Aqua girl virgo guy love triangle (Page 2)

@MadMarchRam

Thank you, you are absolutely right. I put this hole in my own heart. I deserved everthing i got.

But how do i get him back....

Posted by Virqua
@MadMarchRam

Thank you, you are absolutely right. I put this hole in my own heart. I deserved everthing i got.

But how do i get him back....

You don't.

You need to move on. Apart from anything else you need to give him some space. If he wants to reach out he will. If not then that's his choice.

Remember, you hurt him.

So he change his status to complicated "but not single. And ive tried to call and text him 20 timed today, now he blocked me from calling and texting— Why wouldnt he just chsnge his status to single if he was gonna block me anyway im confused.

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@TheLadyScorpio

So if sombody you LOVED!!! Cheated. You would end it..even if it was problem leading up. That they verbally expressed to you and cried to you about. Then admitted it too you aweek afterwards. And were willing to wuite a job tgey loved to focus on you...you woukd still end it after all that effort....so i guess love is just a word.

Yes, I would end it.

As would many, who would have a backbone would.

I sure hope your Virgent did.



If a cheater could suddenly put in that much effort after the deed, they surely could have put in the effort before the dead, and stayed loyal, working out the problems together.

Instead, you chose to cheat.

You do not deserved to be forgiven.

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Why do people think you can apologize cheating away?

*smfh

Cheaters justifying their actions, through victimising themselves.

That is what the OP is doing.

[shakes my head]

Posted by Virqua
So he change his status to complicated "but not single. And ive tried to call and text him 20 timed today, now i he blocked me from calling and texting— Why wouldny he just chsnge his status to single if hr was gonna block me anyway im confused.

The better question is - why will you not leave him be ?

You chose to hurt him, you chose to cheat.

Now, you are trying to put it unto him, to take you back.

He rightfully blocked you, may he never take you back and have his heart begin the healing process.

Posted by Virqua
So he change his status to complicated "but not single. And ive tried to call and text him 20 timed today, now i he blocked me from calling and texting— Why wouldny he just chsnge his status to single if hr was gonna block me anyway im confused.

It means there is still hope

So forgiveness is a joke. Wheb people say the best policy is honesty that notions only purpos is advice. And bad advice because my life wpyldnt have been recked

If i would have only kept my MOUTH CLOSED

@SirXavier

Do you honstly think its a good sign, because i would do everything in my being to have him back

Posted by Virqua
So forgiveness is a joke. Wheb people say the best policy is honesty that notions only purpos is advice. And bad advice because my life wpyldnt have been recked

If i would have only kept my MOUTH CLOSED

If you were honest -

You would have told that side dish of yours that you are taken, and you would not cheat ...

or

you would have told your Virgent, that you may not feel as much love for him, either work it through together whilst staying faithful, or end things with him, so you could explore.



You chose to cheat, and lied to your Virgent prior, when you had your desires for your side dish. You were dishonest from the get go.

To come now, and talk about honesty. You are an utter joke.



Yes, if only you would have kept your mouth shut, then we do not have to yet again point out a cheater, trying to victimise themselves therefore we would feel sorry for you. Your manipulative tactics, are as old as this forum. We have seen and heard it all.

Unfortunately, we do not support cheaters here. You get what you seek, if you do not like it then close this thread. Since after all, you have proven that you cannot handle the truth, nor could you take responsibility for what you did.

I m really trying to just sit and talk with him face to face so he can see the pain in my heart. But fore i leave to New Jersey. I want him to know im sorry and i will wait as long i can til he forgives me. I want him to know i love him. I own my mistake. And Maybe he will offer to drive me to Jersey if i ask him face to face.

@TheLadyScorpio

I have said i take responsibility i own my fault. I screwd up..do i need to spell it in big bold letters to everybody

I FUCKED UP......

I never lied to him i was the one after feeling guilt and disgusted for entire week. That i came to him and i told him.

That shows my character is Nobel because i knew the repercussions. But I....I....I....I choose to confess.

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@TheLadyScorpio

I have said i take responsibility i own my fault. I screwd up..do i need to spell it in big bold letters to everybody

I FUCKED UP......

Words are all insubstantial, without the actions to back it up.

Your words may say so, but you have proven to us through your actions that you do not truly believe you have done any wrong.

Again, victimising yourself.

Shout, all you want.

I am not the only one to see through your manipulations here, and I sure hope that your Virgent saw through it as well.

You deserve all that you reap, cheater.

