Calling all heavy Virgo placements in please (Page 2)

Posted by pisceanloves

What is maddening is that I certainly misunderstood the fact him chasing me over the months was anything more than that. I walked away twice and he still kept trying. I did invest all my emotions and I got attached, I just can't believe someone can fake connection and tenderness. I can't believe that. Why go out of your way only to hurt another, why do that? he knew me, he knew real me, inside and out. I don't get it honestly but I don't care. I don't understand nothing and don't wanna know more than that. It's not rejection that hurts, it's being lied to. Done deal whatever

Thanks @LadyNeptune I have to agree. Won't be deleting the thread in case anyone wants to get anything out of it.

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Posted by pisceanloves

What is maddening is that I certainly misunderstood the fact him chasing me over the months was anything more than that. I walked away twice and he still kept trying. I did invest all my emotions and I got attached, I just can't believe someone can fake connection and tenderness. I can't believe that. Why go out of your way only to hurt another, why do that? he knew me, he knew real me, inside and out. I don't get it honestly but I don't care. I don't understand nothing and don't wanna know more than that. It's not rejection that hurts, it's being lied to. Done deal whatever

Thanks @LadyNeptune I have to agree. Won't be deleting the thread in case anyone wants to get anything out of it.

And its certainly possible that he didn't fake the connection. It was very real for him, in that moment.

But people change. And we aren't talking about over 2 months, it was 2 years so there is certainly enough time for his feelings and motives to change.

Perhaps it was the distance that eventually dampened his enthusiasm. Perhaps it was meeting someone else... idk.

But I don't think he was deceiving you from the start. He was definitely interested... or else why continue to give you his energy and time for 2 years. But at some point his mind changed and that's ok too.

What isn't ok is how he chose to cut you off without an explanation or sense of closure. He's a coward and took the easy way out to preserve himself with little regard to your feelings.

So really you dodged a bullet.

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Posted by pisceanloves

What is maddening is that I certainly misunderstood the fact him chasing me over the months was anything more than that. I walked away twice and he still kept trying. I did invest all my emotions and I got attached, I just can't believe someone can fake connection and tenderness. I can't believe that. Why go out of your way only to hurt another, why do that? he knew me, he knew real me, inside and out. I don't get it honestly but I don't care. I don't understand nothing and don't wanna know more than that. It's not rejection that hurts, it's being lied to. Done deal whatever

Thanks @LadyNeptune I have to agree. Won't be deleting the thread in case anyone wants to get anything out of it.

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Posted by pisceanloves

What is maddening is that I certainly misunderstood the fact him chasing me over the months was anything more than that. I walked away twice and he still kept trying. I did invest all my emotions and I got attached, I just can't believe someone can fake connection and tenderness. I can't believe that. Why go out of your way only to hurt another, why do that? he knew me, he knew real me, inside and out. I don't get it honestly but I don't care. I don't understand nothing and don't wanna know more than that. It's not rejection that hurts, it's being lied to. Done deal whatever

Thanks @LadyNeptune I have to agree. Won't be deleting the thread in case anyone wants to get anything out of it.

And its certainly possible that he didn't fake the connection. It was very real for him, in that moment.

But people change. And we aren't talking about over 2 months, it was 2 years so there is certainly enough time for his feelings and motives to change.

Perhaps it was the distance that eventually dampened his enthusiasm. Perhaps it was meeting someone else... idk.

But I don't think he was deceiving you from the start. He was definitely interested... or else why continue to give you his energy and time for 2 years. But at some point his mind changed and that's ok too.

What isn't ok is how he chose to cut you off without an explanation or sense of closure. He's a coward and took the easy way out to preserve himself with little regard to your feelings.

So really you dodged a bullet.

Even my Virgo man cutted me off without closure! So, Is this the reason that he don't want me? Or else someone else blocked me from his phone?

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@smiley_smiles Virgo man doesn't like crazy and you certainly have come across like one. Calm and collected is the way to go. Be more rational and offer something of value, other than unstable emotions that truly serves no one and should be used for self expression in private only.

Also you are young and have lots of growing to do.

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@smiley_smiles Virgo man doesn't like crazy and you certainly have come across like one. Calm and collected is the way to go. Be more rational and offer something of value, other than unstable emotions that truly serves no one and should be used for self expression in private only.

Also you are young and have lots of growing to do.

I didn't act as if I'm crazy but I was literally ignoring him a lot and he suddenly disappeared from my life

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@smiley_smiles Virgo man doesn't like crazy and you certainly have come across like one. Calm and collected is the way to go. Be more rational and offer something of value, other than unstable emotions that truly serves no one and should be used for self expression in private only.

Also you are young and have lots of growing to do.

I didn't act as if I'm crazy but I was literally ignoring him a lot and he suddenly disappeared from my life

Did you reach out so you can see him in person?? Lunch? Also virgos put up with your shit if they are invested which takes months and months but if its early on they won’t hesitate to ghost you.....

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@smiley_smiles Virgo man doesn't like crazy and you certainly have come across like one. Calm and collected is the way to go. Be more rational and offer something of value, other than unstable emotions that truly serves no one and should be used for self expression in private only.

Also you are young and have lots of growing to do.

I didn't act as if I'm crazy but I was literally ignoring him a lot and he suddenly disappeared from my life

Did you reach out so you can see him in person?? Lunch?

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@smiley_smiles Virgo man doesn't like crazy and you certainly have come across like one. Calm and collected is the way to go. Be more rational and offer something of value, other than unstable emotions that truly serves no one and should be used for self expression in private only.

Also you are young and have lots of growing to do.

I didn't act as if I'm crazy but I was literally ignoring him a lot and he suddenly disappeared from my life

Did you reach out so you can see him in person?? Lunch? Also virgos put up with your shit if they are invested which takes months and months but if its early on they won’t hesitate to ghost you.....

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@smiley_smiles Virgo man doesn't like crazy and you certainly have come across like one. Calm and collected is the way to go. Be more rational and offer something of value, other than unstable emotions that truly serves no one and should be used for self expression in private only.

Also you are young and have lots of growing to do.

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My son is a heavy virgo with a sag moon. If he is into you, you know it. He worships the ground his Libra wife walks on.

I'm pretty sure he is telling his friends you are obsessed with him and are a bit nuts at this point.

Walk away with your dignity and leave him alone....especially with your damsel in distress crap I'm stranded and need help bullshit.

You always come back with a new account only to bully people. You Scorpios really ain't no good for real. Now I see why my fellow Geminis that used to post here a long time ago never liked you. That post was unnecessary and uncall for. Y'all only post crazy crap like this just to see how many likes y'all gone get.

