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Found yourself looking at your own pictures and saying "Hmm ? I love my eyes, my hair is so cool, some people say they like my lips" or other compliments like that, to YOURSELF.

I do, but I usually don't focus to show that to the public. So is not that I'm conceited like that, I just love myself!!!



Give yourself some love ?โค



Before or after using a camera lens filter?

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I don't really use filters. Probably just black & white. If I do is probably just to play around with it... I do it on the mirror too, I look deeply into myself, my hair, my eyes, my nose, my body,legs. butt. I know myself better than anyone else will ever know me.

Do you not know what is the true color of your eyes? or any significant birth marks?



I have stretch marks, scars, freckles...I don't mind any of it on my body.

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Posted by Aerazo
Found yourself looking at your own pictures and saying "Hmm ? I love my eyes, my hair is so cool, some people say they like my lips" or other compliments like that, to YOURSELF.

I do, but I usually don't focus to show that to the public. So is not that I'm conceited like that, I just love myself!!!



Give yourself some love ?โค


lol



I blame her aries moon. ๐Ÿ˜†



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Posted by ChrisIsKodak
No. Vanity is not the most dangerous sin, but fuck it's probably the most annoying.


I'm not saying it's Vanity, I'm not bragging that my looks are better than someone else's, or that I'm perfect.

I just look at myself and I love who I am despite my "flaws" which honestly they are only flaws in someone else's eyes just because of different taste.

You should try it!
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Posted by Aerazo
Found yourself looking at your own pictures and saying "Hmm ? I love my eyes, my hair is so cool, some people say they like my lips" or other compliments like that, to YOURSELF.

I do, but I usually don't focus to show that to the public. So is not that I'm conceited like that, I just love myself!!!



Give yourself some love ?โค


lol



I blame her aries moon. ๐Ÿ˜†



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Lol I have a Gemini moon.
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Posted by Aerazo
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Found yourself looking at your own pictures and saying "Hmm ? I love my eyes, my hair is so cool, some people say they like my lips" or other compliments like that, to YOURSELF.

I do, but I usually don't focus to show that to the public. So is not that I'm conceited like that, I just love myself!!!



Give yourself some love ?โค


lol



I blame her aries moon. ๐Ÿ˜†



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Lol I have a Gemini moon.
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is Gemini narcissistic?? ๐Ÿ˜•



i'm not familiar with Gemini other than they lack focus, due to the mercurial airy energy.



my husband doesn't have Gemini so I don't know this energy very well other than what I observed with family members and some people who know them.

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narcissistics don't consider other people's feelings.

so that's different than someone who likes themselves/looking good for themselves to feel good.

Edit



Empaths, can have good relationshps. tune into the emotions of other people sensitive and kind.

Narcissistics peeps are attracted to empaths because they want to also COVET the way the empath can have GOOD relationshps, or deep commitments with people.

basically what the video says.
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Posted by Aerazo
Found yourself looking at your own pictures and saying "Hmm ? I love my eyes, my hair is so cool, some people say they like my lips" or other compliments like that, to YOURSELF.

I do, but I usually don't focus to show that to the public. So is not that I'm conceited like that, I just love myself!!!



Give yourself some love ?โค


Good thread! Ignore the GNATS that are not as confident as you and I are. For as they see "our" pictures posted, theirs are NOT to be seen, as they KNOW how THEY feel about THEMSELVES. I love myself, too! Being Piscean, I am a confident woman. I look at myself in the mirror too and say, "Damn! Lucky the guy I will meet!!!"

๐Ÿค— Cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: This is my BFF and I (pic was taken last year and NOT filtered). Damn! I look GOOD for 51!!! Uh, I will be 52 manana (tomorrow) ๐Ÿ˜„

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Posted by Aerazo
Found yourself looking at your own pictures and saying "Hmm ? I love my eyes, my hair is so cool, some people say they like my lips" or other compliments like that, to YOURSELF.

I do, but I usually don't focus to show that to the public. So is not that I'm conceited like that, I just love myself!!!



