Virgo woman are famous for being very picky what exactly are you searching for?

Hi Virgals,

You have a repitition for being very picky and come off as cold and prudish until Mr. Right made the cut

unlike many others. What sets him apart from the rest for you? What do you want from a man?

Does he have to be your soulmate (same interests etc?)

Or do you just have incredibly high standards in everything (looks, education, career, manners) so

its nearly impossible for the average man.?

Do we have to fit in your check list of a perfect man?



I am a typical Taurus is there anything about my sign that is particular helpful in winning you over?

Thank you for your insights,

Parkourler

Are You sexually compatible with Virgo?

I wouldn't say, "picky" .. more like anal retentive

I'm not sure actually. I feel like when I meet that man, all things fall away. I'm not sure exactly what he does that exempts him from the rest and I'm sure every virgos standard is different from another's. But as you said your a Taurus, so I believe you'll blend with virgos just fine. The man I fell in love with was a Leo (I'm still in love but I'm trying to get over him. I'm a furry Virgo) and he's far from perfect, but I love him all the same.

I think what really made me fall was the fact that he warmed my heart, made me feel so comfortable, but yet kept me on my toes all at once. I was constantly amazed and I still am, by the light he gave off.

The Leo is driven, masculine, warm, playful and dominant. Whereas I'm submissive when it comes to the wants/needs of my man. So it worked out well. He taught me a lot of things, I wanted to be his, and his little student sort of speak (that sounded slightly sexual but 😉 ). Long distance was the reason we parted.

*fiery

Not furry 😄

Just read the last part of your question. Well, almost every Taurus I've known has a very homey feeling to them. I feel very comfortable around them. And trust me, getting the analytical nervous Virgo to be comfortable around someone at first meeting is a feat all in itself. You guys are patient yet still dominant.

I see Taurus as a closet Scorpio. Which is good 😉 . You aren't as intense as Scorpio but you aren't to be messed with. I actually feel like all earth signs are like a closeted version of their water sign opposite. And then you're stable, reassuring, etc.

So in other words, Virgals all around would be very lucky to have you.

Posted by Parkourler
Hi Virgals,

You have a repitition for being very picky and come off as cold and prudish until Mr. Right made the cut

unlike many others. What sets him apart from the rest for you? What do you want from a man?

Does he have to be your soulmate (same interests etc?)

Or do you just have incredibly high standards in everything (looks, education, career, manners) so

its nearly impossible for the average man.?

Do we have to fit in your check list of a perfect man?



I am a typical Taurus is there anything about my sign that is particular helpful in winning you over?

Thank you for your insights,

Parkourler

somebody who sweeps them off their feet.

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Posted by Parkourler
Hi Virgals,

You have a repitition for being very picky and come off as cold and prudish until Mr. Right made the cut

unlike many others. What sets him apart from the rest for you? What do you want from a man?

Does he have to be your soulmate (same interests etc?)

Or do you just have incredibly high standards in everything (looks, education, career, manners) so

its nearly impossible for the average man.?

Do we have to fit in your check list of a perfect man?



I am a typical Taurus is there anything about my sign that is particular helpful in winning you over?

Thank you for your insights,

Parkourler

somebody who sweeps them off their feet.

just need the right broom

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oops i read groom hahaha

I know a virgo who just got engaged to her long time leo best friend. She's only 24 and he's 8 yrs older to her.

She is like a hollywood celebrity beauty (her skin, her facial features,perfect glamorous make up,branded glamorous clothes) and her dad's rich. She is a big time party girl who gets all drunk and loves clicking too many selfies and keeps posting them on fb. She is a big socialite.Has 1500 people on her friendlist and she loves it. She loves splurging money on food,clothes,makeup,alcohol and travel. She just loves travelling.She was a fatass back in school but then she put in a lot of money on some kind of body treatment and then she got addicted to the gym and slimmed down so beautifully. Whereas the leo is a 32 yrs old average looking fatty,who is less qualified than her(in terms of degree) and isn't wealthy but decent earning. Note: I am not fat shaming just pointing out the difference between these two people.

