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This has got to be the most pathetic read through on here.

I’ve never met a libra woman that wasn’t desperate or was intelligent.

I object!!

Thank you, I think 🙂

That wasn’t about you. I was objecting to mokos statement as I’m libra.

I can’t be bothered reading this thread… not my cup of tea and you wouldn’t be thanking me for my opinion
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Cliff notes version

2 years ago: crush on Virgo coworker, who is not single

Present day: fucking Virgo coworker, who is still not single

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Did you get your $ 1,500 back?

Literally the only thing that matters smh.

This single woman with no children is a suga mamma for this dudes children and baby mama. All he has to do is fuck her now and again and tell her she feels like home, after a few drinks, and she's on the hook.

I lol-ed at her terming the gf as abusive for confiscating this dudes phone. Obviously she has a reason for doing so, he is fucking his coworker raw!

I will never understand why the community dick is so attractive to some. And a broke community dick at that! He's got multiple children by multiple women, lives with one of them and has a joint bank account! They are common law married.

Self-worth is the most rare of commodities it seems.

LOL you're still around? Go let that dog eat you. Or go eat a C.U.N.T. you're so rude and stupid. Love is love. Sorry you have only felt that with your dog. It's been two years. You're not a "woke philosopher" you're and ignorant female dog 🙂

Great comeback. In case you didn’t realize you are still around too 🤪

All the nastiness and insults thrown your way aside... no one here can hurt you the way you are hurting yourself. Throwing away your most precious of commodities TIME on someone who is obviously playing you for a fool. I genuinely hope you can find your way out of this.
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I am his best friend and he is my best friend. I realized when I came back to this site, I was going into a different job. I was sad he did not say goodbye to me. I went to my new job (that I started when I was about 8 years old) I started to not like it again. Manager at a pizza place. A month later, my old manager (at the dealership) called me with a new position and raise. I came back. I found out he had relapsed when he found out I was leaving. No call no call no show. He had his first day back from rehab a few days after my few days back. He's just my best friend. He can't hurt me. I just love him so much. He loves me too so much. I don't even know if he loves me romantically, but I feel comfortable being his home. He has told me I am his home. And he knows I'm his home. We just love each other. Even if it's not romantic. Even if I'm not his girlfriend. He is my home, and I am his home
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Did you get your $ 1,500 back?

Literally the only thing that matters smh.

This single woman with no children is a suga mamma for this dudes children and baby mama. All he has to do is fuck her now and again and tell her she feels like home, after a few drinks, and she's on the hook.

I lol-ed at her terming the gf as abusive for confiscating this dudes phone. Obviously she has a reason for doing so, he is fucking his coworker raw!

I will never understand why the community dick is so attractive to some. And a broke community dick at that! He's got multiple children by multiple women, lives with one of them and has a joint bank account! They are common law married.

Self-worth is the most rare of commodities it seems.

LOL you're still around? Go let that dog eat you. Or go eat a C.U.N.T. you're so rude and stupid. Love is love. Sorry you have only felt that with your dog. It's been two years. You're not a "woke philosopher" you're and ignorant female dog 🙂

Great comeback. In case you didn’t realize you are still around too 🤪

All the nastiness and insults thrown your way aside... no one here can hurt you the way you are hurting yourself. Throwing away your most precious of commodities TIME on someone who is obviously playing you for a fool. I genuinely hope you can find your way out of this.

I am his best friend and he is my best friend. I realized when I came back to this site, I was going into a different job. I was sad he did not say goodbye to me. I went to my new job (that I started when I was about 8 years old) I started to not like it again. Manager at a pizza place. A month later, my old manager (at the dealership) called me with a new position and raise. I came back. I found out he had relapsed when he found out I was leaving. No call no call no show. He had his first day back from rehab a few days after my few days back. He's just my best friend. He can't hurt me. I just love him so much. He loves me too so much. I don't even know if he loves me romantically, but I feel comfortable being his home. He has told me I am his home. And he knows I'm his home. We just love each other. Even if it's not romantic. Even if I'm not his girlfriend. He is my home, and I am his home
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When I told him I was quitting, he knew. So we met at a parking lot to make out. Literal fireworks went off. On December 2/2020. In a parking lot in the city. Girl I hope you find that too. Hes my love
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Did you get your $ 1,500 back?

Literally the only thing that matters smh.

This single woman with no children is a suga mamma for this dudes children and baby mama. All he has to do is fuck her now and again and tell her she feels like home, after a few drinks, and she's on the hook.

I lol-ed at her terming the gf as abusive for confiscating this dudes phone. Obviously she has a reason for doing so, he is fucking his coworker raw!

I will never understand why the community dick is so attractive to some. And a broke community dick at that! He's got multiple children by multiple women, lives with one of them and has a joint bank account! They are common law married.

Self-worth is the most rare of commodities it seems.

LOL you're still around? Go let that dog eat you. Or go eat a C.U.N.T. you're so rude and stupid. Love is love. Sorry you have only felt that with your dog. It's been two years. You're not a "woke philosopher" you're and ignorant female dog 🙂

Great comeback. In case you didn’t realize you are still around too 🤪

All the nastiness and insults thrown your way aside... no one here can hurt you the way you are hurting yourself. Throwing away your most precious of commodities TIME on someone who is obviously playing you for a fool. I genuinely hope you can find your way out of this.

