Virgodvn
@Virgodvn
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Advice on Aquarius guy
You kept saying you didn't want to rush things but then went and.. rushed things. Ez pz. Clearly you couldn't keep your word. I think any guy would go cold on you after that.
Yes i know and I regret it. I wish I could turn back time 😔
Why did you have sex with him then let him know you would be busy all week?
Who put the distance in between you? -You did.
Text him if you want to chat or see him, otherwise he's chilling cause you told him you'd be busy.
There are some guys who actually listen to what you say.
Who put the distance in between you? -You did.
Text him if you want to chat or see him, otherwise he's chilling cause you told him you'd be busy.
There are some guys who actually listen to what you say.
Posted by saggurl88
Why did you have sex with him then let him know you would be busy all week?
Who put the distance in between you? -You did.
Text him if you want to chat or see him, otherwise he's chilling cause you told him you'd be busy.
There are some guys who actually listen to what you say.
No you misunderstood, I said to him that I am free on Saturday as I'm working till 23h all week and Sunday I'm going abroad to see my family. And he said to me 'i will let you know' for Saturday.. And after that he became distant.. Maybe he thought that I was expecting more from him, because before that moment he was fine. That's why I asked if Aquas have this tendency of fleeing when they think things are going fast.
Posted by VirgodvnPosted by saggurl88
Why did you have sex with him then let him know you would be busy all week?
Who put the distance in between you? -You did.
Text him if you want to chat or see him, otherwise he's chilling cause you told him you'd be busy.
There are some guys who actually listen to what you say.
No you misunderstood, I said to him that I am free on Saturday as I'm working till 23h all week and Sunday I'm going abroad to see my family. And he said to me 'i will let you know' for Saturday.. And after that he became distant.. Maybe he thought that I was expecting more from him, because before that moment he was fine. That's why I asked if Aquas have this tendency of fleeing when they think things are going fast.click to expand
So you want to see him before you leave for vacation? I think Aquas can move fast when they like someone.
Yes that was the idea, but it seems we are not on the same page. 😔
Maybe he wasn't so keen on the sex and isn't in a hurry for a repeat. I always tell girls if you are going to have early sex with a guy make sure you give him something he won't forget anytime soon. Otherwise you may be looking at a ghost.
Posted by DonnaLibra
Maybe he wasn't so keen on the sex and isn't in a hurry for a repeat. I always tell girls if you are going to have early sex with a guy make sure you give him something he won't forget anytime soon. Otherwise you may be looking at a ghost.
These were my thoughts too
Why not reach out and see if he's free on Saturday. Can't make him do all the heavy lifting.
Posted by saggurl88
Why did you have sex with him then let him know you would be busy all week?
Who put the distance in between you? -You did.
Text him if you want to chat or see him, otherwise he's chilling cause you told him you'd be busy.
There are some guys who actually listen to what you say.
Disagree
No one is too busy for a text.
She was actually communicating her work week and also telling him how she was looking forward to the weekend.
Sadly a familiar theme. Walk away a little wiser.
Sorry OP, it sounds like the typical story that happens all the time.
Who knows why he did this or that except him.
Who knows why he did this or that except him.
It’s not a bad idea to brush up on “how to get what you want from a girl “ videos on YouTube.
The playing field has been leveled and you are privy to the games people ply these days
The playing field has been leveled and you are privy to the games people ply these days
Posted by DonnaLibra
Maybe he wasn't so keen on the sex and isn't in a hurry for a repeat. I always tell girls if you are going to have early sex with a guy make sure you give him something he won't forget anytime soon. Otherwise you may be looking at a ghost.
Excellent advice! If you going to have sex with a guy early on, make sure you bring your A game that he likes or you can forget him. Go hard or go home!
Posted by DonnaLibra
Maybe he wasn't so keen on the sex and isn't in a hurry for a repeat. I always tell girls if you are going to have early sex with a guy make sure you give him something he won't forget anytime soon. Otherwise you may be looking at a ghost.
I don't think tha t was the problem to be honest...
Some comments here make me think that sex is the only interesting thing posters can offer to a guy lol that is why they try to keep it to themselves as long as they can hahaah. All is pretty clear: if they guy wanted only sex he would be gone sooner or later. If he is interested in you/relationship, he will stay. I am not sure why you stopped communication with him, but it is Thursday, so maybe you can text him and ask if he is free on Saturday?
Posted by VirgodvnPosted by DonnaLibra
Maybe he wasn't so keen on the sex and isn't in a hurry for a repeat. I always tell girls if you are going to have early sex with a guy make sure you give him something he won't forget anytime soon. Otherwise you may be looking at a ghost.
