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I was just reflecting on life and when I think about the girls that I really really like are over the top girly. Most women act like men now a days and is such a turn off so when I am around one that doesn't act like that its really exciting. I have mostly virgo in my chart and virgo is a fem sign so maybe because Im a man and I can't act on those fem energy I'm seeeking it out in women... Your thoughts.
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Yeah man I feel you. I like the girly girl types too. I have a feminine Venus sign so that might explain my reasoning for being turn on by over the top girly women.

could be.... mine is in virgo and my mars is in virgo I will say it is harder to get those women. For me it is two reasons I go to hard to fast with them because I really like them and they always have guys line up. If you notice you never hear girly girls say they have problem finding a man.
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Lol if you mean acting like they have agency and are sentient self reliant beings then I can’t help you.

I’ve found that the only real difference is that women who have more feminine personalities don’t dress feminine across the board and women who dress feminine have a wide variety of personalities.

So it’s really just a shot in the dark.

These wome dress and act it.... The men acting women only dress like women when they are hunting for a man or looking for attention... its attenion if I can see everything. The ones that act like that are not about nothing.
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Yeah man I feel you. I like the girly girl types too. I have a feminine Venus sign so that might explain my reasoning for being turn on by over the top girly women.

could be.... mine is in virgo and my mars is in virgo I will say it is harder to get those women. For me it is two reasons I go to hard to fast with them because I really like them and they always have guys line up. If you notice you never hear girly girls say they have problem finding a man.
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I'm shy so I can't go too hard and fast on them. Problem is I'm scared I might embarrass myself by looking bad so I let them come on to me instead. But if they come on too hard and fast chances are they gone get turned down.

I never actually say this except right here on this site. If me and the sag was to ever split up and go our separate ways, there's plenty women out there still waiting for me. They determine they ain't going nowhere. Taurus and Capricorn women too.
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Lol if you mean acting like they have agency and are sentient self reliant beings then I can’t help you.

I’ve found that the only real difference is that women who have more feminine personalities don’t dress feminine across the board and women who dress feminine have a wide variety of personalities.

So it’s really just a shot in the dark.

These wome dress and act it.... The men acting women only dress like women when they are hunting for a man or looking for attention... its attenion if I can see everything. The ones that act like that are not about nothing.

What is feminine in your mind?
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I would say classic hollwood to give you an idea... How women acted in the 50s To use an example marilyn monroe. I will say I only dated one women that acted like that and I still think about her still today. It could be because I have a fem moon and mars I don't know thats why im asking other guys what they like.
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Lol if you mean acting like they have agency and are sentient self reliant beings then I can’t help you.

I’ve found that the only real difference is that women who have more feminine personalities don’t dress feminine across the board and women who dress feminine have a wide variety of personalities.

So it’s really just a shot in the dark.

These wome dress and act it.... The men acting women only dress like women when they are hunting for a man or looking for attention... its attenion if I can see everything. The ones that act like that are not about nothing.

What is feminine in your mind?

I would say classic hollwood to give you an idea... How women acted in the 50s To use an example marilyn monroe. I will say I only dated one women that acted like that and I still think about her still today. It could be because I have a fem moon and mars I don't know thats why im asking other guys what they like.

What do you like about that? The vulnerability? The insecurity that led to suicide?
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Not her in real life just the charters she played in her movies. I think she acted more like a man in real life. Man being very aggrisive and sneaky.
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feminine

The female gender role. Not all of them are exactly like this, but most are.

It is, in a way, built to fit the male gender role, masculinity.

Feminine traits include but are not limited to: understanding, empathetic, sensitive, submissive, gentle, modest, willowy, and pretty.

Look at any female around you and observe how they act. They're feminine. Most females 14+ act like this.
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Lol if you mean acting like they have agency and are sentient self reliant beings then I can’t help you.

I’ve found that the only real difference is that women who have more feminine personalities don’t dress feminine across the board and women who dress feminine have a wide variety of personalities.

So it’s really just a shot in the dark.

These wome dress and act it.... The men acting women only dress like women when they are hunting for a man or looking for attention... its attenion if I can see everything. The ones that act like that are not about nothing.

What is feminine in your mind?

I would say classic hollwood to give you an idea... How women acted in the 50s To use an example marilyn monroe. I will say I only dated one women that acted like that and I still think about her still today. It could be because I have a fem moon and mars I don't know thats why im asking other guys what they like.

What do you like about that? The vulnerability? The insecurity that led to suicide?

Not her in real life just the charters she played in her movies. I think she acted more like a man in real life. Man being very aggrisive and sneaky.

