'The Ick' (Page 2)

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Posted by Mare-E-Sole
There’s a long list when it concerns hygiene.

But I’ll just mention a couple that I actually experienced with guys I was going out with and stopped liking because of my icks:

Taurus - inviting me for lunch and mentioned several times how lucky I was because he never paid for anyone.

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OMG… those two pics having me DYING HERE 😂🤣😂🤣👏👏👏👏👏

Did you just put yourself in my shoes?!? Those two faces could not be more accurate as to what my internal reaction was at that moment…lol 😅👌👌click to expand

Giiirl, did I ever!? I don't think i was left a choice but to respond as viscerally 😁

I feel I'd be remiss if I didn't clarify that I, myself, am very frugal to the point I turned it into an artform & likewise, have great deal of appreciation for those who share similar approach. Frugal & cheap, however, are worlds apart but that's not what really got to me. It's the multifaceted manipulation stench that's oozing from that statement. It's crude at best but mostly vulgar. Like...Boi plz!

*insert Barbie stank face once again* 😁

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Posted by Argus

Posted by Mare-E-Sole

Posted by Argus

Posted by Mare-E-Sole
There’s a long list when it concerns hygiene.

But I’ll just mention a couple that I actually experienced with guys I was going out with and stopped liking because of my icks:

Taurus - inviting me for lunch and mentioned several times how lucky I was because he never paid for anyone.

click to expand

OMG… those two pics having me DYING HERE 😂🤣😂🤣👏👏👏👏👏

Did you just put yourself in my shoes?!? Those two faces could not be more accurate as to what my internal reaction was at that moment…lol 😅👌👌click to expand

Giiirl, did I ever!? I don't think i was left a choice but to respond as viscerally 😁

I feel I'd be remiss if I didn't clarify that I, myself, am very frugal to the point I turned it into an artform & likewise, have great deal of appreciation for those who share similar approach. Frugal & cheap, however, are worlds apart but that's not what really got to me. It's the multifaceted manipulation stench that's oozing from that statement. It's crude at best but mostly vulgar. Like...Boi plz!

*insert Barbie stank face once again* 😁click to expand

YES… that’s how it felt. He invited me, I offered to pay, he refused… I was super thankful and he was pushy about taking me to that specific restaurant. So, I was literally just flowing with him and being grateful and thankful. I even said the next one was in me!!

So… him bringing it up felt like he was trying to get more credit than was given. Or like he was forcing me to understand how special this act was to him?!? But it took away from my experience by him doing that. Like he didn’t trust me level of appreciation. I don’t like that…

He also mentioned it to a mutual Virgo friend, so on campus she came and told me and also said “yeah he told me and he normally doesn’t invite anyone” 🫤. So, I didn’t like the pressure of some unknown payback😥?!?

And… I like saving money. I am understanding of being tight sometimes. But, that wasn’t what he said… it just made me feel like this invite only comes on rare occasions and that wasn’t very appealing either. I also like letting loose and celebrating life once in a while.

Anyway, he is Polish so, I wondered if it was a language barrier or cultural difference… I don’t know 🤪. He and I are still friends, he’s a great guitar player and at parties he likes for me to dance Flamemco while he plays the guitar.

He has other qualities that I still very much appreciate 😅🫶.

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Posted by Mare-E-Sole

Posted by Argus

Posted by Mare-E-Sole

Posted by Argus

Posted by Mare-E-Sole
There’s a long list when it concerns hygiene.

But I’ll just mention a couple that I actually experienced with guys I was going out with and stopped liking because of my icks:

Taurus - inviting me for lunch and mentioned several times how lucky I was because he never paid for anyone.

click to expand

OMG… those two pics having me DYING HERE 😂🤣😂🤣👏👏👏👏👏

Did you just put yourself in my shoes?!? Those two faces could not be more accurate as to what my internal reaction was at that moment…lol 😅👌👌click to expand

Giiirl, did I ever!? I don't think i was left a choice but to respond as viscerally 😁

I feel I'd be remiss if I didn't clarify that I, myself, am very frugal to the point I turned it into an artform & likewise, have great deal of appreciation for those who share similar approach. Frugal & cheap, however, are worlds apart but that's not what really got to me. It's the multifaceted manipulation stench that's oozing from that statement. It's crude at best but mostly vulgar. Like...Boi plz!

*insert Barbie stank face once again* 😁click to expand

YES… that’s how it felt. He invited me, I offered to pay, he refused… I was super thankful and he was pushy about taking me to that specific restaurant. So, I was literally just flowing with him and being grateful and thankful. I even said the next one was in me!!

So… him bringing it up felt like he was trying to get more credit than was given. Or like he was forcing me to understand how special this act was to him?!? But it took away from my experience by him doing that. Like he didn’t trust me level of appreciation. I don’t like that…

He also mentioned it to a mutual Virgo friend, so on campus she came and told me and also said “yeah he told me and he normally doesn’t invite anyone” 🫤. So, I didn’t like the pressure of some unknown payback😥?!?

