estellajones
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Why is it so hard to get a Taurus ex to leave you alone?
I don't want to leave my home I contemplated it before but it made sense to stay where I am as I feel comfortable and can afford it!
I think if I call police he's so crazy he wouldn't care lol.. Today what he did was just shocking. His Taurus ex who he's cheating on me with thinks I'm the one who's making him stay when I'm more than willing ready to give him to her lol. She's just as crazy too
I think if I call police he's so crazy he wouldn't care lol.. Today what he did was just shocking. His Taurus ex who he's cheating on me with thinks I'm the one who's making him stay when I'm more than willing ready to give him to her lol. She's just as crazy too
I guess he showed you who's boss. 😐
He's scary lol
I'm so sorry to hear you're going through this 😢 Taurus can be vehemently possessive, it's scary :O I agree with what someone else said: get a lawyer and/or law enforcement involved if you can, before it gets to unimaginable levels of scary.
Posted by estellajones
I don't want to leave my home I contemplated it before but it made sense to stay where I am as I feel comfortable and can afford it!
I think if I call police he's so crazy he wouldn't care lol.. Today what he did was just shocking. His Taurus ex who he's cheating on me with thinks I'm the one who's making him stay when I'm more than willing ready to give him to her lol. She's just as crazy too
I would suggest not entertaining the drama he seeks to get an emotional rise out of you.................
And listen to the people telling you to stay at your home and contact a lawyer.
He may be doing this on purpose because he has done his research and knows you're in your feelings and have not.
Don't leave your home and contact an attorney.
Posted by Impulsv
Don't leave ur home!!! Not good n seek a lawyer who will explAin why!
I agree with this....on another post people who were married and divorced in the past told another woman this same thing.
Don't leave your home and get a lawyer.
There's experience here on this site
Posted by LuckyLibra979
Simple. He doesn't respect you. Taurus is notorious for being flat out disrespectful.
Haven't met any Taurus like that...interesting.
All the Bulls I know are pretty passive. Except when it comes to Pussy or Food
Call the police and lawyer up. Dont worry about what hes telling her. Hes only saving face. Pm me.
Posted by happyface1My ex husband was like that. And they NEVER want to get divorced. Even if you CAUGHT them cheating?! Ugh.. Never again.Posted by LuckyLibra979
Simple. He doesn't respect you. Taurus is notorious for being flat out disrespectful.
Haven't met any Taurus like that...interesting.
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Posted by HarukkaI really hope your friend leaves him.. He'll never stop...and it will only get worse, the longer she stays. Because he'll really try to hurt her (financially or physically.) When a person has no respect for you, there's no telling what they'll do.
Why taurus men always cheat on their wives ??
I know one whe cheat on his scorpio wife with 8 women, she seek a therapy to help her not lose her mind.
He also refuse to divorce her (all cheaters refuse divorce).
She tell me that she lost and unhappy with him, but she stay with him anyway.
Posted by estellajonesMy ex Taurus husband was like that. I literally caught him and he still wouldn't leave. He wouldn't change either. He was stubborn as hell about doing whatever he wanted. So I left. But I have lawyer friends who helped me get all that I needed. He actually got really physical with me though. Not all men are like that, but his temper was crazy when he didn't get his way.
My husband has been cheating on me with his ex for God knows how long now, and it seems to me that since I found out and forgave him the first time he doesn't give a f*** and has unfortunately taken it as a weakness, silly me.
I managed to get rid of him AGAIN, well that's what I thought anyway and I came home to a new door, he changed my locks and managed to lock me out of my home so I could ring him and get in. He's shown me a really crazy side, and it seems to me that whenever I show him I don't want him anymore he comes chasing? I can't deal with the lies and deceit and it's already bad enough we are married with kids he won't go through with a divorce or LEAVE?? I need help I feel trapped! He's never going to leave his ex alone and he for sure won't leave me alone he doesn't want me to ever move on .. It's like he wants the best of both worlds!?
Remember he's going to fight for all his possessions...get a good lawyer.
Posted by LuckyLibra979Posted by happyface1Rules my 8th. I see a different side than you. Just like I always see Capricorn emotional sidePosted by LuckyLibra979
Simple. He doesn't respect you. Taurus is notorious for being flat out disrespectful.