This leo (don't know much about him personally) has been her family friend. They knew each other since they were little but then they somewhat lost touch for many years when the guy shifted to a different country with his family in the middle east. Then he visited her in 2013 and they restored their lost contact and the friendship reignited. The easy thing about her that I noticed is that it's really easy to woo her and make her melt. The leo guy visiting her and spending few hours talking itself was enough to get her hooked to him and once she gets hooked to someone/something she gets addicted to it until she gets bored and wants a new change.She had transformed into a pretty and cute looking 21 yrs old and so he felt an attracted. They planned a trip to Spain the following year and she transformed to being even prettier.She dressed all sexy and attractive and their romance started in full swing. They were long distant that year but the relationship was still pretty solid. She then completed her degree last year and she shifted to the same country same city, where he lives, with her family. Their relationship grew even stronger and he proposed her this year on Valentine's day and she said yes. They got engaged 2 months ago and will get married next year on Valentines day.

Each time she posts photos of them on facebook people wonder how did that average joe get this glamour beauty. She posted a picture of the two during their engagement ceremony.She looked gorgeous with the make up and heavy dress on but he looked way too dull in comparison. I just hope insecurity issues don't creep up within him at some point because not only does she look too pretty she's also a lot more qualified and will earn more than him. She has just changed a lot since these past few years. It sometimes just feels as if she's his trophy wife.A showpiece.

@gia

Holy crap. That reminds me of me and my Leo. He kept on telling me that he doesn't think he deserves me and stuff like that. But he was literally the sun in my eyes. My lil sunshine, all I wanted to do was take care of him. Idc I sound corny.I didn't care what anyone else thought. Honestly, I fell in love with him because of how he treated me. I feel like many virgo women are kind of like Esmeralda in "the hunchback of notre dame." How you present yourself is soooooo attractive to us.

@ Op your a Taurus so you'll have no problem w/ getting Virgo girls. Not many people wanna try relationships w/ Virgals, we're usually too difficult, so if you do try w/ us it's like woah.

When it comes to his topic I feel like I have some sort of insight. When I went out with my Virgo she struggled to understand me and I struggled to please her. Virgos are very materialistic people and they tend to manipulate a ton more. Although, they are kind hearted when they need to be.

Posted by Sunsetvirgo
I didn't care what anyone else thought. Honestly, I fell in love with him because of how he treated me.

This,yes. Usually when an average looking guy dates a very pretty high maintenance girl,he knows he got more than his expectation and so he cares and values her more than what a very handsome guy would. And we ladies fall for so much care and concern easily. So now I see why and how it makes sense that she chose him despite the fact that her mom and she are two highly egoistic people who feel they are superior to people in terms of beauty and wealth.

Posted by AlantheGemini
Virgos are very materialistic people and they tend to manipulate a ton more. Although, they are kind hearted when they need to be.

Oh yes.The virgo girl I wrote about above is just that. Very materialistic .She bullied her best friend just because she didn't own an iphone and mac and because she didn't live in the downtown city.

I don't know her too personally but I'm sure she is kind hearted when needed to be else she probably wouldn't have many friends.

Oh god what a great friend punking her best friend for not having the statussymbols

wanted by society. That`s shallow and conscending. I would`ve called her out and straightened out for that.

No offense to you, I just feel so much disgust.

So what are you looking for in a man virgos?

Posted by Parkourler
So what are you looking for in a man virgos?

After all you read, it's time for you to be more specific.

You must ask about:

- the physical part

- the psychical part - this is a very interesting part

- the bed part

- the committing part

and finally:

- the rest of the other parts they have but nobody cares to know

Not all of us are materialistic. Nor are we all condescending. I'm not sure really what drives the desire for someone else.

I've literally heard someone talk of how Jay-z's face is something a Virgo could only love. There are allegations of how Jay-Z has cheated on Beyoncé, but she still stays. Earlier in their relationship you could tell that he brought a side out of her that many others have never even seen. I'm not exactly sure what she sees in him, it's different for every Virgo. But you'll definitely be able to tell that your their world because of the side that comes out when your around.