I am his best friend and he is my best friend. I realized when I came back to this site, I was going into a different job. I was sad he did not say goodbye to me. I went to my new job (that I started when I was about 8 years old) I started to not like it again. Manager at a pizza place. A month later, my old manager (at the dealership) called me with a new position and raise. I came back. I found out he had relapsed when he found out I was leaving. No call no call no show. He had his first day back from rehab a few days after my few days back. He's just my best friend. He can't hurt me. I just love him so much. He loves me too so much. I don't even know if he loves me romantically, but I feel comfortable being his home. He has told me I am his home. And he knows I'm his home. We just love each other. Even if it's not romantic. Even if I'm not his girlfriend. He is my home, and I am his home

When I told him I was quitting, he knew. So we met at a parking lot to make out. Literal fireworks went off. On December 2/2020. In a parking lot in the city. Girl I hope you find that too. Hes my love
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How long will you be content with parking lot make outs while another women lives with him and his family?

Cause it’s fun and exciting now, but while you give everything of yourself he gives nothing. Once the new dick smell wears off this isn’t gonna feel as cute.

Maybe I’m wrong though and you'll really be happy with scraps.
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Two years later and he’s my best friend in the world. I’m crazy in love with him and I know he is with me too. Still in his situation but it’s getting better

Is he still in the same relationship or has he been in and out of multiple ones?

Same one. His son is attached to the girl, and he is more sad than if daddy (my guy) loses that connection. She also still has nowhere else to go, and controls things. But she agreed she doesn't mind if he goes out with someone else. I'm still thinking she's banging his "dad" in order to stay there. He's still their slave
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I hope you’re out dating and not wasting time on this man. He’ll have you wrapped up in this for years if you let him.

Unless you talk to the women and agree to do a three way relationship, I wouldn’t buy what he’s selling.
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Did you get your $ 1,500 back?

Literally the only thing that matters smh.

This single woman with no children is a suga mamma for this dudes children and baby mama. All he has to do is fuck her now and again and tell her she feels like home, after a few drinks, and she's on the hook.

I lol-ed at her terming the gf as abusive for confiscating this dudes phone. Obviously she has a reason for doing so, he is fucking his coworker raw!

I will never understand why the community dick is so attractive to some. And a broke community dick at that! He's got multiple children by multiple women, lives with one of them and has a joint bank account! They are common law married.

Self-worth is the most rare of commodities it seems.

LOL you're still around? Go let that dog eat you. Or go eat a C.U.N.T. you're so rude and stupid. Love is love. Sorry you have only felt that with your dog. It's been two years. You're not a "woke philosopher" you're and ignorant female dog 🙂

Great comeback. In case you didn’t realize you are still around too 🤪

All the nastiness and insults thrown your way aside... no one here can hurt you the way you are hurting yourself. Throwing away your most precious of commodities TIME on someone who is obviously playing you for a fool. I genuinely hope you can find your way out of this.
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He’s my best friend. It’s been two years. Not two months. I can handle what’s thrown at me, if anything different. I can tell his mood just by his walk. He can with me too. We’re best friends. I’ve recently gotten carpel tunnel. He bought me the wrist bandage for it. I didn’t even ask
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Posted by DonnaLibra

Did you get your $ 1,500 back?

Literally the only thing that matters smh.

This single woman with no children is a suga mamma for this dudes children and baby mama. All he has to do is fuck her now and again and tell her she feels like home, after a few drinks, and she's on the hook.

I lol-ed at her terming the gf as abusive for confiscating this dudes phone. Obviously she has a reason for doing so, he is fucking his coworker raw!

I will never understand why the community dick is so attractive to some. And a broke community dick at that! He's got multiple children by multiple women, lives with one of them and has a joint bank account! They are common law married.

Self-worth is the most rare of commodities it seems.

LOL you're still around? Go let that dog eat you. Or go eat a C.U.N.T. you're so rude and stupid. Love is love. Sorry you have only felt that with your dog. It's been two years. You're not a "woke philosopher" you're and ignorant female dog 🙂

Great comeback. In case you didn’t realize you are still around too 🤪

All the nastiness and insults thrown your way aside... no one here can hurt you the way you are hurting yourself. Throwing away your most precious of commodities TIME on someone who is obviously playing you for a fool. I genuinely hope you can find your way out of this.

I am his best friend and he is my best friend. I realized when I came back to this site, I was going into a different job. I was sad he did not say goodbye to me. I went to my new job (that I started when I was about 8 years old) I started to not like it again. Manager at a pizza place. A month later, my old manager (at the dealership) called me with a new position and raise. I came back. I found out he had relapsed when he found out I was leaving. No call no call no show. He had his first day back from rehab a few days after my few days back. He's just my best friend. He can't hurt me. I just love him so much. He loves me too so much. I don't even know if he loves me romantically, but I feel comfortable being his home. He has told me I am his home. And he knows I'm his home. We just love each other. Even if it's not romantic. Even if I'm not his girlfriend. He is my home, and I am his home

When I told him I was quitting, he knew. So we met at a parking lot to make out. Literal fireworks went off. On December 2/2020. In a parking lot in the city. Girl I hope you find that too. Hes my love

How long will you be content with parking lot make outs while another women lives with him and his family?

Cause it’s fun and exciting now, but while you give everything of yourself he gives nothing. Once the new dick smell wears off this isn’t gonna feel as cute.

Maybe I’m wrong though and you'll really be happy with scraps.
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You Neptune girl, useless in the galaxy besides trying to be Pluto’s friend. Grow up. You have no idea what this real life is like. It’s been two years. You think I’m disrespecting myself? You’re disrespecting yourself by being such a rude bully
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Two years later and he’s my best friend in the world. I’m crazy in love with him and I know he is with me too. Still in his situation but it’s getting better

Is he still in the same relationship or has he been in and out of multiple ones?