Haven't met any Taurus like that...interesting.
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I can see that...different interpretations. Makes sense
Posted by jane84Yeah he's crazy he's started to get physical a few times and I had caught him cheating it was in my face I saw messages and him coming out of her house. There's only so much a person can take before they lose their mind.Posted by estellajonesMy ex Taurus husband was like that. I literally caught him and he still wouldn't leave. He wouldn't change either. He was stubborn as hell about doing whatever he wanted. So I left. But I have lawyer friends who helped me get all that I needed. He actually got really physical with me though. Not all men are like that, but his temper was crazy when he didn't get his way.
My husband has been cheating on me with his ex for God knows how long now, and it seems to me that since I found out and forgave him the first time he doesn't give a f*** and has unfortunately taken it as a weakness, silly me.
I managed to get rid of him AGAIN, well that's what I thought anyway and I came home to a new door, he changed my locks and managed to lock me out of my home so I could ring him and get in. He's shown me a really crazy side, and it seems to me that whenever I show him I don't want him anymore he comes chasing? I can't deal with the lies and deceit and it's already bad enough we are married with kids he won't go through with a divorce or LEAVE?? I need help I feel trapped! He's never going to leave his ex alone and he for sure won't leave me alone he doesn't want me to ever move on .. It's like he wants the best of both worlds!?
Remember he's going to fight for all his possessions...get a good lawyer.click to expand
If I speak to the female he's cheating on me with she's another Taurus and denies that they're even talking lol so I end up looking crazy, then she'll have a random outburst and tell me he doesn't love me and how much he loves her and then how much she hates us both. Apparently he told her he wants to keep me as his wife and have her on the side? It's disgusting. No respect at all. Me and him have been together since we were 16, never ever seen this side to him.
Do you think this will ever stop? Will she eventually let go? Clearly he can't see a future with her because why is he still not letting me go? I feel so trapped yet because I'm a Pisces I'm so loyal he's done me so dirty why do I feel like I can still forgive him even after we divorce and really seperate? I still feel like I would always want him to be "mine" somehow.
Do you think this will ever stop? Will she eventually let go? Clearly he can't see a future with her because why is he still not letting me go? I feel so trapped yet because I'm a Pisces I'm so loyal he's done me so dirty why do I feel like I can still forgive him even after we divorce and really seperate? I still feel like I would always want him to be "mine" somehow.
Posted by ExplicitVery true, I've been with him since I was 16 I think all this time I was with him he must have made me insecure and brought me down without me realising and made me dependant on him so that I would never leave him. I feel like I don't even know him and 5 years was all a liePosted by estellajones
If I speak to the female he's cheating on me with she's another Taurus and denies that they're even talking lol so I end up looking crazy, then she'll have a random outburst and tell me he doesn't love me and how much he loves her and then how much she hates us both. Apparently he told her he wants to keep me as his wife and have her on the side? It's disgusting. No respect at all. Me and him have been together since we were 16, never ever seen this side to him.
Do you think this will ever stop? Will she eventually let go? Clearly he can't see a future with her because why is he still not letting me go? I feel so trapped yet because I'm a Pisces I'm so loyal he's done me so dirty why do I feel like I can still forgive him even after we divorce and really seperate? I still feel like I would always want him to be "mine" somehow.
It's not loyalty it's insecurity. You accepting this behavior of infidelity and flat out disrespect and still wanting him to be yours just shows how you feel about yourself. If you had more self-esteem you would know that you're worth more then this and you deserve better then some guy who's cheating on you and flat out disrespecting you.
Who the hell changes the locks to my own home? A person like that would get their ass kicked by the 60 people in my family.
You deserve better than this. Why would you want scum like this to always feel like he's yours? Don't you think your "possessions" should have more value? Is this what you feel you deserve?click to expand
it would make the most sense for you to cheat on him with me
Posted by ExplicitExplicit 😘 *ovation*Posted by estellajones
If I speak to the female he's cheating on me with she's another Taurus and denies that they're even talking lol so I end up looking crazy, then she'll have a random outburst and tell me he doesn't love me and how much he loves her and then how much she hates us both. Apparently he told her he wants to keep me as his wife and have her on the side? It's disgusting. No respect at all. Me and him have been together since we were 16, never ever seen this side to him.