In your own words...Find a hobby to pick up on instead of wanting to start fights with internet strangers. Buy a musical instrument and learn it or something. Shits getting old and tiresome fighting like this.

to start an astro war (namely YOUR astro placements) on a user says a lot about you.

Aren’t you the one picking out astrology signs and fighting over it?

The projections... they get old and tiresome. You act like Geminis’ shit don’t stink when that cannot be further from the truth! Wife beater!

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He's back guys. He called this morning.

He's back but under one condition, that we do not talk about relationship, or any kind of issue at all..

I had something on my mind I wanted to talk about next week and was shut down immediately, that I'm disrespecting the agreement. What gives? What's the point of coming back if you are gonna be like that? He's impossible 😢

I don't get him, I don't get him at all. I could tell he was very careful while speaking to me, not wanting to say something wrong or coming off harsh. I don't understand him and it breaks my heart

What the hell 😒😒 who does he think he is? So that’s how the conversation went? So he means you can’t discuss the relationship you had in the past, or you can’t discuss a relationship at all going forward?

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I've dated a Pisces sun with Virgo moon and a Scorpio and Leo both with Virgo venus,

One thing I've observed in Virgo placements is that they're usually more calm and steady than a Virgo sun,

But highly critical and finicky.

Virgo venus is straight up my least favourite venus placement. ❌

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I've dated a Pisces sun with Virgo moon and a Scorpio and Leo both with Virgo venus,

One thing I've observed in Virgo placements is that they're usually more calm and steady than a Virgo sun,

But highly critical and finicky.

Virgo venus is straight up my least favourite venus placement. ❌

He doesn't criticize me at all. He will run away if his ego is bruised but he doesn't really point out my flaws. I sure know I have some tho, like anyone else but idk. He's all Virgo with sag moon.

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Virgo venus is straight up my least favourite venus placement. ❌

He doesn't criticize me at all. He will run away if his ego is bruised but he doesn't really point out my flaws. I sure know I have some tho, like anyone else but idk. He's all Virgo with sag moon.

Like I said, Virgo sun don't actually behave like Virgos. Virgo venus behave much more like Virgo stereotypes.

For your guy, it's his sag moon playing his strings.

Agree 100% about Virgo venus.

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Virgo venus is straight up my least favourite venus placement. ❌

He doesn't criticize me at all. He will run away if his ego is bruised but he doesn't really point out my flaws. I sure know I have some tho, like anyone else but idk. He's all Virgo with sag moon.

Like I said, Virgo sun don't actually behave like Virgos. Virgo venus behave much more like Virgo stereotypes.

For your guy, it's his sag moon playing his strings.

Agree 100% about Virgo venus.

Trash isn't it?

My favourite placements when it comes to mars and venus are Scorpio and Aries, be it Scorpio mars or venus/ Aries mars or venus.

Always seem to somehow attract them and get attracted to them.

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Virgo venus is straight up my least favourite venus placement. ❌

He doesn't criticize me at all. He will run away if his ego is bruised but he doesn't really point out my flaws. I sure know I have some tho, like anyone else but idk. He's all Virgo with sag moon.

Like I said, Virgo sun don't actually behave like Virgos. Virgo venus behave much more like Virgo stereotypes.

For your guy, it's his sag moon playing his strings.

Agree 100% about Virgo venus.

Trash isn't it?

My favourite placements when it comes to mars and venus are Scorpio and Aries, be it Scorpio mars or venus/ Aries mars or venus.

Always seem to somehow attract them and get attracted to them.

Haha I have Venus in Scorpio. I would not say Venus in Virgo is trash, but I think they are low key miserable in relationship. Of course, I can’t say about all of them, but in my experience while having high standards and being picky (which is okay), they don’t really have what it takes to be with their ideal partner (independent, motivated, educated, beautiful, etc.), because of ditached and aloof nature. So they end up with “door mat” person, who can get alone with their “my way or highway” attitude.

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Virgo venus is straight up my least favourite venus placement. ❌

He doesn't criticize me at all. He will run away if his ego is bruised but he doesn't really point out my flaws. I sure know I have some tho, like anyone else but idk. He's all Virgo with sag moon.

Like I said, Virgo sun don't actually behave like Virgos. Virgo venus behave much more like Virgo stereotypes.

For your guy, it's his sag moon playing his strings.

Agree 100% about Virgo venus.

Trash isn't it?

My favourite placements when it comes to mars and venus are Scorpio and Aries, be it Scorpio mars or venus/ Aries mars or venus.

Always seem to somehow attract them and get attracted to them.

Haha I have Venus in Scorpio. I would not say Venus in Virgo is trash, but I think they are low key miserable in relationship. Of course, I can’t say about all of them, but in my experience while having high standards and being picky (which is okay), they don’t really have what it takes to be with their ideal partner (independent, motivated, educated, beautiful, etc.), because of ditached and aloof nature. So they end up with “door mat” person, who can get alone with their “my way or highway” attitude.

What's your sun sign?

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Virgo venus is straight up my least favourite venus placement. ❌

He doesn't criticize me at all. He will run away if his ego is bruised but he doesn't really point out my flaws. I sure know I have some tho, like anyone else but idk. He's all Virgo with sag moon.

Like I said, Virgo sun don't actually behave like Virgos. Virgo venus behave much more like Virgo stereotypes.

For your guy, it's his sag moon playing his strings.

Agree 100% about Virgo venus.

Trash isn't it?

My favourite placements when it comes to mars and venus are Scorpio and Aries, be it Scorpio mars or venus/ Aries mars or venus.

Always seem to somehow attract them and get attracted to them.

Haha I have Venus in Scorpio. I would not say Venus in Virgo is trash, but I think they are low key miserable in relationship. Of course, I can’t say about all of them, but in my experience while having high standards and being picky (which is okay), they don’t really have what it takes to be with their ideal partner (independent, motivated, educated, beautiful, etc.), because of ditached and aloof nature. So they end up with “door mat” person, who can get alone with their “my way or highway” attitude.

What's your sun sign?

Libra, Moon in Scorpio as well.

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I've dated a Pisces sun with Virgo moon and a Scorpio and Leo both with Virgo venus,

One thing I've observed in Virgo placements is that they're usually more calm and steady than a Virgo sun,

But highly critical and finicky.

Virgo venus is straight up my least favourite venus placement. ❌

I have Virgo Venus and it’s MY least favorite Venus too 😅😂 just kidding. I mean it does make me overthink and it’s hard for me to relax and just go with the flow but it does not make me critical of others, it makes me critical of myself.