And… I like saving money. I am understanding of being tight sometimes. But, that wasn’t what he said… it just made me feel like this invite only comes on rare occasions and that wasn’t very appealing either. I also like letting loose and celebrating life once in a while.

Anyway, he is Polish so, I wondered if it was a language barrier or cultural difference… I don’t know 🤪. He and I are still friends, he’s a great guitar player and at parties he likes for me to dance Flamemco while he plays the guitar.

He has other qualities that I still very much appreciate 😅🫶.click to expand

You back mare i cant believe it

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Posted by Mare-E-Sole

Posted by Argus

Posted by Mare-E-Sole

Posted by Argus

Posted by Mare-E-Sole
There’s a long list when it concerns hygiene.

But I’ll just mention a couple that I actually experienced with guys I was going out with and stopped liking because of my icks:

Taurus - inviting me for lunch and mentioned several times how lucky I was because he never paid for anyone.

click to expand

OMG… those two pics having me DYING HERE 😂🤣😂🤣👏👏👏👏👏

Did you just put yourself in my shoes?!? Those two faces could not be more accurate as to what my internal reaction was at that moment…lol 😅👌👌click to expand

Giiirl, did I ever!? I don't think i was left a choice but to respond as viscerally 😁

I feel I'd be remiss if I didn't clarify that I, myself, am very frugal to the point I turned it into an artform & likewise, have great deal of appreciation for those who share similar approach. Frugal & cheap, however, are worlds apart but that's not what really got to me. It's the multifaceted manipulation stench that's oozing from that statement. It's crude at best but mostly vulgar. Like...Boi plz!

*insert Barbie stank face once again* 😁click to expand

YES… that’s how it felt. He invited me, I offered to pay, he refused… I was super thankful and he was pushy about taking me to that specific restaurant. So, I was literally just flowing with him and being grateful and thankful. I even said the next one was in me!!

So… him bringing it up felt like he was trying to get more credit than was given. Or like he was forcing me to understand how special this act was to him?!? But it took away from my experience by him doing that. Like he didn’t trust me level of appreciation. I don’t like that…

He also mentioned it to a mutual Virgo friend, so on campus she came and told me and also said “yeah he told me and he normally doesn’t invite anyone” 🫤. So, I didn’t like the pressure of some unknown payback😥?!?

And… I like saving money. I am understanding of being tight sometimes. But, that wasn’t what he said… it just made me feel like this invite only comes on rare occasions and that wasn’t very appealing either. I also like letting loose and celebrating life once in a while.

Anyway, he is Polish so, I wondered if it was a language barrier or cultural difference… I don’t know 🤪. He and I are still friends, he’s a great guitar player and at parties he likes for me to dance Flamemco while he plays the guitar.

He has other qualities that I still very much appreciate 😅🫶.click to expand

You back mare i cant believe itclick to expand

Yes, believe it …. I remember you 🤗!! Tudo bem ?!?

I’m happy to see you are still here too, this place is shockingly inactive.

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Posted by Mare-E-Sole

Posted by StardustRevolut10n

Posted by Mare-E-Sole

Posted by Argus

Posted by Mare-E-Sole

Posted by Argus

Posted by Mare-E-Sole
There’s a long list when it concerns hygiene.

But I’ll just mention a couple that I actually experienced with guys I was going out with and stopped liking because of my icks:

Taurus - inviting me for lunch and mentioned several times how lucky I was because he never paid for anyone.

click to expand

OMG… those two pics having me DYING HERE 😂🤣😂🤣👏👏👏👏👏

Did you just put yourself in my shoes?!? Those two faces could not be more accurate as to what my internal reaction was at that moment…lol 😅👌👌click to expand

Giiirl, did I ever!? I don't think i was left a choice but to respond as viscerally 😁

I feel I'd be remiss if I didn't clarify that I, myself, am very frugal to the point I turned it into an artform & likewise, have great deal of appreciation for those who share similar approach. Frugal & cheap, however, are worlds apart but that's not what really got to me. It's the multifaceted manipulation stench that's oozing from that statement. It's crude at best but mostly vulgar. Like...Boi plz!

*insert Barbie stank face once again* 😁click to expand

YES… that’s how it felt. He invited me, I offered to pay, he refused… I was super thankful and he was pushy about taking me to that specific restaurant. So, I was literally just flowing with him and being grateful and thankful. I even said the next one was in me!!

So… him bringing it up felt like he was trying to get more credit than was given. Or like he was forcing me to understand how special this act was to him?!? But it took away from my experience by him doing that. Like he didn’t trust me level of appreciation. I don’t like that…

He also mentioned it to a mutual Virgo friend, so on campus she came and told me and also said “yeah he told me and he normally doesn’t invite anyone” 🫤. So, I didn’t like the pressure of some unknown payback😥?!?

And… I like saving money. I am understanding of being tight sometimes. But, that wasn’t what he said… it just made me feel like this invite only comes on rare occasions and that wasn’t very appealing either. I also like letting loose and celebrating life once in a while.

