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What it takes for a Virgo to be pushed too far ... agree or disagree my virgo's ?
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Posted by EarthgoddessWe are very warm and loving but once feeling unappreciated we get to a point where we stop caring even if we don't want to stop caring it just happens. In general we Virgo's do a lot for a partner so once we stop trying they will notice it even if before they didn't
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This is so true
I hate when I get to the point of cutting someone special out of my life. It is just becomes so easy,like how do I feel so calmly unaffected. When just awhile ago I was losing my mind about this same person.
When Iām done tryna make it work. Trying everything to get myself clearly understood or at least accepted. I amaze myself with how ruthlessly brutal and cold I can be without even trying.
Posted by _sierra_I love your short reaction lol
Yeah
Posted by _sierra_I know the feeling we tend to stay longer then needed and end up suffering from it as in result we become depressed
There's a bunch of selfish people... a lot of takers, not many givers.. you'd get tired of that eventually when you stop playing the long-suffering partner.. i don't have time for that shit anymore.. that's why i left my libra ex
Posted by _sierra_That's the most painful thing to experience going from being madly in love with someone to fall out of love and seeing that person as a complete stranger where as you have shared so much had so much great time together.Posted by Earthgoddess
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This is so true
I hate when I get to the point of cutting someone special out of my life. It just becomes so easy,like how do I feel so calmly unaffected. When just awhile ago I was losing my mind about this same person.
When Iām done tryna make it work. Trying everything to get myself clearly understood or at least accepted. I amaze myself with how ruthlessly brutal and cold I can be without even trying.
I am the same... it's like i just shut down and go cold... i can't help it.. it's like my insides are detaching so i won't get hurt.. self-preservation is all
I am not being understood.. it's like you're outside and i'm in some glass case and you just won't look my way.. i will stop trying eventually.. it hurts too much click to expandclick to expand
Posted by dewiklaessen26u are both virgo sun libra mars,Posted by _sierra_
There's a bunch of selfish people... a lot of takers, not many givers.. you'd get tired of that eventually when you stop playing the long-suffering partner.. i don't have time for that butter anymore.. that's why i left my libra ex
I know the feeling we tend to stay longer then needed and end up suffering from it as in result we become depressed click to expandclick to expand
so these things would fit u both..
SUN or MARS in LIBRA
(SUN is here September 24 - October 23)
The type of man who attracts you is charming, polite, well-dressed, and looks "classy" - and it helps if he's good-looking, romantic, and a bit old-fashioned.
You tend to respond to mental and verbal turn-ons more than the crude physical kinds.
You can be "charmed" by a smooth-talker, and are attracted to the "creative" types.
Serenity is what you seek, yet it becomes boring to you - so you like to shake things up a little now and then.
Especially if you have Mars in Libra, you may be aroused by what you see as "beautiful" - such as a finely-formed body or face.
You may also find an argument arousing, as long as it remains verbal and does not get physically threatening. Though you see yourself as being a lover, not a fighter, you may be sexually attracted to a macho type, as Venus was attracted to Mars.
You're a bit like Ginger Rogers, and your idea of a perfect partner would be a Fred Astaire. If you were in a televison series, you could play "Diane" on "Cheers".
Ā©2001 by Michael Star.
Posted by _sierra_Yes that's always how i feel only at the beginning i feel they genuinely fall madly for me and are crazy about me but as times passes by it feels like the love becomes less where as i never change in my expression of love or anythin. I even become more affectionate the longer i am with someone the better things get from my side as in i open up more and more. But it always feels like i have only loved them and they never loved me or at least not the same amount of love. being taken for granted simply because people think it's normal to do so much for someone where as the other person would never put the same effort.Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by _sierra_
There's a bunch of selfish people... a lot of takers, not many givers.. you'd get tired of that eventually when you stop playing the long-suffering partner.. i don't have time for that shit anymore.. that's why i left my libra ex
I know the feeling we tend to stay longer then needed and end up suffering from it as in result we become depressed click to expand
Sometimes...in the fallout of a relationship, do you feel as if you're the one who really loved the other more? I feel that way sometimes.. even when i'm the one who seemingly detached and went cold first.. it's almost as if i feel like i'm the one who really tried to make it work.. like maybe the other person did too but definitely not as much as i did
I think it would explain that thread where people predominantly voted virgo for the sign whom they feel loved them most.. coz we really did click to expandclick to expand
Often people think we are calculated and we do things because we expect a lot back but that's not true it angers me because all we want is appreciation and love small things in life matter to us.
We do not have high standards everyone else is just blind lol
Posted by lisabethur8Lol that gif hahahah i do like a muscular man but i do not like smooth talk unless a man means it but i can sense that very fast and yes i do like a man that is well dressed and has good manners but is not too prude or too shy. I need someone that is dominant and assertive and not afraid of anything someone that can dare me but doesn't try to compete with me someone that has enough confidence because confidence is sex(specially in the bedroom) but in general also a well outspoken intelligent manPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by _sierra_
There's a bunch of selfish people... a lot of takers, not many givers.. you'd get tired of that eventually when you stop playing the long-suffering partner.. i don't have time for that butter anymore.. that's why i left my libra ex
I know the feeling we tend to stay longer then needed and end up suffering from it as in result we become depressed click to expand
u are both virgo sun libra mars,
so these things would fit u both..
SUN or MARS in LIBRA
(SUN is here September 24 - October 23)
The type of man who attracts you is charming, polite, well-dressed, and looks "classy" - and it helps if he's good-looking, romantic, and a bit old-fashioned.
You tend to respond to mental and verbal turn-ons more than the crude physical kinds.
You can be "charmed" by a smooth-talker, and are attracted to the "creative" types.
Serenity is what you seek, yet it becomes boring to you - so you like to shake things up a little now and then.
Especially if you have Mars in Libra, you may be aroused by what you see as "beautiful" - such as a finely-formed body or face.
You may also find an argument arousing, as long as it remains verbal and does not get physically threatening. Though you see yourself as being a lover, not a fighter, you may be sexually attracted to a macho type, as Venus was attracted to Mars.
You're a bit like Ginger Rogers, and your idea of a perfect partner would be a Fred Astaire. If you were in a televison series, you could play "Diane" on "Cheers".
Ā©2001 by Michael Star.
click to expandclick to expand
Posted by _sierra_I am bad with break ups too but i do warn many times before the time is there and if i am being ignored for too long i will eventually grow apart from that person.Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by _sierra_Posted by Earthgoddess
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This is so true
I hate when I get to the point of cutting someone special out of my life. It just becomes so easy,like how do I feel so calmly unaffected. When just awhile ago I was losing my mind about this same person.
When Iām done tryna make it work. Trying everything to get myself clearly understood or at least accepted. I amaze myself with how ruthlessly brutal and cold I can be without even trying.
I am the same... it's like i just shut down and go cold... i can't help it.. it's like my insides are detaching so i won't get hurt.. self-preservation is all
I am not being understood.. it's like you're outside and i'm in some glass case and you just won't look my way.. i will stop trying eventually.. it hurts too much click to expand
That's the most painful thing to experience going from being madly in love with someone to fall out of love and seeing that person as a complete stranger where as you have shared so much had so much great time together. click to expand
Yeah i tried to make sense of everything after i left him.. tried to recall how i felt so deliriously in love with him when we were in the car one night and how i felt absolutely nothing when i left him while he was asleep.. i'm not the best person when it comes to breakups.. i don't talk about it nor consult you about it.. i just sneakily leave one day when the impulse takes over me.. but it's an impulse that feels so final.. i left the way i fell into it.. without much talking.. i didn't want a confrontation about it coz i know he'd make me repress my wish to leave instead of actually letting me go.. too much unnecessary exertions on both our sides.. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by dewiklaessen26meaning...ur sagitarius guy with cancer moon is purrfect for u? šPosted by lisabethur8Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by _sierra_
There's a bunch of selfish people... a lot of takers, not many givers.. you'd get tired of that eventually when you stop playing the long-suffering partner.. i don't have time for that butter anymore.. that's why i left my libra ex
I know the feeling we tend to stay longer then needed and end up suffering from it as in result we become depressed click to expand
u are both virgo sun libra mars,
so these things would fit u both..
SUN or MARS in LIBRA
(SUN is here September 24 - October 23)
The type of man who attracts you is charming, polite, well-dressed, and looks "classy" - and it helps if he's good-looking, romantic, and a bit old-fashioned.
You tend to respond to mental and verbal turn-ons more than the crude physical kinds.
You can be "charmed" by a smooth-talker, and are attracted to the "creative" types.
Serenity is what you seek, yet it becomes boring to you - so you like to shake things up a little now and then.
Especially if you have Mars in Libra, you may be aroused by what you see as "beautiful" - such as a finely-formed body or face.
You may also find an argument arousing, as long as it remains verbal and does not get physically threatening. Though you see yourself as being a lover, not a fighter, you may be sexually attracted to a macho type, as Venus was attracted to Mars.
You're a bit like Ginger Rogers, and your idea of a perfect partner would be a Fred Astaire. If you were in a televison series, you could play "Diane" on "Cheers".
Ā©2001 by Michael Star.
click to expand
Lol that gif hahahah i do like a muscular man but i do not like smooth talk unless a man means it but i can sense that very fast and yes i do like a man that is well dressed and has good manners but is not too prude or too shy. I need someone that is dominant and assertive and not afraid of anything someone that can dare me but doesn't try to compete with me someone that has enough confidence because confidence is sex(specially in the bedroom) but in general also a well outspoken intelligent man click to expandclick to expand
Posted by lisabethur8I just want to have fun in a relationship not too much fuzz and fighting an argument used to turn me on but only if it were to be a playful argument and yes i forgive and forget after 10 minutes of arguing and hug him after not because i feel guilty but because i simply do not like to stay angryPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by _sierra_
There's a bunch of selfish people... a lot of takers, not many givers.. you'd get tired of that eventually when you stop playing the long-suffering partner.. i don't have time for that butter anymore.. that's why i left my libra ex
I know the feeling we tend to stay longer then needed and end up suffering from it as in result we become depressed click to expand
u are both virgo sun libra mars,
so these things would fit u both..
SUN or MARS in LIBRA
(SUN is here September 24 - October 23)
The type of man who attracts you is charming, polite, well-dressed, and looks "classy" - and it helps if he's good-looking, romantic, and a bit old-fashioned.
You tend to respond to mental and verbal turn-ons more than the crude physical kinds.
You can be "charmed" by a smooth-talker, and are attracted to the "creative" types.
Serenity is what you seek, yet it becomes boring to you - so you like to shake things up a little now and then.
Especially if you have Mars in Libra, you may be aroused by what you see as "beautiful" - such as a finely-formed body or face.
You may also find an argument arousing, as long as it remains verbal and does not get physically threatening. Though you see yourself as being a lover, not a fighter, you may be sexually attracted to a macho type, as Venus was attracted to Mars.
You're a bit like Ginger Rogers, and your idea of a perfect partner would be a Fred Astaire. If you were in a televison series, you could play "Diane" on "Cheers".
Ā©2001 by Michael Star.
click to expandclick to expand
Posted by lisabethur8Yes and no š he is perfect in that sense he is a gentleman but he is not assertive enough maybe he his aries/libra intercepted but i need a man to take the lead sometimes i do not like to boss him around believe it or not but i sometimes want to say ok now it's your turn to decidešPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by lisabethur8Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by _sierra_
There's a bunch of selfish people... a lot of takers, not many givers.. you'd get tired of that eventually when you stop playing the long-suffering partner.. i don't have time for that butter anymore.. that's why i left my libra ex
I know the feeling we tend to stay longer then needed and end up suffering from it as in result we become depressed click to expand
u are both virgo sun libra mars,
so these things would fit u both..
SUN or MARS in LIBRA
(SUN is here September 24 - October 23)
The type of man who attracts you is charming, polite, well-dressed, and looks "classy" - and it helps if he's good-looking, romantic, and a bit old-fashioned.
You tend to respond to mental and verbal turn-ons more than the crude physical kinds.
You can be "charmed" by a smooth-talker, and are attracted to the "creative" types.
Serenity is what you seek, yet it becomes boring to you - so you like to shake things up a little now and then.
Especially if you have Mars in Libra, you may be aroused by what you see as "beautiful" - such as a finely-formed body or face.
You may also find an argument arousing, as long as it remains verbal and does not get physically threatening. Though you see yourself as being a lover, not a fighter, you may be sexually attracted to a macho type, as Venus was attracted to Mars.
You're a bit like Ginger Rogers, and your idea of a perfect partner would be a Fred Astaire. If you were in a televison series, you could play "Diane" on "Cheers".
Ā©2001 by Michael Star.
click to expand
Lol that gif hahahah i do like a muscular man but i do not like smooth talk unless a man means it but i can sense that very fast and yes i do like a man that is well dressed and has good manners but is not too prude or too shy. I need someone that is dominant and assertive and not afraid of anything someone that can dare me but doesn't try to compete with me someone that has enough confidence because confidence is sex(specially in the bedroom) but in general also a well outspoken intelligent man click to expand
meaning...ur sagitarius guy with cancer moon is purrfect for u? click to expandclick to expand
Posted by dewiklaessen26lol šPosted by lisabethur8Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by lisabethur8Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by _sierra_
There's a bunch of selfish people... a lot of takers, not many givers.. you'd get tired of that eventually when you stop playing the long-suffering partner.. i don't have time for that butter anymore.. that's why i left my libra ex
I know the feeling we tend to stay longer then needed and end up suffering from it as in result we become depressed click to expand
u are both virgo sun libra mars,
so these things would fit u both..