Do you think this will ever stop? Will she eventually let go? Clearly he can't see a future with her because why is he still not letting me go? I feel so trapped yet because I'm a Pisces I'm so loyal he's done me so dirty why do I feel like I can still forgive him even after we divorce and really seperate? I still feel like I would always want him to be "mine" somehow.
It's not loyalty it's insecurity. You accepting this behavior of infidelity and flat out disrespect and still wanting him to be yours just shows how you feel about yourself. If you had more self-esteem you would know that you're worth more then this and you deserve better then some guy who's cheating on you and flat out disrespecting you.
Who the hell changes the locks to my own home? A person like that would get their ass kicked by the 60 people in my family.
You deserve better than this. Why would you want scum like this to always feel like he's yours? Don't you think your "possessions" should have more value? Is this what you feel you deserve?click to expand
Get the hell out while you can!! He has zero respect for you. He changed the locks on you! He's banging another woman & will not stop. You have been with him so long that your have become dumbed down to the insecurity level. Screw him. It will get worse. Get a lawyer.. You have been loyal to him for a while. He's not loyal to u, at least not anymore. Sorry this is happening but it's for the best. Good luck !
How to get a Taurus to leave you alone...
It's is simple.
But only if you want him to leave you alone.
1. Get him fired from his job. Then file for child and spousal support. Bulls can only deal with one crisis at a time, not when it's hitting them both ways.
2. Start re-arranging his things.
3. Spray Paint his car, and let the air out of his tires.Before you do this, tape a knife to the steering wheel. Wipe off any fingerprints.
4. Be unpredictable. Unreliable.
5. Block him.
6. Send the children to the mistress' house when you know that he's over there.
7. Empty out his bank account.
8. Find the people in his immediate circle (family, friends, the people that are close to his heart) and think of creative ways to drop off his belongings. Leave one shoe at a sister's house, and leave the other pair at his mother's house, a pair of boxers with his local pastor...and the list could be endless.
9. Change the locks, and if he tries to jam it, call 911 to report an intruder.
10. Allow anything in his private life to become everyone's public business.
The interruption of everything will drive him insane.
Follow steps 1-10 and he will be begging for a divorce.
Bulls love to possess and sometimes control.
But take away their possessions, financial security and insanity...
..And you will have one weak soul on the verge of depression.
He's a fixed sign, and he's stubborn, don't be coy about scaring him off.
Mindf***ing him works way better than a restraining order.
It's is simple.
But only if you want him to leave you alone.
1. Get him fired from his job. Then file for child and spousal support. Bulls can only deal with one crisis at a time, not when it's hitting them both ways.
2. Start re-arranging his things.
3. Spray Paint his car, and let the air out of his tires.Before you do this, tape a knife to the steering wheel. Wipe off any fingerprints.
4. Be unpredictable. Unreliable.
5. Block him.
6. Send the children to the mistress' house when you know that he's over there.
7. Empty out his bank account.
8. Find the people in his immediate circle (family, friends, the people that are close to his heart) and think of creative ways to drop off his belongings. Leave one shoe at a sister's house, and leave the other pair at his mother's house, a pair of boxers with his local pastor...and the list could be endless.
9. Change the locks, and if he tries to jam it, call 911 to report an intruder.
10. Allow anything in his private life to become everyone's public business.
The interruption of everything will drive him insane.
Follow steps 1-10 and he will be begging for a divorce.
Bulls love to possess and sometimes control.
But take away their possessions, financial security and insanity...
..And you will have one weak soul on the verge of depression.
He's a fixed sign, and he's stubborn, don't be coy about scaring him off.
Mindf***ing him works way better than a restraining order.