Anyway, he is Polish so, I wondered if it was a language barrier or cultural difference… I don’t know 🤪. He and I are still friends, he’s a great guitar player and at parties he likes for me to dance Flamemco while he plays the guitar.

He has other qualities that I still very much appreciate 😅🫶.click to expand

You back mare i cant believe itclick to expand

Yes, believe it …. I remember you 🤗!! Tudo bem ?!?

I’m happy to see you are still here too, this place is shockingly inactive.click to expand

Eu tô bem 🙂, dxp is long dead lol, only slide on dms sometimes, how u doing now?

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Posted by Mare-E-Sole

Posted by StardustRevolut10n

Posted by Mare-E-Sole

Posted by StardustRevolut10n

Posted by Mare-E-Sole

Posted by Argus

Posted by Mare-E-Sole

Posted by Argus

Posted by Mare-E-Sole
There’s a long list when it concerns hygiene.

But I’ll just mention a couple that I actually experienced with guys I was going out with and stopped liking because of my icks:

Taurus - inviting me for lunch and mentioned several times how lucky I was because he never paid for anyone.

click to expand

OMG… those two pics having me DYING HERE 😂🤣😂🤣👏👏👏👏👏

Did you just put yourself in my shoes?!? Those two faces could not be more accurate as to what my internal reaction was at that moment…lol 😅👌👌click to expand

Giiirl, did I ever!? I don't think i was left a choice but to respond as viscerally 😁

I feel I'd be remiss if I didn't clarify that I, myself, am very frugal to the point I turned it into an artform & likewise, have great deal of appreciation for those who share similar approach. Frugal & cheap, however, are worlds apart but that's not what really got to me. It's the multifaceted manipulation stench that's oozing from that statement. It's crude at best but mostly vulgar. Like...Boi plz!

*insert Barbie stank face once again* 😁click to expand

YES… that’s how it felt. He invited me, I offered to pay, he refused… I was super thankful and he was pushy about taking me to that specific restaurant. So, I was literally just flowing with him and being grateful and thankful. I even said the next one was in me!!

So… him bringing it up felt like he was trying to get more credit than was given. Or like he was forcing me to understand how special this act was to him?!? But it took away from my experience by him doing that. Like he didn’t trust me level of appreciation. I don’t like that…

He also mentioned it to a mutual Virgo friend, so on campus she came and told me and also said “yeah he told me and he normally doesn’t invite anyone” 🫤. So, I didn’t like the pressure of some unknown payback😥?!?

And… I like saving money. I am understanding of being tight sometimes. But, that wasn’t what he said… it just made me feel like this invite only comes on rare occasions and that wasn’t very appealing either. I also like letting loose and celebrating life once in a while.

Anyway, he is Polish so, I wondered if it was a language barrier or cultural difference… I don’t know 🤪. He and I are still friends, he’s a great guitar player and at parties he likes for me to dance Flamemco while he plays the guitar.

He has other qualities that I still very much appreciate 😅🫶.click to expand

You back mare i cant believe itclick to expand

Yes, believe it …. I remember you 🤗!! Tudo bem ?!?

I’m happy to see you are still here too, this place is shockingly inactive.click to expand

Eu tô bem 🙂, dxp is long dead lol, only slide on dms sometimes, how u doing now?click to expand

Tell me about it 😂.

Personal life is all good and way better than when I was here last time…lol.

Only negative now is state of my country. Came back to DXP while I was suffering through jet lag in France. But now that I’m back in States, I come here to DXP to have a place to just enjoy some down time and think about nothing serious.

Even if there is no one here, I’m just reading old threads that catch my interest and respond…. Like I’m talking to a wall. I honestly don’t care 🤷🏻‍♀️😅.

What about you?!?! How is school?

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Posted by Mare-E-Sole

Posted by StardustRevolut10n

Posted by Mare-E-Sole

Posted by StardustRevolut10n

Posted by Mare-E-Sole

Posted by Argus

Posted by Mare-E-Sole

Posted by Argus

Posted by Mare-E-Sole
There’s a long list when it concerns hygiene.

But I’ll just mention a couple that I actually experienced with guys I was going out with and stopped liking because of my icks:

Taurus - inviting me for lunch and mentioned several times how lucky I was because he never paid for anyone.

click to expand

OMG… those two pics having me DYING HERE 😂🤣😂🤣👏👏👏👏👏

Did you just put yourself in my shoes?!? Those two faces could not be more accurate as to what my internal reaction was at that moment…lol 😅👌👌click to expand

Giiirl, did I ever!? I don't think i was left a choice but to respond as viscerally 😁

I feel I'd be remiss if I didn't clarify that I, myself, am very frugal to the point I turned it into an artform & likewise, have great deal of appreciation for those who share similar approach. Frugal & cheap, however, are worlds apart but that's not what really got to me. It's the multifaceted manipulation stench that's oozing from that statement. It's crude at best but mostly vulgar. Like...Boi plz!

*insert Barbie stank face once again* 😁click to expand

YES… that’s how it felt. He invited me, I offered to pay, he refused… I was super thankful and he was pushy about taking me to that specific restaurant. So, I was literally just flowing with him and being grateful and thankful. I even said the next one was in me!!