Same one. His son is attached to the girl, and he is more sad than if daddy (my guy) loses that connection. She also still has nowhere else to go, and controls things. But she agreed she doesn't mind if he goes out with someone else. I'm still thinking she's banging his "dad" in order to stay there. He's still their slave

I hope you’re out dating and not wasting time on this man. He’ll have you wrapped up in this for years if you let him.

Unless you talk to the women and agree to do a three way relationship, I wouldn’t buy what he’s selling.
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I can also tell you have an eating disorder. You’re too small. But your using the dog in your pic to hide that. I’m thinking bulimia. If you need to talk to someone, here I am. But don’t insult the love I have for someone
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Hello folks. New story, new crush. So this isn't as cute as my previous post about a certain dude, but this dude surely is as cute!

So I work with this guy, always thought he was cute but held back because I thought things would be well with the Aquarius I came here for. Didn't work, and two days later I bumped into this dude smoking a cigarette. We shook hands, and introduced ourselves. Been goofily waving, and saying hi to each other since. We work at a car dealership. I'm BDC manager/sales/sales manager. He's a mechanic, so we do not see each other often. Naturally, I crept him on Facebook. He has not one, but two kids. And a girlfriend, who is not the mother to either kid. The girlfriend bugs me, not the kids. Obviously, (before you trolls even start) I'm not gonna try anything. His birthday is 12 days before mine, although he's a year younger. The other day, we talked about how hot it is outside, and what we want to do other than be in work. He wanted to go swimming. I wanted to go fishing. I think he shit himself with excitement to hear that I, a pretty, dainty little thing likes fishing. And kayaking. He's been a bit standoffish since. Why?!? He still gives a weak "hi (my name)" but no more of the overexaggerated wave. What are Virgo men like? They have been dating for a year this month.

Anyway, he's super cute, and I would mind bouncing around on him.

Thank you lovely folks for the advice in advance

please don't try to break two people in love. If he is a single, then there is nothing wrong in you chasing him but if he isn't, leave him for his girlfriend
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Hello folks. New story, new crush. So this isn't as cute as my previous post about a certain dude, but this dude surely is as cute!

So I work with this guy, always thought he was cute but held back because I thought things would be well with the Aquarius I came here for. Didn't work, and two days later I bumped into this dude smoking a cigarette. We shook hands, and introduced ourselves. Been goofily waving, and saying hi to each other since. We work at a car dealership. I'm BDC manager/sales/sales manager. He's a mechanic, so we do not see each other often. Naturally, I crept him on Facebook. He has not one, but two kids. And a girlfriend, who is not the mother to either kid. The girlfriend bugs me, not the kids. Obviously, (before you trolls even start) I'm not gonna try anything. His birthday is 12 days before mine, although he's a year younger. The other day, we talked about how hot it is outside, and what we want to do other than be in work. He wanted to go swimming. I wanted to go fishing. I think he shit himself with excitement to hear that I, a pretty, dainty little thing likes fishing. And kayaking. He's been a bit standoffish since. Why?!? He still gives a weak "hi (my name)" but no more of the overexaggerated wave. What are Virgo men like? They have been dating for a year this month.

Anyway, he's super cute, and I would mind bouncing around on him.

Thank you lovely folks for the advice in advance

please don't try to break two people in love. If he is a single, then there is nothing wrong in you chasing him but if he isn't, leave him for his girlfriend
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This post was two years ago. His gf is super abusive. I am his BFF now, after two years.
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Same one. His son is attached to the girl, and he is more sad than if daddy (my guy) loses that connection. She also still has nowhere else to go, and controls things. But she agreed she doesn't mind if he goes out with someone else. I'm still thinking she's banging his "dad" in order to stay there. He's still their slave

Ah, story old as time. There is this great kind guy who can not end the relationship because "his son likes the official girlfriend" meanwhile "she is abusive and controlling". Well, at least he has you lol
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This has got to be the most pathetic read through on here.

I’ve never met a libra woman that wasn’t desperate or was intelligent.

I object!!

Thank you, I think 🙂

That wasn’t about you. I was objecting to mokos statement as I’m libra.

I can’t be bothered reading this thread… not my cup of tea and you wouldn’t be thanking me for my opinion

Cliff notes version

2 years ago: crush on Virgo coworker, who is not single

Present day: fucking Virgo coworker, who is still not single
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Yeah, I briefed that.

To be honest I know some libra’s that are alley cats but some of us have morals. Probably 50/50 😂 🤦🏼‍♀️
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Did you get your $ 1,500 back?

Literally the only thing that matters smh.

This single woman with no children is a suga mamma for this dudes children and baby mama. All he has to do is fuck her now and again and tell her she feels like home, after a few drinks, and she's on the hook.

I lol-ed at her terming the gf as abusive for confiscating this dudes phone. Obviously she has a reason for doing so, he is fucking his coworker raw!

I will never understand why the community dick is so attractive to some. And a broke community dick at that! He's got multiple children by multiple women, lives with one of them and has a joint bank account! They are common law married.

Self-worth is the most rare of commodities it seems.