Give yourself some love ?โค


Good thread! Ignore the GNATS that are not as confident as you and I are. For as they see "our" pictures posted, theirs are NOT to be seen, as they KNOW how THEY feel about THEMSELVES. I love myself, too! Being Piscean, I am a confident woman. I look at myself in the mirror too and say, "Damn! Lucky the guy I will meet!!!"

๐Ÿค— Cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: This is my BFF and I (pic was taken last year and NOT filtered). Damn! I look GOOD for 51!!! Uh, I will be 52 manana (tomorrow) ๐Ÿ˜„

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PPS: I went for a six pack (Miller Lite) at my neighborhood convenient store last week. Clerk asked for my ID. She keyed it in, looked up at me, handed it back, and said, "I would have said you were 30". ๐Ÿ˜„ #2
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Posted by Aerazo
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Posted by Aerazo
Found yourself looking at your own pictures and saying "Hmm ? I love my eyes, my hair is so cool, some people say they like my lips" or other compliments like that, to YOURSELF.

I do, but I usually don't focus to show that to the public. So is not that I'm conceited like that, I just love myself!!!



Give yourself some love ?โค


lol



I blame her aries moon. ๐Ÿ˜†



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Lol I have a Gemini moon.


is Gemini narcissistic?? ๐Ÿ˜•



i'm not familiar with Gemini other than they lack focus, due to the mercurial airy energy.



my husband doesn't have Gemini so I don't know this energy very well other than what I observed with family members and some people who know them.



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Why is loving yourself labeled as "Narcissistic"?

And if you don't love yourself is considered "low self-esteem"

This is so contradictory.

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Posted by Aerazo
Found yourself looking at your own pictures and saying "Hmm ? I love my eyes, my hair is so cool, some people say they like my lips" or other compliments like that, to YOURSELF.

I do, but I usually don't focus to show that to the public. So is not that I'm conceited like that, I just love myself!!!



Give yourself some love ?โค


Good thread! Ignore the GNATS that are not as confident as you and I are. For as they see "our" pictures posted, theirs are NOT to be seen, as they KNOW how THEY feel about THEMSELVES. I love myself, too! Being Piscean, I am a confident woman. I look at myself in the mirror too and say, "Damn! Lucky the guy I will meet!!!"

๐Ÿค— Cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: This is my BFF and I (pic was taken last year and NOT filtered). Damn! I look GOOD for 51!!! Uh, I will be 52 manana (tomorrow) ๐Ÿ˜„

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Maybe it's just a Latina thing?

Exactly and I'm not bragging about my looks compared to others, I love my own beauty in and out. I do whatever I want to my hair, I do use make up sometimes if I want to, only thing I'd do would be filling in my eyebrows :/

Yes, Eva you are beautiful and you look great!! Feeling good about yourself also says a lot about your health as well, you take care of your body as well. ๐Ÿ™‚
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Posted by Aerazo
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Posted by Aerazo
Found yourself looking at your own pictures and saying "Hmm ? I love my eyes, my hair is so cool, some people say they like my lips" or other compliments like that, to YOURSELF.

I do, but I usually don't focus to show that to the public. So is not that I'm conceited like that, I just love myself!!!



Give yourself some love ?โค


Good thread! Ignore the GNATS that are not as confident as you and I are. For as they see "our" pictures posted, theirs are NOT to be seen, as they KNOW how THEY feel about THEMSELVES. I love myself, too! Being Piscean, I am a confident woman. I look at myself in the mirror too and say, "Damn! Lucky the guy I will meet!!!"

๐Ÿค— Cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: This is my BFF and I (pic was taken last year and NOT filtered). Damn! I look GOOD for 51!!! Uh, I will be 52 manana (tomorrow) ๐Ÿ˜„

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Maybe it's just a Latina thing?