SUN or MARS in LIBRA
(SUN is here September 24 - October 23)
The type of man who attracts you is charming, polite, well-dressed, and looks "classy" - and it helps if he's good-looking, romantic, and a bit old-fashioned.
You tend to respond to mental and verbal turn-ons more than the crude physical kinds.
You can be "charmed" by a smooth-talker, and are attracted to the "creative" types.
Serenity is what you seek, yet it becomes boring to you - so you like to shake things up a little now and then.
Especially if you have Mars in Libra, you may be aroused by what you see as "beautiful" - such as a finely-formed body or face.
You may also find an argument arousing, as long as it remains verbal and does not get physically threatening. Though you see yourself as being a lover, not a fighter, you may be sexually attracted to a macho type, as Venus was attracted to Mars.
You're a bit like Ginger Rogers, and your idea of a perfect partner would be a Fred Astaire. If you were in a televison series, you could play "Diane" on "Cheers".
Ā©2001 by Michael Star.
click to expand
Lol that gif hahahah i do like a muscular man but i do not like smooth talk unless a man means it but i can sense that very fast and yes i do like a man that is well dressed and has good manners but is not too prude or too shy. I need someone that is dominant and assertive and not afraid of anything someone that can dare me but doesn't try to compete with me someone that has enough confidence because confidence is sex(specially in the bedroom) but in general also a well outspoken intelligent man click to expand
meaning...ur sagitarius guy with cancer moon is purrfect for u? click to expand
Yes and no he is perfect in that sense he is a gentleman but he is not assertive enough maybe he his aries/libra intercepted but i need a man to take the lead sometimes i do not like to boss him around believe it or not but i sometimes want to say ok now it's your turn to decide click to expandclick to expand
yeah i remember he's not assertive enough and it frustrated u. but i think a part of u likes that about him.
Posted by lisabethur8I forgot to say taking more responsibility like little things but also being more attentive i never really got breakfast in bed not that i want that every day but every once in a while. with responsibility i mean doing things without me having to ask he procrastinates and forgets a lot and then i have to remind him 10 times but sometimes he also just waits until i do it lol that is our worst issue in the relationship daily householdPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by lisabethur8Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by _sierra_
There's a bunch of selfish people... a lot of takers, not many givers.. you'd get tired of that eventually when you stop playing the long-suffering partner.. i don't have time for that butter anymore.. that's why i left my libra ex
I know the feeling we tend to stay longer then needed and end up suffering from it as in result we become depressed click to expand
u are both virgo sun libra mars,
so these things would fit u both..
SUN or MARS in LIBRA
(SUN is here September 24 - October 23)
The type of man who attracts you is charming, polite, well-dressed, and looks "classy" - and it helps if he's good-looking, romantic, and a bit old-fashioned.
You tend to respond to mental and verbal turn-ons more than the crude physical kinds.
You can be "charmed" by a smooth-talker, and are attracted to the "creative" types.
Serenity is what you seek, yet it becomes boring to you - so you like to shake things up a little now and then.
Especially if you have Mars in Libra, you may be aroused by what you see as "beautiful" - such as a finely-formed body or face.
You may also find an argument arousing, as long as it remains verbal and does not get physically threatening. Though you see yourself as being a lover, not a fighter, you may be sexually attracted to a macho type, as Venus was attracted to Mars.
You're a bit like Ginger Rogers, and your idea of a perfect partner would be a Fred Astaire. If you were in a televison series, you could play "Diane" on "Cheers".
Ā©2001 by Michael Star.
click to expand
Lol that gif hahahah i do like a muscular man but i do not like smooth talk unless a man means it but i can sense that very fast and yes i do like a man that is well dressed and has good manners but is not too prude or too shy. I need someone that is dominant and assertive and not afraid of anything someone that can dare me but doesn't try to compete with me someone that has enough confidence because confidence is sex(specially in the bedroom) but in general also a well outspoken intelligent man click to expand
meaning...ur sagitarius guy with cancer moon is purrfect for u? click to expandclick to expand
Posted by _sierra_that's good for u. his aries bits can help ur libra parts. you need to be pushed gently and enjoy it.Posted by lisabethur8Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by _sierra_
There's a bunch of selfish people... a lot of takers, not many givers.. you'd get tired of that eventually when you stop playing the long-suffering partner.. i don't have time for that butter anymore.. that's why i left my libra ex
I know the feeling we tend to stay longer then needed and end up suffering from it as in result we become depressed click to expand
u are both virgo sun libra mars,
so these things would fit u both..
SUN or MARS in LIBRA
(SUN is here September 24 - October 23)
The type of man who attracts you is charming, polite, well-dressed, and looks "classy" - and it helps if he's good-looking, romantic, and a bit old-fashioned.
You tend to respond to mental and verbal turn-ons more than the crude physical kinds.
You can be "charmed" by a smooth-talker, and are attracted to the "creative" types.
Serenity is what you seek, yet it becomes boring to you - so you like to shake things up a little now and then.
Especially if you have Mars in Libra, you may be aroused by what you see as "beautiful" - such as a finely-formed body or face.
You may also find an argument arousing, as long as it remains verbal and does not get physically threatening. Though you see yourself as being a lover, not a fighter, you may be sexually attracted to a macho type, as Venus was attracted to Mars.
You're a bit like Ginger Rogers, and your idea of a perfect partner would be a Fred Astaire. If you were in a televison series, you could play "Diane" on "Cheers".
Ā©2001 by Michael Star.
click to expand
That's exactly what my libra ex was like.. he was so conventionally handsome too, like the type most women and hell even some men would want to sneak a look at.. but i was never jealous when we were together coz what can he do about his looks? He's probably the most handsome guy i ever dated.. classic looks
Charming, romantic and creative.. most men i've dated shared these traits..
But then you know i'm with an aries moon-aries venus now lolz.. i realized they may not be so different though.. i'd even say this man is more sensitive but probably coz of the pisces sun-pisces mars too.. they were both pushy in their own way though.. only the libra was more subtle but this aries moon is just so direct like that time he was pushing me to go somewhere coz he knows i tend to change my mind anyway lol like if i say no now it might change the next hour lolz click to expandclick to expand
Posted by lisabethur8I do like his soft approach towards me like sexually he is not selfish at all he takes care of me first but outside the bedroom he can be somewhat lazy and slow like leaving dishes for a week on the kitchen counter š and ofcourse i do them too but even when i do so when it's time and he has to do things he will not do it right away.He tends to pile things up same with problems and his emotions he tends to hold things in until they explode then direct that anger towards me although he can be moody that is different.Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by lisabethur8Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by lisabethur8Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by _sierra_
There's a bunch of selfish people... a lot of takers, not many givers.. you'd get tired of that eventually when you stop playing the long-suffering partner.. i don't have time for that butter anymore.. that's why i left my libra ex
I know the feeling we tend to stay longer then needed and end up suffering from it as in result we become depressed click to expand
u are both virgo sun libra mars,
so these things would fit u both..
SUN or MARS in LIBRA
(SUN is here September 24 - October 23)
The type of man who attracts you is charming, polite, well-dressed, and looks "classy" - and it helps if he's good-looking, romantic, and a bit old-fashioned.
You tend to respond to mental and verbal turn-ons more than the crude physical kinds.
You can be "charmed" by a smooth-talker, and are attracted to the "creative" types.
Serenity is what you seek, yet it becomes boring to you - so you like to shake things up a little now and then.
Especially if you have Mars in Libra, you may be aroused by what you see as "beautiful" - such as a finely-formed body or face.
You may also find an argument arousing, as long as it remains verbal and does not get physically threatening. Though you see yourself as being a lover, not a fighter, you may be sexually attracted to a macho type, as Venus was attracted to Mars.
You're a bit like Ginger Rogers, and your idea of a perfect partner would be a Fred Astaire. If you were in a televison series, you could play "Diane" on "Cheers".
Ā©2001 by Michael Star.
click to expand
Lol that gif hahahah i do like a muscular man but i do not like smooth talk unless a man means it but i can sense that very fast and yes i do like a man that is well dressed and has good manners but is not too prude or too shy. I need someone that is dominant and assertive and not afraid of anything someone that can dare me but doesn't try to compete with me someone that has enough confidence because confidence is sex(specially in the bedroom) but in general also a well outspoken intelligent man click to expand
meaning...ur sagitarius guy with cancer moon is purrfect for u? click to expand
Yes and no he is perfect in that sense he is a gentleman but he is not assertive enough maybe he his aries/libra intercepted but i need a man to take the lead sometimes i do not like to boss him around believe it or not but i sometimes want to say ok now it's your turn to decide click to expand
lol
yeah i remember he's not assertive enough and it frustrated u. but i think a part of u likes that about him. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by dewiklaessen26i'm very routine with my husband, breakfast is ready for him everyday. lol he likes routine.Posted by lisabethur8Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by lisabethur8Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by _sierra_
There's a bunch of selfish people... a lot of takers, not many givers.. you'd get tired of that eventually when you stop playing the long-suffering partner.. i don't have time for that butter anymore.. that's why i left my libra ex
I know the feeling we tend to stay longer then needed and end up suffering from it as in result we become depressed click to expand
u are both virgo sun libra mars,
so these things would fit u both..
SUN or MARS in LIBRA
(SUN is here September 24 - October 23)
The type of man who attracts you is charming, polite, well-dressed, and looks "classy" - and it helps if he's good-looking, romantic, and a bit old-fashioned.
You tend to respond to mental and verbal turn-ons more than the crude physical kinds.
You can be "charmed" by a smooth-talker, and are attracted to the "creative" types.
Serenity is what you seek, yet it becomes boring to you - so you like to shake things up a little now and then.
Especially if you have Mars in Libra, you may be aroused by what you see as "beautiful" - such as a finely-formed body or face.
You may also find an argument arousing, as long as it remains verbal and does not get physically threatening. Though you see yourself as being a lover, not a fighter, you may be sexually attracted to a macho type, as Venus was attracted to Mars.
You're a bit like Ginger Rogers, and your idea of a perfect partner would be a Fred Astaire. If you were in a televison series, you could play "Diane" on "Cheers".
Ā©2001 by Michael Star.
click to expand
Lol that gif hahahah i do like a muscular man but i do not like smooth talk unless a man means it but i can sense that very fast and yes i do like a man that is well dressed and has good manners but is not too prude or too shy. I need someone that is dominant and assertive and not afraid of anything someone that can dare me but doesn't try to compete with me someone that has enough confidence because confidence is sex(specially in the bedroom) but in general also a well outspoken intelligent man click to expand
meaning...ur sagitarius guy with cancer moon is purrfect for u? click to expand
I forgot to say taking more responsibility like little things but also being more attentive i never really got breakfast in bed not that i want that every day but every once in a while. with responsibility i mean doing things without me having to ask he procrastinates and forgets a lot and then i have to remind him 10 times but sometimes he also just waits until i do it lol that is our worst issue in the relationship daily household click to expandclick to expand
for me i'm the only one doing the household. My husband doesn't do anything there.. he will say..uhh NOPE.(household cleaning, picking up groceries, errands, everything else basically)
but he and i do gardening together and cleaning up the backyard on weekends.
so u and ur guy have to take turns how to clean up.
u sound like my sisters and their men. they take turns doing the household. More so my sag sister and her virgo man. (he sometimes does all the cooking and hosting) The libra brother in law does most of the household, shopping picking up the kids from school, ect while my sister is more the breadwinner and works longer hours.
Posted by lisabethur8Maybe my mars in libra but i like things to be 50/50 even if he is working because i have seen my grandma taking care of my grandpa for years he never did the household and now all of a sudden when my grandma is sick he has to do everything because she can't. He did not even know how to do a wash he has a very hard time doing the household and is often very stressed plus having to take care of her now he even said i never knew that doing the household could be so stressful. He's an Aquarius with Aries moon my grandma is a Taurus with moon in Pisces he didn't appreciate her until now that's not what i want to happen to me that's why i always do things 50/50Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by lisabethur8Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by lisabethur8Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by _sierra_
There's a bunch of selfish people... a lot of takers, not many givers.. you'd get tired of that eventually when you stop playing the long-suffering partner.. i don't have time for that butter anymore.. that's why i left my libra ex
I know the feeling we tend to stay longer then needed and end up suffering from it as in result we become depressed click to expand
u are both virgo sun libra mars,
so these things would fit u both..
SUN or MARS in LIBRA
(SUN is here September 24 - October 23)
The type of man who attracts you is charming, polite, well-dressed, and looks "classy" - and it helps if he's good-looking, romantic, and a bit old-fashioned.
You tend to respond to mental and verbal turn-ons more than the crude physical kinds.
You can be "charmed" by a smooth-talker, and are attracted to the "creative" types.
Serenity is what you seek, yet it becomes boring to you - so you like to shake things up a little now and then.
Especially if you have Mars in Libra, you may be aroused by what you see as "beautiful" - such as a finely-formed body or face.