LOL you're still around? Go let that dog eat you. Or go eat a C.U.N.T. you're so rude and stupid. Love is love. Sorry you have only felt that with your dog. It's been two years. You're not a "woke philosopher" you're and ignorant female dog 🙂

Great comeback. In case you didn’t realize you are still around too 🤪

All the nastiness and insults thrown your way aside... no one here can hurt you the way you are hurting yourself. Throwing away your most precious of commodities TIME on someone who is obviously playing you for a fool. I genuinely hope you can find your way out of this.

I am his best friend and he is my best friend. I realized when I came back to this site, I was going into a different job. I was sad he did not say goodbye to me. I went to my new job (that I started when I was about 8 years old) I started to not like it again. Manager at a pizza place. A month later, my old manager (at the dealership) called me with a new position and raise. I came back. I found out he had relapsed when he found out I was leaving. No call no call no show. He had his first day back from rehab a few days after my few days back. He's just my best friend. He can't hurt me. I just love him so much. He loves me too so much. I don't even know if he loves me romantically, but I feel comfortable being his home. He has told me I am his home. And he knows I'm his home. We just love each other. Even if it's not romantic. Even if I'm not his girlfriend. He is my home, and I am his home
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Rehab?

Ok I get it. You have saviour complex.
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Two years later and he’s my best friend in the world. I’m crazy in love with him and I know he is with me too. Still in his situation but it’s getting better

Is he still in the same relationship or has he been in and out of multiple ones?

Same one. His son is attached to the girl, and he is more sad than if daddy (my guy) loses that connection. She also still has nowhere else to go, and controls things. But she agreed she doesn't mind if he goes out with someone else. I'm still thinking she's banging his "dad" in order to stay there. He's still their slave

I hope you’re out dating and not wasting time on this man. He’ll have you wrapped up in this for years if you let him.

Unless you talk to the women and agree to do a three way relationship, I wouldn’t buy what he’s selling.

I can also tell you have an eating disorder. You’re too small. But your using the dog in your pic to hide that. I’m thinking bulimia. If you need to talk to someone, here I am. But don’t insult the love I have for someone
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She's hardly too small the size of her arms and body look healthy and natural. You must be overweight and that is why you said that.
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Two years later and he’s my best friend in the world. I’m crazy in love with him and I know he is with me too. Still in his situation but it’s getting better

Is he still in the same relationship or has he been in and out of multiple ones?

Same one. His son is attached to the girl, and he is more sad than if daddy (my guy) loses that connection. She also still has nowhere else to go, and controls things. But she agreed she doesn't mind if he goes out with someone else. I'm still thinking she's banging his "dad" in order to stay there. He's still their slave

I hope you’re out dating and not wasting time on this man. He’ll have you wrapped up in this for years if you let him.

Unless you talk to the women and agree to do a three way relationship, I wouldn’t buy what he’s selling.

I can also tell you have an eating disorder. You’re too small. But your using the dog in your pic to hide that. I’m thinking bulimia. If you need to talk to someone, here I am. But don’t insult the love I have for someone

She's hardly too small the size of her arms and body look healthy and natural. You must be overweight and that is why you said that.
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Even if she was underweight, what’s the relevance of that comment to the topic?

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Omg this whole website is the downfall from society as we know it. Not literally, but I'm seeing how dumb ya'll are. This girl gave up custody of her two children (at 21 years old) just because this dude would give everything to everyone to help. Two years later I am still being mocked. He's my love. Fuck ya'll


So why continue to post here?
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Two years later and he’s my best friend in the world. I’m crazy in love with him and I know he is with me too. Still in his situation but it’s getting better

Is he still in the same relationship or has he been in and out of multiple ones?

Same one. His son is attached to the girl, and he is more sad than if daddy (my guy) loses that connection. She also still has nowhere else to go, and controls things. But she agreed she doesn't mind if he goes out with someone else. I'm still thinking she's banging his "dad" in order to stay there. He's still their slave

I hope you’re out dating and not wasting time on this man. He’ll have you wrapped up in this for years if you let him.

Unless you talk to the women and agree to do a three way relationship, I wouldn’t buy what he’s selling.

I can also tell you have an eating disorder. You’re too small. But your using the dog in your pic to hide that. I’m thinking bulimia. If you need to talk to someone, here I am. But don’t insult the love I have for someone
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Huh?

Who are you talking about? What dog in a pic? I’m not skinny or small.

What insult?
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Two years later and he’s my best friend in the world. I’m crazy in love with him and I know he is with me too. Still in his situation but it’s getting better

Is he still in the same relationship or has he been in and out of multiple ones?

Same one. His son is attached to the girl, and he is more sad than if daddy (my guy) loses that connection. She also still has nowhere else to go, and controls things. But she agreed she doesn't mind if he goes out with someone else. I'm still thinking she's banging his "dad" in order to stay there. He's still their slave

I hope you’re out dating and not wasting time on this man. He’ll have you wrapped up in this for years if you let him.

Unless you talk to the women and agree to do a three way relationship, I wouldn’t buy what he’s selling.

I can also tell you have an eating disorder. You’re too small. But your using the dog in your pic to hide that. I’m thinking bulimia. If you need to talk to someone, here I am. But don’t insult the love I have for someone

She's hardly too small the size of her arms and body look healthy and natural. You must be overweight and that is why you said that.
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Do you know who she’s talking about? Cause I’m seriously confused 🤔

Oh nevermind. Lady Neptune’s pic. I get it now.
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Two years later and he’s my best friend in the world. I’m crazy in love with him and I know he is with me too. Still in his situation but it’s getting better

Is he still in the same relationship or has he been in and out of multiple ones?

