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I had a feeling there was a recent topic about this.

http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/taurus/do-taurus-men-6634638/

Is this the Taurus guy who was trying to make you jealous on Facebook by posting pics of him and his girlfriend?
2 different people. That was a Taurus girl. I have a few people in my life 😉
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Ok. It was a genuine question.
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If your instinct says so then it is.

Tell him directly in his face. He is hiding something. If he react then you are right. If he respond then you are wrong.

Reaction is a sign of guilt. Responding is a sign of genuinely cooperative manner.
I have said theres something about him doesn't sit right with me. He responded "tell me what it is because that's not fair on me" I guess I should have done this face to face to judge his reaction better.
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If your instinct says so then it is.

Tell him directly in his face. He is hiding something. If he react then you are right. If he respond then you are wrong.

Reaction is a sign of guilt. Responding is a sign of genuinely cooperative manner.
I have said theres something about him doesn't sit right with me. He responded "tell me what it is because that's not fair on me" I guess I should have done this face to face to judge his reaction better.

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Ok then tell it to him all your doubts. I do that with my bull. We dont allow these men treating us poorly or we will be the one to suffer.

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If your instinct says so then it is.

Tell him directly in his face. He is hiding something. If he react then you are right. If he respond then you are wrong.

Reaction is a sign of guilt. Responding is a sign of genuinely cooperative manner.
I have said theres something about him doesn't sit right with me. He responded "tell me what it is because that's not fair on me" I guess I should have done this face to face to judge his reaction better.


Ok then tell it to him all your doubts. I do that with my bull. We dont allow these men treating us poorly or we will be the one to suffer.

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By these men do you mean Taurus in particular?? What do you mean by suffer?
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If your instinct says so then it is.

Tell him directly in his face. He is hiding something. If he react then you are right. If he respond then you are wrong.

Reaction is a sign of guilt. Responding is a sign of genuinely cooperative manner.
I have said theres something about him doesn't sit right with me. He responded "tell me what it is because that's not fair on me" I guess I should have done this face to face to judge his reaction better.


Ok then tell it to him all your doubts. I do that with my bull. We dont allow these men treating us poorly or we will be the one to suffer.


By these men do you mean Taurus in particular?? What do you mean by suffer?
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Yes I am referring taurus men. Taurus men are players you know. If you dont ask a lot of question and you are suspecting something is wrong then he will keep on doing it because you are just fine

And not doing something on it. Aggressive taurus isn't born yet they are slow in motion per se dxp members. You have to investigate.



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If your instinct says so then it is.

Tell him directly in his face. He is hiding something. If he react then you are right. If he respond then you are wrong.

Reaction is a sign of guilt. Responding is a sign of genuinely cooperative manner.
I have said theres something about him doesn't sit right with me. He responded "tell me what it is because that's not fair on me" I guess I should have done this face to face to judge his reaction better.


Ok then tell it to him all your doubts. I do that with my bull. We dont allow these men treating us poorly or we will be the one to suffer.


By these men do you mean Taurus in particular?? What do you mean by suffer?
Yes I am referring taurus men. Taurus men are players you know. If you dont ask a lot of question and you are suspecting something is wrong then he will keep on doing it because you are just fine

And not doing something on it. Aggressive taurus isn't born yet they are slow in motion per se dxp members. You have to investigate.

So they're upfront players? How long have u been with Taurus?



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If your instinct says so then it is.

Tell him directly in his face. He is hiding something. If he react then you are right. If he respond then you are wrong.

Reaction is a sign of guilt. Responding is a sign of genuinely cooperative manner.
I have said theres something about him doesn't sit right with me. He responded "tell me what it is because that's not fair on me" I guess I should have done this face to face to judge his reaction better.


Ok then tell it to him all your doubts. I do that with my bull. We dont allow these men treating us poorly or we will be the one to suffer.

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So they are upfront players? How long have u been with ur Taurus?
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Libraloveshim,

Loyal cheater is the term. Lol

I've been with my bull wayback 2013.

For so many reasons we broke up.

He always initiated that for 2 break ups saying he cannot handle my judgement attitude always being suspiscious and I was right. I looked up his phone cuz my instinct told me so.

I just hit the road. The last broke up was 2014 we were fighting "opinions" and pissed him off. I am good in debate personally. We had vacation that time in another country. I called it quit. Ooh he looks like a sad puppy that time. He travelled alot. Then 2015 he invited me to see him. I refused. I made him suffer until he surrender completely.

Now we lived together and 3 months already. We always talk. Sure there are ups and downs. But I always have courage to initiate till we are ok.

