@lisabethur8
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- has a job
- helps with housework
- doesn't sleep around
- remembers your birthday
- can always find the clitoris
You know that's all most of you really want...
Posted by lisabethur8
for cigarettes and it's about MONEY.this wouldn't happen if you both had money.
You are so low it's sickening. I have told you soo many times, and you refuse to listen. I don't even have to tell you such details about my personal life, but I have cause you don't seem to understand and you still have it wrong.
I am sooo sorry that my boyfriend and I don't have tons of money. Is that what you want to hear?
Now you want to try and make me feel badly cause I don't make enough money? SMHclick to expand
what the hell?
do you realize how HYPOCRITICAL you are?
you said it don't matter what job a man has,
yet you complain about you man not providing for cigarettes.
and PUT ME DOWN for being with a man who provides.
it's how YOU put HIM down.
if you didn't care, because having INCOME and ENOUGH money to provide even for HOBBIES or HABITS like cigarettes (which aren't cheap)
then you putting him down and also I've seen you said shit about him too, in other topics.
how can a man live with a woman that PUTS him down??
that will emasculate him.
do u get any alimony from your first marriage?
nope. none. everything we acquired he took it all. maybe for one item which was given back to him. I didn't want anything of his.
do u get any alimony from your first marriage?
nope. none. everything we acquired he took it all. maybe for one item which was given back to him. I didn't want anything of his.
Is that something you just say so people don't look at you like you're weak?
You know there are women who do that. People don't change.
no i'm being honest. I didn't take anything.
and if I did, so what??
I have 12th house/pisces, everything is mostly LOSS to me.
so even my ex's after that, they took everything. Even when I worked, I GAVE my paycheck. I didn't always have it easy.
do u get any alimony from your first marriage?
nope. none. everything we acquired he took it all. maybe for one item which was given back to him. I didn't want anything of his.
He could take it all??
damn
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lol no, I didn't want anything.
then i'd have ties with him.
everything me and my man have, is all new or given from family. like antique furniture.
do u get any alimony from your first marriage?
nope. none. everything we acquired he took it all. maybe for one item which was given back to him. I didn't want anything of his.
Is that something you just say so people don't look at you like you're weak?
You know there are women who do that. People don't change.
no i'm being honest. I didn't take anything.
and if I did, so what??
I have 12th house/pisces, everything is mostly LOSS to me.
so even my ex's after that, they took everything. Even when I worked, I GAVE my paycheck. I didn't always have it easy.
Yeah but women do that all the time.
I mean it's ok to admit it. You're not the only woman out there who leaches off of their man after a failed marriage.
People don't change.
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well my first marriage, he was a drug addict/alcoholic.
no people don't change.
and i'm kind of tired. lol my man is gonna come home and I have to go cook dinner.
Posted by dominoes
@lisabethur8Hey, you're in a tough spot right now and the gang has come to feast off you. Just don't respond to them. They're beginning to show their sociopath side now.
She brought this on herself. We answered her question and she decided to make low blows becasue we did not agree with her..
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*Smh*
why can't you just see that you put your guy down?
it's EMASCULATING.
dammit, if you were dating my brother or cousin or someone dear to me, I would NOT like you at all.
cause all you do is put the guy you're with DOWN.
if you don't like it, then get the fuck out of the relationship.
Posted by dominoes
@lisabethur8Hey, you're in a tough spot right now and the gang has come to feast off you. Just don't respond to them. They're beginning to show their sociopath side now.
are you talking about Alicia??
i'm confused.
Posted by dominoes
@lisabethur8Hey, you're in a tough spot right now and the gang has come to feast off you. Just don't respond to them. They're beginning to show their sociopath side now.
She brought this on herself. We answered her question and she decided to make low blows becasue we did not agree with her..
*Smh*
why can't you just see that you put your guy down?
it's EMASCULATING.
