matching denim jackets together and take couple selfies in the elevator. BUT they have a lot of grace when things don't pan out so well. also the best oral and cuddle naps. very attentive unlike what most would say. i always meet the good pisces when i'm heartbroken and the bad one when i want to try again 🤷♀️🤷♀️
cancer is not as blunt as the other two. they have a better feel for the things i refuse to say. they are easier to read yet probably better at keeping secrets and i suspect the most manipulative. well, i'm gonna try to ghost one right now and guess i'll see a conclusion to my thought process 🤔🤔
What kind of residential papers? Wtf that’s huge red flag scam material
No guy should be asking for money access to your bank accounts ect.!
No guy should be asking for money access to your bank accounts ect.!
Posted by ImperfectStormPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by ImperfectStormPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by ImperfectStormPosted by virgoOPPP
this is EXACTLY the same problem i have with scorpio guys!
once upon not too long ago, i had this non-thing with a scorpio and i thought was a chill dude. they'd ask for favors and expect you to be 300% on it. the first favor was over a money transfer that he needed help with and would need some ID from me and just coz i didn't jump on this for less than a minute and he was already getting angry. i just expressed some hesitation but okay whatever so petty damn. the next favor came when i was already with mh capricorn (crazy, volatile on-off relationship) and he tells me he needs to be at the embassy to fix some stuff (conveniently near me) and wants to be our guest. caused a HUGE fight between me and the capricorn. and the most recent favor was helping him scout for places just so he can live near me coz he wants to be nearby (now i just placed everything on ignore coz i find him stressful and too aggressive) coz back then, i really needed some more semblance of stabilty from him and i never really felt like he could give me that. i've learned not to voice out things anymore coz people are what they are. nobody gonna change for nobody. so now i just ghost people instead of trying to communicate what i want or the change that i want.
they expect you to be ride or die when they've done so little and don't really know each other too deeply. anger and resentmen over favors you don't jump on a heartbeat.
That is crazy!?! You would think as much pride we have you would think Scorpio men would know better than to ask a woman for some money. That is so cringe, I’m embarrassed for them 🥴🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
no he wasn't asking me for money, never did but he was asking me for a favor to use my account to be able to move money around. i felt like this was too much for a guy who was someone i felt like i might be wasting my time with, that i haven't made up my mind about yet. the main reason i dropped him completely one day was when he talked about a future where i felt like i could not really see myself. that's when i ghosted him. i was very obssessed with working out at that time and went to a gym that was a walk away from him (that's how we met). most water sign men have traits that i like in men but i've always found him too aggressive and i get this vibe from some scorpio men like they want you to kiss their azz with no good reason. yeah listen, i'm the princess here
k boi bye 👋
i'm only dumb for i lost my wallet fake sadbois but i'm strong against capable dudes with zero sob stories. feels like you don't need me anyway, i can ghost you easy.
i just wanna be single forever.
One thing i don’t like about water sign men is the manipulation. And all 3 of the water signs have tried to pull that shit with me and I hate it.. being a Scorpio myself it’s easy to identify when I’m being manipulated and I will shut that shit down immediately. I hate it. If I say I can’t do something for someone, the worst thing they can do is try to make me feel bad about it lol that will just backfire in their face 🤷♀️😂
i like the dad vibes of scorpio men but only in friendship. don't really trust them and find them easy to anger. this is something i think they share with taurus, very easy to anger when they don't get what they want in a heartbeat. scorpio thinks everything is suspicious. same with scorpio moon 🥸🥸.