So… him bringing it up felt like he was trying to get more credit than was given. Or like he was forcing me to understand how special this act was to him?!? But it took away from my experience by him doing that. Like he didn’t trust me level of appreciation. I don’t like that…

He also mentioned it to a mutual Virgo friend, so on campus she came and told me and also said “yeah he told me and he normally doesn’t invite anyone” 🫤. So, I didn’t like the pressure of some unknown payback😥?!?

And… I like saving money. I am understanding of being tight sometimes. But, that wasn’t what he said… it just made me feel like this invite only comes on rare occasions and that wasn’t very appealing either. I also like letting loose and celebrating life once in a while.

Anyway, he is Polish so, I wondered if it was a language barrier or cultural difference… I don’t know 🤪. He and I are still friends, he’s a great guitar player and at parties he likes for me to dance Flamemco while he plays the guitar.

He has other qualities that I still very much appreciate 😅🫶.click to expand

You back mare i cant believe itclick to expand

Yes, believe it …. I remember you 🤗!! Tudo bem ?!?

I’m happy to see you are still here too, this place is shockingly inactive.click to expand

Eu tô bem 🙂, dxp is long dead lol, only slide on dms sometimes, how u doing now?click to expand

Tell me about it 😂.

Personal life is all good and way better than when I was here last time…lol.

Only negative now is state of my country. Came back to DXP while I was suffering through jet lag in France. But now that I’m back in States, I come here to DXP to have a place to just enjoy some down time and think about nothing serious.

Even if there is no one here, I’m just reading old threads that catch my interest and respond…. Like I’m talking to a wall. I honestly don’t care 🤷🏻‍♀️😅.

What about you?!?! How is school?click to expand

There was a significant portion of dxp members from france, neet any of them? Lol

Im good a think, working n studying, miss the free time i had as a neet sometimes 😆

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Posted by StardustRevolut10n

Posted by Mare-E-Sole

Posted by StardustRevolut10n

Posted by Mare-E-Sole

Posted by StardustRevolut10n

Posted by Mare-E-Sole

Posted by Argus

Posted by Mare-E-Sole

Posted by Argus

Posted by Mare-E-Sole
There’s a long list when it concerns hygiene.

But I’ll just mention a couple that I actually experienced with guys I was going out with and stopped liking because of my icks:

Taurus - inviting me for lunch and mentioned several times how lucky I was because he never paid for anyone.

click to expand

OMG… those two pics having me DYING HERE 😂🤣😂🤣👏👏👏👏👏

Did you just put yourself in my shoes?!? Those two faces could not be more accurate as to what my internal reaction was at that moment…lol 😅👌👌click to expand

Giiirl, did I ever!? I don't think i was left a choice but to respond as viscerally 😁

I feel I'd be remiss if I didn't clarify that I, myself, am very frugal to the point I turned it into an artform & likewise, have great deal of appreciation for those who share similar approach. Frugal & cheap, however, are worlds apart but that's not what really got to me. It's the multifaceted manipulation stench that's oozing from that statement. It's crude at best but mostly vulgar. Like...Boi plz!

*insert Barbie stank face once again* 😁click to expand

YES… that’s how it felt. He invited me, I offered to pay, he refused… I was super thankful and he was pushy about taking me to that specific restaurant. So, I was literally just flowing with him and being grateful and thankful. I even said the next one was in me!!

So… him bringing it up felt like he was trying to get more credit than was given. Or like he was forcing me to understand how special this act was to him?!? But it took away from my experience by him doing that. Like he didn’t trust me level of appreciation. I don’t like that…

He also mentioned it to a mutual Virgo friend, so on campus she came and told me and also said “yeah he told me and he normally doesn’t invite anyone” 🫤. So, I didn’t like the pressure of some unknown payback😥?!?

And… I like saving money. I am understanding of being tight sometimes. But, that wasn’t what he said… it just made me feel like this invite only comes on rare occasions and that wasn’t very appealing either. I also like letting loose and celebrating life once in a while.

Anyway, he is Polish so, I wondered if it was a language barrier or cultural difference… I don’t know 🤪. He and I are still friends, he’s a great guitar player and at parties he likes for me to dance Flamemco while he plays the guitar.

He has other qualities that I still very much appreciate 😅🫶.click to expand

You back mare i cant believe itclick to expand

Yes, believe it …. I remember you 🤗!! Tudo bem ?!?

I’m happy to see you are still here too, this place is shockingly inactive.click to expand

Eu tô bem 🙂, dxp is long dead lol, only slide on dms sometimes, how u doing now?click to expand

Tell me about it 😂.

Personal life is all good and way better than when I was here last time…lol.

Only negative now is state of my country. Came back to DXP while I was suffering through jet lag in France. But now that I’m back in States, I come here to DXP to have a place to just enjoy some down time and think about nothing serious.

Even if there is no one here, I’m just reading old threads that catch my interest and respond…. Like I’m talking to a wall. I honestly don’t care 🤷🏻‍♀️😅.

