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Posted by Lioness18881He sounds petty lol
Yeah. I didn't want to have sex one time so after that he said we're not having sex anymore because i didn't want to and he was being a jerk. But we did the next time we saw each other anyway. It was like revenge withholding.

Posted by Lioness18881Sounds like something a Scorpio would do 😢
Yeah. I didn't want to have sex one time so after that he said we're not having sex anymore because i didn't want to and he was being a jerk. But we did the next time we saw each other anyway. It was like revenge withholding.


Posted by MyStarsShineLOL it could be a fair enough decline but lol at 20 you would hope he had a little bit of stamina
I only got denied after doing it most of the day and me in my needines, demanding more, more, more....the poor guy said "I'm not a machine"
Shame on me
He was in his 20s
Haha.....

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies😈Posted by Lioness18881
Yeah. I didn't want to have sex one time so after that he said we're not having sex anymore because i didn't want to and he was being a jerk. But we did the next time we saw each other anyway. It was like revenge withholding.
Sounds like something a Scorpio would do
At least you got it in the end click to expandclick to expand

Posted by Lioness18881LOL you may have a pointPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesScorpio men can't withhold sex lol.Posted by Lioness18881
Yeah. I didn't want to have sex one time so after that he said we're not having sex anymore because i didn't want to and he was being a jerk. But we did the next time we saw each other anyway. It was like revenge withholding.
Sounds like something a Scorpio would do
At least you got it in the end click to expand
Yeah I'd pribably lose my shit if he didn't. I have a sex temper 😂 click to expandclick to expand

Posted by Lioness18881Aries mars?Posted by MyStarsShineAqua with a petty mars lol click to expandPosted by Lioness18881
Yeah. I didn't want to have sex one time so after that he said we're not having sex anymore because i didn't want to and he was being a jerk. But we did the next time we saw each other anyway. It was like revenge withholding.
He sounds petty lol
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Posted by Lioness18881For the first time in my life and I don't know how to feel about that.
Did someone say no to you?

Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesBut to be fair.....I am full on..or was lolPosted by MyStarsShine
I only got denied after doing it most of the day and me in my needines, demanding more, more, more....the poor guy said "I'm not a machine"
Shame on me
He was in his 20s
Haha.....
LOL it could be a fair enough decline but lol at 20 you would hope he had a little bit of stamina click to expandclick to expand

Posted by Lioness18881Oh right...is that the one that is the mechanic, living with mother?Posted by MyStarsShinePisces click to expandPosted by Lioness18881Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Lioness18881
Yeah. I didn't want to have sex one time so after that he said we're not having sex anymore because i didn't want to and he was being a jerk. But we did the next time we saw each other anyway. It was like revenge withholding.
He sounds petty lol
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Aqua with a petty mars lol click to expand
Aries mars? click to expandclick to expand

Posted by MyStarsShinedid you not allow for food breaks and toilet breaks in between sessions lol?Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by MyStarsShine
I only got denied after doing it most of the day and me in my needines, demanding more, more, more....the poor guy said "I'm not a machine"
Shame on me
He was in his 20s
Haha.....
LOL it could be a fair enough decline but lol at 20 you would hope he had a little bit of stamina click to expand
But to be fair.....I am full on..or was lol
I mean, it was ridiculous of me
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Posted by Lioness18881SLOW, SLOW and stuck in my way Taurus mars 😢 Maybe I should just show up naked with strawberries and cream on my boobs. But he is Aries Sun and Moon. Aries never say no. Never everPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Lioness18881
Did someone say no to you?
For the first time in my life and I don't know how to feel about that.
I said I want to fuck and right of the bat got two excuses back. I guess it was not a direct no. But a no none the less.
FFS
No one says no to sex surely. click to expand
🤔 what's his mars? You might need to change your approach click to expandclick to expand

Posted by Lioness18881No to meeting up this evening. It was not a no so to speak, more a case of waiting for the weekend.Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Lioness18881Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Lioness18881
Did someone say no to you?
For the first time in my life and I don't know how to feel about that.
I said I want to fuck and right of the bat got two excuses back. I guess it was not a direct no. But a no none the less.
FFS
No one says no to sex surely. click to expand
🤔 what's his mars? You might need to change your approach click to expand
SLOW, SLOW and stuck in my way Taurus mars Maybe I should just show up naked with strawberries and cream on my boobs. But he is Aries Sun and Moon. Aries never say no. Never ever click to expand
lol. Yeah cover yourself in food. I have Aries moon and rising. My moods change really fast and then back again just as fast. What was his excuse? Like were you with him and he said no, or did he say no to meeting up? click to expandclick to expand

Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesJust about, lolPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by MyStarsShine
I only got denied after doing it most of the day and me in my needines, demanding more, more, more....the poor guy said "I'm not a machine"
Shame on me
He was in his 20s
Haha.....
LOL it could be a fair enough decline but lol at 20 you would hope he had a little bit of stamina click to expand
But to be fair.....I am full on..or was lol
I mean, it was ridiculous of me
Healed now
😇😇😇😇 click to expand
did you not allow for food breaks and toilet breaks in between sessions lol? click to expandclick to expand

Posted by MyStarsShinelol. why run a mile when you can run a marathon.Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by MyStarsShine
I only got denied after doing it most of the day and me in my needines, demanding more, more, more....the poor guy said "I'm not a machine"
Shame on me
He was in his 20s
Haha.....
LOL it could be a fair enough decline but lol at 20 you would hope he had a little bit of stamina click to expand
But to be fair.....I am full on..or was lol
I mean, it was ridiculous of me
Healed now
😇😇😇😇 click to expand
did you not allow for food breaks and toilet breaks in between sessions lol? click to expand
Just about, lol
We were Aries and Scorpio...he Scorpio dominant, a once in a lifetime experience so made the most of it for almost 5 years!!
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Posted by Arielle83Really?
Yep.
Watched porn and got the vibe out

Posted by Arielle83Yeah I have that same attitude about someone saying no to me. Not about sex per se as this is a first. But I don't really grasp the word NO (in certain circumstances of course). LOLPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Arielle83
Yep.
Watched porn and got the vibe out
Really?
I cant even make it into 10 min if I watch porn with a guy lol. I never see the endings
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This is for me.
No guy needs to be there.
I don’t ask twice if a guy says no. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by Arielle83But he will sleep like a baby after sex. And sex takes away stress and tensionPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Lioness18881
Did someone say no to you?
For the first time in my life and I don't know how to feel about that.
I said I want to treetrunk and right of the bat got two excuses back. I guess it was not a direct no. But a no none the less.
FFS
No one says no to sex surely. click to expand
Yes if they work hard, are tired or stressed. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by UnicornSagDo you think its possible for any man to say no to any woman. As a general question and also as a couple in a relationship.
Well not really...I mean he can try sometimes if I was the one to deny first to get revenge lol but we still end up doing it lol

Posted by Superman77Yes, now you got me thinking......
Can’t think of a reason a man would say no, unless he got off sometime within the day.

Posted by Arielle83very fair pointPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Arielle83Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Lioness18881
Did someone say no to you?
For the first time in my life and I don't know how to feel about that.
I said I want to treetrunk and right of the bat got two excuses back. I guess it was not a direct no. But a no none the less.
FFS
No one says no to sex surely. click to expand
Yes if they work hard, are tired or stressed. click to expand
But he will sleep like a baby after sex. And sex takes away stress and tension
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Yes, but men tend to focus on what’s weighing on them. Not the outcome click to expandclick to expand

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies👍🍆😈🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻😊Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by MyStarsShine
I only got denied after doing it most of the day and me in my needines, demanding more, more, more....the poor guy said "I'm not a machine"
Shame on me
He was in his 20s
Haha.....
LOL it could be a fair enough decline but lol at 20 you would hope he had a little bit of stamina click to expand
But to be fair.....I am full on..or was lol
I mean, it was ridiculous of me
Healed now
😇😇😇😇 click to expand
did you not allow for food breaks and toilet breaks in between sessions lol? click to expand
Just about, lol
We were Aries and Scorpio...he Scorpio dominant, a once in a lifetime experience so made the most of it for almost 5 years!!
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lol. why run a mile when you can run a marathon.
Good going! click to expandclick to expand

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Has a man ever said no to you wanting sex?
How has it made you feel if he has declined and what reason did he give you for saying no?
Posted by Lioness18881lol then u dont know scorpio ;pPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesScorpio men can't withhold sex lol.Posted by Lioness18881
Yeah. I didn't want to have sex one time so after that he said we're not having sex anymore because i didn't want to and he was being a jerk. But we did the next time we saw each other anyway. It was like revenge withholding.
Sounds like something a Scorpio would do
At least you got it in the end click to expand
Yeah I'd pribably lose my butter if he didn't. I have a sex temper 😂 click to expandclick to expand