@TheLadyScorpio

Please do not call me a CHEATER.

I have taken your honest advice to heart and that word has broken me all over again. All see in the mirror is shame and fowl awful human being who dosent deserve to feel love

Posted by Virqua
@LadyofNeptune

If you are a pices then you know how my heart feels dont pretend that we dont give in to love. My venus in pices is to blame. I am rational being i never would have done this if it wasnt for feeling of rejection i felt from steve i made up in my heart and constant fantasy about a man who used me. I lost the love of my life i was never in a realationship past few month's. Steven was the longest and hardest relationship i have ever been in.

I hope he can forgive so we can put this behind us.

Next time do the correct name when you tag me...this never showed up in my notifications.

If your loyalty and fidelity is so fleeting and tied to your mood then you should make that a disclaimer to anyone you date in the future. Tell them that you'll only be monogamous and loyal if they treat you like x,y,and z. If that doesn't happen you can, have, and will spread your legs and fuck another.

That way they know what their getting into in entering into a relationship with you.

Posted by Virqua
I m really trying to just sit and talk with him face to face so he can see the pain in my heart. But fore i leave to New Jersey. I want him to know im sorry and i will wait as long i can til he forgives me. I want him to know i love him. I own my mistake. And Maybe he will offer to drive me to Jersey if i ask him face to face.

So its all about what you can get from him.

This sounds like a jerry springer episode.

@LadyNeptune

I dont plan to be with anybody else other Steve. I have been 99.9% loyal. 1% i messed up. And i have suffer to for it. I fell in love with another man because the man i loved woyld not show me he loved me and instead of fighting for me like i would have done for him he dismissed me with out hesitation and hurt me emotionally abd physically.

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@TheLadyScorpio

Please do not call me a CHEATER.

I have taken your honest advice to heart and that word has broken me all over again. All see in the mirror is shame and fowl awful human being who dosent deserve to feel love

You cheated, therefore I will call you a cheater, as you are.

I will not cushion it for you therefore you could use it to victimise yourself over.

You chose to cheat, you chose your actions. Now lay in the bed you made.

No matter how awful you felt, you had a choice to leave the Virgent before you leaped into the bed of another.

Cheater.

I only have money for 1 way and food. I used must of all my money to pay his car note and cell phone bill. So angry or not im intititled to be droped off

Posted by Virqua
@SirXavier

Do you honstly think its a good sign, because i would do everything in my being to have him back

Not really.. In all seriousness you cheated, if he comes back you mine as well give up your human rights, trying to keep him from being bitter..you def ruined it op.

@TheLadyScorpio

Thank you please keep calling me a CHEATER. Im already torn.

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@LadyNeptune

I dont plan to be with anybody else other Steve. I have been 99.9% loyal. 1% i messed up. And i have suffer to for it. I fell in love with another man because the man i loved woyld not show me he loved me and instead of fighting for me like i would have done for him he dismissed me with out hesitation and hurt me emotionally abd physically.

Yeah I'd dismiss your nasty ass too.

Posted by Virqua
I never lied to him i was the one after feeling guilt and disgusted for entire week. That i came to him and i told him.

That shows my character is Nobel because i knew the repercussions. But I....I....I....I choose to confess.

You did the right thing confessing tho. Maybe you got some karma points for that.

I have read on few sites that Virgo men will forgive you if you have stepped out. But will make life miserable for the cheater. Untile enough time has passed. So i need to keep showing him i want another chance and in time we will be in abetter place.

Posted by Virqua
I only have money for 1 way and food. I used must of all my money to pay his car note and cell phone bill. So angry or not im intititled to be droped off

Why don't you sell your pussy? You've been passing it out for free...might as well get something tangible for your time.

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@LadyNeptune

I dont plan to be with anybody else other Steve. I have been 99.9% loyal. 1% i messed up. And i have suffer to for it. I fell in love with another man because the man i loved woyld not show me he loved me and instead of fighting for me like i would have done for him he dismissed me with out hesitation and hurt me emotionally abd physically.

Yeah I'd dismiss your nasty ass too.

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If you have a problem with me..

Thats fine. I would forgive if its true love

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I only have money for 1 way and food. I used must of all my money to pay his car note and cell phone bill. So angry or not im intititled to be droped off

Why don't you sell your pussy? You've been passing it out for free...might as well get something tangible for time.