Exactly and I'm not bragging about my looks compared to others, I love my own beauty in and out. I do whatever I want to my hair, I do use make up sometimes if I want to, only thing I'd do would be filling in my eyebrows :/

Yes, Eva you are beautiful and you look great!! Feeling good about yourself also says a lot about your health as well, you take care of your body as well. ๐Ÿ™‚

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Yep! It's a Latina thang. Caucasian women, tend to be closed in their heart, mind, body, and soul. IF they are UGLY in the inside; they are UGLY on the outside. They have a gray cloud over their heads (visualize the lightning bolt w/thunder and rains) and when they walk, said gray cloud follows them everywhere they go! Even in DXP ๐Ÿ˜‰

You are beautiful, too! Thanks, Doll..!!! Yeah, I fill out my eyebrows, too, as you can tell. I LOVE makeup, have about 30 pairs of shoes in my closet, and well, proud to say I am Piscean, too!! ๐Ÿ˜

๐Ÿค— cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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Posted by Aerazo
Found yourself looking at your own pictures and saying "Hmm ? I love my eyes, my hair is so cool, some people say they like my lips" or other compliments like that, to YOURSELF.

I do, but I usually don't focus to show that to the public. So is not that I'm conceited like that, I just love myself!!!



Give yourself some love ?โค


Yours is a healthy self love I suppose as you are not publicising your appearance in a negative way to condescend or compensate for lack of healthy self esteem. Since you accept yourself as you are and not compare with anyone it is a right way to self love. I say it is better than having a low self esteem as loving yourself gives you confidence while lack of healthy self esteem cripples you.

The only problem that could arise if you forget others in your self love. I think that is the meaning of being conceited or narcissism.

I have seen this trait only in Aquarius till now. If it is done the right way it is the best thing as self love is more important than food I'd say. But I can't be sure if you will cross the boundary and go on the narcissistic side forgetting others. As I have seen that too.

Below article for reference.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissus_(mythology)
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Posted by Aerazo
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Posted by Aerazo
Found yourself looking at your own pictures and saying "Hmm ? I love my eyes, my hair is so cool, some people say they like my lips" or other compliments like that, to YOURSELF.

I do, but I usually don't focus to show that to the public. So is not that I'm conceited like that, I just love myself!!!



Give yourself some love ?โค


Good thread! Ignore the GNATS that are not as confident as you and I are. For as they see "our" pictures posted, theirs are NOT to be seen, as they KNOW how THEY feel about THEMSELVES. I love myself, too! Being Piscean, I am a confident woman. I look at myself in the mirror too and say, "Damn! Lucky the guy I will meet!!!"

๐Ÿค— Cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: This is my BFF and I (pic was taken last year and NOT filtered). Damn! I look GOOD for 51!!! Uh, I will be 52 manana (tomorrow) ๐Ÿ˜„

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Maybe it's just a Latina thing?

Exactly and I'm not bragging about my looks compared to others, I love my own beauty in and out. I do whatever I want to my hair, I do use make up sometimes if I want to, only thing I'd do would be filling in my eyebrows :/

Yes, Eva you are beautiful and you look great!! Feeling good about yourself also says a lot about your health as well, you take care of your body as well. ๐Ÿ™‚


Yep! It's a Latina thang. Caucasian women, tend to be closed in their heart, mind, body, and soul. IF they are UGLY in the inside; they are UGLY on the outside. They have a gray cloud over their heads (visualize the lightning bolt w/thunder and rains) and when they walk, said gray cloud follows them everywhere they go! Even in DXP ๐Ÿ˜‰

You are beautiful, too! Thanks, Doll..!!! Yeah, I fill out my eyebrows, too, as you can tell. I LOVE makeup, have about 30 pairs of shoes in my closet, and well, proud to say I am Piscean, too!! ๐Ÿ˜

๐Ÿค— cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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You are? haha my best friend is a Piscean, I love her! I'm an aquarius.

we have different ways of loving ourselves though, I don't own that many shoes but I love pricey sophisticated or eccentric shoes just because they are different to all the glamorous ones.

I always like to look good, in my own style , I usually wear business casual or rock type. you are more Bubbly as my friend herself would say.

