SagLib
@SagLib
9 Years
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Taurus Man Mixed Signals
he's using you.
Set the bar high and demand that he meets it.
Lay out your terms.
Stick to your terms.
Treat him like any job would treat an employee. 90 day probation period. Lay out the ground rules.
Lay out your terms.
Stick to your terms.
Treat him like any job would treat an employee. 90 day probation period. Lay out the ground rules.
Why would you even consider this?
You havent seen him in months, he doesnt even have the audacity to pick up your calls...run girl, and run quick and far. Hes qn asshole.
Idc. How much you love him and want to make things work...he isnt giving you due respect or making it seem he wants to be with you. Not one bit
Go find someone good to start a family with the way you want. Dont ever limit your happiness.
You have his baby, and you still will never see him...go look at purtywingz posts
You havent seen him in months, he doesnt even have the audacity to pick up your calls...run girl, and run quick and far. Hes qn asshole.
Idc. How much you love him and want to make things work...he isnt giving you due respect or making it seem he wants to be with you. Not one bit
Go find someone good to start a family with the way you want. Dont ever limit your happiness.
You have his baby, and you still will never see him...go look at purtywingz posts
Posted by Koni
Why bother with someone like that? Says he wants a baby but won’t even talk on the phone. Sounds like a psychopath
I wonder how the baby would be concieved? throu an online message? 🙂
I mean, if he doesnt want to meet her
Posted by Pandora101Posted by Koni
Why bother with someone like that? Says he wants a baby but won’t even talk on the phone. Sounds like a psychopath
I wonder how the baby would be concieved? throu an online message? 🙂
I mean, if he doesnt want to meet herclick to expand
Lol i was thinking the same thing.
Its all just words no actions...probably would NEVER happen anyway.
And once there is a baby...one night stand essentially...she wont ever see him again.
Sounds picture perfect...
Sorry I guess I should have provided some background info. We were dating for 7 months, and I started to feel some uncertainty about his feelings. I sensed that he was still into his ex and it really started to plague on my insecurities.
I decided I needed space to sort myself out, so I took a 6 month contract for work overseas.
Since I left our communication hasn’t been the same, which I understood. We use to spend physical time together and texting wasn’t needed.
So now he is distant... and I figured he moved on because I haven’t heard much from him since I left.
I decided I needed space to sort myself out, so I took a 6 month contract for work overseas.
Since I left our communication hasn’t been the same, which I understood. We use to spend physical time together and texting wasn’t needed.
So now he is distant... and I figured he moved on because I haven’t heard much from him since I left.
Posted by SagLib
Sorry I guess I should have provided some background info. We were dating for 7 months, and I started to feel some uncertainty about his feelings. I sensed that he was still into his ex and it really started to plague on my insecurities.
I decided I needed space to sort myself out, so I took a 6 month contract for work overseas.
Since I left our communication hasn’t been the same, which I understood. We use to spend physical time together and texting wasn’t needed.
So now he is distant... and I figured he moved on because I haven’t heard much from him since I left.
I still wouldn't have his baby
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by Boots1313Posted by SagLib
Sorry I guess I should have provided some background info. We were dating for 7 months, and I started to feel some uncertainty about his feelings. I sensed that he was still into his ex and it really started to plague on my insecurities.
I decided I needed space to sort myself out, so I took a 6 month contract for work overseas.
Since I left our communication hasn’t been the same, which I understood. We use to spend physical time together and texting wasn’t needed.
So now he is distant... and I figured he moved on because I haven’t heard much from him since I left.
I still wouldn't have his baby
You’re just playing hard to get, Bootsy 😂click to expand
I dont know. Guess i have seen sonmany friends go thoigh situations like this. And say "ill just have his baby and it will fix our relationship" ...
Communication and slowly getting to know eachother again will fix it.
Gotta basically start over...she ran, and he prob cant trust her level of committment.
Sort of why sagittarius and taurus dont typically work.
One. Needs freedom and the other needs stability, even in the face of adversity. They rather help you though your butter then to disappear for a few months.(even if work related)
I mean all this from a place of caring, and hoping in the end everything is okayy.
Im just blunt AF
One. Needs freedom and the other needs stability, even in the face of adversity. They rather help you though your butter then to disappear for a few months.(even if work related)
I mean all this from a place of caring, and hoping in the end everything is okayy.
Im just blunt AF
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
He probably does still like you but must be extremely cautious about you. If he didn’t like you at all there would be no communication.
I think you’re still an option but if someone else without your history together came along I believe he would go for that person.
Hope it works out for you but be careful.