Same one. His son is attached to the girl, and he is more sad than if daddy (my guy) loses that connection. She also still has nowhere else to go, and controls things. But she agreed she doesn't mind if he goes out with someone else. I'm still thinking she's banging his "dad" in order to stay there. He's still their slave

I hope you’re out dating and not wasting time on this man. He’ll have you wrapped up in this for years if you let him.

Unless you talk to the women and agree to do a three way relationship, I wouldn’t buy what he’s selling.

I can also tell you have an eating disorder. You’re too small. But your using the dog in your pic to hide that. I’m thinking bulimia. If you need to talk to someone, here I am. But don’t insult the love I have for someone

She's hardly too small the size of her arms and body look healthy and natural. You must be overweight and that is why you said that.
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You ladies getting feisty up in here. I like.
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Omg this whole website is the downfall from society as we know it. Not literally, but I'm seeing how dumb ya'll are. This girl gave up custody of her two children (at 21 years old) just because this dude would give everything to everyone to help. Two years later I am still being mocked. He's my love. Fuck ya'll


That's why I keep my relationship to me self. You got some good souls here that'll help but the vast majority will give you nothing but shits. This isn't the right place to seek for this type thing. And that's basically because nobody here never been in a long term serious relationship. They'll say they have but they never.

Oh I'm only here on this site to be nosy now. I just peep and dip.
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Two years later and he’s my best friend in the world. I’m crazy in love with him and I know he is with me too. Still in his situation but it’s getting better

Is he still in the same relationship or has he been in and out of multiple ones?

Same one. His son is attached to the girl, and he is more sad than if daddy (my guy) loses that connection. She also still has nowhere else to go, and controls things. But she agreed she doesn't mind if he goes out with someone else. I'm still thinking she's banging his "dad" in order to stay there. He's still their slave

I hope you’re out dating and not wasting time on this man. He’ll have you wrapped up in this for years if you let him.

Unless you talk to the women and agree to do a three way relationship, I wouldn’t buy what he’s selling.

I can also tell you have an eating disorder. You’re too small. But your using the dog in your pic to hide that. I’m thinking bulimia. If you need to talk to someone, here I am. But don’t insult the love I have for someone

Huh?

Who are you talking about? What dog in a pic? I’m not skinny or small.

What insult?
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Did you get your $ 1,500 back?

No. I got $ 2,000 back 🙂 hes a good dude
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Yeah but why would he pay you back for something he wasn’t involved in? I thought you said it was your ex-prison acquaintance who was behind it. So do you actually know like 💯 what the hell happened? Or you just don’t care bc either this guy is 1. Physically gorgeous or 2. Has a magic peen.
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Did you get your $ 1,500 back?

Literally the only thing that matters smh.

This single woman with no children is a suga mamma for this dudes children and baby mama. All he has to do is fuck her now and again and tell her she feels like home, after a few drinks, and she's on the hook.

I lol-ed at her terming the gf as abusive for confiscating this dudes phone. Obviously she has a reason for doing so, he is fucking his coworker raw!

I will never understand why the community dick is so attractive to some. And a broke community dick at that! He's got multiple children by multiple women, lives with one of them and has a joint bank account! They are common law married.

Self-worth is the most rare of commodities it seems.

LOL you're still around? Go let that dog eat you. Or go eat a C.U.N.T. you're so rude and stupid. Love is love. Sorry you have only felt that with your dog. It's been two years. You're not a "woke philosopher" you're and ignorant female dog 🙂

Great comeback. In case you didn’t realize you are still around too 🤪

All the nastiness and insults thrown your way aside... no one here can hurt you the way you are hurting yourself. Throwing away your most precious of commodities TIME on someone who is obviously playing you for a fool. I genuinely hope you can find your way out of this.

I am his best friend and he is my best friend. I realized when I came back to this site, I was going into a different job. I was sad he did not say goodbye to me. I went to my new job (that I started when I was about 8 years old) I started to not like it again. Manager at a pizza place. A month later, my old manager (at the dealership) called me with a new position and raise. I came back. I found out he had relapsed when he found out I was leaving. No call no call no show. He had his first day back from rehab a few days after my few days back. He's just my best friend. He can't hurt me. I just love him so much. He loves me too so much. I don't even know if he loves me romantically, but I feel comfortable being his home. He has told me I am his home. And he knows I'm his home. We just love each other. Even if it's not romantic. Even if I'm not his girlfriend. He is my home, and I am his home
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You hit the nail on the head with a previous post when you said he’s co-dependent—addicts/alcoholics often are. And if you know anything about codependency is, you will not help him by simply replacing his gf. He will just be codependent with you. If that’s what you’re looking for, boy you’ve found it. You can’t really argue not being codependent at this point, since you’re still actively pursuing a relationship with him—even if you say it’s not romantic, codependency can often start as friendship, particularly in early stages of sobriety. So, I think you know this is a mess. And you just don’t care. Best of luck to you.
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Did you get your $ 1,500 back?

No. I got $ 2,000 back 🙂 hes a good dude

Yeah but why would he pay you back for something he wasn’t involved in? I thought you said it was your ex-prison acquaintance who was behind it. So do you actually know like 💯 what the hell happened? Or you just don’t care bc either this guy is 1. Physically gorgeous or 2. Has a magic peen.
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Posted by DonnaLibra

Did you get your $ 1,500 back?

Literally the only thing that matters smh.

This single woman with no children is a suga mamma for this dudes children and baby mama. All he has to do is fuck her now and again and tell her she feels like home, after a few drinks, and she's on the hook.