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we can be aggressive when we know who/what we want.
This is true..this a.s.s.h.o.l.e. bull I have. It was like marathon yet he had tons of bs outside.

But still I go back. Bulls are slow when it comes in commitment.

They are fast and furious to the games.

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Eh, depends on the maturity level of the bull. There's being transparent and communicative, and then there's assumptions. I'll admit we're slow as hell, but if you talk to us openly, the mature ones won't hesitate to reveal their whereabouts. I for one, am no fan of games.

Though you gotta admit, when they do commit though, be prepared for it.
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we can be aggressive when we know who/what we want.
This is true..this a.s.s.h.o.l.e. bull I have. It was like marathon yet he had tons of bs outside.

But still I go back. Bulls are slow when it comes in commitment.

They are fast and furious to the games.


Eh, depends on the maturity level of the bull. There's being transparent and communicative, and then there's assumptions. I'll admit we're slow as hell, but if you talk to us openly, the mature ones won't hesitate to reveal their whereabouts. I for one, am no fan of games.

Though you gotta admit, when they do commit though, be prepared for it.
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Sounds intriguing! What's on offer from a committed Taurus guy?

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we can be aggressive when we know who/what we want.
This is true..this a.s.s.h.o.l.e. bull I have. It was like marathon yet he had tons of bs outside.

But still I go back. Bulls are slow when it comes in commitment.

They are fast and furious to the games.


Eh, depends on the maturity level of the bull. There's being transparent and communicative, and then there's assumptions. I'll admit we're slow as hell, but if you talk to us openly, the mature ones won't hesitate to reveal their whereabouts. I for one, am no fan of games.

Though you gotta admit, when they do commit though, be prepared for it.
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Yep. Like I have to sacrifice my ego. And him wanting me like a typical wife - just home.

Me , as scorpio have a hard time giving up the independency. Still negotiating thom

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you OP being a Libra probably look for a man to initiate and carry a relationship
Whoa. No one has to carry my relationship. If anything us libras will do anything to compromise to keep it together as long as it is worth it.
keeping it together is carrying it? isnt it?

my point was just that- that masculine signs (Libra) like to meet you halfway so that the other person initiates their part and keeps up with a fair and balanced relationship (working together)

whereas a feminine sign(Taurus) expects more of a full commitment (payment up front)

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I see. I understood carrying it to be a Libra will be a burden on the relationship expecting the other to do all the work.
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Haha did she hurt herself?

Don't expect to not get what you deserve back. I'll get you back some way shaped or form if in a playful manner though.

I'm aggressively passionate in conquests sometimes especially with air and sign sign. And I have both earth and air so one minute I'm playful the next I'm dead seriously considering that I'm always playing around.

I am determined to attack you if you get on my nerves though. Pillow fight, food fight, etc.
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As far as courting I would like to just relax and see the balance needed from each other without being able to be aggressive not my style usually.

But fire signs love to get a react out of me for some reason. And blah blah but then you get more than mouth than physical contact or you get the silent treatment Mercury in Taurus not really cold calculated revenge seeking type.
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you OP being a Libra probably look for a man to initiate and carry a relationship
Whoa. No one has to carry my relationship. If anything us libras will do anything to compromise to keep it together as long as it is worth it.
keeping it together is carrying it? isnt it?

my point was just that- that masculine signs (Libra) like to meet you halfway so that the other person initiates their part and keeps up with a fair and balanced relationship (working together)

whereas a feminine sign(Taurus) expects more of a full commitment (payment up front)

different style s

I see. I understood carrying it to be a Libra will be a burden on the relationship expecting the other to do all the work.


pfft are you kidding? I know some Libras well (my GF is a Libra) you guys go all out to keep relationships going

its your gift and your curse lol

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I agree with this..."gift and curse"
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I've only known one Taurus man that I'm aware of...my step dad and he was aggressive and verbally and physically abusive both towards myself, my siblings and my mother. He had this great mask He wore for the rest of the world. I don't think I've ever dated one. But if you feel like something is off...investigate.
Didn't mean to like your comment. Meant to quote it. I'm sorry you went through that. Just reminds me of my ex.. He seemed to play this part for everyone else. But he pursued me aggressively.. I should have known. He ended up being a nightmare of a person who was one person behind closed doors and another in public.
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Sounds intriguing! What's on offer from a committed Taurus guy?


An offer to commit? What do you mean exactly?