Posted by LuckyLibra979
Simple. He doesn't respect you. Taurus is notorious for being flat out disrespectful.
awww, now see that is just not fair lol - not all Taurus are dickheads - ok so maybe the males are cause I don't have any experience with them but I'm a female and I'm not disrespectful unless you dis me first, then you better watch your entire a ss
Posted by LuckyLibra979hmmmmm, worth investigating I spose ...Posted by happyface1Rules my 8th. I see a different side than you. Just like I always see Capricorn emotional sidePosted by LuckyLibra979
Simple. He doesn't respect you. Taurus is notorious for being flat out disrespectful.
Haven't met any Taurus like that...interesting.
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Posted by estellajoneswait what ? you hand he have been together since 16 and she is an ex ? how does that compute please ?
If I speak to the female he's cheating on me with she's another Taurus and denies that they're even talking lol so I end up looking crazy, then she'll have a random outburst and tell me he doesn't love me and how much he loves her and then how much she hates us both. Apparently he told her he wants to keep me as his wife and have her on the side? It's disgusting. No respect at all. Me and him have been together since we were 16, never ever seen this side to him.
Do you think this will ever stop? Will she eventually let go? Clearly he can't see a future with her because why is he still not letting me go? I feel so trapped yet because I'm a Pisces I'm so loyal he's done me so dirty why do I feel like I can still forgive him even after we divorce and really seperate? I still feel like I would always want him to be "mine" somehow.
Posted by TaurusBull197711. Create an add on Craigslist in the 'men seeking men' section. Use your imagination. List his number and photo.
How to get a Taurus to leave you alone...
It's is simple.
But only if you want him to leave you alone.
1. Get him fired from his job. Then file for child and spousal support. Bulls can only deal with one crisis at a time, not when it's hitting them both ways.
2. Start re-arranging his things.
3. Spray Paint his car, and let the air out of his tires.Before you do this, tape a knife to the steering wheel. Wipe off any fingerprints.
4. Be unpredictable. Unreliable.
5. Block him.
6. Send the children to the mistress' house when you know that he's over there.
7. Empty out his bank account.
8. Find the people in his immediate circle (family, friends, the people that are close to his heart) and think of creative ways to drop off his belongings. Leave one shoe at a sister's house, and leave the other pair at his mother's house, a pair of boxers with his local pastor...and the list could be endless.
9. Change the locks, and if he tries to jam it, call 911 to report an intruder.
10. Allow anything in his private life to become everyone's public business.
The interruption of everything will drive him insane.
Follow steps 1-10 and he will be begging for a divorce.
Bulls love to possess and sometimes control.
But take away their possessions, financial security and insanity...
..And you will have one weak soul on the verge of depression.
He's a fixed sign, and he's stubborn, don't be coy about scaring him off.
Mindf***ing him works way better than a restraining order.
He'll be too busy taking calls from thirsty dudes he won't have time to call and harass you.
#12...Or Create ad on Craigslist in the 'women seeking women' section for the mistress. List her number and photo.
You asserted that the mistress is also a Taurus.
1. Get her fired from her job.
2. Look up Intellus, they will give you all the names and contact information of people who are closest to her. Contact them and inform her family members of what she's doing.
3. Allow anything in her private life to become everyone's public business.
Bulls can take in a lot...however they don't do DRAMA or CRAZY!
You asserted that the mistress is also a Taurus.
1. Get her fired from her job.
2. Look up Intellus, they will give you all the names and contact information of people who are closest to her. Contact them and inform her family members of what she's doing.
3. Allow anything in her private life to become everyone's public business.
Bulls can take in a lot...however they don't do DRAMA or CRAZY!
My mom's old Taurus coworkers played a voicemail of his Taurus wife begging for a divorce. I didn't know they hold on like that.
I'm the type that if I want out, I want OUT. You can have the money, house, cars etc. That would probably be right up a possessive guys alley too, but I wouldn't care. Keep all of it.
People like that want to fight or have something over your head.
I'm the type that if I want out, I want OUT. You can have the money, house, cars etc. That would probably be right up a possessive guys alley too, but I wouldn't care. Keep all of it.
People like that want to fight or have something over your head.