I don't think tha t was the problem to be honest...click to expand
Don’t even think about the sex! People saying such things probably don’t remember how awkward their first time with someone new was. Second date it is early, but not “too early”, considering that the majority are doing it on a third date.
I suggest you ask him directly about meeting this Saturday. Perhaps he gave you space, because you practically asked for it, saying you were busy. Perhaps he has something planned for this Saturday, and feels conflicted, to cancel or not to cancel. Or perhaps he realised you are not the one for him, which has something to do with his personal preferences, rather than being a negative reflection on you, or your behaviour. If you want to know the answer, ask him directly, without hesitation.
Posted by goldenfish
Some comments here make me think that sex is the only interesting thing posters can offer to a guy lol that is why they try to keep it to themselves as long as they can hahaah. All is pretty clear: if they guy wanted only sex he would be gone sooner or later. If he is interested in you/relationship, he will stay. I am not sure why you stopped communication with him, but it is Thursday, so maybe you can text him and ask if he is free on Saturday?
I didn't stop communication, he just became distant.. And didn't text as he used to before. I will see what happens today but yes I will ask him if anything changed. It's better to know, so that I can move on if he lost interest.
Posted by UndinePosted by VirgodvnPosted by DonnaLibra
Maybe he wasn't so keen on the sex and isn't in a hurry for a repeat. I always tell girls if you are going to have early sex with a guy make sure you give him something he won't forget anytime soon. Otherwise you may be looking at a ghost.
I don't think tha t was the problem to be honest...
Don’t even think about the sex! People saying such things probably don’t remember how awkward their first time with someone new was. Second date it is early, but not “too early”, considering that the majority are doing it on a third date.
I suggest you ask him directly about meeting this Saturday. Perhaps he gave you space, because you practically asked for it, saying you were busy. Perhaps he has something planned for this Saturday, and feels conflicted, to cancel or not to cancel. Or perhaps he realised you are not the one for him, which has something to do with his personal preferences, rather than being a negative reflection on you, or your behaviour. If you want to know the answer, ask him directly, without hesitation.click to expand
Yes you are right, it's better to ask directly and to know where I stand... But somehow I already know that probably he is not interested anymore from how he is reacting. I feel a little disappointed because I think it was an act from the start.. But it's my fault for trusting too early.. Another lesson learned 🙁
Posted by VirgodvnPosted by UndinePosted by VirgodvnPosted by DonnaLibra
Maybe he wasn't so keen on the sex and isn't in a hurry for a repeat. I always tell girls if you are going to have early sex with a guy make sure you give him something he won't forget anytime soon. Otherwise you may be looking at a ghost.
I don't think tha t was the problem to be honest...
Don’t even think about the sex! People saying such things probably don’t remember how awkward their first time with someone new was. Second date it is early, but not “too early”, considering that the majority are doing it on a third date.
I suggest you ask him directly about meeting this Saturday. Perhaps he gave you space, because you practically asked for it, saying you were busy. Perhaps he has something planned for this Saturday, and feels conflicted, to cancel or not to cancel. Or perhaps he realised you are not the one for him, which has something to do with his personal preferences, rather than being a negative reflection on you, or your behaviour. If you want to know the answer, ask him directly, without hesitation.
Yes you are right, it's better to ask directly and to know where I stand... But somehow I already know that probably he is not interested anymore from how he is reacting. I feel a little disappointed because I think it was an act from the start.. But it's my fault for trusting too early.. Another lesson learned 🙁click to expand
The most useful lesson one can learn in dating is to avoid assumptions. He is not you, and you are not him. At this moment, you probably appear to him as disinterested as he does to you. Who blinks first loses face, eh...? Leave such games for teenagers.
You don't lose anything by asking politely if he is busy this Saturday. There is nothing wrong with being honest about what you want, even if it's not what he wants. It shows that clarity is important to you, and that you have the guts to ask for it.
Posted by UndinePosted by VirgodvnPosted by UndinePosted by VirgodvnPosted by DonnaLibra
Maybe he wasn't so keen on the sex and isn't in a hurry for a repeat. I always tell girls if you are going to have early sex with a guy make sure you give him something he won't forget anytime soon. Otherwise you may be looking at a ghost.
I don't think tha t was the problem to be honest...
Don’t even think about the sex! People saying such things probably don’t remember how awkward their first time with someone new was. Second date it is early, but not “too early”, considering that the majority are doing it on a third date.