What to expect from a committed Taurus. It seems like at some point there will become a drastic change.
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You'll know when a Taurus wants to commit to you. They'll flat out ask you, but you have to see how we act around you over time. Are we physically there with you? Are we expressing ourselves to you? Are we making an effort to learn about you? Are we taking care of you? It's pretty easy to spot the BS from a Taurus I think, but again, open dialogue is really important. If you're unsure about what's going on with your Taurus, you can ask him what's up.

When I want to commit to someone, it usually takes some time. As the stereotype goes, we like to surround ourselves with beauty, whether it be people or within our homes or our possessions. We come off indirectly like hoarders in a way. I tend to load up on my options, in all forms in life, and sort through it all over time (trimming the fat, moving on from people), because over time I learn how people perceive or treat me. I learn what things I like and dislike about people or my possessions. Once that's established, I'm determined to hang on to those things that matter to me for as long as possible. This applies to love, what I bring to my next home, what I allow into my family and personal life, etc. When a Taurus wants to commit to you, it really is the ultimate sign of respect, loyalty, and love.

We're just alert, and try to be as sure as we can be about something before committing. We have the most patience out of all the signs, so why not use that to prevent further harm?
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Sounds intriguing! What's on offer from a committed Taurus guy?


An offer to commit? What do you mean exactly?


What to expect from a committed Taurus. It seems like at some point there will become a drastic change.
You'll know when a Taurus wants to commit to you. They'll flat out ask you, but you have to see how we act around you over time. Are we physically there with you? Are we expressing ourselves to you? Are we making an effort to learn about you? Are we taking care of you? It's pretty easy to spot the BS from a Taurus I think, but again, open dialogue is really important. If you're unsure about what's going on with your Taurus, you can ask him what's up.

When I want to commit to someone, it usually takes some time. But watch my actions to you. Am I texting/calling/reaching out to you? When you reach out to me am I responding to you? As the stereotype goes, we like to surround ourselves with beauty, whether it be people or within our homes or our possessions. We come off indirectly like hoarders in a way. I tend to load up on my options, in all forms in life, and sort through it all over time (trimming the fat, moving on from people), because over time I learn how people perceive or treat me. I learn what things I like and dislike about people or my possessions. Once that's established, I'm determined to hang on to those things that matter to me for as long as possible. This applies to love, what I bring to my next home, what I allow into my family and personal life, etc. When a Taurus wants to commit to you, it really is the ultimate sign of respect, loyalty, and love.

We're just alert, and try to be as sure as we can be about something before committing. We have the most patience out of all the signs, so why not use that to prevent further harm?
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So he was going to see me today (i'm a 4hr drive from him) I messaged him yesterday afternoon 4pm to confirm and he responded at 12:45am "will you definitely see me if I do, spend the night with me?" He's constantly wanting me to spend the night with him?! What's he not getting. Today he tells me that his friends-a married couple invited him over for dinner and he "doesn't want to let him down again" If I want to "spend the night with him and no it doesn't mean sex then he can come after and see me"

I'm just not impressed. Am I wrong?
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So he was going to see me today (i'm a 4hr drive from him) I messaged him yesterday afternoon 4pm to confirm and he responded at 12:45am "will you definitely see me if I do, spend the night with me?" He's constantly wanting me to spend the night with him?! What's he not getting. Today he tells me that his friends-a married couple invited him over for dinner and he "doesn't want to let him down again" If I want to "spend the night with him and no it doesn't mean sex then he can come after and see me"

I'm just not impressed. Am I wrong?
I don't know why you want us to make the decision for you. You're not feeling it. You're not convinced. You're not impressed. Ok. Well cut him loose then and let's stop talking about this OK?
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So he was going to see me today (i'm a 4hr drive from him) I messaged him yesterday afternoon 4pm to confirm and he responded at 12:45am "will you definitely see me if I do, spend the night with me?" He's constantly wanting me to spend the night with him?! What's he not getting. Today he tells me that his friends-a married couple invited him over for dinner and he "doesn't want to let him down again" If I want to "spend the night with him and no it doesn't mean sex then he can come after and see me"

I'm just not impressed. Am I wrong?
I don't know why you want us to make the decision for you. You're not feeling it. You're not convinced. You're not impressed. Ok. Well cut him loose then and let's stop talking about this OK?
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I'm chatting-as if you are my friends, but maybe there are some things id rather not discuss with my "real life" friends. If you dont like my posts or wish not to respond-DON'T. Thank you for your input thus far.
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So he was going to see me today (i'm a 4hr drive from him) I messaged him yesterday afternoon 4pm to confirm and he responded at 12:45am "will you definitely see me if I do, spend the night with me?" He's constantly wanting me to spend the night with him?! What's he not getting. Today he tells me that his friends-a married couple invited him over for dinner and he "doesn't want to let him down again" If I want to "spend the night with him and no it doesn't mean sex then he can come after and see me"