Posted by estellajonesLook in no way do I believe all men of one sign are like this. So when I say never again, I mean with my ex, not another Taurus.. But when things get that bad, it's time to go. My ex got physical and I thought the old foolish oh it won't happen again. He was just _____ (upset, drunk, angry..etc) But it got worse. Really bad. So just saying you need to find some family members or friends to go live with and then fight (lawyer up) for custody of your kids and home. And any time he is being physical call the cops. Make sure there's a paper trail. Do not feel sorry for him. He has no respect for you. Let him go.Posted by jane84Yeah he's crazy he's started to get physical a few times and I had caught him cheating it was in my face I saw messages and him coming out of her house. There's only so much a person can take before they lose their mind.Posted by estellajonesMy ex Taurus husband was like that. I literally caught him and he still wouldn't leave. He wouldn't change either. He was stubborn as hell about doing whatever he wanted. So I left. But I have lawyer friends who helped me get all that I needed. He actually got really physical with me though. Not all men are like that, but his temper was crazy when he didn't get his way.
My husband has been cheating on me with his ex for God knows how long now, and it seems to me that since I found out and forgave him the first time he doesn't give a f*** and has unfortunately taken it as a weakness, silly me.
I managed to get rid of him AGAIN, well that's what I thought anyway and I came home to a new door, he changed my locks and managed to lock me out of my home so I could ring him and get in. He's shown me a really crazy side, and it seems to me that whenever I show him I don't want him anymore he comes chasing? I can't deal with the lies and deceit and it's already bad enough we are married with kids he won't go through with a divorce or LEAVE?? I need help I feel trapped! He's never going to leave his ex alone and he for sure won't leave me alone he doesn't want me to ever move on .. It's like he wants the best of both worlds!?
Remember he's going to fight for all his possessions...get a good lawyer.
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Posted by SomeSortOfMermaidAgree. My ex actually told me; he NEVER expected me to actually get a lawyer and draw up the paperwork to get a divorce. Once he knew I was serious (called the cops and went with the paperwork, got in touch with police I knew, lawyers I knew etc.) he started to let go some. But geez was it a battle.
OP, I get that you're married and have kids, and understand that you've invested a lot in this guy.
It's one thing to cheat and be remorseful.
It's another to a) not only lack any sort of remorse, and b) actively continue his cheating.
As others said, he doesn't respect you. He doesn't think you're going to leave him either way. Don't you think that if he thought you had it in you to leave he'd actually stop cheating? Trying to "force" you to stay with him is just him trying to control the situation in which you will stay and he will continue having his way. He's not sincere, and he doesn't give a fuck about you or your feelings.
Girl you're a Scorpio moon. It's time you activate that damn moon of yours and kick his arse to the curb!
Posted by tctaExactly she initially told me that she was with him at 16 and how they broke up because he got with me, lol I was like b*tch abit too late to tell me now should have told me when we was 16. I think she's just trying to save herself from being labelled a "homewrecker" besides, she dated his brother afterPosted by estellajoneswait what ? you hand he have been together since 16 and she is an ex ? how does that compute please ?
If I speak to the female he's cheating on me with she's another Taurus and denies that they're even talking lol so I end up looking crazy, then she'll have a random outburst and tell me he doesn't love me and how much he loves her and then how much she hates us both. Apparently he told her he wants to keep me as his wife and have her on the side? It's disgusting. No respect at all. Me and him have been together since we were 16, never ever seen this side to him.
Do you think this will ever stop? Will she eventually let go? Clearly he can't see a future with her because why is he still not letting me go? I feel so trapped yet because I'm a Pisces I'm so loyal he's done me so dirty why do I feel like I can still forgive him even after we divorce and really seperate? I still feel like I would always want him to be "mine" somehow.click to expand
Posted by SomeSortOfMermaidHoly s*** you're speaking to my soul right now lol. I hear you, I feel so naive and dumb and "in love" I was so blind throughout our relationship so shocked to see his true colours after this long!
OP, I get that you're married and have kids, and understand that you've invested a lot in this guy.
It's one thing to cheat and be remorseful.
It's another to a) not only lack any sort of remorse, and b) actively continue his cheating.
As others said, he doesn't respect you. He doesn't think you're going to leave him either way. Don't you think that if he thought you had it in you to leave he'd actually stop cheating? Trying to "force" you to stay with him is just him trying to control the situation in which you will stay and he will continue having his way. He's not sincere, and he doesn't give a fuck about you or your feelings.