You may also find an argument arousing, as long as it remains verbal and does not get physically threatening. Though you see yourself as being a lover, not a fighter, you may be sexually attracted to a macho type, as Venus was attracted to Mars.
You're a bit like Ginger Rogers, and your idea of a perfect partner would be a Fred Astaire. If you were in a televison series, you could play "Diane" on "Cheers".
Ā©2001 by Michael Star.
click to expand
Lol that gif hahahah i do like a muscular man but i do not like smooth talk unless a man means it but i can sense that very fast and yes i do like a man that is well dressed and has good manners but is not too prude or too shy. I need someone that is dominant and assertive and not afraid of anything someone that can dare me but doesn't try to compete with me someone that has enough confidence because confidence is sex(specially in the bedroom) but in general also a well outspoken intelligent man click to expand
meaning...ur sagitarius guy with cancer moon is purrfect for u? click to expand
I forgot to say taking more responsibility like little things but also being more attentive i never really got breakfast in bed not that i want that every day but every once in a while. with responsibility i mean doing things without me having to ask he procrastinates and forgets a lot and then i have to remind him 10 times but sometimes he also just waits until i do it lol that is our worst issue in the relationship daily household click to expand
i'm very routine with my husband, breakfast is ready for him everyday. lol he likes routine.
for me i'm the only one doing the household. My husband doesn't do anything there.. he will say..uhh NOPE.(household cleaning, picking up groceries, errands, everything else basically)
but he and i do gardening together and cleaning up the backyard on weekends.
so u and ur guy have to take turns how to clean up.
u sound like my sisters and their men. they take turns doing the household. More so my sag sister and her virgo man. (he sometimes does all the cooking and hosting) The libra brother in law does most of the household, shopping picking up the kids from school, ect while my sister is more the breadwinner and works longer hours. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by lisabethur8Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by lisabethur8Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by lisabethur8Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by _sierra_
There's a bunch of selfish people... a lot of takers, not many givers.. you'd get tired of that eventually when you stop playing the long-suffering partner.. i don't have time for that butter anymore.. that's why i left my libra ex
I know the feeling we tend to stay longer then needed and end up suffering from it as in result we become depressed click to expand
u are both virgo sun libra mars,
so these things would fit u both..
SUN or MARS in LIBRA
(SUN is here September 24 - October 23)
The type of man who attracts you is charming, polite, well-dressed, and looks "classy" - and it helps if he's good-looking, romantic, and a bit old-fashioned.
You tend to respond to mental and verbal turn-ons more than the crude physical kinds.
You can be "charmed" by a smooth-talker, and are attracted to the "creative" types.
Serenity is what you seek, yet it becomes boring to you - so you like to shake things up a little now and then.
Especially if you have Mars in Libra, you may be aroused by what you see as "beautiful" - such as a finely-formed body or face.
You may also find an argument arousing, as long as it remains verbal and does not get physically threatening. Though you see yourself as being a lover, not a fighter, you may be sexually attracted to a macho type, as Venus was attracted to Mars.
You're a bit like Ginger Rogers, and your idea of a perfect partner would be a Fred Astaire. If you were in a televison series, you could play "Diane" on "Cheers".
Ā©2001 by Michael Star.
click to expand
Lol that gif hahahah i do like a muscular man but i do not like smooth talk unless a man means it but i can sense that very fast and yes i do like a man that is well dressed and has good manners but is not too prude or too shy. I need someone that is dominant and assertive and not afraid of anything someone that can dare me but doesn't try to compete with me someone that has enough confidence because confidence is sex(specially in the bedroom) but in general also a well outspoken intelligent man click to expand
meaning...ur sagitarius guy with cancer moon is purrfect for u? click to expand
I forgot to say taking more responsibility like little things but also being more attentive i never really got breakfast in bed not that i want that every day but every once in a while. with responsibility i mean doing things without me having to ask he procrastinates and forgets a lot and then i have to remind him 10 times but sometimes he also just waits until i do it lol that is our worst issue in the relationship daily household click to expand
i'm very routine with my husband, breakfast is ready for him everyday. lol he likes routine.
for me i'm the only one doing the household. My husband doesn't do anything there.. he will say..uhh NOPE.(household cleaning, picking up groceries, errands, everything else basically)
but he and i do gardening together and cleaning up the backyard on weekends.
so u and ur guy have to take turns how to clean up.
u sound like my sisters and their men. they take turns doing the household. More so my sag sister and her virgo man. (he sometimes does all the cooking and hosting) The libra brother in law does most of the household, shopping picking up the kids from school, ect while my sister is more the breadwinner and works longer hours. click to expand
Maybe my mars in libra but i like things to be 50/50 even if he is working because i have seen my grandma taking care of my grandpa for years he never did the household and now all of a sudden when my grandma is sick he has to do everything because she can't. He did not even know how to do a wash he has a very hard time doing the household and is often very stressed plus having to take care of her now he even said i never knew that doing the household could be so stressful. He's an Aquarius with Aries moon my grandma is a Taurus with moon in Pisces he didn't appreciate her until now that's not what i want to happen to me that's why i always do things 50/50 click to expandclick to expand
aww.
my husband has money put away for old age and for hiring caretakers for us. lol
he dont want to be the one taking care just in case i also go crippled from old age. he is prepared. lol
(i know my husband...he is NOT nurturing that way)
we did the same for his grandmother, since she got dementia before passing...and weakened bones.
his grandfather wasn't around for over a decade since he passed before her.
we even hired a monthly beautician to come to her house to fix her hair and cut her nails and clean them since dementia she forgot to cut her nails and they LONG (true story) dementia can do that...
Posted by _sierra_u are super lucky!!Posted by lisabethur8Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by lisabethur8Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by lisabethur8Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by _sierra_
There's a bunch of selfish people... a lot of takers, not many givers.. you'd get tired of that eventually when you stop playing the long-suffering partner.. i don't have time for that butter anymore.. that's why i left my libra ex
I know the feeling we tend to stay longer then needed and end up suffering from it as in result we become depressed click to expand
u are both virgo sun libra mars,
so these things would fit u both..
SUN or MARS in LIBRA
(SUN is here September 24 - October 23)
The type of man who attracts you is charming, polite, well-dressed, and looks "classy" - and it helps if he's good-looking, romantic, and a bit old-fashioned.
You tend to respond to mental and verbal turn-ons more than the crude physical kinds.
You can be "charmed" by a smooth-talker, and are attracted to the "creative" types.
Serenity is what you seek, yet it becomes boring to you - so you like to shake things up a little now and then.
Especially if you have Mars in Libra, you may be aroused by what you see as "beautiful" - such as a finely-formed body or face.
You may also find an argument arousing, as long as it remains verbal and does not get physically threatening. Though you see yourself as being a lover, not a fighter, you may be sexually attracted to a macho type, as Venus was attracted to Mars.
You're a bit like Ginger Rogers, and your idea of a perfect partner would be a Fred Astaire. If you were in a televison series, you could play "Diane" on "Cheers".
Ā©2001 by Michael Star.
click to expand
Lol that gif hahahah i do like a muscular man but i do not like smooth talk unless a man means it but i can sense that very fast and yes i do like a man that is well dressed and has good manners but is not too prude or too shy. I need someone that is dominant and assertive and not afraid of anything someone that can dare me but doesn't try to compete with me someone that has enough confidence because confidence is sex(specially in the bedroom) but in general also a well outspoken intelligent man click to expand
meaning...ur sagitarius guy with cancer moon is purrfect for u? click to expand
I forgot to say taking more responsibility like little things but also being more attentive i never really got breakfast in bed not that i want that every day but every once in a while. with responsibility i mean doing things without me having to ask he procrastinates and forgets a lot and then i have to remind him 10 times but sometimes he also just waits until i do it lol that is our worst issue in the relationship daily household click to expand
i'm very routine with my husband, breakfast is ready for him everyday. lol he likes routine.
for me i'm the only one doing the household. My husband doesn't do anything there.. he will say..uhh NOPE.(household cleaning, picking up groceries, errands, everything else basically)
but he and i do gardening together and cleaning up the backyard on weekends.
so u and ur guy have to take turns how to clean up.
u sound like my sisters and their men. they take turns doing the household. More so my sag sister and her virgo man. (he sometimes does all the cooking and hosting) The libra brother in law does most of the household, shopping picking up the kids from school, ect while my sister is more the breadwinner and works longer hours. click to expand
Lol i can't cook to save my life which sucks coz i have cancer venus.. plus he cooks for a living so he's got that covered..sometimes he jokes if maybe i just date him for his cooking lol i like doing the cleaning though he insists on helping me but he'll always get distracted or fall asleep lolz.. we both like to fix things so there's no problem there click to expandclick to expand
u got a gordon ramsey, anthony bourdain and jamie oliver type. š
and u get all the exotic foods to taste.
Posted by _sierra_Posted by lisabethur8Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by _sierra_
There's a bunch of selfish people... a lot of takers, not many givers.. you'd get tired of that eventually when you stop playing the long-suffering partner.. i don't have time for that butter anymore.. that's why i left my libra ex
I know the feeling we tend to stay longer then needed and end up suffering from it as in result we become depressed click to expand
u are both virgo sun libra mars,
so these things would fit u both..
SUN or MARS in LIBRA
(SUN is here September 24 - October 23)
The type of man who attracts you is charming, polite, well-dressed, and looks "classy" - and it helps if he's good-looking, romantic, and a bit old-fashioned.
You tend to respond to mental and verbal turn-ons more than the crude physical kinds.
You can be "charmed" by a smooth-talker, and are attracted to the "creative" types.
Serenity is what you seek, yet it becomes boring to you - so you like to shake things up a little now and then.
Especially if you have Mars in Libra, you may be aroused by what you see as "beautiful" - such as a finely-formed body or face.
You may also find an argument arousing, as long as it remains verbal and does not get physically threatening. Though you see yourself as being a lover, not a fighter, you may be sexually attracted to a macho type, as Venus was attracted to Mars.
You're a bit like Ginger Rogers, and your idea of a perfect partner would be a Fred Astaire. If you were in a televison series, you could play "Diane" on "Cheers".
Ā©2001 by Michael Star.
click to expand
arguments that led to sex?
that's a libra mars thing? click to expandclick to expand
it must be an aries/libra axis thing š
Posted by _sierra_yes and he chooses women who are more nurturing lolPosted by lisabethur8Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by lisabethur8Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by lisabethur8Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by lisabethur8Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by _sierra_
There's a bunch of selfish people... a lot of takers, not many givers.. you'd get tired of that eventually when you stop playing the long-suffering partner.. i don't have time for that butter anymore.. that's why i left my libra ex
I know the feeling we tend to stay longer then needed and end up suffering from it as in result we become depressed click to expand
u are both virgo sun libra mars,
so these things would fit u both..
SUN or MARS in LIBRA
(SUN is here September 24 - October 23)
The type of man who attracts you is charming, polite, well-dressed, and looks "classy" - and it helps if he's good-looking, romantic, and a bit old-fashioned.
You tend to respond to mental and verbal turn-ons more than the crude physical kinds.
You can be "charmed" by a smooth-talker, and are attracted to the "creative" types.
Serenity is what you seek, yet it becomes boring to you - so you like to shake things up a little now and then.
Especially if you have Mars in Libra, you may be aroused by what you see as "beautiful" - such as a finely-formed body or face.
You may also find an argument arousing, as long as it remains verbal and does not get physically threatening. Though you see yourself as being a lover, not a fighter, you may be sexually attracted to a macho type, as Venus was attracted to Mars.
You're a bit like Ginger Rogers, and your idea of a perfect partner would be a Fred Astaire. If you were in a televison series, you could play "Diane" on "Cheers".
Ā©2001 by Michael Star.
click to expand
Lol that gif hahahah i do like a muscular man but i do not like smooth talk unless a man means it but i can sense that very fast and yes i do like a man that is well dressed and has good manners but is not too prude or too shy. I need someone that is dominant and assertive and not afraid of anything someone that can dare me but doesn't try to compete with me someone that has enough confidence because confidence is sex(specially in the bedroom) but in general also a well outspoken intelligent man click to expand
meaning...ur sagitarius guy with cancer moon is purrfect for u? click to expand
I forgot to say taking more responsibility like little things but also being more attentive i never really got breakfast in bed not that i want that every day but every once in a while. with responsibility i mean doing things without me having to ask he procrastinates and forgets a lot and then i have to remind him 10 times but sometimes he also just waits until i do it lol that is our worst issue in the relationship daily household click to expand
i'm very routine with my husband, breakfast is ready for him everyday. lol he likes routine.
for me i'm the only one doing the household. My husband doesn't do anything there.. he will say..uhh NOPE.(household cleaning, picking up groceries, errands, everything else basically)
but he and i do gardening together and cleaning up the backyard on weekends.
so u and ur guy have to take turns how to clean up.
u sound like my sisters and their men. they take turns doing the household. More so my sag sister and her virgo man. (he sometimes does all the cooking and hosting) The libra brother in law does most of the household, shopping picking up the kids from school, ect while my sister is more the breadwinner and works longer hours. click to expand
Maybe my mars in libra but i like things to be 50/50 even if he is working because i have seen my grandma taking care of my grandpa for years he never did the household and now all of a sudden when my grandma is sick he has to do everything because she can't. He did not even know how to do a wash he has a very hard time doing the household and is often very stressed plus having to take care of her now he even said i never knew that doing the household could be so stressful. He's an Aquarius with Aries moon my grandma is a Taurus with moon in Pisces he didn't appreciate her until now that's not what i want to happen to me that's why i always do things 50/50 click to expand
aww.
my husband has money put away for old age and for hiring caretakers for us. lol
he dont want to be the one taking care just in case i also go crippled from old age. he is prepared. lol
(i know my husband...he is NOT nurturing that way)
we did the same for his grandmother, since she got dementia before passing...and weakened bones.
his grandfather wasn't around for over a decade since he passed before her.
we even hired a monthly beautician to come to her house to fix her hair and cut her nails and clean them since dementia she forgot to cut her nails and they LONG (true story) dementia can do that... click to expand
So he's more financially supportive than nurturing?