Is a good combination bc sometimes I need more sparks in my life and she needs me to take her to the dark side a little for balance. Haha

She's Latina too!

and as in other people being less self-conscious it may not be because they are ugly in the inside or because they are closed, I think it tends to be more of how we Latinas like to look good because we like to offer a good presence. We don't worry but we are careful to give a good image.

I don't like when people see me as if I've been sick for days. I can easily dress good, no make up and still show like I care to show a good image of myself.



๐Ÿ™‚



Love!
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Posted by Aerazo
Found yourself looking at your own pictures and saying "Hmm ? I love my eyes, my hair is so cool, some people say they like my lips" or other compliments like that, to YOURSELF.

I do, but I usually don't focus to show that to the public. So is not that I'm conceited like that, I just love myself!!!



Give yourself some love ?โค


I do. I love looking at my booty gains as well as my thighs. I love my big Pisces moon eyes and my smile. I also enjoy my posture and my style . ?
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Ohhh this is SO TRUE!!

Narcissitics love empaths,





"Higher Empathetic women tend to tolerate higher levels of ABUSE than a less empathetic woman would,

same goes for men"




omg....so true!!!!




When you say " omg...so true!!!! "

How can you prove that it is true?

Do you consider yourself a Narcissist? I'm trying to understand how you feel about this post.

-Because of the Narcissistic videos..



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Posted by Aerazo
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Aerazo
Found yourself looking at your own pictures and saying "Hmm ? I love my eyes, my hair is so cool, some people say they like my lips" or other compliments like that, to YOURSELF.

I do, but I usually don't focus to show that to the public. So is not that I'm conceited like that, I just love myself!!!



Give yourself some love ?โค


lol



I blame her aries moon. ๐Ÿ˜†



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Lol I have a Gemini moon.


is Gemini narcissistic?? ๐Ÿ˜•



i'm not familiar with Gemini other than they lack focus, due to the mercurial airy energy.



my husband doesn't have Gemini so I don't know this energy very well other than what I observed with family members and some people who know them.






Why is loving yourself labeled as "Narcissistic"?

And if you don't love yourself is considered "low self-esteem"

This is so contradictory.

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I don't understand it either.

I don't want to think, coming here makes me think ...blahhh my brain....heeelppp
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Ohhh this is SO TRUE!!

Narcissitics love empaths,





"Higher Empathetic women tend to tolerate higher levels of ABUSE than a less empathetic woman would,

same goes for men"




omg....so true!!!!




When you say " omg...so true!!!! "

How can you prove that it is true?

Do you consider yourself a Narcissist? I'm trying to understand how you feel about this post.

-Because of the Narcissistic videos..



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huh??



if you don't understand then I can't explain. :/
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Found yourself looking at your own pictures and saying "Hmm ? I love my eyes, my hair is so cool, some people say they like my lips" or other compliments like that, to YOURSELF.

I do, but I usually don't focus to show that to the public. So is not that I'm conceited like that, I just love myself!!!



Give yourself some love ?โค


Yours is a healthy self love I suppose as you are not publicising your appearance in a negative way to condescend or compensate for lack of healthy self esteem. Since you accept yourself as you are and not compare with anyone it is a right way to self love. I say it is better than having a low self esteem as loving yourself gives you confidence while lack of healthy self esteem cripples you.

The only problem that could arise if you forget others in your self love. I think that is the meaning of being conceited or narcissism.

I have seen this trait only in Aquarius till now. If it is done the right way it is the best thing as self love is more important than food I'd say. But I can't be sure if you will cross the boundary and go on the narcissistic side forgetting others. As I have seen that too.

Below article for reference.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissus_(mythology)
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Yes, that's exactly what I've been thinking. it's a healthy self love. I never put other people down because of their looks or anything and if my friends or someone ever says anything negative about them I won't lie, I just tell them if they need to workout or do some exercise etc it's a healthy advice.

Your health reflects on the outside.

๐Ÿ™‚

Yes, the other one one is a different type of self love.