pisces i find very honest. in fact, too honest. not very good at lying these people. they straight up will tell you they're engaged or just got dumped by their mistress or wants you to film some kind of sexual video with them or wants you to to give them the attention their gf is not giving them. they go around flirting with every pretty girl at work and whichever one claims them is the 14th/15th gf. they'll wear matching denim jackets together and take couple selfies in the elevator. BUT they have a lot of grace when things don't pan out so well. also the best oral and cuddle naps. very attentive unlike what most would say. i always meet the good pisces when i'm heartbroken and the bad one when i want to try again 🤷♀️🤷♀️
cancer is not as blunt as the other two. they have a better feel for the things i refuse to say. they are easier to read yet probably better at keeping secrets and i suspect the most manipulative. well, i'm gonna try to ghost one right now and guess i'll see a conclusion to my thought process 🤔🤔
It’s honestly so funny to me how different they can be.. the Scorpio men that I’ve met have been super mellow and laid back, not toxic and borderline clingy. Then the Pisces men I’ve met usually have fire and air in their chart so i think I’ve only met one of those sweet, innocent squishy types of Pisces lol otherwise Pisces can be just as bad (if not worse than Scorpios) when it comes to manipulation. Then cancer men have been kinda clingy in my experience, and will pursue you heavily even when you’ve made it clear you’re not interested, then they turn around and make snide remarks to make you feel guilty about rejecting them. Lol again.. more manipulation 😑click to expand
these 3 favors were the only instances i've seen him like that coz he's usually quiet. i don't like frightening men coz i don't wanna get into an abusive relationship. i've been financially abused a handful of times (and not just in romantic relationships). i'm real tired of trying anymore coz i'm too idiotic to be in one anyway. there was someone in uni that i wish i've married. he's an astronomist who'd bring me cheesy sushi and claimed it was love at first sight when we met. first day of that and i was so scared, wouldn't that frighten you? someone who loves you just like that? he was much older than me, really thin but handsome and i just didn't think stuff like that happened in real life. but sometimes i wish i'd gone with him to that carnival the last day of class. then i might be telling the best meet cute story now. whatever he was, i've always felt like he was water energy.
but then again, my first date with the capricorn was super romantic too or maybe cheesy lol. he waited for the ferris wheel to get to the top when he kissed me.
@ImperfectStorm
for pisces idk coz i've always found them cringingly honest or at least the most vocal with their fantasies with me. also prob the most intelligent of all 3 too. one time i was taking a nap on a pisces guy's bed (good friend of mine, nothing sexual). my mind was so hazy from sleepiness. and this was a very lazy afternoon and he just takes off his shirt, grabbed a towel and straight up asked me if i wanna shower with him. straight face, no joke, waited for me to answer and i just shake my head no lol. we cuddle napped but didn't have sex. best sleep i've ever had tbh. most shockingly blunt sign propositioning me for all kinds of things. no lie, one came up to me one time and well let's just say a mistress is involved in the mix and made me really re-think how i must come across to people. i probably look easy to fool damn. but if i ever had anyone look at me with eyes that i don't know what to do with, it's always a pisces.
for pisces idk coz i've always found them cringingly honest or at least the most vocal with their fantasies with me. also prob the most intelligent of all 3 too. one time i was taking a nap on a pisces guy's bed (good friend of mine, nothing sexual). my mind was so hazy from sleepiness. and this was a very lazy afternoon and he just takes off his shirt, grabbed a towel and straight up asked me if i wanna shower with him. straight face, no joke, waited for me to answer and i just shake my head no lol. we cuddle napped but didn't have sex. best sleep i've ever had tbh. most shockingly blunt sign propositioning me for all kinds of things. no lie, one came up to me one time and well let's just say a mistress is involved in the mix and made me really re-think how i must come across to people. i probably look easy to fool damn. but if i ever had anyone look at me with eyes that i don't know what to do with, it's always a pisces.
Posted by ImperfectStormPosted by virgoOPPP
@ImperfectStorm
for pisces idk coz i've always found them cringingly honest or at least the most vocal with their fantasies with me. also prob the most intelligent of all 3 too. one time i was taking a nap on a pisces guy's bed (good friend of mind, nothing sexual). my mind was so hazy from sleepiness. and this was a very lazy afternoon and he just takes off his shirt, grabbed a towel and straight up asked me if i wanna shower with him. straight face, no joke, waited for me to answer and i just shake my head no lol. we cuddle napped but didn't have sex. best sleep i've ever had tbh.
There was a Pisces guy with Aries moon and cap Venus who acted like this.. like you said, perfect gentleman and sweetheart but I didn’t feel the spark with him so we just remained friendsclick to expand
but not too gentlemanly. i've never really found them shy nor quiet nor retreating. they were always blunt, very sexual and probably gave me the boldest propositions i've gotten in my entire 28 years. there are times scorpios can be like this but they have that same capricornish, backward archaic belief system about the roles of men and women. pisces doesn't have that hangup. now if only they can shut up about videos i'd rather not star in then maybe we're cool. what if we get into politics someday? not far from my field of study. they're too much sometimes.