Her characters in her movies were all giggly, over sexual, a girl in a woman's voluptuous body. I get the attraction, but I think Monroe was always putting on a show of what a man wants a woman to be. (I didn't make that up. Just read Debbie Harry say it. 🙂 ) And it was a lonely, unfulfilling existence.
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Lol if you mean acting like they have agency and are sentient self reliant beings then I can’t help you.

I’ve found that the only real difference is that women who have more feminine personalities don’t dress feminine across the board and women who dress feminine have a wide variety of personalities.

So it’s really just a shot in the dark.

These wome dress and act it.... The men acting women only dress like women when they are hunting for a man or looking for attention... its attenion if I can see everything. The ones that act like that are not about nothing.

What is feminine in your mind?

I would say classic hollwood to give you an idea... How women acted in the 50s To use an example marilyn monroe. I will say I only dated one women that acted like that and I still think about her still today. It could be because I have a fem moon and mars I don't know thats why im asking other guys what they like.

What do you like about that? The vulnerability? The insecurity that led to suicide?

Not her in real life just the charters she played in her movies. I think she acted more like a man in real life. Man being very aggrisive and sneaky.

Her characters in her movies were all giggly, over sexual, a girl in a woman's voluptuous body. I get the attraction, but I think Monroe was always putting on a show of what a man wants a woman to be. (I didn't make that up. Just read Debbie Harry say it. 🙂 ) And it was a lonely, unfulfilling existence.
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It was for her because she was a masculine women a women that is naturaly femmine don't feel this way. Its like this I hear women say that they like a masculine man he radiates this energy it is the same in reverse.
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Lol if you mean acting like they have agency and are sentient self reliant beings then I can’t help you.

I’ve found that the only real difference is that women who have more feminine personalities don’t dress feminine across the board and women who dress feminine have a wide variety of personalities.

So it’s really just a shot in the dark.

These wome dress and act it.... The men acting women only dress like women when they are hunting for a man or looking for attention... its attenion if I can see everything. The ones that act like that are not about nothing.

What is feminine in your mind?

I would say classic hollwood to give you an idea... How women acted in the 50s To use an example marilyn monroe. I will say I only dated one women that acted like that and I still think about her still today. It could be because I have a fem moon and mars I don't know thats why im asking other guys what they like.

What do you like about that? The vulnerability? The insecurity that led to suicide?

Not her in real life just the charters she played in her movies. I think she acted more like a man in real life. Man being very aggrisive and sneaky.

Her characters in her movies were all giggly, over sexual, a girl in a woman's voluptuous body. I get the attraction, but I think Monroe was always putting on a show of what a man wants a woman to be. (I didn't make that up. Just read Debbie Harry say it. 🙂 ) And it was a lonely, unfulfilling existence.

It was for her because she was a masculine women a women that is naturaly femmine don't feel this way. Its like this I hear women say that they like a masculine man he radiates this energy it is the same in reverse.

I heard that too. That was like her role in life but she didn’t like it.

I wouldn’t be able to be anything but feminine. It’s my energy more than the way I look. Other women don’t like it that much.

I only like very masculine men too.
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exactly if you don't mind what is your moon and mars sign and where you born at night.
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Lol if you mean acting like they have agency and are sentient self reliant beings then I can’t help you.

I’ve found that the only real difference is that women who have more feminine personalities don’t dress feminine across the board and women who dress feminine have a wide variety of personalities.

So it’s really just a shot in the dark.

These wome dress and act it.... The men acting women only dress like women when they are hunting for a man or looking for attention... its attenion if I can see everything. The ones that act like that are not about nothing.

What is feminine in your mind?

I would say classic hollwood to give you an idea... How women acted in the 50s To use an example marilyn monroe. I will say I only dated one women that acted like that and I still think about her still today. It could be because I have a fem moon and mars I don't know thats why im asking other guys what they like.

What do you like about that? The vulnerability? The insecurity that led to suicide?

Not her in real life just the charters she played in her movies. I think she acted more like a man in real life. Man being very aggrisive and sneaky.

Her characters in her movies were all giggly, over sexual, a girl in a woman's voluptuous body. I get the attraction, but I think Monroe was always putting on a show of what a man wants a woman to be. (I didn't make that up. Just read Debbie Harry say it. 🙂 ) And it was a lonely, unfulfilling existence.

It was for her because she was a masculine women a women that is naturaly femmine don't feel this way. Its like this I hear women say that they like a masculine man he radiates this energy it is the same in reverse.