Girl you're a Scorpio moon. It's time you activate that damn moon of yours and kick his arse to the curb!
Posted by TaurusBull1977I had a lot of these thoughts in my head, especially to go to her parents house and tell them what a dirty sl** their "Muslim" virgin daughter really was lol
#12...Or Create ad on Craigslist in the 'women seeking women' section for the mistress. List her number and photo.
You asserted that the mistress is also a Taurus.
1. Get her fired from her job.
2. Look up Intellus, they will give you all the names and contact information of people who are closest to her. Contact them and inform her family members of what she's doing.
3. Allow anything in her private life to become everyone's public business.
Bulls can take in a lot...however they don't do DRAMA or CRAZY!
I feel like his mistress stalks me a lot, I remember before I found out he was cheating she would always be in the same sort of area I was in and whenever I saw her she would stare at me and give me dirty looks I didn't think anything of it at the time though. When my husband was away she got her friends to add me on social media and befriend me to find out if me and him were together and how our relationship was lol? So weird
Take it from someone that's been thru this. Don't say anything to her. Don't out her to her parents, she'll only play the victim role. Don't entertain her in any form.
As for him, go cold. Let his ass see how tired you are of his bullshit. Take care of those babies. Take care of yourself. Let him watch you do well from the sidelines.
I know It's easier said than done but momma, it's time to focus on you. Trust me when I say I had a cheating ass husband. This was the hardest shit ever but I left his ass completely alone. Going thru the divorce process now as we speak. Listen to what is being said in this thread. I got some real solid advice from them. Message me if you need to vent.
As for him, go cold. Let his ass see how tired you are of his bullshit. Take care of those babies. Take care of yourself. Let him watch you do well from the sidelines.
I know It's easier said than done but momma, it's time to focus on you. Trust me when I say I had a cheating ass husband. This was the hardest shit ever but I left his ass completely alone. Going thru the divorce process now as we speak. Listen to what is being said in this thread. I got some real solid advice from them. Message me if you need to vent.
As far as she goes, I bet she seems cocky too right? That's because he's giving her all the power. False sense of confidence. Take your power back.
Posted by mzmeeThank you so much I will definitely message you if I need to vent, I felt so alone at one stage I still do sometimes but it's good to know I'm not the only one who's been through this..
Take it from someone that's been thru this. Don't say anything to her. Don't out her to her parents, she'll only play the victim role. Don't entertain her in any form.
As for him, go cold. Let his ass see how tired you are of his bullshit. Take care of those babies. Take care of yourself. Let him watch you do well from the sidelines.
I know It's easier said than done but momma, it's time to focus on you. Trust me when I say I had a cheating ass husband. This was the hardest shit ever but I left his ass completely alone. Going thru the divorce process now as we speak. Listen to what is being said in this thread. I got some real solid advice from them. Message me if you need to vent.
Trying not to channel my anger all on her but I see her slowly giving up and having enough, she's lost so much weight and is starting to look really insecure now. Plus she mostly does the chasing lol he just calls her when he wants to have his **** sucked. I don't know how a woman can be a bootycall and have so much confidence? I think her friends give her confidence too, they tell her that he doesn't want me and he definitely wants her lol I don't even know why a girl is fighting me over my husband and we just had a baby a year ago, don't they have shame it's sad
And he's an insecure child he loves the drama and having two girls fight over him, he never gets females that's why lol
Posted by estellajonesShe's not giving up. Lol. Her ass is just stressed. They dont wanna let the enemy (wife) win. LolPosted by mzmeeThank you so much I will definitely message you if I need to vent, I felt so alone at one stage I still do sometimes but it's good to know I'm not the only one who's been through this..
Take it from someone that's been thru this. Don't say anything to her. Don't out her to her parents, she'll only play the victim role. Don't entertain her in any form.
As for him, go cold. Let his ass see how tired you are of his bullshit. Take care of those babies. Take care of yourself. Let him watch you do well from the sidelines.
I know It's easier said than done but momma, it's time to focus on you. Trust me when I say I had a cheating ass husband. This was the hardest shit ever but I left his ass completely alone. Going thru the divorce process now as we speak. Listen to what is being said in this thread. I got some real solid advice from them. Message me if you need to vent.