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Sell your own

**dont be rude **

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@LadyNeptune

I dont plan to be with anybody else other Steve. I have been 99.9% loyal. 1% i messed up. And i have suffer to for it. I fell in love with another man because the man i loved woyld not show me he loved me and instead of fighting for me like i would have done for him he dismissed me with out hesitation and hurt me emotionally abd physically.

Yeah I'd dismiss your nasty ass too.

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If you have a problem with me..

Thats fine. I would forgive if its true love

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If it was true love you wouldn't have spread your legs for the first guy to shower you with attention.

If it was true love you would rather cut off your own arm than hurt your lover.

Sheeeet, if it was a person you respected you would've given him some modicum of respect and ended things with him before jumping on the next dudes dick.

Smh @true love get outa here with that nonsense.

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I only have money for 1 way and food. I used must of all my money to pay his car note and cell phone bill. So angry or not im intititled to be droped off

Why don't you sell your pussy? You've been passing it out for free...might as well get something tangible for time.

Sell your own

**dont be rude **

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I don't need the money, you do.

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I only have money for 1 way and food. I used must of all my money to pay his car note and cell phone bill. So angry or not im intititled to be droped off

Why don't you sell your pussy? You've been passing it out for free...might as well get something tangible for time.

Sell your own

**dont be rude **

I don't need the money, you do.

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I have the money for 1 way and food. Only because i psid all of his obligation before mines. I was stating he csn at least drive me there. I sacrificed so much and he knows that. I deserve a little back

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I only have money for 1 way and food. I used must of all my money to pay his car note and cell phone bill. So angry or not im intititled to be droped off

Why don't you sell your pussy? You've been passing it out for free...might as well get something tangible for time.

Sell your own

**dont be rude **

I don't need the money, you do.

I have the money for 1 way and food. Only because i psid all of his obligation before mines. I was stating he csn at least drive me there. I sacrificed so much and he knows that. I deserve a little back

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You deserve another slap in the face. Why would he give you shit?

If i was such a bad person or dirty cheatr then i would have been laying around with my co worker after the break up. But im choosing to be remorseful and putting steve first. All his advances, i have curved and fowarded all his pathetic calls to voicemail since trying to fix my relationship.

Posted by Virqua
If i was such a bad person or dirty cheatr then i would have been laying around with my co worker after the break up. But im choosing to be remorseful and putting steve first. All his advances, i have curved and fowarded all his pathetic calls to voicemail since trying to fix my relationship.

Yes you deserve a medal for not continuing to fuck your side piece. Good job! We're all so proud of you.

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I only have money for 1 way and food. I used must of all my money to pay his car note and cell phone bill. So angry or not im intititled to be droped off

Why don't you sell your pussy? You've been passing it out for free...might as well get something tangible for time.

Sell your own

**dont be rude **

I don't need the money, you do.

I have the money for 1 way and food. Only because i psid all of his obligation before mines. I was stating he csn at least drive me there. I sacrificed so much and he knows that. I deserve a little back

You deserve another slap in the face. Why would he give you shit?

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He dosent have to give me shit he just has to be considerate of what i have done before hsnd. And if i ever meant anything to him.

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If i was such a bad person or dirty cheatr then i would have been laying around with my co worker after the break up. But im choosing to be remorseful and putting steve first. All his advances, i have curved and fowarded all his pathetic calls to voicemail since trying to fix my relationship.

Yes you deserve a medal for not continuing to fuck your side piece. Good job! We're all so proud of you.

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YOU act so perfect.....you never Ever made a mistake did because you are so one sided that forgiveness is so incomprehensible.

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If i was such a bad person or dirty cheatr then i would have been laying around with my co worker after the break up. But im choosing to be remorseful and putting steve first. All his advances, i have curved and fowarded all his pathetic calls to voicemail since trying to fix my relationship.

Yes you deserve a medal for not continuing to fuck your side piece. Good job! We're all so proud of you.

YOU act so perfect.....you never Ever made a mistake did because you are so one sided that forgiveness is so incomprehensible.

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For all you know I AM PERFECT. And you spilled your dirty laundry here, so don't cry now that your being judged.

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I only have money for 1 way and food. I used must of all my money to pay his car note and cell phone bill. So angry or not im intititled to be droped off

Why don't you sell your pussy? You've been passing it out for free...might as well get something tangible for time.

Sell your own

**dont be rude **

I don't need the money, you do.

I have the money for 1 way and food. Only because i psid all of his obligation before mines. I was stating he csn at least drive me there. I sacrificed so much and he knows that. I deserve a little back

You deserve another slap in the face. Why would he give you shit?