When dating others I do have standards of wanting the man to be responsible and family oriented, but I have a 6 year old son so of course I need to have some standards. I think it’s wise to know what you want and not settle, but the issues I am firm on are issues of integrity, responsibility, trust etc. 🤷‍♀️ Not superficial stuff.

I think Mercury probably also plays a part in it. What was the Mercury for your Scorpio sun/Virgo Venus that was critical of you?

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I've dated a Pisces sun with Virgo moon and a Scorpio and Leo both with Virgo venus,

One thing I've observed in Virgo placements is that they're usually more calm and steady than a Virgo sun,

But highly critical and finicky.

Virgo venus is straight up my least favourite venus placement. ❌

I have Virgo Venus and it’s MY least favorite Venus too 😅😂 just kidding. I mean it does make me overthink and it’s hard for me to relax and just go with the flow but it does not make me critical of others, it makes me critical of myself.

When dating others I do have standards of wanting the man to be responsible and family oriented, but I have a 6 year old son so of course I need to have some standards. I think it’s wise to know what you want and not settle, but the issues I am firm on are issues of integrity, responsibility, trust etc. 🤷‍♀️ Not superficial stuff.

I think Mercury probably also plays a part in it. What was the Mercury for your Scorpio sun/Virgo Venus that was critical of you?

You're a mother of a 6 year old son so it's your motherhood that demands a man with standards like: integrity, responsibility, trust, etc.

10 years ago this might not have been the case for you.

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Her mercury was Scorpio.

I think criticism comes naturally with a Scorpio sun regardless of the venus because Scorpios abhor childish, irresponsible behaviour. That is why an unevolved Pisces is a horrible match for them whereas an envolved Pisces is a heavenly combo for Scorpio sun,

But that virgo venus just fucks things up at the wrong times.

Hmmm this is true to an extent. Sometimes my sag mars loves the childish fun stuff, but I do agree there is a time for everything and a time to be serious. I’ve always said I was an “old soul” stuck in a young body so maybe I’m like a cranky old lady . Lol

I haven’t noticed Pisces in general being immature, and I’ve dated a few. I attract Pisces more than any sign. Aries Venus is a lot of fun, a lot of sexual chemistry and tension between Aries Venus and my sag mars, but I will admit Aries Venus makes my Virgo Venus nervous because they want to move so fast and my Virgo Venus is cautious and nervous and wants to think before acting. In a way, Aries Venus brings out the fun side of me. I don’t know if it would work long term but the attraction is strong. I’ve only met 2 Aries Venus so far, first on a Taurus and currently im crushing on a Pisces/Virgo moon with Aries Venus but he blows hot/cold and I don’t know how to read him. Lol

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I've dated a Pisces sun with Virgo moon and a Scorpio and Leo both with Virgo venus,

One thing I've observed in Virgo placements is that they're usually more calm and steady than a Virgo sun,

But highly critical and finicky.

Virgo venus is straight up my least favourite venus placement. ❌

I have Virgo Venus and it’s MY least favorite Venus too 😅😂 just kidding. I mean it does make me overthink and it’s hard for me to relax and just go with the flow but it does not make me critical of others, it makes me critical of myself.

When dating others I do have standards of wanting the man to be responsible and family oriented, but I have a 6 year old son so of course I need to have some standards. I think it’s wise to know what you want and not settle, but the issues I am firm on are issues of integrity, responsibility, trust etc. 🤷‍♀️ Not superficial stuff.

I think Mercury probably also plays a part in it. What was the Mercury for your Scorpio sun/Virgo Venus that was critical of you?

You're a mother of a 6 year old son so it's your motherhood that demands a man with standards like: integrity, responsibility, trust, etc.

10 years ago this might not have been the case for you.

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Her mercury was Scorpio.

I think criticism comes naturally with a Scorpio sun regardless of the venus because Scorpios abhor childish, irresponsible behaviour. That is why an unevolved Pisces is a horrible match for them whereas an envolved Pisces is a heavenly combo for Scorpio sun,

But that virgo venus just fucks things up at the wrong times.

Hmmm this is true to an extent. Sometimes my sag mars loves the childish fun stuff, but I do agree there is a time for everything and a time to be serious. I’ve always said I was an “old soul” stuck in a young body so maybe I’m like a cranky old lady . Lol

I haven’t noticed Pisces in general being immature, and I’ve dated a few. I attract Pisces more than any sign. Aries Venus is a lot of fun, a lot of sexual chemistry and tension between Aries Venus and my sag mars, but I will admit Aries Venus makes my Virgo Venus nervous because they want to move so fast and my Virgo Venus is cautious and nervous and wants to think before acting. In a way, Aries Venus brings out the fun side of me. I don’t know if it would work long term but the attraction is strong. I’ve only met 2 Aries Venus so far, first on a Taurus and currently im crushing on a Pisces/Virgo moon with Aries Venus but he blows hot/cold and I don’t know how to read him. Lol

I'm not an Aries venus but I do have an Aries mars, and what you're describing was a lot similar to my relationship with the Scorpio. I was a lot younger back then, more childish and a bit immature as compared to the Scorpio, she was 3.5 years older than me, but initially it started well.

I chased, she liked it, she gave hints, I picked up, I proposed, she said yes, we had sex in almost a week of starting our relationship (pretty fast for a Virgo venus isn't it? Lol) but here comes the problem, her Scorpio jealousy toppled with a Taurus moon went crazy if she'd see me interacting with any female friend of mine, or if I like their IG posts or if one of them comments on my IG posts, toppled with the Virgo venus that would get upset if she gets a haircut or changes her hair color and I don't like it, or don't appreciate her new dress...you can see where I'm heading to.

I absolutely hate social media and what it has done to relationships lol I have a sensitive cancer moon so I have some insecurities of my own, and I do agree that social media magnifies all of those insecurities because everything is in your face. I’m not familiar with Taurus moon or how they operate so I can’t really vouch for that. But I have deactivated my Facebook page anytime i notice it starts to affect my moods or relationship. But that’s a whole other topic, astrology aside. There are non-jealous Scorpio’s that have the same issues. I’m convinced social media is the devil 🤣

Any hoot. You also have to factor in time though. You said “back then”. So I am assuming both of you were younger and immature. She probably had some growing to do as well. Also nurture (upbringing) plays a part as much as nature (astrology). There are things that do make me jealous or insecure in relationships but a little self awareness goes a long way. I am usually able and willing to address those issues within myself before confronting or attacking someone else. Sometimes there is logical reason to feel threatened, other times it’s my own insecurity. The key is a little self awareness and that only comes with time and growth.