What about you?!?! How is school?click to expand

There was a significant portion of dxp members from france, neet any of them? Lol

Im good a think, working n studying, miss the free time i had as a neet sometimes 😆click to expand

No never met anyone from here. Interesting… bummer they’re not around anymore.

That’s awesome that you are working and studying now. Is work related to what you are studying?!?

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Posted by Mare-E-Sole

Posted by Argus

Posted by Mare-E-Sole

Posted by Argus

Posted by Mare-E-Sole
There’s a long list when it concerns hygiene.

But I’ll just mention a couple that I actually experienced with guys I was going out with and stopped liking because of my icks:

Taurus - inviting me for lunch and mentioned several times how lucky I was because he never paid for anyone.

click to expand

OMG… those two pics having me DYING HERE 😂🤣😂🤣👏👏👏👏👏

Did you just put yourself in my shoes?!? Those two faces could not be more accurate as to what my internal reaction was at that moment…lol 😅👌👌click to expand

Giiirl, did I ever!? I don't think i was left a choice but to respond as viscerally 😁

I feel I'd be remiss if I didn't clarify that I, myself, am very frugal to the point I turned it into an artform & likewise, have great deal of appreciation for those who share similar approach. Frugal & cheap, however, are worlds apart but that's not what really got to me. It's the multifaceted manipulation stench that's oozing from that statement. It's crude at best but mostly vulgar. Like...Boi plz!

*insert Barbie stank face once again* 😁click to expand

YES… that’s how it felt. He invited me, I offered to pay, he refused… I was super thankful and he was pushy about taking me to that specific restaurant. So, I was literally just flowing with him and being grateful and thankful. I even said the next one was in me!!

So… him bringing it up felt like he was trying to get more credit than was given. Or like he was forcing me to understand how special this act was to him?!? But it took away from my experience by him doing that. Like he didn’t trust me level of appreciation. I don’t like that…

He also mentioned it to a mutual Virgo friend, so on campus she came and told me and also said “yeah he told me and he normally doesn’t invite anyone” 🫤. So, I didn’t like the pressure of some unknown payback😥?!?

And… I like saving money. I am understanding of being tight sometimes. But, that wasn’t what he said… it just made me feel like this invite only comes on rare occasions and that wasn’t very appealing either. I also like letting loose and celebrating life once in a while.

Anyway, he is Polish so, I wondered if it was a language barrier or cultural difference… I don’t know 🤪. He and I are still friends, he’s a great guitar player and at parties he likes for me to dance Flamemco while he plays the guitar.

He has other qualities that I still very much appreciate 😅🫶.

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Posted by Mare-E-Sole
@StardustRevolut10n - DXP is bugging again 🙄… I can’t respond to your last comment (maybe too long).

Anyway, I have faith in you!! You’ve clearly envisioned what you want from life and what you want to change from what was given to you in family home. So, don’t give up the dream. You will get there… keep up the work and the goal 🫶.

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Posted by Mare-E-Sole

Posted by Argus

Posted by Mare-E-Sole

Posted by Argus

Posted by Mare-E-Sole
There’s a long list when it concerns hygiene.

But I’ll just mention a couple that I actually experienced with guys I was going out with and stopped liking because of my icks:

Taurus - inviting me for lunch and mentioned several times how lucky I was because he never paid for anyone.

click to expand

OMG… those two pics having me DYING HERE 😂🤣😂🤣👏👏👏👏👏

Did you just put yourself in my shoes?!? Those two faces could not be more accurate as to what my internal reaction was at that moment…lol 😅👌👌click to expand

Giiirl, did I ever!? I don't think i was left a choice but to respond as viscerally 😁

I feel I'd be remiss if I didn't clarify that I, myself, am very frugal to the point I turned it into an artform & likewise, have great deal of appreciation for those who share similar approach. Frugal & cheap, however, are worlds apart but that's not what really got to me. It's the multifaceted manipulation stench that's oozing from that statement. It's crude at best but mostly vulgar. Like...Boi plz!

*insert Barbie stank face once again* 😁click to expand

YES… that’s how it felt. He invited me, I offered to pay, he refused… I was super thankful and he was pushy about taking me to that specific restaurant. So, I was literally just flowing with him and being grateful and thankful. I even said the next one was in me!!

So… him bringing it up felt like he was trying to get more credit than was given. Or like he was forcing me to understand how special this act was to him?!? But it took away from my experience by him doing that. Like he didn’t trust me level of appreciation. I don’t like that…

He also mentioned it to a mutual Virgo friend, so on campus she came and told me and also said “yeah he told me and he normally doesn’t invite anyone” 🫤. So, I didn’t like the pressure of some unknown payback😥?!?

And… I like saving money. I am understanding of being tight sometimes. But, that wasn’t what he said… it just made me feel like this invite only comes on rare occasions and that wasn’t very appealing either. I also like letting loose and celebrating life once in a while.

Anyway, he is Polish so, I wondered if it was a language barrier or cultural difference… I don’t know 🤪. He and I are still friends, he’s a great guitar player and at parties he likes for me to dance Flamemco while he plays the guitar.