I suggest you ask him directly about meeting this Saturday. Perhaps he gave you space, because you practically asked for it, saying you were busy. Perhaps he has something planned for this Saturday, and feels conflicted, to cancel or not to cancel. Or perhaps he realised you are not the one for him, which has something to do with his personal preferences, rather than being a negative reflection on you, or your behaviour. If you want to know the answer, ask him directly, without hesitation.
Yes you are right, it's better to ask directly and to know where I stand... But somehow I already know that probably he is not interested anymore from how he is reacting. I feel a little disappointed because I think it was an act from the start.. But it's my fault for trusting too early.. Another lesson learned 🙁
The most useful lesson one can learn in dating is to avoid assumptions. He is not you, and you are not him. At this moment, you probably appear to him as disinterested as he does to you. Who blinks first loses face, eh...? Leave such games for teenagers.
You don't lose anything by asking politely if he is busy this Saturday. There is nothing wrong with being honest about what you want, even if it's not what he wants. It shows that clarity is important to you, and that you have the guts to ask for it.click to expand
I agree with what you said. I will send him a message and see what's up. Thanks for your advice 🙂
Keep us posted please 🤞🏽
Btw, what’s your moon 🌙, Venus, and Mars?
Btw, what’s your moon 🌙, Venus, and Mars?
I am gemini moon, leo venus and leo mars in 7th house 😅.. I know that now there is this transit happening ...
I don't know the guy's placements. Just thay he is Aquarius 😐
I don't know the guy's placements. Just thay he is Aquarius 😐
Posted by Virgodvn
I am gemini moon, leo venus and leo mars in 7th house 😅.. I know that now there is this transit happening ...
I don't know the guy's placements. Just thay he is Aquarius 😐
I’m actually just seeing this 👀 OP… thought 💭 u were playing dodge ball ⚽️ 😂.
I asked bc I was quite surprised to see a Virgo ♍️ female into an Aqua male 😂.I rarely see/hear of that. I usually get along good with Virgo women and often ask them what they think of aquas, and usually their response is the males are weird.
I’m Aqua female by the way, and I wish I had some solid advice to give, but I think it’s a little hard considering I don’t have much experience with the males, but from what I hear and observe, they seem to be much more distant than the women/need much more space. As an Aqua female, if I’m into someone I’m excited to be around them, and rather spend time around them, than with anyone else. I guess I should add I have a sag moon 🌙 though, and this combo has been said to be known as the “ our combination can result in the irresponsible drifter, happy to roam from one new experience to another”, so someone new is like a shiny new toy 😍😂to me and can consume me.
Long winded, I know… Jesus fix me! 🤦🏽♀️😂
Posted by Virgodvn
I am gemini moon, leo venus and leo mars in 7th house 😅.. I know that now there is this transit happening ...
I don't know the guy's placements. Just thay he is Aquarius 😐
Oh and btw, every female I know with a Leo ♌️ Mars or Venus had this undeniable appealing aura (no homo 😂). At least that’s what I think it was that made them appear so endearing. Beyoncé is a Leo Mars 😍.
Posted by Sleepyquantro1Posted by Virgodvn
I am gemini moon, leo venus and leo mars in 7th house 😅.. I know that now there is this transit happening ...
I don't know the guy's placements. Just thay he is Aquarius 😐
I’m actually just seeing this 👀 OP… thought 💭 u were playing dodge ball ⚽️ 😂.
I asked bc I was quite surprised to see a Virgo ♍️ female into an Aqua male 😂.I rarely see/hear of that. I usually get along good with Virgo women and often ask them what they think of aquas, and usually their response is the males are weird.
I’m Aqua female by the way, and I wish I had some solid advice to give, but I think it’s a little hard considering I don’t have much experience with the males, but from what I hear and observe, they seem to be much more distant than the women/need much more space. As an Aqua female, if I’m into someone I’m excited to be around them, and rather spend time around them, than with anyone else. I guess I should add I have a sag moon 🌙 though, and this combo has been said to be known as the “ our combination can result in the irresponsible drifter, happy to roam from one new experience to another”, so someone new is like a shiny new toy 😍😂to me and can consume me.
Long winded, I know… Jesus fix me! 🤦🏽♀️😂click to expand
Well tbh I think aqua males are a bit weird.. How they act when they are apart mostly.. We still didn't communicate.. I am giving him space and waiting for him to come back.. If he doesn't I guess he wasn't that interested.. I'm the kind of person who doesn't like to bother people. If they stop communicating I take the hint.. I hope he can reach out, we'll see 😐
Posted by Sleepyquantro1Posted by Virgodvn
I am gemini moon, leo venus and leo mars in 7th house 😅.. I know that now there is this transit happening ...