A lot of my Virgo girl and guy friends don't seem to know. Many are still single.

Though,I have one that is getting married to a Taurus next month, they seem to be doing fine together. Taurus is easy-going, stable,consistent, etc. The only thing with Taurus is what you see is what you get. If you don't like a habit they have now,chances are they won't change it ever!

Nandos list is cool, more precise, so Ladys go, what do you want in terms of?

- the physical part

- the psychical part - this is a very interesting part

- the bed part

- the committing part

and finally:

- the rest of the other parts they have but nobody cares to know



Everybody has different preferences, so I guess its more interesting why all virgos are so picky to the extent

that many stay single. I guess each of you has a different answer, but pl. anser anyway.Is it because you are perfectionists or very security minded? Us taurus are the same

way in that regard, we size up potential partners very thoroughly over a long timeperiod.

OceanBoy88 - what happened? Why did you break up?

Yeah, sounds about right, they are extremely cautious . My Virguy friend is like that and it makes me chuckle.

Posted by Parkourler
Hi Virgals,

You have a repitition for being very picky and come off as cold and prudish until Mr. Right made the cut

unlike many others. What sets him apart from the rest for you? What do you want from a man?

Does he have to be your soulmate (same interests etc?)

Or do you just have incredibly high standards in everything (looks, education, career, manners) so

its nearly impossible for the average man.?

Do we have to fit in your check list of a perfect man?



I am a typical Taurus is there anything about my sign that is particular helpful in winning you over?

Thank you for your insights,

Parkourler

Yes, one thing I love about Bulls is that they are consistent and reliable!

And we are def very picky ? I'm a dry well over here *tumbleweed* we are looking for perfection. Not only do you have to be soulmate material but everything has to happen organically and seamlessly! Timing is of the essence

Posted by Sunsetvirgo
Not all of us are materialistic. Nor are we all condescending. I'm not sure really what drives the desire for someone else.

I've literally heard someone talk of how Jay-z's face is something a Virgo could only love. There are allegations of how Jay-Z has cheated on Beyoncé, but she still stays. Earlier in their relationship you could tell that he brought a side out of her that many others have never even seen. I'm not exactly sure what she sees in him, it's different for every Virgo. But you'll definitely be able to tell that your their world because of the side that comes out when your around.

I wonder if his moms a Virgo cus GD he's not attractive lol

Correction. We're not picky we just have standards. Saying we are picky just has a negative connotation, we are allowed to pick and choose someone who meets our standards and if we haven't found them, well, we are the bachelors and bachelorette a of the zodiac, we will not settle!

I can't speak for all Virgos but I am pretty picky, and I don't mean by looks. I need a partner who is honest, someone who is confident in knowing what they want, a sense of humor, and someone who challenges me, especially my mind. We are very intellectual people and if you can't hold a conversation on certain topics with me then I can't get anywhere with you lol. We hate simple minded and lazy individuals.

Posted by symone88
I can't speak for all Virgos but I am pretty picky, and I don't mean by looks. I need a partner who is honest, someone who is confident in knowing what they want, a sense of humor, and someone who challenges me, especially my mind. We are very intellectual people and if you can't hold a conversation on certain topics with me then I can't get anywhere with you lol. We hate simple minded and lazy individuals.

I agree with you!

I lose interest if you can't challenge me, stimulate my mind, be silly but can be serious, spiritual, etc...to be simply put, just a well rounded guy. I like order but I want someone to take me out of my comfort zone. That's why Scorpio's are amazing. I've connected with 2 Taurus. One immediately pulled my soul when I saw him. His aura was strong and I know he felt it too because the first day we met and barely spoke, he took up for me when this girl in our group kept talking over me. We quickly became protective over each other. We couldn't separate! It was magnetic. Unfortunately, we both really liked each other but fell out of contact for a personal reason. Taurus rule! Lol you have a great chance with us.

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I can't speak for all Virgos but I am pretty picky, and I don't mean by looks. I need a partner who is honest, someone who is confident in knowing what they want, a sense of humor, and someone who challenges me, especially my mind. We are very intellectual people and if you can't hold a conversation on certain topics with me then I can't get anywhere with you lol. We hate simple minded and lazy individuals.