I've always been more nurturing and i don't know if my bf's always been this way or he mirrored me.. but he is very attentive whenever i'm sick that sometimes i think we get a relationship upgrade whenever one of us gets sick lol
The first year we dated and he got sick, i think i fussed over him and he realized he liked that.. the second or third time i started to notice he's exaggerating his pain and i'm like: "did you tell me you're sick just so i'd come over?"
We're so childish sometime really. click to expandclick to expand
every guy i've been with ...they are like more well not as nurturing.
they rather make money.
my first husband the pisces/pisces mars is somewhat nurturing, but in truth, like sweet and can turn on the charm...type.
BUT he is a very adventuresome man, he would have been honestly successful in sports, motorcross and driving racing cars, that kind of thing. it was in his blood. he was just a daredevil really.
maybe it's his fire? because the famous motorcycle stunt man was a Libra sun/Leo moon but i read he was a real asshole, Evil Knievel.
my ex pisces was not an asshole ...but he can be really a jerk when he drank and did drugs. (under heavy influence)
Posted by _sierra_btw i really how u two go together like peas and carrots. or two peas in a pod.Posted by lisabethur8Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by lisabethur8Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by lisabethur8Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by lisabethur8Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by _sierra_
There's a bunch of selfish people... a lot of takers, not many givers.. you'd get tired of that eventually when you stop playing the long-suffering partner.. i don't have time for that butter anymore.. that's why i left my libra ex
I know the feeling we tend to stay longer then needed and end up suffering from it as in result we become depressed click to expand
u are both virgo sun libra mars,
so these things would fit u both..
SUN or MARS in LIBRA
(SUN is here September 24 - October 23)
The type of man who attracts you is charming, polite, well-dressed, and looks "classy" - and it helps if he's good-looking, romantic, and a bit old-fashioned.
You tend to respond to mental and verbal turn-ons more than the crude physical kinds.
You can be "charmed" by a smooth-talker, and are attracted to the "creative" types.
Serenity is what you seek, yet it becomes boring to you - so you like to shake things up a little now and then.
Especially if you have Mars in Libra, you may be aroused by what you see as "beautiful" - such as a finely-formed body or face.
You may also find an argument arousing, as long as it remains verbal and does not get physically threatening. Though you see yourself as being a lover, not a fighter, you may be sexually attracted to a macho type, as Venus was attracted to Mars.
You're a bit like Ginger Rogers, and your idea of a perfect partner would be a Fred Astaire. If you were in a televison series, you could play "Diane" on "Cheers".
Ā©2001 by Michael Star.
click to expand
Lol that gif hahahah i do like a muscular man but i do not like smooth talk unless a man means it but i can sense that very fast and yes i do like a man that is well dressed and has good manners but is not too prude or too shy. I need someone that is dominant and assertive and not afraid of anything someone that can dare me but doesn't try to compete with me someone that has enough confidence because confidence is sex(specially in the bedroom) but in general also a well outspoken intelligent man click to expand
meaning...ur sagitarius guy with cancer moon is purrfect for u? click to expand
I forgot to say taking more responsibility like little things but also being more attentive i never really got breakfast in bed not that i want that every day but every once in a while. with responsibility i mean doing things without me having to ask he procrastinates and forgets a lot and then i have to remind him 10 times but sometimes he also just waits until i do it lol that is our worst issue in the relationship daily household click to expand
i'm very routine with my husband, breakfast is ready for him everyday. lol he likes routine.
for me i'm the only one doing the household. My husband doesn't do anything there.. he will say..uhh NOPE.(household cleaning, picking up groceries, errands, everything else basically)
but he and i do gardening together and cleaning up the backyard on weekends.
so u and ur guy have to take turns how to clean up.
u sound like my sisters and their men. they take turns doing the household. More so my sag sister and her virgo man. (he sometimes does all the cooking and hosting) The libra brother in law does most of the household, shopping picking up the kids from school, ect while my sister is more the breadwinner and works longer hours. click to expand
Maybe my mars in libra but i like things to be 50/50 even if he is working because i have seen my grandma taking care of my grandpa for years he never did the household and now all of a sudden when my grandma is sick he has to do everything because she can't. He did not even know how to do a wash he has a very hard time doing the household and is often very stressed plus having to take care of her now he even said i never knew that doing the household could be so stressful. He's an Aquarius with Aries moon my grandma is a Taurus with moon in Pisces he didn't appreciate her until now that's not what i want to happen to me that's why i always do things 50/50 click to expand
aww.
my husband has money put away for old age and for hiring caretakers for us. lol
he dont want to be the one taking care just in case i also go crippled from old age. he is prepared. lol
(i know my husband...he is NOT nurturing that way)
we did the same for his grandmother, since she got dementia before passing...and weakened bones.
his grandfather wasn't around for over a decade since he passed before her.
we even hired a monthly beautician to come to her house to fix her hair and cut her nails and clean them since dementia she forgot to cut her nails and they LONG (true story) dementia can do that... click to expand
So he's more financially supportive than nurturing?
I've always been more nurturing and i don't know if my bf's always been this way or he mirrored me.. but he is very attentive whenever i'm sick that sometimes i think we get a relationship upgrade whenever one of us gets sick lol
The first year we dated and he got sick, i think i fussed over him and he realized he liked that.. the second or third time i started to notice he's exaggerating his pain and i'm like: "did you tell me you're sick just so i'd come over?"
We're so childish sometimes really. click to expandclick to expand
it's so sweet.
Posted by _sierra_my ex desired fame and fortune, but the negativity around his mother (which is weird because he can't quit her) or move away...it's like a tie that can't be broken. and she is just really really negative wore him down so much. (always bitching and complaining and nagging) Among other things. Pisces in general cannot stand it they need to be inspired and loved.Posted by lisabethur8Posted by _sierra_Posted by lisabethur8Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by lisabethur8Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by lisabethur8Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by lisabethur8Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by _sierra_
There's a bunch of selfish people... a lot of takers, not many givers.. you'd get tired of that eventually when you stop playing the long-suffering partner.. i don't have time for that butter anymore.. that's why i left my libra ex
I know the feeling we tend to stay longer then needed and end up suffering from it as in result we become depressed click to expand
u are both virgo sun libra mars,
so these things would fit u both..
SUN or MARS in LIBRA
(SUN is here September 24 - October 23)
The type of man who attracts you is charming, polite, well-dressed, and looks "classy" - and it helps if he's good-looking, romantic, and a bit old-fashioned.
You tend to respond to mental and verbal turn-ons more than the crude physical kinds.
You can be "charmed" by a smooth-talker, and are attracted to the "creative" types.
Serenity is what you seek, yet it becomes boring to you - so you like to shake things up a little now and then.
Especially if you have Mars in Libra, you may be aroused by what you see as "beautiful" - such as a finely-formed body or face.
You may also find an argument arousing, as long as it remains verbal and does not get physically threatening. Though you see yourself as being a lover, not a fighter, you may be sexually attracted to a macho type, as Venus was attracted to Mars.
You're a bit like Ginger Rogers, and your idea of a perfect partner would be a Fred Astaire. If you were in a televison series, you could play "Diane" on "Cheers".
Ā©2001 by Michael Star.
click to expand
Lol that gif hahahah i do like a muscular man but i do not like smooth talk unless a man means it but i can sense that very fast and yes i do like a man that is well dressed and has good manners but is not too prude or too shy. I need someone that is dominant and assertive and not afraid of anything someone that can dare me but doesn't try to compete with me someone that has enough confidence because confidence is sex(specially in the bedroom) but in general also a well outspoken intelligent man click to expand
meaning...ur sagitarius guy with cancer moon is purrfect for u? click to expand
I forgot to say taking more responsibility like little things but also being more attentive i never really got breakfast in bed not that i want that every day but every once in a while. with responsibility i mean doing things without me having to ask he procrastinates and forgets a lot and then i have to remind him 10 times but sometimes he also just waits until i do it lol that is our worst issue in the relationship daily household click to expand
i'm very routine with my husband, breakfast is ready for him everyday. lol he likes routine.
for me i'm the only one doing the household. My husband doesn't do anything there.. he will say..uhh NOPE.(household cleaning, picking up groceries, errands, everything else basically)
but he and i do gardening together and cleaning up the backyard on weekends.
so u and ur guy have to take turns how to clean up.
u sound like my sisters and their men. they take turns doing the household. More so my sag sister and her virgo man. (he sometimes does all the cooking and hosting) The libra brother in law does most of the household, shopping picking up the kids from school, ect while my sister is more the breadwinner and works longer hours. click to expand
Maybe my mars in libra but i like things to be 50/50 even if he is working because i have seen my grandma taking care of my grandpa for years he never did the household and now all of a sudden when my grandma is sick he has to do everything because she can't. He did not even know how to do a wash he has a very hard time doing the household and is often very stressed plus having to take care of her now he even said i never knew that doing the household could be so stressful. He's an Aquarius with Aries moon my grandma is a Taurus with moon in Pisces he didn't appreciate her until now that's not what i want to happen to me that's why i always do things 50/50 click to expand
aww.
my husband has money put away for old age and for hiring caretakers for us. lol
he dont want to be the one taking care just in case i also go crippled from old age. he is prepared. lol
(i know my husband...he is NOT nurturing that way)
we did the same for his grandmother, since she got dementia before passing...and weakened bones.
his grandfather wasn't around for over a decade since he passed before her.
we even hired a monthly beautician to come to her house to fix her hair and cut her nails and clean them since dementia she forgot to cut her nails and they LONG (true story) dementia can do that... click to expand
So he's more financially supportive than nurturing?
I've always been more nurturing and i don't know if my bf's always been this way or he mirrored me.. but he is very attentive whenever i'm sick that sometimes i think we get a relationship upgrade whenever one of us gets sick lol
The first year we dated and he got sick, i think i fussed over him and he realized he liked that.. the second or third time i started to notice he's exaggerating his pain and i'm like: "did you tell me you're sick just so i'd come over?"
We're so childish sometime really. click to expand
yes and he chooses women who are more nurturing lol
every guy i've been with ...they are like more well not as nurturing.
they rather make money.
my first husband the pisces/pisces mars is somewhat nurturing, but in truth, like sweet and can turn on the charm...type.
BUT he is a very adventuresome man, he would have been honestly successful in sports, motorcross and driving racing cars, that kind of thing. it was in his blood. he was just a daredevil really.
maybe it's his fire? because the famous motorcycle stunt man was a Libra sun/Leo moon but i read he was a real marker, Evil Knievel.
my ex pisces was not an marker ...but he can be really a jerk when he drank and did drugs. (under heavy influence) click to expand
Mine only drinks like hell when he's really upset.. only once when we had a terrible argument.. the worst ever but the moment i tried to walk out on it, i just immediately came back coz he started drinking and i felt guilty and i was worried about him.. i was very appeasing and instantly regretful..
When i returned, he immediately stopped. I bombed him with affection that he can't do much else lol click to expandclick to expand
so they drink to obliviion...they have to stay away from negativity or long term..it is detrimental.
Posted by _sierra_always be positiive and happy together šPosted by lisabethur8Posted by _sierra_Posted by lisabethur8Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by lisabethur8Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by lisabethur8Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by lisabethur8Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by _sierra_
There's a bunch of selfish people... a lot of takers, not many givers.. you'd get tired of that eventually when you stop playing the long-suffering partner.. i don't have time for that butter anymore.. that's why i left my libra ex
I know the feeling we tend to stay longer then needed and end up suffering from it as in result we become depressed click to expand
u are both virgo sun libra mars,
so these things would fit u both..
SUN or MARS in LIBRA
(SUN is here September 24 - October 23)
The type of man who attracts you is charming, polite, well-dressed, and looks "classy" - and it helps if he's good-looking, romantic, and a bit old-fashioned.
You tend to respond to mental and verbal turn-ons more than the crude physical kinds.
You can be "charmed" by a smooth-talker, and are attracted to the "creative" types.
Serenity is what you seek, yet it becomes boring to you - so you like to shake things up a little now and then.
Especially if you have Mars in Libra, you may be aroused by what you see as "beautiful" - such as a finely-formed body or face.
You may also find an argument arousing, as long as it remains verbal and does not get physically threatening. Though you see yourself as being a lover, not a fighter, you may be sexually attracted to a macho type, as Venus was attracted to Mars.
You're a bit like Ginger Rogers, and your idea of a perfect partner would be a Fred Astaire. If you were in a televison series, you could play "Diane" on "Cheers".
Ā©2001 by Michael Star.