I don't know the guy's placements. Just thay he is Aquarius 😐
Oh and btw, every female I know with a Leo ♌️ Mars or Venus had this undeniable appealing aura (no homo 😂). At least that’s what I think it was that made them appear so endearing. Beyoncé is a Leo Mars 😍.click to expand
I am not sure about this but I feel like my aura attracts people, males and females 😅
Maybe it's like when someone has charisma? I don't know exactly what it is 😂
Oh yes, Beyonce is a virgo Sun too, her birthday is very close to mine 😊
Posted by VirgodvnPosted by UndinePosted by VirgodvnPosted by DonnaLibra
Maybe he wasn't so keen on the sex and isn't in a hurry for a repeat. I always tell girls if you are going to have early sex with a guy make sure you give him something he won't forget anytime soon. Otherwise you may be looking at a ghost.
I don't think tha t was the problem to be honest...
Don’t even think about the sex! People saying such things probably don’t remember how awkward their first time with someone new was. Second date it is early, but not “too early”, considering that the majority are doing it on a third date.
I suggest you ask him directly about meeting this Saturday. Perhaps he gave you space, because you practically asked for it, saying you were busy. Perhaps he has something planned for this Saturday, and feels conflicted, to cancel or not to cancel. Or perhaps he realised you are not the one for him, which has something to do with his personal preferences, rather than being a negative reflection on you, or your behaviour. If you want to know the answer, ask him directly, without hesitation.
Yes you are right, it's better to ask directly and to know where I stand... But somehow I already know that probably he is not interested anymore from how he is reacting. I feel a little disappointed because I think it was an act from the start.. But it's my fault for trusting too early.. Another lesson learned 🙁click to expand
Sounds like his end goal was sex to me and he got that. They (some guys) pull out all the stops to get what they want and then pull back. I believe, Your instincts Are on point!
Aquas are the kind of people I really like but don't always expect nor initiate interactions with. I just let them go at their own pace. I know that's frustrating if you want something more out of things but I've found it's the best way to deal with this sign. The friendship is always amazing to me.
As an aqua female, it’s weird to me bc I always like and get along with Virgo’s ♍️ (the women especially), but when asked how they feel about Aqua’s, it’s always they find the men weird 😂.
My Virgo ♍️ bestie said she met another aqua female years after me, and ghosted 👻 her bc we are too much and she can only have one in her life at a time. 😂😂🤦🏽♀️That Aqua’s bday was a day before mine 😩. She thought we talked about our feelings too much lol. Picture that, emotional Aqua’s 😳, not as far as the rest of the world is concerned 😕.
I have always ghosted the Virgo ♍️ males though, found them too boring. 😑
On the flip side, I also don’t think I could date an aqua male, unless he was one of the more emotional firey ones🔥. The ones I’ve encountered like a lot of space, but when I like someone, I’d rather spend most of my time with them (blame my sag moon). I prefer to date someone who’s more attached and outwardly shows they’re in to me 🙂. Nonchalant and distance is a strong 💪🏽 no for me 😂. I also don’t like to initiate, until I’ve been given consistency from the other party. I think this would be the issue with Virgo ♍️ female, Aqua male relationships. Virgo comes off as cold 🥶 and nonchalant, in the beginning, and aqua men (the ones I encountered) seem to like aggressive women who chased them.
Long winded-I know, sorry 😑
My Virgo ♍️ bestie said she met another aqua female years after me, and ghosted 👻 her bc we are too much and she can only have one in her life at a time. 😂😂🤦🏽♀️That Aqua’s bday was a day before mine 😩. She thought we talked about our feelings too much lol. Picture that, emotional Aqua’s 😳, not as far as the rest of the world is concerned 😕.
I have always ghosted the Virgo ♍️ males though, found them too boring. 😑
On the flip side, I also don’t think I could date an aqua male, unless he was one of the more emotional firey ones🔥. The ones I’ve encountered like a lot of space, but when I like someone, I’d rather spend most of my time with them (blame my sag moon). I prefer to date someone who’s more attached and outwardly shows they’re in to me 🙂. Nonchalant and distance is a strong 💪🏽 no for me 😂. I also don’t like to initiate, until I’ve been given consistency from the other party. I think this would be the issue with Virgo ♍️ female, Aqua male relationships. Virgo comes off as cold 🥶 and nonchalant, in the beginning, and aqua men (the ones I encountered) seem to like aggressive women who chased them.
Long winded-I know, sorry 😑
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