I lol-ed at her terming the gf as abusive for confiscating this dudes phone. Obviously she has a reason for doing so, he is fucking his coworker raw!

I will never understand why the community dick is so attractive to some. And a broke community dick at that! He's got multiple children by multiple women, lives with one of them and has a joint bank account! They are common law married.

Self-worth is the most rare of commodities it seems.

LOL you're still around? Go let that dog eat you. Or go eat a C.U.N.T. you're so rude and stupid. Love is love. Sorry you have only felt that with your dog. It's been two years. You're not a "woke philosopher" you're and ignorant female dog 🙂

Great comeback. In case you didn’t realize you are still around too 🤪

All the nastiness and insults thrown your way aside... no one here can hurt you the way you are hurting yourself. Throwing away your most precious of commodities TIME on someone who is obviously playing you for a fool. I genuinely hope you can find your way out of this.

I am his best friend and he is my best friend. I realized when I came back to this site, I was going into a different job. I was sad he did not say goodbye to me. I went to my new job (that I started when I was about 8 years old) I started to not like it again. Manager at a pizza place. A month later, my old manager (at the dealership) called me with a new position and raise. I came back. I found out he had relapsed when he found out I was leaving. No call no call no show. He had his first day back from rehab a few days after my few days back. He's just my best friend. He can't hurt me. I just love him so much. He loves me too so much. I don't even know if he loves me romantically, but I feel comfortable being his home. He has told me I am his home. And he knows I'm his home. We just love each other. Even if it's not romantic. Even if I'm not his girlfriend. He is my home, and I am his home

You hit the nail on the head with a previous post when you said he’s co-dependent—addicts/alcoholics often are. And if you know anything about codependency is, you will not help him by simply replacing his gf. He will just be codependent with you. If that’s what you’re looking for, boy you’ve found it. You can’t really argue not being codependent at this point, since you’re still actively pursuing a relationship with him—even if you say it’s not romantic, codependency can often start as friendship, particularly in early stages of sobriety. So, I think you know this is a mess. And you just don’t care. Best of luck to you.
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I do know, and I do not. The only thing I can hope for is the best. For him to become sober. He’s my best friend. But we’re very communicative with has to be done for us to have the healthiest relationship possible, whether this relationship turns romantic, or we stay friends with benefits. We just have absolute trust and honesty for each other and that’s what’s most important. We both try to exercise being totally predictable with one another. For example, if he’s high one day he’ll tell me “I’m totally gonna ignore you tomorrow, it’s because I’m crashing and hurting it’s not because of you” which I accept. Of course I don’t like when he’s high, but we both know that’s out of my control. It’s been a long, weird journey; but I’m willing to see where it goes. Idk if I mentioned this in a previous post, but I did quit that job for about a month. In that time he relapsed, went to rehab, and came back by the time I had started working their again. He literally relapsed the day I found out I had put my two weeks in. While I was gone, he was no call no show for two weeks. He did the same when our manager left. He couldn’t even come in on his last day to say goodbye. The dude is a mess, but I love him and will never not be by his side
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I had a Libra friend who was so desperate to have a man that it ended the friendship between us. She said “anything is better than nothing”. There was no reasoning with her. Her standards were very low and she allowed men to treat her badly 😬.

I kind of lost respect for her.


You guys ended a friendship because of a guy? Doesn’t sound like much of a friendship to begin with. Maybe there’s a reason for her low standards. Did you try to help her discover and eliminate those reasons? This dude has never really treated me bad. He’s just got his issues. If anything, he’s treated me like a princess because the last thing he wants is for me to get involved in his stuff
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I had a Libra friend who was so desperate to have a man that it ended the friendship between us. She said “anything is better than nothing”. There was no reasoning with her. Her standards were very low and she allowed men to treat her badly 😬.

I kind of lost respect for her.

You guys ended a friendship because of a guy? Doesn’t sound like much of a friendship to begin with. Maybe there’s a reason for her low standards. Did you try to help her discover and eliminate those reasons? This dude has never really treated me bad. He’s just got his issues. If anything, he’s treated me like a princess because the last thing he wants is for me to get involved in his stuff
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She dropped all her friends and yes i bust a gut trying to help her
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I had a Libra friend who was so desperate to have a man that it ended the friendship between us. She said “anything is better than nothing”. There was no reasoning with her. Her standards were very low and she allowed men to treat her badly 😬.

I kind of lost respect for her.

You guys ended a friendship because of a guy? Doesn’t sound like much of a friendship to begin with. Maybe there’s a reason for her low standards. Did you try to help her discover and eliminate those reasons? This dude has never really treated me bad. He’s just got his issues. If anything, he’s treated me like a princess because the last thing he wants is for me to get involved in his stuff

She dropped all her friends and yes i bust a gut trying to help her
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I’m sorry to hear. Of course, idk how long ago that was but maybe don’t be surprised if she’s hits you up sometime needing help. If I were you, I’d be there 100%
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I had a Libra friend who was so desperate to have a man that it ended the friendship between us. She said “anything is better than nothing”. There was no reasoning with her. Her standards were very low and she allowed men to treat her badly 😬.

I kind of lost respect for her.