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I've dated a Pisces sun with Virgo moon and a Scorpio and Leo both with Virgo venus,

One thing I've observed in Virgo placements is that they're usually more calm and steady than a Virgo sun,

But highly critical and finicky.

Virgo venus is straight up my least favourite venus placement. ❌

I have Virgo Venus and it’s MY least favorite Venus too 😅😂 just kidding. I mean it does make me overthink and it’s hard for me to relax and just go with the flow but it does not make me critical of others, it makes me critical of myself.

When dating others I do have standards of wanting the man to be responsible and family oriented, but I have a 6 year old son so of course I need to have some standards. I think it’s wise to know what you want and not settle, but the issues I am firm on are issues of integrity, responsibility, trust etc. 🤷‍♀️ Not superficial stuff.

I think Mercury probably also plays a part in it. What was the Mercury for your Scorpio sun/Virgo Venus that was critical of you?

You're a mother of a 6 year old son so it's your motherhood that demands a man with standards like: integrity, responsibility, trust, etc.

10 years ago this might not have been the case for you.

~

Her mercury was Scorpio.

I think criticism comes naturally with a Scorpio sun regardless of the venus because Scorpios abhor childish, irresponsible behaviour. That is why an unevolved Pisces is a horrible match for them whereas an envolved Pisces is a heavenly combo for Scorpio sun,

But that virgo venus just fucks things up at the wrong times.

Hmmm this is true to an extent. Sometimes my sag mars loves the childish fun stuff, but I do agree there is a time for everything and a time to be serious. I’ve always said I was an “old soul” stuck in a young body so maybe I’m like a cranky old lady . Lol

I haven’t noticed Pisces in general being immature, and I’ve dated a few. I attract Pisces more than any sign. Aries Venus is a lot of fun, a lot of sexual chemistry and tension between Aries Venus and my sag mars, but I will admit Aries Venus makes my Virgo Venus nervous because they want to move so fast and my Virgo Venus is cautious and nervous and wants to think before acting. In a way, Aries Venus brings out the fun side of me. I don’t know if it would work long term but the attraction is strong. I’ve only met 2 Aries Venus so far, first on a Taurus and currently im crushing on a Pisces/Virgo moon with Aries Venus but he blows hot/cold and I don’t know how to read him. Lol

I'm not an Aries venus but I do have an Aries mars, and what you're describing was a lot similar to my relationship with the Scorpio. I was a lot younger back then, more childish and a bit immature as compared to the Scorpio, she was 3.5 years older than me, but initially it started well.

I chased, she liked it, she gave hints, I picked up, I proposed, she said yes, we had sex in almost a week of starting our relationship (pretty fast for a Virgo venus isn't it? Lol) but here comes the problem, her Scorpio jealousy toppled with a Taurus moon went crazy if she'd see me interacting with any female friend of mine, or if I like their IG posts or if one of them comments on my IG posts, toppled with the Virgo venus that would get upset if she gets a haircut or changes her hair color and I don't like it, or don't appreciate her new dress...you can see where I'm heading to.

I absolutely hate social media and what it has done to relationships lol I have a sensitive cancer moon so I have some insecurities of my own, and I do agree that social media magnifies all of those insecurities because everything is in your face. I’m not familiar with Taurus moon or how they operate so I can’t really vouch for that. But I have deactivated my Facebook page anytime i notice it starts to affect my moods or relationship. But that’s a whole other topic, astrology aside. There are non-jealous Scorpio’s that have the same issues. I’m convinced social media is the devil 🤣

Any hoot. You also have to factor in time though. You said “back then”. So I am assuming both of you were younger and immature. She probably had some growing to do as well. Also nurture (upbringing) plays a part as much as nature (astrology). There are things that do make me jealous or insecure in relationships but a little self awareness goes a long way. I am usually able and willing to address those issues within myself before confronting or attacking someone else. Sometimes there is logical reason to feel threatened, other times it’s my own insecurity. The key is a little self awareness and that only comes with time and growth.

See I told you it's your motherhood taking the driver's seat and helping you act in a mature and sensibile manner. A younger Scorpio wouldn't be saying that 👆🏻

And yes we both were young back then, this was about 7-8 years ago.

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The Leo I dated with virgo venus had a cancer moon and mars, and I could see her face visibly getting sad the moment I told her once "your new hair colour doesn't suit you".

Back to your earlier message, I do think now that yes, virgo venus makes one more critical of themselves than the other person now that I look at it.

Well I’m also 40. Lol and I didn’t have my son until I was 34.. so it’s not only my son that helped me grow up.

I have studied astrology, have read a ton of self-help books as well as done therapy. The way I see it, I won’t always understand other people or how they operate but I need to understand myself and my own needs if I want to enter a relationship as a whole person, so I need to do the work. And that’s one thing about Virgo Venus.. we are always willing to do the work to improve ourselves or improve our relationships.

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I've dated a Pisces sun with Virgo moon and a Scorpio and Leo both with Virgo venus,

One thing I've observed in Virgo placements is that they're usually more calm and steady than a Virgo sun,

But highly critical and finicky.

Virgo venus is straight up my least favourite venus placement. ❌

I have Virgo Venus and it’s MY least favorite Venus too 😅😂 just kidding. I mean it does make me overthink and it’s hard for me to relax and just go with the flow but it does not make me critical of others, it makes me critical of myself.

When dating others I do have standards of wanting the man to be responsible and family oriented, but I have a 6 year old son so of course I need to have some standards. I think it’s wise to know what you want and not settle, but the issues I am firm on are issues of integrity, responsibility, trust etc. 🤷‍♀️ Not superficial stuff.

I think Mercury probably also plays a part in it. What was the Mercury for your Scorpio sun/Virgo Venus that was critical of you?

You're a mother of a 6 year old son so it's your motherhood that demands a man with standards like: integrity, responsibility, trust, etc.

10 years ago this might not have been the case for you.

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Her mercury was Scorpio.

I think criticism comes naturally with a Scorpio sun regardless of the venus because Scorpios abhor childish, irresponsible behaviour. That is why an unevolved Pisces is a horrible match for them whereas an envolved Pisces is a heavenly combo for Scorpio sun,

But that virgo venus just fucks things up at the wrong times.

