@STILL
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Beckon call?
First of all, lemme say i love that age difference. Every geriatrics dream to be banging a 20yo after 30 years again.
Second, roommate at 48? Lolwut?
Third, you're both crazy.
I would go away if i was you.
Posted by HearttofTopaz
He’s cheatingOn someone
Somewhere
Roommate is his first 2nd lady, promoted from being on beckon call to permanent standby at the apartment just for her. This new girl is a 3rd lady, only needs to be on call, no apartment for u!
Posted by Mr_Pinchy
First of all, lemme say i love that age difference. Every geriatrics dream to be banging a 20yo after 30 years again.Second, roommate at 48? Lolwut?
Third, you're both crazy.
I would go away if i was you.
Yeah I was thinking the same thing about the room mate. I planned to ask about that next.
Posted by HearttofTopaz
He’s cheatingOn someone
Somewhere
Roommate is his first 2nd lady, promoted from being on beckon call to permanent standby at the apartment just for her. This new girl is a 3rd lady, only needs to be on call, no apartment for u!
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😄
Posted by STILL
Are you a Scorpio or a Cancer by any chance?
I am an Aries/Pisces Cusp 🙂
Posted by HearttofTopaz
He’s cheatingOn someone
Somewhere
Actually no him and his girlfriend were splitting up when i got into the picture and she sent his stuff back finally after she had enough, and i see exactly why now
Posted by HearttofTopaz
He’s cheatingOn someone
Somewhere
Roommate is his first 2nd lady, promoted from being on beckon call to permanent standby at the apartment just for her. This new girl is a 3rd lady, only needs to be on call, no apartment for u!
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Funny that you say that because he had sex with his roomate two times before i came into the picture and she was jealous that he made me his girlfriend instead of her pretty much.
Posted by WittyGem88
What a weird ass situation. I think you put yourself in that rut though. Imagine, who in their right mind would agree to date a much older guy who has a female roommate and even allow him to sleep around? I dont think the aqua is even an issue here. Basically, you allowed him to treat you the way he wanted because it didnt show you respected yourself enough to establish boundaries from the beginning. 😢
Yea i was at a bad headspace with a guy I was planning the rest of my life with as he pulled out and got cold feet but he came back and we've been working on us and he bought a plane ticket to finally be together and work on becoming a family so it was kind of a spur of the moment thing. and i will admit i was a doormat sadly but i am wishing to finally be done with this toxic pattern forever, i just don't know how to cut him off without him seeking me out permanently
Posted by BubbleKee
in the beginning, he was so sweet and kindhe's gotten physical with me on two different occasions both big and one i was scared and called the cops and was going to put a restraining order out on him, but of course, my feelings got the best of me and stopped me.
Literally what every woman says about the abuser. "But he was so kind in the beginning!"
Your 20, your literally have the next 40 years of dudes wanting to fuck you. He's so replaceable its not even funny. He's 48, he has a good few years left before his dick goes soft. His shelf life is almost reaching expiration date.
If you don't value yourself how can you expect others too? Move tf on. Do better. Demand better.
LOLOLOLOL
Also just an fyi, the behavior you allow at the beginning is how its going to be for the ENTIRE relationship.
General rule of thumb is to let the dude do the date planning and make the effort to court you at the beginning. NEVER drive your pussy to his place. He needs to wine and dine if he wants to get some ass.
Posted by HearttofTopaz
He’s cheatingOn someone
Somewhere
Roommate is his first 2nd lady, promoted from being on beckon call to permanent standby at the apartment just for her. This new girl is a 3rd lady, only needs to be on call, no apartment for u!
Funny that you say that because he had sex with his roomate two times before i came into the picture and she was jealous that he made me his girlfriend instead of her pretty much.
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Whats there to be jealous about tho?
What does the title gf get you?
Physical abuse
Ghosting
Cheating on you with multiple other women
You just look the fool being attached to this douche. No one is jealous of that, trust.
Posted by BubbleKee
in the beginning, he was so sweet and kindhe's gotten physical with me on two different occasions both big and one i was scared and called the cops and was going to put a restraining order out on him, but of course, my feelings got the best of me and stopped me.
Literally what every woman says about the abuser. "But he was so kind in the beginning!"
Your 20, your literally have the next 40 years of dudes wanting to fuck you. He's so replaceable its not even funny. He's 48, he has a good few years left before his dick goes soft. His shelf life is almost reaching expiration date.
If you don't value yourself how can you expect others too? Move tf on. Do better. Demand better.
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I’m sorry I got so distracted by the fasting forward 🤨
Posted by BubbleKee
in the beginning, he was so sweet and kindhe's gotten physical with me on two different occasions both big and one i was scared and called the cops and was going to put a restraining order out on him, but of course, my feelings got the best of me and stopped me.
Literally what every woman says about the abuser. "But he was so kind in the beginning!"
Your 20, your literally have the next 40 years of dudes wanting to fuck you. He's so replaceable its not even funny. He's 48, he has a good few years left before his dick goes soft. His shelf life is almost reaching expiration date.
If you don't value yourself how can you expect others too? Move tf on. Do better. Demand better.
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No worries. Things will get better with him.
He's mature enough.
Posted by STILL
Are you a Scorpio or a Cancer by any chance?I am an Aries/Pisces Cusp 🙂
Boom! I knew it. Pisces has the penchant for victim situations and well.. staying in toxic relationships 😢
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She is Aries.
And I have never being in a toxic relationship in my life.
Posted by STILL
Are you a Scorpio or a Cancer by any chance?I am an Aries/Pisces Cusp 🙂
Boom! I knew it. Pisces has the penchant for victim situations and well.. staying in toxic relationships 😢
She is Aries.
And I have never being in a toxic relationship in my life.
C'mon we all thought that only a Pisces could write this shit. Plus there's no such thing as "cusp", people just aren't born with 2 sun signs.
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Exactly! That is why she is not a Pisces but an Aries 😄
A cusp is when you are born between two zodiacs I am a Aries, But the cusp comes from me being born on the 23rd, so i also come with the Pisces side. So i guess i do get the " veil over my eyes" side from the Pisces side and the Aries side is the side that can't stick around for the bs lol.
Is he a celebrity in any way ?
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