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What is it wirh Capricorn men
Posted by Mesquite
Have you considered that maybe he moves ultra slow? What if he's entertaining other ladies?
Those are things you should consider.
If he's entertaining other ladies, then he's not interested in me right? So i should move on?
Coz to make an impression on somebody, you have to meet and talk face to face. Even calls can work but texting - Nah!
Posted by GODZPosted by Arielle83
Ya forget him.
Youāre impatient and think heās got issues, because he isnāt getting your mental transference messages.
Asking about music and work is basic chit chat.
You canāt up the anty of his interest.
Or youāre lazy and canāt communicate asking him out yourself.
Does asking a Capricorn male out work?click to expand
Yes, it does! They are too polite to decline an invitation...
Get an Aries lol ... he will come and get you at 200 miles per hour
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Posted by GODZPosted by UndinePosted by GODZPosted by Arielle83
Ya forget him.
Youāre impatient and think heās got issues, because he isnāt getting your mental transference messages.
Asking about music and work is basic chit chat.
You canāt up the anty of his interest.
Or youāre lazy and canāt communicate asking him out yourself.
Does asking a Capricorn male out work?
Yes, it does! They are too polite to decline an invitation...
Yeah I know I won't decline but at the end do you will have what you came for ?click to expand
Absolutely! And so much more š
Lol why you complainin?
What do you expect him to do?
Just ask the guy out.
What do you expect him to do?
Just ask the guy out.
How long have you been texting one another?
Posted by Arielle83Posted by GODZPosted by Arielle83
Ya forget him.
Youāre impatient and think heās got issues, because he isnāt getting your mental transference messages.
Asking about music and work is basic chit chat.
You canāt up the anty of his interest.
Or youāre lazy and canāt communicate asking him out yourself.
Does asking a Capricorn male out work?
Yep if heās interestedclick to expand
And if he's not, embarassment will follow!
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
How long have you been texting one another?
A month maybe
Posted by Subliminals
Lol why you complainin?
What do you expect him to do?
Just ask the guy out.
I am not complaining, i am just scared of rejections
Posted by PoloChatPosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
How long have you been texting one another?
A month maybeclick to expand
Lol. Ok well Caps are slow, if you like him dont rush. If you impatient move on.
Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by PoloChatPosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
How long have you been texting one another?
A month maybe
Lol. Ok well Caps are slow, if you like him dont rush. If you impatient move on.click to expand
No i can wait. For him. I just don't want to be disappointed in the end! š¢
If a Cap is interested, he will ask you out.
Talking about music and work doesnāt sound like heās too interested to me.
Talking about music and work doesnāt sound like heās too interested to me.
Posted by PoloChatPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by PoloChatPosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
How long have you been texting one another?
A month maybe
Lol. Ok well Caps are slow, if you like him dont rush. If you impatient move on.
No i can wait. For him. I just don't want to be disappointed in the end! š¢click to expand
Tell him you interested then and ask how he feels. You will soon have a clearer answer
Posted by PuzzlePieces
If a Cap is interested, he will ask you out.
Talking about music and work doesnāt sound like heās too interested to me.
So you are saying i should let him be?
Posted by PoloChatPosted by PuzzlePieces
If a Cap is interested, he will ask you out.
Talking about music and work doesnāt sound like heās too interested to me.
So you are saying i should let him be?click to expand
Ya. Let him see if he wants to talk to you. I have a lot of experience with one Cap, and honestly it takes awhile but the worst thing is to just wait for him. More like take care of you, and if he has interest he will show you. If they are interested, they will come find you even if you arenāt giving them attention. Itās all about what their interest is. You canāt force it. It might not even have anything to do with you, it might just be where heās at in life.
I just started dating a new Cap and I tell you what heās been motivated from the start. I was the things he was looking for, and absolutely no hesitation at all. Perhaps itās just like that. You just have to sit back and let them show you what they want.
Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by PoloChatPosted by PuzzlePieces
If a Cap is interested, he will ask you out.
Talking about music and work doesnāt sound like heās too interested to me.