Yeah. I don't get that. Women can say they're into masculine energy, but guys can't say they're into feminine energy and not get shit for it? Weird.
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I think its western culture its pushing women to act more like men and trying to make men like them. It just doesn't work I hear women say that they will only submit to a masculine man and that is fine. But at the same time a man will only want to marry a femmine women.
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Cause youre a little ass?

OP I feel you, I also knew people would give you shit, as soon as I read the title. I like feminine woman more than masculine woman as partners yes.

My assiness is part of it, sure.

I'm pretty feminine myself in terms of looks, mannerisms, and the energy I give off. I will speak my mind and insist on doing things for myself, though. And I can drive a commercial van.
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And why do you feel the need to tell me that? Its beside the point. A guy said, meh I like feminine woman. Dat is it.

This the man cave, be so kind and check your projections,chips at your shoulders and triggers at the door.
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Lol if you mean acting like they have agency and are sentient self reliant beings then I can’t help you.

I’ve found that the only real difference is that women who have more feminine personalities don’t dress feminine across the board and women who dress feminine have a wide variety of personalities.

So it’s really just a shot in the dark.

These wome dress and act it.... The men acting women only dress like women when they are hunting for a man or looking for attention... its attenion if I can see everything. The ones that act like that are not about nothing.

What is feminine in your mind?

I would say classic hollwood to give you an idea... How women acted in the 50s To use an example marilyn monroe. I will say I only dated one women that acted like that and I still think about her still today. It could be because I have a fem moon and mars I don't know thats why im asking other guys what they like.

What do you like about that? The vulnerability? The insecurity that led to suicide?

Not her in real life just the charters she played in her movies. I think she acted more like a man in real life. Man being very aggrisive and sneaky.

Her characters in her movies were all giggly, over sexual, a girl in a woman's voluptuous body. I get the attraction, but I think Monroe was always putting on a show of what a man wants a woman to be. (I didn't make that up. Just read Debbie Harry say it. 🙂 ) And it was a lonely, unfulfilling existence.

It was for her because she was a masculine women a women that is naturaly femmine don't feel this way. Its like this I hear women say that they like a masculine man he radiates this energy it is the same in reverse.

Yeah. I don't get that. Women can say they're into masculine energy, but guys can't say they're into feminine energy and not get shit for it? Weird.

I think its western culture its pushing women to act more like men and trying to make men like them. It just doesn't work I hear women say that they will only submit to a masculine man and that is fine. But at the same time a man will only want to marry a femmine women.

You just argued that Marilyn was a masculine woman who felt pressured to do the opposite. What if women aren't really like this, and "feminine" is just a societal construct?

Because it mostly is.
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I think this societal construct is a bunch of bs and a over simplification. This is DNA deep these traits are desire in all cultures. Even people living in amzon look for these traits in women as women look for masculine traits in men.
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Lol if you mean acting like they have agency and are sentient self reliant beings then I can’t help you.

I’ve found that the only real difference is that women who have more feminine personalities don’t dress feminine across the board and women who dress feminine have a wide variety of personalities.

So it’s really just a shot in the dark.

These wome dress and act it.... The men acting women only dress like women when they are hunting for a man or looking for attention... its attenion if I can see everything. The ones that act like that are not about nothing.

What is feminine in your mind?

I would say classic hollwood to give you an idea... How women acted in the 50s To use an example marilyn monroe. I will say I only dated one women that acted like that and I still think about her still today. It could be because I have a fem moon and mars I don't know thats why im asking other guys what they like.

What do you like about that? The vulnerability? The insecurity that led to suicide?

Not her in real life just the charters she played in her movies. I think she acted more like a man in real life. Man being very aggrisive and sneaky.

Her characters in her movies were all giggly, over sexual, a girl in a woman's voluptuous body. I get the attraction, but I think Monroe was always putting on a show of what a man wants a woman to be. (I didn't make that up. Just read Debbie Harry say it. 🙂 ) And it was a lonely, unfulfilling existence.

It was for her because she was a masculine women a women that is naturaly femmine don't feel this way. Its like this I hear women say that they like a masculine man he radiates this energy it is the same in reverse.

Yeah. I don't get that. Women can say they're into masculine energy, but guys can't say they're into feminine energy and not get shit for it? Weird.

I think its western culture its pushing women to act more like men and trying to make men like them. It just doesn't work I hear women say that they will only submit to a masculine man and that is fine. But at the same time a man will only want to marry a femmine women.

Well, I disagree with you on that last point. Wholeheartedly. Simple reason. It's all a matter of personal preference.You may only want to marry a feminine woman; that's fine. And yeah, there are many who do; that's fine too. But best not to get into generalizations.