Hmmm this is true to an extent. Sometimes my sag mars loves the childish fun stuff, but I do agree there is a time for everything and a time to be serious. I’ve always said I was an “old soul” stuck in a young body so maybe I’m like a cranky old lady . Lol

I haven’t noticed Pisces in general being immature, and I’ve dated a few. I attract Pisces more than any sign. Aries Venus is a lot of fun, a lot of sexual chemistry and tension between Aries Venus and my sag mars, but I will admit Aries Venus makes my Virgo Venus nervous because they want to move so fast and my Virgo Venus is cautious and nervous and wants to think before acting. In a way, Aries Venus brings out the fun side of me. I don’t know if it would work long term but the attraction is strong. I’ve only met 2 Aries Venus so far, first on a Taurus and currently im crushing on a Pisces/Virgo moon with Aries Venus but he blows hot/cold and I don’t know how to read him. Lol

I'm not an Aries venus but I do have an Aries mars, and what you're describing was a lot similar to my relationship with the Scorpio. I was a lot younger back then, more childish and a bit immature as compared to the Scorpio, she was 3.5 years older than me, but initially it started well.

I chased, she liked it, she gave hints, I picked up, I proposed, she said yes, we had sex in almost a week of starting our relationship (pretty fast for a Virgo venus isn't it? Lol) but here comes the problem, her Scorpio jealousy toppled with a Taurus moon went crazy if she'd see me interacting with any female friend of mine, or if I like their IG posts or if one of them comments on my IG posts, toppled with the Virgo venus that would get upset if she gets a haircut or changes her hair color and I don't like it, or don't appreciate her new dress...you can see where I'm heading to.

I absolutely hate social media and what it has done to relationships lol I have a sensitive cancer moon so I have some insecurities of my own, and I do agree that social media magnifies all of those insecurities because everything is in your face. I’m not familiar with Taurus moon or how they operate so I can’t really vouch for that. But I have deactivated my Facebook page anytime i notice it starts to affect my moods or relationship. But that’s a whole other topic, astrology aside. There are non-jealous Scorpio’s that have the same issues. I’m convinced social media is the devil 🤣

Any hoot. You also have to factor in time though. You said “back then”. So I am assuming both of you were younger and immature. She probably had some growing to do as well. Also nurture (upbringing) plays a part as much as nature (astrology). There are things that do make me jealous or insecure in relationships but a little self awareness goes a long way. I am usually able and willing to address those issues within myself before confronting or attacking someone else. Sometimes there is logical reason to feel threatened, other times it’s my own insecurity. The key is a little self awareness and that only comes with time and growth.

See I told you it's your motherhood taking the driver's seat and helping you act in a mature and sensibile manner. A younger Scorpio wouldn't be saying that 👆🏻

And yes we both were young back then, this was about 7-8 years ago.

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The Leo I dated with virgo venus had a cancer moon and mars, and I could see her face visibly getting sad the moment I told her once "your new hair colour doesn't suit you".

Back to your earlier message, I do think now that yes, virgo venus makes one more critical of themselves than the other person now that I look at it.

Well I’m also 40. Lol and I didn’t have my son until I was 34.. so it’s not only my son that helped me grow up.

I have studied astrology, have read a ton of self-help books as well as done therapy. The way I see it, I won’t always understand other people or how they operate but I need to understand myself and my own needs if I want to enter a relationship as a whole person, so I need to do the work. And that’s one thing about Virgo Venus.. we are always willing to do the work to improve ourselves or improve our relationships.

Fair enough.

But my point still stands:

I don't like Virgo venus. ❌😆

If I meet someone in the future who is able to change my opinion, then it'll be interesting.

😆 I don’t blame you. Some people are just not compatible. I spent over 10 years with an Aqua Venus. While we are still best friends, I know detached Aqua Venus is not for me. 🚫 lol

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I've dated a Pisces sun with Virgo moon and a Scorpio and Leo both with Virgo venus,

One thing I've observed in Virgo placements is that they're usually more calm and steady than a Virgo sun,

But highly critical and finicky.

Virgo venus is straight up my least favourite venus placement. ❌

I have Virgo Venus and it’s MY least favorite Venus too 😅😂 just kidding. I mean it does make me overthink and it’s hard for me to relax and just go with the flow but it does not make me critical of others, it makes me critical of myself.

When dating others I do have standards of wanting the man to be responsible and family oriented, but I have a 6 year old son so of course I need to have some standards. I think it’s wise to know what you want and not settle, but the issues I am firm on are issues of integrity, responsibility, trust etc. 🤷‍♀️ Not superficial stuff.

I think Mercury probably also plays a part in it. What was the Mercury for your Scorpio sun/Virgo Venus that was critical of you?

You're a mother of a 6 year old son so it's your motherhood that demands a man with standards like: integrity, responsibility, trust, etc.

10 years ago this might not have been the case for you.

~

Her mercury was Scorpio.

I think criticism comes naturally with a Scorpio sun regardless of the venus because Scorpios abhor childish, irresponsible behaviour. That is why an unevolved Pisces is a horrible match for them whereas an envolved Pisces is a heavenly combo for Scorpio sun,

But that virgo venus just fucks things up at the wrong times.

Hmmm this is true to an extent. Sometimes my sag mars loves the childish fun stuff, but I do agree there is a time for everything and a time to be serious. I’ve always said I was an “old soul” stuck in a young body so maybe I’m like a cranky old lady . Lol

I haven’t noticed Pisces in general being immature, and I’ve dated a few. I attract Pisces more than any sign. Aries Venus is a lot of fun, a lot of sexual chemistry and tension between Aries Venus and my sag mars, but I will admit Aries Venus makes my Virgo Venus nervous because they want to move so fast and my Virgo Venus is cautious and nervous and wants to think before acting. In a way, Aries Venus brings out the fun side of me. I don’t know if it would work long term but the attraction is strong. I’ve only met 2 Aries Venus so far, first on a Taurus and currently im crushing on a Pisces/Virgo moon with Aries Venus but he blows hot/cold and I don’t know how to read him. Lol

I'm not an Aries venus but I do have an Aries mars, and what you're describing was a lot similar to my relationship with the Scorpio. I was a lot younger back then, more childish and a bit immature as compared to the Scorpio, she was 3.5 years older than me, but initially it started well.

I chased, she liked it, she gave hints, I picked up, I proposed, she said yes, we had sex in almost a week of starting our relationship (pretty fast for a Virgo venus isn't it? Lol) but here comes the problem, her Scorpio jealousy toppled with a Taurus moon went crazy if she'd see me interacting with any female friend of mine, or if I like their IG posts or if one of them comments on my IG posts, toppled with the Virgo venus that would get upset if she gets a haircut or changes her hair color and I don't like it, or don't appreciate her new dress...you can see where I'm heading to.