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Lol that gif hahahah i do like a muscular man but i do not like smooth talk unless a man means it but i can sense that very fast and yes i do like a man that is well dressed and has good manners but is not too prude or too shy. I need someone that is dominant and assertive and not afraid of anything someone that can dare me but doesn't try to compete with me someone that has enough confidence because confidence is sex(specially in the bedroom) but in general also a well outspoken intelligent man click to expand
meaning...ur sagitarius guy with cancer moon is purrfect for u? click to expand
I forgot to say taking more responsibility like little things but also being more attentive i never really got breakfast in bed not that i want that every day but every once in a while. with responsibility i mean doing things without me having to ask he procrastinates and forgets a lot and then i have to remind him 10 times but sometimes he also just waits until i do it lol that is our worst issue in the relationship daily household click to expand
i'm very routine with my husband, breakfast is ready for him everyday. lol he likes routine.
for me i'm the only one doing the household. My husband doesn't do anything there.. he will say..uhh NOPE.(household cleaning, picking up groceries, errands, everything else basically)
but he and i do gardening together and cleaning up the backyard on weekends.
so u and ur guy have to take turns how to clean up.
u sound like my sisters and their men. they take turns doing the household. More so my sag sister and her virgo man. (he sometimes does all the cooking and hosting) The libra brother in law does most of the household, shopping picking up the kids from school, ect while my sister is more the breadwinner and works longer hours. click to expand
Maybe my mars in libra but i like things to be 50/50 even if he is working because i have seen my grandma taking care of my grandpa for years he never did the household and now all of a sudden when my grandma is sick he has to do everything because she can't. He did not even know how to do a wash he has a very hard time doing the household and is often very stressed plus having to take care of her now he even said i never knew that doing the household could be so stressful. He's an Aquarius with Aries moon my grandma is a Taurus with moon in Pisces he didn't appreciate her until now that's not what i want to happen to me that's why i always do things 50/50 click to expand
aww.
my husband has money put away for old age and for hiring caretakers for us. lol
he dont want to be the one taking care just in case i also go crippled from old age. he is prepared. lol
(i know my husband...he is NOT nurturing that way)
we did the same for his grandmother, since she got dementia before passing...and weakened bones.
his grandfather wasn't around for over a decade since he passed before her.
we even hired a monthly beautician to come to her house to fix her hair and cut her nails and clean them since dementia she forgot to cut her nails and they LONG (true story) dementia can do that... click to expand
So he's more financially supportive than nurturing?
I've always been more nurturing and i don't know if my bf's always been this way or he mirrored me.. but he is very attentive whenever i'm sick that sometimes i think we get a relationship upgrade whenever one of us gets sick lol
The first year we dated and he got sick, i think i fussed over him and he realized he liked that.. the second or third time i started to notice he's exaggerating his pain and i'm like: "did you tell me you're sick just so i'd come over?"
We're so childish sometimes really. click to expand
btw i really how u two go together like peas and carrots. or two peas in a pod.
it's so sweet.
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In sickness and in health
But really, mostly in sickness click to expandclick to expand
Posted by PeonieAlso because you have you moon in a fire sign like me are you also more agressive and less down to earth then most virgo's?
I absolutely hate being compared to other people, rushed against my own pace, disturbing my privacy and routine, having things beyond my control, being disrespected in front of other people, being lied to, not extending the same courtesy as I do (for example, I flushed the toilet and you don't, it would definitely make me mad) and being bossed around (I'm okay with being led but not being bossed, two different things).
( i was not comparing lol š) i meant it in a good way lol
@sierra ur quote..
----What was his mother's sign?
I think they need someone optimistic and who'd want to take care of them.
well u wouldnt believe it but it's true... (and i think it's just because it's her, but it's like u can't believe it ...getting into astrology.... but upbringing and life and other things...)
she is a Leo sun. lol (i should do her chart) but it doesn't matter because she is different than other leos.
she was upset that the ex husband left her and bitched alot about it. even when she had a new man.
i think because the ex was wealthy and really the type alot of women want.
His father has a virgo mars, aries moon . lol
i mean i want to be FAIR about it...because not all sun signs are the same lol
after knowing her sun lol
----What was his mother's sign?
I think they need someone optimistic and who'd want to take care of them.
well u wouldnt believe it but it's true... (and i think it's just because it's her, but it's like u can't believe it ...getting into astrology.... but upbringing and life and other things...)
she is a Leo sun. lol (i should do her chart) but it doesn't matter because she is different than other leos.
she was upset that the ex husband left her and bitched alot about it. even when she had a new man.
i think because the ex was wealthy and really the type alot of women want.
His father has a virgo mars, aries moon . lol
i mean i want to be FAIR about it...because not all sun signs are the same lol
after knowing her sun lol
Posted by PeonieI mean verbally haha i have a temper šPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by Peonie
I absolutely hate being compared to other people, rushed against my own pace, disturbing my privacy and routine, having things beyond my control, being disrespected in front of other people, being lied to, not extending the same courtesy as I do (for example, I flushed the toilet and you don't, it would definitely make me mad) and being bossed around (I'm okay with being led but not being bossed, two different things).
Also because you have you moon in a fire sign like me are you also more agressive and less down to earth then most virgo's? click to expand
No, not aggressive at all...assertive at times, yes, aggressive no...although I admit I can be pretty scary when mad lol...I'm actually a down to earth person... click to expandclick to expand
Posted by _sierra_Posted by Earthgoddess
š
This is so true
I hate when I get to the point of cutting someone special out of my life. It just becomes so easy,like how do I feel so calmly unaffected. When just awhile ago I was losing my mind about this same person.
When Iām done tryna make it work. Trying everything to get myself clearly understood or at least accepted. I amaze myself with how ruthlessly brutal and cold I can be without even trying.
I am the same... it's like i just shut down and go cold... i can't help it.. it's like my insides are detaching so i won't get hurt.. self-preservation is all
I am not being understood.. it's like you're outside and i'm in some glass case and you just won't look my way.. i will stop trying eventually.. it hurts too much click to expandclick to expand
I know it's easy for Virgos to let go (relative to most other Suns) of formerly loving relationships -- but let me ask you this (partly because my ex is a Virgo, and partly because I have a Virgo moon and I can relate somewhat):
Isn't letting someone go for a Virgo only easy when they're in control and they make the decision to end it? Because control is so important to a Virgo. And usually when they end a relationship (or even a friendship), they've been thinking about it for some time, and spent some time unconsciously detaching from the relationship before ending it coolly/easily.
Because when the Virgo is dropped/dumped, it can flip their worlds upside down. They analyze so much that when they don't see it coming, it's shocking and leads to lots of self-criticism/hate. And they actually struggle more than most to let go of relationships like this.
Posted by libraman20No it is not easy at all we do not like to let go of someone even when were in control and even if were not in control we still have a hard time it is never easy no matter what it is something we think about very longPosted by _sierra_I know it's easy for Virgos to let go (relative to most other Suns) of formerly loving relationships -- but let me ask you this (partly because my ex is a Virgo, and partly because I have a Virgo moon and I can relate somewhat):Posted by Earthgoddess
š
This is so true
I hate when I get to the point of cutting someone special out of my life. It just becomes so easy,like how do I feel so calmly unaffected. When just awhile ago I was losing my mind about this same person.
When Iām done tryna make it work. Trying everything to get myself clearly understood or at least accepted. I amaze myself with how ruthlessly brutal and cold I can be without even trying.
I am the same... it's like i just shut down and go cold... i can't help it.. it's like my insides are detaching so i won't get hurt.. self-preservation is all
I am not being understood.. it's like you're outside and i'm in some glass case and you just won't look my way.. i will stop trying eventually.. it hurts too much click to expand
Isn't letting someone go for a Virgo only easy when they're in control and they make the decision to end it? Because control is so important to a Virgo. And usually when they end a relationship (or even a friendship), they've been thinking about it for some time, and spent some time unconsciously detaching from the relationship before ending it coolly/easily.
Because when the Virgo is dropped/dumped, it can flip their worlds upside down. They analyze so much that when they don't see it coming, it's shocking and leads to lots of self-criticism/hate. And they actually struggle more than most to let go of relationships like this. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by dewiklaessen26
I am very patient tolerant and always have a solution for everything, i'm the ultimate optimist but once pushed too far i can become ruthless, careless i always try to avoid this side of me to come out because i do not want to be selfish or ignorant.
The thing is as a Virgo we do not let people in our life very fast and when we do it's a very vulnerable place for us which we do not want to be used against us.
All we want is harmony, happiness we do not like partners who are inconsistent who judge or compare us only talk about problems but never find a solution. A partner that robs you from your freedom and wants to control you in every way. We Virgo's can control ourselves and our thoughts we do not need anybody to tell us how to think ,how to dress,how to act,how we feel. We have a knack for reading body language and sense of reading bs from a mile away, we may complain and warn you up front (warning signs) we will repeat many things out of frustration that's our way of showing we want you to care for us that we still care about you.
We tend to get into toxic relationships where we give more then we receive we're honest at fault we tend to be perfectionists.
If we love a partner we do not want them to change we do not want to fix them as people would say we simply want our partner to learn responsibility and not to give up right away or simply ignore our needs.
We do not have high standards we just want a relationship where both partners have freedom equal rights , freedom of self expression.
As a Virgo when unhappy and depressed you can isolate yourself from the outside world this is not our nature in fact we love to be out and do things rather then talk about it '' less talking more action" is my motto even though i like a good argument i rather get to the point and move on from it.
We tend to explain ourselves more then we should we have a hard time saying no (at least when being younger) we give without expecting anything back except appreciation and love in return.
Gestures make us happy like if you cook for us if you have done some dishes or even if you just compliment us we often wanna hear compliments we need to know that we are useful we need to know that we are important to you.
We love deep and unconditional we have a lot of passion we may not always show our emotions but they run very deep break our walls and you will see what's underneath the surface a warm and passionate person with lots of strength.
We will walk through fire for you but only if you're as dedicated as we are, otherwise we will become aloof and start to live our separate life without you noticing it and slowly disappear (don't say we didn't warn you)
Do not take our love for granted because once we let you go you won't get a chance anymore (specially if you really screwed up) If we do give you a chance it takes a hell lot of work before things will ever be the same again or in the worst case it won't ever be the same.
What does it take for a Virgo guy to walk away from a relationship? I want to understand where I stand. Is there anything I can/ should do?
I have known my Virgo guy for 24yrs as friends but there has always been an attraction/ chemistry between us. His wife/ my girlfriend passed away Aug. 2016 after fighting a battle with cancer for 2 yrs. He then in late Oct. met me for dinner and made it clear he was interested in me. He pursued me for 3 months. I was very hesitant as I wasnāt sure if he was ready but he thought and kept insisting that he was. We both were hit hard and fast and fell in love. After 1 week he was telling me he loved me and was so smitten. Then 1 month later he was talking about buying a house together and helping me raise my boys. We both felt guilty and talked about it. Then 5 months he started saying he felt angry. I know and told him this was his grief. The 2 months later, 7 months of dating and so much love, he realized that he isnāt ready for a relationship that he needs to take time to find himself of which I agree, understand and am supportive of all I ask is that we keep the lines of communication open. Talking in October he said āI have a huge home in my heart! You have no idea girl...I love you so so so much!ā Then a couple days later he told me he was never coming back to me. We didnāt talk fir a few weeks and then he was back to me calling me his girlfriend again fir 3 months.
Come Feb. heās pulled away again. He feels like shit cause he said he wants this but is torn because he still is dealing with grief, anger and now heās admitted depression. The only thing I can do is give him space and time and be patient and understanding in an attempt to move forward myself letting him know that I am still standing here and try to keep him talking to me. I am scared that I will loose him to another. I love him so much and I am thankful that he is at least still talking to me.
Posted by _sierra_
Of course in most situations that are unexpected and where we think things are going well.. it would be hurtful and harder to let go of coz we are not versed in the details of how it went wrong which i imagine to be pretty much the same feelings of people we've detached from or have left...
Thing is i think that most virgos lean on acts of service as their language of love (of course not all virgos) but for ones like me and some on this thread who share the belief that we love probably more than the other person within a relationship, it's not hard to imagine why we would feel it comes out from nowhere when someone leaves us.. coz we thought we were doing well, probably not recognizing that sometimes other people do love differently and prefers being loved a certain way
Like my libra ex who in his own view probably loved me as much as he could in his own way, in what he believed was the way to love.. but we're just not on the same wavelength when it comes to that.. but maybe someone like you with a virgo moon would understand how to handle virgos much better click to expand
Interesting point about the Love Languages. You're definitely right in Virgos being acts of service people. Many Libras are a mix, because we're all about expressing love. I do need words of affirmation, and my Virgo ex definitely did not do that lol.
But me and my Virgo moon are still analyzing my relationship with my Virgal ex, because so much was great but then it blew up in flames. Our charts had conjunctions everywhere, but I think the Pluto influence played a big role (my Venus conj her Pluto, her Moon sq my Pluto). Lots of big feelings there that weren't properly expressed.