Trying not to channel my anger all on her but I see her slowly giving up and having enough, she's lost so much weight and is starting to look really insecure now. Plus she mostly does the chasing lol he just calls her when he wants to have his **** sucked. I don't know how a woman can be a bootycall and have so much confidence? I think her friends give her confidence too, they tell her that he doesn't want me and he definitely wants her lol I don't even know why a girl is fighting me over my husband and we just had a baby a year ago, don't they have shame it's sad
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My situation is almost the same. We had a baby a year ago. Now he's over there stressing her the hell out. Aaahh well. She tries to call here I dont answer dont want him. Let her ass have him and prove point to his ass. Put me last, feel my wrath first.
"I'm more than willing ready to give him to her lol."
^^^^ This is actually false^^^^^ Because......
"Do you think this will ever stop? Will she eventually let go? Clearly he can't see a future with her because why is he still not letting me go? I feel so trapped. I still feel like I would always want him to be "mine" somehow."
AND........
"Trying not to channel my anger all on her but I see her slowly giving up and having enough, he just calls her when he wants to have his **** sucked. I don't know how a woman can be a bootycall and have so much confidence?"
You aren't trapped and you don't need to wait for him to "let you go" when you're so obviously being disrespected. When someone is disrespecting you, making you look like a fool and putting your health at risk you don't wait on them to make a decision that's for the good of your personal well being because obviously he doesn't give a fuck. Basically you're holding out to "win" you aren't really trying to go anywhere.
Also this......
"And he's an insecure child he loves the drama and having two girls fight over him, he never gets females that's why lol"
You're giving him what he wants..... two girls fighting over him. And he never get's females? He has TWO currently.
^^^^ This is actually false^^^^^ Because......
"Do you think this will ever stop? Will she eventually let go? Clearly he can't see a future with her because why is he still not letting me go? I feel so trapped. I still feel like I would always want him to be "mine" somehow."
AND........
"Trying not to channel my anger all on her but I see her slowly giving up and having enough, he just calls her when he wants to have his **** sucked. I don't know how a woman can be a bootycall and have so much confidence?"
You aren't trapped and you don't need to wait for him to "let you go" when you're so obviously being disrespected. When someone is disrespecting you, making you look like a fool and putting your health at risk you don't wait on them to make a decision that's for the good of your personal well being because obviously he doesn't give a fuck. Basically you're holding out to "win" you aren't really trying to go anywhere.
Also this......
"And he's an insecure child he loves the drama and having two girls fight over him, he never gets females that's why lol"
You're giving him what he wants..... two girls fighting over him. And he never get's females? He has TWO currently.
Posted by estellajonesPosted by tctaExactly she initially told me that she was with him at 16 and how they broke up because he got with me, lol I was like b*tch abit too late to tell me now should have told me when we was 16. I think she's just trying to save herself from being labelled a "homewrecker" besides, she dated his brother afterPosted by estellajoneswait what ? you hand he have been together since 16 and she is an ex ? how does that compute please ?
If I speak to the female he's cheating on me with she's another Taurus and denies that they're even talking lol so I end up looking crazy, then she'll have a random outburst and tell me he doesn't love me and how much he loves her and then how much she hates us both. Apparently he told her he wants to keep me as his wife and have her on the side? It's disgusting. No respect at all. Me and him have been together since we were 16, never ever seen this side to him.
Do you think this will ever stop? Will she eventually let go? Clearly he can't see a future with her because why is he still not letting me go? I feel so trapped yet because I'm a Pisces I'm so loyal he's done me so dirty why do I feel like I can still forgive him even after we divorce and really seperate? I still feel like I would always want him to be "mine" somehow.
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well that is not good - too much drama and all in the family for me - in any case it must be difficult for you because you have been together for a long time - sorry and I don't know what to tell you other than to not give him any more or do anything for him - seek a lawyer and file for divorce and maybe a private detective for proof of infidelity for the divorce case and cease communications but don't leave the house - get a protective order if you have to keep him out of the house and away from you - maybe some other good suggestions above - I like the one where she was telling you how to mess up his life with so many things going on his head would spin - that would truly do a Taurus in - lol ...