You guys ended a friendship because of a guy? Doesn’t sound like much of a friendship to begin with. Maybe there’s a reason for her low standards. Did you try to help her discover and eliminate those reasons? This dude has never really treated me bad. He’s just got his issues. If anything, he’s treated me like a princess because the last thing he wants is for me to get involved in his stuff

She dropped all her friends and yes i bust a gut trying to help her

I’m sorry to hear. Of course, idk how long ago that was but maybe don’t be surprised if she’s hits you up sometime needing help. If I were you, I’d be there 100%
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Its been 10 yrs lol so i doubt it
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I had a Libra friend who was so desperate to have a man that it ended the friendship between us. She said “anything is better than nothing”. There was no reasoning with her. Her standards were very low and she allowed men to treat her badly 😬.

I kind of lost respect for her.

You guys ended a friendship because of a guy? Doesn’t sound like much of a friendship to begin with. Maybe there’s a reason for her low standards. Did you try to help her discover and eliminate those reasons? This dude has never really treated me bad. He’s just got his issues. If anything, he’s treated me like a princess because the last thing he wants is for me to get involved in his stuff

She dropped all her friends and yes i bust a gut trying to help her

I’m sorry to hear. Of course, idk how long ago that was but maybe don’t be surprised if she’s hits you up sometime needing help. If I were you, I’d be there 100%

Its been 10 yrs lol so i doubt it
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Yea maybe not but ya never know lol. Even so, this post prompted you to bring her up. Just know it’s prob the same case with her in different scenarios. Gone but never forgotten
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I had a Libra friend who was so desperate to have a man that it ended the friendship between us. She said “anything is better than nothing”. There was no reasoning with her. Her standards were very low and she allowed men to treat her badly 😬.

I kind of lost respect for her.

You guys ended a friendship because of a guy? Doesn’t sound like much of a friendship to begin with. Maybe there’s a reason for her low standards. Did you try to help her discover and eliminate those reasons? This dude has never really treated me bad. He’s just got his issues. If anything, he’s treated me like a princess because the last thing he wants is for me to get involved in his stuff

She dropped all her friends and yes i bust a gut trying to help her

I’m sorry to hear. Of course, idk how long ago that was but maybe don’t be surprised if she’s hits you up sometime needing help. If I were you, I’d be there 100%

Its been 10 yrs lol so i doubt it

Yea maybe not but ya never know lol. Even so, this post prompted you to bring her up. Just know it’s prob the same case with her in different scenarios. Gone but never forgotten
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Yes .... it always amazes me how a woman can throw themselves so much into a man with the exclusion of all else. I thought she was the perfect example.
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I had a Libra friend who was so desperate to have a man that it ended the friendship between us. She said “anything is better than nothing”. There was no reasoning with her. Her standards were very low and she allowed men to treat her badly 😬.

I kind of lost respect for her.

You guys ended a friendship because of a guy? Doesn’t sound like much of a friendship to begin with. Maybe there’s a reason for her low standards. Did you try to help her discover and eliminate those reasons? This dude has never really treated me bad. He’s just got his issues. If anything, he’s treated me like a princess because the last thing he wants is for me to get involved in his stuff

She dropped all her friends and yes i bust a gut trying to help her

I’m sorry to hear. Of course, idk how long ago that was but maybe don’t be surprised if she’s hits you up sometime needing help. If I were you, I’d be there 100%

Its been 10 yrs lol so i doubt it

Yea maybe not but ya never know lol. Even so, this post prompted you to bring her up. Just know it’s prob the same case with her in different scenarios. Gone but never forgotten

Yes .... it always amazes me how a woman can throw themselves so much into a man with the exclusion of all else. I thought she was the perfect example.
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I’m sorry, the perfect example of what exactly?
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I had a Libra friend who was so desperate to have a man that it ended the friendship between us. She said “anything is better than nothing”. There was no reasoning with her. Her standards were very low and she allowed men to treat her badly 😬.

I kind of lost respect for her.

You guys ended a friendship because of a guy? Doesn’t sound like much of a friendship to begin with. Maybe there’s a reason for her low standards. Did you try to help her discover and eliminate those reasons? This dude has never really treated me bad. He’s just got his issues. If anything, he’s treated me like a princess because the last thing he wants is for me to get involved in his stuff

She dropped all her friends and yes i bust a gut trying to help her

I’m sorry to hear. Of course, idk how long ago that was but maybe don’t be surprised if she’s hits you up sometime needing help. If I were you, I’d be there 100%

Its been 10 yrs lol so i doubt it

Yea maybe not but ya never know lol. Even so, this post prompted you to bring her up. Just know it’s prob the same case with her in different scenarios. Gone but never forgotten

Yes .... it always amazes me how a woman can throw themselves so much into a man with the exclusion of all else. I thought she was the perfect example.

I’m sorry, the perfect example of what exactly?
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7th house dependancy
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Posted by MyStarsShine

I had a Libra friend who was so desperate to have a man that it ended the friendship between us. She said “anything is better than nothing”. There was no reasoning with her. Her standards were very low and she allowed men to treat her badly 😬.

I kind of lost respect for her.

You guys ended a friendship because of a guy? Doesn’t sound like much of a friendship to begin with. Maybe there’s a reason for her low standards. Did you try to help her discover and eliminate those reasons? This dude has never really treated me bad. He’s just got his issues. If anything, he’s treated me like a princess because the last thing he wants is for me to get involved in his stuff

She dropped all her friends and yes i bust a gut trying to help her

I’m sorry to hear. Of course, idk how long ago that was but maybe don’t be surprised if she’s hits you up sometime needing help. If I were you, I’d be there 100%

Its been 10 yrs lol so i doubt it

Yea maybe not but ya never know lol. Even so, this post prompted you to bring her up. Just know it’s prob the same case with her in different scenarios. Gone but never forgotten

Yes .... it always amazes me how a woman can throw themselves so much into a man with the exclusion of all else. I thought she was the perfect example.