Posted by NancymI think he felt guilty for moving on and not being able to grief it could be that you helped him to forget it temporarily but not to actually grief. If he says he needs time for himself i think he means that he needs to find himself back i think he lost himself when he lost her and fooling himself into being with someone else would help him. I don't wanna say his feelings were not real but i do think he wanted to let go of the pain in some way what is your sign ?Posted by dewiklaessen26
I am very patient tolerant and always have a solution for everything, i'm the ultimate optimist but once pushed too far i can become ruthless, careless i always try to avoid this side of me to come out because i do not want to be selfish or ignorant.
The thing is as a Virgo we do not let people in our life very fast and when we do it's a very vulnerable place for us which we do not want to be used against us.
All we want is harmony, happiness we do not like partners who are inconsistent who judge or compare us only talk about problems but never find a solution. A partner that robs you from your freedom and wants to control you in every way. We Virgo's can control ourselves and our thoughts we do not need anybody to tell us how to think ,how to dress,how to act,how we feel. We have a knack for reading body language and sense of reading bs from a mile away, we may complain and warn you up front (warning signs) we will repeat many things out of frustration that's our way of showing we want you to care for us that we still care about you.
We tend to get into toxic relationships where we give more then we receive we're honest at fault we tend to be perfectionists.
If we love a partner we do not want them to change we do not want to fix them as people would say we simply want our partner to learn responsibility and not to give up right away or simply ignore our needs.
We do not have high standards we just want a relationship where both partners have freedom equal rights , freedom of self expression.
As a Virgo when unhappy and depressed you can isolate yourself from the outside world this is not our nature in fact we love to be out and do things rather then talk about it '' less talking more action" is my motto even though i like a good argument i rather get to the point and move on from it.
We tend to explain ourselves more then we should we have a hard time saying no (at least when being younger) we give without expecting anything back except appreciation and love in return.
Gestures make us happy like if you cook for us if you have done some dishes or even if you just compliment us we often wanna hear compliments we need to know that we are useful we need to know that we are important to you.
We love deep and unconditional we have a lot of passion we may not always show our emotions but they run very deep break our walls and you will see what's underneath the surface a warm and passionate person with lots of strength.
We will walk through fire for you but only if you're as dedicated as we are, otherwise we will become aloof and start to live our separate life without you noticing it and slowly disappear (don't say we didn't warn you)
Do not take our love for granted because once we let you go you won't get a chance anymore (specially if you really screwed up) If we do give you a chance it takes a hell lot of work before things will ever be the same again or in the worst case it won't ever be the same.
What does it take for a Virgo guy to walk away from a relationship? I want to understand where I stand. Is there anything I can/ should do?
I have known my Virgo guy for 24yrs as friends but there has always been an attraction/ chemistry between us. His wife/ my girlfriend passed away Aug. 2016 after fighting a battle with cancer for 2 yrs. He then in late Oct. met me for dinner and made it clear he was interested in me. He pursued me for 3 months. I was very hesitant as I wasnāt sure if he was ready but he thought and kept insisting that he was. We both were hit hard and fast and fell in love. After 1 week he was telling me he loved me and was so smitten. Then 1 month later he was talking about buying a house together and helping me raise my boys. We both felt guilty and talked about it. Then 5 months he started saying he felt angry. I know and told him this was his grief. The 2 months later, 7 months of dating and so much love, he realized that he isnāt ready for a relationship that he needs to take time to find himself of which I agree, understand and am supportive of all I ask is that we keep the lines of communication open. Talking in October he said āI have a huge home in my heart! You have no idea girl...I love you so so so much!ā Then a couple days later he told me he was never coming back to me. We didnāt talk fir a few weeks and then he was back to me calling me his girlfriend again fir 3 months.
Come Feb. heās pulled away again. He feels like shit cause he said he wants this but is torn because he still is dealing with grief, anger and now heās admitted depression. The only thing I can do is give him space and time and be patient and understanding in an attempt to move forward myself letting him know that I am still standing here and try to keep him talking to me. I am scared that I will loose him to another. I love him so much and I am thankful that he is at least still talking to me. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by SpaceBirdI never used my ruthlessness against myself it's a defense mechanism once being hurt too much
I dunno what ..i don't think i have ever pushed one too far.
I think if you don't respect their skills or authority in business or you try and insubordinate them. If you try playing hard ball. Or if you have no scruples. Virgos have a knack of using your own ruthlessness against you. I learnt that from observing my Dad when i was very very young.
@_sierra_
This is what I am trying to understand. As a Virgo guy how do they go from Being so in love and happy to pushing feelings aside/down and having to walk away from a relationship hurting me and himself in the process. My circumstance is different as he had lost his wife of 24yrs and jumped too quickly into a relationship with me. We dated for 7 months when he broke up with me but kept in contact. At one point telling me he would never come back to me. Then 4 months later he was back we where dating he was. Asking me his girlfriend again. Then 3 months in he was pulling away again saying he still isnāt ready but telling me how much he loves me. I understand that this happened too quickly and that he needs to find himself. Is pushing his feeling aside a way to help him deal with his pain and the pain of hurting me? He is still texting/replying to my texts daily
This is what I am trying to understand. As a Virgo guy how do they go from Being so in love and happy to pushing feelings aside/down and having to walk away from a relationship hurting me and himself in the process. My circumstance is different as he had lost his wife of 24yrs and jumped too quickly into a relationship with me. We dated for 7 months when he broke up with me but kept in contact. At one point telling me he would never come back to me. Then 4 months later he was back we where dating he was. Asking me his girlfriend again. Then 3 months in he was pulling away again saying he still isnāt ready but telling me how much he loves me. I understand that this happened too quickly and that he needs to find himself. Is pushing his feeling aside a way to help him deal with his pain and the pain of hurting me? He is still texting/replying to my texts daily
Posted by SpaceBirdhow please explain ?Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by SpaceBird
I dunno what ..i don't think i have ever pushed one too far.
I think if you don't respect their skills or authority in business or you try and insubordinate them. If you try playing hard ball. Or if you have no scruples. Virgos have a knack of using your own ruthlessness against you. I learnt that from observing my Dad when i was very very young.
I never used my ruthlessness against myself it's a defense mechanism once being hurt too much click to expand
No ..but you use other people's ruthlessness against them. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by _sierra_Posted by SpaceBirdPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by SpaceBird
I dunno what ..i don't think i have ever pushed one too far.
I think if you don't respect their skills or authority in business or you try and insubordinate them. If you try playing hard ball. Or if you have no scruples. Virgos have a knack of using your own ruthlessness against you. I learnt that from observing my Dad when i was very very young.
I never used my ruthlessness against myself it's a defense mechanism once being hurt too much click to expand
No ..but you use other people's ruthlessness against them. click to expand
Can you give an example? click to expandclick to expand
how we both reply hahahah
Posted by _sierra_Posted by Nancym
@_sierra_
This is what I am trying to understand. As a Virgo guy how do they go from Being so in love and happy to pushing feelings aside/down and having to walk away from a relationship hurting me and himself in the process. My circumstance is different as he had lost his wife of 24yrs and jumped too quickly into a relationship with me. We dated for 7 months when he broke up with me but kept in contact. At one point telling me he would never come back to me. Then 4 months later he was back we where dating he was. Asking me his girlfriend again. Then 3 months in he was pulling away again saying he still isnāt ready but telling me how much he loves me. I understand that this happened too quickly and that he needs to find himself. Is pushing his feeling aside a way to help him deal with his pain and the pain of hurting me? He is still texting/replying to my texts daily
He probably hasn't grieved enough for her.. or he felt guilty that he hasn't grieved enough for her.. guilt is potent in the virgo psyche.. but he definitely tries to maintain contact which is a good sign for your relationship.. i say give him time and space click to expandclick to expand
Thank you! After everything I have been readying about Virgo men to understand all this I am thankful he hasnāt completely shut me out. I was in his area last weekend ( he lives 112km away) I messaged him Wednesday to say I would be in the area he replied that it wasnāt a good weekend had alit going on. I told him no worries and then Sunday morning he messaged me asking if I wanted to meet him for lunch. We had a nice visit and at the end he leaned in for a hug, kissed me on the cheek and said āLove ya!ā I am trying to be realistic in the fact that this doesnāt necessarily mean he will come back to me but I am hopeful. I just donāt not see this man in my life. I want to be there for him and help but I understand that this has to be his journey.
Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by NancymPosted by dewiklaessen26
I am very patient tolerant and always have a solution for everything, i'm the ultimate optimist but once pushed too far i can become ruthless, careless i always try to avoid this side of me to come out because i do not want to be selfish or ignorant.
The thing is as a Virgo we do not let people in our life very fast and when we do it's a very vulnerable place for us which we do not want to be used against us.
All we want is harmony, happiness we do not like partners who are inconsistent who judge or compare us only talk about problems but never find a solution. A partner that robs you from your freedom and wants to control you in every way. We Virgo's can control ourselves and our thoughts we do not need anybody to tell us how to think ,how to dress,how to act,how we feel. We have a knack for reading body language and sense of reading bs from a mile away, we may complain and warn you up front (warning signs) we will repeat many things out of frustration that's our way of showing we want you to care for us that we still care about you.
We tend to get into toxic relationships where we give more then we receive we're honest at fault we tend to be perfectionists.
If we love a partner we do not want them to change we do not want to fix them as people would say we simply want our partner to learn responsibility and not to give up right away or simply ignore our needs.
We do not have high standards we just want a relationship where both partners have freedom equal rights , freedom of self expression.
As a Virgo when unhappy and depressed you can isolate yourself from the outside world this is not our nature in fact we love to be out and do things rather then talk about it '' less talking more action" is my motto even though i like a good argument i rather get to the point and move on from it.
We tend to explain ourselves more then we should we have a hard time saying no (at least when being younger) we give without expecting anything back except appreciation and love in return.
Gestures make us happy like if you cook for us if you have done some dishes or even if you just compliment us we often wanna hear compliments we need to know that we are useful we need to know that we are important to you.
We love deep and unconditional we have a lot of passion we may not always show our emotions but they run very deep break our walls and you will see what's underneath the surface a warm and passionate person with lots of strength.
We will walk through fire for you but only if you're as dedicated as we are, otherwise we will become aloof and start to live our separate life without you noticing it and slowly disappear (don't say we didn't warn you)
Do not take our love for granted because once we let you go you won't get a chance anymore (specially if you really screwed up) If we do give you a chance it takes a hell lot of work before things will ever be the same again or in the worst case it won't ever be the same.
What does it take for a Virgo guy to walk away from a relationship? I want to understand where I stand. Is there anything I can/ should do?
I have known my Virgo guy for 24yrs as friends but there has always been an attraction/ chemistry between us. His wife/ my girlfriend passed away Aug. 2016 after fighting a battle with cancer for 2 yrs. He then in late Oct. met me for dinner and made it clear he was interested in me. He pursued me for 3 months. I was very hesitant as I wasnāt sure if he was ready but he thought and kept insisting that he was. We both were hit hard and fast and fell in love. After 1 week he was telling me he loved me and was so smitten. Then 1 month later he was talking about buying a house together and helping me raise my boys. We both felt guilty and talked about it. Then 5 months he started saying he felt angry. I know and told him this was his grief. The 2 months later, 7 months of dating and so much love, he realized that he isnāt ready for a relationship that he needs to take time to find himself of which I agree, understand and am supportive of all I ask is that we keep the lines of communication open. Talking in October he said āI have a huge home in my heart! You have no idea girl...I love you so so so much!ā Then a couple days later he told me he was never coming back to me. We didnāt talk fir a few weeks and then he was back to me calling me his girlfriend again fir 3 months.
Come Feb. heās pulled away again. He feels like butter cause he said he wants this but is torn because he still is dealing with grief, anger and now heās admitted depression. The only thing I can do is give him space and time and be patient and understanding in an attempt to move forward myself letting him know that I am still standing here and try to keep him talking to me. I am scared that I will loose him to another. I love him so much and I am thankful that he is at least still talking to me. click to expand
I think he felt guilty for moving on and not being able to grief it could be that you helped him to forget it temporarily but not to actually grief. If he says he needs time for himself i think he means that he needs to find himself back i think he lost himself when he lost her and fooling himself into being with someone else would help him. I don't wanna say his feelings were not real but i do think he wanted to let go of the pain in some way what is your sign ? click to expandclick to expand
I am a Gemini
Posted by greengemini_Oh man, fucking hell...I remember this story.
Posted by NancymWell i personally never dated a gemini so i don't know how your approach is but virgo and gemini can work really good since their both a mutable sign how are you when it comes to communicationPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by NancymPosted by dewiklaessen26
I am very patient tolerant and always have a solution for everything, i'm the ultimate optimist but once pushed too far i can become ruthless, careless i always try to avoid this side of me to come out because i do not want to be selfish or ignorant.
The thing is as a Virgo we do not let people in our life very fast and when we do it's a very vulnerable place for us which we do not want to be used against us.
All we want is harmony, happiness we do not like partners who are inconsistent who judge or compare us only talk about problems but never find a solution. A partner that robs you from your freedom and wants to control you in every way. We Virgo's can control ourselves and our thoughts we do not need anybody to tell us how to think ,how to dress,how to act,how we feel. We have a knack for reading body language and sense of reading bs from a mile away, we may complain and warn you up front (warning signs) we will repeat many things out of frustration that's our way of showing we want you to care for us that we still care about you.
We tend to get into toxic relationships where we give more then we receive we're honest at fault we tend to be perfectionists.