Thanks... will keep this in mind
Posted by Boots1313
Sort of why sagittarius and taurus dont typically work.
One. Needs freedom and the other needs stability, even in the face of adversity. They rather help you though your butter then to disappear for a few months.(even if work related)
I mean all this from a place of caring, and hoping in the end everything is only.
Im just blunt AF
Thanks... I need and appreciate bluntness.
I have many Taurus friends and we get along well. I guess romantic relationships are a different thing.
He is just so silent. He doesn’t tell me how he feels.. doesn’t say what he wants. And I need reassurance... even if it’s a “hey idiot, I like you and I want to be with you”. But I don’t get that from him.
I also needed distance because the sex was really confusing me. Nothing ever got resolved or discussed because he would initiate sex and I would forget all about everything.
Treat your time as extremely precious and valuable.
You are deserving of good treatment and communication.
You are deserving of good treatment and communication.
Yeah, thats gonna be a no from me dawg.
Posted by DMV
Treat your time as extremely precious and valuable.
You are deserving of good treatment and communication.
Thanks!!!! This message feels good. Thank you. I have to remember this.
DO WHAT YOU THINK IS BEST FOR YOU WITH THE MINDSET HE MIGHT NOT BE THE DREAM DAD YOU EXPECT AND YOU MIGHT HAVE TO DO THIS ALONE.
with that said. I hope it all works out better then worst case
with that said. I hope it all works out better then worst case
Posted by sagittariusxo
DO WHAT YOU THINK IS BEST FOR YOU WITH THE MINDSET HE MIGHT NOT BE THE DREAM DAD YOU EXPECT AND YOU MIGHT HAVE TO DO THIS ALONE.
with that said. I hope it all works out better then worst case
A response in caps that I didn’t expect. Speaking from experience? I also hope for the best.
Posted by FknMeow
Wait, is this that taurus with the leo moon? If you have a baby with him, are you sure you're ready for two babies?
Yes... hahahahaha the Leo Moon, how quickly I forget. I need to look into this more.
Posted by Ooops
What's the context?
"Oh girl, I wanna put a baby inside you" *Marvin Gaye voice*
Or
"You know, babe, I could really use a tax credit this year, let's make some dependents and itemize" *Ben Stein voice*
Hahahahahahaha... wish I could tell you.
It’s more like a “We can make one if you wanna” *Robert De Niro shrug*
He probably just have a hard time letting you go.
Move on to someone else. He's not worth your time any longer.
I probably miss this, but what are the reasons for your break-up? If neither of you have changed for the better, why harbour hopes of getting back together? Things won't be better anyway.
Move on to someone else. He's not worth your time any longer.
I probably miss this, but what are the reasons for your break-up? If neither of you have changed for the better, why harbour hopes of getting back together? Things won't be better anyway.
Posted by jeane
he's using you.
For what? Baby? They haven’t seen each other forever...what’s the use?
Posted by Pandora101Posted by Koni
Why bother with someone like that? Says he wants a baby but won’t even talk on the phone. Sounds like a psychopath
I wonder how the baby would be concieved? throu an online message? 🙂
I mean, if he doesnt want to meet herclick to expand
Apparently child support doesn’t bother him...wondering why?
Because baby conceived trough online messages would be a text? In his opinion? And text don’t require child support?
This is nuts!
Posted by GemitatiPosted by jeane
he's using you.
For what? Baby? They haven’t seen each other forever...what’s the use?click to expand
to play out a fantasy he never intends to fulfil.
Posted by Nefertari
He probably just have a hard time letting you go.
Move on to someone else. He's not worth your time any longer.
I probably miss this, but what are the reasons for your break-up? If neither of you have changed for the better, why harbour hopes of getting back together? Things won't be better anyway.
We broke up because I was confused on his feelings for me, also I must admit I felt that he wasn’t over his ex.
He flew out to see me a few days back and we talked. He still hasn’t told me he loves me, however he says he doesn’t want me to go. The flight to see me was touching I must admit. I never thought he would come out to see me.
At this point I think that’s all the emotion I will get out from him. His sister is with me for the holidays and he plans on spending the New Year with us.
I am taking this slow, I am no longer in a panic or rush. I have come to realize that I might not ever get use to his lack of affectionate words and if I stay with him that’s just how he is. Emotionless.
Posted by SagLib
Taurus "ex" is at it again. After a few days/weeks of silence we had a text conversation, because he doesn't answer phone calls anymore for some strange reason, and he said that he still wants me to have his baby. No talk of marriage or a commitment, just baby talk. I asked him if he was serious and he said, if I am willing... yes.