I’m sorry, the perfect example of what exactly?

7th house dependancy
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The houses have always kind of confused me. Not their meaning of course, but how I can find mine. I’d appreciate a simple explanation if you have one
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I had a Libra friend who was so desperate to have a man that it ended the friendship between us. She said “anything is better than nothing”. There was no reasoning with her. Her standards were very low and she allowed men to treat her badly 😬.

I kind of lost respect for her.

You guys ended a friendship because of a guy? Doesn’t sound like much of a friendship to begin with. Maybe there’s a reason for her low standards. Did you try to help her discover and eliminate those reasons? This dude has never really treated me bad. He’s just got his issues. If anything, he’s treated me like a princess because the last thing he wants is for me to get involved in his stuff

She dropped all her friends and yes i bust a gut trying to help her

I’m sorry to hear. Of course, idk how long ago that was but maybe don’t be surprised if she’s hits you up sometime needing help. If I were you, I’d be there 100%

Its been 10 yrs lol so i doubt it

Yea maybe not but ya never know lol. Even so, this post prompted you to bring her up. Just know it’s prob the same case with her in different scenarios. Gone but never forgotten

Yes .... it always amazes me how a woman can throw themselves so much into a man with the exclusion of all else. I thought she was the perfect example.

I’m sorry, the perfect example of what exactly?

7th house dependancy

The houses have always kind of confused me. Not their meaning of course, but how I can find mine. I’d appreciate a simple explanation if you have one
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Just go to astro com and draw up a natal chart and note where your planets fall ... the dominant house will be the one where most planets fall.
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Did you get your $ 1,500 back?

Literally the only thing that matters smh.

This single woman with no children is a suga mamma for this dudes children and baby mama. All he has to do is fuck her now and again and tell her she feels like home, after a few drinks, and she's on the hook.

I lol-ed at her terming the gf as abusive for confiscating this dudes phone. Obviously she has a reason for doing so, he is fucking his coworker raw!

I will never understand why the community dick is so attractive to some. And a broke community dick at that! He's got multiple children by multiple women, lives with one of them and has a joint bank account! They are common law married.

Self-worth is the most rare of commodities it seems.

LOL you're still around? Go let that dog eat you. Or go eat a C.U.N.T. you're so rude and stupid. Love is love. Sorry you have only felt that with your dog. It's been two years. You're not a "woke philosopher" you're and ignorant female dog 🙂

Great comeback. In case you didn’t realize you are still around too 🤪

All the nastiness and insults thrown your way aside... no one here can hurt you the way you are hurting yourself. Throwing away your most precious of commodities TIME on someone who is obviously playing you for a fool. I genuinely hope you can find your way out of this.

I am his best friend and he is my best friend. I realized when I came back to this site, I was going into a different job. I was sad he did not say goodbye to me. I went to my new job (that I started when I was about 8 years old) I started to not like it again. Manager at a pizza place. A month later, my old manager (at the dealership) called me with a new position and raise. I came back. I found out he had relapsed when he found out I was leaving. No call no call no show. He had his first day back from rehab a few days after my few days back. He's just my best friend. He can't hurt me. I just love him so much. He loves me too so much. I don't even know if he loves me romantically, but I feel comfortable being his home. He has told me I am his home. And he knows I'm his home. We just love each other. Even if it's not romantic. Even if I'm not his girlfriend. He is my home, and I am his home

You hit the nail on the head with a previous post when you said he’s co-dependent—addicts/alcoholics often are. And if you know anything about codependency is, you will not help him by simply replacing his gf. He will just be codependent with you. If that’s what you’re looking for, boy you’ve found it. You can’t really argue not being codependent at this point, since you’re still actively pursuing a relationship with him—even if you say it’s not romantic, codependency can often start as friendship, particularly in early stages of sobriety. So, I think you know this is a mess. And you just don’t care. Best of luck to you.

I do know, and I do not. The only thing I can hope for is the best. For him to become sober. He’s my best friend. But we’re very communicative with has to be done for us to have the healthiest relationship possible, whether this relationship turns romantic, or we stay friends with benefits. We just have absolute trust and honesty for each other and that’s what’s most important. We both try to exercise being totally predictable with one another. For example, if he’s high one day he’ll tell me “I’m totally gonna ignore you tomorrow, it’s because I’m crashing and hurting it’s not because of you” which I accept. Of course I don’t like when he’s high, but we both know that’s out of my control. It’s been a long, weird journey; but I’m willing to see where it goes. Idk if I mentioned this in a previous post, but I did quit that job for about a month. In that time he relapsed, went to rehab, and came back by the time I had started working their again. He literally relapsed the day I found out I had put my two weeks in. While I was gone, he was no call no show for two weeks. He did the same when our manager left. He couldn’t even come in on his last day to say goodbye. The dude is a mess, but I love him and will never not be by his side
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The fact that you don’t recognize these things as red flags makes me worried you have no sense of self preservation even. There will never be complete honesty when he’s not sober—fact. Things will never be what you want them to be with that shit in your lives, and he won’t feel the need to change with enablers like you around. You can’t encourage his sobriety for his kids at the very least?? I mean, I just can’t reason with irrational so I’m done blowing smoke. And I’ll be here with my tea to tell you I told you so.