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
No one says no to sex surely.
Posted by Lala1393the revenge thing in relationships can be too much xdPosted by lisabethur8Posted by Lioness18881Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Lioness18881
Yeah. I didn't want to have sex one time so after that he said we're not having sex anymore because i didn't want to and he was being a jerk. But we did the next time we saw each other anyway. It was like revenge withholding.
Sounds like something a Scorpio would do
At least you got it in the end click to expand
Scorpio men can't withhold sex lol.
Yeah I'd pribably lose my butter if he didn't. I have a sex temper 😂 click to expand
lol then u dont know scorpio ;p
https://www.elsaelsa.com/astrology/scorpio-men-withhold-sex/ click to expand
That's what I'M saying. My scorp ex used to revenge tease his bit.chy exes or groupies ALL the time. And show them just how satisfied he was with me.
If I ever made the mistake of doing somethimg wrong, he would use sex to punish me in some way shape or form. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by enfant_terribleHow do you feel if a woman denies you sex?Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
No one says no to sex surely.
You mean no GUY says no to sex. We should always be available and ready to perform for you, right?
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Posted by PhoenixRisingSo most of the cases when you get a no seems to be revenge sex withholding. At least from 90% of the replies here.Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesYeah. I upset him and he was using it as a way to manipulate some degree of control. I felt horny lol. I couldn't feel much else since I knew it wouldn't last long and he was being irrational and needed some space to realize that.
Has a man ever said no to you wanting sex?
How has it made you feel if he has declined and what reason did he give you for saying no?
I noticed from the men I've dated air men tend to react to anger this way. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by Lala1393Yeah I think most are SO and not just random one night stands or random sexPosted by enfant_terriblePosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
No one says no to sex surely.
You mean no GUY says no to sex. We should always be available and ready to perform for you, right?
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To be honest I found this rethoric as shocking and gross as when men think women should be DTF all the time. It's rather degrading to men.
As women, we expect to be treated as ladies and not just "holes" and if WE refuse sex and the guy insists we attribute rapey, terrible "worst scum of the earth" values to him, yet some of the ladies posting here seem to EXPECT men to perform and serve them sexually at ALL times....
Sounds a little dodgy, selfish and almost rapey.
I hope they're joking. 😊
I'm not takimg it too seriously. I think they're talking about their SOs. Not just random men. click to expandclick to expand


Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by enfant_terriblePosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
No one says no to sex surely.
You mean no GUY says no to sex. We should always be available and ready to perform for you, right?
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How do you feel if a woman denies you sex? click to expandclick to expandclick to expandclick to expandclick to expandclick to expand

Posted by UnicornSagPosted by enfant_terrible
More guys should say no so many men out there treetrunking with no one behind the engine just bc they think as men, they are suppose to be willing at all times no matter what butter goes on in their life or how they feel.
well that's not actually woman's wrong impression, it's how majority of men actually are. And I'm talking from experience, not my own assumption cause they did have some pretty f..ed up situations and they were still all up for it🤷 click to expandclick to expandclick to expandclick to expandclick to expand

Posted by enfant_terriblePosted by UnicornSagPosted by enfant_terrible
More guys should say no so many men out there treetrunking with no one behind the engine just bc they think as men, they are suppose to be willing at all times no matter what butter goes on in their life or how they feel.
well that's not actually woman's wrong impression, it's how majority of men actually are. And I'm talking from experience, not my own assumption cause they did have some pretty f..ed up situations and they were still all up for it🤷 click to expandclick to expandclick to expandclick to expand
Yes, the majority of men not in a long-term relationship. If Im single, carefree and horny and feel like treetrunk treetrunk treetrunking the night away, clearly you're going to find me at some club with all the other tools. It's not however representative of how often I need it and when or why I don't.
And yes, many men do compensate a lack of libido or whatever by compulsively engaging in sex talk with others just to feel normal or included. Take the red pill. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by Lioness18881my capricorn parts can withhold just like a scorpio. or maybe because i'm pluto dom/8th house.Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Lioness18881Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Lioness18881
Yeah. I didn't want to have sex one time so after that he said we're not having sex anymore because i didn't want to and he was being a jerk. But we did the next time we saw each other anyway. It was like revenge withholding.
Sounds like something a Scorpio would do
At least you got it in the end click to expand
Scorpio men can't withhold sex lol.
Yeah I'd pribably lose my butter if he didn't. I have a sex temper 😂 click to expand
lol then u dont know scorpio ;p
https://www.elsaelsa.com/astrology/scorpio-men-withhold-sex/ click to expand
I have mars square pluto so it's always been intense and magnetic when it comes to sex with scorpio so i can't imagine them having the self control for withholding. Aqua on the other hand, i have no power in that domain. click to expandclick to expand


Posted by Lioness18881Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Lioness18881
Yeah. I didn't want to have sex one time so after that he said we're not having sex anymore because i didn't want to and he was being a jerk. But we did the next time we saw each other anyway. It was like revenge withholding.
Sounds like something a Scorpio would do
At least you got it in the end click to expand
Scorpio men can't withhold sex lol.
Yeah I'd pribably lose my shit if he didn't. I have a sex temper 😂 click to expandclick to expandclick to expand