So you are saying i should let him be?
Ya. Let him see if he wants to talk to you. I have a lot of experience with one Cap, and honestly it takes awhile but the worst thing is to just wait for him. More like take care of you, and if he has interest he will show you. If they are interested, they will come find you even if you arenāt giving them attention. Itās all about what their interest is. You canāt force it. It might not even have anything to do with you, it might just be where heās at in life.
I just started dating a new Cap and I tell you what heās been motivated from the start. I was the things he was looking for, and absolutely no hesitation at all. Perhaps itās just like that. You just have to sit back and let them show you what they want.click to expand
Yes i can relate with what you said.
I am gonna poke you for tips in case anything goes ahead with us two
Posted by the_verdictofkiki
who wants to go after a cap anyway? whats your sign? caps take themselves too seriously... what something solid since day 1.. and if they cannot have that they will still f on the first day and forget about you... their motto is "i use"... but i guess his other placements matter too... but if he's a dominant cap this would apply
I am cancerian with pisces moon
Posted by dilettantePosted by PuzzlePieces
If a Cap is interested, he will ask you out.
Talking about music and work doesnāt sound like heās too interested to me.
i dunno, if he has an aqua venus, talking about common interests (like music) will be a huge plus.
OP what is the rest of his chart?click to expand
My current has aqua Venus. We talked about way more than music and work. First phone call was 3 hours. He thinks of that as our first date. š If they are interested, than they will share more of themselves. Want to know more about you. Even the non-communicative excap did that.
Posted by PoloChatPosted by Subliminals
Lol why you complainin?
What do you expect him to do?
Just ask the guy out.
I am not complaining, i am just scared of rejectionsclick to expand
Then you should start it, once you can take rejections, you'll be more apt at navigating through things.
Rejections are hard to take. If you are fine with it, then you have achieved one step closer to building your own strength.
I got rejected 3 times from my hard-core crush with the length of 3 years pursuit and always finding time to stay around him and got closer. Fuckin dude is a sag and he's like close to 40 now, have never been married. Lol guess its just him loving too much of freedom, i aimed to get the wrong horse. But hey im a sag rising so I can understand a bit.
Am frikkin married rn and still want huge amount of freedom. Husband is a cap, so you cant get around him to suspend having babies lmao! "You owe me a baby" shit pressure is hard.
So with this cap crush of yours, looking at how caps like to FRIKKIN BUILD SOMETHING, you may get the chance. But case per case though.
I'm curious to know how did you two meet? What was he like then?
Posted by dilettantePosted by PuzzlePieces
If a Cap is interested, he will ask you out.
Talking about music and work doesnāt sound like heās too interested to me.
i dunno, if he has an aqua venus, talking about common interests (like music) will be a huge plus.
OP what is the rest of his chart?click to expand
I have no idea about the rest
Posted by the_verdictofkikiPosted by PoloChatPosted by the_verdictofkiki
who wants to go after a cap anyway? whats your sign? caps take themselves too seriously... what something solid since day 1.. and if they cannot have that they will still f on the first day and forget about you... their motto is "i use"... but i guess his other placements matter too... but if he's a dominant cap this would apply
I am cancerian with pisces moon
thats why you like himclick to expand
What is it with Cap & cancerians!
Posted by virgal_perfectionist
I'm curious to know how did you two meet? What was he like then?
We met at our workplace. Before he switched jobs, i contacted him on social media. The first time i texted him he was kind of aloof and didn't bother replying me properly. So i let him be. After 2 months, he contacted me and since then we have been talking daily.
Funny thing is 2 days ago we talked for 4 hours straight and from next day onwards he is gone and i have left him alone too.
I am getting the feeling that maybe he felt overwhelmed or something like that you know!
Posted by Black-Mamba
Anyways just go out for drinks and get him drunk and take advantage.
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Posted by dilettantePosted by PoloChatPosted by dilettantePosted by PuzzlePieces
If a Cap is interested, he will ask you out.