If we love a partner we do not want them to change we do not want to fix them as people would say we simply want our partner to learn responsibility and not to give up right away or simply ignore our needs.
We do not have high standards we just want a relationship where both partners have freedom equal rights , freedom of self expression.
As a Virgo when unhappy and depressed you can isolate yourself from the outside world this is not our nature in fact we love to be out and do things rather then talk about it '' less talking more action" is my motto even though i like a good argument i rather get to the point and move on from it.
We tend to explain ourselves more then we should we have a hard time saying no (at least when being younger) we give without expecting anything back except appreciation and love in return.
Gestures make us happy like if you cook for us if you have done some dishes or even if you just compliment us we often wanna hear compliments we need to know that we are useful we need to know that we are important to you.
We love deep and unconditional we have a lot of passion we may not always show our emotions but they run very deep break our walls and you will see what's underneath the surface a warm and passionate person with lots of strength.
We will walk through fire for you but only if you're as dedicated as we are, otherwise we will become aloof and start to live our separate life without you noticing it and slowly disappear (don't say we didn't warn you)
Do not take our love for granted because once we let you go you won't get a chance anymore (specially if you really screwed up) If we do give you a chance it takes a hell lot of work before things will ever be the same again or in the worst case it won't ever be the same.
What does it take for a Virgo guy to walk away from a relationship? I want to understand where I stand. Is there anything I can/ should do?
I have known my Virgo guy for 24yrs as friends but there has always been an attraction/ chemistry between us. His wife/ my girlfriend passed away Aug. 2016 after fighting a battle with cancer for 2 yrs. He then in late Oct. met me for dinner and made it clear he was interested in me. He pursued me for 3 months. I was very hesitant as I wasnāt sure if he was ready but he thought and kept insisting that he was. We both were hit hard and fast and fell in love. After 1 week he was telling me he loved me and was so smitten. Then 1 month later he was talking about buying a house together and helping me raise my boys. We both felt guilty and talked about it. Then 5 months he started saying he felt angry. I know and told him this was his grief. The 2 months later, 7 months of dating and so much love, he realized that he isnāt ready for a relationship that he needs to take time to find himself of which I agree, understand and am supportive of all I ask is that we keep the lines of communication open. Talking in October he said āI have a huge home in my heart! You have no idea girl...I love you so so so much!ā Then a couple days later he told me he was never coming back to me. We didnāt talk fir a few weeks and then he was back to me calling me his girlfriend again fir 3 months.
Come Feb. heās pulled away again. He feels like butter cause he said he wants this but is torn because he still is dealing with grief, anger and now heās admitted depression. The only thing I can do is give him space and time and be patient and understanding in an attempt to move forward myself letting him know that I am still standing here and try to keep him talking to me. I am scared that I will loose him to another. I love him so much and I am thankful that he is at least still talking to me. click to expand
I think he felt guilty for moving on and not being able to grief it could be that you helped him to forget it temporarily but not to actually grief. If he says he needs time for himself i think he means that he needs to find himself back i think he lost himself when he lost her and fooling himself into being with someone else would help him. I don't wanna say his feelings were not real but i do think he wanted to let go of the pain in some way what is your sign ? click to expand
I am a Gemini click to expandclick to expand
Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by NancymPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by NancymPosted by dewiklaessen26
I am very patient tolerant and always have a solution for everything, i'm the ultimate optimist but once pushed too far i can become ruthless, careless i always try to avoid this side of me to come out because i do not want to be selfish or ignorant.
The thing is as a Virgo we do not let people in our life very fast and when we do it's a very vulnerable place for us which we do not want to be used against us.
All we want is harmony, happiness we do not like partners who are inconsistent who judge or compare us only talk about problems but never find a solution. A partner that robs you from your freedom and wants to control you in every way. We Virgo's can control ourselves and our thoughts we do not need anybody to tell us how to think ,how to dress,how to act,how we feel. We have a knack for reading body language and sense of reading bs from a mile away, we may complain and warn you up front (warning signs) we will repeat many things out of frustration that's our way of showing we want you to care for us that we still care about you.
We tend to get into toxic relationships where we give more then we receive we're honest at fault we tend to be perfectionists.
If we love a partner we do not want them to change we do not want to fix them as people would say we simply want our partner to learn responsibility and not to give up right away or simply ignore our needs.
We do not have high standards we just want a relationship where both partners have freedom equal rights , freedom of self expression.
As a Virgo when unhappy and depressed you can isolate yourself from the outside world this is not our nature in fact we love to be out and do things rather then talk about it '' less talking more action" is my motto even though i like a good argument i rather get to the point and move on from it.
We tend to explain ourselves more then we should we have a hard time saying no (at least when being younger) we give without expecting anything back except appreciation and love in return.
Gestures make us happy like if you cook for us if you have done some dishes or even if you just compliment us we often wanna hear compliments we need to know that we are useful we need to know that we are important to you.
We love deep and unconditional we have a lot of passion we may not always show our emotions but they run very deep break our walls and you will see what's underneath the surface a warm and passionate person with lots of strength.
We will walk through fire for you but only if you're as dedicated as we are, otherwise we will become aloof and start to live our separate life without you noticing it and slowly disappear (don't say we didn't warn you)
Do not take our love for granted because once we let you go you won't get a chance anymore (specially if you really screwed up) If we do give you a chance it takes a hell lot of work before things will ever be the same again or in the worst case it won't ever be the same.
What does it take for a Virgo guy to walk away from a relationship? I want to understand where I stand. Is there anything I can/ should do?
I have known my Virgo guy for 24yrs as friends but there has always been an attraction/ chemistry between us. His wife/ my girlfriend passed away Aug. 2016 after fighting a battle with cancer for 2 yrs. He then in late Oct. met me for dinner and made it clear he was interested in me. He pursued me for 3 months. I was very hesitant as I wasnāt sure if he was ready but he thought and kept insisting that he was. We both were hit hard and fast and fell in love. After 1 week he was telling me he loved me and was so smitten. Then 1 month later he was talking about buying a house together and helping me raise my boys. We both felt guilty and talked about it. Then 5 months he started saying he felt angry. I know and told him this was his grief. The 2 months later, 7 months of dating and so much love, he realized that he isnāt ready for a relationship that he needs to take time to find himself of which I agree, understand and am supportive of all I ask is that we keep the lines of communication open. Talking in October he said āI have a huge home in my heart! You have no idea girl...I love you so so so much!ā Then a couple days later he told me he was never coming back to me. We didnāt talk fir a few weeks and then he was back to me calling me his girlfriend again fir 3 months.
Come Feb. heās pulled away again. He feels like butter cause he said he wants this but is torn because he still is dealing with grief, anger and now heās admitted depression. The only thing I can do is give him space and time and be patient and understanding in an attempt to move forward myself letting him know that I am still standing here and try to keep him talking to me. I am scared that I will loose him to another. I love him so much and I am thankful that he is at least still talking to me. click to expand
I think he felt guilty for moving on and not being able to grief it could be that you helped him to forget it temporarily but not to actually grief. If he says he needs time for himself i think he means that he needs to find himself back i think he lost himself when he lost her and fooling himself into being with someone else would help him. I don't wanna say his feelings were not real but i do think he wanted to let go of the pain in some way what is your sign ? click to expand
I am a Gemini click to expand
Well i personally never dated a gemini so i don't know how your approach is but virgo and gemini can work really good since their both a mutable sign how are you when it comes to communication click to expandclick to expand
I find I sometimes need to talk especially if something is bothering/ upsetting me. I am and have always been open and honest with my Virgo guy about my feelings. It is something he once told me he liked about me but right now I am feeling like he isnāt able to talk about his feelings cause he is struggling. Although in Jan. he said we need to talk about our situation we still havenāt and I am trying to let him take the lead and I donāt want to push things letting him take time to come to me but my feelings have been bubbling up inside me and 2 weeks ago I tried to talk to him about how I was feeling but ended up doing a verbal diarrhoea via text as I was so upset but apologized as it wasnāt fair how I handled it
Posted by _sierra_
So it's the opposite in your case? I don't know but i've had moments when i didn't wanna discuss things too and avoid them.. but not in that relationship.. click to expand
I think as a Libra, we have a tendency to put on a smile even when we're not doing great, and fake it til we make it (in terms of happiness) sometimes. That's the biggest issue with Libras in communication in relationships, I think.
With Virgos, I feel like sometimes they just don't want to express their vulnerabilities, or deeper emotions. So while Virgos are able to pinpoint/identify problems as well as anyone, the only time my Virgo ex would talk about problems in the relationship is if she was certain she was not at fault.
Posted by libraman20Posted by _sierra_I think as a Libra, we have a tendency to put on a smile even when we're not doing great, and fake it til we make it (in terms of happiness) sometimes. That's the biggest issue with Libras in communication in relationships, I think.
So it's the opposite in your case? I don't know but i've had moments when i didn't wanna discuss things too and avoid them.. but not in that relationship.. click to expand
With Virgos, I feel like sometimes they just don't want to express their vulnerabilities, or deeper emotions. So while Virgos are able to pinpoint/identify problems as well as anyone, the only time my Virgo ex would talk about problems in the relationship is if she was certain she was not at fault.
click to expandclick to expand
Sorry I am trying to understand why my virgo guy would say we need to talk about our situation and at any given opportunity not bring it up. Interesting what you said here...āthe only time my Virgo ex would talk about problems in the relationship is if she was certain she was not at faultā so in other words a Virgo may not want to talk about feelings/ situation because he was the one who is/ has caused this pain in himself and me? If itās talked about feelings are brought back to the surface this way If itās not talked about he can just push down his feelings?
Posted by NancymNot pushing them down. He's probably working on himself, bettering his mindset. A person can't do that when they have a love interest on their mind. I've tried, but it just doesn't happen well. We virgos have lots of problems just like all the other signs and just people in general, but we strive, to some extent, to try and improve on these "problems" we come across in life, especially in relationships. If something comes up in a relationship that you see as a problem and express it to your virgo, they may seem like they disregard it, but that butter will nag at them. They'll be up at night evaluating themself and deciding on whether or not they need to work on themself for the relationship's sake, or if they should just give up on it. Overthinking will most likely take it's toll over the situatio.Posted by libraman20Posted by _sierra_
So it's the opposite in your case? I don't know but i've had moments when i didn't wanna discuss things too and avoid them.. but not in that relationship.. click to expand
I think as a Libra, we have a tendency to put on a smile even when we're not doing great, and fake it til we make it (in terms of happiness) sometimes. That's the biggest issue with Libras in communication in relationships, I think.
With Virgos, I feel like sometimes they just don't want to express their vulnerabilities, or deeper emotions. So while Virgos are able to pinpoint/identify problems as well as anyone, the only time my Virgo ex would talk about problems in the relationship is if she was certain she was not at fault.
click to expand
Sorry I am trying to understand why my virgo guy would say we need to talk about our situation and at any given opportunity not bring it up. Interesting what you said here...āthe only time my Virgo ex would talk about problems in the relationship is if she was certain she was not at faultā so in other words a Virgo may not want to talk about feelings/ situation because he was the one who is/ has caused this pain in himself and me? If itās talked about feelings are brought back to the surface this way If itās not talked about he can just push down his feelings? click to expandclick to expandclick to expand
I see it as one of those critical "things" a virgo has to understand and overcome in life. Otherwise they could just vanish one day leaving the other person wondering why. You may have said something you thought was low grade conflict fuel, but to them that butter was jet fuel, and it ate at him until he decided that leaving the relationship was best for both people. We virgos don't want to waste your time, money, or feelings if we aren't meant to be, so we end butter without a second thought. We could give you the treetrunking moon wrapped in a bow, and all we'd silently want in return is some appreciation like a thanks, I love you, a hug, or a cuddle date.
Posted by StrudeliciousPosted by NancymPosted by libraman20Posted by _sierra_
So it's the opposite in your case? I don't know but i've had moments when i didn't wanna discuss things too and avoid them.. but not in that relationship.. click to expand
I think as a Libra, we have a tendency to put on a smile even when we're not doing great, and fake it til we make it (in terms of happiness) sometimes. That's the biggest issue with Libras in communication in relationships, I think.
With Virgos, I feel like sometimes they just don't want to express their vulnerabilities, or deeper emotions. So while Virgos are able to pinpoint/identify problems as well as anyone, the only time my Virgo ex would talk about problems in the relationship is if she was certain she was not at fault.
click to expand
Sorry I am trying to understand why my virgo guy would say we need to talk about our situation and at any given opportunity not bring it up. Interesting what you said here...āthe only time my Virgo ex would talk about problems in the relationship is if she was certain she was not at faultā so in other words a Virgo may not want to talk about feelings/ situation because he was the one who is/ has caused this pain in himself and me? If itās talked about feelings are brought back to the surface this way If itās not talked about he can just push down his feelings? click to expandclick to expand
Not pushing them down. He's probably working on himself, bettering his mindset. A person can't do that when they have a love interest on their mind. I've tried, but it just doesn't happen well. We virgos have lots of problems just like all the other signs and just people in general, but we strive, to some extent, to try and improve on these "problems" we come across in life, especially in relationships. If something comes up in a relationship that you see as a problem and express it to your virgo, they may seem like they disregard it, but that butter will nag at them. They'll be up at night evaluating themself and deciding on whether or not they need to work on themself for the relationship's sake, or if they should just give up on it. Overthinking will most likely take it's toll over the situatio.