I wasn't talking about the societal influence, tbh. I don't really care about any of that lol. No matter what "society" says or whatnot, I'm a supporter of "you do you, I do me". I was talking more about the courtesy of accepting other people's choices for what they are. They don't have to agree with it or like it. But just accept that people differ in what they like. So, yeah, don't care about western culture blah blah blah.
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I hear whats your saying and there are men that have more fem energy that are attracted to women that have masculine energy even astrology tells us this. But the problem is a lot of women that have masculine energy don't like men that have fem energy which is her match. Why do you think mgtow is a thing not all of them act fem. But alot those guys that got hurt REALLY badly was the fem in the relastionship.
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Cause youre a little ass?

OP I feel you, I also knew people would give you shit, as soon as I read the title. I like feminine woman more than masculine woman as partners yes.

My assiness is part of it, sure.

I'm pretty feminine myself in terms of looks, mannerisms, and the energy I give off. I will speak my mind and insist on doing things for myself, though. And I can drive a commercial van.

And why do you feel the need to tell me that? Its beside the point. A guy said, meh I like feminine woman. Dat is it.

This the man cave, be so kind and check your projections,chips at your shoulders and triggers at the door.

Because "feminine" is not defined, so what the fuck is he even saying?
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Please go back to the first page and read the definition of feminine I posted from the Webster, please. And take your feminine back to the powder room because we masculine men don't need your feminism here.
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we women are discovering ourselves in new roles and enjoying the expansion of our personalities and mind...I am sorry but men in search of a perfect housewife in my opinion are annoying spoiled brats who want to be taken care of. I would never be happy behind the scenes, making dinner for hubby, giving him a peck on the cheek and asking for my money allowance. I don't need to be vined and dined, looking all pretty and blinking. I love working and making money, I enjoy kendo, I love to drive. I am not masculine. When you hear my voice and see me I am like a little girl in a woman's body but I don't give a fuck about it...God that masculine woman bit annoys me...because we are not dolls in a man's world. we create it too.

I doubt any of the women on this site who consider themselves feminine have the goal of being homemakers. Maybe I'm wrong. So, that's really what I was trying to figure out. Is that why he means by "over the top feminine"? Does he just mean someone really giggly who always wears dresses and heels (another thing I'm sure most of the women here who call themselves feminine don't always do)? I'm still not sure.
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"over the top feminine"? Does he just mean someone really giggly who always wears dresses and heels" this... yes I would call that over the top girly. I say the 50s because it seem like every girl acted like that in that time.
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Cause youre a little ass?

OP I feel you, I also knew people would give you shit, as soon as I read the title. I like feminine woman more than masculine woman as partners yes.

My assiness is part of it, sure.

I'm pretty feminine myself in terms of looks, mannerisms, and the energy I give off. I will speak my mind and insist on doing things for myself, though. And I can drive a commercial van.

And why do you feel the need to tell me that? Its beside the point. A guy said, meh I like feminine woman. Dat is it.

This the man cave, be so kind and check your projections,chips at your shoulders and triggers at the door.

Because "feminine" is not defined, so what the fuck is he even saying?

Please go back to the first page and read the definition of feminine I posted from the Webster, please. And take your feminine back to the powder room because we masculine men don't need your feminism here.

Since when are you masculine? Aren't you usually saying that people won't stop staring because you have a pretty, girly face?
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I got way more masculine than feminine in my chart. I only look pretty because Venus is my overall chart ruler. I have recently notice the stares has dyed down now b/c now I have facial hair. So miss smarty pants, do I still sound pretty to you?
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I dress feminine and act somewhat feminine but have a mindset of a man. I wonder where that puts me in the scope of dealing with men.

you wouldn't be over the top girly... yousound about like an average women to me.
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Oh ok. I'm not big on throwing fits, crying, whining, and being super dramatic, if that's what you mean by "Over the top".
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I think I might have more masculine energy than feminine (it definitely shows in my personality and chart). But at first sight I give off a feminine aura (maybe my Scorpio rising) with my hip long wavy hair, dresses and heels. I think I'm a pretty good balance of both energies. Girls with over the top feminine energy who like squealing, giggling, gossiping, and being dramatic like teenage girls and shit are plain creepy and are only that, girls, not women. But there are feminine looking women who are soft spoken and are quick to comply (they don't mind not thinking for themselves), the feminist movement killed most of them. That's why some people go overseas to bring home a wife lol
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I dress feminine and act somewhat feminine but have a mindset of a man. I wonder where that puts me in the scope of dealing with men.

you wouldn't be over the top girly... yousound about like an average women to me.