I agree with you!

I lose interest if you can't challenge me, stimulate my mind, be silly but can be serious, spiritual, etc...to be simply put, just a well rounded guy. I like order but I want someone to take me out of my comfort zone. That's why Scorpio's are amazing. I've connected with 2 Taurus. One immediately pulled my soul when I saw him. His aura was strong and I know he felt it too because the first day we met and barely spoke, he took up for me when this girl in our group kept talking over me. We quickly became protective over each other. We couldn't separate! It was magnetic. Unfortunately, we both really liked each other but fell out of contact for a personal reason. Taurus rule! Lol you have a great chance with us.

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I never been with a Scorpio yet, I hear good and bad things, but Im sure that's with every sign. My ex is a Taurus and we connected with each other instantly. I just new he was the one. Well he has deep rooted issues as far as trust and not be stable in his life right now so he pushed me completely away. But who knows what the future holds, I know that I do enjoy Taurus men, they do rule lol.

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I can't speak for all Virgos but I am pretty picky, and I don't mean by looks. I need a partner who is honest, someone who is confident in knowing what they want, a sense of humor, and someone who challenges me, especially my mind. We are very intellectual people and if you can't hold a conversation on certain topics with me then I can't get anywhere with you lol. We hate simple minded and lazy individuals.

I agree with you!

I lose interest if you can't challenge me, stimulate my mind, be silly but can be serious, spiritual, etc...to be simply put, just a well rounded guy. I like order but I want someone to take me out of my comfort zone. That's why Scorpio's are amazing. I've connected with 2 Taurus. One immediately pulled my soul when I saw him. His aura was strong and I know he felt it too because the first day we met and barely spoke, he took up for me when this girl in our group kept talking over me. We quickly became protective over each other. We couldn't separate! It was magnetic. Unfortunately, we both really liked each other but fell out of contact for a personal reason. Taurus rule! Lol you have a great chance with us.

I never been with a Scorpio yet, I hear good and bad things, but Im sure that's with every sign. My ex is a Taurus and we connected with each other instantly. I just new he was the one. Well he has deep rooted issues as far as trust and not be stable in his life right now so he pushed me completely away. But who knows what the future holds, I know that I do enjoy Taurus men, they do rule lol.

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Trust me, Scorpio's WILL drive you wild in a good and bad way. You get hooked off of their intoxicating emotion. BUT when they decide to friend zone you or drop you with their disappearing acts ( I can't blame them for it though bcuz I do the same as a Virgo), it will frustrate you bcuz you have no idea why. My advice, don't give in too soon, don't talk too much, and don't be afraid. Be very cautious! Lol. They can end up being the best friend you've ever had also.....

Now back to our regularly scheduled program of Taurus lol

Posted by symone88
I can't speak for all Virgos but I am pretty picky, and I don't mean by looks. I need a partner who is honest, someone who is confident in knowing what they want, a sense of humor, and someone who challenges me, especially my mind. We are very intellectual people and if you can't hold a conversation on certain topics with me then I can't get anywhere with you lol. We hate simple minded and lazy individuals.

But honestly I wouldn't even call what your asking for in a partner as picky. You have standards yes, but is what your asking for really too much?

Honesty, confidence, a sense of humor, etc.

Virgos really aren't picky, I feel like we just want genuine things from people. Maybe it's because this generation is fucked w/ people who want side hoes and technology is so advanced someone could easily cheat on you via dating site or fake profiling as such, our "requirements" for a person are seen as too much.

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Posted by symone88
I can't speak for all Virgos but I am pretty picky, and I don't mean by looks. I need a partner who is honest, someone who is confident in knowing what they want, a sense of humor, and someone who challenges me, especially my mind. We are very intellectual people and if you can't hold a conversation on certain topics with me then I can't get anywhere with you lol. We hate simple minded and lazy individuals.

But honestly I wouldn't even call what your asking for in a partner as picky. You have standards yes, but is what your asking for really too much?