When someone like me cares about another person enough is because that other person is good, has good values, etc. and we do everything we can for them, sometimes so much that we always wanna be the best for them.
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Lol!! I wish I could do that!
Lol why can't you??
Just because... I dunno.. I can't ?


Just try! do you like the shape of your eyebrows?

first thing I noticed haha because I wish I had fuller eyebrows but oh well.. lol
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Lol!! Naturally full ..but I get them done for the shape ๐Ÿ˜„
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Posted by Aerazo
Found yourself looking at your own pictures and saying "Hmm ? I love my eyes, my hair is so cool, some people say they like my lips" or other compliments like that, to YOURSELF.

I do, but I usually don't focus to show that to the public. So is not that I'm conceited like that, I just love myself!!!



Give yourself some love ?โค


Good thread! Ignore the GNATS that are not as confident as you and I are. For as they see "our" pictures posted, theirs are NOT to be seen, as they KNOW how THEY feel about THEMSELVES. I love myself, too! Being Piscean, I am a confident woman. I look at myself in the mirror too and say, "Damn! Lucky the guy I will meet!!!"

๐Ÿค— Cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: This is my BFF and I (pic was taken last year and NOT filtered). Damn! I look GOOD for 51!!! Uh, I will be 52 manana (tomorrow) ๐Ÿ˜„

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Maybe it's just a Latina thing?

Exactly and I'm not bragging about my looks compared to others, I love my own beauty in and out. I do whatever I want to my hair, I do use make up sometimes if I want to, only thing I'd do would be filling in my eyebrows :/

Yes, Eva you are beautiful and you look great!! Feeling good about yourself also says a lot about your health as well, you take care of your body as well. ๐Ÿ™‚


Yep! It's a Latina thang. Caucasian women, tend to be closed in their heart, mind, body, and soul. IF they are UGLY in the inside; they are UGLY on the outside. They have a gray cloud over their heads (visualize the lightning bolt w/thunder and rains) and when they walk, said gray cloud follows them everywhere they go! Even in DXP ๐Ÿ˜‰

You are beautiful, too! Thanks, Doll..!!! Yeah, I fill out my eyebrows, too, as you can tell. I LOVE makeup, have about 30 pairs of shoes in my closet, and well, proud to say I am Piscean, too!! ๐Ÿ˜

๐Ÿค— cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva


You are? haha my best friend is a Piscean, I love her! I'm an aquarius.

we have different ways of loving ourselves though, I don't own that many shoes but I love pricey sophisticated or eccentric shoes just because they are different to all the glamorous ones.

I always like to look good, in my own style , I usually wear business casual or rock type. you are more Bubbly as my friend herself would say.

Is a good combination bc sometimes I need more sparks in my life and she needs me to take her to the dark side a little for balance. Haha

She's Latina too!

and as in other people being less self-conscious it may not be because they are ugly in the inside or because they are closed, I think it tends to be more of how we Latinas like to look good because we like to offer a good presence. We don't worry but we are careful to give a good image.

I don't like when people see me as if I've been sick for days. I can easily dress good, no make up and still show like I care to show a good image of myself.



๐Ÿ™‚



Love!
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You're my FIRST cyber female Aquarius friend! Maybe we "click" since my rising is Aquarius ๐Ÿ˜„ That's my Motto, "If you're ugly on the inside, you're ugly on the outside" same diff from yours ๐Ÿ˜‰ I dress for success M-F w/matching shoes, flawless makeup, hair just right, get bi-weekly pedi/mani(s), and when it's Friday; it's dress down day for me (jeans, top, and boots). Being Piscean our body part are the feet; so the first thing I do when I get home is kick of my shoes!!!! Been learning from all other zodiac signs as I'm fascinated and heard Aquarius men dress to the 9s...guess it's true for female Aquarius ๐Ÿน

๐Ÿค— cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Posted by Aerazo
Posted by lisabethur8
Ohhh this is SO TRUE!!

Narcissitics love empaths,





"Higher Empathetic women tend to tolerate higher levels of ABUSE than a less empathetic woman would,

same goes for men"




omg....so true!!!!