Oh ok. I'm not big on throwing fits, crying, whining, and being super dramatic, if that's what you mean by "Over the top".
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i only do that over the phone where he doesn't get to see me lol
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I dress feminine and act somewhat feminine but have a mindset of a man. I wonder where that puts me in the scope of dealing with men.

you wouldn't be over the top girly... yousound about like an average women to me.

Oh ok. I'm not big on throwing fits, crying, whining, and being super dramatic, if that's what you mean by "Over the top".

i only do that over the phone where he doesn't get to see me lol
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lol

I cry in person, but usually it's just when I'm hurt, but I'm not dramatic, I just want it fixed. I usually cry when they withhold love or affection from me, because it's confusing and I don't know why someone would do this, if I'm giving them all my affection.

When I'm mad, I either tell you what I think of the situation or ignore you. lol It still doesn't have any dramatic appeal.

I hate coming off needy and clingy.

I do better with my foot halfway out the door and one in their ass! 😆
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P.S. I bet you'd like Cancer risings. They can be more shy than bubbly, but they usually have a pleasant softness to them that I think of as "feminine". I just wouldn't expect any contemporary woman to be truly like a 50s archetype. That era is gone.

Hey you get us

I have a lot of great Cancer rising women in my life, my mom, favorite cousin, and two of my best friends. They all have that characteristic. They're all so caring and thoughtful, but also strong.
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Aw. What's your rising?
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I dress feminine and act somewhat feminine but have a mindset of a man. I wonder where that puts me in the scope of dealing with men.

you wouldn't be over the top girly... yousound about like an average women to me.

Oh ok. I'm not big on throwing fits, crying, whining, and being super dramatic, if that's what you mean by "Over the top".

i only do that over the phone where he doesn't get to see me lol

lol

I cry in person, but usually it's just when I'm hurt, but I'm not dramatic, I just want it fixed. I usually cry when they withhold love or affection from me, because it's confusing and I don't know why someone would do this, if I'm giving them all my affection.

When I'm mad, I either tell you what I think of the situation or ignore you. lol It still doesn't have any dramatic appeal.

I hate coming off needy and clingy.

I do better with my foot halfway out the door and one in their ass! 😆
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when i do that though, i'm about to leave you

coz i can't be around someone i just completely lost my shit on
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I dress feminine and act somewhat feminine but have a mindset of a man. I wonder where that puts me in the scope of dealing with men.

you wouldn't be over the top girly... yousound about like an average women to me.

Oh ok. I'm not big on throwing fits, crying, whining, and being super dramatic, if that's what you mean by "Over the top".

i only do that over the phone where he doesn't get to see me lol

lol

I cry in person, but usually it's just when I'm hurt, but I'm not dramatic, I just want it fixed. I usually cry when they withhold love or affection from me, because it's confusing and I don't know why someone would do this, if I'm giving them all my affection.

When I'm mad, I either tell you what I think of the situation or ignore you. lol It still doesn't have any dramatic appeal.

I hate coming off needy and clingy.

I do better with my foot halfway out the door and one in their ass! 😆

when i do that though, i'm about to leave you

coz i can't be around someone i just completely lost my shit on
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lol This is when they try and comfort you though.
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Feminine energy will always counter your masculine energy. ALWAYS. People got this fucked up idea about what feminine energy is these days too, y'all can see that just by reading this thread. Fuck I'm not even gonna try to define it here, but it's reall and every women got it in spades, even the one who seems like she don't. She does, she just built up defences to protect it or she buried it deep down where the corrupt world couldn't get at it.

Thats my whole point thank you.
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Feminine energy will always counter your masculine energy. ALWAYS. People got this fucked up idea about what feminine energy is these days too, y'all can see that just by reading this thread. Fuck I'm not even gonna try to define it here, but it's reall and every women got it in spades, even the one who seems like she don't. She does, she just built up defences to protect it or she buried it deep down where the corrupt world couldn't get at it.


I don't hide my feminine parts. I learned that they don't really help me in everyday life situations unless I'm using them to manipulate and get what I want.

I do like men in touch with their emotions, I don't know why people say Virgos are feminine, I don't see it at all. If someone can let me know that my outfit would look better with certain clothing, or give me tips on nutrition or work outs, I would appreciate it.

Do people saying Virgos are feminine because they pay attention to detail?

Cause so far I've been around 2 Virgo men and I don't see them as feminine, just cause they like being clean and know how to cook. All men should be this way.
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P.S. Didn't notice I was in the man cave. *waves*

Cause youre a little ass?

OP I feel you, I also knew people would give you shit, as soon as I read the title. I like feminine woman more than masculine woman as partners yes.

My assiness is part of it, sure.