He dosent have to give me shit he just has to be considerate of what i have done before hsnd. And if i ever meant anything to him.

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He is considering what you've done beforehand. All he can think about is how his woman fucked another dude.

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If i was such a bad person or dirty cheatr then i would have been laying around with my co worker after the break up. But im choosing to be remorseful and putting steve first. All his advances, i have curved and fowarded all his pathetic calls to voicemail since trying to fix my relationship.

Yes you deserve a medal for not continuing to fuck your side piece. Good job! We're all so proud of you.

YOU act so perfect.....you never Ever made a mistake did because you are so one sided that forgiveness is so incomprehensible.

For all you know I AM PERFECT. And you spilled your dirty laundry here, so don't cry now that your being judged.

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Blow by blow you just keep it coming

Your the type to kick a puppy when no one is looking.

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If i was such a bad person or dirty cheatr then i would have been laying around with my co worker after the break up. But im choosing to be remorseful and putting steve first. All his advances, i have curved and fowarded all his pathetic calls to voicemail since trying to fix my relationship.

Yes you deserve a medal for not continuing to fuck your side piece. Good job! We're all so proud of you.

YOU act so perfect.....you never Ever made a mistake did because you are so one sided that forgiveness is so incomprehensible.

For all you know I AM PERFECT. And you spilled your dirty laundry here, so don't cry now that your being judged.

Blow by blow you just keep it coming

Your the type to kick a puppy when no one is looking.

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No I love puppies. Nice deflection though.

So he called me and said he wanted me come get my things. I cried and asked him for a the ride and so we can talk. He said he would think about it. I just really need to know Whst else should i do or say with out messing this chance up

@LadyNeptune

She created this thread, hoping to gather a pity party to validate her own victimising schemes.

Now, that most have not bought into her manipulations.

She is crying out, yet again.

She caused her own misery, she should lay in it.

The cheater, chose to cheat.

Posted by Virqua
So he called me and said he wanted me come get my things. I cried and asked him for a the ride and so we can talk. He said he would think about it. I just really need to know Whst else should i do or say with out messing this chance up

You are done for.

The Virgent, telling you he needs to think about it, is his way of gracefully letting you down.

You are in luck, he is most likely softening the blow to spare you.

Although, frankly you do not deserve it.

Gather your things, and leave.

You would not be taken back.

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@LadyNeptune

She created this thread, hoping to gather a pity party to validate her own victimising schemes.

Now, that most have not bought into her manipulations.

She is crying out, yet again.

She caused her own misery, she should lay in it.

The cheater, chose to cheat.

Either that or she's a troll.

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So he called me and said he wanted me come get my things. I cried and asked him for a the ride and so we can talk. He said he would think about it. I just really need to know Whst else should i do or say with out messing this chance up

You are done for.

The Virgent, telling you he needs to think about it, is his way of gracefully letting you down.

You are in luck, he is most likely softening the blow to spare you.

Although, frankly you do not deserve it.

Gather your things, and leave.

You would not be taken back.

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OP,

I'm not here to chide you, judge you, or anything of the sort but I don't think you fully grasp what it is you have done or what has taken place.

The truth is you cheated long before the physical sex took place long ago. You planned this for months and used the excuse of your ex boyfriend "not paying you enough attention and making off hand comments" to justify what you really wanted to do and was going to do anyway. And in a "I'll show him" moment, you had him drop you off and no sooner than that then the side piece picks you up to have sex...again all planned. Simply, it was about what you wanted...not needed but wanted and your original OP says it all. Comparing the two even down to penis size smacks of smug satisfaction...not guilt. The "search for the perfect partner" is what did you in...you wanted the fantasy and got it. What's purely evil at this point is that you still lack the emotional intelligence to the full implications of your actions...it's still about you. The only reason you're crying now is that you don't have the stability you had...which means it was more about what your ex provided then you actually loving him...because if you did, you wouldn't have let a smooth talking charmer, which in your heart knew was a nobody and probably had a girlfriend, talk you into cheating on someone who invested in you. As evidence by you trying to run back to the Aqua to gain stability and safety. Until you grasp the emotional concerpt to what it is to consider others, you'll repeat this mistake and I sincerely doubt you only slept with the Aqua a couple of times. Own this and take responsibility. Good luck

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OP,

I'm not here to chide you, judge you, or anything of the sort but I don't think you fully grasp what it is you have done or what has taken place.