@Hypnotoad - go ahead. Block me frog....er, ah....toad!
Posted by Weeds
Why is blocking a thing? Is it some invisible force field or something?
I got TextNow for numbers and Mail.com for emails.
You ain't going to cut me off that quick.
I don't understand the desire to hang onto someone that treats you like you're disposable.
Posted by ImperfectStorm
One thing i don’t like about water sign men is the manipulation. And all 3 of the water signs have tried to pull that shit with me and I hate it.. being a Scorpio myself it’s easy to identify when I’m being manipulated and I will shut that shit down immediately. I hate it. If I say I can’t do something for someone, the worst thing they can do is try to make me feel bad about it lol that will just backfire in their face 🤷♀️😂
Right? This is why I can't really understand when people write about being manipulated or used and seem confused about how to handle it. Shut. It. Down.
Let the person know right there and then you're not the one to try that with so they either fade to black or act correct. The amount of stress people add to their own lives via toxic people is unbelievable.
A man should only be asking a woman to go on incredible dates.
If he wants money, a place to live, or a ride to the corner store he needs to go ask a man.
If he wants money, a place to live, or a ride to the corner store he needs to go ask a man.
I have no idea. He didn’t even give me a chance to ask. All I know is if my job ain’t permanent I can’t sign anything.
Residential papers could mean anything.
He may move to a different city - so it could be something for that. For renting a different place - I really don’t know. As soon as I said I can’t he blocked and didn’t even give me a chance to ask further questions about it .
Residential papers could mean anything.
He may move to a different city - so it could be something for that. For renting a different place - I really don’t know. As soon as I said I can’t he blocked and didn’t even give me a chance to ask further questions about it .
Posted by DonnaLibra
I'm trying to figure out for the life of me why you have kept this disrespectful person in your life all of these years? Why did you promise him you would always be there? What do you owe him? My dad is a Scorpio and he told me he hates weak women. I think this guy views you as weak and feels like he can treat you anyway he wants to and you'll come right back for more. Show him he's wrong.
This Scorpio really opened up to me - he has been through a lot in his life. You’re right why did I allow this behaviour. Everytime he blocked me I would start questioning myself and blaming myself when really the issue/toxic/ childish behaviour was from his side.
I really cared for him and genuinely have always wanted the best for him.
But everytime I refused on anything - he would always use the block button and only come back (unblock) if I approached him and explained why I said no.
This time he hasn’t unblocked.
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by Ess
Hi all,
I really need some honest advice on what to do on the below please.
I have known a Scorpio for about 6 years now.
We have always been in touch and text now and then. Throughout our friendship, I always reassured him that I will always be there for him. He had feelings for me but we didn’t go any further.
Anyway, recently he asked me to sign some residential papers for him.
I said I will have to check if I can do this as currently the job I’m in, isn’t permanent. I checked and got back to him saying I can’t do this , my work isn’t permanent. Within less than a minute he BLOCKED me. Bearing in mind, this guy is mature - over 43 years of age. Throughout our friendship, anytime I refused on things, he’s always blocked. Which I have always found so childish, hurtful.
I’m a bit disappointed at myself as im feeling hurt and want him to unblock me.
I have invested so much energy and genuine care for this guy over the years and can’t come to terms why he’s like this and why he did this
I attempted to message him on a different app he uses, and I said life is so short and that I’m sorry I had to say said no. I made it clear that if my job was permanent it would have been different.
I’m still blocked and he’s made it out like he’s not even read my message.
What shall I do guys? You would think out of maturity he would have given me a chance to ask more about the form but within a second he blocked me.
Not sure what to do.
I have lost my peace since he’s done this. I can’t seem to move on from this and enjoy my days.
😢
Cut your losses.click to expand
True… but how can this get worse for me?
I was thinking to give him some time and then maybe message? Or should I just leave it now .
I know I’m not in the wrong but he’s making it out it’s my fault just because I said no.