Honesty, confidence, a sense of humor, etc.

Virgos really aren't picky, I feel like we just want genuine things from people. Maybe it's because this generation is fucked w/ people who want side hoes and technology is so advanced someone could easily cheat on you via dating site or fake profiling as such, our "requirements" for a person are seen as too much.

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You are actually right. Its so hard to find someone who has those qualities. Nowadays, men (well the ones I've been dating) give up so easy, lie, cheat etc. Maybe 'picky' isn't the right word to use. I have standards and I don't think they are that high.

I like a Virgo, so this was very helpful for me. Thanks to all the Virgirls/guys here. 🙂

I'll admit it , I'm picky when it comes to romantic relationships. I'm not artificial however I have standards. I'll use bullet points to make it simpler :

Physically: ideally , I always prefer tall ,slender guys. I love fitness , so if they like to work out as well then that's a plus. I also love big hands, beautiful warm eyes and smiles, nice bums 😉 , and the most important !!!!!cleanness !!!!! Overall I like men who look after themselves and smell good.



Mentally , I prefer intelligent , kind hearted ( empathetic, sincere, honest, faithful, loyal..) funny and ambitious/career oriented men .

I usually feel intrigued and attracted by the quiet, discrete , mysterious good looking guys. If their aura and appearance matches their intelligence then that's it! As soon as they start making love to my mind with their brilliance I start worshiping them. I need to feel inspired by a men in order to fall for them.

I prefer men who ooze masculine energy ( not the macho man type tho) and assertiveness.

I don't like short term/sex focused relationships, so I make sure to stay away from the Insensitive , emotionally- unavailable , anti- commitment guys, regardless of how good looking/ intelligent they appear to be . In the other hand future/family orientated men are my favourite 🙂.

Bonus : I can't stand rude , I'll mannered , disrespectful, greedy, over-emotional , clingy guys.

I'm not perfect and I don't expect anybody to be either. As humans, even thou some deny it, we all have in our minds a set of characteristics for our "soulmate". However like nothing in life goes as planned , we either get the closest version of what we want or get the total opposite of it.

What I'd like to see in a man is his desire to throw me in bed and have his way with me BUT he restrained himself and be a gentleman for as long as I want him to be. Not many man like that out there, unfortunately.

Posted by VirgoDragirl
What I'd like to see in a man is his desire to throw me in bed and have his way with me BUT he restrained himself and be a gentleman for as long as I want him to be. Not many man like that out there, unfortunately.

^^^^^THIS

I need aggressive. I'm too passive for another passive person. Help me let down my guard.

Posted by Virgoscent
I'll admit it , I'm picky when it comes to romantic relationships. I'm not artificial however I have standards. I'll use bullet points to make it simpler :

Physically: ideally , I always prefer tall ,slender guys. I love fitness , so if they like to work out as well then that's a plus. I also love big hands, beautiful warm eyes and smiles, nice bums 😉 , and the most important !!!!!cleanness !!!!! Overall I like men who look after themselves and smell good.



Mentally , I prefer intelligent , kind hearted ( empathetic, sincere, honest, faithful, loyal..) funny and ambitious/career oriented men .

I usually feel intrigued and attracted by the quiet, discrete , mysterious good looking guys. If their aura and appearance matches their intelligence then that's it! As soon as they start making love to my mind with their brilliance I start worshiping them. I need to feel inspired by a men in order to fall for them.

I prefer men who ooze masculine energy ( not the macho man type tho) and assertiveness.

I don't like short term/sex focused relationships, so I make sure to stay away from the Insensitive , emotionally- unavailable , anti- commitment guys, regardless of how good looking/ intelligent they appear to be . In the other hand future/family orientated men are my favourite 🙂.

Bonus : I can't stand rude , I'll mannered , disrespectful, greedy, over-emotional , clingy guys.

I'm not perfect and I don't expect anybody to be either. As humans, even thou some deny it, we all have in our minds a set of characteristics for our "soulmate". However like nothing in life goes as planned , we either get the closest version of what we want or get the total opposite of it.