Posted by tizianiJust curious. I have never been told no. I feel rejected lol.Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by UnicornSag
Well not really...I mean he can try sometimes if I was the one to deny first to get revenge lol but we still end up doing it lol
Do you think its possible for any man to say no to any woman. As a general question and also as a couple in a relationship.
I mean how often would a man say no? click to expand
Damn what kind of question is this
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Posted by enfant_terribleDo you mean to be denied?Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by enfant_terriblePosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
No one says no to sex surely.
You mean no GUY says no to sex. We should always be available and ready to perform for you, right?
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How do you feel if a woman denies you sex? click to expandclick to expandclick to expandclick to expandclick to expand
Like we're playing the parts we were indoctrinated to play. I'd much rather be denied than be the one to deny.. cuz then this thread happens and I have a lot of explaining to do, as a man.
Lol you really have no clue about what it's like on the other side, do you?
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Posted by Lioness18881FFS you see. I also have mars square pluto and Sun conjuct pluto. Sex and someone saying no, I just dont understand.Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Lioness18881Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Lioness18881
Yeah. I didn't want to have sex one time so after that he said we're not having sex anymore because i didn't want to and he was being a jerk. But we did the next time we saw each other anyway. It was like revenge withholding.
Sounds like something a Scorpio would do
At least you got it in the end click to expand
Scorpio men can't withhold sex lol.
Yeah I'd pribably lose my butter if he didn't. I have a sex temper 😂 click to expand
lol then u dont know scorpio ;p
https://www.elsaelsa.com/astrology/scorpio-men-withhold-sex/ click to expand
I have mars square pluto so it's always been intense and magnetic when it comes to sex with scorpio so i can't imagine them having the self control for withholding. Aqua on the other hand, i have no power in that domain. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by onedayTHAT!!!! I always trust my intuition. Always
Yeah sag ex
After awhile he started saying no.
I was butthurt because I felt something was up. To be fair I wanted sex too much lol but...
What do you know, intuition is always right
He was seeing escorts.

Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by PhoenixRisingPosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Has a man ever said no to you wanting sex?
How has it made you feel if he has declined and what reason did he give you for saying no?
Yeah. I upset him and he was using it as a way to manipulate some degree of control. I felt horny lol. I couldn't feel much else since I knew it wouldn't last long and he was being irrational and needed some space to realize that.
I noticed from the men I've dated air men tend to react to anger this way. click to expand
So most of the cases when you get a no seems to be revenge sex withholding. At least from 90% of the replies here.
Hmm, I suppose I should give the Aries the benefit of the doubt as his excuses were nothing related to revenge with holding.
Sigh. I just cant shake the feeling though that there is more to this.click to expand

Posted by PhoenixRisingYou are correct. the context is very different. Thanks for your replyPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesI have no idea what that means and my moon is acting funky so I'm not about the explore by reading through this thread. I will simply point out that drawing a poll on DXP probably won't give you the answers you want. Your Ram may simply be tired or have a lot on his mind. Little monster may need some tlc because it got caught up in a zipper, who knows. Whatever it may be, in each case on this thread I am sure there is context that don't apply to your case. Just a thought.Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Has a man ever said no to you wanting sex?
How has it made you feel if he has declined and what reason did he give you for saying no?
Yeah. I upset him and he was using it as a way to manipulate some degree of control. I felt horny lol. I couldn't feel much else since I knew it wouldn't last long and he was being irrational and needed some space to realize that.
I noticed from the men I've dated air men tend to react to anger this way. click to expand
So most of the cases when you get a no seems to be revenge sex withholding. At least from 90% of the replies here.
Hmm, I suppose I should give the Aries the benefit of the doubt as his excuses were nothing related to revenge with holding.
Sigh. I just cant shake the feeling though that there is more to this.
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Posted by heliumfiascoI hate my virgo venus 😢
I get really pissed off. But I read that is a Virgo Venus/Mars thing.

Posted by MyStarsShineToo bad he couldn't rise to the occasion.
I only got denied after doing it most of the day and me in my needines, demanding more, more, more....the poor guy said "I'm not a machine"
Shame on me
He was in his 20s
Haha.....


Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesI was with an Aries that said no - obviously he is a thing of the past - he had a social anxiety disorder and didn't like it when I was aggressive, he wanted to be the one to control that - he was very strangePosted by Lioness18881Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Lioness18881
Did someone say no to you?
For the first time in my life and I don't know how to feel about that.
I said I want to treetrunk and right of the bat got two excuses back. I guess it was not a direct no. But a no none the less.
FFS
No one says no to sex surely. click to expand
🤔 what's his mars? You might need to change your approach click to expand
SLOW, SLOW and stuck in my way Taurus mars Maybe I should just show up naked with strawberries and cream on my boobs. But he is Aries Sun and Moon. Aries never say no. Never everclick to expand
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How has it made you feel if he has declined and what reason did he give you for saying no?