Talking about music and work doesnāt sound like heās too interested to me.
i dunno, if he has an aqua venus, talking about common interests (like music) will be a huge plus.
OP what is the rest of his chart?
I have no idea about the rest
whats his bday?click to expand
31st december
Posted by PoloChatPosted by dilettantePosted by PoloChatPosted by dilettantePosted by PuzzlePieces
If a Cap is interested, he will ask you out.
Talking about music and work doesnāt sound like heās too interested to me.
i dunno, if he has an aqua venus, talking about common interests (like music) will be a huge plus.
OP what is the rest of his chart?
I have no idea about the rest
whats his bday?
31st decemberclick to expand
Glad to know there are others born on this "special" day. It kinda sucks to be born on new year's eve š
How old he is?
Posted by PoloChat
I am talking with this guy, like on a regular basis. We have never gone out together anywhere( i want to though!)
We have talked about work, what music he likes/dislikes.
He knows somehow that i am interested in him. But deep down i feel we don't have anything special coz he is not even asking me out.
To top it off, i didn't text him since two days, so we have not talked at all.
Should i just forget him?
I am gonna stay single this Valentine's day too š
My attention span ain't long enough to get caught up. I wound up with men who held me down down.
I briefly dated a younger Cap. He was so slow and faded to the back, I barely noticed we were dating. He was really cute and acted like a gray boy (into black culture). It started out like him texting me alot. I didn't realize it was alot but for blogging about him something told me to count the texts and it was alot.
Like one time he was texting me while I was out running errands. When I got home, I hung up my coat with my cell still in the pocket. He had continued to text
And worst of all, one time we went out together and I lost him in the crowd. The music had swept me away.
And another time, I had apparently sat at a bar and didn't notice him at the bar too.
Posted by justlikeheavenPosted by PoloChatPosted by dilettantePosted by PoloChatPosted by dilettantePosted by PuzzlePieces
If a Cap is interested, he will ask you out.
Talking about music and work doesnāt sound like heās too interested to me.
i dunno, if he has an aqua venus, talking about common interests (like music) will be a huge plus.
OP what is the rest of his chart?
I have no idea about the rest
whats his bday?
31st december
Glad to know there are others born on this "special" day. It kinda sucks to be born on new year's eve š
How old he is?click to expand
You are born on the same day?
He is 28
Posted by dilettantePosted by PoloChatPosted by dilettantePosted by PoloChatPosted by dilettantePosted by PuzzlePieces
If a Cap is interested, he will ask you out.
Talking about music and work doesnāt sound like heās too interested to me.
i dunno, if he has an aqua venus, talking about common interests (like music) will be a huge plus.
OP what is the rest of his chart?
I have no idea about the rest
whats his bday?
31st december
lol we need a birth yearclick to expand
1991
Don't you need time of birth to get chart details?
Posted by SubliminalsPosted by PoloChatPosted by Subliminals
Lol why you complainin?
What do you expect him to do?
Just ask the guy out.
I am not complaining, i am just scared of rejections
Then you should start it, once you can take rejections, you'll be more apt at navigating through things.
Rejections are hard to take. If you are fine with it, then you have achieved one step closer to building your own strength.
I got rejected 3 times from my hard-core crush with the length of 3 years pursuit and always finding time to stay around him and got closer. Fuckin dude is a sag and he's like close to 40 now, have never been married. Lol guess its just him loving too much of freedom, i aimed to get the wrong horse. But hey im a sag rising so I can understand a bit.
Am frikkin married rn and still want huge amount of freedom. Husband is a cap, so you cant get around him to suspend having babies lmao! "You owe me a baby" shit pressure is hard.
So with this cap crush of yours, looking at how caps like to FRIKKIN BUILD SOMETHING, you may get the chance. But case per case though.click to expand
I have been rejected by my ex, as in he broke up with me.
After him, i was single for a long time, and then got really close to a friend, i conveyed my feelings to him and got rejected there as well.
So i think this is my low self esteem getting scared that i might be rejected once more by this new guy.
This is me being negative but yeah i can't help it!
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