I absolutely hate social media and what it has done to relationships lol I have a sensitive cancer moon so I have some insecurities of my own, and I do agree that social media magnifies all of those insecurities because everything is in your face. I’m not familiar with Taurus moon or how they operate so I can’t really vouch for that. But I have deactivated my Facebook page anytime i notice it starts to affect my moods or relationship. But that’s a whole other topic, astrology aside. There are non-jealous Scorpio’s that have the same issues. I’m convinced social media is the devil 🤣

Any hoot. You also have to factor in time though. You said “back then”. So I am assuming both of you were younger and immature. She probably had some growing to do as well. Also nurture (upbringing) plays a part as much as nature (astrology). There are things that do make me jealous or insecure in relationships but a little self awareness goes a long way. I am usually able and willing to address those issues within myself before confronting or attacking someone else. Sometimes there is logical reason to feel threatened, other times it’s my own insecurity. The key is a little self awareness and that only comes with time and growth.

See I told you it's your motherhood taking the driver's seat and helping you act in a mature and sensibile manner. A younger Scorpio wouldn't be saying that 👆🏻

And yes we both were young back then, this was about 7-8 years ago.

~

The Leo I dated with virgo venus had a cancer moon and mars, and I could see her face visibly getting sad the moment I told her once "your new hair colour doesn't suit you".

Back to your earlier message, I do think now that yes, virgo venus makes one more critical of themselves than the other person now that I look at it.

Well I’m also 40. Lol and I didn’t have my son until I was 34.. so it’s not only my son that helped me grow up.

I have studied astrology, have read a ton of self-help books as well as done therapy. The way I see it, I won’t always understand other people or how they operate but I need to understand myself and my own needs if I want to enter a relationship as a whole person, so I need to do the work. And that’s one thing about Virgo Venus.. we are always willing to do the work to improve ourselves or improve our relationships.

Fair enough.

But my point still stands:

I don't like Virgo venus. ❌😆

If I meet someone in the future who is able to change my opinion, then it'll be interesting.

😆 I don’t blame you. Some people are just not compatible. I spent over 10 years with an Aqua Venus. While we are still best friends, I know detached Aqua Venus is not for me. 🚫 lol

Do you know what my venus is?

No I don’t think you’ve ever mentioned it

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I've dated a Pisces sun with Virgo moon and a Scorpio and Leo both with Virgo venus,

One thing I've observed in Virgo placements is that they're usually more calm and steady than a Virgo sun,

But highly critical and finicky.

Virgo venus is straight up my least favourite venus placement. ❌

I have Virgo Venus and it’s MY least favorite Venus too 😅😂 just kidding. I mean it does make me overthink and it’s hard for me to relax and just go with the flow but it does not make me critical of others, it makes me critical of myself.

When dating others I do have standards of wanting the man to be responsible and family oriented, but I have a 6 year old son so of course I need to have some standards. I think it’s wise to know what you want and not settle, but the issues I am firm on are issues of integrity, responsibility, trust etc. 🤷‍♀️ Not superficial stuff.

I think Mercury probably also plays a part in it. What was the Mercury for your Scorpio sun/Virgo Venus that was critical of you?

You're a mother of a 6 year old son so it's your motherhood that demands a man with standards like: integrity, responsibility, trust, etc.

10 years ago this might not have been the case for you.

~

Her mercury was Scorpio.

I think criticism comes naturally with a Scorpio sun regardless of the venus because Scorpios abhor childish, irresponsible behaviour. That is why an unevolved Pisces is a horrible match for them whereas an envolved Pisces is a heavenly combo for Scorpio sun,

But that virgo venus just fucks things up at the wrong times.

Hmmm this is true to an extent. Sometimes my sag mars loves the childish fun stuff, but I do agree there is a time for everything and a time to be serious. I’ve always said I was an “old soul” stuck in a young body so maybe I’m like a cranky old lady . Lol

I haven’t noticed Pisces in general being immature, and I’ve dated a few. I attract Pisces more than any sign. Aries Venus is a lot of fun, a lot of sexual chemistry and tension between Aries Venus and my sag mars, but I will admit Aries Venus makes my Virgo Venus nervous because they want to move so fast and my Virgo Venus is cautious and nervous and wants to think before acting. In a way, Aries Venus brings out the fun side of me. I don’t know if it would work long term but the attraction is strong. I’ve only met 2 Aries Venus so far, first on a Taurus and currently im crushing on a Pisces/Virgo moon with Aries Venus but he blows hot/cold and I don’t know how to read him. Lol

I'm not an Aries venus but I do have an Aries mars, and what you're describing was a lot similar to my relationship with the Scorpio. I was a lot younger back then, more childish and a bit immature as compared to the Scorpio, she was 3.5 years older than me, but initially it started well.

I chased, she liked it, she gave hints, I picked up, I proposed, she said yes, we had sex in almost a week of starting our relationship (pretty fast for a Virgo venus isn't it? Lol) but here comes the problem, her Scorpio jealousy toppled with a Taurus moon went crazy if she'd see me interacting with any female friend of mine, or if I like their IG posts or if one of them comments on my IG posts, toppled with the Virgo venus that would get upset if she gets a haircut or changes her hair color and I don't like it, or don't appreciate her new dress...you can see where I'm heading to.

I absolutely hate social media and what it has done to relationships lol I have a sensitive cancer moon so I have some insecurities of my own, and I do agree that social media magnifies all of those insecurities because everything is in your face. I’m not familiar with Taurus moon or how they operate so I can’t really vouch for that. But I have deactivated my Facebook page anytime i notice it starts to affect my moods or relationship. But that’s a whole other topic, astrology aside. There are non-jealous Scorpio’s that have the same issues. I’m convinced social media is the devil 🤣

Any hoot. You also have to factor in time though. You said “back then”. So I am assuming both of you were younger and immature. She probably had some growing to do as well. Also nurture (upbringing) plays a part as much as nature (astrology). There are things that do make me jealous or insecure in relationships but a little self awareness goes a long way. I am usually able and willing to address those issues within myself before confronting or attacking someone else. Sometimes there is logical reason to feel threatened, other times it’s my own insecurity. The key is a little self awareness and that only comes with time and growth.

See I told you it's your motherhood taking the driver's seat and helping you act in a mature and sensibile manner. A younger Scorpio wouldn't be saying that 👆🏻

And yes we both were young back then, this was about 7-8 years ago.

~

The Leo I dated with virgo venus had a cancer moon and mars, and I could see her face visibly getting sad the moment I told her once "your new hair colour doesn't suit you".

Back to your earlier message, I do think now that yes, virgo venus makes one more critical of themselves than the other person now that I look at it.

Well I’m also 40. Lol and I didn’t have my son until I was 34.. so it’s not only my son that helped me grow up.