I'm pretty feminine myself in terms of looks, mannerisms, and the energy I give off. I will speak my mind and insist on doing things for myself, though. And I can drive a commercial van.

And why do you feel the need to tell me that? Its beside the point. A guy said, meh I like feminine woman. Dat is it.

This the man cave, be so kind and check your projections,chips at your shoulders and triggers at the door.

Because "feminine" is not defined, so what the fuck is he even saying?
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Oh it is, I think the males know or have a feel for what feminine vs manly means. There is no confusion here on that point. And I sense that a concrete definition would lead into a emotionally charged gender discussion, open another thread for that.
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Feminine energy will always counter your masculine energy. ALWAYS. People got this fucked up idea about what feminine energy is these days too, y'all can see that just by reading this thread. Fuck I'm not even gonna try to define it here, but it's reall and every women got it in spades, even the one who seems like she don't. She does, she just built up defences to protect it or she buried it deep down where the corrupt world couldn't get at it.

I don't hide my feminine parts. I learned that they don't really help me in everyday life situations unless I'm using them to manipulate and get what I want.

I do like men in touch with their emotions, I don't know why people say Virgos are feminine, I don't see it at all. If someone can let me know that my outfit would look better with certain clothing, or give me tips on nutrition or work outs, I would appreciate it.

Do people saying Virgos are feminine because they pay attention to detail?

Cause so far I've been around 2 Virgo men and I don't see them as feminine, just cause they like being clean and know how to cook. All men should be this way.
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I don't know ether
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Lol if you mean acting like they have agency and are sentient self reliant beings then I can’t help you.

I’ve found that the only real difference is that women who have more feminine personalities don’t dress feminine across the board and women who dress feminine have a wide variety of personalities.

So it’s really just a shot in the dark.

These wome dress and act it.... The men acting women only dress like women when they are hunting for a man or looking for attention... its attenion if I can see everything. The ones that act like that are not about nothing.

What is feminine in your mind?

I would say classic hollwood to give you an idea... How women acted in the 50s To use an example marilyn monroe. I will say I only dated one women that acted like that and I still think about her still today. It could be because I have a fem moon and mars I don't know thats why im asking other guys what they like.

What do you like about that? The vulnerability? The insecurity that led to suicide?

Not her in real life just the charters she played in her movies. I think she acted more like a man in real life. Man being very aggrisive and sneaky.

Her characters in her movies were all giggly, over sexual, a girl in a woman's voluptuous body. I get the attraction, but I think Monroe was always putting on a show of what a man wants a woman to be. (I didn't make that up. Just read Debbie Harry say it. 🙂 ) And it was a lonely, unfulfilling existence.

It was for her because she was a masculine women a women that is naturaly femmine don't feel this way. Its like this I hear women say that they like a masculine man he radiates this energy it is the same in reverse.

I heard that too. That was like her role in life but she didn’t like it.

I wouldn’t be able to be anything but feminine. It’s my energy more than the way I look. Other women don’t like it that much.

I only like very masculine men too.
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Ditto. I have had some woman be openly hostile towards me due to it. It’s absurd. I’m super feminine, always have been even with my masculine chart.
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Feminine energy will always counter your masculine energy. ALWAYS. People got this fucked up idea about what feminine energy is these days too, y'all can see that just by reading this thread. Fuck I'm not even gonna try to define it here, but it's reall and every women got it in spades, even the one who seems like she don't. She does, she just built up defences to protect it or she buried it deep down where the corrupt world couldn't get at it.

I don't hide my feminine parts. I learned that they don't really help me in everyday life situations unless I'm using them to manipulate and get what I want.

I do like men in touch with their emotions, I don't know why people say Virgos are feminine, I don't see it at all. If someone can let me know that my outfit would look better with certain clothing, or give me tips on nutrition or work outs, I would appreciate it.

Do people saying Virgos are feminine because they pay attention to detail?

Cause so far I've been around 2 Virgo men and I don't see them as feminine, just cause they like being clean and know how to cook. All men should be this way.

I don't know ether
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But you've admitted to it being a feminine sign with the men.

What does that mean for the men? I find Virgo men to be attentive, protective, and like gentlemen for the most part- pulling out chairs, making sure your not cold, making sure you've eaten-who can cook, clean and have great listening skills. I like that I can talk openly about anything with one.

What's the feminine part?

Does it come out later, after you get to know them a while?

I see you Virgo men hide your emotions- NOT a feminine thing

The only thing I find feminine is the manipulative parts, but since I'm able to call them out on it, it hasn't been much of an issue.