He has other qualities that I still very much appreciate 😅🫶.click to expand

Polish!? 😆😅 You should've lead with that! LoL I better watch what I say lest I get beat up by them Poles... they've been sssspiccy as of late... but the rumor has it they do run on a bit "cheaper" side. At least men do! And honestly, from the cultural & historocal perspective, I can definitely see how & why that would manifests itself the way it does. There also could've definitely been an element of differing approach to language utilization.

Sounds like fun times when you guys come togather! Acoustic guitar I presume?! Of so, LOVE IT! I'd be sooo tempted to join the party or at the very least cheer on with a pair of castanets from the sidelines.

Having said all the above, my initial observation still stands as a general rule of thumb so to say. And yes, very much concur in that it is designed to induce a perception of specialness as well a sence of obligation/preassure to reciprocate & in a way fast track emotional closeness and vulnerability, to name a few.

To use your own, very wise, words...



Edit to say... if you ( a universal you) are going to manipulate me, at least put some effort in it! Don't insult me by being basic with it LoL 😅

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@StardustRevolut10n - DXP is bugging again 🙄… I can’t respond to your last comment (maybe too long).

Anyway, I have faith in you!! You’ve clearly envisioned what you want from life and what you want to change from what was given to you in family home. So, don’t give up the dream. You will get there… keep up the work and the goal 🫶.

Thnx 🙏 a abundant and long life for you too

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If they can't give me a good game of Scrabble then it's not gonna go anywhere

Good one 👏👏👏

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If they can't give me a good game of Scrabble then it's not gonna go anywhere

Good one 👏👏👏

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It's not petty, it's the perfect test

Are they intelligent enough to make anagrams?

Can they strategise enough to place tiles in high scoring positions rather than just place their best word anywhere? This demonstrates flexibility and the ability to handle multiple dimensions

Do they enjoy and are good at playing games?

Can they be competitive but keep it fun?

They don't have to be pro but at least show potential. If their first word is cat it's a red flag

But you stick to your "my daddy always knows where we're going" test. Personally I'd enjoy a magical mystery tour but Scorpios need to know everything is under control or they get all fearful, I understand

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Posted by Wizardzzz
If they can't give me a good game of Scrabble then it's not gonna go anywhere

Good one 👏👏👏

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It's not petty, it's the perfect test

Are they intelligent enough to make anagrams?

Can they strategise enough to place tiles in high scoring positions rather than just place their best word anywhere? This demonstrates flexibility and the ability to handle multiple dimensions

Do they enjoy and are good at playing games?

Can they be competitive but keep it fun?

They don't have to be pro but at least show potential. If their first word is cat it's a red flag

But you stick to your "my daddy always knows where we're going" test. Personally I'd enjoy a magical mystery tour but Scorpios need to know everything is under control or they get all fearful, I understand click to expand

Dude, the whole point of this thread is to share something PETTY.

I added mine with the awareness of sharing something I considered petty and immature… so gave anecdotes of when I was younger and less mature.

I could see why reading directions isn’t one of your Scabble player’s checklist since it isn’t one of your strong suits either 🙄.

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There’s a long list when it concerns hygiene.

But I’ll just mention a couple that I actually experienced with guys I was going out with and stopped liking because of my icks:

Taurus - inviting me for lunch and mentioned several times how lucky I was because he never paid for anyone.

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OMG… those two pics having me DYING HERE 😂🤣😂🤣👏👏👏👏👏

Did you just put yourself in my shoes?!? Those two faces could not be more accurate as to what my internal reaction was at that moment…lol 😅👌👌click to expand

Giiirl, did I ever!? I don't think i was left a choice but to respond as viscerally 😁

I feel I'd be remiss if I didn't clarify that I, myself, am very frugal to the point I turned it into an artform & likewise, have great deal of appreciation for those who share similar approach. Frugal & cheap, however, are worlds apart but that's not what really got to me. It's the multifaceted manipulation stench that's oozing from that statement. It's crude at best but mostly vulgar. Like...Boi plz!

*insert Barbie stank face once again* 😁click to expand

YES… that’s how it felt. He invited me, I offered to pay, he refused… I was super thankful and he was pushy about taking me to that specific restaurant. So, I was literally just flowing with him and being grateful and thankful. I even said the next one was in me!!

So… him bringing it up felt like he was trying to get more credit than was given. Or like he was forcing me to understand how special this act was to him?!? But it took away from my experience by him doing that. Like he didn’t trust me level of appreciation. I don’t like that…

He also mentioned it to a mutual Virgo friend, so on campus she came and told me and also said “yeah he told me and he normally doesn’t invite anyone” 🫤. So, I didn’t like the pressure of some unknown payback😥?!?

And… I like saving money. I am understanding of being tight sometimes. But, that wasn’t what he said… it just made me feel like this invite only comes on rare occasions and that wasn’t very appealing either. I also like letting loose and celebrating life once in a while.

Anyway, he is Polish so, I wondered if it was a language barrier or cultural difference… I don’t know 🤪. He and I are still friends, he’s a great guitar player and at parties he likes for me to dance Flamemco while he plays the guitar.