Posted by DonnaLibra
I'm trying to figure out for the life of me why you have kept this disrespectful person in your life all of these years? Why did you promise him you would always be there? What do you owe him? My dad is a Scorpio and he told me he hates weak women. I think this guy views you as weak and feels like he can treat you anyway he wants to and you'll come right back for more. Show him he's wrong.
You’re right here.
How can I show him this? By not ever trying to get in touch with him?
I messaged him after he blocked me about a week later - saying I’m sorry I said no to signing but I will not commit myself to something and give false hopes. If my job was permanent it would be different. I said life is so short. Please don’t hold grudges. I said take care and left it at that.
What do you think about this?
Posted by EssPosted by DonnaLibra
I'm trying to figure out for the life of me why you have kept this disrespectful person in your life all of these years? Why did you promise him you would always be there? What do you owe him? My dad is a Scorpio and he told me he hates weak women. I think this guy views you as weak and feels like he can treat you anyway he wants to and you'll come right back for more. Show him he's wrong.
You’re right here.
How can I show him this? By not ever trying to get in touch with him?
I messaged him after he blocked me about a week later - saying I’m sorry I said no to signing but I will not commit myself to something and give false hopes. If my job was permanent it would be different. I said life is so short. Please don’t hold grudges. I said take care and left it at that.
What do you think about this?click to expand
Didn’t you get it? We all think you are an idiot for desperately pursuing and kissing the ass of an immature jerk who abuses you each time he can’t use you. You never learned from previous experiences. You should feel sorry for yourself, not this user and abuser! Grow a backbone and stop being a pathetic doormat!
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Weeds
Why is blocking a thing? Is it some invisible force field or something?
I got TextNow for numbers and Mail.com for emails.
You ain't going to cut me off that quick.
Your dedication is sexy!!! 😍
*****BLOCKED****** 😈😝click to expand
I went through a 10 year long Hell with a Scorpio male. After getting of that insane ride and calming myself I started seeing things clearly. Gaslighting and manipulation were his favourite games, and I was blinded by love thinking I was always wrong and the bad guy. Cost me my sanity...so please take a deep breath and read what you wrote here without emotions...the guy is an asshole and you should thank the Heavens for getting him out of your life.
Posted by ImperfectStormPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by ImperfectStormPosted by virgoOPPP
this is EXACTLY the same problem i have with scorpio guys!
once upon not too long ago, i had this non-thing with a scorpio and i thought was a chill dude. they'd ask for favors and expect you to be 300% on it. the first favor was over a money transfer that he needed help with and would need some ID from me and just coz i didn't jump on this for less than a minute and he was already getting angry. i just expressed some hesitation but okay whatever so petty damn. the next favor came when i was already with mh capricorn (crazy, volatile on-off relationship) and he tells me he needs to be at the embassy to fix some stuff (conveniently near me) and wants to be our guest. caused a HUGE fight between me and the capricorn. and the most recent favor was helping him scout for places just so he can live near me coz he wants to be nearby (now i just placed everything on ignore coz i find him stressful and too aggressive) coz back then, i really needed some more semblance of stabilty from him and i never really felt like he could give me that. i've learned not to voice out things anymore coz people are what they are. nobody gonna change for nobody. so now i just ghost people instead of trying to communicate what i want or the change that i want.
they expect you to be ride or die when they've done so little and don't really know each other too deeply. anger and resentmen over favors you don't jump on a heartbeat.
That is crazy!?! You would think as much pride we have you would think Scorpio men would know better than to ask a woman for some money. That is so cringe, I’m embarrassed for them 🥴🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
no he wasn't asking me for money, never did but he was asking me for a favor to use my account to be able to move money around. i felt like this was too much for a guy who was someone i felt like i might be wasting my time with, that i haven't made up my mind about yet. the main reason i dropped him completely one day was when he talked about a future where i felt like i could not really see myself. that's when i ghosted him. i was very obssessed with working out at that time and went to a gym that was a walk away from him (that's how we met). most water sign men have traits that i like in men but i've always found him too aggressive and i get this vibe from some scorpio men like they want you to kiss their azz with no good reason. yeah listen, i'm the princess here
k boi bye 👋
i'm only dumb for i lost my wallet fake sadbois but i'm strong against capable dudes with zero sob stories. feels like you don't need me anyway, i can ghost you easy.
i just wanna be single forever.