I still have feelings for him and I want our relationship to work and I want a family, but this doesn't make any sense. I haven't had a verbal conversation with him in a long while, and I haven't seen him in months. I told him that I would come out and see him over the holidays and we can talk. NO ANSWER! He completely by passed the suggestion and asked me about work and family. I feel that he is starting to date other woman, which is fine that's his prerogative, but why have baby talk when he knows that I still want to be with him and have a family. I am confused.
What is the deal?
He might as very well be messing around with other and running wild, he’s ungrounded most likely. Upset about something and running with a storm in his head. If you feel you did something wrong you know he’d be upset about, your gonna have a to apologize and make it as genuine as possible. We hold grudges, and you might not even know what it was that you did.
As for the baby talk, I was the same. Wanted the pregnancy results and the ring would of been not far behind.
Honestly one thing you could try and do is tell him, if you really want me to have your kid why don’t you come do it? If and when he comes back, figure out where he stands and move forward
What's the history with him and his ex?
This would provide further clarification to this story.....
This would provide further clarification to this story.....
sounds very messed up so I would not even want to think about having a baby FFS - you want, need and deserve better and so do children !
Posted by TaurusBull1977
What's the history with him and his ex?
This would provide further clarification to this story.....
Dropdead gorgeous, from a wealthy family, PhD student with a natural face and body pornstars pay for. They use to travel everywhere together at least every 2 months, to exotic places. They were together for 2 years and he wanted to marry her. She said some nonsense about her family having issues with it and that she wanted to stay friends with him.
They broke up in January, I met him in March. Took things slow and I never heard him mention her until months later when I found out they were still communicating. Even though they live in different countries the communication bothered me. I felt that he was trying really hard to stay in contact with her and it made me insecure and uncomfortable. So I left.
From what I can tell the don’t communicate with one another anymore, and he simply told me their relationship is over and that he would never talk bad about her.
I am over this part. Initially it was hard to deal with, now I am indifferent.
Posted by tctaap
sounds very messed up so I would not even want to think about having a baby FFS - you want, need and deserve better and so do children !
This is true. And I want a family. I am not getting any younger and I don’t want to waste my time. I strongly believe that children need a healthy family and home, the world is messed up enough.
Posted by SagLibPosted by tctaap
sounds very messed up so I would not even want to think about having a baby FFS - you want, need and deserve better and so do children !
This is true. And I want a family. I am not getting any younger and I don’t want to waste my time. I strongly believe that children need a healthy family and home, the world is messed up enough.click to expand
correct so just leave this douchebag alone and find someone who is better suited for you
@Saglib....
He's not over her, perhaps he may never get over her.
Your instincts were indeed correct.
Notice he offered her marriage, yet offered you a 'baby mother' status.
He is capable of committment, not just to you.
I think he wants to start a family.
However, he doesn't want to be tied to anyone....maybe just in case this 'ex' decides to come back around, or a new potential love comes into the picture, enough to fill the emotional void his ex has left.
I knew there was a missing link to his actions.
This is it.
You're not first choice...
You're a 'just in case' choice.
I hate to be the bearer of bad news.
I just knew there was something more to this story.
He wasn't completely healed when he met you.
He's not over her, perhaps he may never get over her.
Your instincts were indeed correct.
Notice he offered her marriage, yet offered you a 'baby mother' status.
He is capable of committment, not just to you.
I think he wants to start a family.
However, he doesn't want to be tied to anyone....maybe just in case this 'ex' decides to come back around, or a new potential love comes into the picture, enough to fill the emotional void his ex has left.
I knew there was a missing link to his actions.
This is it.
You're not first choice...
You're a 'just in case' choice.
I hate to be the bearer of bad news.
I just knew there was something more to this story.
He wasn't completely healed when he met you.
Posted by TaurusBull1977
@Saglib....
He's not over her, perhaps he may never get over her.
Your instincts were indeed correct.
Notice he offered her marriage, yet offered you a 'baby mother' status.
He is capable of committment, not just to you.
I think he wants to start a family.
However, he doesn't want to be tied to anyone....maybe just in case this 'ex' decides to come back around, or a new potential love comes into the picture, enough to fill the emotional void his ex has left.
I knew there was a missing link to his actions.
This is it.
You're not first choice...
You're a 'just in case' choice.
I hate to be the bearer of bad news.
I just knew there was something more to this story.
He wasn't completely healed when he met you.
Ah.... thanks TaurusBull. Sometimes you need confirmation of what you think is crazy. 😢
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