He has other qualities that I still very much appreciate 😅🫶.click to expand

Polish!? 😆😅 You should've lead with that! LoL I better watch what I say lest I get beat up by them Poles... they've been sssspiccy as of late... but the rumor has it they do run on a bit "cheaper" side. At least men do! And honestly, from the cultural & historocal perspective, I can definitely see how & why that would manifests itself the way it does. There also could've definitely been an element of differing approach to language utilization.

Sounds like fun times when you guys come togather! Acoustic guitar I presume?! Of so, LOVE IT! I'd be sooo tempted to join the party or at the very least cheer on with a pair of castanets from the sidelines.

Having said all the above, my initial observation still stands as a general rule of thumb so to say. And yes, very much concur in that it is designed to induce a perception of specialness as well a sence of obligation/preassure to reciprocate & in a way fast track emotional closeness and vulnerability, to name a few.

To use your own, very wise, words...



Edit to say... if you ( a universal you) are going to manipulate me, at least put some effort in it! Don't insult me by being basic with it LoL 😅

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😩OMG @Argus … DXP is being so annoying and inconsistent today. I didn’t get a notification saying you responded to me 🙄. I’m so glad I got notified from other posters so that I could look into this thread and see your post!

Anyway, unlike DXP I LOVED reading your response!! So full of humor and wisdom… 🥰 I just love it!!

😂🤣… I guess I should have started with him being Polish first. I only have two Polish friends so, although I now recall this being a generalized trait, I had completely forgotten 😅. Thanks for the reminder!

And yes, he plays acoustic guitar. 😲Oh my goodness… do you play the castanets?!? I just bought myself a new pair while I was in Madrid this winter. I’ve had beginner castanets for YEARS… and felt like I finally grew up with my fancier new version. 😅

And yes… if you were with us, you would definitely be dancing with us 👏💃🏻💃🏻👏

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Posted by Mare-E-Sole

Posted by Wizardzzz
If they can't give me a good game of Scrabble then it's not gonna go anywhere

Good one 👏👏👏

click to expand

It's not petty, it's the perfect test

Are they intelligent enough to make anagrams?

Can they strategise enough to place tiles in high scoring positions rather than just place their best word anywhere? This demonstrates flexibility and the ability to handle multiple dimensions

Do they enjoy and are good at playing games?

Can they be competitive but keep it fun?

They don't have to be pro but at least show potential. If their first word is cat it's a red flag

But you stick to your "my daddy always knows where we're going" test. Personally I'd enjoy a magical mystery tour but Scorpios need to know everything is under control or they get all fearful, I understand click to expand

Dude, the whole point of this thread is to share something PETTY.

I added mine with the awareness of sharing something I considered petty and immature… so gave anecdotes of when I was younger and less mature.

I could see why reading directions isn’t one of your Scabble player’s checklist since it isn’t one of your strong suits either 🙄.click to expand

🤣 You expect me to pass up an opportunity to argue with you just for the sake of semantics?

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Posted by Mare-E-Sole

Posted by Argus

Posted by Mare-E-Sole

Posted by Argus

Posted by Mare-E-Sole

Posted by Argus

Posted by Mare-E-Sole
There’s a long list when it concerns hygiene.

But I’ll just mention a couple that I actually experienced with guys I was going out with and stopped liking because of my icks:

Taurus - inviting me for lunch and mentioned several times how lucky I was because he never paid for anyone.

click to expand

OMG… those two pics having me DYING HERE 😂🤣😂🤣👏👏👏👏👏

Did you just put yourself in my shoes?!? Those two faces could not be more accurate as to what my internal reaction was at that moment…lol 😅👌👌click to expand

Giiirl, did I ever!? I don't think i was left a choice but to respond as viscerally 😁

I feel I'd be remiss if I didn't clarify that I, myself, am very frugal to the point I turned it into an artform & likewise, have great deal of appreciation for those who share similar approach. Frugal & cheap, however, are worlds apart but that's not what really got to me. It's the multifaceted manipulation stench that's oozing from that statement. It's crude at best but mostly vulgar. Like...Boi plz!

*insert Barbie stank face once again* 😁click to expand

YES… that’s how it felt. He invited me, I offered to pay, he refused… I was super thankful and he was pushy about taking me to that specific restaurant. So, I was literally just flowing with him and being grateful and thankful. I even said the next one was in me!!

So… him bringing it up felt like he was trying to get more credit than was given. Or like he was forcing me to understand how special this act was to him?!? But it took away from my experience by him doing that. Like he didn’t trust me level of appreciation. I don’t like that…

He also mentioned it to a mutual Virgo friend, so on campus she came and told me and also said “yeah he told me and he normally doesn’t invite anyone” 🫤. So, I didn’t like the pressure of some unknown payback😥?!?

And… I like saving money. I am understanding of being tight sometimes. But, that wasn’t what he said… it just made me feel like this invite only comes on rare occasions and that wasn’t very appealing either. I also like letting loose and celebrating life once in a while.