Your entire thread is emasculating to men who are not high of status. I did not put my fella down.. I vented when we had no money and it was all on me. Am I the only one to have ever done that? I don't see how I emasculated him.. and this was last fkn year!! Like for serious? And I don't know why you even care!!?
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no it's NOT. it's just asking what type of profession would you like your man to be in? or what you are attracted to.
it's not my fault you got all upset over the LACK of funds your man has, or that you have to emasculate him.
Posted by Quantum
- has a job- helps with housework
- doesn't sleep around
- remembers your birthday
- can always find the clitoris
You know that's all most of you really want...
exactly.
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Bonus points if he can do that even in the absence of shaving/bikini waxing!
Posted by lisabethur8
dammit, if you were dating my brother or cousin or someone dear to me, I would NOT like you at all.cause all you do is put the guy you're with DOWN.
if you don't like it, then get the fuck out of the relationship.
You're insane.. Please do not tell me what to do in my own relationship.. I am fine in my relationship so but the fuck out.
I don't know why you can't let go of the fact that I vented about how we were struggling financially... Last god damn year! And act like it's still an issue for us.. Like you know anything about my relationship at all.
Just earlier in this thread you were saying that my fella is lucky that I am an alpha female and take care of him.. Now I'm a toxic mess who doesn't deserve him.. ? Like wtf..
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you called him a liar in other topics and say shit about him. When I see that I think, jeeez. why do you do that and tell other people online about how he is, instead of confronting the issues with him??
Posted by lisabethur8
dammit, if you were dating my brother or cousin or someone dear to me, I would NOT like you at all.cause all you do is put the guy you're with DOWN.
if you don't like it, then get the fuck out of the relationship.
You're insane.. Please do not tell me what to do in my own relationship.. I am fine in my relationship so but the fuck out.
I don't know why you can't let go of the fact that I vented about how we were struggling financially... Last god damn year! And act like it's still an issue for us.. Like you know anything about my relationship at all.
Just earlier in this thread you were saying that my fella is lucky that I am an alpha female and take care of him.. Now I'm a toxic mess who doesn't deserve him.. ? Like wtf..
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he's NOT lucky if you put him down.
it's like the things you do, by supporting him and being with him is good,
but you put him down.
is that even necessary—
that's why I said it's very emasculating.
Posted by lisabethur8
i'm glad I brought this up, because it is what women think and want out of a man...so you see how women are—
career women will NEVER marry down.
I'm career orientated :S... marrying down?
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actually my husband's cousin married down.
but she doesn't mind it, but she never puts her husband down for it.
she only vented once to relatives that he stayed in school too long, over 10 years.
maybe to APPEASE the others, but after that, it was ok.
she has similar placements to you.
and when I say married down. she is the breadwinner, and he makes little money but takes care of the children. that's cool. he does a lot.
Posted by lisabethur8
dammit, if you were dating my brother or cousin or someone dear to me, I would NOT like you at all.cause all you do is put the guy you're with DOWN.
if you don't like it, then get the fuck out of the relationship.
You're insane.. Please do not tell me what to do in my own relationship.. I am fine in my relationship so but the fuck out.
I don't know why you can't let go of the fact that I vented about how we were struggling financially... Last god damn year! And act like it's still an issue for us.. Like you know anything about my relationship at all.
Just earlier in this thread you were saying that my fella is lucky that I am an alpha female and take care of him.. Now I'm a toxic mess who doesn't deserve him.. ? Like wtf..
you called him a liar in other topics and say shit about him. When I see that I think, jeeez. why do you do that and tell other people online about how he is, instead of confronting the issues with him??
You really think I have never confronted him? Everything you guys hear, he has as well. I am very open in my relationship about how I feel or any issues that arise. Not that I should have to explain this to you again..
See you need to stop making judgments about people online.. You know absolutely NOTHING!
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ok ok.
fine. now you understand why I don't like what I don't like. you have to put yourself in his shoes. how horrible that is.
especially if he was disabled and couldn't work. It's even MORE emasculating.