Posted by RiverLeeI'm contradicting myself but don't we all do that when were hurt? We say we have had enough and that we don't care but question why we're in the situation even though we've stated that we don't care it's called being a human. I'm just having a rant to the girl doesn't necessarily mean anything.
"I'm more than willing ready to give him to her lol."
^^^^ This is actually false^^^^^ Because......
"Do you think this will ever stop? Will she eventually let go? Clearly he can't see a future with her because why is he still not letting me go? I feel so trapped. I still feel like I would always want him to be "mine" somehow."
AND........
"Trying not to channel my anger all on her but I see her slowly giving up and having enough, he just calls her when he wants to have his **** sucked. I don't know how a woman can be a bootycall and have so much confidence?"
You aren't trapped and you don't need to wait for him to "let you go" when you're so obviously being disrespected. When someone is disrespecting you, making you look like a fool and putting your health at risk you don't wait on them to make a decision that's for the good of your personal well being because obviously he doesn't give a fuck. Basically you're holding out to "win" you aren't really trying to go anywhere.
Also this......
"And he's an insecure child he loves the drama and having two girls fight over him, he never gets females that's why lol"
You're giving him what he wants..... two girls fighting over him. And he never get's females? He has TWO currently.
Posted by tctaI have left him and ignored his whole entire existence lol his mistress is rubbing her hands and feeling relieved that the situation is over and she's made a status saying "have I won?" LolPosted by estellajonesPosted by tctaExactly she initially told me that she was with him at 16 and how they broke up because he got with me, lol I was like b*tch abit too late to tell me now should have told me when we was 16. I think she's just trying to save herself from being labelled a "homewrecker" besides, she dated his brother afterPosted by estellajoneswait what ? you hand he have been together since 16 and she is an ex ? how does that compute please ?
If I speak to the female he's cheating on me with she's another Taurus and denies that they're even talking lol so I end up looking crazy, then she'll have a random outburst and tell me he doesn't love me and how much he loves her and then how much she hates us both. Apparently he told her he wants to keep me as his wife and have her on the side? It's disgusting. No respect at all. Me and him have been together since we were 16, never ever seen this side to him.
Do you think this will ever stop? Will she eventually let go? Clearly he can't see a future with her because why is he still not letting me go? I feel so trapped yet because I'm a Pisces I'm so loyal he's done me so dirty why do I feel like I can still forgive him even after we divorce and really seperate? I still feel like I would always want him to be "mine" somehow.
well that is not good - too much drama and all in the family for me - in any case it must be difficult for you because you have been together for a long time - sorry and I don't know what to tell you other than to not give him any more or do anything for him - seek a lawyer and file for divorce and maybe a private detective for proof of infidelity for the divorce case and cease communications but don't leave the house - get a protective order if you have to keep him out of the house and away from you - maybe some other good suggestions above - I like the one where she was telling you how to mess up his life with so many things going on his head would spin - that would truly do a Taurus in - lol ...
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If the prize is an aint shit dude is winning then ok. Lol.
Let her keep his cheating ass.
Let her keep his cheating ass.
Posted by AriesLady8Exactly, at first I told her that she wasn't an ex if she was with him at 16 lol but she insists that she is. It's just all a way of making herself sound innocent and not like a homewreckerPosted by estellajonesHow is she his ex if you 2 have been together since u were 16 and you're married and have kids—?
If I speak to the female he's cheating on me with she's another Taurus and denies that they're even talking lol so I end up looking crazy, then she'll have a random outburst and tell me he doesn't love me and how much he loves her and then how much she hates us both. Apparently he told her he wants to keep me as his wife and have her on the side? It's disgusting. No respect at all. Me and him have been together since we were 16, never ever seen this side to him.
Do you think this will ever stop? Will she eventually let go? Clearly he can't see a future with her because why is he still not letting me go? I feel so trapped yet because I'm a Pisces I'm so loyal he's done me so dirty why do I feel like I can still forgive him even after we divorce and really seperate? I still feel like I would always want him to be "mine" somehow.
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