One thing i don’t like about water sign men is the manipulation. And all 3 of the water signs have tried to pull that shit with me and I hate it.. being a Scorpio myself it’s easy to identify when I’m being manipulated and I will shut that shit down immediately. I hate it. If I say I can’t do something for someone, the worst thing they can do is try to make me feel bad about it lol that will just backfire in their face 🤷♀️😂click to expand
Lol 😆 this is interesting. How would you backfire. Would you just stay away and remain silent and never communicate?
Thank you for this.
The thing ins in my case i don’t see him now.
There is no way for me to message him as im blocked. So should I just leave it there and IF he was ever to get in touch with me again I can call him out and say all what he has kept doing is unexpectable .
I can try messaging him on a different app again but he has left me on unread.
The thing ins in my case i don’t see him now.
There is no way for me to message him as im blocked. So should I just leave it there and IF he was ever to get in touch with me again I can call him out and say all what he has kept doing is unexpectable .
I can try messaging him on a different app again but he has left me on unread.
Posted by EssPosted by LadyNeptune
What kind of residential papers? Do you mean he asked you to cosign on a lease when you are temporarily employed and he is unemployed??
I have no idea - he didn’t give me a chance to ask further. As soon I as I said no he blocked me. This Scorpio is in the middle of finding a job and moving city , finding a place to rent - could be something like that .click to expand
Co-signing a lease is something you ask a parent to do, not a friend. You don’t put a friend in that situation to begin with and you certainly don’t block them for saying no.
Others have already said it and not to be redundant and pile on but… this is not a friend. This is a grifter and a user.
There is a pattern of behavior at play. This is not the first time he’s blocked you when he can’t get what he wants from you.
And this is not the first time you’ve internalized his poor behavior and apologized to him when it should be him coming with the apology.
If you want people to love you and treat you with respect first you have to love and respect yourself. You do that by protecting your peace, and in this situation…your credit score.
Thank you.
I’m not sure what kind residential papers this is.
It could be anything. Even a reference for rent? God knows.
I can’t say for certain it was sighing a lease .
But yeah he’s done me a favour.
I’m not sure what kind residential papers this is.
It could be anything. Even a reference for rent? God knows.
I can’t say for certain it was sighing a lease .
But yeah he’s done me a favour.
Posted by EssPosted by PhoenixRising
Cut your losses.
True… but how can this get worse for me?
I was thinking to give him some time and then maybe message? Or should I just leave it now .
I know I’m not in the wrong but he’s making it out it’s my fault just because I said no.click to expand
Get worse? I guess you could possibly meet another Scorp that gets you involved in some illegal nonsense just for him to block you too when the authotities come knocking.
As for this situation with this particular Scorp getting worse? I can't see how it can get worse. Hopefully he has disappeared for your own good.
Seriously, the man has shown you that he thinks your friendship is based solely on what you can do for him and when it doesn't serve his needs, you are disposable. He can simply block you like you're not important and do not have feelings as well. Why would you want to be involved with someone like that? How is this even genuine friendship in your eyes? Because he poured his heart out about a few difficulties doesn't make you all "friends". True friends fight, disagree all the time. You love your people and they piss you off, and you take a step back to breathe until you can resolve the issue. You don't block them like they don't mean sh*t to you. I know "blocking" is what a lot of people seem to do now when the moon is full or they are menstruating or some other issue that particular month, however unless you plan to keep that person on ice forever, then blocking them a sign of disrespect and more of a reflection of this person's inability to handle his emotions like an adult. That's fine, there are a lot of grown a** children running around. However, you let someone disrespect you without checking it, they will continue to do so.
I wouldn't message him. In fact, if he messages you tell him to bugger off and continue enjoying your day.
Seriously, (try to) move on.
I'd say DXP has spoken
Posted by EssPosted by DonnaLibra
I'm trying to figure out for the life of me why you have kept this disrespectful person in your life all of these years? Why did you promise him you would always be there? What do you owe him? My dad is a Scorpio and he told me he hates weak women. I think this guy views you as weak and feels like he can treat you anyway he wants to and you'll come right back for more. Show him he's wrong.