I see it as one of those critical "things" a virgo has to understand and overcome in life. Otherwise they could just vanish one day leaving the other person wondering why. You may have said something you thought was low grade conflict fuel, but to them that butter was jet fuel, and it ate at him until he decided that leaving the relationship was best for both people. We virgos don't want to waste your time, money, or feelings if we aren't meant to be, so we end butter without a second thought. We could give you the treetrunking moon wrapped in a bow, and all we'd silently want in return is some appreciation like a thanks, I love you, a hug, or a cuddle date. click to expandclick to expand
He pursued me for 3 months after his wife of 25yrs lost her 2 yr battle with cancer. I have know them for 24yrs and there had always been a connection/ chemistry between us. I pushed him away and was hesitant to start anything with him as I thought it was too soon and he wasnāt ready but he kept insisting he was. We dated and fell so fast and hard into love, he told me after 1 week that he loved me, but after 7 months he realized I was right and he wasnāt ready for a relationship and that he needed time to find himself. I only asked him to keep the lines of communication open. Is/ was that wrong of me?
Posted by NancymYea, you don't have to regurgitate all that over and over. I got it. Sounds like you did what you thought right... And now you're expecting him to still love you for how you handled it. You're wondering if you treetrunked up... Well, you probably won't listen, but for real!!! Just stop giving a chocolate chip filled fudge about the situation and go on with life!! Feel your pain, adapt, and move on with life, positively. Don't get hung up on this guy because ge has issues to sort out. I get it... You care for him, you want to know if he's doing all right, but at the end of it all, he is ghosting you, not validating you, so just step back a bit from it and chill out. Go destress, treat, yourself, and move on... Just get off the idea of you and this guy. If he comes back, he comes back, and hopefully he doesn't pull that crap on you again. If he doesn't come back, and blames it on you not maintaining contact with him while he ghosts you... treetrunk him anywayPosted by StrudeliciousPosted by NancymPosted by libraman20Posted by _sierra_
So it's the opposite in your case? I don't know but i've had moments when i didn't wanna discuss things too and avoid them.. but not in that relationship.. click to expand
I think as a Libra, we have a tendency to put on a smile even when we're not doing great, and fake it til we make it (in terms of happiness) sometimes. That's the biggest issue with Libras in communication in relationships, I think.
With Virgos, I feel like sometimes they just don't want to express their vulnerabilities, or deeper emotions. So while Virgos are able to pinpoint/identify problems as well as anyone, the only time my Virgo ex would talk about problems in the relationship is if she was certain she was not at fault.
click to expand
Sorry I am trying to understand why my virgo guy would say we need to talk about our situation and at any given opportunity not bring it up. Interesting what you said here...āthe only time my Virgo ex would talk about problems in the relationship is if she was certain she was not at faultā so in other words a Virgo may not want to talk about feelings/ situation because he was the one who is/ has caused this pain in himself and me? If itās talked about feelings are brought back to the surface this way If itās not talked about he can just push down his feelings? click to expandclick to expand
Not pushing them down. He's probably working on himself, bettering his mindset. A person can't do that when they have a love interest on their mind. I've tried, but it just doesn't happen well. We virgos have lots of problems just like all the other signs and just people in general, but we strive, to some extent, to try and improve on these "problems" we come across in life, especially in relationships. If something comes up in a relationship that you see as a problem and express it to your virgo, they may seem like they disregard it, but that butter will nag at them. They'll be up at night evaluating themself and deciding on whether or not they need to work on themself for the relationship's sake, or if they should just give up on it. Overthinking will most likely take it's toll over the situatio.
I see it as one of those critical "things" a virgo has to understand and overcome in life. Otherwise they could just vanish one day leaving the other person wondering why. You may have said something you thought was low grade conflict fuel, but to them that butter was jet fuel, and it ate at him until he decided that leaving the relationship was best for both people. We virgos don't want to waste your time, money, or feelings if we aren't meant to be, so we end butter without a second thought. We could give you the treetrunking moon wrapped in a bow, and all we'd silently want in return is some appreciation like a thanks, I love you, a hug, or a cuddle date. click to expand
He pursued me for 3 months after his wife of 25yrs lost her 2 yr battle with cancer. I have know them for 24yrs and there had always been a connection/ chemistry between us. I pushed him away and was hesitant to start anything with him as I thought it was too soon and he wasnāt ready but he kept insisting he was. We dated and fell so fast and hard into love, he told me after 1 week that he loved me, but after 7 months he realized I was right and he wasnāt ready for a relationship and that he needed time to find himself. I only asked him to keep the lines of communication open. Is/ was that wrong of me? click to expandclick to expandclick to expand
Posted by StrudeliciousPosted by NancymPosted by StrudeliciousPosted by NancymPosted by libraman20Posted by _sierra_
So it's the opposite in your case? I don't know but i've had moments when i didn't wanna discuss things too and avoid them.. but not in that relationship.. click to expand
I think as a Libra, we have a tendency to put on a smile even when we're not doing great, and fake it til we make it (in terms of happiness) sometimes. That's the biggest issue with Libras in communication in relationships, I think.
With Virgos, I feel like sometimes they just don't want to express their vulnerabilities, or deeper emotions. So while Virgos are able to pinpoint/identify problems as well as anyone, the only time my Virgo ex would talk about problems in the relationship is if she was certain she was not at fault.
click to expand
Sorry I am trying to understand why my virgo guy would say we need to talk about our situation and at any given opportunity not bring it up. Interesting what you said here...āthe only time my Virgo ex would talk about problems in the relationship is if she was certain she was not at faultā so in other words a Virgo may not want to talk about feelings/ situation because he was the one who is/ has caused this pain in himself and me? If itās talked about feelings are brought back to the surface this way If itās not talked about he can just push down his feelings? click to expandclick to expand
Not pushing them down. He's probably working on himself, bettering his mindset. A person can't do that when they have a love interest on their mind. I've tried, but it just doesn't happen well. We virgos have lots of problems just like all the other signs and just people in general, but we strive, to some extent, to try and improve on these "problems" we come across in life, especially in relationships. If something comes up in a relationship that you see as a problem and express it to your virgo, they may seem like they disregard it, but that butter will nag at them. They'll be up at night evaluating themself and deciding on whether or not they need to work on themself for the relationship's sake, or if they should just give up on it. Overthinking will most likely take it's toll over the situatio.
I see it as one of those critical "things" a virgo has to understand and overcome in life. Otherwise they could just vanish one day leaving the other person wondering why. You may have said something you thought was low grade conflict fuel, but to them that butter was jet fuel, and it ate at him until he decided that leaving the relationship was best for both people. We virgos don't want to waste your time, money, or feelings if we aren't meant to be, so we end butter without a second thought. We could give you the treetrunking moon wrapped in a bow, and all we'd silently want in return is some appreciation like a thanks, I love you, a hug, or a cuddle date. click to expand
He pursued me for 3 months after his wife of 25yrs lost her 2 yr battle with cancer. I have know them for 24yrs and there had always been a connection/ chemistry between us. I pushed him away and was hesitant to start anything with him as I thought it was too soon and he wasnāt ready but he kept insisting he was. We dated and fell so fast and hard into love, he told me after 1 week that he loved me, but after 7 months he realized I was right and he wasnāt ready for a relationship and that he needed time to find himself. I only asked him to keep the lines of communication open. Is/ was that wrong of me? click to expandclick to expand
Yea, you don't have to regurgitate all that over and over. I got it. Sounds like you did what you thought right... And now you're expecting him to still love you for how you handled it. You're wondering if you treetrunked up... Well, you probably won't listen, but for real!!! Just stop giving a chocolate chip filled fudge about the situation and go on with life!! Feel your pain, adapt, and move on with life, positively. Don't get hung up on this guy because ge has issues to sort out. I get it... You care for him, you want to know if he's doing all right, but at the end of it all, he is ghosting you, not validating you, so just step back a bit from it and chill out. Go destress, treat, yourself, and move on... Just get off the idea of you and this guy. If he comes back, he comes back, and hopefully he doesn't pull that crap on you again. If he doesn't come back, and blames it on you not maintaining contact with him while he ghosts you... treetrunk him anyway click to expandclick to expand
Wow...ouch!! Yes, I did/ am doing what I think is right! No he wonāt love me because of how I handled it, heāll love me because he loves me. And I know he loves me but is torn and struggling with grief, guilt, pain and depression. How is he ghosting me if he messages me and replies to my messages. He isnāt able to validate me cause heās trying to figure himself out but he still tells me he loves me. So my regurgitating it over and over no you didnāt get it. But thank you! You are right I am and need to continue to do for myself and live my life even if in the end that means with him as only my friend. I will not have him come back as anything more till he is 100% sure he is ready!
Posted by Chesh
Letting go is hard, but I've been distancing myself from certain things that no longer allow me to grow in life.
Yes, letting go is hard when you wake up thinking of him, thinking of him all day till the minute your head hits the pillow. When you feel a piece of your heart missing and life just isnāt as happy as it was with him but someway you put that smile on your face everyday and find a way to find your own happiness.
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Im a Capricorn girl So, to make this as short as can be we dated for 4 years but I did something to break his trust by lying so we broke up but when he found out I was lying to protect him he eased up but still didnāt trust me as much and by then had star
I knew her since we were 13 she was my bestie at age 17 we both went seperate ways and later on we found each other back last time i have seen her was last year and haven't spoken to her in 2 months or so.
I knew she was struggling and she was always a b
How do I know if a Virgo is loyal and do they flirt with others if their in a relationship or cheat.
My Virgo is 21st September 1993
Are they known for it? I sometimes begin to believe that they are and no one mentions it at all. Like we gotta talk about this. I don't think y'all let go easily
I know they can be awkward, but today my experience was super awkward that I felt uncomfortable.
I had a client who I was speaking to this evening. He told me how was going to have pizza for dinner.
Then he said how he hoped I didnāt have to work
or just upbringing trait.
if you think you might self sabotage , why do you think you do that
I know this has been talked about a lot on here - but still.....
So this Virgo and I were together, we had even talked about getting engaged - two days later, he wanted it to be done. First was a list of all the things about me he did not like - then i
My messages keep disappearing so apologise if this keeps popping up
Found out my ex was cheating during pregnancy and a miscarriage
He said the past 2 years were "something that wasnt there"
He seemed really shocked when I found out, like he wasnt ex
So i know many virgo's including myself mainly male virgo's who do fraud and they always want to include me into things like they find me suitable for the job
How would you describe the Virgo moon?
Does anyone have these placements, or know someone whom has?
I'm especially interested in how it influences temper, and how you/ they express emotions, be it love or anger.
Thank you :)
Hello,
i just wanted to ask why all of the Virgos i have met in my life have been prone to popularity?
Is it a Virgo trait?
My Virgo ex dumped me because i was not popular - i was an ordinary woman- but in some months he became interested again beca
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Itās about my daughters 36 y old single Virgo again.
So he is ending his work early but spending time with her at her office talking.
Drove her home.
Today went home and came back to drive her to train station.
Invited her to a friends band concert.
I had a very short relationship with Virgo. it's about 6 months and he didn't want to continue the relationship as he was not ready. since that we didn't have contact for a year. I had a relationship with another man and we are planning for getting engage
The thing is as a Virgo we do not let people in our life very fast and when we do it's a very vulnerable place for us which we do not want to be used against us.
All we want is harmony, happiness we do not like partners who are inconsistent who judge or compare us only talk about problems but never find a solution. A partner that robs you from your freedom and wants to control you in every way. We Virgo's can control ourselves and our thoughts we do not need anybody to tell us how to think ,how to dress,how to act,how we feel. We have a knack for reading body language and sense of reading bs from a mile away, we may complain and warn you up front (warning signs) we will repeat many things out of frustration that's our way of showing we want you to care for us that we still care about you.
We tend to get into toxic relationships where we give more then we receive we're honest at fault we tend to be perfectionists.
If we love a partner we do not want them to change we do not want to fix them as people would say we simply want our partner to learn responsibility and not to give up right away or simply ignore our needs.
We do not have high standards we just want a relationship where both partners have freedom equal rights , freedom of self expression.
As a Virgo when unhappy and depressed you can isolate yourself from the outside world this is not our nature in fact we love to be out and do things rather then talk about it '' less talking more action" is my motto even though i like a good argument i rather get to the point and move on from it.
We tend to explain ourselves more then we should we have a hard time saying no (at least when being younger) we give without expecting anything back except appreciation and love in return.
Gestures make us happy like if you cook for us if you have done some dishes or even if you just compliment us we often wanna hear compliments we need to know that we are useful we need to know that we are important to you.
We love deep and unconditional we have a lot of passion we may not always show our emotions but they run very deep break our walls and you will see what's underneath the surface a warm and passionate person with lots of strength.
We will walk through fire for you but only if you're as dedicated as we are, otherwise we will become aloof and start to live our separate life without you noticing it and slowly disappear (don't say we didn't warn you)
Do not take our love for granted because once we let you go you won't get a chance anymore (specially if you really screwed up) If we do give you a chance it takes a hell lot of work before things will ever be the same again or in the worst case it won't ever be the same.