Posted by Arielle83
I just had 3 shots of George Dickel Tennessee Sour mash, a bucket, and a 1/4 teaspoon of nutmeg.its 124am
I'm out.
cooking and poured a glass of wine.
lol
you all are awesome btw. good and bad. 😛
Posted by lisabethur8
dammit, if you were dating my brother or cousin or someone dear to me, I would NOT like you at all.cause all you do is put the guy you're with DOWN.
if you don't like it, then get the fuck out of the relationship.
You're insane.. Please do not tell me what to do in my own relationship.. I am fine in my relationship so but the fuck out.
I don't know why you can't let go of the fact that I vented about how we were struggling financially... Last god damn year! And act like it's still an issue for us.. Like you know anything about my relationship at all.
Just earlier in this thread you were saying that my fella is lucky that I am an alpha female and take care of him.. Now I'm a toxic mess who doesn't deserve him.. ? Like wtf..
you called him a liar in other topics and say shit about him. When I see that I think, jeeez. why do you do that and tell other people online about how he is, instead of confronting the issues with him??
You really think I have never confronted him? Everything you guys hear, he has as well. I am very open in my relationship about how I feel or any issues that arise. Not that I should have to explain this to you again..
See you need to stop making judgments about people online.. You know absolutely NOTHING!
ok ok.
fine. now you understand why I don't like what I don't like. you have to put yourself in his shoes. how horrible that is.
especially if he was disabled and couldn't work. It's even MORE emasculating.
How about you just stop acting like you know anything about my relationship... okay.
You have little to no information and if you actually knew anything about my relationship.. you'd be singing a completely different tune.click to expand
doesn't hurt to just point it out and get it all out. purge a bit.
and I believe it's HARD, especially with a disabled guy. One of my sister's friend, (true story!!!) had taken care of a disabled guy in a wheelchair
they were together for 3 years, until he got into a car accident. they loved eachother a lot. Then, later, he became EMBITTERED, cruel and hard to live with and she lasted with him for a year takin care of him, but he was always MEAN to her. and Depressing.
she left him and now she's happy.
him? don't know. probably still bitter.
it's hard to live with someone who is going to tear you down and has been taking care of you and all that person does is be cruel. like bite the hand that feeds you/takes care of you.
Posted by whatthecrab
As for where I live, @dxpnet has my IP address, it reads EUROPE BABYYYY and tbh it isn't a big deal to be living here really.
Your attacks seem to be a pattern with every women you think is pretty on here..Have fun taking jabs at me and assume things about me without knowing me. Because Im done with chuuu.
I read this part of the post in Irate Black Man's voice
I wish I owned a carbine so I could smoke some people's ass 😢
feckin Europe man
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are you sure you're European— cause Europeans don't talk like that. they are against guns.
the people who killed those durng the Paris Attacks were ISIS, from what I remember. Europeans didn't have any guns to defend themselves or attack back. they just don't carry them or believe in that kind of living. the way Americans/U.S. does. I don't know about South Americans, though.
Posted by gengbenghiskhan
I don't care moneywise about what my husband does for work, or if he wants to be a stay at home dad, that'd be great too.but anything dangerous...no. I couldn't continue living if my husband died, & some jobs are way too risky or unhealthy for him to expose his body to for long (like physical labor or coal mining, etc).
I'd rather he be comfortable and safe in an office job making $ 30k/yr than do a risky job for $ 200k/yr.
thankfully he feels the same way, so I don't even need to do any convincing. he wants to be a stay at home dad when we have a kid, and I think that will be a wonderful idea.
some ambitious peeps would look down on that but I commend you for wanting that.
it is SAFER. and those men who go out to the military and die for their country, you don't know if you'll see them again.
Posted by WarAngel1
After reading this thread, as a man I think it's a train wreck, and you are all nuts! This being the internet, that's saying something. :/
lol
it was fun.
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*shrug*
well then, keep getting pissed off at your man for not having money for his cigarettes.
that would be HELL for him being with you. YUCK.