I'm just not impressed. Am I wrong?
I don't know why you want us to make the decision for you. You're not feeling it. You're not convinced. You're not impressed. Ok. Well cut him loose then and let's stop talking about this OK?
I'm chatting-as if you are my friends, but maybe there are some things id rather not discuss with my "real life" friends. If you dont like my posts or wish not to respond-DON'T. Thank you for your input thus far.
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It's not a matter of liking your posts, as your "friends" I'm telling you that you know what you want to do and constantly repeating it is not going to get you any further. It's like a person who complains they are overweight but won't go on a diet. After a while it's put the donut down or let's stop talking about it.

You're no further on from the first post of this thread.
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So he was going to see me today (i'm a 4hr drive from him) I messaged him yesterday afternoon 4pm to confirm and he responded at 12:45am "will you definitely see me if I do, spend the night with me?" He's constantly wanting me to spend the night with him?! What's he not getting. Today he tells me that his friends-a married couple invited him over for dinner and he "doesn't want to let him down again" If I want to "spend the night with him and no it doesn't mean sex then he can come after and see me"

I'm just not impressed. Am I wrong?
I don't know why you want us to make the decision for you. You're not feeling it. You're not convinced. You're not impressed. Ok. Well cut him loose then and let's stop talking about this OK?
I'm chatting-as if you are my friends, but maybe there are some things id rather not discuss with my "real life" friends. If you dont like my posts or wish not to respond-DON'T. Thank you for your input thus far.
It's not a matter of liking your posts, as your "friends" I'm telling you that you know what you want to do and constantly repeating it is not going to get you any further. It's like a person who complains they are overweight but won't go on a diet. After a while it's put the donut down or let's stop talking about it.

You're no further on from the first post of this thread.
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God you are a little know it all aren't you madam. This is being conversational. I want to talk about it, people like the last poster also had input, and wanted to chat. Not EVERYTHING has to be about the eventual outcome-that will come inevitably dear. What are you looking for—
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So he was going to see me today (i'm a 4hr drive from him) I messaged him yesterday afternoon 4pm to confirm and he responded at 12:45am "will you definitely see me if I do, spend the night with me?" He's constantly wanting me to spend the night with him?! What's he not getting. Today he tells me that his friends-a married couple invited him over for dinner and he "doesn't want to let him down again" If I want to "spend the night with him and no it doesn't mean sex then he can come after and see me"

I'm just not impressed. Am I wrong?
I don't know why you want us to make the decision for you. You're not feeling it. You're not convinced. You're not impressed. Ok. Well cut him loose then and let's stop talking about this OK?
I'm chatting-as if you are my friends, but maybe there are some things id rather not discuss with my "real life" friends. If you dont like my posts or wish not to respond-DON'T. Thank you for your input thus far.
It's not a matter of liking your posts, as your "friends" I'm telling you that you know what you want to do and constantly repeating it is not going to get you any further. It's like a person who complains they are overweight but won't go on a diet. After a while it's put the donut down or let's stop talking about it.

You're no further on from the first post of this thread.
God you are a little know it all aren't you madam. This is being conversational. I want to talk about it, people like the last poster also had input, and wanted to chat. Not EVERYTHING has to be about the eventual outcome-that will come inevitably dear. What are you looking for—
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I think at this point I am looking for you to stop being so boring. Don't worry, I won't hold my breath.
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Not all Taurus men are players , most of the time you find us working our butt off building a life, security is important to us and having a stable relationship adds to the equation , we send out our feelers to size you up, are you needy,clingy,suspicious, drama queen,vain, selfish , does she act like I should be glad to have her, please don't take this personally but its like your a house for sale , how much work has to be done, is this my dream home , should i cut my loses and start again,thats why bulls find it hard to let go, because of losing all that investment in you, this can bite us back staying in a relationship for to long also.

If you having doubts & your here questioning those doubts , you have set yourself an up hill task , because one side of you will be trying to verify these doubts, asking questions upon questions and believe me he will sense it, or maybe you have to much time on your hands ,and are thinking to much, placing your insecurity in-front of everything else.



Personally I would live for the now ,and set my own boundaries from the start, and bulls should know this , we love our own space.. , don't compromise , get on with your life as an individual and he will respect you for that.
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