This is important ^^^

Posted by Sunsetvirgo

Posted by VirgoDragirl
What I'd like to see in a man is his desire to throw me in bed and have his way with me BUT he restrained himself and be a gentleman for as long as I want him to be. Not many man like that out there, unfortunately.

^^^^^THIS

I need aggressive. I'm too passive for another passive person. Help me let down my guard.

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I have noticed that for me this kind of depends on who I am with, the stage/durability of a relationship, my mood, and the level of sexual attractiveness I feel towards someone. When I feel intense desire I don't hold back as I become " aggressive" and passionate. If a partner has this aggressive/passionate sexual energy then it becomes easier for me to show this side of me. Overall, I can be passive but l also like to take over and control the situation ?

Posted by FknNerd
I cant speak for all virgo women, but I can be won over with persistency and genuine feels.

Yeah, it comes down to this. It's the adamant "I want you and you will be mine and I cannot fathom another way for either of us" approach. But on the back of genuine feels, not obsession.

That Shakeaspeare quote about faint hearts applies.

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Posted by Virgoscent
I'll admit it , I'm picky when it comes to romantic relationships. I'm not artificial however I have standards. I'll use bullet points to make it simpler :

Physically: ideally , I always prefer tall ,slender guys. I love fitness , so if they like to work out as well then that's a plus. I also love big hands, beautiful warm eyes and smiles, nice bums 😉 , and the most important !!!!!cleanness !!!!! Overall I like men who look after themselves and smell good.



Mentally , I prefer intelligent , kind hearted ( empathetic, sincere, honest, faithful, loyal..) funny and ambitious/career oriented men .

I usually feel intrigued and attracted by the quiet, discrete , mysterious good looking guys. If their aura and appearance matches their intelligence then that's it! As soon as they start making love to my mind with their brilliance I start worshiping them. I need to feel inspired by a men in order to fall for them.

I prefer men who ooze masculine energy ( not the macho man type tho) and assertiveness.

I don't like short term/sex focused relationships, so I make sure to stay away from the Insensitive , emotionally- unavailable , anti- commitment guys, regardless of how good looking/ intelligent they appear to be . In the other hand future/family orientated men are my favourite 🙂.

Bonus : I can't stand rude , I'll mannered , disrespectful, greedy, over-emotional , clingy guys.

I'm not perfect and I don't expect anybody to be either. As humans, even thou some deny it, we all have in our minds a set of characteristics for our "soulmate". However like nothing in life goes as planned , we either get the closest version of what we want or get the total opposite of it.

This is important ^^^

And a very long post 😛

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Oh c'mon you should already know that we Virgos care a lot about



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Virgo women are looking for.......





A processor upgrade 😄

Posted by breterpan
All of my partners have been vastly different from one another

I'm realizing what REALLY gets me above anything else tho is an intellectual with an enormous playful side. I value deep conversations and someone who has a strange view of the world but I like those conversations to happen in a tent in the backyard with Spongebob or a Disney movie on as background noise hahaha.

You put into words exactly what I was thinking. I need someone just as playful as I am.

Intellectual conversations are also a huge plus

the great thing about you virgals, is that many of you value health and fitness, meaning you stay attractive

when you age. That`s my personal love of my life is supposed to stay thin and hot in the years to come. Shallow my a ss there is nothing bad about valueing looks and beauty .

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Posted by FknNerd
I cant speak for all virgo women, but I can be won over with persistency and genuine feels.

Yeah, it comes down to this. It's the adamant "I want you and you will be mine and I cannot fathom another way for either of us" approach. But on the back of genuine feels, not obsession.

That Shakeaspeare quote about faint hearts applies.

That was hot Nata. You had me sweating :p

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Dat water moon.

Posted by breterpan
All of my partners have been vastly different from one another

I'm realizing what REALLY gets me above anything else tho is an intellectual with an enormous playful side. I value deep conversations and someone who has a strange view of the world but I like those conversations to happen in a tent in the backyard with Spongebob or a Disney movie on as background noise hahaha.

@breterpan get a leo to begin with