You’re right here.
How can I show him this? By not ever trying to get in touch with him?
I messaged him after he blocked me about a week later - saying I’m sorry I said no to signing but I will not commit myself to something and give false hopes. If my job was permanent it would be different. I said life is so short. Please don’t hold grudges. I said take care and left it at that.
What do you think about this?click to expand
I think you need to stop explaining yourself and apologizing. 'To hell with him' is the only attitude he will respect. Don't call him or beg him; just block his ass. Keep him on block this time and show him you won't feed his childishness. Make him work to hear from you or see your face again. Seriously, he will be surprised and respect you for standing up for yourself. Scorpio men will get out of hand quickly if you don't check them.
Posted by EssPosted by DonnaLibraPosted by EssPosted by DonnaLibra
I'm trying to figure out for the life of me why you have kept this disrespectful person in your life all of these years? Why did you promise him you would always be there? What do you owe him? My dad is a Scorpio and he told me he hates weak women. I think this guy views you as weak and feels like he can treat you anyway he wants to and you'll come right back for more. Show him he's wrong.
You’re right here.
How can I show him this? By not ever trying to get in touch with him?
I messaged him after he blocked me about a week later - saying I’m sorry I said no to signing but I will not commit myself to something and give false hopes. If my job was permanent it would be different. I said life is so short. Please don’t hold grudges. I said take care and left it at that.
What do you think about this?
I think you need to stop explaining yourself and apologizing. 'To hell with him' is the only attitude he will respect. Don't call him or beg him; just block his ass. Keep him on block this time and show him you won't feed his childishness. Make him work to hear from you or see your face again. Seriously, he will be surprised and respect you for standing up for yourself. Scorpio men will get out of hand quickly if you don't check them.
I wish I sent him a message that showed I’m posted off standing up for my self.
Unfortunately my last message to him was the lines of “I’m sorry I said no to signing I can’t commit myself to this as my work ain’t permanent. I hope u can understand this. If I was in a permanent job it would be different. Please don’t hold grudges in life, if possible. Take care”
I think I was tooo humble here. But hey ho. It’s done now . Do you think he’s seeing me really weakclick to expand
Yes Sweetie I do.
Posted by EssPosted by DonnaLibraPosted by EssPosted by DonnaLibra
I'm trying to figure out for the life of me why you have kept this disrespectful person in your life all of these years? Why did you promise him you would always be there? What do you owe him? My dad is a Scorpio and he told me he hates weak women. I think this guy views you as weak and feels like he can treat you anyway he wants to and you'll come right back for more. Show him he's wrong.
You’re right here.
How can I show him this? By not ever trying to get in touch with him?
I messaged him after he blocked me about a week later - saying I’m sorry I said no to signing but I will not commit myself to something and give false hopes. If my job was permanent it would be different. I said life is so short. Please don’t hold grudges. I said take care and left it at that.
What do you think about this?
I think you need to stop explaining yourself and apologizing. 'To hell with him' is the only attitude he will respect. Don't call him or beg him; just block his ass. Keep him on block this time and show him you won't feed his childishness. Make him work to hear from you or see your face again. Seriously, he will be surprised and respect you for standing up for yourself. Scorpio men will get out of hand quickly if you don't check them.
I wish I sent him a message that showed I’m posted off standing up for my self.
Unfortunately my last message to him was the lines of “I’m sorry I said no to signing I can’t commit myself to this as my work ain’t permanent. I hope u can understand this. If I was in a permanent job it would be different. Please don’t hold grudges in life, if possible. Take care”
I think I was tooo humble here. But hey ho. It’s done now . Do you think he’s seeing me really weakclick to expand
You were being yourself.
Let him see you anyway he wants to.
To thine on self be true
Posted by Wizardz_Posted by MaxianPosted by Wizardz_
I'm with the Scorpio guy on this one
Ehhhhhh— What?
He sounds like a true friendclick to expand
😂😂 top notch friend…he deserves an award 🥇🙄
Do you think he will ever feel guilty about this?