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Feminine energy will always counter your masculine energy. ALWAYS. People got this fucked up idea about what feminine energy is these days too, y'all can see that just by reading this thread. Fuck I'm not even gonna try to define it here, but it's reall and every women got it in spades, even the one who seems like she don't. She does, she just built up defences to protect it or she buried it deep down where the corrupt world couldn't get at it.

I don't hide my feminine parts. I learned that they don't really help me in everyday life situations unless I'm using them to manipulate and get what I want.

I do like men in touch with their emotions, I don't know why people say Virgos are feminine, I don't see it at all. If someone can let me know that my outfit would look better with certain clothing, or give me tips on nutrition or work outs, I would appreciate it.

Do people saying Virgos are feminine because they pay attention to detail?

Cause so far I've been around 2 Virgo men and I don't see them as feminine, just cause they like being clean and know how to cook. All men should be this way.

I don't know ether

But you've admitted to it being a feminine sign with the men.

What does that mean for the men? I find Virgo men to be attentive, protective, and like gentlemen for the most part- pulling out chairs, making sure your not cold, making sure you've eaten-who can cook, clean and have great listening skills. I like that I can talk openly about anything with one.

What's the feminine part?

Does it come out later, after you get to know them a while?

I see you Virgo men hide your emotions- NOT a feminine thing

The only thing I find feminine is the manipulative parts, but since I'm able to call them out on it, it hasn't been much of an issue.
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I have no idea I have never been called femmine the sign is repersented by a women but for the life of me I can't tell you why. But astrology wise fem is a sign that get energy by it self aka introverts and extrovert sign are consider masculine in astrology.
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Feminine energy will always counter your masculine energy. ALWAYS. People got this fucked up idea about what feminine energy is these days too, y'all can see that just by reading this thread. Fuck I'm not even gonna try to define it here, but it's reall and every women got it in spades, even the one who seems like she don't. She does, she just built up defences to protect it or she buried it deep down where the corrupt world couldn't get at it.

I don't hide my feminine parts. I learned that they don't really help me in everyday life situations unless I'm using them to manipulate and get what I want.

I do like men in touch with their emotions, I don't know why people say Virgos are feminine, I don't see it at all. If someone can let me know that my outfit would look better with certain clothing, or give me tips on nutrition or work outs, I would appreciate it.

Do people saying Virgos are feminine because they pay attention to detail?

Cause so far I've been around 2 Virgo men and I don't see them as feminine, just cause they like being clean and know how to cook. All men should be this way.

I don't know ether

But you've admitted to it being a feminine sign with the men.

What does that mean for the men? I find Virgo men to be attentive, protective, and like gentlemen for the most part- pulling out chairs, making sure your not cold, making sure you've eaten-who can cook, clean and have great listening skills. I like that I can talk openly about anything with one.

What's the feminine part?

Does it come out later, after you get to know them a while?

I see you Virgo men hide your emotions- NOT a feminine thing

The only thing I find feminine is the manipulative parts, but since I'm able to call them out on it, it hasn't been much of an issue.

I have no idea I have never been called femmine the sign is repersented by a women but for the life of me I can't tell you why. But astrology wise fem is a sign that get energy by it self aka introverts and extrovert sign are consider masculine in astrology.
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Oh ok

So my question will remain unanswered 😐

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Feminine energy will always counter your masculine energy. ALWAYS. People got this fucked up idea about what feminine energy is these days too, y'all can see that just by reading this thread. Fuck I'm not even gonna try to define it here, but it's reall and every women got it in spades, even the one who seems like she don't. She does, she just built up defences to protect it or she buried it deep down where the corrupt world couldn't get at it.

I don't hide my feminine parts. I learned that they don't really help me in everyday life situations unless I'm using them to manipulate and get what I want.

I do like men in touch with their emotions, I don't know why people say Virgos are feminine, I don't see it at all. If someone can let me know that my outfit would look better with certain clothing, or give me tips on nutrition or work outs, I would appreciate it.

Do people saying Virgos are feminine because they pay attention to detail?

Cause so far I've been around 2 Virgo men and I don't see them as feminine, just cause they like being clean and know how to cook. All men should be this way.

I don't know ether

But you've admitted to it being a feminine sign with the men.

What does that mean for the men? I find Virgo men to be attentive, protective, and like gentlemen for the most part- pulling out chairs, making sure your not cold, making sure you've eaten-who can cook, clean and have great listening skills. I like that I can talk openly about anything with one.

What's the feminine part?

Does it come out later, after you get to know them a while?

