virgo man says his patience ran out and that he no longer cares

virgo man that i have been dealing with romantically says he no longer cares. We have been having ups and downs but for him to say this only hurts. What do i do?

somethings have to have some form of an ending. if he has said this then things have gotten pretty bad.

he said "im done" in february and we made up a month later so....sigh

Give him what he wants and go away.

Get a hobby and immerse yourself

Posted by Gem03

virgo man that i have been dealing with romantically says he no longer cares. We have been having ups and downs but for him to say this only hurts. What do i do?

What do you mean ‘what do I do’?

I hat kind of advice are you looking for?

‘Good in to him for dear life’?

You need to respect his rights to fall out of love and wish to end relationship.

The End.

im gonna have to block him :/ ik i'll get the urge to text him and call him.

I know it's hard when you feel something for someone who stopped feeling the way you do, but things are going to happen no matter how you feel about them. From painful personal experience - if you force something, it will surely be counterproductive. So the best thing is to let go and suffer in silence, if you have to suffer through the process. I also know that most of us want to hear something that will convince us that things will take a positive turn, but that's usually improbable.

So channel your energy towards making things easy for you.

You're wasting time on someone who says he's done.

update: i blocked him from everywhere

Posted by Gem03

im gonna have to block him :/ ik i'll get the urge to text him and call him.

Isn't he the one that broke up with you so he could run off to Miami and cheat in peace? Girl RUN and quit wasting your time with this dude.

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Posted by Gem03

im gonna have to block him :/ ik i'll get the urge to text him and call him.

Isn't he the one that broke up with you so he could run off to Miami and cheat in peace? Girl RUN and quit wasting your time with this dude.

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so him and i never committed to any label, we were only seeing each other and i kept a roster the entire time so lol. I have a date tomorrow night

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im gonna have to block him :/ ik i'll get the urge to text him and call him.

Isn't he the one that broke up with you so he could run off to Miami and cheat in peace? Girl RUN and quit wasting your time with this dude.

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so him and i never committed to any label, we were only seeing each other and i kept a roster the entire time so lol. I have a date tomorrow night

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im gonna have to block him :/ ik i'll get the urge to text him and call him.

Isn't he the one that broke up with you so he could run off to Miami and cheat in peace? Girl RUN and quit wasting your time with this dude.

so him and i never committed to any label, we were only seeing each other and i kept a roster the entire time so lol. I have a date tomorrow night

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If that's the one, then I don't remember that part. Did he convince you of that once he came back? lol

Take him off the team and permanently bench his ass. Pick up a new player!

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im gonna have to block him :/ ik i'll get the urge to text him and call him.

Isn't he the one that broke up with you so he could run off to Miami and cheat in peace? Girl RUN and quit wasting your time with this dude.

so him and i never committed to any label, we were only seeing each other and i kept a roster the entire time so lol. I have a date tomorrow night

If that's the one, then I don't remember that part. Did he convince you of that once he came back? lol

Take him off the team and permanently bench his ass. Pick up a new player!

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virgo did say that but i still kept a roster while seeing the virgo man and yeah i blocked the virgo from everywhere 20mins ago.

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im gonna have to block him :/ ik i'll get the urge to text him and call him.

Isn't he the one that broke up with you so he could run off to Miami and cheat in peace? Girl RUN and quit wasting your time with this dude.

so him and i never committed to any label, we were only seeing each other and i kept a roster the entire time so lol. I have a date tomorrow night

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i'm gonna start doing this so i don't tunnel

Posted by ImperfectStorm

Let him go and breathe through it

SHE

HAS

DATE

TOMORROW

NIGHT!!!

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Let him go and breathe through it

thank you, its just bittersweet

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He is just taking up space and preventing you from pursuing something or someone that is more solid and meaningful. Consider it a favor …

the Pisces/Virgo moon that I was dealing with basically said the same thing to me after an argument about a month ago.. he said he wanted to walk away from the situation. This was the second time he did that. The first time that he did it, I tried to fight for him and tried to change his mind.. and we did start talking again. But it’s self depreciating to fight for people who are fighting against us.