I really want him to realise one day and think to himself that he’s lost someone who was really good to him
I really want him to realise one day and think to himself that he’s lost someone who was really good to him
Posted by ImperfectStorm
He is TOXIC TOXIC TOXIC and that is not a friendship you have there. He did you a favor! Do not ever allow him to use you again.
I agree here. When he asked me if I can sign?
I said I’ll check if I can do this.
He was like check what?
Within a minute I text bck saying - I checked. As im not permanent I can’t do this .
That second- bang - I was Blocked!!
Do u think he thinks I lied and betrayed him?
Posted by EssPosted by ImperfectStorm
He is TOXIC TOXIC TOXIC and that is not a friendship you have there. He did you a favor! Do not ever allow him to use you again.
I agree here. When he asked me if I can sign?
I said I’ll check if I can do this.
He was like check what?
Within a minute I text bck saying - I checked. As im not permanent I can’t do this .
That second- bang - I was Blocked!!
Do u think he thinks I lied and betrayed him?click to expand
No he thinks he could not get away with the scam
This troll comes here every few months, claiming that some person doesn’t communicate with her. It used to be her love interest, remember?
She pretends to agree with the input she gets, but then she keeps asking variations of the same question, again and again, like a broken record. That’s her trolling strategy. Don’t waste your time responding.
She pretends to agree with the input she gets, but then she keeps asking variations of the same question, again and again, like a broken record. That’s her trolling strategy. Don’t waste your time responding.
Posted by Ess
I just want to know where have I gone wrong .
I said no to signing his form as my work isn’t permanent . Did he think this was betrayel or something? If my job was permanent I wouldn’t hesitate to sign for him.
He didn’t give me a chance and blocked as soon as I said I have checked I can’t sign this.
You did nothing wrong. It’s literally a childish power play. Don’t take it personally because it says way more about him than it does you. Pity him and move on. I think he’s shown he hasn’t matured yet enough to be in your life. So my opinion is—block HIM! Don’t compromise on this kind of blatant disrespect, and by no means apologize!!!
Posted by Ess
I know but what should I do? Shall I try approaching him again after some time?
I am the biggest Scorpio cheerleader but in this care - this is POS BAD seed of a Scorpio family...
Why did you say you had not dated?
Because you ARE in love with him and he is having no feelings for yu at all! NOT even friensdhip feelings!
STOP being a doormat!
Posted by AbbyNormalPosted by Ess
I just want to know where have I gone wrong .
I said no to signing his form as my work isn’t permanent . Did he think this was betrayel or something? If my job was permanent I wouldn’t hesitate to sign for him.
He didn’t give me a chance and blocked as soon as I said I have checked I can’t sign this.
You did nothing wrong. It’s literally a childish power play. Don’t take it personally because it says way more about him than it does you. Pity him and move on. I think he’s shown he hasn’t matured yet enough to be in your life. So my opinion is—block HIM! Don’t compromise on this kind of blatant disrespect, and by no means apologize!!!click to expand
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Posted by Ess
Do you think he will ever feel guilty about this?
I really want him to realise one day and think to himself that he’s lost someone who was really good to him
Why would he feel guilty? He's done this before many times to you, blocking you. And you always continue the friendship without holding him accountable. He is a shitty person. You should also acknowledge your part in allowing him to treat you this way time and time again.
So no, he won't feel guilty because in part you've taught him that its ok with you if he mistreats you.
Not gona be letting this happening again.
He can get lot for good now..
He can get lot for good now..
A lot of you have said why I took this behaviour time and time again. He suffered from deep depression as he told me . I felt really bad and sorry for him .
And always kept thinking , it’s not him , it’s only because of his condition.
Then a part of me thinks no mature person would act like this , even if they suffered from depression?
And always kept thinking , it’s not him , it’s only because of his condition.
Then a part of me thinks no mature person would act like this , even if they suffered from depression?
Do you think I’ve made allowances for him all this time just because I truly cared for him ?
No. You're overthinking it. Stop letting it get to you.
You're being used by a person with no self respect nor respect for others, including you.
These types of ppl cannot be fixed.
If you are unblocked and messaged, dump the text here b4 u reply.
You're being used by a person with no self respect nor respect for others, including you.
These types of ppl cannot be fixed.
If you are unblocked and messaged, dump the text here b4 u reply.
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