The truth is you cheated long before the physical sex took place long ago. You planned this for months and used the excuse of your ex boyfriend "not paying you enough attention and making off hand comments" to justify what you really wanted to do and was going to do anyway. And in a "I'll show him" moment, you had him drop you off and no sooner than that then the side piece picks you up to have sex...again all planned. Simply, it was about what you wanted...not needed but wanted and your original OP says it all. Comparing the two even down to penis size smacks of smug satisfaction...not guilt. The "search for the perfect partner" is what did you in...you wanted the fantasy and got it. What's purely evil at this point is that you still lack the emotional intelligence to the full implications of your actions...it's still about you. The only reason you're crying now is that you don't have the stability you had...which means it was more about what your ex provided then you actually loving him...because if you did, you wouldn't have let a smooth talking charmer, which in your heart knew was a nobody and probably had a girlfriend, talk you into cheating on someone who invested in you. As evidence by you trying to run back to the Aqua to gain stability and safety. Until you grasp the emotional concerpt to what it is to consider others, you'll repeat this mistake and I sincerely doubt you only slept with the Aqua a couple of times. Own this and take responsibility. Good luck

I never tried to justify anything i knew it was wrong and i knew all the repercussions. I honestly felt that my co worker was in love with me. i was willing to see if he was genuine and that his heart was in the right place. After i stepped out i felt sooooooo much guilt and regret. I paniced i felt felt anxiety, i was over looking everything else bad about him. So I tried to hold my composure for aweek but this terrible feeling inside force me to take a chance I thought he woukd at lesst respect me for being honest..i was sure and confident Steve would not leave me. But he did.

I did want my fantasy to be true "so what eho dosent?

I didnt need him for stability.

And the sex hurt it took time for me to adjust but i never ment he was better in any way.

I lack emotion...— Im suffering and im begging him? I have been an open book to him with my feelings and everything.

Im leaving tomorrow morning and he wont pick up his phone. I dnt want to call the police, but i need my stuff. My laptop ,my clothes, The only Pictures i have of my father. My jewelry my I.D, bank cards, shoes, purse. Everything he has in his apartment. Ive called him 50 times he wont answer. I dnt want go there alone when hes there because im scared to be near him alone if he gets angry again. My only two options are call the police or go in there when hes at work and use my spare key, grab all my stuff and go.

Posted by Virqua
Im leaving tomorrow morning and he wont pick up his phone. I dnt want to call the police, but i need my stuff. My laptop ,my clothes, The only Pictures i have of my father. My jewelry my I.D, bank cards, shoes, purse. Everything he has in his apartment. Ive called him 50 times he wont answer. I dnt want go there alone when hes there because im scared to be near him alone if he gets angry again. My only two options are call the police or go in there when hes at work and use my spare key, grab all my stuff and go.

Use the spare key while he's at work. Make sure to leave the key in the mailbox for him once you are done.

If the locks are changed then, and only then, go to the police and request assistance. They will send an officer with you to make sure it is a peaceful transaction.

He called me back** Finally!! And We did decided to meet up. Against my own judgement given what he did to me, i still love him and i do trust him. I still remember the entire relationship before this, where he never put his hands on me in that way ever.. Anyway..we talked for 45minutes. Where He wanted to know why i cheated on him and what all i did. I told him it wasnt for lust, it was because i thought i was falling in love with him. And that i have befor him day dreamed about other men that i have crushed on instantly. Even random strangers i share eye contact with at the grocery store. He asked did F* any other man.I told him NO other then this 1 guy. I usually come back to earth as soon as the other person try's to pass the fantasy relm."I wanted to be 100% honest because i do feel i have a problem.(maybe its low self esteem from being a little over weight and young im only 21 and hes 30). He apologized for hitting me. He also admited somthing to me that i feared.. he said he wasnt physically attracted to me like he use to be. " which explains why we dont have sex as often as before" i except that, i did gain weight after a miscarriage. But He said he felt obligated to stay with me after he got me pregnant. We were dating only 6months at the time it happened. But he stsyed after loosing the baby to help me get better and too recover after the surgery. Thats when he started to fall in love with me. I lost weight but after a Year i gained 30 pounds slowly due to hormonal changes, depression and stress eating. He told me he loves me and to stay at the apartment and he would live with his friend just to give us space. He only ask that i do not contact my co worker. Which i have no issues granting that wish i already blocked him.

But i really dnt want to stay here. I love him i want to be with him but everything about the apartment reminds me of what happened and i would be there alone. I dnt want lie and say i want stay there but i know he dosent want me to leave now.