I see you Virgo men hide your emotions- NOT a feminine thing

The only thing I find feminine is the manipulative parts, but since I'm able to call them out on it, it hasn't been much of an issue.
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wish i can meet a virgo guy with a more interesting personality than my driver

he makes sure to bring an umbrella in case i need it though

i'm so curious about dating another virgo coz they seem doting and attentive
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Posted by SlipperySlope

Feminine energy will always counter your masculine energy. ALWAYS. People got this fucked up idea about what feminine energy is these days too, y'all can see that just by reading this thread. Fuck I'm not even gonna try to define it here, but it's reall and every women got it in spades, even the one who seems like she don't. She does, she just built up defences to protect it or she buried it deep down where the corrupt world couldn't get at it.

I don't hide my feminine parts. I learned that they don't really help me in everyday life situations unless I'm using them to manipulate and get what I want.

I do like men in touch with their emotions, I don't know why people say Virgos are feminine, I don't see it at all. If someone can let me know that my outfit would look better with certain clothing, or give me tips on nutrition or work outs, I would appreciate it.

Do people saying Virgos are feminine because they pay attention to detail?

Cause so far I've been around 2 Virgo men and I don't see them as feminine, just cause they like being clean and know how to cook. All men should be this way.

I don't know ether

But you've admitted to it being a feminine sign with the men.

What does that mean for the men? I find Virgo men to be attentive, protective, and like gentlemen for the most part- pulling out chairs, making sure your not cold, making sure you've eaten-who can cook, clean and have great listening skills. I like that I can talk openly about anything with one.

What's the feminine part?

Does it come out later, after you get to know them a while?

I see you Virgo men hide your emotions- NOT a feminine thing

The only thing I find feminine is the manipulative parts, but since I'm able to call them out on it, it hasn't been much of an issue.

wish i can meet a virgo guy with a more interesting personality than my driver

he makes sure to bring an umbrella in case i need it though

i'm so curious about dating another virgo coz they seem doting and attentive
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They are doting and attentive, and independent but I actually like men that are a little boring and into routine, who can have good conversations at the end of the night when we are laying in bed together. I prefer this style of catching up, then texting all day.

They are hard workers from what I see as well. I like that a lot, that they are ambitious and keep striving for perfection in whatever skill they have. That it bothers them if things aren't working out the way they planned and they find solutions to try and fix it. It can mess them up, but they will still start all over again and try something differently.

I just don't understand the mind games they do to get answers, instead of just being direct.
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Feminine energy will always counter your masculine energy. ALWAYS. People got this fucked up idea about what feminine energy is these days too, y'all can see that just by reading this thread. Fuck I'm not even gonna try to define it here, but it's reall and every women got it in spades, even the one who seems like she don't. She does, she just built up defences to protect it or she buried it deep down where the corrupt world couldn't get at it.

I don't hide my feminine parts. I learned that they don't really help me in everyday life situations unless I'm using them to manipulate and get what I want.

I do like men in touch with their emotions, I don't know why people say Virgos are feminine, I don't see it at all. If someone can let me know that my outfit would look better with certain clothing, or give me tips on nutrition or work outs, I would appreciate it.

Do people saying Virgos are feminine because they pay attention to detail?

Cause so far I've been around 2 Virgo men and I don't see them as feminine, just cause they like being clean and know how to cook. All men should be this way.

I don't know ether

But you've admitted to it being a feminine sign with the men.

What does that mean for the men? I find Virgo men to be attentive, protective, and like gentlemen for the most part- pulling out chairs, making sure your not cold, making sure you've eaten-who can cook, clean and have great listening skills. I like that I can talk openly about anything with one.

What's the feminine part?

Does it come out later, after you get to know them a while?

I see you Virgo men hide your emotions- NOT a feminine thing

The only thing I find feminine is the manipulative parts, but since I'm able to call them out on it, it hasn't been much of an issue.

wish i can meet a virgo guy with a more interesting personality than my driver

he makes sure to bring an umbrella in case i need it though

i'm so curious about dating another virgo coz they seem doting and attentive

They are doting and attentive, and independent but I actually like men that are a little boring and into routine, who can have good conversations at the end of the night when we are laying in bed together. I prefer this style of catching up, then texting all day.

They are hard workers from what I see as well. I like that a lot, that they are ambitious and keep striving for perfection in whatever skill they have. That it bothers them if things aren't working out the way they planned and they find solutions to try and fix it. It can mess them up, but they will still start all over again and try something differently.

I just don't understand the mind games they do to get answers, instead of just being direct.
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like i've said, virgos are very insecure so they always need some type of assurance

but i like the way i love/my love language so i can see myself with another virgo sun or placement now that i think about it... at least i'd feel secured and would get a feel for where i stand with them
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