I have studied astrology, have read a ton of self-help books as well as done therapy. The way I see it, I won’t always understand other people or how they operate but I need to understand myself and my own needs if I want to enter a relationship as a whole person, so I need to do the work. And that’s one thing about Virgo Venus.. we are always willing to do the work to improve ourselves or improve our relationships.

Fair enough.

But my point still stands:

I don't like Virgo venus. ❌😆

If I meet someone in the future who is able to change my opinion, then it'll be interesting.

😆 I don’t blame you. Some people are just not compatible. I spent over 10 years with an Aqua Venus. While we are still best friends, I know detached Aqua Venus is not for me. 🚫 lol

Do you know what my venus is?

No I don’t think you’ve ever mentioned it

Try to guess..

LMAO Aqua Venus? 😆 if so, that should not surprise me lol

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I've dated a Pisces sun with Virgo moon and a Scorpio and Leo both with Virgo venus,

One thing I've observed in Virgo placements is that they're usually more calm and steady than a Virgo sun,

But highly critical and finicky.

Virgo venus is straight up my least favourite venus placement. ❌

I have Virgo Venus and it’s MY least favorite Venus too 😅😂 just kidding. I mean it does make me overthink and it’s hard for me to relax and just go with the flow but it does not make me critical of others, it makes me critical of myself.

When dating others I do have standards of wanting the man to be responsible and family oriented, but I have a 6 year old son so of course I need to have some standards. I think it’s wise to know what you want and not settle, but the issues I am firm on are issues of integrity, responsibility, trust etc. 🤷‍♀️ Not superficial stuff.

I think Mercury probably also plays a part in it. What was the Mercury for your Scorpio sun/Virgo Venus that was critical of you?

You're a mother of a 6 year old son so it's your motherhood that demands a man with standards like: integrity, responsibility, trust, etc.

10 years ago this might not have been the case for you.

~

Her mercury was Scorpio.

I think criticism comes naturally with a Scorpio sun regardless of the venus because Scorpios abhor childish, irresponsible behaviour. That is why an unevolved Pisces is a horrible match for them whereas an envolved Pisces is a heavenly combo for Scorpio sun,

But that virgo venus just fucks things up at the wrong times.

Hmmm this is true to an extent. Sometimes my sag mars loves the childish fun stuff, but I do agree there is a time for everything and a time to be serious. I’ve always said I was an “old soul” stuck in a young body so maybe I’m like a cranky old lady . Lol

I haven’t noticed Pisces in general being immature, and I’ve dated a few. I attract Pisces more than any sign. Aries Venus is a lot of fun, a lot of sexual chemistry and tension between Aries Venus and my sag mars, but I will admit Aries Venus makes my Virgo Venus nervous because they want to move so fast and my Virgo Venus is cautious and nervous and wants to think before acting. In a way, Aries Venus brings out the fun side of me. I don’t know if it would work long term but the attraction is strong. I’ve only met 2 Aries Venus so far, first on a Taurus and currently im crushing on a Pisces/Virgo moon with Aries Venus but he blows hot/cold and I don’t know how to read him. Lol

I'm not an Aries venus but I do have an Aries mars, and what you're describing was a lot similar to my relationship with the Scorpio. I was a lot younger back then, more childish and a bit immature as compared to the Scorpio, she was 3.5 years older than me, but initially it started well.

I chased, she liked it, she gave hints, I picked up, I proposed, she said yes, we had sex in almost a week of starting our relationship (pretty fast for a Virgo venus isn't it? Lol) but here comes the problem, her Scorpio jealousy toppled with a Taurus moon went crazy if she'd see me interacting with any female friend of mine, or if I like their IG posts or if one of them comments on my IG posts, toppled with the Virgo venus that would get upset if she gets a haircut or changes her hair color and I don't like it, or don't appreciate her new dress...you can see where I'm heading to.

I absolutely hate social media and what it has done to relationships lol I have a sensitive cancer moon so I have some insecurities of my own, and I do agree that social media magnifies all of those insecurities because everything is in your face. I’m not familiar with Taurus moon or how they operate so I can’t really vouch for that. But I have deactivated my Facebook page anytime i notice it starts to affect my moods or relationship. But that’s a whole other topic, astrology aside. There are non-jealous Scorpio’s that have the same issues. I’m convinced social media is the devil 🤣

Any hoot. You also have to factor in time though. You said “back then”. So I am assuming both of you were younger and immature. She probably had some growing to do as well. Also nurture (upbringing) plays a part as much as nature (astrology). There are things that do make me jealous or insecure in relationships but a little self awareness goes a long way. I am usually able and willing to address those issues within myself before confronting or attacking someone else. Sometimes there is logical reason to feel threatened, other times it’s my own insecurity. The key is a little self awareness and that only comes with time and growth.

See I told you it's your motherhood taking the driver's seat and helping you act in a mature and sensibile manner. A younger Scorpio wouldn't be saying that 👆🏻

And yes we both were young back then, this was about 7-8 years ago.

~

The Leo I dated with virgo venus had a cancer moon and mars, and I could see her face visibly getting sad the moment I told her once "your new hair colour doesn't suit you".

Back to your earlier message, I do think now that yes, virgo venus makes one more critical of themselves than the other person now that I look at it.

Well I’m also 40. Lol and I didn’t have my son until I was 34.. so it’s not only my son that helped me grow up.

I have studied astrology, have read a ton of self-help books as well as done therapy. The way I see it, I won’t always understand other people or how they operate but I need to understand myself and my own needs if I want to enter a relationship as a whole person, so I need to do the work. And that’s one thing about Virgo Venus.. we are always willing to do the work to improve ourselves or improve our relationships.

Fair enough.

But my point still stands:

I don't like Virgo venus. ❌😆

If I meet someone in the future who is able to change my opinion, then it'll be interesting.

😆 I don’t blame you. Some people are just not compatible. I spent over 10 years with an Aqua Venus. While we are still best friends, I know detached Aqua Venus is not for me. 🚫 lol

Do you know what my venus is?

No I don’t think you’ve ever mentioned it

Try to guess..

LMAO Aqua Venus? 😆 if so, that should not surprise me lol

It is.

Now I’m really surprised that as a Aqua Venus you like Scorpio Venus 🤨 in my experience, Scorpio Venus is more controlling than Scorpio sun and Aqua Venus is all about having your freedom.

There’s a Libra sun/cancer moon/Scorpio Venus and rising that’s been pursuing me and he straight up asked me to enable my “read receipts” on my iPhone so that he could see when I’ve read his messages. 😒🤨 and we aren’t even together. Lol scorp Venus seems controlling to me. So its surprising to me that as an Aqua Venus, you pair well with them.