When you say " omg...so true!!!! "

How can you prove that it is true?

Do you consider yourself a Narcissist? I'm trying to understand how you feel about this post.

-Because of the Narcissistic videos..




huh??



if you don't understand then I can't explain. :/
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OKKKKK.... SO YES I LACK EMPATHY, BUT ONLY IN CERTAIN WAYS. I CARE ABOUT PEOPLE BUT ONLY FOR THE THINGS THEY CANNOT DO.

IF SOMEONE HAS CANCER, I MAY NOT FEEL EMPATHY OR THE PAIN THAT HE OR SHE IS GOING THROUGH BUT I UNDERSTAND THAT SHE IS GOING THROUGH PAIN SO MY RESPONSE IS MORE LOGICAL. I COME TO CHEER HER, ENCOURAGE, THAT'S WHY IF I SEE SOMEONE WHO LACKS SELF-LOVE I MAKE SURE TO FIND WAYS TO MAKE THAT PERSON FEEL BETTER ABOUT THEMSELVES.

Not by complimenting them or pitying them but making them self-aware that they should love himself/herself.

There's absolute no reason for someone to hate themselves because you will NEVER improve.

For example :

My brother just lost an important admissions exam. I honestly didn't feel his disappointment but how did I react??

Fist thing I said: Ok, what are the other ways for you to get your certificate? maybe another school? transfer credits? when can you take it again?

I looked up other programs that he can do with the classes he already has, and another university. I even went further to say, why don't you seek to get a higher degree than just staying as a technician?

I never made him feel like he was a failure or that I pity him for failing the test.



My other family members on the other hand kept digging his pain and pity him and made him feel like he failed.

Why would I be the wrong person when I'm the only one who did something positive and found a solution rather than dwell on the pain.

We move on faster than other people that's why they think we are Narcissist and lack of empathy towards others is a bad thing.
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No. Only if I use Snapchat filters lol

I actually think I look horrible. Not because I'm extremely insecure but because I've seen better looking women and to me it's like eh, I might be ugly but at least I have personality and character ๐Ÿ˜„

It's my consolation to being unfortunate.
Honestly your argument makes no sense.. is there a standardized type of good looking women?

if there is, would you like feeling standardized?

I'm sure you don't because you just said that you like your personality and character.

Also, if someone is good looking (based on your standards) does that mean he or she lacks personality and character? why?

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Lol!! I wish I could do that!
Lol why can't you??
Just because... I dunno.. I can't ?


Just try! do you like the shape of your eyebrows?

first thing I noticed haha because I wish I had fuller eyebrows but oh well.. lol

Lol!! Naturally full ..but I get them done for the shape ๐Ÿ˜„

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I figured. ๐Ÿ˜„

I mean even if someone uses makeup it doesn't mean that they don't love their own bare face. Make up just highlights your features.
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Found yourself looking at your own pictures and saying "Hmm ? I love my eyes, my hair is so cool, some people say they like my lips" or other compliments like that, to YOURSELF.

I do, but I usually don't focus to show that to the public. So is not that I'm conceited like that, I just love myself!!!



Give yourself some love ?โค


Yours is a healthy self love I suppose as you are not publicising your appearance in a negative way to condescend or compensate for lack of healthy self esteem. Since you accept yourself as you are and not compare with anyone it is a right way to self love. I say it is better than having a low self esteem as loving yourself gives you confidence while lack of healthy self esteem cripples you.

The only problem that could arise if you forget others in your self love. I think that is the meaning of being conceited or narcissism.

I have seen this trait only in Aquarius till now. If it is done the right way it is the best thing as self love is more important than food I'd say. But I can't be sure if you will cross the boundary and go on the narcissistic side forgetting others. As I have seen that too.

Below article for reference.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissus_(mythology)


Yes, that's exactly what I've been thinking. it's a healthy self love. I never put other people down because of their looks or anything and if my friends or someone ever says anything negative about them I won't lie, I just tell them if they need to workout or do some exercise etc it's a healthy advice.

