My shitty birthday

So it was my birthday yesterday and it was a nightmare, there was one instance I laughed.

So I have a drag competition coming up and in order to prepare I need to stay up late at night and dance and listen to music in order to be inspired, well my boyfriend doesn't like that and thinks I should go to bed at 10 even though I've told him that this month is important to me and I need my time..

So on Monday I stayed up late dancing around and listening to music and I must have slept at about 3, my boyfriend wakes up at 7 and goes for his morning walk and picks me up macdonalds breakfast, to which I was grateful even though I was really tired, like the tired where you can hold your eyes open and I scoff the food and go back to sleep well trying to and I'm really irritated, then my mum comes in and touches my face while I'm almost asleep (which I really fucking hate) and I jerk up thinking what the fuck is going in?!? Ands she's laughing singing happy birthday to me in a really irritating way, and I say "for fucks sakes mum I could have punched you in the fucking face fuck off"!! Then I get up and lock myself in my room crying and trying to get some sleep, I pretty much took it out on her and from then on my boyfriend and she is shitty with me during the day kicking up a stink at me that he has no undies even though he has heaps, just stupid shit
I made a new German friend last week and he offered to take me to the waterfalls for my birthday which is incredible to me that someone who I barely know is going to so much trouble for me for my birthday, and so we go out to them and we were standing under the waterfalls and it was incredible until we went up to the top of them and there was a huge human shit in the water, the same water that was pouring over us before, and I'm dry reaching really bad and at the same time laughing my head off and my German friend is warning everyone below about this giant turd he said I. His German accent "you guyz there is a large poopie in da water"! And I'm pissing myself laughing. Anyways I pulled a muscle in my back while swimming or pinched a nerve and it really hurt, so we go home, my boyfriend goes to rehearsals, my mum cooked dinner and we went to bed, before bed my boyfriend asks me is anything wrong and I told him I'm upset with what I said to mum that morning and even though I apologised to her he goes on to say that he finds me really unattractive when I talk like that to my mum and all I say is "I'm going to bed I need to wake up early in the morning"....
I don't know what's wrong with him in the head, his birthday last year I spent 170 on a Maori traditional necklace declaring my love to him and threw him a big party, BBQ going out of my way to make him feel good fir his birthday, yesterday he didn't plan anything or could even be fucked to do anything for me, he suggested we cook sausages when we go out to the waterfalls and I'm like ok sure, then he says " do you have any money to chuck in" I said no

The sausages are expensive because they're made out of organic shit and I said it's ok we can just eat fruit and I was fine with that, god forbid he splurges and goes out of his way so we have something to eat on my birthday, then he goes on to make me feel bad and cheap about something that happened between me and my mother, what the fuck is wrong with people!? I swear to god I must be taking crazy pills..?!? Or he must be doing this so I break up with him because I told him about all my past birthdays and what happened to me on them and he seemed to give a shit then but when it was my birthday yesterday he sabotaged the fuck out of it....and then made me feel like shit when I was upset about it even though I was trying really hard to be good sport about it.

Actually I met the German on the Monday, so that's how long I knew him for, it's just really upsetting to me that a stranger can make you feel validated on your birthday more than the people who know you.

I fucking go out of my way for people on their birthdays, my brothers didn't even call me, I hurt my back and had an ice pack in it and no one could even offer me a back massage, I give my mum and boyfriend back massages all the time!!!

Posted by Koniucha
Ok I totally laughed about the large poopie in the water!

I'm sorry about your birthday.

Happy birthday!

Thanks love it was really gross but hilarious because we were all standing under the waterfall thinking how magical it all was..

Love how the title of the thread fits the details so well! Great read.

Sorry you had a bad birthday, though. 😢 I hope that something will make up for it somehow.

Hugs!!

Posted by moondust

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
The sausages are expensive because they're made out of organic shit and I said it's ok we can just eat fruit and I was fine with that, god forbid he splurges and goes out of his way so we have something to eat on my birthday, then he goes on to make me feel bad and cheap about something that happened between me and my mother, what the fuck is wrong with people!? I swear to god I must be taking crazy pills..?!? Or he must be doing this so I break up with him because I told him about all my past birthdays and what happened to me on them and he seemed to give a shit then but when it was my birthday yesterday he sabotaged the fuck out of it....and then made me feel like shit when I was upset about it even though I was trying really hard to be good sport about it.

but was your boyfriend busy or going through a hard time? Maybe he does have an excuse...

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His brother and sister are both twins and their birthday was on Monday and we spoiled them rotten over the weekend which was good because they have it tough where they live.

He does a lot for me and that's how he shows his love for me, I'm the opposite I like to get people sentimental gifts and make the day special for them, he doesn't see it the same as me......I don't think he meant to sabotage it on purpose, he's just a libra and is very airy and doesn't think things through the way I do....plus I'm overly sensitive....

I found some money on the bench and went out today and bought me some cake and I sat in the mall and sung myself a belated happy birthday to myself and made a wish, it's the moments I have to myself that validates me, I spent my 21st birthday at the beach by myself, my boyfriend at the time forgot my birthday and he said he was going to meet me there.

Happy Birthday!

Thanks DMV and everyone who wished me happy birthday! Thanks a lot! Im 30 now so watch out!!

I think you're going to LOVE being 30 🙂 happy belated x

Thanks wagtail, I think so too!! Xox

Sorry you had such a shitty birthday. Hope this weekend makes up for it!




Belated

It's nothing major. I actually quite enjoyed hitting my 30s as much as I enjoyed hitting my 18. lol. Truth be told I haven't really ages since then or matured but hey, life should be fun no? 😛

I look around, yeah I've friends that's settled, married, kids growing up, going to school. Some have great careers, some have stayed at home, some still just making their way in life. I've spent my years travelling, spent 7 of those being in love, spent even more of that being a father. I'm happy where I am and I'll continue that way doing what I've always wanted to do.

Chin up.

*aged.

Posted by metalaquamonkey
Sorry you had such a shitty birthday. Hope this weekend makes up for it!




Belated

Yassss bitch Yass!!!!! Haha mwah!!!

Posted by aquasnoz
It's nothing major. I actually quite enjoyed hitting my 30s as much as I enjoyed hitting my 18. lol. Truth be told I haven't really ages since then or matured but hey, life should be fun no? 😛

I look around, yeah I've friends that's settled, married, kids growing up, going to school. Some have great careers, some have stayed at home, some still just making their way in life. I've spent my years travelling, spent 7 of those being in love, spent even more of that being a father. I'm happy where I am and I'll continue that way doing what I've always wanted to do.

Chin up.

Yep I pride myself being the baby of my. Class looking younger than everyone that's my age group.

I had no idea that you are daddy!!!! Mind blown