Anyway, he is Polish so, I wondered if it was a language barrier or cultural difference… I don’t know 🤪. He and I are still friends, he’s a great guitar player and at parties he likes for me to dance Flamemco while he plays the guitar.

He has other qualities that I still very much appreciate 😅🫶.click to expand

Polish!? 😆😅 You should've lead with that! LoL I better watch what I say lest I get beat up by them Poles... they've been sssspiccy as of late... but the rumor has it they do run on a bit "cheaper" side. At least men do! And honestly, from the cultural & historocal perspective, I can definitely see how & why that would manifests itself the way it does. There also could've definitely been an element of differing approach to language utilization.

Sounds like fun times when you guys come togather! Acoustic guitar I presume?! Of so, LOVE IT! I'd be sooo tempted to join the party or at the very least cheer on with a pair of castanets from the sidelines.

Having said all the above, my initial observation still stands as a general rule of thumb so to say. And yes, very much concur in that it is designed to induce a perception of specialness as well a sence of obligation/preassure to reciprocate & in a way fast track emotional closeness and vulnerability, to name a few.

To use your own, very wise, words...



Edit to say... if you ( a universal you) are going to manipulate me, at least put some effort in it! Don't insult me by being basic with it LoL 😅

click to expand

😩OMG @Argus … DXP is being so annoying and inconsistent today. I didn’t get a notification saying you responded to me 🙄. I’m so glad I got notified from other posters so that I could look into this thread and see your post!

Anyway, unlike DXP I LOVED reading your response!! So full of humor and wisdom… 🥰 I just love it!!

😂🤣… I guess I should have started with him being Polish first. I only have two Polish friends so, although I now recall this being a generalized trait, I had completely forgotten 😅. Thanks for the reminder!

And yes, he plays acoustic guitar. 😲Oh my goodness… do you play the castanets?!? I just bought myself a new pair while I was in Madrid this winter. I’ve had beginner castanets for YEARS… and felt like I finally grew up with my fancier new version. 😅

And yes… if you were with us, you would definitely be dancing with us 👏💃🏻💃🏻👏



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This site has been acting retarded on & off for a while now! I tried replying the other day, but this thing kept looping & I just didn't have patience for it! 🙄

But more to your question, *chuckles* no, unfortunately i do not play any instruments but I sure as heck can pretend that I do! I play awesome "air castanets" lol What I lack in playing instruments I more than make up in dancing.

Ahhh...Madrid! I am so jelly! I have relatives who live in Sapin half the year & they've been inviting to go & visit but somehow, I am yet to make my way to the Iberian peninsula. One of these 🤞

Olé 💃

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Posted by Wizardzzz
If they can't give me a good game of Scrabble then it's not gonna go anywhere

Good one 👏👏👏

click to expand

It's not petty, it's the perfect test

Are they intelligent enough to make anagrams?

Can they strategise enough to place tiles in high scoring positions rather than just place their best word anywhere? This demonstrates flexibility and the ability to handle multiple dimensions

Do they enjoy and are good at playing games?

Can they be competitive but keep it fun?

They don't have to be pro but at least show potential. If their first word is cat it's a red flag

But you stick to your "my daddy always knows where we're going" test. Personally I'd enjoy a magical mystery tour but Scorpios need to know everything is under control or they get all fearful, I understand click to expand

Dude, the whole point of this thread is to share something PETTY.

I added mine with the awareness of sharing something I considered petty and immature… so gave anecdotes of when I was younger and less mature.

I could see why reading directions isn’t one of your Scabble player’s checklist since it isn’t one of your strong suits either 🙄.click to expand

🤣 You expect me to pass up an opportunity to argue with you just for the sake of semantics?click to expand

🫤… no, you’re a Gemini, with no self discipline or reason. How ever could I believe such a thing…😑

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Posted by Wizardzzz

Posted by Mare-E-Sole

Posted by Wizardzzz
If they can't give me a good game of Scrabble then it's not gonna go anywhere

Good one 👏👏👏

click to expand

It's not petty, it's the perfect test

Are they intelligent enough to make anagrams?

Can they strategise enough to place tiles in high scoring positions rather than just place their best word anywhere? This demonstrates flexibility and the ability to handle multiple dimensions

Do they enjoy and are good at playing games?

Can they be competitive but keep it fun?

They don't have to be pro but at least show potential. If their first word is cat it's a red flag

But you stick to your "my daddy always knows where we're going" test. Personally I'd enjoy a magical mystery tour but Scorpios need to know everything is under control or they get all fearful, I understand click to expand

Dude, the whole point of this thread is to share something PETTY.

I added mine with the awareness of sharing something I considered petty and immature… so gave anecdotes of when I was younger and less mature.

I could see why reading directions isn’t one of your Scabble player’s checklist since it isn’t one of your strong suits either 🙄.click to expand

🤣 You expect me to pass up an opportunity to argue with you just for the sake of semantics?click to expand

🫤… no, you’re a Gemini, with no self discipline or reason. How ever could I believe such a thing…😑click to expand

Silly of you

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