Your health reflects on the outside.

๐Ÿ™‚

Yes, the other one one is a different type of self love.

When someone like me cares about another person enough is because that other person is good, has good values, etc. and we do everything we can for them, sometimes so much that we always wanna be the best for them.

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Hmm surprisingly I am also like this. I will also look for the good values, character, etc. and I did become the best version of myself. Might be due to my Venus in Aquarius.

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Posted by Aerazo
Posted by Teena
Posted by Aerazo
Posted by Teena
Posted by Aerazo
Posted by Teena
Lol!! I wish I could do that!
Lol why can't you??
Just because... I dunno.. I can't ?


Just try! do you like the shape of your eyebrows?

first thing I noticed haha because I wish I had fuller eyebrows but oh well.. lol

Lol!! Naturally full ..but I get them done for the shape ๐Ÿ˜„




I figured. I mean even if someone uses makeup it doesn't mean that they don't love their own bare face. Make up just highlights your features.

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No.. I meant threading. I get them threaded. That's true tho. I don't think makeup does much to change the features. Atleast not the makeup I know. @Vageenka once said some awesome line about it.
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Posted by Aerazo
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Posted by Aerazo
Found yourself looking at your own pictures and saying "Hmm ? I love my eyes, my hair is so cool, some people say they like my lips" or other compliments like that, to YOURSELF.

I do, but I usually don't focus to show that to the public. So is not that I'm conceited like that, I just love myself!!!



Give yourself some love ?โค


Yours is a healthy self love I suppose as you are not publicising your appearance in a negative way to condescend or compensate for lack of healthy self esteem. Since you accept yourself as you are and not compare with anyone it is a right way to self love. I say it is better than having a low self esteem as loving yourself gives you confidence while lack of healthy self esteem cripples you.

The only problem that could arise if you forget others in your self love. I think that is the meaning of being conceited or narcissism.

I have seen this trait only in Aquarius till now. If it is done the right way it is the best thing as self love is more important than food I'd say. But I can't be sure if you will cross the boundary and go on the narcissistic side forgetting others. As I have seen that too.

Below article for reference.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissus_(mythology)


Yes, that's exactly what I've been thinking. it's a healthy self love. I never put other people down because of their looks or anything and if my friends or someone ever says anything negative about them I won't lie, I just tell them if they need to workout or do some exercise etc it's a healthy advice.

Your health reflects on the outside.

๐Ÿ™‚

Yes, the other one one is a different type of self love.

When someone like me cares about another person enough is because that other person is good, has good values, etc. and we do everything we can for them, sometimes so much that we always wanna be the best for them.


Hmm surprisingly I am also like this. I will also look for the good values, character, etc. and I did become the best version of myself. Might be due to my Venus in Aquarius.

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I'm glad I'm not the only one who thinks we are not wrong for loving ourselves haha.

& That's probably why I attract so many Caps. ๐Ÿ™‚
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Posted by Teena
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Posted by Teena
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Posted by Teena
Lol!! I wish I could do that!
Lol why can't you??
Just because... I dunno.. I can't ?


Just try! do you like the shape of your eyebrows?

first thing I noticed haha because I wish I had fuller eyebrows but oh well.. lol

Lol!! Naturally full ..but I get them done for the shape ๐Ÿ˜„




I figured. I mean even if someone uses makeup it doesn't mean that they don't love their own bare face. Make up just highlights your features.


No.. I meant threading. I get them threaded. That's true tho. I don't think makeup does much to change the features. Atleast not the makeup I know. @Vageenka once said some awesome line about it.
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Yeah, that's why I said earlier that I like fuller eyebrows, and I noticed yours. I can tell they were threaded. ๐Ÿ™‚

I wish I could do mine but my hair is too thin and separated so I fill it in
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Posted by Teena
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Posted by Teena
Posted by Aerazo
Posted by Teena
Posted by Aerazo
Posted by Teena
Lol!! I wish I could do that!
Lol why can't you??
Just because... I dunno.. I can't ?