Like you said, it’s bittersweet but you gotta trust it. Wish him well and release him.. and have faith that something better is coming.

The pisces/virgo moon told you he no longer cares?

What did you of the second time he wanted to walk away?

I blocked him from everywhere (all socials, phone number, LinkedIn, WhatsApp, instagram, EVERYTHING)

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He is just taking up space and preventing you from pursuing something or someone that is more solid and meaningful. Consider it a favor …

the Pisces/Virgo moon that I was dealing with basically said the same thing to me after an argument about a month ago.. he said he wanted to walk away from the situation. This was the second time he did that. The first time that he did it, I tried to fight for him and tried to change his mind.. and we did start talking again. But it’s self depreciating to fight for people who are fighting against us.

Like you said, it’s bittersweet but you gotta trust it. Wish him well and release him.. and have faith that something better is coming.

The pisces/virgo moon told you he no longer cares?

What did you of the second time he wanted to walk away?

I blocked him from everywhere (all socials, phone number, LinkedIn, WhatsApp, instagram, EVERYTHING)

He didn’t say that he no longer cares, he said “I’m not here to cause stress in anyones life and I don’t need it in mine either so I am going to gracefully bow out and stay out this time”. 🙄🙄🙄 he said it after I called him out on some bullshit. A year ago I would have tried to change his mind and make things right but I’m no longer fighting for people who are fighting against me. I’m tired of men who cannot deal with conflict like adults and are constantly running away from problems So I told him I wish him the best and to take care of himself and we haven’t spoke in a month.

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Same here!!! I shared my concerns with him that had been going on for months and that id like him to try and that im at my limit. He responded with "I've been at my limit, so i no longer care. Patience ran out."

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Posted by ImperfectStorm

He is just taking up space and preventing you from pursuing something or someone that is more solid and meaningful. Consider it a favor …

the Pisces/Virgo moon that I was dealing with basically said the same thing to me after an argument about a month ago.. he said he wanted to walk away from the situation. This was the second time he did that. The first time that he did it, I tried to fight for him and tried to change his mind.. and we did start talking again. But it’s self depreciating to fight for people who are fighting against us.

Like you said, it’s bittersweet but you gotta trust it. Wish him well and release him.. and have faith that something better is coming.

The pisces/virgo moon told you he no longer cares?

What did you of the second time he wanted to walk away?

I blocked him from everywhere (all socials, phone number, LinkedIn, WhatsApp, instagram, EVERYTHING)

He didn’t say that he no longer cares, he said “I’m not here to cause stress in anyones life and I don’t need it in mine either so I am going to gracefully bow out and stay out this time”. 🙄🙄🙄 he said it after I called him out on some bullshit. A year ago I would have tried to change his mind and make things right but I’m no longer fighting for people who are fighting against me. I’m tired of men who cannot deal with conflict like adults and are constantly running away from problems So I told him I wish him the best and to take care of himself and we haven’t spoke in a month.

Same here!!! I shared my concerns with him that had been going on for months and that id like him to try and that im at my limit. He responded with "I've been at my limit, so i no longer care. Patience ran out."

I would be like “say no more!” ✌🏼

That’s the one thing I’ve learned from dealing with this Pisces. I didn’t even realize how much I’ve always been that girl that tried to change a man’s mind about me.. (I blame my overachieving/service-oriented Virgo Venus) 🙄 if a guy told me something wasn’t working, I would try to fix things instead of accepting the situation for what it is. If he doesn’t want to try to work for it, why should I?

I’m never doing that shit again. 😑

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For me im the love em and leave em. My blocked list is longer than my contact list. I just don't care but when im emotionally attached its a tsunami of feelings and affection. I am Gemini sun+moon+mars with aries venus so taming me is hard and difficult.

ok update

a couple days ago I ended up unblocking him (moment of weakness/i missed him): He asked me "do you love me?" I told him yes then he asked "why?" I told him why. I asked him if he loved me then he said "i think yes, because even though Im unsatisfied I still find myself talking to you"

I asked him to elaborate and he said no.

I don't understand this man. I haven't said anything since then bc tf