Have yall gone back to someone who unintentionally disrespected you?

They apologized and explained their side.

I used to before knowing my worth and learning to set boundaries, with abusive parents you just think it’s the norm. I’m honestly still learning to be strong and assertive.

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They apologized and explained their side.

Well if it's unintentional, the person apologized and provided an explanation, if the explanation was reasonable what exactly is the problem aside from a bruised ego?

This only applies to cancer women who are on their period 24/7.

@WarAngel

Um he took care of me and i accused him of using me. He felt disrespected and that i was ungrateful.

He texted me saying he doesnt want to see me again. I explained and apologized. My texts said delivered. Then the next day he blocked me on social media……

How much space should I give him?

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i think people with virgo sun+moon are narcissistic demons

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@Gem03 you must have an air moon

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I do

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@WarAngel

Um he took care of me and i accused him of using me. He felt disrespected and that i was ungrateful.

He texted me saying he doesnt want to see me again. I explained and apologized. My texts said delivered. Then the next day he blocked me on social media……

i wouldn't bother him then. first problem?

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Nope not the first

I don’t understand why he wont block me? He wont respond to my texts, wont even read them.

He has blocked me on one social media platform

I called him and he wouldnt pick up

I blocked him from everything

Im dead to him

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I called him and he wouldnt pick up

I blocked him from everything

Im dead to him

geez people quit so easy

i could just be asking where we keep the paperclips and i would've casually called you up 11 times 😁😁

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I called him and he wouldnt pick up

I blocked him from everything

Im dead to him

geez people quit so easy

i could just be asking where we keep the paperclips and i would've casually called you up 11 times 😁😁

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Lmaooo

I accused him of using me when he took care of me and he felt disrespected.

I blocked him so i dont keep reaching out (im impulsive). I’ll reach out in march tbh

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@WarAngel

Um he took care of me and i accused him of using me. He felt disrespected and that i was ungrateful.

He texted me saying he doesnt want to see me again. I explained and apologized. My texts said delivered. Then the next day he blocked me on social media……

i wouldn't bother him then. first problem?

Nope not the first

Then the problems accumulated and this was the last straw. Tho i do agree that ppl give up really easy. Nothing to do really. Lick your wounds and move on somehow.

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Im going to reach out in march

But i bad to block him so i dont keep impulsively reaching out. I need to give him some time :/

I wanna add that some virgos told me he’ll think you’re desperate if you keep trying.

Idk

@virgoOPPP I disrespected him

Is there any way he’ll come back?

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Nah he was probably already looking for an excuse to go

So in august 2021 we got into a tiff and he blocked me then we dated other ppl. But in jan 2022 i reached out via whatsapp. 2mins later he unblocked me and we started seeing each other again. Then this happened on feb 11

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@virgoOPPP I disrespected him

Is there any way he’ll come back?

idk i'm kinda impulsive sometimes when i'm hurt, especially when i think i've been wronged. like i might block you on social media then eventually feeling like i can maybe forgive you. but then, we don't have any line of communication by then.

but if it were unintentional, i might initiate the reconcialition myself.

tho i have to say i'm often passive that i often eventually end up doing nothing until the relationship just sinks.

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@virgoOPPP I disrespected him

Is there any way he’ll come back?

idk i'm kinda impulsive sometimes when i'm hurt, especially when i think i've been wronged. like i might block you on social media then eventually feeling like i can maybe forgive you. but then, we don't have any line of communication by then.

but if it were unintentional, i might initiate the reconcialition myself.

tho i have to say i'm often passive that i often eventually end up doing nothing until the relationship just sinks.

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Can you tell me why he wont just block me? I sent him 20texts just explaining and apologizing and called him 3 times…in a span of 1.5 week

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@virgoOPPP I disrespected him

Is there any way he’ll come back?

idk i'm kinda impulsive sometimes when i'm hurt, especially when i think i've been wronged. like i might block you on social media then eventually feeling like i can maybe forgive you. but then, we don't have any line of communication by then.

but if it were unintentional, i might initiate the reconcialition myself.

tho i have to say i'm often passive that i often eventually end up doing nothing until the relationship just sinks.

Can you tell me why he wont just block me? I sent him 20texts just explaining and apologizing and called him 3 times…in a span of 1.5 week

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sometimes i do that too like i may even have blocked you in the first place then unblock you then wait for when i don't feel so angry anymore or wait for when i can pick up on the logic of why you did what you did or said what you said and maybe assess if this is maybe a relationship still worth keeping. overthinking.

some of us get paralyzed into inaction like this.

but maybe a sincere, final apology with an explanation then just leaving it at that would do.

Thank you for the advice @virgoOPPP

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@virgoOPPP I disrespected him

Is there any way he’ll come back?

idk i'm kinda impulsive sometimes when i'm hurt, especially when i think i've been wronged. like i might block you on social media then eventually feeling like i can maybe forgive you. but then, we don't have any line of communication by then.

but if it were unintentional, i might initiate the reconcialition myself.

tho i have to say i'm often passive that i often eventually end up doing nothing until the relationship just sinks.

Can you tell me why he wont just block me? I sent him 20texts just explaining and apologizing and called him 3 times…in a span of 1.5 week

sometimes i do that too like i may even have blocked you in the first place then unblock you then wait for when i don't feel so angry anymore or wait for when i can pick up on the logic of why you did what you did or said what you said and maybe assess if this is maybe a relationship still worth keeping. overthinking.

some of us get paralyzed into inaction like this.

but maybe a sincere, final apology with an explanation then just leaving it at that would do.

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Im thinking of sending him a handwritten letter

I wrote the letter but deleted it like im putting in this much effort for someone who wont even respond to my texts.

I called him for the last time he didn’t pick up.

Then i texted him

“As much as i love you i cant hold onto someone who doesn’t want to stay. You win 🙂

I forgave you for so much of what you did and what you said last yr but you cant forgive me for this. I wish you the best, i hope you find your person”

Hes now blocked on everything

Im tired of putting my pride on the line

Frankly ik im at fault but i forgave him for far worse.

I think he used this as an excuse to walk away

Benefit of the doubt is a good filter to have time to judge intent.

If intent is present, there will be no second chances.

I caved and i texted him On Tuesday that on Wednesday i’ll come see him at his place. It delivered but there was no response. I went and texted him that im here and he texted back FINALLY. He said “did you actually come here” and i was like yes and he said dont just randomly show up. He didn’t let me in but we texted. I told him how sorry i was and he was like you have lost your privileges. I said I understand and that im trying. Well on Wednesday night him and i got into an argument of sorts. He blocked me from all his socials+number. As he was blocking me, The last one was instagram and i said “okay I understand you hate me enough to leave me. I’ll keep you in my memories as a loved one goodbye” he read that then unblocked my number 2minutes later and texted me “come see me now then, prove you wanna make amends” and i did it was ok

We do text, he is not mean but he is hostile and very curt. He doesn’t joke around anymore. He still has me blocked everywhere except my phone number. It sucks 😢

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You know what I think, there's no getting around what I told you.

I wanted to update the thread tho so yeah.