Just try! do you like the shape of your eyebrows?

first thing I noticed haha because I wish I had fuller eyebrows but oh well.. lol

Lol!! Naturally full ..but I get them done for the shape ๐Ÿ˜„




I figured. I mean even if someone uses makeup it doesn't mean that they don't love their own bare face. Make up just highlights your features.


No.. I meant threading. I get them threaded. That's true tho. I don't think makeup does much to change the features. Atleast not the makeup I know. @Vageenka once said some awesome line about it.


Yeah, that's why I said earlier that I like fuller eyebrows, and I noticed yours. I can tell they were threaded. ๐Ÿ™‚

I wish I could do mine but my hair is too thin and separated so I fill it in
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Haha. I think we take things like that so much for granted n don't appreciate them enough. I really admire people who do tho... Confidence is sexy!
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Honestly your argument makes no sense.. is there a standardized type of good looking women?

if there is, would you like feeling standardized?

I'm sure you don't because you just said that you like your personality and character.

Also, if someone is good looking (based on your standards) does that mean he or she lacks personality and character? why?


How does it not make sense? Beauty is subjective. There is no standardized version of it but my perception of beauty and how I view myself to be is not on par with what I perceive to be physically beautiful. There is physical beauty and inner beauty. The vast majority of women who I perceive to be physically beautiful are in fact shallow and self-centered and vain. That's why I said my consolation is that I'm at least not beautiful or nearly as beautiful but I do have personality that is considered beautiful. Because I know that I am different in my way of thinking and my approach and because men and women have also said this about me.

I don't have to view myself as beautiful in order to consider myself internally beautiful.

I have yet to meet an incredibly beautiful woman on the outside that is just as beautiful on the inside. But those are based on my standards and I'm not saying there aren't beautiful women who are indeed amazing individuals, but I'm talking about beauty in the sense where I stop and think wow she's got the whole package. It's usually one or the other in my personal experience.
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Yeah, I do understand it just sounded contradictory when you stated it first.

I do admire other women too, and yes not in an envious way but in admiration.

and yes, certainly I've found things I don't like about myself too.. I don't think is bad either as long as we are not hurting ourselves and feeling less than others.
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No. Because I take shit photos. I'm better experienced in person
lol of you were to see the picture I was looking at it wasn't that good. I didn't even post it haha. But I noticed how much I like every part of me. ๐Ÿ™‚
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Great job steering the convo back to you. Where's this not so infamous photo doe.
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No. Because I take shit photos. I'm better experienced in person
lol of you were to see the picture I was looking at it wasn't that good. I didn't even post it haha. But I noticed how much I like every part of me. ๐Ÿ™‚
Great job steering the convo back to you. Where's this not so infamous photo doe.

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This post is not for me to compliment other people.

I clearly said. LOVE YOURSELF.

I just wanted to express the point that is not based on how good the photo is. you can do it on the mirror. I'm not gonna say good things about you because I don't know you...

Just like how you responded to my post: you didn't compliment me on the things I was complimenting myself for because you understood that that's not what I was going for.

You looked at yourself and realized that you don't like to look at your photos bc you don't take good ones...so again my point, is not about the photo itself.

๐Ÿ™‚

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No. Because I take shit photos. I'm better experienced in person
lol of you were to see the picture I was looking at it wasn't that good. I didn't even post it haha. But I noticed how much I like every part of me. ๐Ÿ™‚
Great job steering the convo back to you. Where's this not so infamous photo doe.


This post is not for me to compliment other people.

I clearly said. LOVE YOURSELF.

I just wanted to express the point that is not based on how good the photo is. you can do it on the mirror. I'm not gonna say good things about you because I don't know you...

Just like how you responded to my post: you didn't compliment me on the things I was complimenting myself for because you understood that that's not what I was going for.

You looked at yourself and realized that you don't like to look at your photos bc you don't take good ones...so again my point, is not about the photo itself.

๐Ÿ™‚

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Lol I don't want you to say nice things about me without at least taking me to dinner first. Im not that easy โ€”

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