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I've dated a Pisces sun with Virgo moon and a Scorpio and Leo both with Virgo venus,

One thing I've observed in Virgo placements is that they're usually more calm and steady than a Virgo sun,

But highly critical and finicky.

Virgo venus is straight up my least favourite venus placement. ❌

I have Virgo Venus and it’s MY least favorite Venus too 😅😂 just kidding. I mean it does make me overthink and it’s hard for me to relax and just go with the flow but it does not make me critical of others, it makes me critical of myself.

When dating others I do have standards of wanting the man to be responsible and family oriented, but I have a 6 year old son so of course I need to have some standards. I think it’s wise to know what you want and not settle, but the issues I am firm on are issues of integrity, responsibility, trust etc. 🤷‍♀️ Not superficial stuff.

I think Mercury probably also plays a part in it. What was the Mercury for your Scorpio sun/Virgo Venus that was critical of you?

You're a mother of a 6 year old son so it's your motherhood that demands a man with standards like: integrity, responsibility, trust, etc.

10 years ago this might not have been the case for you.

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Her mercury was Scorpio.

I think criticism comes naturally with a Scorpio sun regardless of the venus because Scorpios abhor childish, irresponsible behaviour. That is why an unevolved Pisces is a horrible match for them whereas an envolved Pisces is a heavenly combo for Scorpio sun,

But that virgo venus just fucks things up at the wrong times.

Hmmm this is true to an extent. Sometimes my sag mars loves the childish fun stuff, but I do agree there is a time for everything and a time to be serious. I’ve always said I was an “old soul” stuck in a young body so maybe I’m like a cranky old lady . Lol

I haven’t noticed Pisces in general being immature, and I’ve dated a few. I attract Pisces more than any sign. Aries Venus is a lot of fun, a lot of sexual chemistry and tension between Aries Venus and my sag mars, but I will admit Aries Venus makes my Virgo Venus nervous because they want to move so fast and my Virgo Venus is cautious and nervous and wants to think before acting. In a way, Aries Venus brings out the fun side of me. I don’t know if it would work long term but the attraction is strong. I’ve only met 2 Aries Venus so far, first on a Taurus and currently im crushing on a Pisces/Virgo moon with Aries Venus but he blows hot/cold and I don’t know how to read him. Lol

I'm not an Aries venus but I do have an Aries mars, and what you're describing was a lot similar to my relationship with the Scorpio. I was a lot younger back then, more childish and a bit immature as compared to the Scorpio, she was 3.5 years older than me, but initially it started well.

I chased, she liked it, she gave hints, I picked up, I proposed, she said yes, we had sex in almost a week of starting our relationship (pretty fast for a Virgo venus isn't it? Lol) but here comes the problem, her Scorpio jealousy toppled with a Taurus moon went crazy if she'd see me interacting with any female friend of mine, or if I like their IG posts or if one of them comments on my IG posts, toppled with the Virgo venus that would get upset if she gets a haircut or changes her hair color and I don't like it, or don't appreciate her new dress...you can see where I'm heading to.

I absolutely hate social media and what it has done to relationships lol I have a sensitive cancer moon so I have some insecurities of my own, and I do agree that social media magnifies all of those insecurities because everything is in your face. I’m not familiar with Taurus moon or how they operate so I can’t really vouch for that. But I have deactivated my Facebook page anytime i notice it starts to affect my moods or relationship. But that’s a whole other topic, astrology aside. There are non-jealous Scorpio’s that have the same issues. I’m convinced social media is the devil 🤣

Any hoot. You also have to factor in time though. You said “back then”. So I am assuming both of you were younger and immature. She probably had some growing to do as well. Also nurture (upbringing) plays a part as much as nature (astrology). There are things that do make me jealous or insecure in relationships but a little self awareness goes a long way. I am usually able and willing to address those issues within myself before confronting or attacking someone else. Sometimes there is logical reason to feel threatened, other times it’s my own insecurity. The key is a little self awareness and that only comes with time and growth.

See I told you it's your motherhood taking the driver's seat and helping you act in a mature and sensibile manner. A younger Scorpio wouldn't be saying that 👆🏻

And yes we both were young back then, this was about 7-8 years ago.

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The Leo I dated with virgo venus had a cancer moon and mars, and I could see her face visibly getting sad the moment I told her once "your new hair colour doesn't suit you".

Back to your earlier message, I do think now that yes, virgo venus makes one more critical of themselves than the other person now that I look at it.

Well I’m also 40. Lol and I didn’t have my son until I was 34.. so it’s not only my son that helped me grow up.

I have studied astrology, have read a ton of self-help books as well as done therapy. The way I see it, I won’t always understand other people or how they operate but I need to understand myself and my own needs if I want to enter a relationship as a whole person, so I need to do the work. And that’s one thing about Virgo Venus.. we are always willing to do the work to improve ourselves or improve our relationships.

Fair enough.

But my point still stands:

I don't like Virgo venus. ❌😆

If I meet someone in the future who is able to change my opinion, then it'll be interesting.

😆 I don’t blame you. Some people are just not compatible. I spent over 10 years with an Aqua Venus. While we are still best friends, I know detached Aqua Venus is not for me. 🚫 lol

Do you know what my venus is?

No I don’t think you’ve ever mentioned it

Try to guess..

LMAO Aqua Venus? 😆 if so, that should not surprise me lol

It is.

Now I’m really surprised that as a Aqua Venus you like Scorpio Venus 🤨 in my experience, Scorpio Venus is more controlling than Scorpio sun and Aqua Venus is all about having your freedom.

There’s a Libra sun/cancer moon/Scorpio Venus and rising that’s been pursuing me and he straight up asked me to enable my “read receipts” on my iPhone so that he could see when I’ve read his messages. 😒🤨 and we aren’t even together. Lol scorp Venus seems controlling to me. So its surprising to me that as an Aqua Venus, you pair well with them.

I'm a Cap moon and rising, so I don't mind a 'musshy, emotional ass' 😉

But the main reason I feel I like Scorpio venus is because the one I dated was near to one of my best experiences.

They're real and genuine with their emotions, no drama no bs, just the way I like it.

He is the only scorp Venus I’ve met so far and we have only went out a couple times to shoot pool or sat with each other in church a few months ago.

He wants to hang out this weekend (the Libra/scorp Venus) but I’m stuck on the Pisces/Virgo even though he lives in a different state and I’m technically single. 🤣 I just know I would be thinking about the Pisces the entire time and that’s not fair to the Libra so I’m just going to stay my ass at home lol

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